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  • @oambitiousone7100
    @oambitiousone7100Ай бұрын

    I have a rescued black cat . She is easily spooked, so when she does approach and settle down next to me, it feels like a gift. I just need to personify that cat energy.

  • @loredanafetescu

    @loredanafetescu

    Ай бұрын

    She already chose you, you’ve already attained it, congratulations

  • @vanetheone8101

    @vanetheone8101

    Ай бұрын

    It's ironic how the whole video talks about chasing the cat but you yourself know that chasing it would spook it, and understand that it has to come to you on its own

  • @MailaSelvon

    @MailaSelvon

    Ай бұрын

    Its freaking me out lol bc a black cat just crosser my way out when i was sitting where me and that man im trynna get with use to hang out.

  • @Ceylon727

    @Ceylon727

    Ай бұрын

    😅❤❤❤❤❤Yes

  • @marcoi7035

    @marcoi7035

    Ай бұрын

    @@vanetheone8101💯

  • @swatibaruah103
    @swatibaruah103Ай бұрын

    “Gosh I bored myself by trying to act like a golden retriever woman” lol

  • @lou15176

    @lou15176

    Ай бұрын

    It’s exhausting! 😂 I can’t even do it anymore. I don’t have the strength anyways mentally or physically. But I’m also 48. In my younger years I needed this info x

  • @MrsBrandiSherman

    @MrsBrandiSherman

    Ай бұрын

    Same!😅 I wish I had heard this years ago! I would have saved myself so much struggle!!!

  • @lou15176

    @lou15176

    Ай бұрын

    @@MrsBrandiSherman 😂😂 unfortunately Margarita with still in her little minky years and the internet didn’t exist. I’m talking like I needed this as a 18 year old 😂 x

  • @andisiwepikisa3038

    @andisiwepikisa3038

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @MrsBrandiSherman

    @MrsBrandiSherman

    Ай бұрын

    @@lou15176 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jacque8236
    @jacque8236Ай бұрын

    It seems women are natural attracters of love and abundance when we relax and know our worth. Everyone woman I've met who's in their black cat energy seems at peace, not only in relationships but in life.

  • @acd1168
    @acd1168Ай бұрын

    As a former anxiously attached woman, I had to do all of these in order to become more secure today. Great tips!

  • @Olga0265

    @Olga0265

    Ай бұрын

    Could you please tell how long did it take for you to stop being anxiously attached? Thank you

  • @acd1168

    @acd1168

    Ай бұрын

    @@Olga0265 It took 2.5 years of consistent therapy (2 times a week for 1 hour each session). Most of the work I did was outside of therapy. So my therapist taught me coping mechanisms and I had to do the work outside of therapy. I still have traces of anxious attachment but that’s normal because it will always linger around.

  • @sneha-qn4jn

    @sneha-qn4jn

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Olga0265 if you don't mind, could you please tell what was the work you did?

  • @AllUserNamesAreUsed

    @AllUserNamesAreUsed

    Ай бұрын

    This is possible?? 🥹 I just talked to the guy I liked the other day and basically cried the rest of the night because I realized he will find a secure girl while I might always be alone if I dont figure this out 😒

  • @acd1168

    @acd1168

    Ай бұрын

    @@AllUserNamesAreUsed Of course it is possible. It was hard but it’s worth it because I was tired of feeling like I was crazy.

  • @ds3380
    @ds338012 күн бұрын

    > respect your cycle moods bodies signals > be confident in being alone > do no be responsive > Date a little below your league because you are the Prize slightly out of the league > do not ask them how you feel all the time > read more on feminine energy > nurture rather than mother do not control > do not change people be people who they are > ask if you like them > have a life man is just an addition >do not nag > don't be afraid to lose the jerks

  • @fateema.assegaff
    @fateema.assegaffАй бұрын

    "You've got alot of things going on in your life and he's an addition to it", love this one!!

  • @janeylfoster6197

    @janeylfoster6197

    9 күн бұрын

    Wonderful line ❤

  • @dswelam
    @dswelamАй бұрын

    Him: “How come you’re always busy” Me: “Cause my hamster needs his toenails painted” 🐹 💅🏻

  • @selimaydn8758

    @selimaydn8758

    Ай бұрын

    if that was the case you would not be writing this under a 30 min video loool

  • @karlatrevino860

    @karlatrevino860

    Ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Tionaintown876

    @Tionaintown876

    Ай бұрын

    @@selimaydn8758What’s your excuse?

  • @TheRainbowMagi

    @TheRainbowMagi

    Ай бұрын

    period.

  • @malindateal14

    @malindateal14

    Ай бұрын

    I’m mostly black cat, but I have been retriever from time to time. Not usually with the man in my life, but with other people in public that I do business with. It’s very seldom, but I have been guilty of losing my temper.

