From an elderly person who had mutiple changes in her life, I can say, you did the best thing anyone could do in the situation in which you are now. And that is: excersise. Not only for your physical but more for your mental health. It helps immensely. I wish you peace with everything you going through.

Way to go, Jovie. Sorry to hear that things didn't work out. It's great to see you being proud of yourself for finding the strength within you. Love, Tom.

@gailalbers1430

10 ай бұрын

You look like a new person , Jovie. Wishing you all the Best ❤

For future content, you could do a series on how the Dutch approach health and fitness? As an American, I definitely see big cultural differences, and this topic would align closely to your own personal journey. Good luck and wish you all the best! I missed your videos :)

American (guy) watching from the state of Rhode Island in the U.S.-I discovered your channel by accident a couple(?) of years ago-and followed semi-regularly-haven't seen a post in a year(?) or so-so surprised/but not by your divorce announcement-it happens-but either way-much props for your honesty-it'll help a lot of people-that's it for now-look forward to future content!

DIY is the absolute Dutch way!! Welcome in your new life, Dutchy🤗. Wish you lots of (self)love😘

do be careful about controlling your food as a means of "controlling something in your life" as that can lead to eating disorders.

@peterjeager4083

12 күн бұрын

I agree. That exaggerated gaiety can be nothing more than a self-defensive mask above an internal nervous breakdown. I would seek a therapist in Jovie's place before it is too late.

As a dutchy i also like to hear the differences as a single parent here in the Netherlands and in the US. Furthermore i really hopen you have enough friends and network to support you in all you're going through

Best wishes for your new life Jovie. When I became a single parent with my three children I learnt how to do a lot of home and car maintenance myself, made me feel so proud and strong. Also my children were so proud of me. ❤

You look better than ever! A brand new start for a brand new Jovie...with little sparkles in her eyes. Good luck for the future.

Jovie.. You've helped me so much on my journey to the Netherlands. I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough time, but you seem like a very strong person and I am confident that you will come out even stronger on the other side of this. All my best thoughts are with you.

Oh Jovie, I am so glad you are back and that, despite the up coming divorce, that you are doing well. I would love to hear about your training and eating schedule. I can’t wait to see your apartment decorated. Enjoy your new apartment!

Well done, moving in to a Dutch home is not for the faint of heart. Never mind while going through a divorce! I don’t have kids but did go through a divorce while living overseas and so away from my family and it is tough. The only thing I can say, not knowing your personal situation of course, is try to remember why you loved this person and try and make the divorce as amiable as possible. Not just for the kids but also for yourself, life is much better if you are able to communicate with your ex, without hatred. Good luck on all your new adventures, may they be happy, full of love and laughter

@klmegm197682

Ай бұрын

Nicely stated ❤️

Many of us can relate. You are a beautiful person, so keep trucking.❤

Hi Jovie, so sorry to hear about your divorce. It must be difficult. As a mediator, I help people with this proces also is some international cases here in the Netherlands. If you are looking for someone to help you with the video about divorce in the Netherlands, feel free to get in touch.

I absolutely adore that you are learning how strong and capable you are through this difficult process. You're such a beam of sunshine regardless, and as someone who has been through an enormous amount of things and am still working on getting better, I just want to say how proud of you I am

How about taking us through your apartment process with you, from an empty box to the finished home??? It could be inspiring for other girls facing uncertain times like this to see that, if you can do it, then we can, too.

Wishing you and your family all the best! ❤

I missed you so much! Glad to see you back, but so sorry for what you were going through. YES to ALL the videos!! Yes please ma’am!! I’m here for all of it! *can you tell I’m a HUGE fan* 😊 Happy to see you again. Sending you all the love and hugs!❤

You were very missed Jovie! I'm so excited for the new season of this channel :) Sending lots of love & thanks for the gym motivation

I like to watch your videos because you have such a sweet voice, a lovely smile, and even in your present turbulent situation you are able to stay calm and positive. I wish you strength, Jovie!

I haven't been following your videos for some time. Today I stumbled on this video. You look marvellous and you sound much more confident. Hope you'll find your happiness.

Congratulations on the divorce Jovie. I also divorced in April 2023. Best decision of my life. I’m 100% independent. After a rough couple of months my kids and I have all of our essentials, minimalist and easy home. Kids live with me and are sooooooooo much happier and tranquil. I feel like my IQ went up dramatically. I’m not kidding it’s as if a thick fog was removed from my brain and I can think clearly and creatively now. I have a whole set of new friends now which was not possible to have before due to my ex’ attitude. My focus is on physical and mental health and enjoying life to the fullest with my kiddies. In one sentence: Welcome to Freedom!

