I was watching a Dr. Phill episode the other day and he was saying something about the wife (episode guest) kicking the crap out of the husband and everyone in the audience started laughing. I was like wtf? If he had said the husband was beating the crap out of his wife, people would be absolutely appalled.

@treallocdin

Ай бұрын

The dbl standard is so sad 😮

@jackblack3718

Ай бұрын

Dr Phil has gotten angry at his audience for doing shit like that before.

@TimmehJay

Ай бұрын

I think people that go to those shows are all a little bloodthirsty

@lynemac2539

Ай бұрын

I have known two men who were abused by their wives. When asked why they put up with it, each said something to the effect of, " If a man defends himself against a woman, he goes to prison."

@festina_lente7655

Ай бұрын

Shows that people that would claim to care about domestic violence don't really care about domestic violence and even take an enjoyment in some sadistic violence against others. What they only care about is violence against people they relate to for example people of the same gender or skin color.

Well done to the friend for going to the police without Richard’s consent. Crimes do not need the victims’ permission to be investigated.

@Aaron-kj8dv

Ай бұрын

that's also why I hate expressions like "he/she isn't pressing charges". Maybe they can choose not to, but the state still should. IT would make sense that someone who's being abused would be intimidated into dropping charges.

@sharihazlett3774

Ай бұрын

Glad the friend went to the police. She lied over and over

@Aurora.369

Ай бұрын

​@@Aaron-kj8dvThe victims oftentimes are even bullied by others to drop the charges on behalf of the perpetrator.

@flowerchild89

Ай бұрын

One hundred percent!!!

@flowerchild89

Ай бұрын

​@@Aaron-kj8dvgreat point.

Retired cop here. This is very common. I’ve been on lots of calls where the female pulls this crazy S and tries to get husband arrested.

@Brittanyjones-sf7rc

Ай бұрын

And the government makes it that way.

@fss1704

Ай бұрын

Imagine having a mother like this and having people think you`re a monster because of some invented S.

@MrAkaacer

Ай бұрын

If it's so common why do police still bias against the man in these domestic cases?

@BirdDogey1

Ай бұрын

Our DA instructed us to arrest the man when in doubt. I didn't go for that. Often it is just too many officers playing Captain Save a Ho.@@MrAkaacer

@charlotteferdinand1246

Ай бұрын

It's evil what some women have done to the men they claim to love. Love is respect. 😢

What a great friend that called the police on his behalf!

"In the beginning of their relationship, Sheree was fine.". They all are...

@mamabeartrue420

Ай бұрын

😂😂 true story 💯🔥

@jones2277

Ай бұрын

he thought she was hot and that's all that mattered during the courtship.

@kingpest13

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I had 3 most of love bomb. I was shocked, id never experienced anything like it. Then she flipped the fuck out over nothing and was once again shocked. Turns out she has narcissistic personality disorder

@andoletube

Ай бұрын

they're not really fine, it's just that victim doesn't heed the warning signs because he/she is blinded by infatuation. But there are always signs. It can be concealed amongst playing hard-to-get courting games.

@brilliantbrownbeauty

Ай бұрын

💯

My son was the victim of physical abuse by his new wife. It started 3 weeks after the honeymoon. We found out because when he bent over to pick something up off the floor, we saw bruises on his back. He confessed what was going on, and we helped him move out of their apartment the next day. He was married and divorced within six months and with therapy, he is doing well.

@humanbeing2420

Ай бұрын

I can understand how that happens. It takes a while for a person's true personality to emerge. Glad to hear your son is doing well. Out of curiosity, how long were they together before marriage?

@debbieroberts5866

Ай бұрын

@@humanbeing2420 They weren't together long enough! It was 8 months. My older son's wife kept telling my husband and I that something was wrong with her but couldn't say what it was. My dil didn't like her at all and she likes everybody. Anyway, hindsight is 20/20 they say. Thanks for your reply!

@sundown6748

Ай бұрын

He’s lucky to have had your love and support. Most people don’t.

@debishaw9355

Ай бұрын

She’s crazy! Really really crazy!

@ancientwisdom-ty4nb

Ай бұрын

At least negroes are open so we erroneously believe we better or different cos we hide our fights.

My ex wife had many of these devious qualities. And frankly doc, it was enabled and amplified by therapists and family court. All of them never took a minute to hear my side of the story.

@mrjon75

Ай бұрын

Every marriage counselor I went to was a feminist monster, including the male.

@alleymed0250

Ай бұрын

The place where men are insignificant and invisible

@CCSophia528

Ай бұрын

As a female, I’m also not heard. The narc is so confident that’s why they are believed…

@mrjon75

Ай бұрын

@@CCSophia528 Females get more attention and sympathy than men. Maybe that's why male suicide is so much higher? Or is it trauma and PTSD from war? Or the destructive "family" court system?

@IOERROR622

27 күн бұрын

Been there. My therapist asked ME "what do you think you could have done better" after explaining to her my wife was cheating on me. Gee thanks doc.

Sheree is a good example of a narcissistic sociopath, whose abuse of her husband was fuelled by alcohol. To call her entitled is a gross understatement. Kudos to Richard's friend for notifying the police without the latter's consent . I honestly hope that Richard is a happier man with his new girlfriend. 🙏🙏🙏🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

@dh1474

2 күн бұрын

I think BPD

“Conceited, condescending and arrogant” is a bit of an understatement. More like a narcissistic sociopath

@chadrowe8452

Ай бұрын

Ya but come on Richard has some problems why would it take that long for him to do something. Never have children with a woman like that

@fragrancememoir2350

Ай бұрын

​@chadrowe8452 narcissistic abuse made him that way. I'm sure it didn't happen overnight.

@Ministry_Of_Silly_Walks

Ай бұрын

@@fragrancememoir2350 I was referring to her

@fragrancememoir2350

Ай бұрын

@@Ministry_Of_Silly_Walks huh? I was responding to chadrowe8452

@christopher9727

Ай бұрын

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This is how my mom treated me from about age 6 until I was in my twenties. She never defecated on me, but she did rub my face and hair in dog feces when our dog had diarrhea on the floor. I’ve had my face slammed into the dashboard of her car as she drove. She stapled my curtains to my wall so I couldn’t look outside and made me stay in my room for hours whenever she had guests. She used to wake me up with beatings until I couldn’t stay asleep more than four hours or so. I never weighed more than 108 until I was thirty, despite being 5’7” because I was so anxious I could barely sit still and eat. Watching this documentary really made me ill. I was so brainwashed that this was normal that I never even realized it was abuse until I was in my thirties. Domestic violence isn’t just between adults.

