I'm 52 years old married woman with all the ups and downs of the relationship, and can say that all from this message is true, true and true! Thank you for confirming it!

I have learned in my 45 years that we should never chased a man. If he wants you, you will know. If he doesn't....straighten up that crown and keep going 👑

@sarina5352

2 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍So true, by chasing someone especially in a relationship, ultimately you loose your own worth.

@allthingdranabeauty

2 жыл бұрын

ILove this 🥰❤️

@browningmaxus5360

2 жыл бұрын

But but what about in powering women they can do everything a man can but still won't ask a man out lol

@Shipman32

2 жыл бұрын

@@browningmaxus5360 someone has to wear the pants in the relationship 😎💯

@browningmaxus5360

2 жыл бұрын

@@Shipman32 don't tell that to some women you will be viewed as sexist 😒🤔

strong self esteem, self love, she has a life, she has standards, she does not look for a man to complete her, femininty,she does not chase a man, she is a decent woman who cares for others.

@majakelly1455

2 жыл бұрын

5pm

@hArtyTruffle

2 жыл бұрын

That eliminates most rape victims then.

@Katren2024

2 жыл бұрын

1. She dosnt need men

@Portia620

2 жыл бұрын

You can have it all and marry a toxic man whom will turn that all around.

@helenpotter2657

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you must love your self snd it all comes in to play 🙏🏻❤️ Have a life besides your man !! Believe me it’s important , let him chase you don’t always be the one chasing And love you number negativity about yourself keep it there !! No ones wants a person who doesn’t love them self !!🙏🏻❤️ There’s someone out there for you try to stop looking It’s an undeniable energy of confidence most important confidence 🙏🏻❤️

Most men are not matured enough to recognise high value women until quite late in their life. Basically ladies enjoy your life love yourself and thank almighty we are women..

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

That's true and it was the topic of my latest video kzread.info/dash/bejne/h4Wnytx7nbWugLw.html, It takes a high value man to recognize a high value woman, and it usually happens later in life for men

@marigold9736

2 жыл бұрын

@@Theblackswan55 Yes, Emotional maturity happens much late in men, I am Muslim and in our holy book Quran almighty said a human being is not fully matured until the age 40 for men and women, so after 40 yrs of age starts the beginning of a emotional maturity for the heart and mind. It's an advantageous position for men but also women they are more receptive 🌹❤️.

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

@@marigold9736 thanks for your valuable contribution and sharing your knowledge about different cultures/religions.

@Books_Makeup

Жыл бұрын

This is true. A high-value woman will not need to have a life with a man and will build it on her own or with someone more mature.

@LeratoM98

Жыл бұрын

Very well said 💯

My ex came back after 6 year breakup! He treated me so bad in the past ! When he came back he thought I was the door mat he left !!! High value me had him begging for me & no my self worth was 🙌 high I worked on me & his old ways showed up when I wouldn’t take him back so I left him with my best friend he left for ! He said the grass was not greener & he made a mistake 😊high value is important tool for every woman

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

I am actually making a video about why men come back months, even years later in your case...and my first point is ' the grass is not greener' ...men can be so naive and they pay the price for it... especially if you levellep up in the meantime ❤️❤️

9 THINGS THAT TURN OFF HIGH VALUE WOMEN: 1. Men in skinny jeans 2. Men with a history of domestic violence and or stalking 3. Inconsistent Communication 4. A man asking or willing to borrow money or live at your home. 5. A man that believes in 50/50 or is cheap 6. A man that has noticeable narcissistic personality traits 7. A man that doesn’t work out or has poor eating habits 8. A man that dresses like a bum or like he rolled out of bed. 9. A man without principles and ethics that they practice consistently

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

👍

@JJ-iq8mi

2 жыл бұрын

Can't bloody stand men in skinny jeans. Disgusting masculine look. Total turn off.

@bilalkhares9337

Жыл бұрын

So if you don't believe in 50/50 then you believe in gender roles where the woman is a housewife and must obey her husband right?

