Stop Chasing LOVE & Do This Instead To Find Love! | Martha Higareda & Lewis Howes

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Martha Higareda is a Mexican actress, producer and screenwriter.
In this episode you will learn,
How to attract a healthy partner. Stop chasing them and do this instead.
How to identify your attachment style and why we’ve attracted toxic people in the past.
How to heal your inner child wounds and the amazing benefits of talking about values and vision before you start dating
How to set healthy relationship boundaries
Why “love is not enough” in a healthy relationship
What most people misunderstand about manifestation
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  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes Жыл бұрын

    www.netflix.com/title/81398899 - Watch Martha's new film Queens On The Run!

  • @marialara2648

    @marialara2648

    Жыл бұрын

    I am watching it today

  • @deesmoon3845

    @deesmoon3845

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s on my Netflix watch list!

  • @imyourvenus5480

    @imyourvenus5480

    Жыл бұрын

    What a Lucky Man, Lewis!!!!!!!!! She's Beautiful and Talented? What? You hit the Jackpot ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Cravenn5

    @Cravenn5

    Жыл бұрын

    Watching on Sunday relax time❤️

  • @dublingirl1691

    @dublingirl1691

    Жыл бұрын

    Just started watching it!! ☘️😁

  • @mkarasfilms
    @mkarasfilms8 ай бұрын

    "If you want to control somebody, get a dog." - She couldn't have said it best! I love her energy and wisdom!

  • @estherhirsch4460

    @estherhirsch4460

    2 ай бұрын

    Martha is so articulate and authentic. You've had the most amazing people on your program, but Martha is #1. Happy for both of you. Every person dating should hear Martha'swisdom.

  • @pinktink77vp
    @pinktink77vp2 ай бұрын

    I love this. I used to work with relationship coaches and I said it years ago, over a decade, that "you complete me," is SO Co-dependent it is NOT healthy. The healthy relationship is comprised of 2 independently complete people who love each other, get along, want to grow together, and CAN live without each other but don't WANT to. I love you guys. Thank you for spreading the healthy relationship message. We need more of this❣

  • @haifa7292
    @haifa72926 ай бұрын

    Dear Universe, a relationship like this 💗 thank you 🙏🏼

  • @leahcarandang9592
    @leahcarandang95924 ай бұрын

    I wish for someone to look at me the way Lewis looks at Martha. This is so inspiring. 😊

  • @tanyaangel142

    @tanyaangel142

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes, truly amazing. And she deserves that look completely! ❤❤❤

  • @ashlynnleray5640
    @ashlynnleray5640 Жыл бұрын

    Mature love is deep, healthy, and intentional. You guys have done a fantastic job highlighting this fact. What a beautiful conversation!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @7775OMEGA

    @7775OMEGA

    11 ай бұрын

    Totaly agree, such a nice points of view. helping other to grow.

  • @catherinedao1592

    @catherinedao1592

    4 ай бұрын

    That is s greatest ideas of Healthy and Mature Love. You have to be happy yourself then you have happiness to give to someone you love. Someone comes to your life just makes you happier not take away your happiness. You have to feel freedom in love not prison. Wonderful couple. Congratulations guys

  • @mariaandres2422

    @mariaandres2422

    Ай бұрын

    What a great conversation it makes me feel grownups.. I'm single and I'm not looking for love just waiting for the right time. God bless u both 😊

  • @carlareginaga
    @carlareginaga Жыл бұрын

    Look at your face Lewis 😍 you are so much in love. We can see it and it’s beautiful 💖✨

  • @LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj

    @LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj

    9 ай бұрын

    She is Amazing woman ,has a beautiful aura

  • @ABC-here

    @ABC-here

    8 ай бұрын

    They look so adorable together, were glowing and it looks just so perfect!

  • @malawigoldelephantmarsh6578

    @malawigoldelephantmarsh6578

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly what I felt! I realized when I was smiling ear to ear. I love that for them. 💗

  • @dusicaisalov5186

    @dusicaisalov5186

    7 ай бұрын

    We want part two of this episode:)

  • @hiroko_tarot

    @hiroko_tarot

    7 ай бұрын

    i like the monent u two say i love u to each other...😂🎉❤ makes me cry.

  • @angelieavenie5741
    @angelieavenie5741Ай бұрын

    He asked her, "why do women go out with the troubled man...as opposed to the healthy man?" A, she replied,, "I think it has to do with your past, it has to do your inner child...it has to do with unresolved trauma.... You start lookinng at your past". That is so relatable for me. Just recently, I reflected on my past fails and relationships & I realized the problem....that I never learned early on in life how to maintain a relationship.