  • @jessica11381
    @jessica11381Ай бұрын

    Selling stops at 7:10

  • @cynthiawanjohi5813

    @cynthiawanjohi5813

    22 күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @intellectualnomadsss

    @intellectualnomadsss

    21 күн бұрын

    Thank god 😅

  • @Peaea

    @Peaea

    14 күн бұрын

    Godsend

  • @tinawalker5335

    @tinawalker5335

    11 күн бұрын

    Bless your heart❤

  • @lisaraper8053

    @lisaraper8053

    8 күн бұрын

    I know. It’s a bit more than most channels. Thanks.

  • @thehawttomboy
    @thehawttomboyАй бұрын

    Black Cat energy is not allowing anyone who tries to instill fear and/or makes you anxious. It truly is about not allowing anyone to take you out of your emotions. If there's a vision you see for yourself, even if it's not written on paper, but you visually see it... you go for it.

  • @RedPilledAsFuck

    @RedPilledAsFuck

    Ай бұрын

    wouldn’t it be more like not allowing anyone to control your emotions? i’m having trouble understanding “take you out of your emotions”

  • @tydyecat
    @tydyecat15 күн бұрын

    In my current relationship I started as a black cat but quickly became a golden retriever and I am becoming the black cat again. We'll see how things go

  • @iamjanaij

    @iamjanaij

    8 күн бұрын

    me too!!! we got this

  • @anzelzaky7473

    @anzelzaky7473

    7 күн бұрын

    Me too Lets do this ladies ❤️

  • @Hello_Grace

    @Hello_Grace

    6 күн бұрын

    ME TOO!!!! Now I’m an angry black cat. And I want my power back!!

  • @Veganvegannugget

    @Veganvegannugget

    5 күн бұрын

    Sameeeeee updates?

  • @hannahravs

    @hannahravs

    4 күн бұрын

    what have you been doing to practice this?

  • @user-ur2fr8yn4b
    @user-ur2fr8yn4b27 күн бұрын

    1. Learn about femininity and let them chase 2. Her emotions are active not reactive 13:42 jornal but don’t just complain 3. Don’t close anything 15:13 Be the observer 4. U should be slightly out of his league cause u are the prize 5. 18:50 they are not mama Don’t control don’t constantly ask how a man is feeling 6.don’t try to change people.let them be and dicide if u want to be with them 7. 20:35 don’t need to make them happy to feel happy yourself. 8. Stop asking if people like you and start asking if you like them 21:30 Make a list why u like him, is it enough? 9. Don’t wait for his call if he didn’t schedule already move on. 10. Don’t nag. Take away energy 26:56 11. Life is so short and precious. Don’t be afraid to loose anyone

  • @allysegraben2196
    @allysegraben2196Ай бұрын

    'youve got crochet lessons and you are painting your hamsters toenails' im DEAD!!!!

  • @la4894

    @la4894

    Ай бұрын

    I literally just screamed at this part😂😂

  • @ofacid3439

    @ofacid3439

    Ай бұрын

    RIP in peace

  • @borednow

    @borednow

    Ай бұрын

    I need to remember this sentence for the next time someone invites me to something I dont want to go to hahahahha

  • @graceyeo7161

    @graceyeo7161

    Ай бұрын

    I screamed at this part too wahahahha!

  • @hollyroseXOX

    @hollyroseXOX

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @michael-gg2rh
    @michael-gg2rhАй бұрын

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.

  • @laurawheeler-px6oz

    @laurawheeler-px6oz

    Ай бұрын

    There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

  • @michael-gg2rh

    @michael-gg2rh

    Ай бұрын

    Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Shelly renee white

  • @laurawheeler-px6oz

    @laurawheeler-px6oz

    Ай бұрын

    This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks

  • @michael-gg2rh

    @michael-gg2rh

    Ай бұрын

    You wont regret it

  • @marzemarcel9529

    @marzemarcel9529

    Ай бұрын

    How rough is rough? What kind of hurtful... abusive words have been spoken from either party?

  • @arinaoliin4807
    @arinaoliin4807Ай бұрын

    I was a black cat until I fell in love. I’m trying to be more reserved but at the end I behave as a gold retriever and start chasing him. It’s really hard to control

  • @sylwia0123

    @sylwia0123

    Ай бұрын

    I'm like that too... and I really don't want to be the one chasing him, it's humiliating...

