As a sexual 4 wing 5 married to a self pres 8 wing 9 I've been impatiently waiting for this one. Mutual respect is super important, as well as giving lots of autonomy and space, because neither likes feeling controlled. I can say that I've never felt so seen, understood, and chosen. When both are fully in, this pairing can feel like a safe solid space where all pieces of each of you are fully seen,accepted, understood, and protected. But you have to be willing to consistently choose each other, and choose to be calm, gentle, and stay away from the pain points of the other when arguing.

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🙏

@Doopydoopydoo

3 ай бұрын

I was thinking an sx4 and sp8 would be an excellent couple!!

@darlinqq_

3 ай бұрын

@@Doopydoopydoo same here especially if the four is sx/sp and 8 is sp/sx

Type 4w5 w my 8w9. You hit the nail on the head. I love my 8 so much. He is literally like my teddy (grizzly) bear. I have never felt truly heard and understood before in my life until I met him. We are absolutely in our own little world together, and yet, still both want and remain our individuality 💗

@YouveGotaType

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing! Glad it was an accurate watch.

@angelicamartinezr.8965

16 күн бұрын

Sounds great! 😊 I think that him being 8w9 makes him much more balanced. I find 8w7s intimidating.

thank you for sharing I've been looking forward to this video! as an sexual 4w5, I've only had crushes on 8s really and rarely 5s so its finally nice to get some positive outlook on this pairing!

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Glad to hear it! Also hoping to highlight both a positive outlook and potential problems for each of these combos :)

Two reactive types are always pretty spicy! I feel this type of couple would understand each other so deeply. They’re both such passionate types and would sniff out inauthenticity in their partner quickly. Great video!! 😊

I’m a sx4, my past relationships have been sx8s. I’ve been waiting for this video. Both past relationships went down in flames. I can totally relate to everything said in this video. Unfortunately I don’t think I have the energy for another 8 match up.

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🔥 hope the vids help ya on your next relationship.

Looking forward to your take on the relationship between a 5 and 7. ❤

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Coming in the not-too-distant future!

So I know we shouldn't pick a girlfriend based on an eneagram, but the idea of marrying a type 8 sounds so good ngl.

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Helpful to know what kinda traits you like tho!

Omg been waiting for this!!! I’m a 4 that always finds myself in relationships with 8s 🤣🤣🤣 UPDATE: THIS IS SPOT ONNNNNN!!! 🔥 Also, your beard is immaculate!

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

So glad to hear it! And so is my barber haha

My son is an 8. I’m a 4. Looking forward to watching this! EDIT: your intro is great, and highly appreciated, thank you for that.

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

My pleasure :)

Been waiting for this! So informative and I've never heard of harmonic triad!!! Thank you, the video was so enlightening as to why I'm so attracted to 8 type and repelled by them at the same time🤔

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

🙌

Good stuff! Keep up the good work

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Thanks!

Thank you so much for your information. I am a type eight and was married to a type four And yes, I agree. It can be really good or really bad, one person is unhealthy, then it can be very problematic, that was way too much for me. I’m currently in a relationship with another eight and it may not be as exciting, as I am an 8/7 wing and he is an 8/9 wing but we still have the intensity and a sense of safety that I didn’t have with the 4.

You’re gonna do four and 5s I’ve been waiting please

Completely accurate

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

🙌

I've been waiting for the episode of type 5 & 1 😖😖😖

@sanufarrita4401

3 ай бұрын

Cant wait for 1&5

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

I'm working on it 🙏

Regarding 14:51, I believe we already have a documentary about this pairing: Phoenix Rising.

You don't want to know how the conflict between 8 and 4 looks like 😅 It sounds like two tigers fighting to death and like the end would never come I am 4w3 sx and i never have fights in my relationships, but with my fiance 8w9 sp it's almost every day, and you described it very accurately. I have to say that one of the problems could be enormous self assurance of 8, to the point that prevents any kind of growth, especially with 4 who can do something because of very different reason than most of people. You described everything in this video pretty well, and i would like to see one day more detailed video on this topic. 8s are big mistery to me and i am still learning about them, your videos are helpful and useful, good job 👌

@YouveGotaType

2 ай бұрын

Glad it resonated - albeit in a spicy/fighty way. There's ton more nuance to this coupling indeed. Some day there may be a more expansive series once I get through all the basic overviews for each type combo!

Type 2 and 8 relationship video pls make

@YouveGotaType

Ай бұрын

it's already made. In the members section.

A lot of head butting. We 4s are drawn to 8s like a moth to the flame, but its a relationship that is hard to sustain.

@YouveGotaType

2 ай бұрын

Indeed it can be.

@stevedavenport1202

2 ай бұрын

This has been my experiencee as a 4 who has been in relationships with 8s ​@YouveGotaType

Was married to an 8 for 12 years, I wasn’t allowed to have feelings and he did whatever he wanted but if the shoe was on the other foot there would have been hell to pay. And there was when I gave him a taste of his own medicine, that’s how the relationship ended.

Do type 4 and type 2

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

Skipping them because you didn't say please.

@YouveGotaType

3 ай бұрын

...kidding. I'm doing all the type combos.

@petahperry

3 ай бұрын

@@YouveGotaType Please do it as your next video I’m SX Aristocrat and my husband is SP The Host. I cannot wait for the video hehe.