  • @Alexaofearth
    @Alexaofearth7 ай бұрын

    I am Mexican and I love this woman! And I appreciate you two. Y’all make me believe in love again.

  • @JGallis

    @JGallis

    6 ай бұрын

    Love is always there, we just have to 🐝 mindful of who we choose to share it with.

  • @mtaya97
    @mtaya97 Жыл бұрын

    “You’re not my whole world, but you are a big gigantic planet in my solar system.” “You don’t make me happy. You make me happier.”

  • @carloss2202

    @carloss2202

    Жыл бұрын

    Lewis had to say exactly the same about she... but for a woman around 40 years old there is few chance to build a real family with sons only Cats and dogs

  • @teachyoureasy

    @teachyoureasy

    Жыл бұрын

    Yessss those parts!!!!

  • @lopezmartosl
    @lopezmartosl Жыл бұрын

    I loved the way he introduced her and the way he stared at her 😊❤

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @alejasalido303

    @alejasalido303

    11 ай бұрын

    I love that!!!

  • @liza.1888

    @liza.1888

    11 ай бұрын

    As if he was looking into her beautiful soul 🥰😊

  • @scolonia

    @scolonia

    11 ай бұрын

    I searching the same to me.

  • @DeniseShannon-sl6tc
    @DeniseShannon-sl6tc9 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Martha and Lewis, for sharing of yourselves so vulnerably, authentically and honestly. Please, please, please continue your conversation with Part 2. The example of your conversation: you "see" and "hear" one another. Beautiful. Thank you, thank you, thank you! The world needs to see what a healthy relationship between two responsible adults looks like and is possible for each one of us when we CHOOSE to work on healing ourselves, first.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    9 ай бұрын

    Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

  • @happilydivorced3235

    @happilydivorced3235

    6 ай бұрын

    Nothing is as beautiful as a healed couple.💚💚💚

  • @anamadrigal1111
    @anamadrigal111111 ай бұрын

    Que alegría años de seguir a Lewis y saber que comparte una historia de amor con Martha Higareda VIVA MÉXICO !

  • @yarahingutierrez6006

    @yarahingutierrez6006

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤ viva México 🇲🇽

  • @anasifitthesmarteatingcoac1441

    @anasifitthesmarteatingcoac1441

    10 ай бұрын

    Omg I didn't knew you guys were together! Totally awesome!

  • @lillyrocks82

    @lillyrocks82

    7 ай бұрын

    Porqué dicen "Viva México" por cosa que no. Pues si no se trata de la nacionalidad ,sino de lo persona, algo independiente, de dónde se sea. Él está enamorado de ella, como ser humano, no por una nacionalidad. El nacionalismo de algunos es irritante en un país donde mucho más de la mitad de la población vive en pobreza, el narco está a todo lo que da, gobiernos de gente ignorante, egoístas, corruptisimos, pero algunos viven en la burbuja de "no pasa nada" Mientras eso no cambia el "viva México" sale sobrando y es hasta ridículo. Y no es contra de Martha, porque ella sí es una buena persona, pero da pena cómo tienen a México la gente que ha gobernado y gobiernan (todos los partidos la misma mentalidad de robarnos,tener mucho poder y empobrecer a la población). Así que un "viva México" sale sobrando. Yo diría "empobrecido y corruptisimo México, no lo merecemos!!"

  • @claudelatorre6818

    @claudelatorre6818

    4 ай бұрын

    Que chingon!!!

  • @claudelatorre6818

    @claudelatorre6818

    4 ай бұрын

    Que chingon!!!

  • @Elizakmx
    @Elizakmx Жыл бұрын

    1.Rejection 2. Abandonment 3. Humiliation 4. Treason - Betrayal 5. Shame Inner child wounds.

  • @speakintothemicb

    @speakintothemicb

    11 ай бұрын

    Crazy when you deal with all 5 from childhood but are required to work through it alone as an adult.

  • @PatriciaTrueTh

    @PatriciaTrueTh

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@speakintothemicbthat is so true, I have always try to do the oposit in regard to hide who really am, I don't want suppleness to lie to me, therefore i son lie to them, i want to know the goals, the values, and with all that I'm struggling with the rejection i suffered as child

  • @MariaStFleur

    @MariaStFleur

    7 ай бұрын

    How to heal? Can I have her therapists information?

  • @shoirayusupova2198

    @shoirayusupova2198

    4 ай бұрын

    She said that her therapist is Nilda. Could be Nilda Chiaraviglio.

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    2 ай бұрын

    4:00 The concept of YOU COMPLETE ME IS WRONG‼️‼️❗️‼️ 5:40😆🤣😂🤣

  • @aleidagonzalez9558
    @aleidagonzalez9558 Жыл бұрын

    "When you're trying to change someone else, it says: YOU DON'T LOVE THEM DEEPLY"... I got the chills.

