Dr. Phil REVEALS The 3 Steps To Find & Build The PERFECT Relationship! | Lewis Howes
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Dr. Phil McGraw is one of the most well-known and trusted mental health professionals in the world. He is also the best-selling author of nine books, which include the best-selling titles, Life Strategies, Relationship Rescue, Self Matters, and Family First.
He also hosts TV’s number one daytime talk show, Dr. Phil. His show focuses on presenting compelling stories about real people with various emotional and behavioral problems and strips away the shame that too often keeps people from seeking help. During his time with guests, he offers solutions based on evidence-based treatment options and state-of-the-art research in psychology, psychiatry, and medicine.
Dr. Phil values his academic training and professional qualifications, which is evident in our insightful and excellent discussion! So, without further ado, let’s dive into our conservation!
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it's beautiful to hear him speak about his wife. he not only loves her but thinks she is a kickass woman and human being! that's what i want in a partner and vice versa. ❤️
@priscillafuentes1372
Жыл бұрын
This was great I saw the vodcast with Dr. Phil and I thank you for having them on and I think you for the high-level quality people you bring on to appease clergy stability stress and Shirley and everything that we discuss rush wishes to you and you have a voice over the holidays Priscilla
@latinaalma1947
Жыл бұрын
Awww my mate of 41 yrs felt this way about me he passed away last year...I am a happy woman we had so many adventures foreign backpacking trips when young, sailing the Caribbean for ten years on our 45 ft sailboat starting at 50. Crusing to Europe mamy times later during 20 years Iiving in beautiful Guatemala surrounded by volcanoes slowly renovating and expanding a house and garden just HEAVEN. H e is here with me in eveything I see and do. STILL. He eill never leave my side.. His ashes sit on our bedroom mantel where I can see them constantly we will be buried at sea our ashes mixing and falling to the bottom together forever in the element we loved MOST on earth the ocean from whence we all came. For eternity....whatever happens to that ocean floor we will continue on some tiny pieces of us together....
My wonderful dad told me, "don't look for love, it will find you" ..........and that is how I met my husband ♥️
Lewis is so attractive, not just the way he looks, but his energy and the way he connects with his guests, his gentleness, sensitivity, and his interest in certain topics which are relevant, he goes deep and asks questions boldly. It's not what this really important conversation with Dr. Phil is about. But I just had to say it.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊
@valentinagrassi5110
Жыл бұрын
I agree! I don't know what I love more, Lewis, the interview, the responses, or the insight given. It's just a joy to listen to and be inspired. ❤❤❤
@FlatStella1
Жыл бұрын
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
@FlatStella1
Жыл бұрын
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
@FlatStella1
Жыл бұрын
So agree to not fitting into the box!No abuse!
I’m from London UK and have never heard Dr Phil before, what a lovely man he is.
Wow so refreshing to see Dr.Phil still so in love with his wife after 50 years. 🥰😍 and the fact that he doesnt ever name call any woman shows his great character. Love this content.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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My boyfriend is really good at making eye contact when we are together. I am still getting used to it because it makes me really nervous and excited but I absolutely love it. It is so intimate and brings us so much closer and naturally makes us both feel more vulnerable. I think everyone should try it with your significant other on a daily basis.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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@no1975
Жыл бұрын
BOTH ARE GREAT
WoW 😮 this is really heartwarming to listen to! An inspiration but I think these kind of relationships are rare. It’s making all of us narcissist abuse survivors cry 😢
@valarielacasse803
Жыл бұрын
😁its not that rare.. but people seem to hear about the ones that Are not not successful i was happily married for 32 years widowed few years ago thats How my husband always spoke about me and i do miss that this was what some refer to as Biracial 😂
Dr. Phil has never missed an episode of Dr. Phil either!
