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Enneagram Types Dating Their Own Type

What does it look like when you date your OWN number? 👀
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  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe9 ай бұрын

    If you’re struggling, consider therapy with my sponsor BetterHelp! Click betterhelp.com/abbeyhowe for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs. Thank you for helping support my channel!

  • @castortroy4866
    @castortroy48669 ай бұрын

    The 2 nines being perfect for eachother. So sweet.🥹

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @juliegolick
    @juliegolick9 ай бұрын

    As a type 9, I would love to be in a poly triad with both those type 9s. We would have the COZIEST house. 🥰

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    THE COZIEST

  • @tonicarr3113
    @tonicarr31139 ай бұрын

    My husband and I are both 5s. It’s completely accurate except we insist on being in the same room at least 2/3 of the time. We have designated, agreed upon alone time (football and reading) and we do regular checking 😂 But the rest of the time, we’re in exquisite parallel play or indulging together. He games, I watch tiktok but we’re listening to Critical Role. We watch Star Trek TNG or Law & Order to wind down for bed as we scroll our phones and discuss. Cuddling while scrolling is absolute heaven. WELL DONE 😂🥰

  • @tonicarr3113

    @tonicarr3113

    9 ай бұрын

    He’s 5w4 and I’m 5w6. He gives me all the romance I crave but am to scared to ask for and I will happily listen to him nerd out for hours which makes him all fuzzy inside. We work so well together.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    I love your relationship sm

  • @Derpediem

    @Derpediem

    Ай бұрын

    ...pretty sure i am 5w4(sx) and had 5w4 ex. We had this kinda thing too. Aaaah i crave for this, maybe someday. Happy for you🙌💫

  • @reksnote
    @reksnote9 ай бұрын

    I know that there is going to be a lot of “opposites attract” posts in the comments but as someone who been there, done that, & wondered why I have zero in common with a partner 1 year later, I am all here for a date the same type as me, relationship. As a 9 that comes home from work hating life & COMPLETELY DRAINED, that other 9 was speaking my language!!! *side note* That 5 relationship is an interesting duo to watch. 👀🍿

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    just a sidenote -- this is obviously not a universal look at what these pairings might look like... just my silly imaginings! 😃

  • @Melinda8384
    @Melinda83847 ай бұрын

    I’m an 8 who dated an 8, it was volatile but the intensity is just so fun. Great video, laughed through all of it

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it Melinda!

  • @Bloom-z8n
    @Bloom-z8n9 ай бұрын

    5w4 here. Im glad you started with us first. Were always in the middle.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    Woohoo!!

  • @nathanreedy4380
    @nathanreedy43809 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 Abbey I think that this seriously was/is your best Enneagram skit video to date that I've seen. Heck, even the sponsor segment was skit oriented, incredible talent. I can see some of the other Enneagram types dating/being in a relationship with another of the same but my type, type 4w5, oh no, that would be a disaster 😂

  • @bertharuiz3765

    @bertharuiz3765

    9 ай бұрын

    Compleatly agree!!

  • @nathanreedy4380

    @nathanreedy4380

    9 ай бұрын

    @@user-uo1ef9bu1x If I could love your comment, I would, it's so true. I wonder how many of us Four's remain forever single?

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    what a comment to get! I'm so glad you enjoyed it. And re: 4w5 dating. I want to do some interviews with actual couples who make it work!

  • @karissahammond4587

    @karissahammond4587

    9 ай бұрын

    Gotta agree with that, this one was great! It was accurate and hilarious, and it touched on a lot of type quirks I see in real life! 😃 As for how two 4s could get together, Idk how it would work for two 4w5s. I'd be really curious to hear about that from a couple like that. Throw in a w3 in though, and I see how it's possible for two 4s to get together.

  • @Avionne_Parris
    @Avionne_Parris9 ай бұрын

    Thank you for putting type 4 last, it was well worth the wait. Plus, you mentioned jasmine, one of my favourite scents! I feel so seen, Abs! Like a spring water dispenser on a hot summer day :-)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    spring water on a hot summer day 😭 you are a beautiful 4, Avi

  • @dawnmarieandjeff
    @dawnmarieandjeff9 ай бұрын

    This was amazing!! You should do one of these at least twice a year. 😂😂 I was swooning over the 9.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    yay! so glad you liked it! ♥️

  • @nooneneedstoknowmyname
    @nooneneedstoknowmyname9 ай бұрын

    Type 1, 6, 2, 4 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, it probably wouldn't work out. It's funny that none of these types are in my tri-type and are the types that seem to fit the least lol. Type 5, 9, 8, 7, 3 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, I'd probably work out great. The type 3 relationship was my favorite.

