1. Become obsessed with yourself. 2. Be youthful/playful/light-hearted. 3. Egocentric women win. Invest in yourself. 4. Have self-confidence. 5. Embrace femine movement. 6. Flirt with him / eye contact, etc , show hints. 7. Let him see you from afar; let him see you from across the room, or doing hobbies in front of him, etc 8. Ask him for his help, or his advice, make him feel needed /useful. 9. Show excitement & joy when he does something for you. 10. If you have a passive man , do not push or be aggressive, become more passive like him. 11. Be mysterious. 12. If you just met, do not think he is looking for a wife right away. All explained in the video, thank you so much Margarita! 🥰

@happyheart8888

7 ай бұрын

thank you for this. Heart to remind me if these 💗🎀

@trisham22333

7 ай бұрын

@@happyheart8888 You are very welcome, I wish you the best in your heartfelt journey!

@Harry-fk5of

7 ай бұрын

Totally agree with a lot of these as long as they're genuine and not just being done superficially to bag a guy. Just don't play games and be manipulative. Some of these pointers could encourage someone to cross that line. Become your best self and you'll attract someone awesome. Most guys won't say anything at the time, but we can see way past the bs. Don't try too hard. Nothing really fools us.

@GoodVideos-ry5ie

7 ай бұрын

As a guy I will say good points, but don´t overthink this, be yourself. Also British women need to switch out their wardrobe, often it is just too slutty. It is better too look refined and feminine. Also, be careful sending out the "princes vibe", he may interpret that as you being high maintenance or difficult. Bossy feminists are a no go. Confidence in women is not really that important for a man, as long as you are able to send him a sign you are interested. Prince charming is not going to show up at your door, so go to places where you think those guys hang out, shooting ranges, pub, diners, supermarkets, specialized shops that sell things like fishing gear or tools etc. The good news is he does not care about your employment or education, so don´t let that stop you. And there is never any good reason you should be sitting on a toilet in his presence!

@paulineearle526

7 ай бұрын

Be your best self...have your own interests. How much pretending can you do. Be you. But your best you.

Focus on you and the focus becomes you.💗

@alizjean8970

7 ай бұрын

100 agree

@merlionkingdom

7 ай бұрын

Periodt❤

@angie2205

7 ай бұрын

Very profound

@Theonly_Onyx

5 ай бұрын

I am a man and I agree 💯. I teach my clients both men and women this.

@Annabella6x

5 ай бұрын

Amen girl

I stopped listening to other relationship gurus as they make me feel hateful and controlling towards men. You teach me femininity and the power that comes from that. Thank you!

@Margarita.Nazarenko

7 ай бұрын

Men are wonderful. ❤️🙌🏼

I tested this and it works! The more I am busy with my hobbies, friends, trips etc, the more men are into me. I think they are more fascinated with my enthusiasm and passion than with me 😂😂 There is something magnetic about people who enjoy living and I think they just find this spark in me and cannot leave me alone 😅

@ameerajackson2639

Ай бұрын

I’m so happy you found found 😅the the 😊way too 😊 7:52 am in my office is not

@Golf2foto

Ай бұрын

100%!!

Becoming obsessed with yourself works 100%

@IB4UUB4ME

10 сағат бұрын

However, never think more of yourself than is needed, then it turns lemony. 😉

I just love how she is. She’s authentic. I’m a body language expert. Her pontification, overall body language, look in her eyes, etc exudes no nonsense, hard facts, truth.

As a man I love these videos. I would suggest for women watching this to be aware that, for some men such as myself, coming off as too independent is a major turn off. As someone looking for a working professional, if you come off as so independent that you aren’t looking for companionship and I’m a secondary item in your life, then it can easily come off as emotionally unavailable. I want emotional availability. Vulnerability and trust. Being independent but willing and wanting to spend time with a new partner given a level of earned trust is very attractive. Too hard to get is exhausting. For what it’s worth.

@penka2954

5 ай бұрын

They are mainly targetting rich and extremely attractive guys so it doesn't matter what the general male population thinks. If a woman wants real love she shouldn't pretend being playful or lighten the load when she herself has a lot going on. Those advices are for women who want to use the man for benefits not for those that are looking for real love. If a man really loves the core of you he wouldn't care how much hobbies you have or if you are too anxiously attached, he will love you. Unfortunately most men love with their eyes so it doesn't really matter as long as you are unbelievably hot, they will love you even with the worst character. The author is suggesting an unending game of pretend so you can keep your partner on the edge so he knows he can always lose you if he shows disrespect and that for me it too exhasting

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

3 ай бұрын

It goes both ways.. an highly independent man that is too busy and emotionally unavailable is also a turn off for a non gold-digger woman. I’m looking for a companion not bread crumbs of a man and affection!