Lewis' genuine interest in people, their experiences and learning from everyone is so beautiful to watch. Such a good reminder that we all have such value, & that communication is key to our growth 🙏
look at him smile about Robin and her buttoning his top button-the love the man has for her.
as a person who healed from a toxic relationship this show just made my day. Thank you so much for this incredible show! I can play it many other times!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡
@Juke582
Жыл бұрын
I am a narcissist husband survivor and this made me cry but it’s also very heartwarming! 🥰
I’ve always secretly called Dr. Phil Dr. Feel because he is so spot on with feelings and situations! Behind every awesome man is an even more awesome woman! Thanks to ALL of them, the host (I’ve been a fan for a few years now) Mr. Phil and Mrs. Robin
I love videos that push us to want to be better humans. We are slowly becoming mediocre at best. Thank you LH for great guests that inspire us to get out of so so, to get to better to strive for great!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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I ve been a huge Dr Phil fan over many yrs but I have to say this in depth conversation has gems of wisdom …practical wisdom that I will long remember. Thank you fir your service Dr Phil
Dr Phil is repeating here several things I heard him say in the other video, but that's ok. .. Don't talk about issues and resentment wile you are angry with each other. Talk about it while things are calm (You don't talk to a drunk while they are drinking). Don't try to solve problems during crisis. The objective is to be heard and then walk away and let that sit with the other person.Both people be heard and then walk away, not be a win lose situation. You can't have the goal of "You're going to agree with me!" You don't want either person to be the loser. ....... After having unhealthy conversations with certain members of our family, I find one of these type of videos and know that it takes two to tango. I can only do my part in the communication. I can't force the other person to be willing to be honest and kind. But I feel better knowing that I also have and have had relationships that are loving and healthy and we both worked to communicate with each other. Unfortunately if the other person is not willing to respect boundaries or be willing to jointly look at different sides of an issue, then I have had to make a boundary very firm. A lot of this applies to friendships and relationships with siblings and even older children. If only one member is willing to go to therapy then the relationship will probably continue to have problems, or not be able to be truly close. Lewis summary and his own advice starts at 58:51. Thank you for this wonderful video Lewis :)
Your interviews changed my life I’m blooming and everyone is seeing it thank you so much for what you do! ❤️❤️❤️
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊
LOVE all the GREAT questions you asked Dr. Phil. And I LOVE the advice he gave . Such a WONDERFUL relationship him and Robyn have. The way he speaks about her is TRUE LOVE. This was INSPIRING and an eye-opener. I want to THANK YOU for YOUR awesome questions. And for interviewing Dr. Phil because he has the kind of the that EVERY man SHOULD have for their woman. As well as Robyn having the kind of love EVERY woman SHOULD have for their man. I LOVE the way he lights up when he talks about her. It's ADORABLE. THANK YOU again to you AND Dr. Phil.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Such wonderful timeless information. Thank you so much for providing it.
A great show. Lewis is brilliant in bringing out the greatness in his guests and sharing their wisdom to help everyone flourish ❤❤❤
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡
Wow. I've just watched the first half of this video. I'm from the uk and never heard of Dr Phil before. What a Tower of Wonderful Wisdom. It's nice to have someone different talking about relationships from their perspective. Thank you
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@terrifinnegan9658
Жыл бұрын
What an awesome conversation with Dr. Phil about our human relationships and the pitfalls we learn from.
@zuzilezungu5899
Жыл бұрын
I was an avid, addict of Dr Phil show for years when we used to get it on SABC 2 in South Africa 🇿🇦
@Roxjetlagged
Жыл бұрын
Did you live under a rock? Haha dr phil is an icon. I grew up in western Europe and we all knew him
Listening to this makes me really want to see an in depth interview with his wife Robin! She’s empowered… a woman that can stand up for herself in a relationship year after year with him is an empowered woman who we can learn from.
@susanshaver912
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I would really like to see his wife interviewed.
@karlasnyder9856
Жыл бұрын
For sure!!! Robin is a woman i look up to.
Dr Phil. You are one of those kind family men with a good heart. I am Canadian buy lived in the us for a while as I completed some of my studies in the Midwest. I had the opportunity to get to know what good Americans families are like.
Dr. Phil, you don't know how hard it is to find someone mature enough to do that.