  • @theresacameron107

    @theresacameron107

    Жыл бұрын

    Why I am sending this podcast to many women I know! I’m all about not trying to fix or change others.

  • @aleidagonzalez9558

    @aleidagonzalez9558

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theresacameron107 Well, you may be trying to change the women you know? Nah, maybe it's just me projecting... it's a great podcast, share it to everybody.

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    Жыл бұрын

    SO true :)

  • @2009baglady

    @2009baglady

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m shooook!

  • @ivannagutierrez1009

    @ivannagutierrez1009

    6 ай бұрын

    Naahh mija la persona juzga no accepts y Esta solo usando su ego y el ego no ama es el opuesto Al amor 😅😅

  • @blissfulbaboon
    @blissfulbaboon10 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad Martha emphasized how important healing your inner child is. May you both have a long and meaningful experience together😊

  • @PameHdz13
    @PameHdz1311 ай бұрын

    I’d love a part 2!! Martha is soooo wise and I don’t think we in Mexico acknowledge it enough 🥹

  • @pattynguyen7167
    @pattynguyen7167 Жыл бұрын

    Would definitely love a Part 2. I didn’t think I’d enjoy this as much being that I’m single and assumed it was content made for couples. But I took away SO much valuable information and insight. The world desperately needs to see/hear more stories of truly healthy and authentic relationships.

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! part 2 please ❤

  • @karlamerriam

    @karlamerriam

    Жыл бұрын

    I echo this response to the T. Thank you!!!

  • @genna2586

    @genna2586

    11 ай бұрын

    Totally agree with a part 2! Very inspiring and heartfelt messages that really resonate. Please do a second part to include your 3:04 thoughts on how your journey is going.

  • @gabrielacastro6727

    @gabrielacastro6727

    11 ай бұрын

    Exactly!!! Really worth content ❤

  • @stephtoledo2327

    @stephtoledo2327

    11 ай бұрын

    Part 2 pls ❤

  • @amyg-money1892
    @amyg-money1892 Жыл бұрын

    Lewis & Martha, my biggest take away from this Interview is the Values & how we love ourselves first and also that without that Growth, maturity, experiences and alignment, it's almost impossible to have a Loving Balanced relationship. I related to the both of you SO much and I am grateful for you both!!! I am proud of you both! ❤️💜

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

  • @cos1beauty83
    @cos1beauty836 ай бұрын

    I wish I would’ve listened to this before getting married and having kids.. now I have no clue how to leave 💔😭

  • @emilyreitnauer8658

    @emilyreitnauer8658

    Ай бұрын

    I'm in the same boat. Have to trust the universe's timing.

  • @tavarez415
    @tavarez4156 күн бұрын

    Martha is so open talking about herself and her family members. ❤

  • @karissajones2294
    @karissajones2294 Жыл бұрын

    I’m only 23 minutes in, but I’m so happy for both of you to find this type of love, connection and maturity. The fact that you’ve both worked on yourselves as individuals is evident. ❤

  • @Jay-ef2ii

    @Jay-ef2ii

    Жыл бұрын

    @karissa Jones: Are you crazy?! I was into the first 5 minutes and I got the full picture of this messed up relationship. That woman will only drain him mentally and heart-wise. It's not about them but it's about her only. I believe that both parties have been married before, but it's a bad move. It's best if this host ends up with someone Young. Some one unmolested! California has so many women to date especially young ladies and he ends up with this old foggie. Really?! This is a joke! It's bad comedy. April 23, 2023. USA.

  • @DeniseShannon-sl6tc

    @DeniseShannon-sl6tc

    9 ай бұрын

    @jay- It's obvious, Martha's vulnerability intimidates your insecurities about who you are. Stay exactly who you are. What we don't change, WE CHOOSE. You will attract exactly who you are, which is the OPPOSITE of who Lewis and Martha are: a manipulating, controlling, dominating, insecure adult, reacting as a traumatized child in an adult body. I wish you the happy, fulfilling life of your dreams you so deserve!

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    2 ай бұрын

    Are they married?

  • @dimcg7445
    @dimcg7445 Жыл бұрын

    I met this two at the Dr Joe Dispenza's retreat. I get the chance to hug them. Both of them are humble. Martha is super sweet! I manifested Lewis to see at the retreat and it happened with the plus. So grateful to see them! 🙌❤️🙌

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    🧡

  • @ceciaosorio2331

    @ceciaosorio2331

    Жыл бұрын

    I would love to go to those retreats!

  • @dimcg7445

    @dimcg7445

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ceciaosorio2331 You won't regret it! Best happened to me!