Sorry to hear about your divorce. I am looking forward to seeing some parts of the new chapter. It would interesting to hear about the process of you getting your new apartment. Wishing you peace and happiness ❤

I love that you are focusing on you your health and happiness I think Olaf said it best "We're calling this 'controlling what you can when things feel out of control. '

Congratulations on all of your new endeavors! Sorry to hear about the challenges that you are going through and appreciate you sharing your life with us!

Bright Blessings, Jovie - a lot of this is resonating with me and my situation, right now. Solidarity, sister! ✨

Het beste en veel geluk in je nieuwe leven, Jovie. Je verdient het zeker na alle ellende die je doorstaan hebt. Hopelijk gaat het vanaf nu beter. Het is fijn je terug te zien.

@mariadebake5483

9 ай бұрын

@@leonmiguel459 I said that I wish her much happiness in her new life. I added: you certainly deserve it after all the misery you've been through. Hopefully things will go better from now on. It's good to see you back again.

@mariadebake5483

9 ай бұрын

@@leonmiguel459 I hope you could understand it now, now I've translated it into English?

@mariadebake5483

9 ай бұрын

@@leonmiguel459 I can read and understand German perfectly, yes. I had 6 years of German lessons at the middelbare school (secondary school) when I was young, and I've kept it up by reading quite a lot in the language. Same as I did with English and French.

@mariadebake5483

9 ай бұрын

@@leonmiguel459 Strangely enough, I always found French the easiest language. I know I'm an exception in that but I never understood why people think French so difficult. To me it's extremely easy.

@mariadebake5483

9 ай бұрын

@@leonmiguel459 la langue Française est plus facile que l'Anglais dans mon opinion, donc je te comprends!

Good for you! Welcome back. Wish you all the best for the future and looking forward to more videos 👍🏻

Jovie, you look so incredible and feel proud of your efforts, thanks for sharing your story!

Yovie, more than you know, it’s so inspiring to see you moving through this and thriving during this difficult time. I’m so happy for you and excited for your new beginnings with the “old, new” you. I love that you’re getting back to HER ❤

You come across so much more genuine and relaxed than in some your previous videos. Good for you!

Hi Jovie, love to hear all about the things you mention in this video. Wishing you all the the best!

Yes 👍 to all topics for videos that you suggested in this video. I sincerely wish you all the best in this journey that you’re on. Your transformation is amazing 🤩 You look great and I wish you nothing but happiness and health

Hey Love, I have followed you for YYYEEEAAARRRSSS and you have helped me to get to where I am only ONE YEAR AWAY from moving abroad to Malmo, Sweden! The next chapter things that I'd love to see are: (1) Your weight loss and health journey (especially through the healthcare system there). (2) Your home or apartment buying process(es). (3) Your day in the life journey in The Netherlands (going grocery shopping, getting on public transit, etc.) (4) Your new employment journey. (5) Anything Americans abroad. Keep doing all the things you do. We're here with you girl!!!

@krokodilen31

Ай бұрын

Interesting, do u plan a YT channel about that?

@stac_y_with_no_e

Ай бұрын

@@krokodilen31 . . . I hope to . . . especially since I just got accepted to graduate school in Sweden, which allows me to bring my family with me.

@krokodilen31

Ай бұрын

@@stac_y_with_no_e ok lets hope so.....ur welcome to our sometimes dark and cold country.........🤗

@stac_y_with_no_e

Ай бұрын

@@krokodilen31 why thank you 😊 I’m still getting the “to-do” things done, but I’ll keep folks posted.

Jovie, congrats on being on the road to the life you want and deserve! This must be a hard time but I'm glad that you seem so happy and focused. Good luck with everything, follow your intuition and pay no attention to the critics! ❤️

Thanks for the update and sorry for the bad news. Best of Luck!❤

You look great! I am sorry for the difficult times you have been going through. I would love to see an apartment video from now until it is all done. Love your videos and welcome back!

Wow, it's impressive to see how well you cope with such an awful situation. You see the positive things and have a good focus on your health. I'm happy to see your future content, and I wish you well with a new episode of your life!

I’m so happy to see you making videos again! I’ve missed hearing you talk about your life and adventures. I’d be very interested in hearing about all of the topics you suggested - the legal process, the apartment hunt, your DIY projects and your health routines. I’m also here for whatever other topics inspire you! I started watching for your videos about Dutch culture, but after watching all of your videos, I find you warm and kind and funny - I love hearing about your life, your observations and opinions, and am looking forward to whatever you choose to share here in the future.

Very proud of you and the rediscovery that you are doing of yourself. You have another expat supporting you here ❤ keep at it!

Way to go Jovie! You inspire me so much, can't wait to see what great things you do next! Personally, I always love seeing shots of nature and architecture. 🧡💛💚💙💜

Good to have you back Yovie, you look fab, wishing you all the best and keep strong.xx

Good luck to you! Always loved your videos!

