My goodness being alone is EXTREMELY ADDICTING.

@meghan3835

Жыл бұрын

I agree 💯

@TheBlissCatalyst

Жыл бұрын

I can relate!

@onlypositivevines4498

Жыл бұрын

Can u explain what are you saying about alone ?

@Seelmeyer1

Жыл бұрын

@@onlypositivevines4498 she means it's exhausting for her to have welcoming energy for men.

@cindersmolloy6584

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, I love it!

My mother taught me this a LOOOONG time ago. My friends always ask me where I find guys or how come I always have a date every weekend when 😂. I keep telling them keep a pleasant attitude on the inside and it’ll show on the outside, have a formula of outfits that always look good, and GO TO THINGS SOLO!

@tuinov6286

Жыл бұрын

Date every weekend? I think we found the town bike. Everyone will have a turn. Then no one will take you seriously. Great job.

@vxvnw

Жыл бұрын

you kidding right? thats not funny

@CS-bu7lo

Жыл бұрын

​@@tuinov6286 Dating doesn't mean sleeping with them, but spending time with them to know them better! I had thousands of dates, but only slept with a few, in long term relationships! As for gossip, it can happen even if you are a virgin and don't date, jealous or rejected people will try to slander you, and if anyone believes them without proof or talking to you, those are fools or people that were looking for an excuse to dislike you...

@tuinov6286

Жыл бұрын

@@CS-bu7lo I really don't care about your dumb opinion. Not a single man will take you seriously. They will use you and thats it. But go on have fun ,,getting to know" people.

@Mr.Helper.

5 ай бұрын

@@CS-bu7loyou a proper garden tool

I always go out alone for anything, I never depend on anyone to go with me. The reason is, I can make my own connections without anyone interrupting me, like joining the yoga classes alone, going to conferences, seminars etc. Plus point is no one knows me, who I am. I can potrait a New and different "Me" . It's more like experimenting and knowing human psychology.

@Elven.

Жыл бұрын

Omg my favorite hobby

@theawesomestlovenlife14

Жыл бұрын

nice!

@userNOTfound1-3

10 ай бұрын

Me too

I noticed that men react super favorably when a woman wears a skirt or a dress, because it is such a quintessential feminine outfit. Especially a midi skirt, the one that hits in the middle of your ankle, screams CLASSY femininity. And wearing small everyday heels. Your entire attitude, your image, the way you walk change when you wear feminine outfits. Also, wearing your hair long. It is a true woman’s treasure, that’s why in ancient times married women hid it under the scarf. Really long hair is ultra feminine. Men also DO like perfume, jewelry and make up, but when it is tastefully done. Especially lipstick because it screams WOMAN. If you want a guy say stupid things and constantly stare at your mouth - wear it deep red, but any shade that is two-three shades deeper than your lips with some red hue to make them more lively is perfect. If you really really like some guy who is too shy to approach you, walk past him and drop something. Like a small scarf, an old credit card or whatever. He will be happy to pick it up and give it back to you. Women have done this trick for eternity. Or appear in need of help, as if you’re looking for something, etc. Let him notice that and help you. Men LOVE to help, especially if they find you attractive. In fact, this is exactly how they fall in love - when they can do something for you and feel like this hero. And be always of positive feminine energy. When you yourself find yourself feminine and attractive, other people sense it too. This energy makes you stand out in the crowd and attract men.

@cindersmolloy6584

Жыл бұрын

Sound advice

@jasminealexia

Жыл бұрын

Yes I too have noticed man irresistibly drawn to me ESPECIALLY when I were the midi dress or skirt! It is my FAVE!

@soyearold

9 ай бұрын

**** You are so right . I'm happily married and I still go out nice and chic even in summer and I still get all kind of invitations. Long time ago an old man sew me every Friday morning at the Park and very soon we become friends I mention I was married and with time we connect to the point that he was asking me if I had a sister o some single girlfriends to introduce to his 2 nice sons, because one was Lawyer and the other was a busy Engineer and they didn't have time to met nice ,classy ladies for serious relationship.

@HenrySimmons1225

3 ай бұрын

As a guy, I hate makeup, you can't speak for everybody, I hate perfume too, mainly because I'm allergic to most perfumes.

@taliatut

3 ай бұрын

@@HenrySimmons1225 there is “no make up”make up look that ANY man would pick over zero make up thinking that it’s her natural state and such perfumes and ways to wear them that you’d think it’s just the way her body smells. I was talking about that - always looking put and smelling good. I am sure you’d prefer that even with your allergies. You probably wouldn’t even know.