  • @1216miriam

    @1216miriam

    11 ай бұрын

    Do you recommend the retreat?

  • @dimcg7445

    @dimcg7445

    11 ай бұрын

    @@1216miriam i would! It help a lot of making the right decision. When you're there, you will be sorrounded with so much energy and love. You will heal that way coz everybody is in the same page!

  • @sarinagold1869
    @sarinagold18698 ай бұрын

    Her voice is so sweet! Love the healthiness of this relationship

  • @michellethechallenger747
    @michellethechallenger747 Жыл бұрын

    Love this conversation!! As a Mexican I admired Martha a lot as an actress, however as a person a lot more 😘 Amazing couple 👏🏻❤️

  • @lawrencefox563

    @lawrencefox563

    Жыл бұрын

    Her English is first rate .

  • @marthahigareda8

    @marthahigareda8

    Жыл бұрын

    Muchas gracias !!! :)

  • @thelastninja4825

    @thelastninja4825

    Жыл бұрын

    you are a fool then

  • @ayselrzayeva9466

    @ayselrzayeva9466

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marthahigareda8 💗

  • @lucyreyes6726

    @lucyreyes6726

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Soy su fan!!

  • @4evercath
    @4evercath Жыл бұрын

    Please invite Martha to your show more! She's so wise, eloquent and on the point! I learn so much from her, maybe even more than from some of the other guests. :) It is also very sweet to see how a successful relationship/marriage actually looks like through both of you when there's such a marriage avoidance culture among men in the US with the 50% divorce rate like a horror fable story. I love her metaphor of having your own universe and the love partner is just one of the bright star in it, at the same time, we need to accept to just be a bright star of our partner's universe as well, not the sun, or the whole world to our men/women, so very different from the dragon slaying stories/movies where men have to risk their life to save us.

  • @user-ze6mf8ni8s
    @user-ze6mf8ni8s11 ай бұрын

    I am Mexican married to an American woman. Same like you, but the opposite. The biggest challenge we have had has been the cultural differences. I was raised and educated in Mexico City and she in the USA. I would love for you guys to do a show about cultural differences and how to deal with them. How have you done so that your cultural differences do not affect your relationship?

  • @KarlaGarcia-rs3oi

    @KarlaGarcia-rs3oi

    4 ай бұрын

    I totally agree

  • @Majesty12-12

    @Majesty12-12

    4 ай бұрын

    Cultural differences will be just that always different, unchanging. You just adapt to that and go with the flow of things. People always identify with their cultures and upbringing, its not something that changes overtime. This is why its important to first evaluate if cultures differ if that's something your willing to be accepting of in the other person. Tradition and culture always shows in people. It's best to refrain from getting involved with someone that you can't accept their culture because there's always disagreements that will happen and you can't change someone else for yourself to be pleased.

  • @aplik881

    @aplik881

    4 ай бұрын

    Hi friend, it is not something easy to anticipate contrarily to what the other answer said. We learn on the go, feel stressed, misunderstood or whatever by thw other person reaction, and it takes time to figurw out that these oppositions are in dact different perspectives. However this is cultural and this is as well individual, becaise ain't each if us building our own culture in a way, even inside one or several culture. So it get ti the same point, see the other person take away as alternatives in this world and not fundamentally something against our views or personal. How you guys have been doing with tjese differences? One love. We are on one Planet you know,we can work it out

  • @lilmermaid2930
    @lilmermaid29304 ай бұрын

    Everything she said resonates deep within my soul!! Values are so so important!! I always try to change the person thinking I’m helping them! I want to love someone unconditionally and for who they are! I am manifesting someone who loves me for me! 💙🌌💫

  • @anchaleeintac.2195
    @anchaleeintac.2195 Жыл бұрын

    MY take aways: 1. Put yourself first (specially your health), 2. When you don’t feel secure in your relationship, you begging trying to control the other person, and that may come from not feeling good enough yourself, if they betray you, they weren’t the person for you, 3. Everything is information, is not personal.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @elisaramosrodriguez3212
    @elisaramosrodriguez3212 Жыл бұрын

    He seguido a Lewis ya por varios años y me encanta su programa y sabía que tenia una relación con una Latina ❤ pero jamás creí que fuera con Martha Higareda 🥰♥️ Felicidades a los 2. Que orgullo que una Latina sea pareja de este hombre increíblemente talentoso que nos trae siempre información invaluable al alcance de todos. Martha cuídalo!!!! Ya me siento súper orgullosa de ti ♥️🥰

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate you and your support🧡

  • @jacquelinereyes5109

    @jacquelinereyes5109

    Жыл бұрын

    On the contrary he got way lucky with Martha. Either way, I wish them the best of love. It is cute to see Martha with a man that enjoys learning to be a better person, and that too has his own podcast. Please treat Martha right. I want to see her live the happily ever after!