@littleNica98

Жыл бұрын

@@bilalkhares9337 wtf? Just because a woman chooses to be a domestic goddess and serve her husband in the home while he provides doesn't mean she has to "Obey her husband". Reach a little higher 🤣💀

@hughdncy

Жыл бұрын

The looks don't matter...he can wear any jeans he wants. End of story

The moral to the story is don’t “settle” for someone that isn’t willing to give as much as you are. Someone on U Tube had a saying about not letting someone constantly with draw from you relationship account without making any deposits!!

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

That's a very nice saying...always invest in people who reciprocate and invest in you as well.

@ARrights

2 жыл бұрын

This is a critical point. My early relationships were inhibited by lack of self love so it blocked me from receiving love but allowed me to receive financially. I gradually built myself up financially n set myself free from that marriage. I began investing in myself until I attained self love. Now I can receive.

These are qualities my mother instilled in us as we were starting to become young ladies Love you mom for all your Wisdom.

The most important thing for us to remember, is that just because we have messed up royally in this area in the past doesn't mean we can't start over. Believe me, I'm having to tell myself that, big time!

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

100% true. You can start all over again anytime of your life once you realize what you did wrong.

Aswell as avoiding this behaviour ourselves it’s also important to avoid any work environments where people display these traits as part of the culture. I started a new job and my colleagues were bitchy, attention seeking and controlling women at one point and I soon started thinking this behaviour was ok and I joined in the gossiping and pettiness I’m ashamed to say. I left a long time ago but our environments can influence us more than we realise.

@amandaa3713

2 жыл бұрын

Not me. I dont get influenced easily

@tayoremi8781

2 жыл бұрын

Always separate yourself from toxic people. Plan your exit to a better job. A great work environment is very important.

This video deserves a standing ovation 👏 Completely agree! 🙌

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

I am proud to be a high value woman and stand by what is standard.

I found a lot in me, I didn't know I am high value women. I started to like me more.

A high value woman treats others as she would want others to treat her.

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@mercedescada9202

2 жыл бұрын

That's correct

Thank you so much for this, needed to hear this at the moment! God bless 🙏❤️

In spite of growing up in a sociocultural environment that suppresses women's identities and endorses codependency, if a woman can indeed develop the qualities that are outlined in this video, then believe me it's no small feat.

The life I've led for the last 3 decades has been a life of recovery from familial verbal and Emotional abuse becoming an assertive justifier rather than staying the passive-compliant child I was in my youth and learning to regain my balance in life so I don't become an aggressive-rebeller who won't control his temper. Not looking to scare or intimidate anyone unless you force my hand first.

Simply an independent woman❤❤❤

Thank you you just described me in this video 🦋

Much needed reminder. Thank you very much.👌

Thank you so much for this high-quality video 😃😉

Thank you this video really help me know more about myself; i'm grateful to my parents and kins. Cause now i know that I'm not like others but happily I'm a high standard woman. ❤❤

Great video. I enjoyed. Thank you.

She doesn't have to be hateful to another woman and be a better woman.

No truer words ever spoken.Thank you.and Amen.

I love it. Now, I know where I stand!

Super presentation of women! Absolutly true + so important! Each of your points! 👍❤

Well said and we'll gathered data❤️

On the other hand a man devalues himself when he falls for the helpless waif act.....makes him look stupid because he doesn't seen through their act and is being used and soon to be dumped when a better sucker comes along.

I must say dating is not easy nowadays 🥴 wish I born in diff era lol anyone agrees?!

@lsss155

2 жыл бұрын

Hajar, I see what you mean. How men view women is discussing, beauty and body, straight to bed. AIDS candidate, and no, protection doesn't always protect you, AIDS candidate. 🙄 geezers!

@judyperri9496

2 жыл бұрын

How naive you are to think it has ever bean easy

@archie0802

2 жыл бұрын

100% relatable

@jenniferbullett7254

2 жыл бұрын

I agree dating is hard.

@fcdck497

2 жыл бұрын

So true...

I think this applies to anyone whether it is a man or a woman. This is actually about a highly valued human being.