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

3 ай бұрын

@@penka2954I disagree. A man of character isn’t going to deal with trash treatment just because she’s hot. There are millions of hot women..

@winspiff

Ай бұрын

In my opinion, saying this is designed for users is a cynical take. Being your best self means you are growing as a person. That includes learning about your attachment styles and, if they’re not as healthy, working on them so you can have healthier relationships. It means that you take the time to develop all parts of who you are, including the hobbies that fulfill you. It is recognizing that your life shouldn’t be centered around another person, as a co-dependent relationship would be; nor being completely independent, which isn’t healthy, either; but having a healthy sense of interdependence with your partner. Both having your own hobbies, passions, and things that fulfill you so that you bring more passion and fulfillment to the relationship. All these concepts are supported by psych and relationship experts. There are many women who become whatever they think a man wants them to be, and many marriages see the desire wane in a couple years. This advice is encouraging women to be more of themselves instead, so that they can have a more fulfilling and healthy relationship while keeping the attraction alive long term.

@shesnottheeere7132

10 күн бұрын

She addresses if a woman is too attached to attached too easily too. She also gives different situations and examples and states “if that’s what you’re looking for” to keep an open discussion. Cues and reminders, besides the general‘don’t nag’ but also why, and how to avoid it when you really might feel alone and ignored in the housework etc.

I am 49 and still learning to have a positive long term relationship

You are what a friends girl should be, but never showed up- it seems like females are so busy traumatising each other toward lack of good judgment. Your type is giving hope. Recieving it feel like listening to a seashell found at the beach! I appreciate you.

As someone who's studying psychology and loves the topic of relationships, I find this being like textbook material. I love it. Thank you.

Make him feel however he desires to show up in this world and you will be irreplaceable 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

@sabrinalittle7914

7 ай бұрын

How would one go about finding out this?

@prettypalestine

7 ай бұрын

@@sabrinalittle7914depends on the guy and his specific desires/aspirations. A pretty easy method of deciphering how he wants to be perceived is by considering what fictional characters he idolises, eg. a man who loves Batman/Superman most likely fantasises of being perceived by people as a hero. Make him feel like a hero and you’re on the right track!

@sophiafiato374

7 ай бұрын

@@sabrinalittle7914 if you spend time with him you will notice the things that are important to him. Men loved to be praised for the things that they put their energy into. Use your words of encouragement and acknowledge the ways that he’s amazing!

@diane2413

7 ай бұрын

@@sabrinalittle7914 by making yourself interesting and easy to talk with and being willing to listen. Then he will want to share with you his hopes and dreams and what he is interested in. But when he does this- take advantage of the opportunity and show you want to be part of it in an authentic way (of course if you're not interested don't pretend to be but when something is interesting let him know you want to hear more and he is going to want to know what you think too).

@Jewelsessences

4 ай бұрын

Nothing is enough for some narcissistic arrogant toxic males

Im only 17 and have been with my boyfriend for over a year and i can 10000% say that these work thanks margarita.Honestly haven't found anyone else who gives better advice for being in your feminine energy.

@sakuraqueen1734

7 ай бұрын

I'm really glad you're finding this info young. A lot of us are learning these things later in life. Best of luck in your relationship! 💝

I learned these lessons on my own. I became co-dependent and l knew I had to detach. Started focusing on myself, mirroring his energy, etc. The more independent I became, the more he started to fall in love again. Its crazy how love works.

I love how you're constantly reminding women how to love themselves, how to put themselves first before any other because there are so many women including me who puts ourselves last. May God bless you Margarita. You're amazing ❤

What I love most about this is it truly is just about, “love and respect yourself and have fun in your life without his validation. If you don’t love and respect yourself, mind f** yourself until you do.”

The ancestors thing helps so much for self love. My family didn’t fight wars and immigrate for me to be down on myself. And I love looking like my mom and grandma. Why should I change? Brilliant.

I love your content! It’s not hateful towards any gender and also very understanding towards all the roles. Thanks for your work!

