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@ikrammghalghal4730

2 жыл бұрын

请问，我很好奇你那个加的小视频像在 8:50分和27:10分是从哪里得到的？

The best Chinese learning content on KZread by miles!

@mime3761

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely. This one video in particular was the most interesting thing I've watched here on YT in a very long time.

Because the topic is so highly emotional, the pace of learning quickens and improves. Thank you Ellen and guest Sharon for this wonderful learning material. I think a cup of ‘joe’ should also get credit for making this video a resounding success as well 👏

Good learning material... Sharon brought an intelligent, sensible and fair analysis of this complex and difficult topic. Violence and abuse is never the right way to deal with conflicts. It comes out of emotional immaturity that is either inherited or learnt from poor examples. It happens in every culture and every country and is only improved when more mature people show better examples of how to deal with problems.

@heavensent88

2 жыл бұрын

What they don’t talk about is how much of feminism plays a role in domestic violence. When Sharon said that domestic violence is on a downward trend she is most likely referring to last year’s statistic and not from say before the feminist movement. Besides the case with mental disability I’m sure the other females have one thing in common. If random men are committing domestic violence than we should ask if the violence is directed at a certain type of women. If you don’t talk about it how will you know what kind of daughters you want to raise. I am definitely not down playing or defending those who commit violence on their partners….they should be severely punished. Domestic violence doesn’t solve family problems but preventing domestic violence doesn’t mean it’s not a broken family.

@morejoy5188

Жыл бұрын

@@heavensent88 Then perhaps feminism is a factor in domestic abuse where society is controled by male domination in both law, and espescially culture. It is well known that in China the woman is second to the man. Therefore, the role feminism plays in domestic abuse is bringing it out into the open and helping women have tge courage to speak out. This doesn't mean that China is worse than another country such as Taiwan, Europe, Japan etc etc but it is hidden by a one party state that tries to make everything in China seem like heaven. The foreign shills are guilty of this and I should imagine that the average Chinese person lnows this is nonsense. To sum up, femi.ism in no way is a factor of domestic abuse unless you want to state that women being Educated is the result of feminism and therefore Education itself is the culprit of male to female domestic violence. Domestic violence as Sharon and Eileen discussed is institutionalised and has the potential to increase under circumstances of financial pressure, lockdown, and societal norms that make it difficult gor women to report. I feel you are mixing up concepts.

@heavensent88

Жыл бұрын

@@morejoy5188 You obviously don’t know that feminism of yesterday and today’s feminism contradicts each other. When feminism began it was about equal rights and protecting females from getting exploited. Today it’s about females having the right to be sluts without being called out for it. If you haven’t participated in a “slut walk” maybe you should. Do you want to tell your daughters that it’s okay to be sluts? Where are you going to draw the line from your daughter having the right to be a slut and some rich and/or powerful man exploiting your daughter? Feminism claims to free women from house chores and that they have the right to go to work just like the men….but someone has to do them. House chores are no different than chores at your job…if you don’t have a designated person for that chore then it’s going to cause confusion, arguments and fighting. And now you are advocating to punish the men for winning the fight. You’d rather take orders from some strangers who will give you a few dollars than to take care of your husband and kids….and then you have the nerve to talk about how much you love your family. If men don’t let their wife and daughters be sluts then they don’t love them. Many more men have sacrificed their lives for their family than women and now you want them to still do that and do the house chores. I could go on forever pointing out your wrongs but I don’t want to ruin your life.

I wouldn't be as far as I am in speaking Chinese if it weren't for the WEALTH of materials and presentation methods you make available. You not only teach but you teach us to teach OURSELVES. A great presentation on such a difficult subject. I always learn alot when I listen to your videos.

Many mixed emotions after having watched the video. On one side i’m so glad about this video and it’s content, since i’m learning so many new words and expressions, on the other side, some of the stories being shared are truly heartbreaking. At least (as you mentioned in the video) it’s becoming less and less common. Good video nevertheless!

I am not just improving Chinese through your videos, but I'm learning new vocabulary in English, too. Thank you.

I'm not even fluent in English, I'm learning but I love this channel cuz I wanna learn Mandarin too. Great contents!

Whilst all the examples in this interview are awful and, indeed, violence in general is abhorrent, I felt particularly revolted by the poor Tibetan girl. Absolutely appalling, it nearly brought me to tears!