1:34 strong self-esteem 2:28 self-love 3:30 she has a life 4:05 she has standards 5:00 doesn't need a man to complete her 5:58 feminine 6:38 doesn't chase after a man 7:25 cares

@samanthamakhafola3014

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

This is really good. Thanks alot

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💗💗💗

Listening to this video affirms that I'm on a right track😊😊🥰

Well appreciated ❤️

Wowwww.. awesome video! Love it ❤

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Great content 😌👍🏻

I am so pleased that you are a man who is wise.

Thank you so much 💓

love you videos !

Very well said.

I absolutely agree with 7 characteristics. There is one that is not that simple. I base it on my own experience, other women and many talks with men. High value woman also intimidates, even the most courageous man. I know at least 3 men who gave up on the woman, the love of their life, because they did not believe they were good enough, though there was nothing wrong with them. However men who have nothing to offer believe they are God sent gift for any woman. I was shocked when I heard a man I know well, proposed to a very high quality woman. She is a very successful professional, very attractive, with a great life, she rejected a very interesting man because he did not always respect her. The one who proposed to her has no qualifications, no job, he is clean, but otherwise neglects his appearance completely, he wasted a substantial inheritance. So, you see, it is not that simple.

Very interesting 👍

I pray it works. I like a guy who knows how to treat me well. We will make me feel loved and appreciated.

Alhumdulillah im glad i have all these traits in me.

@aaminahzehra7526

2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdullilah

Just had to double check ✌️

Perfect advice thank you

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching my video 🙂🙂

Interesting thank you

This video is implying that there is such a thing as women who have lesser value and that is really offensive. Obviously there are traits people can possess that make being in an intimate relationship easier but it does not detract from their value if they do not possess these traits. Love yourself and improve yourself only for your own sake not so you can attract more men.

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

There is a difference between intrinsic value and perceived value. All humans have equal intrinsic value, not just women. However, refusing to admit that their could be different levels of perceived value is refusing the reality of how the world works and the opportunity to learn from other's feedback to improve oneself.

@Julia-b9x

2 жыл бұрын

There are women that men should see the red flags around (women with low value traits) - ie women that do not treat others well, women that do not treat animals well, women that want a man to rescue them (financially or emotionally), women that can’t hold down a job, etc……..

That’s me...

Great video 💯👍

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Excellent video. Happy Easter from our channel: Australian Parakeets Stars

Why don't people just be who they are? Authenticity is better than trying to be 'high value', one man's meat is another man's poison as the saying goes, one man may consider high maintenance to be equal to high value, another may hate a woman to wear make up and high heels, some men like educated women, others prefer a good cook, be what you want, im sure Amal Clooney is a nice woman, but there are lots of qualities that make a good woman, stop stressing ladies you are great as you ARE, high heels, lipstick and all 💄👠

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

The self acceptance is very important for self esteem and you need strong self esteem in order to be successful in life at anything and relationship are no different. Being high value means being the best version of who you are...which means you are still who you are but the most beautiful version of it that attracts high quality men.

@rohlupuiifanai757

2 жыл бұрын

That's why the video mentioned "loving oneself"

@kimrose80

2 жыл бұрын

I agree LL..and sometimes people have had trauma in their lives and have attachment issues and low self esteem and are working through it and re-learning healthier patterns of behaviour..Would that make someone a low value women?? Not to me it doesn’t..I think being a genuinely good person is what makes someone high value..at least in my book..

@llll309

2 жыл бұрын

@@kimrose80 yes absolutely, and also being a lady when out in public 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@arletemoreira9400

2 жыл бұрын

The best comment

Well said

This type of woman is definitely high value and extremely rare….as a bachelor this nails it 👍

@judyperri9496

2 жыл бұрын

Defining people as high value and low value is so demeaning That’s why you’re a bachelor

@w.s.2102

2 жыл бұрын

@@judyperri9496 you define yourself and people can perceive that…..also I choose to live a Bachelors life as a high value Man

@bux6776

2 жыл бұрын

@@w.s.2102 😂

I see alot of me here thank u

Absolutely true!