@mikebarker6979

Ай бұрын

That's fucked up..I'm sorry you had to go through that ❤

@MariePriss

Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry :(🥺😞

@maryd253

Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry you had to live that…😢

@Rebecca-hc5ju

Ай бұрын

I am so, so sorry!! That enrages me!! I pray she's in prison!!!

@Mlpgirl168

Ай бұрын

That’s terrifying.. so messed up. You are strong to have survived that treatment for so long.

"She may not have been pleased with him as a husband but was very pleased with him as a victim." 🔥

Only getting 4 years for that level of prolonged abuse is a joke.

My belief is that more men are abused than we know, it's just they are never reported like Richard. Abuse of any kind should not be tolerated.

@Veracityseeker7

Ай бұрын

I agree.

@treyvisqueux7973

Ай бұрын

A lot of psychological and sociological studies show this, and yes, much of it goes unreported.

@grahamsneddon9196

Ай бұрын

I once did a straw poll, amongst all the men that I knew at the time. Every single one of them had been assaulted by a woman. Personally Every single woman I ever had a relationship with physically assaulted me at least once.

@anthonyhowrard526

Ай бұрын

My ex abused me but not as bad as this. She used to attack me to try and get me to hit Her I never did.

@HeatherHolt

Ай бұрын

I saw my “mother” do this to many a man. She was married 9 times (that I know of). One time the SWAT team got called on her and raided her property no joke. Wish I could’ve been there to see that one but she got the man to recant what he told the cops she had done (which was verified by my teen brother) and the charges were dropped. She’s teflon. Oh and she now forever blames my little brother for why she got arrested that day. He was 13 and told the cops the truth, that she pulled a shotty on her husband tried to pull the trigger before it was wrestled away from her. And claimed she poisoned her husbands coffee.

This poor man was a serious victim of abuse

@jumpinjohnnyruss

Ай бұрын

Imagine he ever hit her back. He probably never would have seen his kids again.

@kimlersue

Ай бұрын

It seems that people become acclimated gradually to the escalating abuse. It's like getting ever so slowly sucked under by quick sand...your up to your neck before you realize you're in real trouble. That's when people like Richard's friend are so so important!

@blueStarKitt7924

Ай бұрын

​@@jumpinjohnnyrussYes.😔

@webeducation

Ай бұрын

This is extremely common, it's just not being recorded on video, and the husband is usually kept from having friends, especially one who would go to police. Had this not been recorded, most likely he would be the one in jail.

@meowmeow1733

Ай бұрын

Richard was a SIMP

I am 54, male and my 2nd wife was an abuser. Anti depression meds and wine was the mix that made her go out of control the worst. She would sometimes say that she enjoyed the feeling, like it gave her power. Nuts, right. I am single now and will probably remain so.

@collet214

21 күн бұрын

abusers dont change.best thing at the start get away .find another person who deserves you. give no second chance

@vampyre1992

18 күн бұрын

Why is wine always the drink of choice for the abuser? I had the exact thing happen. Antidepressants + wine = no control

@tambourine36

17 күн бұрын

What kind of antidepressant? Apparently Zoloft with alcohol has caused women to be violent

@pedextrian398

10 күн бұрын

You are a beta my friend sorry

@bayoumanbryan

6 күн бұрын

there is hope. isuffered from my 2nd wife for 9 1/2 years of marriage and many years afterward because of our mutual daughter. its been over 24 years since we divorced and i had 2 divorces with American women quick like. but im now married to a Filipina for 13+ years.

The sad part is, just a single video of such an incidence would still have people and the law skeptical on the man's side of the story. He needed multiple recordings of her abusive antics over several years, just to get her jailed for probably two years.

If you've dated a narcissistic person, you know they have the glare of dead eyes, and Sheree Spencer definitely has those eyes.

@brendalee6983

Ай бұрын

Exactly

@R281

Ай бұрын

Was married to one and it was a horrible experience to say the least.

@Aaron-kj8dv

Ай бұрын

I've never dated a narcissist but even I can see there's nothing behind those eyes. Like looking into the eyes of a buffalo or alligator.

@blackopal3138

Ай бұрын

I see that glare in almost every person, in different intensities. Yes, narcissists are among the most void. That's really what narcissism is, a lack of emotion, or poorly regulated emotions.

@nagone11

Ай бұрын

Seems like she was a lot worse than a narcissist..

this is exactly how my second wife of 30 years was.....................I moved countries to get away from her. The Police were not interested in what I had to say. We've been apart 10 years now and she is still expecting me to return to her. Never going to happen

@glow1815

Ай бұрын

I'm glad you stayed away from her. Never ever given in. Crazy and nasty woman like her.

@justkittensbeingkittens5892

Ай бұрын

Stay safe

@PeanutLaroux

Ай бұрын

Amen

@justintaylor3569

Ай бұрын

Hey Puss...she even really exist?

@Zerushaddai

Ай бұрын

10 years?😂 Looks like no one else wants her.

This is crazy, I live in Texas. My story is almost exactly like this. I went no contact with her 15 months ago. My wife is currently facing 12 yrs for charges unrelated to me.

@IOERROR622

27 күн бұрын

Glad you escaped, not everyone does.

@ConveyApp

27 күн бұрын

@@IOERROR622 it was incredibly hard to break free. Luckily I’m not an impulsive person and she was.

@IOERROR622

27 күн бұрын

@@ConveyApp I've been there brother. You tell yourself "Well she didn't really hurt me so it's ok" but once you open your eyes you know you made a mistake by putting up with it.

@ConveyApp

27 күн бұрын

@@IOERROR622 I appreciate the content. Thanks.

@SurpriseMeJT

5 күн бұрын

Maybe it's better she go to jail than to take half your stuff.

I was physically abused by girlfriend in Colorado. Hit across face w phone, strangled and arm bruises. She was arrested at my home and taken to jail. I had to go to a mandated victim program. Still hard to believe.

@jellybean6778

Ай бұрын

Looking back now, what were the signs you missed? They are always there.

@comeon_man

Ай бұрын

@@jellybean6778 at the program I sat across the desk from a lady interviewing me. She noticed these like nickel sized bruises on my inside upper arms. And asked me. I hadn’t really ever thought about it but then realized the girlfriend had always pinched and twisted me… I understood later it was a learned societal or cultural behavior to just take it from a woman Men are bigger stronger brutish in behavior shouldn’t complain certainly not cry This coupled with the growing cultural hash tag believe all women society I was adopted by paternal grandparents at about 3 Father gave me away to protect me mother had broken my arm and shoulder There were no arrests or apologies for what it’s worth only years of trying to recover I guess if my candor here can save one person or kid from abuse it’s worth this thread Monsters can come in pretty packages Boys and men are not disposable

@lanawr80

Ай бұрын

I am so sorry!