This is so spot on and has worked for me just as much in many of the times I've done my errands alone! Another few pro-tips are to do your shopping/errands/leisure in an area/neighborhood that is known for classier or slightly upscale patrons and community. Don't be hasty or rushed in these places, enjoy your day and your time. The fit jeans or even a summer dress, light dainty jewelry and "clean girl/woman" make up gets them every time! In my experience as an unusual attractive woman, men prefer the approachable girl/woman next door vibe than the bombshell. And this last one is going to sound silly but... Try to keep energy in these places that has an air of a whimsical Disney character. Not over the top but just literally keeping a light smile on your face, a polite hello to strangers- men or women, kindness and conversation to service workers/cashiers- because these Men, especially high value men are watching. I had a man I talked to briefly keen in on a fun conversation I had with an older cashier at a lovely French cafe. I teased him saying "Eas dropping are we~" and he commented something like: How could I not with a woman as warm and attractive as you. It takes practice but then it becomes 2nd nature

@theawesomestlovenlife14

Жыл бұрын

sweet! thank you

I have eaten, shopped, keep myself kept together, traveled, go to places alone in the past and I haven't been approached 🙈

@thedonitalian1923

Жыл бұрын

Make eye contact. I have many women smile and look down at the floor. You act like we’re psychics

@cristinaorlando2408

3 ай бұрын

Neither have I and I’ve been doing those things for years lol

@MichelleG333

Ай бұрын

Do you smile and say hi?

Alone and attractive - check and check Welcoming - my social anxiety says no🙁

@lonelyplanet2021

Жыл бұрын

Me too! I'm pretty suspicious 😁

@AllyPenguin

Жыл бұрын

Same, I avoid eye contact at all costs 😅

@jennifermoulden5182

Жыл бұрын

It would be helpful to know how to do this with social anxiety.

@yellaninpoppin9919

Жыл бұрын

Doing it enough times, breathing exercises. Never fully vanishes but you'll grow. I have extreme anxiety with crowds, walking near Men, big cities- moved to huge cities globally to combat it. Sure, I still suffer a little but it goes away after I immerse myself in a book, or email, lunch, etc. And the staff and other Men approach and flirt. I made new international friends, and will look back fondly knowing I was scared as shit but still did it.

@daveplem

13 күн бұрын

Introverted women draw me like a moth to a flame. If you will just TRY to hold eye contact for an instant too long, I’ll notice, and I’ll take over from there. You will love having an extraverted partner! If you are ever forced to go to social events, I will be by your side, allowing you the choice to interact or not. I’ll become your shield, and it’s completely natural for me. Sure, I’ll ask you probing questions that might have you asking yourself why you are revealing so much information to this guy, but I’ll make you feel safe so you have no regrets about letting yourself open up and trust another person to that level. Introverts are not shy with people they know and trust. Look carefully. If someone looks trustworthy to you, they probably are. Trust your instincts. Humans have a tremendous ability to accurately judge others based on appearance. It’s not a perfect skill for anyone, but it’s what we’ve got. And most of the time you will get it right, so muster up a bit of courage, and smile at someone. Then don’t grab your stuff and run away! Let something good happen first!

Your videos have really helped me with getting over this guy who basically played with me but still I was stuck for months and couldn't move on. Watching your videos made me reflect and think in a more practical and realistic way. Now I know there are some changes to be made in my personality for my own good. I sincerely Thank you!!! ❤️

@intergalacticbnb

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽 I love to see it!

@solidcatink

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it is difficult to handle when we are sincere, open-hearted, and desirous of true love.

Being Alone is thé New luxury

@ramparkash2318

Жыл бұрын

Neh emilia. Ur are saying not good.

@mrmonique7

9 күн бұрын

really 🐒

As a man, I have to agree with this video 100% as she gave some really great suggestions.

@karishort1891

Жыл бұрын

Are you just playin'? 😄😄😆😉

I'm a man but this should be useful to women. One of the things you should do is not make finding a partner your main focus when doing activities that you enjoy such as walking or going to a restaurant. When you make it your main focus it may make an activity that you enjoy feel stressful and less enjoyable which will make you look less approachable so its better to just pay attention to what you wanna do and what this does is make you appear more natural and not like a desperate [REDACTED].

I usually never get approached by the guys I'm attracted to, it's always the one's I'm not interested in that do. And yes women are allowed to have preferences and can't force attraction.

@thedonitalian1923

Жыл бұрын

Women are also in better careers. Make the first move. Y’all don’t need to sit around anymore and wait for a Disney storied caricature to come sweep you off your feet

@thiswillhurtt873

6 ай бұрын

All those degrees, money and power of doing yourself and you still can’t approach?