Glad to catch up with you, Jovie. I wish you all the best in your new home and circumstances, and look forward to seeing and hearing more soon! 😀😉

You’re looking amazing!! Congrats on all of your progress. Send all of that stress away!! ❤

...good to have you back...whatever you do or want to do...think things over and then decide...hope things will work out fine for you!!!

Jovie I wish you the best in your new life. You look very strong and definitely I can see a beautiful change in your energy 🥰🥰 I am very excited to see this new chapter, honestly anything you share with us I will be happy to see. I am going through a lot of change and uncertainty right now as well, and you are such an inspiration for me, to do better and to be better. Thank you Jovie! 🩷🩷

You are an inspiration Jovie. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Would love to see some videos on how you found housing in the Netherlands and your experience with that. It would also be interesting to know how you view the Netherlands now versus as a married person. Thank you!

You look great Jovie! I love all your videos no matter what the subject is, I love your positivity. Positivity is very strong, every winner is a positive person, I m sure you will find good subjects for your videos!

Love seeing you again! Welcome back.

Omg you've been so off my radar and off my reccommended page but i came here to check in and all this has happened. I really am happy for you, it looks like youre getting close and honest with yourself and thats the best thing a human can experience or do in life. To go throught life with that mindset. Its easy for men or life to get in the way of that so im generally always happy for women when they get out of relationships and get the chance to really rely on themselves and see how powerful that is.

Nice to see you again, I haven't been on your channel in a while. You look amazing and beautiful as always. What you're going through must be very hard but hard things lead to the most incredible places so I am excited to see where you will be in the future. Hope you feel supported.

So nice to see you're back! Inspite to your private problems! I hope you will get better and better, day by day! Stay healthy! Keep vloging! 👍👏

You’re learning how to do it the Dutch way 💪🏼. Most Dutch people paint their houses and/or doing the flooring themselves. Good for you for doing it, you’re much stronger than you’d think.

Best wishes in your new start. You deserve to be happy and I can't wait to see the 'old' Jovie back here. What I would like to see in the future, is definitely more fo you and your content. I'm proud of you. 😍

Wow Jovie !! Wish you all the love in the world!

Hi Jovie, go girl. Keep sending out your good vibes. ❤

Missed watching your videos. Hope you come through this difficult time and become even more happy in your freedom.

Wishing you all the best in your new life!

Thanks for sharing! Your openness is inspiring. I also face challenges in the Netherlands, and fitness has helped me feel more in control of my life (although is anyone ever, really). Finding a good therapist also helped. Suddenly facing multiple life changes in a foreign country can be challenging, and I bet you have a great support system around you.

Haven't checked your channel for a while. Stay strong and love you!!!

Lots of strength in dealing with the divorce procedures. Succes met het zoeken van een nieuwe balans. Je bent veel afgevallen zie ik. Ik zou graag woningvlogs zien. Inrichten huis. Je lacht veel maar het zal niet makkelijk zijn geweest. En nu nog steeds misschien. Wat goed van je dat je nu van alles zelf doet. Ik snap het helemaal toen je zei dat je over sporten zei dat je daar controle over hebt in een periode dat alles toch onzeker is. ❤❤❤

So sorry to hear this unwelcome news. Your such a nice and kind person. But your strong. Injoy your life and beter things are on there way.

Thanks for sharing! Looking forward to your updates!

Life happens to us all... All the best to you, Jovie. Stay strong and healthy. And YOU LOOK GREAT! Much love from Amsterdam xxx

It is so great to see you again. You look wonderful. Looking forward to seeing more from you.

Lot's of support Jovie! Well done ! Moved to NL, also frustrated by house and job hunting, fully understand you!

Oh Jovie I've missed you! Happy to hear your life is on track even with the divorce. Life goes on either way and we must make the best of it. Looking foward to your videos.

Good to see you again, i hope good things will come your way. About video content: I would love to see how you decorate and (thrift)shop for your new house!

You got this Jovie. And just take the time you need.

Wishing you and your kiddos all the best. You deserve the world my friend. I would love to follow your journey getting your apartment together and your day to day life and how you are doing it in the Netherlands 💙

I'm sorry you and your family have to go through this, I wish you all the best. Maybe a new series with Daan could give a renewed spark to the the channel and you personally some distraction. Glad to see you smiling in the video, all is not lost.

Wonderful to see u on your channel Jovie i been follow ing u kinda since the start and i really missed i and your never ending energy...... Lots og hugs from Sweden and take care always.

I wish you the best and I hope it will turn out for the best. It sounds as if you're turning a very interesting new leaf despite the taxing process you're going through. I hope you can still make videos and feel that your community supports you. I'd love to see your views on building your new home and how divorce works in the Netherlands but only when you're comfortable doing so. I am sure no one wants you to get into details you don't want to share. Kudos on the fitness challenge. You look fabulous for it and I'm happy you feel better. Again all the best in the upcoming times.