Yup, since my self obsession journey started every guy I have gone out with has tried to make it a stable consistent thing

i love how your just simply sitting infront of the camera and just do some simple editing and get to the point right away♥️

Gotta say, this does work. I tell this all the time to myself, I say it in front of my husband, friends, in laws, etc. I don’t care if it sounds weird for some people,…is my life. The ones that I like the most are: I’m beautiful and I’m GORGEOUS! 😁💖

Girl's spitting facts. Plus i just love how mature and natural she is in the way she talks

Love this, Margarita! Your baby girl is so fortunate to have you as a mom. I love my mom but I was never given this kind of advice, I learned by trial and error. This is gold, here’s to us savvy ladies 🥂

I went from anxious attachment to secure attachment, thank you for these videos they’re helping me become a better person❤❤❤❤.

I'm new to your channel and I am enjoying it so far. When you mentioned how our features are a reflection of our ancestors, I nearly burst out crying. The trials and tribulations and joys they faced is unfathomable.. Wow! Thank you.

I feel like I can watch your videos over and over, and still learn something new.

Thank you margarita! You really help me build a healthy self love for myself that no one has taught me.

I love the advice about paying attention to our bodily movements and flow. That is something that has always wowed me about some beautiful people I’ve met, regardless of what they are wearing. Also, to be able to pinpoint how he wants to be perceived (a hero, or capable, or comfortable, or reliable, etc) and noticing and appreciating the things he does in those ways is an excellent point. ♥️

Point eight was just pure magic. Very well worded. There’s a lot of information about the hero instinct but this was by far the most practical advice. Thank you!

No.4 is so so true. I lately just overcome a struggle with showing up for myself. I wasn't sure if I could do something but I try just to see if I can. It turns out to win myself back in confidence

I needed this so bad. I'm such a drained mom and wife. I'm making a list right now how I'm going to take care and treasure myself. Thank you!

@penka2954

5 ай бұрын

They are mainly targetting rich and extremely attractive guys so it doesn't matter what the general male population thinks. If a woman wants real love she shouldn't pretend being playful or lighten the load when she herself has a lot going on. This advices are for women who want to use the man for benefits, not for those who are looking for real love. If a man really loves the core of you he wouldn't care how many hobbies you have or if you are too anxiously attached, he will love you. Unfortunately, most men love with their eyes so it doesn't really matter as long as you are unbelievably hot, they will love you even with the worst character. The author is suggesting an unending game of pretend so you can keep your partner on the edge so he knows he can always lose you if he shows disrespect and that for me is too exhausting. Отговор

@IB4UUB4ME

10 сағат бұрын

Well, you have a beautiful family!! But yeah, gotta take time for yourself or you get burned out. ❤

Wow. Your content, Margarita is so valuable. I've listened to countless podcasts/interviews with all sorts of experts. But your advice just makes sense to me instinctively. I now understand that I just need to tap into my own feminine energy (which I already HAVE but have been afraid to fully explore). You have decreased my anxiety about the whole love/dating thing just by helping me understand myself as a woman. I don't have to force myself to believe in me, like I was told previously. I now see my value, and so it feels so much more effortless. Many other people's advice just made me more confused or anxious, but your content literally does the opposite. And with concrete examples & not beating around the bush either. Thanks so much!

Omg this video came to me at the right time and your advice is SPOT ON. I'm so happy to have watched this today! This just gave me a mood and confidence boost to keep myself as the priority but also play the game correctly. Thank you girl!!

Fantastic help here Margarita, been watching your videos and they are simply one of a kind. Good luck with your baby and rest often.

I can not stop watching all of these videos ! You have to be the most incredible human I’ve ever experienced You have brought me hope again

As a woman I really admire you and your energy thank you for this acknowledge to the feminine world❤

She deserves way more audience

I'm finally up to date with all your podcasts. this is the video I started this whole journey with! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and helping us out! I realize now I lost my feminine energy during my marriage (been married for 5 years now) no thanks to COVID. Been working from home since the lockdowns etc... thank you for making me realize how just getting ready in the morning can change your whole mood. I started the journey of 'getting the old me back' 1 week ago and I already changed it's name to 'be your /better/ self' I feel thriving, confident, pretty and capable. I feel like nothing can stop me. So thank you for doing this. ✨Sending you good vibes, a safe delivery and lots of love✨🥰

I love your energy! The way you deliver these videos really drills these steps and practises into my head

First time I listen to a video like this. The title was not really something I would go for but her content is amazing! No manipulation all about being yourself ❤

I love the idea of #10 - basically mirroring. Trying to make someone be something they are not by "setting an example" - that never works. But creating a lack that they have to step up and fill, much more effective. Love everything you do, M!