1. A strong self-esteem from inside 2. Self love 3. She has a life 4. She has standards and does not settle for less 5. She does not look for a man to complete her 6. Femininity 7. She does not chase a man 8. She is a decent human being who cares for others.

Thank you

Salma Hayek was treated badly with her Ex because men think she will not go far being an actress and they discriminate her . because of her beauty and cool personality Mr.Pinoult fell in love with her and she's a exotic beauty

@happyfeet1866

2 жыл бұрын

True. After reading this I feel motivated.

@amandaa3713

2 жыл бұрын

Ebony I did not know she was discriminated. Damn hollywood.

@raayshreekaulesarsukul5615

2 жыл бұрын

Salma deserved the best and got the best.❤️

Good video 👍

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💗

I think that even the strongest or the prettiest woman can be treated bad.it depends on the person you have to face.i dont spend my energy thinking what should i say on order to be treated right.i am who i am kind,cultivated and nice as i can.some people have toxicity and insist on treating others bad for their own reasons.no need to worry

@jolantasinclair389

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree. Upon reflection I think those 8 characteristics are too simplistic and often contradictory. Love yourself...self esteem..yes..putting yourself first..well, does not always is a right attitude. Especially when you have children. Years ago I read a book..I don’t remember the title but more or less it was about what men want. There was a lot about being needed. I talked to some men I knew..wanted..yes, needed no. Never seek contact with a person who walked away. It depends on the reason, context and many other factors. High standards, yes, but we also need to compromise now and then.

@faithgirl9708

2 жыл бұрын

@@jolantasinclair389 i was surprised positively by myself three days ago when an old lady spoke to me bad and i reacted even worse than her.i was so angry i spoke to her in first person and my eyes were fire.not everytime this pretty nice smiley girl though....

Spot on

Excellent

God bless you all ❤️

Exactly true!

Sb treated me like i don't matter and although i was very worried now i feel totally indifferent.i will speak to him totally cynical because i have to solve some problems and then cold hearted i leave.people are capable of anything good or bad.you too!

Gos bless you. I love you my brother.

A great woman always understands 🌝⭐️💫🌕🌟

I been like that for many years, sadly I couldn’t pass by some gold diggers 🤷‍♀️

Men should act like men as well, and no matter what it does not give a man the right to mistreat you. And you have to heal within yourself!!!!

What text to speech program/voice did you use for this video, anybody?

Absolutely.

Too good

yes correct...

This is meant to me. Thank you universe 🙏🙏🙏🙏🕉️🕊️

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💗💗❤️❤️

Folks, there is nothing like all this... You just get lucky or you don't. Most of the lucky ones I've seen don't even deserve the weirdest of morons. And vice versa. It's all luck or karma or whatever. Sometimes like a groove, it's a perfect fit... Sometimes you chisel it and make it the way you want. Sometimes no chiseling or abrasion or even cutting it up doesn't work... Get on with your lives instead of listening to crap and live your life as best as you can 😘❤️

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

And how is this advise any helpful to people? "Just live your lives as best as you can?" What does that even mean? You are absolutely entitled to your opinion but I hope people realize that they have control over a lot of things and it's not all just 'luck' ...and just because you haven't figured it out yourself does not mean there is no rational explanation to the many examples of 'lucky' people you seem to have come across.

@priyanka0107

2 жыл бұрын

I agree we can control some of the things by responding in a certain way, however, in case of love and commitment, there is also the aspect of acceptance which most of these videos don’t seems to talk about. If I have to pretend to be a certain way, it’s not a relationship I can have all my life.. no one can. Sometimes it’s just an unfortunate decision and we are stuck with the wrong folks, nothing specifically wrong in that other person, it’s just the two people are wrong for each other. Then all this high value stuff becomes meaningless.. then it’s not like one started with low self esteem Or insecurities but the way the relationship unfolds ends one’s up questioning the basis of their existence.. Ofcourse if the other person is truly harmful.. then god help us

Love is God and God is Love. Thank you.

summary: a high value woman is a grown up girl who had the luck of not been abused by her parents

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

I see your point and I partly agree in the sense that a woman's parents play a huge part in her becoming a high value from the very beginning...but I guess it's never too late to realize if you were not blessed with such parents, heal yourself and become in your own right a high value person.