@diplamatikjuan3595

Ай бұрын

"She was arrested at my home and taken to jail" YAAAY!

@Ezinma88

Ай бұрын

Was the program helpful?

It takes abuse THIS bad for the “Family Law” system to take men seriously

@aeromedical6776

Ай бұрын

Had the guy not had this level of overwhelming evidence against her, he’d have ended up in jail. All she has to say is “I felt threatened” and the court would have issued an EPO and most likely slammed him with a DVO.

@user-fq8rs7rz3i

Ай бұрын

It is getting better for men. There have been several of these cases in recent years.

@OaklandMind

Ай бұрын

@@user-fq8rs7rz3icare to share any?

@tonyconnor5691

Ай бұрын

It amazes me that courts in a separation always give the kids to the mother, I'm sorry but there are far more unhinged women walking about than men, half of them are narcissists on prescription drugs

@sincerely-b

Ай бұрын

The system is not set up for men dealing with these types of women. They're very manipulative, which means they know how to look fragile and polite and kind. But once the doors are closed, their true nature comes out and once again, men are left to fend for themselves.

That man was lucky to have a friend to speak up for him and help get him away from that mad woman.

Wow This is my story exactly Except in my case my wife was arrested for a brutal middle of the night non provoked attack on me She was removed from the home and my kids went with her as she lied to them Family court reversed it all She won Then lost in the end My son lives with me now He got a taste of her madness directed at him I understand this man very very well

@SpindraicaFessvraum

24 күн бұрын

I'm glad you got away and I hope all of your children are healing

@garyr1934

24 күн бұрын

@@SpindraicaFessvraumthank you so much yes we are healing now and things are so good now The truth is now evident to all

Something similar happened to me. She was a nightmare and extremely abusive. I did everything I could to save our family, but the damage was constant and overwhelming and compromising. Gaaslighting was a tacctic she used constantly. Narcissism and socipathy were other factors. She was arrested Christmas night 2001

She is not a victim she needs to be in prison for life

@heatherem5690

Ай бұрын

Is pretty rare for abusers to get substantial prison sentences, if any at all

@ENIGMAXII2112

Ай бұрын

@@heatherem5690 Especially if they are women...

@heatherem5690

Ай бұрын

@@ENIGMAXII2112 why did you feel the need to make it a gendered issue? Women are much less likely to be the perpetrators and suffer more repeated violence and more severe abuse and hospitalizations at the hands of men, is this the argument you wanted to have? Ffs, convictions for abuse and assault are difficult for both genders The belief that courts are more lenient on women is a seriously outdated notion, you’re just being sexist for literally no reason

@sgtbrown4273

Ай бұрын

​@heatherem5690 did he hurt your little entitled feelings ? 😂

@ENIGMAXII2112

Ай бұрын

@@heatherem5690 Oh dear me, what be this..? I just read up to "make it a gendered issue". Then I did not even bother with rest of your ridiculous leftist indoctrination. Bloody Good News is that sort of thing is on the way out. Yes, fads do not last forever. Jolly good stuff that..!!

Wow she’s just straight up evil, abusers never appreciate what they have. Hope Richard’s got a better life now, he seems like a decent dude.

@ivribalko

Ай бұрын

Yes, they just always want more. Some people are different and have insatiable greed.

@tomcollins5112

Ай бұрын

You know a woman is high maintenance and just not worth it when she defecates on your head and tells you to clean it up. 😧

@bestdjaf7499

Ай бұрын

You mean a typical Woman?

@Dale-jd4nj

Ай бұрын

The evil wife should have gotten a lot more prison time --and the abused husband should be placed into some form of "Witness Protection" Program when the evil wife gets out of prison 🤨

@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc

Ай бұрын

​​@@Dale-jd4nj I thought the same thing. If it were Richard abusing her the sentence would have been much longer.

It's tragic that some people become so unhinged that they don't just mess up their own lives but all those around them.

@Mrbfgray

6 күн бұрын

Amazing such a wimpy male (not a man) exists too. Realize it's very difficult with children but this was long time in coming.

When I was young I almost never heard of women being abusive. Just in my lifetime with the ubiquitous use of cell phones, security systems, DNA and forensics science, and the increased psychological knowledge of human behavior (such as narcissistic personality disorder) women have been reported to be abusive. I'm convinced that that is why many people still refuse to accept it. Traditions and traditional beliefs take a long time to change. There is also a lot of money involved in the criminal, civil and family courts remaining the same.

@freshtoast3879

Ай бұрын

They are abusive and narcissistic

@davidm4566

20 күн бұрын

There's aways been a stigma against men who come out as abuse victims. Even most men's friends would probably make fun of them for it. Men even in today's society will often times keep quiet. Even when the cops are called you'd better have some video evidence or the man might go to jail even though he called the cops.

What a repulsive drunk. What she said to her husband is beyond disgusting. The children will always be affected seeing her violence and hearing those insults and vile language. I hope she never gets to hold those little children in her arms again.

@tammypearre5033

Ай бұрын

Where are the children? Does he have them?

@Vaultboy101

Ай бұрын

This woman is like a budget Amber Heard.

@CoreyT127

Ай бұрын

Right. F the guy who actually went through all this. Men are so expendable to most women. And it shows in comments like yours. Poor kid helping her mom lie to the neighbors! Even little girls could care less!😂😂

@leonmusk1040

Ай бұрын

Most kids witness this from their mother the overwhelming majority truth be told.

@bradford_shaun_murray

6 күн бұрын

1:09 she's trying to look perfect...but she has a boogie in her nose.

@8:00 abuse never “gets better” it never “goes away” male on female (as in my own personal experience) or female on male. If anyone reading this is facing abuse, leave! Walk tf away!

@AnastasiaFafo

Ай бұрын

It's a hard lesson to learn, especially with deeply sick, manipulative psychopath.

@georgegravette1132

Ай бұрын

I'll add that, not only does it not get better or go away, it WILL escalate. Get away as soon as it starts.

@clqudy4750

Ай бұрын

Yeah, that rarely happens..and some people kinda like it, I guess since they keep going back. 😞

@sciencenotstigma9534

Ай бұрын

@@clqudy4750. There are multiple factors that make it hard for a victim to leave. People who abuse others can be very calculating. I would not assume that anyone likes it.