Watching a random video from Canada of two Chinese ladies and they share my mothers and grandmothers names. World is shrinking.

One of the best channels to learn intermediate Chinese. I enjoy the series of podcasts very much because it always talks about the most interesting topics concerning Chinese society. Of course, it's very useful to learn real Chinese. Kudos to you, Eileen, and your team. By the way, Eileen and Sharon both have southern accents, one Jiangxi, one Guangdong, but they speak so clearly that it's very easy to understand. From my perspective, if you have the trouble of speaking Mandarin as a northerner, you can definitely try to speak like a southerner, it's much easier. I'm a southerner too, hahaha.

谢谢你们，谈到这些话题时，很多人会未免太肤浅了，你们却是把这个话题汇报的非常完整，精辟地分析了这个现象的方方面面。

Fantastic content as always! I especially liked how the guest speaker brought up famous news cases in China, as well as specific changes to the law regarding domestic violence. It really helps give me a view of how China is progressing.

A new podcast!! thank youuu this is my favorite content of yours

@FilipP88

2 жыл бұрын

btw I just watched it until the end and it was interesting as always. The girl used some advanced idioms and a few advanced words while explaining so it was very helpful and nice to learn new words. P.S. I'm still craving for some more 儿化音 speakers haha

Thanks for bringing this content! Domestic violence was not less before , it's just being reported more and more, women are having more courage to talk about it. In Brazil every week you see a case of domestic violence and murder of women .Although the law exists it isn't enough to protect women

Sharon's spoken chinese sounds really top of the range. She is very well spoken and sometimes slightly more difficult to understan than the usual guests joining yoour podcast. It sounds pretty much like advanced level at this stage but it is still a great practice. keep it up. Ian From France

@nicoleraheem1195

8 ай бұрын

She sounds More educated and formal than she does "advanced. " Any form of Chinese used on this platform should be considered as advanced for Chinese language learners who are only at Hsk4-5 levels.

Thank you so much for this video! I missed a lot the podcasts (the topics are very interesting and the audio quality makes them very pleasant to listen to) and the walking around series (so fresh and original), hope to see more of them in the future. 🙏🏼😀

Many great concepts, vocabulary and very well spoken. I'm on the verge of a breakthrough with my listening comprehension of Mandarin: I can feel it!

This video was so informative and great! Thanks to Sharon as well for having done so much research and being so well-informed on the topic.

Want more of this! These podcasts are great!

I learn so much about Chinese culture not to mention vocab from your videos in a way that feels very relevant to my interests! Thank you so much!

I love when you publish these - thank you!

Eileen i find your channel fascinating! Your videos are so informative, thankyou for all you do!

I find these podcasts extremely helpful so thank you !!!

Finally new content! Great as always, been waiting for this. Keep up the good work!!

still the best. Thank you so much.

When I lived in China I heard it going on above me, to the side of me, to the other side of me... (especially at night as I was lying in bed). Mostly yelling and screaming, but also occasional thumping and banging (followed by wailing). It's a lot more widespread than people think. Maybe I noticed it more there than in other places I've lived because everyone lives in such close proximity, and the walls are not well soundproofed. I think work stress and financial stress were probably the main causative factors (this was before the pandemic). It's a world-wide problem, thank you for addressing it in such a mature manner!

Thank you, I love listening to this while walking outside, and it helps maintain my Chinese level! I am donating now at Patreon.

@mime3761

2 жыл бұрын

Never made a Patreon donation before, don't even know how Patreon works but I might very well try here. This channel's just exceptional.

很重要的话题，非常好！

Because the topic is so highly emotional, the pace of learning quickens and improves. Thank you Ellen and guest Sharon for this wonderful learning material. I think a cup of ‘joe’ should also get credit for making this video a resounding success as well!

Love this new topic!

thankyou very much for pinyin and english subtitles! Helps a lot with studying

simply the best!!

Damn, I have to admit, this one was really tough to follow because there were a lot of unknown words for me. However, I am excited to come back in a year or so and be happy to understand way more than I do now :)

Excellent video and your guest speaks very clearly.

谢谢老师！

Thanks for making this video. This is really informative and interesting to learn about

Amazing channel!!!!!

great thanks

Amazing content!