  • @adabelinda

    @adabelinda

    Ай бұрын

    Change his name in your phone to "Stay In Your Power" or "BCDC" (Black Cats Don't Chase) or something that empowers you. When you pull up his name to call or text it will remind you to act in the interest of your self respect rather than your fear 🙏🏾

  • @chisomoffor6877

    @chisomoffor6877

    Ай бұрын

    @@adabelindanow this is good advice , I shall be doing this if I feel my golden retriever coming out

  • @bellabriggs1393

    @bellabriggs1393

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly ! We can just be a black cat when we have no feelings at all for the man .

  • @jud2152

    @jud2152

    Ай бұрын

    @@adabelindaI like this advice

  • @karenmilford7809
    @karenmilford7809Ай бұрын

    I loved that she said "Stop. Hammer time." So unexpectedly funny 😂

  • @iconic860
    @iconic860Ай бұрын

    I’m watching this video over and over again and other ones of yours until I break out of my golden retriever ways and fix my attachment style ! No more calling texting getting ghosted and crying over a guy and losing sleep over someone that isn’t even bothered to send a simple text back ! Goodness what was I thinking🙅🏻‍♀️🐈‍⬛

  • @Partofmylife24

    @Partofmylife24

    Ай бұрын

    Omg sis same ❤ I’ll keep watching these videos until I’m done with the golden retriever era

  • @aannwwsalam

    @aannwwsalam

    Ай бұрын

    Time we take our energy back and focus on ourselves 💪🏼

  • @iconic860

    @iconic860

    28 күн бұрын

    @@aannwwsalam yesss🔥🔥🔥

  • @2011cindirella

    @2011cindirella

    20 күн бұрын

    Same as me I was obsessing with this guy. I need my power back. We can do this, no more texting first and get frustrated

  • @iconic860

    @iconic860

    20 күн бұрын

    @@2011cindirella EXACTLY!!!👏👏👏

  • @jessgirr1728
    @jessgirr1728Ай бұрын

    A friend and I got into a debate over this recently, she said my ideas were 'old fashioned'. Because I said I won't make the first move on a man. She was basically defending her right to be in her masculine energy- which of course is her choice. However...her relationship is dull and she says she feels no passion from her man. She's complained about that for years. Shocker.

  • @anki3336

    @anki3336

    Ай бұрын

    I would not consider showing interest and letting a man know you like them to be a bad thing if that's considered to be like making a move. It could be passive with a smile or telling them you are cute etc. That's not making a move. Guys like when girls approach them in this way but after this the guy has to pick the ball and make the move and reciprocating and asking for a date/number etc.

  • @jessgirr1728

    @jessgirr1728

    Ай бұрын

    @@anki3336 I agree with you. A signal of interest is fine. She likes to 'change a guys mind' about her. Like actively pursue him. I won't do that as it doesn't feel good to me and you can end up with a lazy unmotivated man who doesn't feel passionately about you. Like said friends current relationship.

  • @lightsandstars

    @lightsandstars

    Ай бұрын

    @@jessgirr1728 you judge to much…

  • @cherrylane79

    @cherrylane79

    Ай бұрын

    Some guys don't ever send the first message.

  • @danilaroche1156

    @danilaroche1156

    19 күн бұрын

    ​The best way to make a move is to smile and be warm. If he likes you and he's 'normal' he'll ask 4 a date.

  • @878Amy
    @878AmyАй бұрын

    Love this! I really appreciated the example of when a man asks what's wrong you're different and you say "Yeah I'm different. I don't like that you did that. It is what it is. For now that's me. When I'm over it you'll know. That's how I feel" GOLD. I needed that.

  • @Paulina-yv7go

    @Paulina-yv7go

    Ай бұрын

    Yes! I would love more real life examples!

  • @atroxfortuna

    @atroxfortuna

    Ай бұрын

    @@Paulina-yv7gomy ex husband would ogle women in front of me. That’s when my energy would shift and he’d ask and I’d say this 👆🏼and he’d respond by chasing my approval of him.

  • @lastarrwicks3067
    @lastarrwicks306729 күн бұрын

    i just found your channel i am in a 30 year marriage(high school sweethearts) & I have been the golden retriever the whole time! I am tired... your videos are so helpful, ty...Ladies, its never too late to choose yourself and be the black cat that you were born to be

  • @Nocturnal_Lorena
    @Nocturnal_LorenaАй бұрын

    The funny part is that I was naturally born this way & I was forced to become a golden retriever by the world, even the women in my life! I suffered so much. I went back to being myself during my late 20's since I wasn'tdependenton my family anymore & life just keeps getting sweeter! The same women are jealous now but still refuse to just stop controlling everything lol. I'm so glad you exist! I feel sane, supported & understood. Thank you, God bless you! 💖

  • @rawnaktasnim1590
    @rawnaktasnim1590Ай бұрын

    this lipstick shade really suits you

  • @junebug9348

    @junebug9348

    Ай бұрын

    What is it? Love it ❤

  • @magg0tbrainn

    @magg0tbrainn

    Ай бұрын

    her makeup always slays!!