@DaveyJones1971

Ай бұрын

I really don't think they like it .@@clqudy4750

This brought up some very bad memories from when I was married. It took me a long time to get over that experience. Even now, almost three years later, I doubt I’ll ever be in a relationship again. The physical abuse, manipulation, and gaslighting was beyond painful. To the men out there in this position, leave her, it’ll be okay, it’ll get better, and even if it costs you everything you’ve built, you’ll get it back faster than you think.

I was married to a woman who was a little bit like this. I refused to have children with her because I thought it would get worse, and eventually harm the future potential children. We got divorced and it was mostly amicable.

@SpindraicaFessvraum

24 күн бұрын

You made some great choices. I hope you find a wonderful woman and are able to have children, if you want children

I am an ER nurse and have witnessed a lot of domestic violence. I have seen some horrible crimes committed by women including castration with a dull knife and attempted murder by a stiletto heel.

@sam-kx3ty

Ай бұрын

damn!!!!

@heedmywarning2792

Ай бұрын

that sounds hot. I mean, wrong! So wrong.

@hadesunderworld4203

Ай бұрын

Yoooooooooo dull knife

@fss1704

Ай бұрын

in brazil we have the assassin of the spoon

@piiinkDeluxe

Ай бұрын

😵

Drinking 3 bottles of wine a day won't help your fertility. That said, this story is horrible. If his friend had not intervened, I think things would have gotten worse - a lot worse, possibly leading to his murder.

@JimCampbell777

Ай бұрын

She poisons her body and then blames him for not being a man and getting her pregnant.

@johnl9977

Ай бұрын

I was with a bi-polar gal for awhile and she was similar to Sheree. She would beat me in the face, then call the police and tell them I had threatened her with a knife. The pigs always arrested me, even though I had never hit her, and never ever threatened her with a knife. Cops are incredibly lazy, they always arrest the person that does not call, never bother to even try to figure out how the guys face looks like it was beaten to shit. Every time she did it the prick judges kept raising my bail till i could not afford it. Eventually, she fell in love with one of her crazy cousins and I was free. Even better, she died of natural causes maybe a year later, some virus in her heart. The lesson being, if a woman ever bears false witness against you, you have to get away from her, no exceptions, because the "justice system" is geared towards always making the guy the perp, even when he is not. Do not think I am kidding on this. If dude here did not have video, he would have been put in jail if she ever made a false claim. Cops are lazy, Judges are lazy, and attorneys are lazy, that all works against the man in cases like this.

My husband had an ex girlfriend who abused him when they were in their early 20s. He still has scars from her stabbing him with scissors, and I once found Polaroid’s he had taken for proof of his upper torso completely covered in Bruises and bites. He was so ashamed to go for help because he was quite a bit bigger than her and a handsome, well liked guy. He felt ashamed and emasculated. I am so glad he got away from her when he did, and I believe there are so many men who are abused who are scared to speak out. Please go for help if you are being abused no matter which gender you are!!!

@SpindraicaFessvraum

24 күн бұрын

Totally agree!!! I'm glad your husband found you. You have empathy and respect for him as a human being

@lanawr80

23 күн бұрын

@@SpindraicaFessvraum thank you so much that’s so kind. I honestly feel like both our past experiences really helped each other heal. Not like it’s always perfect, of course! We are all human! But we really care about each other as humans. I have a son now and it makes me so sick to think about a woman treating him this way and he thinks he can’t ask for help. I hope this changes in society!

Geeeeez, it is amazing how women "catfish"........the makeup pictures look nothing like her without makeup.

@rorymoore4387

28 күн бұрын

Right?!, almost like you can see the mess she is upstairs by what she looks like without makeup

@VIII_Royalty_VIII

27 күн бұрын

That's not a catfish. Women have been wearing makeup for decades. If you really think the girl you've just met naturally has naturally red lips or or shadowed eyes perfectly matching their eye color - you need lots of help.

@bravefitchick7184

25 күн бұрын

That's your takeaway?

What a nasty woman, thank you Dr. Grande for showing anyone can be an abuser !

Imagine all the men that didn't record and have been lied about by their female partners and put in jail That is terrifying.

@ancientwisdom-ty4nb

Ай бұрын

Any man who cannot defend himself or walk should put up then.if u cannot defend yourself how exactly do u defend your family. I blame Richard. I find him annoying.

@sum1majik598

Ай бұрын

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb dumbest comment of the year award

@ancientwisdom-ty4nb

Ай бұрын

@sum1majik598 I ain't paying you for this self awarded award. But why would u wanna give yourself such a demeaning award?self loathing? I know a good psychologist u can see to boost your self esteem

@markadler8968

Ай бұрын

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb Oh you definitely deserve that award buddy and I find you annoying. And as far as a person needing a good psychologist you should look into seeing one before it is too late.

@markwagner1997

Ай бұрын

My 1st wife tried that... But I had recordings on my phone and got out. I stupidly put up with years of abuse, but the false arrest potential finally made me see the light. A good friend of mine, also being abused by his wife did not heed my advice to leave, when she started threatening to falsely report him for assault. He is in year 2 of a 5 year probation and has felony assault on his record.

My then fiancé became angry with me and punched me in the face, now I’m 6’6” weighed about 220lbs at the time. I knew if I “protected” myself I would definitely be going to jail. I guided her out of my house and on the way out I advised her that if that ever happened again, she will be getting hit like a man. That was 15 years ago and it’s never been a thought in my now wife’s brain.. and is still an understanding even today.. now she’s been upset with me plenty of times since but understood the consequences. My point is that if you make it clear what’s going to happen, most people will not do it again..

watched half of the documentary, before I was so repulsed and couldn't finish watching. so pleased she is now so exposed all over the planet 🌏 Richard, I am so sorry this happend to you & YOUR daughters. Thank God you collected evidence.

She should be stripped of parental rights.

This poor man. He was in a lose lose situation. If he stood up for himself he’d be seen as the aggressor. If he reported it so one would believe him. I’m so glad he got out.

@ls-l1518

Ай бұрын

He could leave.

@tadcastertory1087

Ай бұрын

She would have reported him as the abuser, which would have been believed. He would also lose his children.

@ls-l1518

Ай бұрын

@@tadcastertory1087 So you know that she hasn't lost custody? He wouldn't loose his children either here in Scandinavia. Unless it was life threatening violence, where the family had to go under ground.

@carlamarlene2927

Ай бұрын

These are reasons why many abused men don't report the abuse against them. My husband's first wife abused him and he felt he couldn't report her bc like this woman, she was a member of law enforcement.

"Now she can perform firsthand research through her magical prison journey." LOL. Your cutting comments and jokes, combined with your stoic delivery, always make me literally laugh out loud.