@Jewelsessences

4 ай бұрын

Whats the difference between

I absolutely love your advices and I realised I did and I am doing all of them, and my man treats me like a queen.And of course,it started after I saw myself as one and always pushing him away juuuust a bit,to make him want more.I would also add to never be afraid you might push him away by making more time for yourself.He will love that❤

Thank you for the wisdom you share, Margarita! I have been loving your videos lately. 💕 On this video I have two comments: 1. I liked how you mentioned flirting. I have been married for 6 years and feel like I may have lost my ability to do that a little bit, so if you’re looking for video ideas, one on flirting would be really fun to watch. 😃 2. I also liked how you said to stop planning everything. One trick I’ve started to use is to plan things with my friends instead. That way I still feel fulfilled and am able to get out of the house and have a good time doing exactly what I want. My husband and I still do fun things together, but this way if he wants a weekend where we just stay home, I already feel fulfilled by something I have done, or am about to do, with friends. Love you lots ❤

How sorry I am that I didn't discover you earlier.. Thank you for all the advice and wisdom you share with us all. I look forward to every new video and wish you all the best!

I love you so much . I’ve been watching you for several weeks and I typically don’t ever leave comments because then I end up spending a lot of time doing so so I finally broke that habit but I want you to know your powerful divine feminine energy and knowledge plus all your wisdom has shifted me to a different level of strength & power in who I am and what I want and how to possess that. Thank you my Friend 👑

I have just discovered your channel and it's such a breath of fresh air. You say same things as shera seven but way more healthily. She has some solid advice but if you want a husband to love for life, that's not gonna play out. Also, being dishonest weigh on your conscience too and is tiring. Thank you so much for this, margarita. Much love❤

So good! I love the point about letting him see you in your element. I was dating one guy and I could feel his eyes follow me work the room. Every time he looked in awe and became territorial when other men were near.

Your delivery is amazing I know you're just talking at the camera but it's really clear and to the point and your personality and jokes are funny.

I love your videos! I’m sharing with my daughter and it’s helping me so much in my own anxious attachment and avoidant relationship! You are the truth!

Halfway through the video and I had to pause to go buy your courses! Ended up getting the bundle, can't wait to learn something new!! 😁

I never knew how cute I was till I had my son 😊

Girl I have been going through so much shiiiii but I am soooooo glad I found your video

I could listen to her all day

It’s interesting. I didn’t watch this to make him obsessed with me; I watched this to learn why he already was. Thank u.

Literally the best channel I’ve seen today ❤

Obsessed with you! And this. I love how truthful you are ❤

love your videos!! everything so interesting and straight to the point !!!💕💕💕

Salaams. Blessings to you all. Seek refuge in God from the need of having anyone obsessed with you. There is no god but God. Obsession is a form of worship. We have all been warned time and time again about a people that were destroyed for idol worship, not worshipping the 1 God, creator of all. This is surely a reminder to myself.

I like the egocentric comment because initially it seems guys are attracted to the female narcissist. Not because they really want a narcissist but because of what she is showing in the beginning before they see all the other sides of narcissistic behavior. I mention this because there is something that can be learned from this. We can take part of this and use it in this process in changing our thinking 🤔

Your videos are my favorite! So factual and deep, I love it! Thank you so much 🤍

I'm low key obsessed with this woman likeeee daaaaamn how are you so PERFECT

I love watching you speaking about the feminine energy.

This is so damn spot on. I have done so many of these by accident and yes they work

Feminine energy is sooo important ! We love that

Love all your tricks and tips. I've learned a lot just watching this for the first time. Thanks for sharing!

Thank you for being the wiser older sister who I respect!!

Thank u for always bringing me back to my energy

Although I knew that points before and read in a comment, it was worth listening because the explanation and elaboration is great.

Another amazing video, Margarita 💗 Take it easy, love

I truly love you!! Your delivery is everything!! 💜💜💜

Could you please make a video on how to get rid of men giving unsolicited/unwanted attention? Without inviting uncalled for wrath. Thanks, I truly appreciate your wisdom. Will await the said video.