I like this video bcs it was film 2020.. not 2019 or 2018, so it was fresh!!! I liket thesee

@redminoteee5446

2 жыл бұрын

yes, u say that true.. we really support needed and await ur new video aileen, especially at 2021.. 😍😍

THIS ALL BREAKS MY HEART 😢😢😢

great video and useful vocabulary

Thanks for the video. Really great language and culture learning content. On the topic, I very much doubt that any one nation is immune to this domestic violence epidemic. Too many of society's destructive views and attitudes are deeply ingrained in our societies, and they are really hard to shift.

thank u for the new podcast , wait it so long

You're great

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谢谢

This is the first time Ive encountered nue, and I already understand HSK4. I never even knew this nue pinyin existed.

This is one of the channels who uploads so much great content that I am struggling to watch it all!

Thanks! Great content 对我来讲，其实你做伟大的事情

谢谢您的视频不但学到新知识还可以提升自己的中文水平。🙏

Wow a great topic , happy to see it is being addressed in china too. I had the experience of trying to report a domestic violence happening in china and the police would not even go to the people door even though it was very loud and obvious as to what was going on. the world has a long ways to go but in the end things will work out. thanks for doing topic that all societies can learn from.

Very interesting. I just read the English subs while listening out for Chinese words I could follow. I think you Eileen and your business assoc. Sharon do a great job tackling these social issues which may otherwise be exposed by an anti propaganda source. That is to say, I think many issues you cover are 'swept under the rug'. Language wise I wanted to ask if there might be another way to become a member as I don't feel safe using Wechat. Of course, for those who live in China Wechat is the main app but if you live elsewhere then maybe not. Do, what about paypal etc?

@MandarinCorner2

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback, Morejoy. Yes, you can use PayPal. The following link provides more information on donation options: mandarincorner.org/one-time-paypal-donation-2/

Nice video

Great video, your content is second to none. The content in this video was very valuable, it is important to discuss such issues. Perhaps you could consider the topic of disability for your next video? Most Chinese people I meet have a very limited understanding of people with disabilities.

That story about Fang Yangyang was really sad, It's hard for me to understand a family not havin the right to protect female relatives, especially closely related ones, daughters, sisters, first cousins. I am from the Southwest United States and am familiar with 1st, 2nd, and 3rd generation American families of Mexican descent from both sides of the border. In general, men marry into her family, and she usually has several brothers who are watchin out for her.I know 2 men who hit thier girls, the 1st, her brother and uncle beat him badly, the 2nd, her brothers caught him alone and really beat him bad, her brothers showed zero mercy. As sad as the story is, I really appreciate this and your other videos. I started learnin Chinese 2 weeks ago and can now say 11 simple sentences. I listen to your videos and tiktok popular Chinese music, I think its bubblegum music, its easier for me to make out the words. Thank you Eileen for this content and thank you to your guests also!

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✨new podcast✨ hooray

The video says there are approximately 4.26 million victims of domestic abuse in China every year. To put this number in perspective, US domestic violence statistics report 10 million victims every year ( ncadv.org/STATISTICS ) China has a population of 1.4 billion, giving us an estimated annual domestic violence rate of 0.3%. The US has a population of 328 million, giving us an annual rate of 3%. In other words, domestic violence is 10 times more widespread in the US than in China. Similiarly, according to evaw-global-database.unwomen.org/fr, the rate of "Physical and/or Sexual Intimate Partner Violence in the last 12 months" are: - Germany: 3% - France: 5% - UK: 5% - Italy: 6%

@alicesenz6374

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah no I was genuinely surprised when she said that. Either the statistics are too low or China is actually much better when it comes to the issue than other countries, maybe a mix of both.

We are the same. Period. I will never believe otherwise. Incidently i have 3 technically jewish kids, 2 hispanic kids (in spain) and 2 asian grandkids. Can someone explain to me what the difference is? I do not understand. I know 50 computer & 11 spoken languages yet I do not understand why (,usually. But not always) men hurt their partners. That is sick, but women do it too. I know from personal experience.

Can you make more videos with Sharon?

First, thank you for a very educational video. Second, a comment on domestic violence in other countries. We have similar problems in USA. I know of several instances where women were beaten by men and they kiss and make up, only to be beaten again and again. Regarding China and USA differences, married people in USA usually live separate from their parents and in-laws, so violence from in-laws is minimal. When a woman marries and lives with her in-laws there is so much potential for conflict and eventually abuse. Hopefully that is changing with better education of women. One other difference between USA and China, sadly, is the amount of guns in USA. Too many domestic violence incidents end up with women being shot and killed by an abuser.