Nice update in your videos Dr… with excellent hx, bx analysis, and overall psychoanalysis. Thank you.

I lived with it for 15 years, no one believes a six foot tall physically fit man can be assaulted/abused by a woman. At least that was the case in the late 90's into the 2000's. My ex sliced my arm open as I was trying to get away from her and it took 35 internal stitches (muscle) and around 40 staples (skin) to close the wound. There are two scars on my left arm that go from the top of my shoulder almost down to my elbow, she swung twice cutting both times once almost hitting bone. I lied to the ER when they were going to call the police and told them it happened at work, I wish they would have called.

@Whatsername20000

Ай бұрын

It’s because men are ‘taught’ to treat woman with respect and never to hit back. As a woman if I am throwing hands at a man I expect it back.. if you are big enough to hot you are but enough to get a smack back. We fought for equality, well here it is!

@Rob-vv5yn

Ай бұрын

Can’t happen in my country you say it was done at work and our Worksafe government agency would be following up your employer looking to investigate a work safe issue. If you said you did this at home it’s likely they would still notify the police who might investigate if you had err bad connections or more likely as you don’t they would add a note to your personal government file just in case they or you needed that evidence later.

@edboyd4783

Ай бұрын

I believe you , i was a full contact martial arts champ in my youth and you can bet many never would believe my story... see my comment input above mate....

@HeatherHolt

Ай бұрын

FOURTY STAPLES?! I snapped my elbow in half and had to have metal put in to replace it and part of my ulnar bone and that only took 20 staples. 40!!! She tried to off you dude. Glad you’re ok. Feel bad for anyone else who dated that monster. Edit: Forty not fourty Jesus - I was so astonished I misspelled a simple word. My bad.

@melistasy

Ай бұрын

Wow. How did you finally get away from her?

What a classy lady! ‘Defecating on his head’ summed her up pretty well. 🙄

@2008israelramos

Ай бұрын

I think he has to sit pretty still to allow that. That might have been agreed upon.

@deboracopeland4795

Ай бұрын

What is it with these women and crapping in beds?

@darthsilversith667

Ай бұрын

@@2008israelramosUnless he was asleep.. which he apparently wasn’t allowed to sleep in the bed from time to time..

@stephencarter744

Ай бұрын

💩😜🤤

@CoolHand273

Ай бұрын

now we know where amber heard got her ideas from.

Thank you for the upload Brother! I hope this is a lesson that teaches people how to recognise a narcissist & to be cogent enough to have the emotional maturity to not cling to a volatile relationship in order to fulfil emotional desires. Instead fill those holes in your life with love of self & of all others!!! Peace & Love!

Excellent work as always Dr Grande! I hope her cell mates watch this video.

I had a buddy who was 6"5 tall and was the funniest nicest guy. He married a 5"1 redhead that abused him for years. He would sleep in his car. She bit him through the arm. She hit him with any object she could throw. She didn't let him speak to any of his family or friends for years. He finally got away from her after many years as a shell of a man.

@Vaultboy101

Ай бұрын

Can confirm that Redheads are schizo.

@user-ql6qg7bh3p

Ай бұрын

Those red heads are dangerous😂

@aeromedical6776

Ай бұрын

Domestic violence is acceptable when women are the perpetrators. They often get off very light or receive no punishment when they victimize their significant other. Law enforcement and the court systems (at least in the U.S.) take the position that a smaller female can’t possibly physically abuse a larger man. If he does defend himself, she’ll cry “domestic violence” and he goes to jail. These women know this and take advantage of the system accordingly.

@Lenny_Hondo

Ай бұрын

​@@user-ql6qg7bh3pYeah, real funny.

@HeatherHolt

Ай бұрын

@@aeromedical6776this is sadly often true

My eyes have been abused after seeing that mug shot.

@simplyk6965

Ай бұрын

The ugliness that she hid from the world was finally uncovered and her true self revealed.

@vandolmatzis8146

Ай бұрын

lol,I agree,ouch.

@3mPeRaToR

Ай бұрын

I felt all my tights violated 😂😂😂 just for watching the pic

@Low-KeyCollector

Ай бұрын

glad i'm not the only one who feels that way... rough

@sforza209

Ай бұрын

Dude that shit scared me! It looks like she went on a 3 year meth bender.

Thanks for sharing this video. "Very satisfied with him as a victim" is quite the description of this woman's attitude, and behavior, toward her (then) husband.

My mum abused my dad for their whole marriage. Everyone thought my mum was wonderful. She abused me too. They were married for 60 years. My dad said that in his day, you never left.

@AdamWeidl-qm6ct

5 күн бұрын

My dad's the same my feminist mother (every so called feminist I meet is this way towards men) I keep meeting women now kike my mom. And I run 🏃‍♂️ fast. When women tell me women need equality I think of these relationships and think women have more then equality they have the law on their side more then men do. They make as much h or more then men, and they are generally more angry and aggressive then men. My ex dod alot of these things to me and still to this day tries ti work her way into my life again

@jeng1395

2 күн бұрын

My mother was the same. My dad passed in 2020. She is still alive, and from what I hear, sleeping with a married man. She is 77.

It wasn’t until I was participating in group therapy that I realized I was in a relationship with a narcissist female. As a man it’s kinda hard to admit you’re in an abusive relationship

@user-vq6mx9ko7q

Ай бұрын

It can happen to anyone. Good for you for realizing it and getting out.

@poindextertunes

Ай бұрын

I could see that being the case here too

@M-yb1cc

Ай бұрын

Wasn't until after the breakup and talking to others I realised I was in a relationship with a narcissist male. Best wishes to all of us going through this.

@jennebeattie3168

Ай бұрын

Women can be extremely abusive too. It's definitely not gender specific 😢. I'm glad you discovered you needed to leave and see it through. WELL DONE!!! Recovery will be slow. But it will come.

@commonsense8710

Ай бұрын

I was in a relationship with the most textbook NPD case I've come across back in 2016. All the gaslighting makes you want to confirm your reality by speaking to others but it's very uncomfortable admitting that youve been a victim plus society isn't kind to male victims.

Hopefully she is allowed no contact with the children.

@TiffWaffles

Ай бұрын

I hope so too. Eventually she would have turned on her children and abused them. Richard got out on time and I hope him and his daughters live the quiet and happy life they deserve with each other and Richard's new partner.

@Hatbox948

Ай бұрын

I wonder if she ever abused the kids too. It seems likely.