@dot510

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you, but some things cannot be fixed in this world. I guess that's what she means.

No matter care it done work

Lots of lessons about high value woman.

Well, that's me. No bragging, just fact.

Beautifully said!!! Please KZread SGI Buddhist movement an introduction full length version. This will help build a strong inner self to become a high value woman.!! Peace and NammyohorengekyO!!!

I appreciate her personality , career & looks as well . A simple question : I’m sure was raised until she was married to George Clooney : she’s 36 yrs old ; why she could not get a man & marry & settle ?! Why she could not attract quality men ?! & so on . I truly believe people take results & build assumptions accordingly .

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comment @lucky sahar. I don"t think she could not attract a quality man into her life prior to being with Clooney. I think she was looking for the right person to come along. The right person is not only a quality person but also someone you share a special connection with, some common values and goals and you overall feel good around...and that's not an easy thing to attain even when you are as successful as she was and was surrounded by high quality men. That's at least my opinion and I might be wrong.

@luckysahar683

2 жыл бұрын

@@Theblackswan55 this is exactly what I mean . My point is that prior to finding Clooney she was not satisfied with men she met & probably with many unsuccessful relationships ; the thing that definitely raised same question many quality women face themselves with & also society face them with which is : why can’t you yet find the right man ?!

@karlabritfeld7104

2 жыл бұрын

I think she was looking for a rich man.

@reviewranger4202

2 жыл бұрын

@@karlabritfeld7104 of course! If I was as rich and educated as her I would too.

@elefoundation3703

2 жыл бұрын

Pls educate yourself some more on relationships I am afraid you're starting to sound funny. High value women are also selective and rare. Q large percent of men outthere are low value. Some think money or profession makes them high value. No it does not. Its a combination of traits. Ibhope this helps settle your plenty questions and no 33 is not old. Judge faith Jenkins married at 42. People are on different life journeys and time table which are all different from yours.

Im proud to be a high value woman🧿

Now I don't settle, not wouldn't for anything that isn't the best treatment. And I'd rather be alone than be with someone toxic again

I agree with the last comment: there is nothing uglier than a selfish self centered woman. One of my coworkers got dissed and emasculated so badly by his girl. She really treated him like crap, went on vacation without him etc but his simping couldn't see past that. Narcissists want to destroy a high value woman.

@5:53 damned if you do, damned if you don't! 😒

A marriage is a joint bank account. A high value man or woman will add more value to that account than erase

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

please, translated the video enabled💗

Why people believe that someone is so lucky someone not. Who believe what & WHY

...And because I embody all the traits mentioned here, I'm labeled as a narcissist! Hilarious.

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Ohhh the topic of my last video where I explained that low value men would label high value women 'difficult' 'crazy' and yeah narcissist would be one of them. You can watch it and see if you agree.

This is me..100 %💖💝

Thats true

@Theblackswan55

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comment 😊😊. I am just curious which traits did you find particularly true?

@annabellewilson1285

2 жыл бұрын

All of them is true

Interesting

Super

I know. But u know not many men like such high valued women for long as they are used to the crap other women offers & let them live peacefully. In the beginning they are ready to even surrender themselves to these women but at some point in the relationship they do feel inferior of her strong personality n perfect behaviour that they end up being toxic with her for no reason. So a highly strong man is needed to handle such a woman. Reason why i am single even though there is a long list of men who want me. But i dont want them. I am fed up of ending up being alone because i have high standards and strong personality that weak men can't handle. Although i have met 2-4 strong men but destiny did not have plans to bind us in the bond of marriage.

Men are like candy, you can pick and choose which part of their inner centre you desire. Or spit them out. I like to think my relationship is like yin and yang. We complement each other. To each their own. A perfect man, woman or relationship is impossible in my book. You just look on the bright side, and be with anyone who lifts you up, not drag you down.

Be comfortable with who you are.!!! Everything else will follow.

Yes