  • @nicolelincoln5530

    @nicolelincoln5530

    Ай бұрын

    Right? And I love the pink blouse with red stripes 🤌🏼

  • @queensarahforever7679
    @queensarahforever7679Ай бұрын

    You make me feel like a queen each time i listen to you..❤❤❤ I'm a black cat now. I used to be the other one. And it's true, when i got focus on my goals, its when more men take interests on me. I'm married now. It feels so good to feel like a prize.. Women, get busy on your dreams❤ don't make a man a center of your world.. Let them be crazy over you❤️

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    This is where I want to go

  • @melissataylor7063

    @melissataylor7063

    Ай бұрын

    Nailed it!

  • @viixkyy
    @viixkyyАй бұрын

    Really tho!! If a man aint chasing you like a puppy then he doesn’t really like you

  • @MakeUpTraffic

    @MakeUpTraffic

    Ай бұрын

    Or he is a fboi.

  • @navscheiecoaching7800

    @navscheiecoaching7800

    Ай бұрын

    He may like you but doesn't want you.

  • @Harry-fk5of

    @Harry-fk5of

    Ай бұрын

    If a woman makes me chase her I lose interest. It's boring and basic. I think showing mutual interest in each other is attractive. You don't give away too much too soon, you keep each other mutually interested. No chasing. Men need to know their worth, if they're chasing they probably don't.

  • @Harry-fk5of

    @Harry-fk5of

    Ай бұрын

    @@drunkencitizen6168 Guys who chase women are insecure or have issues they need to deal with. Imo women who want guys to chase them are equally insecure

  • @Harry-fk5of

    @Harry-fk5of

    Ай бұрын

    @@drunkencitizen6168 I agree. If a man's chasing a woman he either wants to bag a 'prize' for one night. OR he's insecure and doesn't know his worth. I feel like women (and men) who want to be chased are equally insecure and come at relationships with an angle of control/mind games from the outset i.e. Red flag.

  • @aixaquinones8937
    @aixaquinones8937Ай бұрын

    I was feeling off this days. Like out of balance. Today the guy I was dating for a Year told that he doesn't want a commitment. I was starting to write that long texts when i Think "i Will See this video first". Thanks You so much for your wisdom. I feel peace now.

  • @danilaroche1156

    @danilaroche1156

    19 күн бұрын

    Stop sleeping with him. He's not your husband but you stop giving him wife benefits..who knows?

  • @DuskDaimon
    @DuskDaimonАй бұрын

    I'm absolutely the 'black cat' by nature, at my core, but someone in the last year had started to bring out the worst, anxiously attached side of me. Now the more inconsistency & distance he gives me, the more I reconsider his presence in my life, and why I even liked him, or why I should want anything to do with him. This has been paining me as a form of self betrayal, "golden retriever" energy is not who I am, and I had been playing that role even though it feels awful and I honestly know better... ugh

  • @jud2152

    @jud2152

    Ай бұрын

    I feel you

  • @de3207

    @de3207

    25 күн бұрын

    Be safe, you will never switch 100% on "golden retriever" energy. You are just experiencing the other side to find balance. Cant stay polarized ; life is about evolution, not stagnation.

  • @HoneybeeHearts52

    @HoneybeeHearts52

    22 күн бұрын

    Girl, same timeline. I forgot who I was, but I worked on getting back to myself. You'll learn the lessons you need, and you'll get back to self. Much love ❤

  • @barbarawiacek6557
    @barbarawiacek6557Ай бұрын

    I hope this advice applies mainly to the dating stages of a relationship, and how to keep your standards and self esteem. I think being all the time like this in a marriage means something is wrong. A marriage is a connection of souls. You cannot be close with someone in this defensive energy. This behaviour means to me you are cautious about letting somebody into your space. Luckily not all men are out there to use you. Some of them are wonderful and caring!

  • @nile9150

    @nile9150

    Ай бұрын

    Completely agree, you can make good husband go away by this mindset in marriage

  • @TimeMovie93150

    @TimeMovie93150

    28 күн бұрын

    @@nile9150 agreed

  • @purebysaiima

    @purebysaiima

    12 күн бұрын

    No. My husband has started pampering and giving attention after I am behaving like a black cat. Black cat energy has taken me several notches up nit just with my husband but with my girls, too.

  • @Sunnahlife7
    @Sunnahlife7Ай бұрын

    Hello moosy here 😂😂😂😂 you are so funny sometimes.