@edwardcat5247

Ай бұрын

sorry... society says she will get them back easily... i spent years trying to get mine away from a junkie... she just showed up, and the copper with her would actually help give them back to the junkie... only for her to throw them out again in a few days.... courts waste of time as the judges are all women now... whatever the woman does is ok with a woman judge .. believe me!!!!!....

@jaydee8926

Ай бұрын

It seems like she doesn't get her "kicks" from children. It is men. She clearly has deep-seated issues with men. Specifically, a hatred for "spineless" types of men. I've known women like her: First testing a man out, to see if he has "a spine". It starts small: little disrespectful comments, or overstepping her bounds. If the man stands up for himself, she will have some respect, (at the time). Her respect is not permanent. She is usually in a state of emotional turmoil, egomania, and imbalance. These are the Amber Heard types: Entitled, Arrogant, Narcs, Borderline, and Sociopaths. Moreover, obviously, when she sees the man "show weakness", or capitulate to her tests, she will strike. Disrespect, verbal abuse, overstepping boundaries, psychological abuse, and physical abuse.

@CoreyT127

Ай бұрын

@@TiffWafflesI usually don’t like the word partner. But it applies to this situation. Because women are definitely this guys equal!😂😂😂

The end statement... had me dying with laughter. props to the friend who helped this man. stay safe out their err'body.

Richard has remarkable restraint. I certainly wouldn't in this situation.

Thanks for covering this case. Good thing Richard's friend went to the police, instead of just mocking him or saying it's his fault, like a lot of the commenters here are doing

@Emgee101

Ай бұрын

Yes, Very hard for someone to extract themselves from such abuse. The friend goes beyond just friendship. To a big brother.

@travmakesbeats3372

Ай бұрын

I don't see any comments saying it was his fault at all

@sciencenotstigma9534

Ай бұрын

@@travmakesbeats3372. I’ve seen a couple that say a man can just leave, one saying this happened because all he cared about was if she was hot and another that said people stay because they like it.

@freefall9832

Ай бұрын

I don't mock him, but he should have left her long before. Perhaps he was able to get out without alimony in this scenario.

The summation was pure gold. "Now she can conduct first hand research through her magical prison journey." I about lost my cookies!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I married at 27 a girl who was 19 , I soon found out that she was bipolar. She would not seek help , would have extreme mood swings and would become very violent striking me on several occasions. The one time that I struck her back, she went ape accusing me of violence . Luckily we never had children. We split up after seven years .

Eeeww! State of it, without make up. That's grounds for divorce right there. 1 Good Back hander, and a throttle, may have been needed to set boundries and rank in that house.

That is the most hard working makeup I've ever seen.

@benjaminrichey278

Ай бұрын

I almost made the exact same comment lol!

@mamabeartrue420

Ай бұрын

😂💯🔥👍

@Boogiebear-1965

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 Fugly on the inside. Fugly on the outside.

@sciencenotstigma9534

Ай бұрын

She could be the cover girl who makes the most sales for that brand, for different reasons than most. I know I’d buy it!

@shanna2.2.2

Ай бұрын

Omg! I had the vid paused at 6:25 on her mugshot when I read your comment 😂

Poor guy must have been so broken to put up with her abuse for 20 years! He would have stayed longer just taking that abuse if not for his friend who secretly showed police the video!

@willywokeup9112

Ай бұрын

Nobody would believe him, she played the victim to everyone. She’s probably all quiet and meek in public, ive been there

@TiffWaffles

Ай бұрын

The way things were going, poor Richard would have probably ended up a statistic of an abuse victim being killed by their abuser. The fact that he was putting makeup on to cover up the cuts and bruises on his face just makes me feel so sad for him. I hope his life with his new partner is free of abuse. He deserves to find somebody who supports and loves him.

@poindextertunes

Ай бұрын

@@willywokeup9112he had video evidence and bruises sooo…

@dickjohnson9582

Ай бұрын

​@cfayek probably for the kids but who knows. There's more forms of control than just financial ya bell end.

@cifey

Ай бұрын

@@dickjohnson9582 Imagine leaving her and her boyfriends alone with your kids...

The documentary about this case had me sobbing. The wife was an absolute monster and Richard very clearly suffered from battered victim syndrome. Honestly, he’s lucky to have made it out alive. Thank God he had proof of his serious injuries and her emotional abuse, as well as a great friend who spoke up. I’m so happy to hear that he’s found another partner. I hope he and the children are getting the treatment they would’ve needed for the trauma they all endured.

Amazing job!! Dr.Grande!!!

This programme is a hard watch, after supporting my beloved husband through cancer over the past year, it is beyond my comprehension that someone could treat anyone let alone their husband in this way and expose their longed for children to this abuse. He was so brave to speak out to his lovely neighbours and his loyal friend who did what he couldn’t do and report the abuse to the authorities. I think Richard is a brave man who deserves every happiness in his future life.

The fact that three kids had to witness this, is heartbreaking.

@davidwheatley2283

Ай бұрын

More concern for the children than for the op. Terrible.

@CoreyT127

Ай бұрын

@@davidwheatley2283Men are disposable cannon fodder to these fembots.

@IOERROR622

27 күн бұрын

@@davidwheatley2283 I was thinking the same thing.

@wayneosmusic

22 күн бұрын

Ditto about the children! Who has custody?

my late wife was very similar, controlling violent etc. She died suddenly of peritonitis septicaemia. ~After her death we discovered from her family (we did not know they existed) Schizophrenia was rampant, her Mother and two Aunties were all ill, she had also been diagnosed at some time with Bipolar disorder. I lived like a prisoner for 25 years in this relationship and all our 'friends' blamed me, I was responsible for everything that happened. After her death our 16 year old daughter exclaimed 'so that explains her behaviour' she left home shortly after and I have had no contact in 7 years now. Charming, intelligent, witty she was always the centre of attention while I was ignored, I merely paid the bills, how she took even very clever people in I do not understand. I could go on there is so much I still do not know about her life before me, her non existent family and why it turned out she was not even a British citizen, no records of her exist!

My heart goes out to Richard and the pain and trauma he must have endured. I pray for him and his family, so grateful for the friend who loved him enough to report when he couldnt.

How horrible this man had to put up with her abuse because he knew the police would not believe him. It is time we realize that women are capable of being just as abusive as men. I'm glad this story had a fairytale ending with the villain going to jail and the hero living happily ever after 😍

@andoletube

Ай бұрын

Sadly, she'll be out in two years and she has the potential to re-enter his life in a dangerous fashion. I'm glad he can relax for 2 years, but I'd imagine he'll be very much on guard when she gets out.