@Tonytayloring

2 ай бұрын

Its the response that you gave to those you aren't attracted to 'creep! Harassment! Go Away! Who Are You To Talk To Me! Shame Him On Tiktok! Livestream To Your Girlies!', thus those you're attracted to felt the pinch and stayed away..

@Tumadre1989

2 ай бұрын

Usually, when a woman is attracted to a man, she becomes shy, because he's intimidating to her. It's hard for her to make eye contact. She becomes very nervous and very quiet. Basically, her body language shows absolutely no signs of interest. Which is the only thing a man has to go off of in that moment. When a woman is around a guy she isn't attracted to, there's no pressure. She doesn't care what he thinks of her, so she is free to be her normal, bubbly self. Which is what men are drawn to. This could be why the men you want don't approach and the men you don't want do. A man absolutely will approach if he thinks he has a good chance of getting a date. I don't think you need to do any approaching, I just think you need to get better at being vulnerable. A woman's greatest asset is her smile. Give those guys a flirty smile and that should improve your luck.

@vshah1010

13 күн бұрын

A woman can use non verbal signals to signal to the man that she is interested. A signal will make it clear to the man that you are interested in being approached. Then, it is up to the man to approach you. One rule that always applies is the he woman should never approach first and the woman should never speak first.

i only get approached by men who are not my type or who are creepy

@RubiscoTalks

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@fatubakarr9649

Жыл бұрын

May be how you dress. And styles. I have even noticed certain hairstyles attract certain men

@farhathsulthana3863

Жыл бұрын

Same here😞

@cheekymonkeygirl3378

Жыл бұрын

Same here. 😢

@solidcatink

Жыл бұрын

same here

Ladies this is all fine and good , however be very careful of your surroundings when you are alone too many things can go wrong with out expecting it ( such as rape, human trafficking, verbal or sexual abuse , getting mugged etc. ) travelling alone is not safe either be very respectful of the countries traditions and customs. ( please dress accordingly) Ladies be very aware and alert of what you put your signature too. Been there done that, i am here to advise you my lovely ladies.

I actually get approached quite a lot but not by the ones I want 😅

@kerridillon911

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to my world 😐

@simplyb6575

Жыл бұрын

Ikr.

@farhathsulthana3863

Жыл бұрын

Same same 😂

@lady2342002

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@peacefreedom4930

Жыл бұрын

Are you put together in the way that the type of men you want would be attracted to? Are you putting yourself in proximity to those men?

More videos more frequently please! You create the best quality content on this subject

I do everything alone! It comes naturally to me and also I have no choice because I have no friends lol 😂

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

@jackroyston3263

Жыл бұрын

its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

@haynesatteh4463

Жыл бұрын

@@jackroyston3263 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@jackroyston3263

Жыл бұрын

@@haynesatteh4463 her name SHELLY RENEE WHITE, you can look her up online, she is the best spiritual adviser she helped out in such a difficult situation.

@haynesatteh4463

Жыл бұрын

@@jackroyston3263 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

I really do all of these things sometimes I hate how I look easy approachable by men because I’m a very nice person so I don’t know how to say no in these situations 😅😅

@thedonitalian1923

Жыл бұрын

Women have no problem dismissing or laughing in my face when I approach them

Excellent video.

Lovely vid+tips🙂Kindness always pays.

So so happy to see your videos…. Look forward to more and more relevant videos that will help all of us clear all doubts with men and relationships ❤️

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

I am so glad!

@farhathsulthana3863

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

i hope a lot of women see this your advice is on point

Ha ha.....been doing this for 20 years. No one approaches me.

I'm already doing all of that alone but no one approaches me I guess I'm just in the wrong country (Japan) lol

@debolina55

8 ай бұрын

but why Japanese men do not want to approach girls?

Where's the second part to ''Why do man chase when you get distant'' ? I put the boy on the freezer and am waiting for the rest of the video to take him out !

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

Keep him frozen and get some fresh meat!! He's freezer burnt!! Lol

@kerridillon911

Жыл бұрын

@@gwortman3515 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@solidcatink

Жыл бұрын

lol

this works so so much bcs i remember i was sitting on a bench alone, a lot of people approached me well some of them didn’t but they smiled at me or had an eye contact with me. i even made friends with the guys that approached me they’re very nice and welcoming, i actually look very good that time so i decided to go out alone ❤

All Factssss!❤️🔥

Hi! Thank you for your wisdom. I LOVE all your videos. When are you planning to post the second part about giving distance?

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

Very soon. It's the next on my list.