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl19 күн бұрын

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

  • @Zacharychampion-yy3nt

    @Zacharychampion-yy3nt

    19 күн бұрын

    its always difficult to let go of you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me.i couldnt just let her go, so i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl

    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl

    19 күн бұрын

    wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

  • @Zacharychampion-yy3nt

    @Zacharychampion-yy3nt

    19 күн бұрын

    Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl

    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

  • @MA-ey9bf

    @MA-ey9bf

    17 күн бұрын

    It’s a scam bro. Come on now, don’t trust this crap, seriously you know better than this!!

  • @OO-ct4hq
    @OO-ct4hqАй бұрын

    Girl you're the only person on youtube I'm not bored of watching again n again!

  • @milkamunozsaavedra8767
    @milkamunozsaavedra8767Ай бұрын

    I feel like all my life I was dressing like a black cat for aesthetics because I like it but I wasn't embodying that energy, never realized that my personality was really like a golden retriever.... and this one was a HUGE call out because honestly, this makes so much sense now and I don't know what else should I add.

  • @renata.7
    @renata.7Ай бұрын

    Perfect timing! 👑 I live in Croatia and it is currently 4pm. I just sat down on the couch with a coffee. Today you are my coffee buddy! 🥰☕🖤🐱

  • @shiatsufurlan

    @shiatsufurlan

    Ай бұрын

    Lep pozdrav, mačka! 💕🐈 (Slovenka v Krakowu)

  • @Uhhit67

    @Uhhit67

    Ай бұрын

    @@shiatsufurlanahojkyyyy🥰 česka zde

  • @shiatsufurlan

    @shiatsufurlan

    Ай бұрын

    @@Uhhit67 heeey! 🙌💖

  • @greenIMONSTER008

    @greenIMONSTER008

    Ай бұрын

    Drž se ženo 💯🥺

  • @joshliam1967
    @joshliam1967Ай бұрын

    I've been the golden retriever for a long time and I'm over it, watching this video to learn how to be the black cat instead.

  • @yudollia

    @yudollia

    Ай бұрын

    Noooo we need more puppy boys. Who else is gonna worship me. Yall are my type

  • @SS-rg5di

    @SS-rg5di

    Ай бұрын

    Sounds like black cat is an avoidant energy and golden retriever is the anxious attachment energy So... A typical anxious avoidant trap... Isn't it ???

  • @joshliam1967

    @joshliam1967

    Ай бұрын

    @@SS-rg5di I'm a fearful avoidant so have elements of both, but in the last year have been working hard to heal both my anxious and avoidant elements of my attachment style. It's been amazing how much of a difference that's made in my life, and I'm starting to see what being securely attached can look like.

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRossАй бұрын

    I'm just going to be a Unicorn 🦄💖

  • @sawsen2518

    @sawsen2518

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @riccibill-mp5eg

    @riccibill-mp5eg

    Ай бұрын

    Hahahaha

  • @GoodVideos-ry5ie

    @GoodVideos-ry5ie

    Ай бұрын

    There are no unicorns, especially not when it comes to women. Most women are quite boring and bland. Fortunately for women, men do not expect much from them. Men do not chase, especially not high value men. Men do not want to waste their time and women are experts in wasting men's time. If women think that is going to change, they will wait in vain. Men will approach a woman once or twice, if he gets a no, it is over, he will never approach you again. The chasing that women are doing today, is towards chads and f#&k boys, and that is and has always been a waste of time. Chads are not marriage material and you are not going change that by being in a situationship with him for a month or two. The most important thing for a woman to figure out is how attractive she is - objectively (never ask your girlfriends). To do this you take a picture without makeup and ask random guys to rate you. Men are not like women, so they will actually be honest. Most women are average, a 5 out of 10. If you know your number subtract about 2 points, you are probably delusional. This woman who has this channel ie Margarita, she is a 4.5, just below average in my opinion. If she has managed to score a high value man, it must have been to a much older man or a man with confidence issues, or perhaps an Asian. When you know your attractivness number, you can target the guy who you deserve and not waste your time with guys who you don't deserve. A 5 should never go for anything more than a 6 (a guy you think is a 4). It is usually a good idea for a woman, in order to satisfy her hypergamy, to secure a man 1 point higher than herself. Finally, men value youth (below 27), beauty, fertility and purity (low body count 1-4). They do not give 2 sh!ts about your career, job or education. You are very welcome. The 7.