Love your videos so much ❤❤ Rewatching some of your videos too as need to focus on myself more than ever after a break up and I'm struggling. I'm reading Attached and it's such a brilliant book and so eye opening into my own anxious attachment xxx

You are always so spot on, amazing, inspiring, motivational, and beautiful!! 😊❤

You are the best youtuber! Period!

Thank you for this. I am in a moderately new committed relationship hoping to incorporate these steps and change things around. Things are good but I want more and I know I deserve more. I think in the beginning I displayed more mystery but we live together and have fallen into a routine so I need to bring things up to a whole new level. Love ❤️ your videos

loving your fierce wisdom transmissions

This is now my holy bible! Thank you M, keep on preaching! xoxo

TOTALLY AGREE APPRECIATE YOUR ANCESTORS WHO MADE YOU LOOK WHO YOU ARE!!!

That's amazing! I'm super grateful for your advice! ❤

Thank you so much for your time and knowledge. Lots of love.❤

Spot on and very practical! Just what I needed. Thanks!

Congrats on baby!! I think you sound fine❤❤ so excited for you!! ❤

Your videos have actually changed my life. Within a day I felt so detached (in a good way) from guys who hurt me and I feel a lot more confident.

This really gives good vibes and embodies confidence and actually comes with good argumments and advises. I actually got to understand that I am the I am not in love with myself like I used to be and now I have clues to help me work on that. Thank you :)

I love and appreciate your vids! Daily transforming into the woman I was created to be! 💛

Thank You for this. It’s right in time. Well said and elaborated. I just adore you and shared you with my bestie ❤

Your advice and knowledge is so valuable! I’m in my 40’s era and just getting out there again after divorce. I just hope you know what an absolute queen you are and I want to emulate you!

Where have you been all my life ! I wasted so much time listening to other relationship coaches who made me feel angry and vulnerable towards men ! U speak gold girl ! Every sentence make sense thank you so much 💝

You are so clever, thanks for sharing your insight with us 🙌🏾👏🏾

These tips are pure Gold 🔥

I love these videos so much! They are so helpful! ❤

I love your page & content 🤍 So helpful & uplifting

This advice works .. when””” I’m in my best state I naturally do these things .. take care of yourself first ❤️

I LOVE YOUUUUUU thank you for all that you do. You’re an inspiration

I love you, thank you for all you do ❤ My life has gone downhill a bit and my friends are very taxing and take advantage - so I’ve realised I’ve become bitter, but I also become heavy on my partner so I need to work on that! Pulling my energy back to me, as I feel drained, so I need to stop giving so much to friends and become happy with my life again! My partner likes to provide and protect me. He said to me that he respected me as I didn’t change my schedule around, and didn’t kiss him on the first date and made my own way home. I wouldn’t let him take me all the way home for 6 dates. And we didn’t sleep together for 3 months. I know it’s not about the segs - it was about me keeping my boundaries, and taking charge of what I wanted in a relationship

@AspasiaB

7 ай бұрын

I've been in a similar situation with friends so if you don't mind, I'm going to give you some advice. It is OKAY for you to tell a friend, especially if they call you, that you can't really talk right now because you're a bit spent. From what you've described about your life situation, this isn't untrue. Even if you aren't tired in THAT moment, it's about giving that time to *yourself* instead of to a friend, especially if it's one who doesn't return the favor. Then the next time you speak to them, notice whether or not they checked in on *you*. Did they ask you if you're feeling better or what was going on? You need to realize that you are worth your own energy and dedication too. ❤

@samco63

7 ай бұрын

@@AspasiaB ah, I love this. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my comment and respond! I do need to remember that even if I’m not tired in that moment, I’m allowed to keep that peace for myself. I find they tend to ask how I am - only as a way in to lump their problems onto me. Even just one message where they lump their stuff has started to drain me so I do need to set some boundaries! Thank you again 🩷

Thank you so much Margarita!first time Watchung and enjoyed very much. Have a nice day!

I was thinking the entire time that you look absolutely radiant, that you have a magical glow and then you said you're 8 months pregnant. Pregnancy looks amazing on you. 😊

You look amazing ❤Congrats!! Your lipstick color and hair are everything ! Perfect lip tint . Thanks for your advice and suggestions sooo helpfull

Thank you so much for your videos! They are helping me so much

I love your videos Margarita, its just so easy to understand I'm so glad I came across your videos :)

You inspire me Margarita. Thank you!