@liljane543

Жыл бұрын

@@Theblackswan55 YAY! :)

Well the question is that whether the quality of these men who approach to you is good. Some of them are just frogs

Very nice tips,Simple and Possible..::🌟❤🎀💕

i do things along most of the time, but i don't go out often. I do look presentable when I go out, but i mostly wear casual clothe that also aren't relly feminine, like t shirts, pants and tennis shoes. I try to be nice and smile at people most of the time. I've never been approached by a man.

@erinmichele613

Жыл бұрын

Feminine clothes are magnetic to masculine men. Maybe try working on your wardrobe?

@dian277

Жыл бұрын

@@erinmichele613 good point

@keykey2738

10 ай бұрын

It doesn't make a difference what you wear, just be yourself. I have been approached by men wearing scrubs, wearing my hair in a ponytail. A man will approach you if he likes you.

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

​@@keykey2738Just because a man likes a woman doesn't mean he's going to approach. I never approach women I find attractive.

I inquired about not getting approached to friends, they suggested that perhaps people assume I am already married as it’s typical for my demographic

@kayjeffs3741

Жыл бұрын

That could be true...if they're assuming you're married then that means that you're giving off wife vibes...but...in my experience...if you're doing the things she's laying out in this video...they'll ask if your married...

Thank you 💘

The first thing is not totally true. I’ve been aproached a lot when I was with a group of friends and socialized. But the last 2 ones are mandatory. I’ve been approached often when I looked my best and didn’t care about being approached, but just enjoing the moment

Very true👍🏻👍🏻

Thank you

Thankyou for your videos. How do you then find the balance between being nice and welcoming and not too being too nice? I find that most man im not really interested in, i’m in a cool, calm and collected state but then there’s this one, the one I could actually see myself with and he asks me out. I don’t want seem too nice since I was once in a situation where I was the one that was mothering him, he needed it and used me for it. I was too nice. In the end he cheated. I never want to go there again. Do you maybe have any tips on finding that balance? I know it takes self worth and self trust and I do think that I’m on a good path here (your videos contribute a lot). Maybe you can help. Thanks so much again for your good advice! Best xx

due to my trauma, i still cant be warm and welcoming when got approached by stranger. yes i need to work on me.... thanks for this tips...

@Tonytayloring

2 ай бұрын

Oh that's fine.. Nice to meet you, I am sorry to disturb you..

❤God bless you

Finally some good female dating advice. Sometimes it really is that simple. (Still requires effort, but simple)

I do all these things alone but nobody approaches

I APPROVE AS A MAN 👍

🍻🍿🍻🍿🍻 *A-Z* *2:10** Go alone* 💥💥

I pressed with the megaphone today I told her to "get the hell out of Texas"

This lady is on point. I can’t say that about many but this one seems to get it. Don’t think us men are going to approach you nowadays though. It takes two to tangle

Just be careful when you go out alone, you could be preyed upon by men who don’t have your best interest in mind. In my honest opinion I would just wave or say hi or ask for help for something, even if it is small for the man you are interested in. I would think that most men like helping a damsel in distress, but you have to ask for it, most men will just move on because they don’t want to be labeled a simp or a creep. Another tactic you can use is just ask him simple questions, start a small conversation with him and he will start to think that you like him and always remember to be safe and never be alone with a man you don’t know, always be in public, surrounded by people and I would get pepper spray, a pocket knife, something to defend yourself in case he turns out to be someone crazy.

I feel like women are limiting themselves by not even approaching the guy. As a guy I would appreciate if the woman I was attracted to would come talk to me at least once.

I already do these things,

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

Then start approaching

I don't feel anything wrong in approaching a guy. Atleast the known ones. I feel you just need to be yourself. Let them know what you are the direct, carefree one or the submissive one. No judgement but it's your choice....just be independent and do it for yourself not just to please someone....

@shieldoffaith7099

Жыл бұрын

Ummm, I hear what your saying, although I am not sure about that because if he is known to you already i guess he would know if he likes you or not and if he does it is unlikely that he's going to let you get pass him without shooting his shot...Also if a stranger you will never know if he would have choosen you if you hadn't approached him. I personally think both put women at a disadvantage and set the tone for a relationship that you may not want long term. Namely, you taking the lead and being unsure where you stand. Personally, I believe positioning yourself as available allows him to have the adrenaline rush of pursuing if he is interested with indications from you that there is chance of success.

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

​@@shieldoffaith7099let her approach the guy. Most guys don't approach women they're interested in.