I loved this show. It was awesome! Thank you for the recap you did amazing job!!!! I could listen to this show over and over 😊
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear this :)
Dr. Phil, please do a podcast on wives of husbands with ADHD. Check out the Fb support group to see what these women are going through.
You can only attract your equivalent of your vibration in order to be in Harmony, We must flow in alignment...
Wished I would of heard all these words of wisdom years ago . However it’s never too late to apply these skills to your life now. Thank you
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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These series on relationship you are doing are amazing. So much wisdom. Thank you for doing this. The 🌎 world is in need of love.
Wow, wow, wow ! I can never go away from you or Fr Phil without having learned more about me and how I can be a better me!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Means a lot!!! Glad this was helpful for you🧡
l love Dr Phil. l trained to be a Counsellor and l have learnt a lot about human behaviour, mental illness and trauma from the show! Keep up the good work Dr Phil. You inspire so many ❤❤❤
Thank you both for so many important points you made, the questions asked and the answers given. I downloaded this show so I could look back to listen when I need the an answer to whatever I’m struggling with. You certainly covered a lot of ground to help get through life with some practical tools. ❤
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Dr Phil my hero, the best psychologist, he spoke about dealbreakers, what about cheating and extramarital relationships?
Wow. Praying for my person to come into my life, one day soon and I cant wait to say to people that I can't spend enough time with him❤
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Loved this interview! Definitely gonna journal about some of the ideas shared
That's when love happens when you're not looking for it. People are more open and honest about everything in their life. So they're able to be just who they are so we let people in we're not guarded.
Love you guys! Such a deep conversation about relationships! Something I’m not the best at and I’m 62. Ruminating and not getting closure are my big problems. Thank you for such a candid show, as always.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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I've Always Loved this man I think that just grew even STRONGER!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
I am alone but there is a message for me too. Because my other side is me too. I was a widowed when I was 36 with 2 children. Now I am 68 Raised children by myself. After listening to him I learn I was always two not one. Thanks, it is amazing I can connect with him.I am totally committed to myself.
I love Dr. Phil. He’s a straight shooter and doesn’t sugarcoat anything. He tells you like it is!
@lewishowes
3 ай бұрын
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Work on building a healthy relationship and falling in love with the person that you see everyday, who has been through so much pain and heartache, but still manages to gets through it all.❤️ 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationship
I want to hear the 3 steps to find and build a relationship.
That was awesome 👌 thanks alot of great wisdom!!!
Such a sweet smart man 🙏❤
I love her and stand by her 100%. Well done you guys! You are fab. I tried to look after the relationship on my own and I do understand so well what it is like to have it black and white! You do not want control and dominance from yourself or the other one, but instead tries to understand, co-operate and flow through changes together in challenging times in willingness. Sincere conversation. The simple condition/agreement of intimacy of yours is worth gold and diamonds. No name calling. Be yourselves and grow together. Talk about things in private. Have the precious eye contact, call, text etc daily. Say I love you sincerely. Sometimes we need to admit that we have given it all, but it is not the right thing anymore. We tried and grew apart. Thank you so much for this valuable interview and added points of view..💞💐🌟👍♾
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you and your support🧡
Great reflections on Dr.Phil's interview. Spot on!! Thank you! Great questions to address in a relationship before it gets too comfortable. The other person muggy not have the same values, etc...
I totally agree!! I always loved Dr Phil.
Great interview.
Wow! Great interview, as always! Thank you 🙏
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
Fabulous interview!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
#relationships More of your perspective on relationships! I love them and have taken some of the things you said into my new relationship and it's been magical! It's the most powerful and healthy relationship that I've ever experienced.
Doctor Phil you mention your inside is different from your outside self, that helped a lot. Inspired me to adapt and grow
Fantastic guest, fantastic interview! Thank you! 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😊🌺
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡
Thank you Lewis & Doc Phil!!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Dr. Phil has a wealth of wisdom. I learned so much from listening to him. He is honest and tells it like it is. Love is wife too! ❤💫❤
That was such a good recap summary of Dr. Phil's points. Great elaboration, practical examples and guidance. Excellent. Thanks.
I’m happy to see they are together still 🌻🌺🌺🌺
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here!
