My mic broke halfway through filming this so I had to rely on just the camera audio for some of the scenes. Hence, the lower sound quality! I included captions for those parts that were less-than-ideal. The good news is... I got a new mic! And it's better than the last one I had. So look forward to some better audio in future videos! ♥

I'm a 1 married to a 9, and oh my gosh the accuracy haha. He'll just be sitting on the couch, oblivious that I'm waist deep in chores, and then be like, "come snuggle with me." I can't just leave the dishes half done bro, if I've started them I've got to finish them! I love him so much though. He really helps me to relax :)

@CareFreeCommuting

6 ай бұрын

As a 9, you gotta get the hard stuff done first, be satisfied by that…and get to the cuddling lol.

I love this skit, it's fun seeing how Type 9s interact with every other type.

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you like it! I'm planning on doing all the 9 types :)

@cmpicha2934

10 ай бұрын

​@@AbbeyHoweYay, I was hoping this might be a new series! Glad to hear it :)

Type 9 here and I have never been more offended by something so accurate 🤣 I really need a type 3 to make me their project 😇

@littlepianist89

10 ай бұрын

I'm a 9 raised by a type 3 mother who made me her project and I want to tell you that it's impossible to escape this and find yourself... possibly what made me develop into a 9 in the first place. Proceed with caution!

@lux_24601

10 ай бұрын

@@littlepianist89 oh.. I'm sorry

As a 2, if I were to date a 9, it would, without a doubt, just be a competition of which one of us can outdo the other in kind and selfless gestures. Lol!

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

hehehe

@kellikakes81

10 ай бұрын

This is me and my best friend all of the time but she beats me 10 fold, in the selfless gestures tho!

The struggle of being married to a one (and vice versa for him, of course) 🤣 I need my chill time. It can be challenging to help ones relax and care for themselves, but always try. When they do get that downtime, they are much happier for it. Fifteen-years of balancing and giving each other grace.

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

this is WISDOM. Ones thrive when they are given permission to rest and connect with their inner child. ♥️

0:50: I'm an 8 & have had this exact conversation with more than one 9 & it drives me up the wall. Abbey, you KNOW your stuff. 👏👏

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

thank you! ☺

This is so gonna be me in any future relationship as the eneagram 9 and I guess I'm not alone on this😅😅😅gosh I really love your videos🤗😁👍👍👍👍

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you like it. Thanks for being here, Paola!

"Tired is not a feeling..." While I concur with this, I'm a little hurt that my 4 didn't resolve her argument with the 9. As a SX 4 crushing on a SX 9, I worry we may not have a future... But it's not about the number, it's about the health level so I will work on that. Thanks, Abs :-)

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

You hit the nail on the head with this: *it's not about the number, it's about the health level* As for the lack of conclusion between 9 and 4, it's DEFINITELY possible!! As it is for all types. I just happened to write this one sketch that way. Don't worry. There will be future 9 and 4 content with happy endings.

@KairaisnotaLiopleurodon

10 ай бұрын

Lol I'm thankful there will be future 4 and 9 content because we struggle with the exact same thing!! I find my 4 gets stressed out a ton, and she has a total right to feel what she feels. She says expressing them is how she gets through them. But sometimes I get overwhelmed and hide in a room to decompress (literally what you did in the video, I was shocked you had us pegged so accurately 😂), and she's left alone with her emotions, when she says all she wants is to feel them with me, not feel abandoned. LOVE your stuff. You're way too damn good at these 😂

@Avionne_Parris

10 ай бұрын

@@Jessiehollar-or7ov If I'm being REAL... probably not (also he's super shy). But in my mind, we've gone out many times :P

I'm 9w8, married to 9w1. Have you considered the types dating the same type? No decision making, lots of Netflix and cuddling. It's so relaxing being together!

@AbbeyHowe

9 ай бұрын

yes! that's coming out next thursday :))))

My guy is a 9w1 and this is so accurate!

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

😂

Please include captions in future videos! It makes them way easier for me!

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

Noted!!

ABBEY THIS ENTIRE VIDEO WAS AMAZING

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

OMGGGGG so glad you liked it!!!

This is exactly the type of new series I was hoping for!!!! This was amazing!!!

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

Yay! I'm so glad! Which number do you want to see next?

@KairaisnotaLiopleurodon

10 ай бұрын

@@AbbeyHowe I would love to see 4!!

I love this😂! I always understand myself better after watching your videos lol❤

@AbbeyHowe

9 ай бұрын

this comment 😭

This was great Abbey! My mom and favorite niece are 9s! (My niece is INFJ like me, and a middle child too ;) except she's got that weird Enneagram, and not a 4 like me. Plus my tritype is 4,9,7, so there's more similarity.)

I need to be a new project for a type 3 lol - I have no idea what my hopes and dreams are!

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

threes would be delighted. (make sure to get a healthy three!!)

Nailed it!. As a 9, I resemble those remarks… all of them.

Hello! I like this video.

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

Hello! Yay! I'm glad you like it. :)

I could really relate to the part with the type 3, I'm not sure but I think my girlfriend might be a type 3w4. I'm a type 9w1.

LOL as a 5 with my 9, i approve it And this " you think a lot"

“Come cuddle with me” my solution to 95% of the problems 1:59

U left 1 possibility, type 9 and a type 9

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

I'm hoping to do a video with "Nine Types Dating Their Own Type"

@harikrishnansudheendran808

10 ай бұрын

@@AbbeyHowe yayyy!!!!!!

AHAHAHAHAH AS A 6 WITH A 9 BROTHER THIS IS SO ME 😂😂😂 For some reason my type are always 9 men and I can imagine the dynamic will be extremely similar to the one in the video!

I'm a 9 married to a 5... Pretty much sums it up 😂

Any type 3s out there looking for a project? This 9 could use some direction lol

I’m a 1 who likes a 9

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

love it!

I might be a 9

As a 4, I think I stress out my 9 family member 😂

I got a super proper crush on a 9 therapist @.@

@AbbeyHowe

10 ай бұрын

👀

1. #5 2. #9 3. #9 4. #8 5. #6 6. #9 7. #9 8. #3

@Bloom-z8n

10 ай бұрын

3 5 6 and 8 were more fitting

Conclusion: 9 bribes everyone with the power of snacks

awww. where is 5 dating a 9? 🤓

@AbbeyHowe

9 ай бұрын

it's the first skit!