@Duskdog717

Ай бұрын

There's definitely a bias in law enforcement, and society, that works against male victims of abuse like Richard. But I also think it's worth pointing out that the very fact that Richard was able to live happily ever after says something, too. Many women don't get to live on after abuse at all, let alone happily ever after -- women are more likely to be killed by their domestic partner than by anyone else. The system fails victims of all genders far too often, just in different ways. :(

@Dale-jd4nj

Ай бұрын

​​@@andoletube• When she gets out, she will still be Bat Shit Crazy 🤔

@esteemedmortal5917

Ай бұрын

That’s the patriarchy for you. Hurts both men and women.

@blueStarKitt7924

Ай бұрын

​@@Duskdog717😔

She was from the Amber Heard club, no only with her violence but the whole potty training issues 🤢

@stephencarter744

Ай бұрын

Are you a member? Asking for a friend.

@abigailstars2013

Ай бұрын

@stephencarter744 well you and your friend have issues

@hydrostatic8048

Ай бұрын

Ambder would still be doing her thing if she did it to an average guy. Because it was Johnny depp she was called out.

@Bess9779

Ай бұрын

I'm glad that the trial showed society that women can be abusers as well. It seems since then, people have looked more closely at some of these crazy women.

@justenjoy-rr7ho

Ай бұрын

@@Bess9779Men have always experienced this, just like women, but the awareness of this is decades behind the awareness of abuse against women. It's only recently, that studies have shown that men are only slightly more likely to be psychopaths than women. Men and women will never be equal until we accept that we are human beings first and are capable of everything another human being is capable of, good and bad, woman or man.

My ex wife taught me to record any conflict with a woman that may lead to police involvement. They'll take the woman's side almost every time without it.

I once rented a room to guy who was escaping domestic violence. When I asked him why he didn't report it, he said "she is a small woman and I am a big man - they will never believe me"

@bayoumanbryan

6 күн бұрын

my abuser was 5'3 110lbs and i was 6'1 220lbs

@cathydefelice6807

5 сағат бұрын

It is the sad truth. Men are prejudged in abuse and custody cases.

My bio mother is like this. She was perfectly normal until I was about three years old, then she became an extreme alcoholic (a 24 case of beer and a bottle of vodka every day), and was terribly abusive to myself, my sister, and our father. I seriously hope more men can get over the stereotype and report abusive behaviour from female partners. My dad didn't report it mainly because he was afraid of getting us taken away by CPS, but that didnt help anyone. I will never have children because of the trauma that woman put us through. I share 50% of her DNA; although I would never harm someone willingly it frightens me that she is a part of me

@dsa513

Ай бұрын

My mom was alcoholic but now she's fine. Except when she drinks😂😂😂

@Rebecca-hc5ju

Ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you and your sisters suffered from her abuse. I hope you're excelling in life and have been able to heal (as much as possible). 💜💜💜

@maririnko

Ай бұрын

@@Rebecca-hc5ju thank you for your kind words! Have an excellent day, year, life, all of it! 🖤

@KorinaaaTrudelll

Ай бұрын

I don’t want children either because of my childhood. I would never want to put my kids through a minuscule amount of what my brother and I endured. Not that I think I would, but it’s turned me off the thought of being a mother to someone.

@Vaultboy101

Ай бұрын

If there is one thing that age has taught me, it's that you are not your parents. In fact, you would probably be at less risk of turning into an abusive parent than most. Due to the fact that you are acutely aware of what a person is capable of.

Oh my gosh this reminds me of my husband’s ex wife. She was horribly abusive. He’s got scars from cigarette burns, she broke his nose when she threw something at his face, and like this woman, forced him to sleep with her almost every day just to exert control. It was so bad that he almost offed himself. He literally had the shotgun in his mouth when he decided to not give up. He put the gun down and checked himself into the hospital. Think she felt bad? Nope. Knowing he was suicidal, she served him divorce papers, and this was after asking if their kids could stay with his mom for a few weeks so that he and she could fix things. She divorced him and kidnapped their daughter to another state. He hasn’t seen his child for 10 yrs. Women can be a particular kind of evil. They often don’t seek to kill you physically opting to destroy you mentally. These women also know that they can use their kids to do it because courts favor them.

@Desi365

Ай бұрын

What the name of the kidnapper ? This has to be made public by the FBI right ? There is a search warranty on her isn't there ?

@TheRheverend

Ай бұрын

@@Desi365 there’s a warrant out of our state but family court said she moved too far away for them to go get her. She’ll be arrested if she ever comes back but she will never do that. Mothers do this all the time and the courts fail the fathers

@alukuhito

Ай бұрын

She probably still thinks she never did anything wrong and was always a victim of her crazy, suicidal husband.

I love your analysis of all of your videos. So inciteful. Btw, I always try to count all of the cacti and in this one, I counted 10. Who agrees?

So glad Richard is doing well now. A stand up guy and one of life's good guys.

Hopefully the psychopathy won't be passed down to the daughters. Poor guy.

Thank You for this. The more men that come forward and speak on this kind of abuse, the more that my own personal dignity feels restored. It appears to me that this pattern happens much more than people know or even care to hear about.

@moldovancrisis5482

Ай бұрын

❤ I hope you're doing better now. I wasn't physically abused but my marriage hurt me in a lot of ways and I similarly find some healing in realizing that I am not alone in having had a hard time drawing boundaries, deciding to leave, and not blaming myself. I think there's a more automatic support for women in their friends and families, who will encourage scorched earth tactics at the drop of a hat, while for men the advice is often more like "just be patient with her".

Omg that’s one of the worst ones I’ve heard- that poor guy and kids! Thanks Dr. Grande to watch out for these type of people!

@christopher9727

Ай бұрын

.. Jesus Christ is the only hope in this world no other gods will lead you to heaven There is no security or hope with out Jesus Christ in this world come and repent of all sins today Today is the day of salvation come to the loving savior Today repent and do not go to hell Come to Jesus Christ today Jesus Christ is only way to heaven Repent and follow him today seek his heart Jesus Christ can fill the emptiness he can fill the void Heaven and hell is real cone to the loving savior today Today is the day of salvation tomorrow might be to late come to the loving savior today Holy Spirit Can give you peace guidance and purpose and the Lord will John 3:16-21 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God. Mark 1.15 15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel. 2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. Hebrews 11:6 6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. Jesus

@clarry1324

Ай бұрын

Oh please 😂

Dr Grande, please do a video on why victims struggle to leave abusive relationships 🙏

This is one of the worst abusers that I have ever heard of.

@DrogoBaggins987

Ай бұрын

You must live on an island by yourself. Children are abused physically and mentally all the time all over the world. Spouses of both sexes and elder abuse is everywhere as well. You don't want to know what the people you think you know do behind closed doors.