Thank you Lewis for having Dr. Phil on your show. It was packed with practical, considerate and wise things to cultivate a good relationship and marriage. I enjoyed it so much and I always agree with Dr. Phil. He is such a wonderful person and man. I wish I had found someone like him in my youth, but I never did and I never settled and I'm alone now. In spite of it I have no regrets because I felt it was better to be single then stuck in a bad or abusive relationship and thats just not something I could do. Thanks so much for everything from this show that the two of you shared❣️
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Means a lot!!! Glad this was helpful for you🧡
Thank you for sharing this, very helpful 🤗
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Very useful and practical pieces of advice, thanks Lewis.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Thank you and Dr Phil...profound message.👊
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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This show was fantastic, Dr. Phil rocks. Thanks Lewis a great interview super questions. Loved it.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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This was an amazing watch!!!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was amazing. Took a whole heap of notes… 📝 Thank you so much & many blessings to you both!!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Yes 😊😊😊... I would love to hear more of your relationship videos...
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you and your support 🧡
Thank You, for the advices about don’t be to hard on yourself. Because that is my problem.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here!
Thank you for this interview!
@lewishowes
Ай бұрын
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Oh my ! I needed to hear this
Definitely enjoyed!! .. thank you 🙏
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Dr Phil is a lovely man. It's too bad most of the relationships don't have the qualities that it takes to really love someone. I hope one day I can find my Dr Phil and be happy.
Brilliant advices 💖💖💖
So true , Dr Phil has taught me sooo much 😘
Great interview..
Awesome Awesome Awesome!!!!!!
We love you for such videos Lewis...🥰👏🏻👏🏿👏🏼👏🏾👏
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you! 🙏
Love Dr Phil
Dr. Phil, you are the best!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Thank you Lewis,very helpful is are great interview 😊
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Wow, what a fantastic, heartfelt interview. Thank you, Dr. Phil, for your wisdom and transparency and Lewis, I love your laid-back approach to interviewing. I feel a lot of ppl can resonate with your content and learn to grow in their own relationships. Also, John n Julie Gotman has a great book called 8 dates. I feel everybody in the world should read this book! Before ppl get involved in sex up front, go read that book if you want a long-term, healthy, loving relationship! It gets👍👍.
Thank you.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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I think I live by similar way but I find it impossible to discuss or agree on anything with narcissists. How to share kids with one when you are financially dependable on him?
Fantastic video
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Brilliant session
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🧡
Thank you 🙏🏼
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Excellent recap!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
I like listening about Dr. Phil's life. I guess, I must like him and his wife very much. 🥰
Thank you for the awesome discussion, I have learned a lot from the school of greatness, you have had such tremendous positive impact on my life and the choices I make. 🙏I have become a better person.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Glad this was helpful for you🧡
A true lesson
This is awesome, inspiring, insightful, loving and absolutely beautiful. I wish I could be that person. I was inspired by ( Dr Phil) relationship model. Thanks for sharing both your wisdom. GBU
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Great topic and excellent commentaries.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
#yes love this content
Great show
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🧡
A ton of wisdom, foresight & insight is highly appreciated at this 🙌 time thank you Lewis and Dr.Phil. What is the driving force? In a highly insecure jealous vengeful couple? Then brings in a team to change the rules & not follow the instructions. Character assassinations to distract from truth and responsibility for financial deception.... still learning will be watching and learning from this one many times. Very scary if alone and your Mother dies 💔 can't thank you enough. 🙏
Nothing is like finding a true match in mutual love where a couple grow into eachother and not the opposite.
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
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Loved It!
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you🧡
Awesome 👍
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here!
Funtastic 🤠👍
Awesome so help
Best show ever
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
Love it 💜
@lewishowes
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Dr. Phil Neat Thanks Lewis
@AngelaSmith-di2uw
Жыл бұрын
Love you
@AngelaSmith-di2uw
Жыл бұрын
Thank You, Lewis for All your Love on Your Talk Show. Thank You, Again. What? A GreatHearted Spiritual Soul.♡