  • @nooneneedstoknowmyname

    @nooneneedstoknowmyname

    9 ай бұрын

    @@user-uo1ef9bu1x My problem with 1s is that I'm like the exact opposite of them so we kinda clash, my problem with type 2s is that people who do everything for everyone else especially at the expense of their own well being kinda grate my nerves a little. Especially when the person they're dropping everything for doesn't even appreciate it and do the same for them. If it makes them happy then I guess it's cool, but I just think they need to have a little more self respect. They're worth so much more than they give themselves credit for, and I don't think anyone should dampen their spirit to please someone who isn't willing to try to understand them. That's a good point about type 6s, I wonder if counterphobic type 6s would be more willing to ask someone out though due to the fear of being alone forever if they don't? Heck, even a non-counter phobic type 6 might do that. Hey, any type 6s wanna chime in and share your thoughts on the matter? What's your type user-uo1ef9bu1x? Also, what's the story behind your username?

  • @archivist_of_dragonstone
    @archivist_of_dragonstone9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for confirming my sneaking suspicion that I can only be truly happy with another 1 😅

  • @hanae7385
    @hanae73859 ай бұрын

    Hi, Abbey, I'm curious what you think about tritypes? Also this video was hilarious! Love the 7s optimistic thinking :)

  • @robin_hatter
    @robin_hatter9 ай бұрын

    i really need that type6 show 😂

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    same

  • @Ekkiert8
    @Ekkiert84 ай бұрын

    Lol INTJ’s are hilarious. I agree, that is my dream of interaction in a relationship but with long analytical conversations revising our theories and comparing information as well as creating new theories and forms of experimentation🌿🌸

  • @KindHarmony
    @KindHarmony9 ай бұрын

    🤣 So great! Yebba!!!!!! So clever!!!!! This was so funny and hilarious to watch. 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @jofromoz
    @jofromoz9 ай бұрын

    Brilliant Abbey😂

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks 😅

  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe9 ай бұрын

    What are some other Enneagram skit videos you would like to see?

  • @heritage.home.crochet

    @heritage.home.crochet

    9 ай бұрын

    On a job interview, planning an out of the country trip, choosing a college

  • @JacqueArmijo

    @JacqueArmijo

    9 ай бұрын

    different types at the holiday work party, your boss as the different types, different types attending a wedding, each of the triads go shopping together -> maybe more skits in general where you have the three from each triad hanging out together, so we can see the differences and commonalities within each triad

  • @justiceforthemissing3690

    @justiceforthemissing3690

    8 ай бұрын

    Maybe when the same types are the boss and employee. My boss and I are both 8s. Sometimes we yell at each other and tell each other to try harder. It works well lol.

  • @sophia.ciocca

    @sophia.ciocca

    7 ай бұрын

    more different types dating. my partner’s a 9 and i’m a 4 and i feel like so much conflict comes from this space!

  • @kendrixhavlik3051
    @kendrixhavlik30517 ай бұрын

    I would greatly enjoy all of these movies xD

  • @coconutcat1280
    @coconutcat12808 ай бұрын

    Type 6 is accurate of my friendship with another 6 😂

  • @izy2302
    @izy23029 ай бұрын

    Can you do an enneagrams on a solo date video next?

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    Can you explain that a bit further? A little confused what that means!

  • @izy2302

    @izy2302

    9 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe oh boy I don't really know what solo dates are but I have another idea, you could do a video of enneagram types as married couples/married to their own type... also ty for replying

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    @@izy2302 good idea!

  • @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126
    @introvertednotsoyoutuber61269 ай бұрын

    Am I first? Woah!

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    9 ай бұрын

    hello!

  • @Adriana.Gabriela
    @Adriana.Gabriela9 ай бұрын

    8s are totally incorrect 😅 not only from my perspective, but I was actually with an 8, and totally not

  • @pungorma
    @pungorma8 ай бұрын

    a 2:54 promotion in the middle of a 5:46 video, for a company repeatedly proven to be incredibly predatory, in front of 2k+ viewers and 51k subscribers. is the money good at least?

  • @pungorma

    @pungorma

    8 ай бұрын

    promotion starts at 1:33 ,ends at 3:23 i think i got my math a tad bit wrong there, but it was hard to get down exact seconds.

  • @pungorma

    @pungorma

    8 ай бұрын

    this video is from a month ago, well after constant controversy with betterhelp has come out and revealed shady business practice one after another. it's hard to believe that someone, ESPECIALLY someone who studies personality tests which already fall under a sort of psychology has not heard of these things. unless she never searched them up. i guess it isn't my business to judge how someone does their job, but i think it could be a bit irresponsible to advertise to 51 thousand people, 2 thousand so far, a service which could cause them harm.

  • @pungorma

    @pungorma

    8 ай бұрын

    i hope at the very least the pay was good, considering the length of the promotion and the overall percentage of the video it takes up.