  • @lucidaandromeda

    @lucidaandromeda

    25 күн бұрын

    🦄💕

  • @pegasusflameheart6479

    @pegasusflameheart6479

    17 күн бұрын

    Me too

  • @__.angel1111.__
    @__.angel1111.__Ай бұрын

    11:15 How to get chased 1. Be in your feminine energy Get enough sleep Be in tune with herself 2. Be active not reacting Be comfortable with who you are Keep things to yourself "What are we?" "What does this relationship mean?" Don't ask questions like this He needs to take the initiative 3. He needs to see you as the prize 21:22

  • @cecehectori9579
    @cecehectori9579Ай бұрын

    Thank you Margarita! My mood was low and anxious but after listening to the new episode my mood is light and hopeful. You feel like a safe mentor or friend and your vibe makes me feel so nice

  • @lou15176
    @lou15176Ай бұрын

    I think the part about resisting the temptation to close the gap is very important…..Because sometimes we start of with the black cat 🐈‍⬛ energy but we can’t maintain it as we think if its TOO hard for him or too much chasing he will lose interest. It’s difficult. All the time online we are hearing “don’t chase, don’t react” but until you can fully be in this energy and actually feel it in your body, then you will always believe that a man won’t chase you x

  • @noopuradhika
    @noopuradhikaАй бұрын

    This video has truly brought in a different kind of energy in me because now that I think of it, I was always the "Golden retriever" and never a "Black Cat". I have now found that hidden divine feminine energy within me. Thank you for sharing :)

  • @unknown1667
    @unknown1667Ай бұрын

    As someone naturally shy and cold to strangers, I always wondered why men are so much more invested in the conversation when I don't know them vs when I know them and am intentionally making conversation - when this happens the tension/sexual dynamic just disappears. It's definitely that "push/pull" dynamic which is best when the man is pursuing. thank you for this video.

  • @josiejuless796
    @josiejuless79625 күн бұрын

    Thank you soooo much , I’ve been the golden retriever lately, thank you for reaching me truly . It’s time to change !

  • @magssilekova1274
    @magssilekova1274Ай бұрын

    Okay but the last part really is the most important. Because i have got this short life and I am worried why whoever is not replying and does not want to commit, gosh it is actually so boring. (The funniest part is the second I pay attention to my life and not his endless bullshit, he comes back in the fastest way possible :)))) )

  • @victorious1503
    @victorious1503Ай бұрын

    This video is amazing Margarita. I wish it existed when I was younger and didn't know myself and constantly chased validation through other people. It is so true - Live for YOU.

  • @SarahMcLain1
    @SarahMcLain1Ай бұрын

    Just over here painting my hamster’s toenails 🐹💅 😂👏

  • @CassieAfricanQueen
    @CassieAfricanQueenАй бұрын

    Black cats are sooo unbothered. I love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sofiaa5255
    @sofiaa5255Ай бұрын

    Everytime I feel anxious and start overthinking I listen to you and everything is calm again

  • @mmlacuesta
    @mmlacuestaАй бұрын

    The funniest, the wisest, the sassiest. You crack me up so much!

  • @LouOutta92
    @LouOutta92Ай бұрын

    I love the message here, and want to mention the possibility of a Golden Retriever finding another Golden Retriever, or the black cat finding another black cat...because I am quite like the black cat, and I'm definitely not into Golden Retriever energy. It still feels like a game of chase, and I'd rather have energy that matches mine.

  • @erib156
    @erib15610 күн бұрын

    I never knew I am a black cat 🐈‍⬛️ I actually deal with men exactly like that

  • @kandy731
    @kandy73129 күн бұрын

    I'm a young woman who probably like everybody else here, had a whole history of being the best golden retriever there is, and of course, that led to suffering and actually losing the person I was interested in. I acted precisely like you described a golden retriever acts, and I ended up confused when that only pushed the other person away. I thought I was nurturing, I didn't know the difference of smothering and nurturing. I decided I want to learn how to properly keep myself safe and act in order to not repeat the cycle I created in the past. It's hard, like you said. But I am willing to put in the effort to be more in tune with my feminine. Thank you for making such an amazing video, I truly enjoyed it and had so much to learn. I cannot wait to learn more from your wisdom.

  • @elisaluana123
    @elisaluana123Ай бұрын

    Absolutely loving all these content about black cat energy! If you would be SOOO KIND to do a video focusing more on stay at home wives.. I feel like it’s a Lot easier to embody this black cat concept if you’re just dating or not living together/seeing each every day. You’re doing the lords work, thank you so much for all the tips 💖

  • @heather88888

    @heather88888

    Ай бұрын

    Imagine a black cat 🐈‍⬛ energy in the home … keep it clean, aloof, classy … don’t hover around him - space is good… let him wonder what YOU’RE thinking and doing … work on projects , put AirPods in, say less… make beautiful meals and take pride in your housework

  • @SephraBoo

    @SephraBoo

    Ай бұрын

    @@heather88888yup all of this! And I would add have a hobby that yours even if you do it from home. And try to have some time with friends every once in a while. Even if it is just brunch or a yoga class with the girls.