I’m sorry I disagree with you being alone these days is a way for a predator to approach you and take vantage of you. I was approached by my husband future husband, and was with two other co-workers which were women he had no problem approaching me. We live in a different society today. I rather be safe than sorry.

@hybridangel3403

Жыл бұрын

she did say be with no more than 2 people so you do not disagree

@judyperri9496

Жыл бұрын

I feel safe alone If you give out a vibe of being a strong, independent women you won’t have a problem

@laleezy77

6 ай бұрын

This is my issue. I feel vulnerable doing some things alone due to predators..but other things I feel confident ..

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

Your husband is not every man.

I don't see anything wrong in making first step. And it for sure doesn't low my/none value

Are you wizardliz??

I would like to ask... What's most important for a man in relationship... Physical attraction or character?

@ektaanturkar806

Жыл бұрын

it should character because physical attraction wont be beneficial for a long run. trust me i used to do all these always got approached by wrong men now i have come to a state that i dont get approached atall and idk whats wrong

@shonalishukla2987

Жыл бұрын

@@ektaanturkar806 I agree with your thoughts... And also it's really painfull to handle these situation when they left us alone

@ramparkash2318

Жыл бұрын

@@shonalishukla2987 . Someone left you alone. It's so sad. God will do better in future. .Believe in God.nd stay strong.

@ramparkash2318

Жыл бұрын

@@shonalishukla2987 . Good evening.

Can you do a video where almost all women approach the man?

how to be approched online

I did all these and still nothing. 😂 maybe i am in the wrong place.

❤️✊🏻👑🙏

Yuk. Me iwant to avoid them 🤧

You can make the first move but then you as a woman lean back so that he can lead..Remember the feminist movement are destroying woman and men are going their own way because of it. The world is changing men are suffering, make your move. Smile , say hi Make sure you dress nice and feel confident. She is right I go to places by myself a lot and I get approach more.

@judyperri9496

Жыл бұрын

The feminist movement only intimidated the men we don’t want anyway I want a man that appreciates a strong woman , not some little woman in the kitchen

Psychos approach if you are too welcoming 😢

😂😂😂😂 Have NEVER needed a trick or formula to get men to approach me. That's truly funny

yup, this is nothing new

Just by being in the age group 16-22 years old and you'll be very much approached...

@lavishlovergirl

Жыл бұрын

False and that's creepy

@cindersmolloy6584

Жыл бұрын

Correct, and I would extend that to ladies in their 20's. Make hay while the sun shines.

@lavishlovergirl

Жыл бұрын

@@cindersmolloy6584 😂as long as you look attractive you are going to be approached. Your age is not usually written on your forehead

@cindersmolloy6584

Жыл бұрын

@@lavishlovergirl Very true. I am much older now and have no trouble, but when I was in my 20s and when I looked that age I was inundated with men.

@lavishlovergirl

Жыл бұрын

@@cindersmolloy6584 there shouldn't be any rush in life especially with men and marriage lest you make bad decisions. 30s is best for settling down

Don't be such an "Emmanuel KANT." *THAT'S* how.

Shy men like myself don't approach women. It's time you gals make the first move for a change you might be in for a pleasant surprise.

@LeJimster

14 күн бұрын

Agreed, I've always been shy and I would never pick up a stranger. For me I have to get to know the person I'm interested in a little before making any kind of move. I'm sure there are some good guys who can approach women but I feel like you're more likely to find it's the guys who just want to get laid who will approach random strangers.

All women are beautiful. If you are not feeling so please go to the gym. Never overdress, it shows u r stuck up or too eager. All love 💖

We have 2023. Women are allowed to vote, to work, to be soldiers and they are allowed to approach men first, especially if they otherwise complain that they are always approached by the wrong men. You have your fate in your own hands today, don't throw it into the mud.

You should approach men, men like being approached everytime

It sounds like a whole lot of work just to catch a man ... Nice hair, nails no split ends, dress classy, etc. Most guys barely shower every other day but women are expected to be perfect. Two thumbs down..

@debolina55

8 ай бұрын

sadly or reality anything u can say but this is the rule of this world. A girl is only wanted when she is beautiful and when a man is rich🤷‍♀️

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

Stop it! Men are the ones expected to approach, take women out on dates, practice social skills, gain confidence and hold doors. We're expected to do a lot. And if you go out with a man that don't shower, then that's your problem. And if you have a problem with this dynamic then you can do the approaching instead.

@NebulaSon

29 күн бұрын

It's men who have to do all the approaching, take women out on dates, hold doors, and drive the car. We men have to do all the work and get no credit.

No it won't, quit fooling yourself.

What a load of crap

Go into a dark alley alone.