  • @NathanlovesAna

    @NathanlovesAna

    Жыл бұрын

    Muy bien dicho Elisa! Pienso lo mismo ❤

  • @aracelihernandez5221

    @aracelihernandez5221

    Жыл бұрын

    😱😱😱No sabía esto que dices,neta, qué fregón esto ,Miles de bendiciones para ellos .Me tiene con boca abierta la Martha ,muy bien ella ,él ,súper genial ,ya lo veía antes ,ahora lo veré más a este hombre divino .

  • @patriciareddy

    @patriciareddy

    Жыл бұрын

    No se dice Martha cuídalo, sino "Lewis cuida a Martha", más bien debe ser mutuo.

  • @barbaraeulayne
    @barbaraeulayneАй бұрын

    I would love a part too! I turned 70 last July and ended a marriage of 33 years. This information is so valuable as I would like to one more time be in a loving relationship. You guys are awesome! Thank you for sharing this valuable information!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Ай бұрын

    You're welcome! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @user-kp2nw8jd2r
    @user-kp2nw8jd2r5 ай бұрын

    Wow! I’m Mexican-American. I was fallowing Martha Higadera and Lewis independently way before they were together. Seeing them together is very joyful.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you! Your support means a lot🧡

  • @lotusdedart
    @lotusdedart Жыл бұрын

    I loved seeing her love for you Lewis, everyone deserves love, but you especially Lewis. You've given so much to people and are always growing into an even more amazing person. Thanks for the interview Lewis ❤

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @win05

    @win05

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I do. This is very informative and both of you are open and honest 😊

  • @soulprintslifecoaching
    @soulprintslifecoaching Жыл бұрын

    I don't understand how this doesn't have a million likes and views yet. Thank you for putting this out there. It has helped me tremendously!! Definitely want to see a part 2.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

  • @irmamakrevski5652
    @irmamakrevski565222 күн бұрын

    6:00 38:00 he is yelling, not yelling at me 43:00 59:55 choosing everyday other person 1:21:00 happier vs happy

  • @jayelle1102
    @jayelle11022 ай бұрын

    For anyone wondering… the 5 wounds she is talking about is from a book : Heal your wounds and find your true self by Lise Bourbeau. In french: Les 5 blessures qui empêchent d’être soi-même.

  • @tnns4l287
    @tnns4l287 Жыл бұрын

    I did not have any idea how much this episode would help me as I navigate my own life... please part 2. Martha is amazing with her words

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @antoniavasile63

    @antoniavasile63

    Жыл бұрын

    Yess I clicked on the video out of curiously and ended up going back several times, taking notes and realizing my wounds and those of my loved ones 😮❤

  • @cynthiatat
    @cynthiatat Жыл бұрын

    YES - I love Martha's insights. Please bring her in for a regular segment 😊

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    Жыл бұрын

    yes, agreed!!

  • @Ciskuss
    @Ciskuss6 ай бұрын

    Man, she's stunning, intelligent and deep. She has not flaws and imperfections from listening near 2 hour of this podcast. It's really easy to love a woman like her. How to love deeply if the woman is not perfect like Martha? 😅😅

  • @dharaneemartinez4796
    @dharaneemartinez4796 Жыл бұрын

    I was so happy to see that you’d be interviewing one of our great Mexican actors and ecstatic when I learned of your relationship 🎉 I rarely post comments, clearly I had to make an exception. The love is off the charts! 💕 Thank you for this and all of your interviews 😊

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @kellytaylarkarim1608
    @kellytaylarkarim1608 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this talk! Martha is a freaking boss standing in her personal power in a way that awes me!!! Yesss please to parts 2,3,4,5!!!

  • @marthahigareda8

    @marthahigareda8

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kelly!

  • @claudiafegari5116

    @claudiafegari5116

    Жыл бұрын

    I second that, Kelly!!! :) I would like to add the end brought tears to my eyes, when they expressed their gratitude, sharing what they have learned from each other so far... :)

  • @dianabrenes777
    @dianabrenes777 Жыл бұрын

    Martha!!! You go Girl!!! You are my definition of an "EVOLVED WOMAN" THANKS FOR BEING YOU ❤!!!!

  • @LL-fc5fo
    @LL-fc5fo5 ай бұрын

    Hour 1:20:32 WOW maturity is clear. No need to fight for being a priority. Your cup is full and is willing to give naturally. ❤❤❤ best convo guys! Thank you! Martha explaining the protection and safety is so true! I am in charge of my safety no one else!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching!