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspaАй бұрын

    Dayummmmm girl! That was so powerful. Life changing. Please do a part 2 just as a reminder. And please do alpha beta omega men explained. You might have already...❤ You are awesome!

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    Ай бұрын

    It would awesome to curate movies and books that demonstrate this Black cat woman for reference ..❤

  • @Nancy22102
    @Nancy2210210 күн бұрын

    You speak so much depth and true gems. That i had to subscribe to your content and send this to my daughter. ❤

  • @dovetailtrinity
    @dovetailtrinity22 күн бұрын

    I just loved your Moose on the doorstep analogy! Brilliant. Thanks for being so to the point and succinct - all info I know but need to be remined of sometimes!

  • @annamarsch6091
    @annamarsch6091Ай бұрын

    You look fabulos in that shirt. I love the allegory of the black cat / golden retriever energy. love your wisdom, insight and spicy self. Thank you, as always for your gret content and no nonsense attitute.

  • @innal8244
    @innal8244Ай бұрын

    Margarita, you are a star. Need to listen on repeat😂. Sending to my friend. Sometimes we need this reminder of being in feminine accepting energy. However not an easy task in modern world full of choices and not so masculine man😊. Thank you for the reminder put in wise and humorous way❤

  • @user-zh2mg9rj9u
    @user-zh2mg9rj9uАй бұрын

    I love the black cat/golden retriever imagery. Super clear, and fun, too. Thanks so much Margarita! 😁

  • @brutalxbear
    @brutalxbearАй бұрын

    Living for the consistent youtube content!! Love you Margarita!

  • @landyray444
    @landyray444Ай бұрын

    honestly i've got things to do like paint my hamsters toenails and now i want a hamster to do this... thank you for this, ive been so tired of watching people chase and me being the chaser no wonder im so angry and exhausted all the time, no way to live unless you want that life

  • @galk-io9bp
    @galk-io9bpАй бұрын

    Thank you. I’m learning from scratch after 12 years of abusive marriage… The divorce is still ahead but I can’t wait for formalities, the life is so short and precious, just like you wrapped up your podcast! THANK YOU 🙏

  • @Natalie78990
    @Natalie789907 күн бұрын

    WOW! You Explained this concept so well! I am keeping this video in my back pocket for the rest of my life. I think almost every woman needs to hear and understand this. Much love to you💓 Thank you!

  • @AnettPato-gk9io
    @AnettPato-gk9ioАй бұрын

    You are sharing some really valuable insights, I particularly liked when you talked about simply letting him know you have these feelings and otherwise not bother and drama about it. Appreciate your content, thank you!

  • @sungoddess_
    @sungoddess_Ай бұрын

    Right on time. Thank you for sharing your gifts through your voice with all of us.

  • @intuitivemamadrea8166
    @intuitivemamadrea8166Ай бұрын

    “Stop! Hammer Time”!!!! Yas preach sista 👏🏾I spent to much time being a Golden Retriever, it’s actually quite embarrassing 😔but it’s time for me to step into my black cat energy 🐈‍⬛❤

  • @pittifulbeauty
    @pittifulbeautyАй бұрын

    I soooooo needed this!😢 The animal analogy is spot on. Thank you for this. Divine timing ❤

  • @Nirvanaxkrasa
    @Nirvanaxkrasa7 күн бұрын

    Beautiful glimmer of life within the delight in your words.

  • @s.tapley9531
    @s.tapley9531Ай бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @Vanillaaxo
    @VanillaaxoАй бұрын

    Black cat energy✨

  • @ivatan1214
    @ivatan1214Ай бұрын

    You are one of the most authentic person I know. Been following you pre pandemic days. No kids back then 😊 and Happy for you now that you have 2 wonderful kids ❤

  • @judyconte6566
    @judyconte6566Ай бұрын

    I loved that you got all the ADS out of the way in the beginning. You didn't have too many Ads & because of that I subscribed to this podcast. Moreover I am gonna buy some of those products.

  • @dianajane03
    @dianajane03Ай бұрын

    Here while it’s fresh!! 💗💗

  • @raraavis1097
    @raraavis1097Ай бұрын

    This episode is SO GOOOOOOD 😻 thank you!!

  • @lifewithsu7130
    @lifewithsu7130Ай бұрын

    I love your energy, thank you for taking the time to teach us girlies how to live our lives with more Passion and love and less attachment 🙏🏼✨

  • @user-rc2kk3rx3t
    @user-rc2kk3rx3tАй бұрын

    You don’t realise how amazing and life changing your videos are… you are the best on KZread that I’ve come across for helping women

  • @jennasenna5482
    @jennasenna5482Ай бұрын

    this video is GOLDEN

  • @jessicaowusuwaah976
    @jessicaowusuwaah976Ай бұрын

    Oh this is a masterpiece really needed this

  • @myriambenromdhane1703
    @myriambenromdhane1703Ай бұрын

    You're honestly one of the best women I listen to. I wish I had someone like you in my family to get inspired from.