You are looking good Jovie. Enjoy your new home!

You go girl! The best wishes for your new life in The Netherlands.

Divorse is never easy but you seem to come on out stronger. Thats a good thing. Be proud of what you doing at the moment. I would love to see all the videos you talk about all are intresting. See you soon with a new video.

All the best Jovie!

Sad to hear about the divorce but good to hear that you're doing well. I'm looking forward to some new video's with Jovie's DIY lessons.

I just came across your video, and I would love to hear the divorce process as I’m currently going through one. Thank you and good luck with everything 🤍

I'm so glad you're taking time to take care of yourself. Divorce is a super stressful time and I cannot imagine how it must be with children in the mix and as an expat. Remember to take time to feel your feelings. I hope you find a new stability and are able to make your new home a reflection of you.

All great video ideas!

I am very interested understanding how to get a apartment. Love your work, glad to see your back and doing well.

Hi Jovie! So good to see you. Very happy to know that you are making the necessary adjustments in a very difficult time. Very sorry to hear that you are going through a divorce hon. I'm wishing you all the best during the course of this life transition. I would very much like to know more about how you got your new apartment. I intend to become a permanent resident in the NL soon so I need all of the help I can get. I would also enjoy hearing about how you learned to do your own home improvements. I'm certainly going to have to do much of the work myself.

Big good luck to you in the future.❤❤

Glad you're back, Jovie. I can see the recent times left its marks. I hope you are going to do well building your new life.

I'm so proud of you i know some of these are hard for you but you can do this.

Hi Jovie, I have been watching your videos for a while now and recently moved to NL myself. I have been struggling a lot with my mental health lately and I was wondering if you could ever do a video on how mental health help in NL works. Thanks and so glad you're back!

Well, I have been following your channel on and off since the beginning. You seem to be on the right track. I hope you can limit the damage to your children. I have gone through divorce myself. I was diagnosed with Aspergers and my ex did not like that. So yeah, there you go then, life in tatters, including my son's whom I lost for the most part as it is customary to assign children to the mother. Combined with that a good friend died, my father died and I lost my job. So good times back in 2013. I hope you will have a better time. It seems you are radiating, so I think you will be allright. Oh, don't forget to put some of your energy into learning Dutch.

Best wishes for your new life. Learning to do for yourself makes you stronger and more independent. I'd love to better understand the Diutch educational system. Especially the route from middle school to occupational training/internship and university.

Wauw, Jovie! Je bent bezig aan een wedergeboorte. Een scheiding is een van de zwaarste dingen in het leven, ik weet nog goed hoe dat was toen mijn ouders gingen scheiden. Mijn moeder is destijds door een heel diep dal gegaan, maar is als een feniks uit de as herrezen, sterker dan ooit. En wat je zegt over sport is heel herkenbaar. Sport heeft mij door menige depressies gesleept. Ik doe het nog steeds drie keer per week, puur voor mijn mentale gesteldheid. Het geeft me zoveel energie dat ik automatisch vrolijker in het leven sta en als ik in de spiegel kijk vind ik mezelf er ook nog beter uit zien. Ik kan meer dan ik ooit heb gekund en dat was niet eens mijn doel. Beweging is gewoon zo goed voor een mens. Volgens mij ben je bezig om sterker dan ooit te worden. Geweldig! Heel veel sterkte door deze moeilijke tijden, maar bovenal gefeliciteerd met je transformatie als feniks. Je gaat een prachtige metamorfose tegemoet.

Hoi Jovie spijtig te horen van je scheiding. Bewondering voor jou doorzettingsvermogen. Het gaat je lukken! Meteen weer even geabonneerd. Fijne week gewenst.

Jovie, hope you'll soon be able to let the official stuff behind and really start your "new" life. Just keep digging to find yourself and allow the good things to come back into your life. I hope you'll share whatever you are most comfortable with sharing and get the most satisfaction from. All the best in this difficult period of your life.

Good to see you again! ❤

Good to see you back here, it's been a while. Best of luck moving on with the rest of your life and look forward to seeing more of you again soon.

Totally unexpected for me😱, but from personal experience I relate to all of you in these difficult times. When your kids get 2 warm homes, they will cope well with this new situation.

Glad you are back again on KZread! ❤

Welcome back! Sorry to hear about the things you have to go through. But you're a strong woman. Mentally and physically as well right now. So you'll be fine! Love, Robin

Sorry Jovie 😢 however, while it might not seem like it now, it's what's best sometimes and you'll come out happier in the end. To answer your questions. YES to all. I want to know about all of those processes and I think they would be helpful to a lot of people who have these questions in their mind. No one covers some of these topics and it'd be nice to know about

You’re looking good!❤