  • @user-gt3oc1sr5b
    @user-gt3oc1sr5b6 ай бұрын

    I actually applied her advice to the friendships that I have often found challenging to carry on.

  • @Theconsciouslife888

    @Theconsciouslife888

    6 ай бұрын

    What did you do,I am facing same ?

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    6 ай бұрын

    👍

  • @zealiabella8553
    @zealiabella8553 Жыл бұрын

    It was just so inspiring to see the two of you reaping the fruits of your individual inner healings. You both have modelled what a healthy relationship looks like. Two people building each other up and celebrating your own uniqueness. I would love to see another video of you both sharing your experiences and wisdoms. All the best to you both.💜

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate you and your support🧡

  • @johnlombardo7816
    @johnlombardo7816 Жыл бұрын

    Yes!! Not only do we need a part 2.. this needs to be a regular segment please !! So amazing! You guys are a wonderful representation of the meaning of love. ..matter of fact ... .please get you Two and jay and radhi together for a monthly episode please ❤❤❤

  • @drchen6424
    @drchen642411 ай бұрын

    She is one of the most insightful relationship experts I’ve ever seen you interview. And she wasn’t even introduced as a relationship expert! Thank you for sharing her greatness with your audience. I feel that could have been somewhat scary and intimidating for you too. It took real cajones to expose to the world what a smart and wise woman she is.

  • @glovazquez5865
    @glovazquez58656 ай бұрын

    Martha is an old soul that has awakened

  • @Sliickriick
    @Sliickriick5 ай бұрын

    When she said that a man doesn’t feel like he’s enough even though he gives the girl everything. I definitely felt that. My ex would told me I wasn’t enough plenty of times. Until now I had it ingrained in my brain that I’ll never be enough for someone. Jaa now I know that it’s not me it was her. Gracias

  • @maribelmarini2819
    @maribelmarini2819 Жыл бұрын

    1:37:13 I’m 55 years old, married and with 2 children and I never realized how important was to work in knowing myself before get to know a partner. The key work in the art of happiness and in the successful life is working in our inner child wounds and be clear who you are before to choose anyone to share the life with you. This was kind of masterclass for teenagers to adults to thinking seriously how to build healthy relationship . Felicitaciones a los 2 por su excelente ejemplo!!!!

  • @virginiaherrera9321
    @virginiaherrera9321 Жыл бұрын

    You guys give me hope and faith that real love does exist. Please do this more!

  • @user-wh8jj5xl5d
    @user-wh8jj5xl5d8 ай бұрын

    Yes! Please give us a part 2! Loved it!

  • @JenniferLett2011
    @JenniferLett201111 ай бұрын

    Bawling my eyes out at how open and loving this was. So helpful and absolutely life-changing for me to see two independent people love each other so openly and in such a dynamic way. Really inspiring conversation with two humans who have learned to love themselves, help others, and align with their person. So cool.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

  • @aysandunga_3762
    @aysandunga_3762 Жыл бұрын

    Vine aquí a decirte que este es el amor que todas merecemos y me da mucho gusto que lo estés viviendo!!!

  • @plentyoflife

    @plentyoflife

    11 ай бұрын

    el amor, las finanzas, las casas, autos, ciudades, sociedades, TODO SE CONSTRUYE, nada se merece

  • @gra_mandalasmandaleandoando

    @gra_mandalasmandaleandoando

    11 ай бұрын

    Todo lo que podemos ver dentro de nuestra realidad es porque es posible, y ellos vienen a mostrarnos que es posible para el que lo ve ❤

  • @ivyfariassantos

    @ivyfariassantos

    8 ай бұрын

    Sí! Todas nosotras merecemos ese tipo de amor. Eres para nosotras tambien. Universo, mostre para nosotras.

  • @mar_dma

    @mar_dma

    6 ай бұрын

    @@plentyoflifetienes que saber y sentir que lo mereces antes de construir, si no se derrumba.

  • @dididodi652

    @dididodi652

    4 ай бұрын

    Espérate que huela el primer pedo asqueroso que se tiren y veremos si aún siguen así.. Ellis están con la enfermedad del amor. No ves defectos . No ves más allá del futuro.. no ves cosas que te molestan del otro y el otro no lo he en ti.. aún ella tiene progesterona y están en la etapa de procreación... Espera pase eso y muy muy pocos se quedan juntos.

  • @TheSweetValentine
    @TheSweetValentine Жыл бұрын

    5 inner child trigger wounds: Rejection Abandonment Humiliation Reprimanded/Anger Treason/betrayal

  • @minervadejesus3993
    @minervadejesus39938 ай бұрын

    Definitely part 2. Totally loved this!

  • @14tintsstudio
    @14tintsstudio7 ай бұрын

    Yes!! Looking forward to part 2.Thank you for this amazing episode Lewis and Martha! So much to think about! Would love to hear more.