  • @lilboozey
    @lilboozey16 күн бұрын

    love your chill way to talk, you have a very chill aura

  • @mayamhsen9460
    @mayamhsen9460Ай бұрын

    😂 painting her hamster's toenails. I love your theatrical performative voice and body language Margarita ❤😊

  • @regalbeauty88
    @regalbeauty88Ай бұрын

    This was absolutely incredible advice. Love it.

  • @Anny_Anton
    @Anny_AntonАй бұрын

    “Hello Roberta” 🤣 You are pure gold. 💫

  • @melissataylor7063

    @melissataylor7063

    Ай бұрын

    This was classic😂

  • @majag9722
    @majag9722Ай бұрын

    This is my favourite video of yours it almost made me emotional you have explained everything so clearly !

  • @sonnenschein553
    @sonnenschein553Ай бұрын

    Such a glorious episode ❤

  • @kylaszone
    @kylaszoneАй бұрын

    I just adore you, you've helped me come into myself/less in my masculine over the past 2 years, thank you so much.

  • @Pecabeth4ever1214
    @Pecabeth4ever1214Ай бұрын

    Every time I listen to you I get so pumped up. You are a Queen!

  • @evahusak8291
    @evahusak8291Ай бұрын

    I have a beautiful black fluffy cat and I can see how her qualities align with this video. Thank you Margarita 🩷 perfectly said. And I also had a little giggle at “painting your hamster’s toenails” 🤣

  • @leche1971
    @leche1971Ай бұрын

    One of your BEST videos. 🎉 Well done.

  • @jessicajoyhardee6668
    @jessicajoyhardee6668Ай бұрын

    Yes! I love more frequent chats! This feels like a sisterhood! Thank you! Yes!!! To a podcast about the different types of men and how to interact with them! Have a beautiful day!!!!☀️✨☀️💝

  • @elenavargas7764

    @elenavargas7764

    Ай бұрын

    I love the sisterhood idea ❤

  • @natmel19
    @natmel19Ай бұрын

    I almost never comment on videos, but this is truly amazing. Thank you for putting this out 🖤

  • @kaylengroman2796
    @kaylengroman2796Ай бұрын

    Thank you Margarita. This video helps me to hold myself accountable ❤

  • Ай бұрын

    I love your energy and ty for the service you’re providing for us recovering golden retrievers! 🙏🏽♥️😌

  • @sky_woman111
    @sky_woman111Ай бұрын

    Definitely needed to hear this!

  • @rebeccaly
    @rebeccalyАй бұрын

    always powerful and encouraging stuff. Thank you Margarita as always!! ❤ appreciated the ads at the beginning so I could hear the whole message at once

  • @BreJax
    @BreJax12 күн бұрын

    You go girl, spoken like a true Queen ❤

  • @angievalenccia
    @angievalencciaАй бұрын

    So spot on- with or without I’m going to be ok ✨ cuz everything works out for me in this glimmer of a life.

  • @ohyoufailedbusiness308
    @ohyoufailedbusiness308Ай бұрын

    Pink looks real good on you girl ❤

  • @abethajeevarathinam1640
    @abethajeevarathinam1640Ай бұрын

    You're doing amazing margarita!!♥️

  • @marjoriecruz7890
    @marjoriecruz789029 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this! I needed to hear this. I’ve been the golden retriever and now I’m going to embody the black cat energy!

  • @jef13dead
    @jef13deadАй бұрын

    As a man with avoidant attachment issues due to past trauma that I'm working on, you just described all the elements that give me peace in a relationship.

  • @saedaissa5949

    @saedaissa5949

    25 күн бұрын

    I have anxious attachment I need to work on this I feel my gf is avoidant so idk how to apply this

  • @stard8631
    @stard8631Ай бұрын

    Please do video on Alpha men. I am married to one and I would love to learn more about being in a relationship with one.

  • @sus4nah

    @sus4nah

    Ай бұрын

    Lmfao

  • @someonesomewhere3963

    @someonesomewhere3963

    Ай бұрын

    Sending you thoughts and prayers ❤

  • @SirenaSpades

    @SirenaSpades

    Ай бұрын

    Men are supposed to be alpha men...

  • @Carmenmzmz
    @CarmenmzmzАй бұрын

    i'm learning so much from you Margarita thank you!!! i always feel so empowered listening to you

  • @rochellebartholomew
    @rochellebartholomewАй бұрын

    Suuuuuch good wisdom Margarita!!!!! Thankful for you ❤

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