@rottingravensblood9106

Ай бұрын

Courtney Clenney

@757Princess

Ай бұрын

Even worse than individuals who delete their entire families 🤔

@Duskdog717

Ай бұрын

I wish I could say the same.

@Dale-jd4nj

Ай бұрын

She had 👉'CRAZY’👈 bursting out of her, like explosive diarrhea

That mugshot was uncalled for 😂😂😂

@kevinhornbuckle

Ай бұрын

Oh, yes it was.

@abigailstars2013

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@jpizel1070

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@celeca7

Ай бұрын

That frightened me! Was so unprepared for it. Literally yelped lol

@dougderubis648

Ай бұрын

Hag

Does this guy know about divorce

@MistaMars201

10 күн бұрын

He can file doesn’t mean he’ll get it.

@amethystjones9677

6 күн бұрын

Regardless of gender, leaving psychotic abusive people isn't easy. Even more so for married men with children. Abusive women usually will cry abusive and SAssault even manipulate the children . As a social worker I have seen plenty of men loose everything when they were indeed innocent. Rarely do woman get reprimanded justly unfortunately women usually get away with abuse when they are the abusers especially if they are considered conventionally attractive. Seen it too many times

@dougliner2521

3 күн бұрын

Divorce doesn't resolve the she said he said. In the cases of spousal abuse the burden of proof is always supposed to be on the accuser. Social mores are not in favor of the males reporting their partners as abusers in straight or gay relationships. Men may fear being judged as weak or feel already feel shame, fear they will retaliated against with counter claims, experience adverse outcomes in child custody settings, etc... You also can't account for how people discount violence and abuse in general in the face of other positive reinforcements.

Her magical prison journey! LOL I'm subbing just so I can catch these little gems in every video!

Such a sad case. Narcissists love to gaslight people in addition to all their other horrid behaviors to make someone dependent. Great breakdown again. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

Wow. We sure can't tell what people are truly like by their external appearance. Thanks for another incredible video, Dr. Grande!

@Gorrash

Ай бұрын

She's not even pretty 😂

@ivribalko

Ай бұрын

Some people can. My friend always disliked my wife, mostly based just on her looks, turns out he was right to feel so.

@jeffdrafahl2571

Ай бұрын

? she looks like a monster

@sciencenotstigma9534

Ай бұрын

@@ivribalko. I didn’t think my ex was attractive, but accepted a date, because I felt guilty about judging someone based on attractiveness. Turns out it was his insides that repulsed me, all along.

@ole86

Ай бұрын

She has the empty eyes of a narcissist. She looks exactly how I would imagine her after hearing this.

may God give this man this husband this father the strength and Love He Deserves!❤

*As someone who has been abused for far too long, my advice to men and women is if you feel a need to record your partner, it's time to run for the hills and never look back.*

She sounds nice. Gee that poor man and their children. Thank God his friend went to the police on his behalf.

Almost first! And again, I have to say this: beauty hides a multitude of sins. I don't remember who said that, but he wasn't exactly stupid. I'm glad this guy taped her, and I'm glad he had a friend who cared enough to go to the cops.

@joy_is_purple

Ай бұрын

You were third, that counts for something. I think i was second.

@deepblue5099

Ай бұрын

@@joy_is_purpleI think I was first. Amazingly enough. 🏆 🥇

@sc754donaldn3

Ай бұрын

Beauty? Did you not see the mugshot. That ain't beauty, its just make up that's all

@jayytee8062

Ай бұрын

Except look at her mugshot and tell everyone about her "beauty" Friken Medusa.

You are correct " I went thru a similar situation for seven years! although not as violent and was emotional, and financial abuse.

My Mother abused my Dad emotionally until he died, they where divorced eventually but it was awful hearing her put him down & he took it.😢

Had a similar exwife. Struck on ear hard while sleeping twice. toasters thrown. Beat up while driving and people staring. Current wife is a blessing!

@freefall9832

Ай бұрын

I had a knife waving ex. I left immediately and don't cohabite with women anymore. I really enjoy being single now. Best of luck.

@edboyd4783

Ай бұрын

My x beat me while i was the designated driver for her at her friends bday party, she was drunk and me sober, i was amazed we didnt crash that night as it was a long way from home and a nightmare drive .

@WickedScott

Ай бұрын

Glad you were able to move on. I have been on my own for 7 years now after my experience. I just don't trust anyone anymore.

@cadavher

Ай бұрын

No matter what gender/age you are, the beating people when theyre asleep is the most evil sht. Im female, and my ex used to wake me up by ripping my blankets off me and screaming an inch from my face "how dare you sleep away from me" when id sleep in the spare room or couch to get away. Hed throw things, never let a hand on me though, I told him if he hit me Id end him in his sleep lol. Im sorry you delt with that. I never experienced an "abusive" relationship till I was 28, and I was too embrassed to ask for help by the time he had stayed over night and refused to go home. If I told him I wanted out, he would threaten to off himself and lock himself in my bathroom cutting till I said id stay. I asked him one day what it would take for him to leave me, and he said if I got fat. I put on over 60lbs in under 6 months, I gorged myself to the point of being sick till he was no longer interested in me and went home. Im glad youve found love again! And that your new wife is awesome! I havent looked since 2018, but seeing comments like yours have me hopeful should I decide to look again! ❤

That mugshot makes me deathly afraid of the black magic that makeup is capable of.

@CoreyT127

Ай бұрын

Yeah those before and afters ate chilling!☠️

@historyandculture6369

Ай бұрын

She's entered the Sith Lord secondary psychopath phase of borderline personality disorder.

Man. I relate to this dynamic so, so much. I was in a relationship like this.

"Not pleased with him as a husband, but pleased with him as a victim." There Doc goes again, spittin' bars!

thanks for exposing cases like this, Dr. Grande. It happens more than we think. I have a friend that was totally manipulated by his ex who is a cheater. She ended the relationship and had the audacity to say (while cheating on him) that she took the decision because he wasn't doing enough for her. Crazy world we live in

Dr. Grande, thank you for all of your videos and hard work. // I notice you have said several times that it was a mistake for the perp. to talk to the police. Isn’t it a good thing when a guilty person takes responsibility?

I always appreciate your hilarious sarcasm. Lol

I wonder what the sentence would have been if the husband had been violent to his wife? I am thinking that it would have been longer.

@davel7014

Ай бұрын

yep. without a doubt

@ozdigg9254

Ай бұрын

Unfortunately, not true.

@devriestown

Ай бұрын

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