  • @bff4877
    @bff4877 Жыл бұрын

    I thought Lewis will propose in the end of the interview 😍 you are both fortunate to be with each other ♥️❤️

  • @estelagarcia2338
    @estelagarcia2338 Жыл бұрын

    Ojalá traduzcan al español ésta entrevista porque ella tiene muchos fans en México. Por favor 🙏❤

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    We try to translate and add videos frequently so please keep checking back here: kzread.info/dron/FCK798jsVokM5oRvBi9asA.html

  • @hugoed6239

    @hugoed6239

    11 ай бұрын

    Aprende inglés!

  • @jerrynette24

    @jerrynette24

    11 ай бұрын

    Hola Estela, puedes activar el closed caption (CC) en el video, y luego configurarlo para que se auto traduzca al español (auto-translate), casi todo lo que dicen lo capta y te lo traduce en automático y así puedes tenerlo subititulado :)

  • @Sandyfan1000

    @Sandyfan1000

    11 ай бұрын

    Existe el perfil de Louis Howes en Español y allí está ya la entrevista.

  • @angievera2985

    @angievera2985

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jerrynette24 kzread.info/dash/bejne/lJyXq89yqbCZYc4.html

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose965 ай бұрын

    Love your episodes! Always something new to learn!

  • @kimberlyrowell6812
    @kimberlyrowell681211 ай бұрын

    YES YES YES. The content was exceptionally relevant, helpful and authentic! Your on screen chemistry together is infectious! More please!

  • @consummatel
    @consummatel Жыл бұрын

    Yes part 2 please! What a beautiful example of two humans loving each other deeply and supporting each and choosing each other to adventure in life together! I was emotional at the end when they spoke in gratitude of each others love ❤ what a beautiful example to follow in my own relationship❤

  • @LoveeeeelyM
    @LoveeeeelyM Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely we need a part 2 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I loved this episode! Sent it to a bunch of people and took notes. Thank you so much for this incredible gem 💎♥️🫶🏻

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

  • @PatriciaTrueTh

    @PatriciaTrueTh

    11 ай бұрын

    We will love the second part, certainly is plenty of wisdom, and for that i want to thank you for helping this human to be a better person. ❤

  • @priscillaplatania
    @priscillaplatania8 ай бұрын

    Yea a part 2 is needed! You guys are SO inspiring and beautiful

  • @morticia2904
    @morticia29048 ай бұрын

    This is what a healthy, healed, emotionally mature relationship looks like thank you.

  • @jessicahe7535
    @jessicahe7535 Жыл бұрын

    Encore please! Part 2, 3, 4, 5, and so on!! We need more conversations of knowledge and wisdom with Lewis and Martha! Thank you for sharing your healthy love relationship

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @annettebicer7555
    @annettebicer7555 Жыл бұрын

    When she described the romantic comedy sounds like Codependency ❤

  • @NAmade-xb7kx
    @NAmade-xb7kx10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for all the wisdom you shared!

  • @linapoilna
    @linapoilna7 ай бұрын

    Yes to part 2! Please and thank you!

  • @angelikajessa3213
    @angelikajessa3213 Жыл бұрын

    The way Lewis look at Martha ❤️❤️

  • @barbaraclayton6053

    @barbaraclayton6053

    Жыл бұрын

    They are so exquisitely beautiful 🤗

  • @anaisaerksen
    @anaisaerksen Жыл бұрын

    What a great conversation, thanks for sharing! I'm 38 and just got out of the most unhealthy/toxic relationship I've ever been in and find myself in so much of what you're saying. This gives me hope. You seem to be a wonderful couple. All the best to you! Would love to hear more.

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @SoNiiCkx
    @SoNiiCkx Жыл бұрын

    Bring on Part 2!! Wow what an amazing conversation. Made me realize so much and reflect on all the entire conversation!!

  • @monicaavila6471
    @monicaavila64717 ай бұрын

    Yes I definitely want part two on love and relationships you both are great 😘♥️

  • @Vi_Vi_1
    @Vi_Vi_1 Жыл бұрын

    These types of things are so important to me because they help me have hope that these good relationships can exist. After a lifetime of abuse and trauma, I'm really working on healing and reframing things, and stuff like this is such a gift on my journey, so thank you

  • @barbaraclayton6053

    @barbaraclayton6053

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow this is awesome VV! It takes a hell of a lot of courage to face your shadow-self and heal the wounds that keep you and happy. I have done much can't sing in group therapy for myself and now I love myself unconditionally more everyday and I am so very deeply grateful that I had the courage to do it. ! Because it is worth it to be able to see the world in a whole different perspective 💕🦄💕

  • @Vi_Vi_1

    @Vi_Vi_1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@barbaraclayton6053 Thank you Barbara! May we both continue on this path and create wonderful lives!