Thank you Eileen. What about religions in China ? Who are confucianist, christian ? What is the position of the state ? People are free to chose their religion ? Keep going!!

@lizexi7115

2 жыл бұрын

the position of the state is pretty leniant if you just attend state churches, temple and practice the religion in ur own corner but you are not allowed to form group, cults or build new temples or churches without state permission

I like how you are being honest about these social problem. Unfortunately they exist are a part of society but only by talking about them and confronting them can we successfully tackle them Please talk about the drug problem in China such a heroin and ice addiction. Like in the west I understand China has areas where every family has a family member addicted to drugs. Would be interested to know the Chinese view on drugs, popular drugs among youth and attitudes and acceptance of them etc

incredible video! so well spoken and movingly discussed by both of you

This video teaches us to open your eyes widely. There's no such a perfect relationship like chinese drama. So be grateful if you find a good man as your husband. Dont complain if your husband is a kind man even if he isn't romantic at all.

Can you start learning mandarin on this channel or is it for more advanced speakers?

@trianadiapasha4151

2 жыл бұрын

See her profile on KZread bro, this is for intermediate lvl

@Xallarxo

2 жыл бұрын

Nadia bro, is there any good channels for beginners on YT?

@traceya573

2 жыл бұрын

@@Xallarxo yoyo Chinese and ShuoShuo Chinese. Also Slow Chinese

❤️❤️❤️❤️

This one is quite difficult. Lots of new words

@neptonio

2 жыл бұрын

Her previous ones were more difficult!

sharon的口音有点儿unique

A bit sad to hear this kind of story. I cannot finish this lesson.

?! In America domestic violence may be directed at the husband by the wife. As a child I saw my mother physically abuse my father many times. He mostly lived in our basement to avoid her. I never saw my father ever strike or abuse my mother; he would just walk away from her. It was like that til he shot himself thru the head in our basement (he was “shell-shocked” (PTSD) from WWII). I was married to a women who convinced me she was abused by her first Husband. It didn’t take long before I realized she was the one starting the fights with her X. I was assaulted many times by her but most I laughed at her and walked away. She was only 106 lbs and certainly no physical threat. My mother was much more vicious. I saw her trying to push my father down aiming to make him hit his head on the sharp corner of our piano. I also seen her try to push him down the stairs to our basement; a dirty fighter. She was overweight at about 160lbs. I grew up w/ sisters and knew to never hit a girl.

Ohhhhhh nooooo. Stay Safe Girls.

Awesome content, thanks so much. I am a European and I chose to stay single and don't mingle with men! Too dangerous, not worth it, and in a relationship, women too many times sacrifice themselves and 付出更多。please how to get the transcript of this important video ?!

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oi como vao voces, falam portugues tambem? salve

我两年住在汕尾 🔥

If you want to know the domestic violence trend, all you have to do is look at the divorce trend. You can say that domestic violence is two people fighting to stay together when they should have just let go. domestic violence is a symptom of a broken family.

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Is this a language learning channel?

刚刚再抖音看了。我觉得她说得是对的。在约会的时候，可能注意小小的详细，比如说他生气的时候，喜不喜欢丢东西？喜不喜欢诅咒？

你好中国人。 我在中国也见过水灾。 我向死者家属表示哀悼。 我们有125具尸体和750人受伤。 许多房屋开始下沉或倒塌。

Still can't watch from the wechat

@MandarinCorner2

2 жыл бұрын

Now you can. We uploaded just now.

姐姐谈论公司中的主题吧，我认为在这边很多人是在公司工作，可以收到多生词及了解华人的公司

@MandarinCorner2

2 жыл бұрын

我们有做过关于business的视频： Visiting a Factory: kzread.info/dash/bejne/q6B8j7h-f5ivkrQ.html Business Vocabulary and Sentence Examples: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g56Xr8eaZKrFn9Y.html Six Cultural Aspects to Consider when Doing business in China: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eWajsqWlntKwoMo.html

really cool to think , but a little quick or my grama not high enough to hear that quick xD

@MandarinCorner2

2 жыл бұрын

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US Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or resources at www.thehotline.org/

No matter what one should never abuse another person in no way or no how because it is wrong and when people abuse someone it damage,hurts,destroy and kills people,in China man and woman should have the same rights,who give the men/women the right to abuse one another this is wrong and if the government,lawyers,judges,police and the suspect does not do something to correct their cruel actions all of them should be held accountable because they have the power to do something about it and did nothing.All those leftover girls and women should not be looked at differently or treated differently,do you know how that makes a person feel,all these things is wrong,if all these bueatiful,strong,brilliant,hardworking girls,boys,women,men who built and who is living at present in China tolerates domestic violence,abuse and discrimination then what's the point,why are we here what are we doing.