  • @boygates6511

    @boygates6511

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending good healing vibes!! ❤

  • @PennyNelson
    @PennyNelson Жыл бұрын

    Thank you both. What an extraordinary conversation! We should be taught this in school. ❤ So many people are children of dysfunctional relationships. How far we have to go.

  • @ainatler

    @ainatler

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree! We need this type of education in the classrooms.

  • @yvettesantillanes

    @yvettesantillanes

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thing I said! This would be great in school.

  • @PrettyNiftyLLT
    @PrettyNiftyLLT7 ай бұрын

    Yes, please do a part 2! 🙏

  • @mariag.luevano5478
    @mariag.luevano54787 ай бұрын

    Yes, part II please!! 🙌

  • @aungar2403
    @aungar2403 Жыл бұрын

    You both hit the jackpot!

  • @bryancorrea303
    @bryancorrea3038 ай бұрын

    Yes I would really appreciated it. I look forward to part two. Thank you so much for all the insight and amazing information about relationships and love. Thank you so much once again two you both.

  • @angelaartspractice3710
    @angelaartspractice37106 ай бұрын

    Loved this! Martha is wonderful 💕🙏🏻✨I feel inspired by her gentle nature x would love to hear more from you both 👏🏼

  • @angiecarrillo793
    @angiecarrillo793 Жыл бұрын

    Me encanta la química que hay entre ustedes, definitivamente este es el amor que toda mujer debe tener, me encanta como se miran y como se admiran. Que Dios los bendiga 🙏 y que llegue a mi un amor así de bonito como el de ustedes ❤.

  • @nicoleharper9239
    @nicoleharper9239 Жыл бұрын

    This conversation is incredible and just what I needed to hear!! Part 2 100% yes!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @christinebrisley007
    @christinebrisley0077 ай бұрын

    Yes to part 2. Found this video really insightful. Thank you both ✌️❤️✨️

  • @tihigreen
    @tihigreen7 ай бұрын

    Yes please definitely want to hear more!!!!!!!!

  • @v9b23j
    @v9b23j Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful and mature conversation. Lewis and Martha, you embody the conscious couple.

  • @adrianaaagaardsommer3466
    @adrianaaagaardsommer3466 Жыл бұрын

    Martha for president!❤ I’ve learned more about the way I react in relationships from this conversation than I have during the last twenty years and I have worked hard on myself. This conversation explained so much for me. Thank you love birds ❤

  • @betzytrujillo8554
    @betzytrujillo855411 ай бұрын

    Yes I want part 2!! Great and interesting conversation, congratulations!!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @user-vi3re9wr3o
    @user-vi3re9wr3o2 ай бұрын

    Have fun in this world can’t say you’re gonna have it in the next

  • @mheaf8948
    @mheaf8948 Жыл бұрын

    Yes I want a part 2! I learned a lot from this episode. ❤

  • @stephaniearistei
    @stephaniearistei Жыл бұрын

    Yes, we want a part 2!!! Pretty please, this has been so insightful! Thank you both so much for sharing your experiences!

  • @dayesch1
    @dayesch111 ай бұрын

    Yes, we need part two please, has been so delightful to wartch this episode.

  • @cquinonez1
    @cquinonez17 ай бұрын

    I truly enjoyed this conversation. Both of you are great! Do it more often!😁

  • @peggyannpilgrim9703
    @peggyannpilgrim9703 Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I wanna hear more!

  • @talhyoblitas1602
    @talhyoblitas1602 Жыл бұрын

    You guys are great together!!.....this episode is fantastic 👏🏼, so many of us thinking about finding our other half 😢 when in real life first we have to find ourselves ❤

  • @deborahmoura7761
    @deborahmoura77618 ай бұрын

    Love this so much! She’s so wise ❤

  • @luzi6509
    @luzi650911 ай бұрын

    VERY INTERESTING, PART TWO IS DEFINITELY REQUIRED! ❤

  • @jodyamsberry460
    @jodyamsberry460 Жыл бұрын

    Yes absolutely need and want a part two👏👏👏

  • @Starofdaseea
    @Starofdaseea Жыл бұрын

    Martha is such a sweet heart, you can tell she’s done a whole lot of inner work& other things to grow as a person. I love her heart based words!

  • @rosepetals1117
    @rosepetals11177 ай бұрын

    Yes part 2 please..this was a great interview!

  • @lewishowes

    @lewishowes

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @lesleysze6712
    @lesleysze67127 ай бұрын

    Yes, please continue with another episode 👏

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