我覺得打妻子的丈夫應該有一些資源可以去求幫助。需要一些系統可以幫助他們應付壓力，控制傾向，要不然下一個情人也會收到暴力.治標不治本. 還有他應該有一個紀錄，就是說，在過去有報告這種暴力行為的話，他的紀錄會一直給他人隨時能夠知道，這樣也會讓他打之前好好想想他行為的後果

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It’s annoying that not enough people talk about domestic abuse against men just because it’s perpetrated by women

If you need police to solve family matters then it’s better to just let go. The best way to solve family problems is to have the parents talk to each other and if they can’t come to the same solution then they should come up with an exit plan. Using police as the main solution for family problems is only digging a deeper grave.

Sharon 是一个美女

You're wrong that domestic violence is more common in the rural areas than in the cities. Psychical (passive) abuse is as fatal as the physical one, and in the cities there is much passive abuse fueled by lust, pride and love of the world. In general, the more populated a city is, the more miserable it'll be.

Great podcast, but in general abusive men will reveal their true colors within months of dating. They don't abuse because of stifled emotions or too much stress, but because they know that violence and anger outbursts will cause their wife to spend every waking moment working to please him to avoid his wrath, so the men end up with a live in slave. Since that's their ideal relationship, they aren't going to waste more than a year playing nice when it would be much faster to find a more insecure and easily manipulated girl to date. This is according to psychologists regarding the vast majority of abuse cases, at least.

I believe that each partner should aim to outdo the other at being selfless, caring for, and pleasing each other. Hold your wife/husband in the highest regard and always try to build them up. One of the _many_ reasons for women to submit to the men in their lives is because men have always protected women. As a man, if your wife or another woman is undermining you or chipping away at your masculinity - whether publically or in private - it can affect you in a range of ways. From simple embarrassment or danger at that moment to serious identity struggle and lack of confidence in social situations if it continues. Why would you want to weaken your own tower? Initially, I disagreed that a woman should obey her son (if her husband dies) as she would her husband or father. It seemed like a cultural idea that might be out of place today. But after thinking more about it, I believe it's right. The son should always respect his mother and her advice but ultimately he should be shown as much respect as the amount of responsibility he takes on - which is continuous because his role is to become the head and protector of his house. A woman's role is to hold him up. A lot of people won't like to hear that, because their views of the idea are tainted, but it's true. Defined roles just work. Look at nature and at history. The opposite is chaos and lack of productivity. The only reason people disagree with the idea at all is that bad men have abused women and made them desire power and freedom. The problem isn't in the concept though. It's in people. A traditional family unit where there's love is the best. It's when there's a lack of love that things fall apart. Love isn't about romance or attraction, it's about choosing to put others before yourself. Mark 12:30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. 31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these. Your neighbours are all the people who live around you. Jesus, God's spirit in the flesh, demonstrated this by serving people all his life, washing his disciple's feet, dying for all of us, and praying for forgiveness for those who mistreated and killed him. He showed that the highest person is the one who lowers himself the most. That same man will judge all of humanity one day, yet he humbled himself. Likewise, the man is the lion of his household but should be gentle as a lamb with his family. Again, I'm sure people might take issue with me quoting the Bible, but there's nothing more apt and true to quote because it's all routed there. The origin of the Bible is the origin of life. It's the answer to all of our problems.

This lady sounds Taiwanese, where is she from?

@ruben7801

2 жыл бұрын

Guangdong

Domestic violences is a world issues. Happened in every strata of society, no need to focus on China, western nations has the most divorce cases.

我不想结婚了。。。

@Maharaaja.

2 жыл бұрын

没有 三从四德 的女孩都不想结婚

在农村男人感觉打老婆并不是一个可耻的事情！ 真的吗！？