Saying “I Love You” to your dad might be the best comfort you could give him at this point. More than the physical and medical support, showing and telling your love is all he needs right now.

@carrietate8036

7 ай бұрын

Praying for your family.

@secillazkirk3866

7 ай бұрын

It could help you, as well. Allow yourself to feel what you feel. It's healing. I am praying for all of you. 🙏

@NikkiWallace-qn4cp

7 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear and learn about the Park Familiy on Justin's Parent's illness ! I've been really interested and enjoyed watching stories about this lovely married couple! It strongly reminded me of my sisters marriage to her husband and brother-in-law! The brother -in- law has a mixed heritage like Sarah"s and has two younger sisters! They are children of a interracial marriage! Their Dad was African American and their mom is Filipino! They are my sister's In- laws on her husband's side! The brother-in -law lost his dad about year and half ago because of this illness (cancer).He had been admitted to the hospital to be tested after he was diagnosed! There had been a time while he was being treated he was improving and that they believed that the illness was clearing up! He was at the advance stage of his illness at that time until later my mom and sister received news that the cancer(illness) had returned and it was spreading to the rest of his body. My mom and her two granddaughters which are my sister and brother-in-law's two young daughters! They are also my two young nieces! My mom received a text message on her phone about their granddad's condition. This is when they found out he had passed! My mom and I were at our house on a church prayer line service on Wednesday evening at 6:30 pm! My mom and grandmother would join in on this every Wednesday evening around that time! My mom is an ordained Pastor at a local church! My mom is usually really busy and very committed to her ministry and duties to the church along with other members ! In the church they are other positions besides the Pastor(Minister)! There's an usher, Record Steward , Secretary and treasurer and among other things! In the church they refer them as church officers! I have served as volunteer part-time Secretary and Custodian! My mother has been a great and actively supportive of me and my siblings over the years! She always has been real conscious and adamant about the importance of good health and putting God first in life and praying!. My parents divorced when I was about 19-years old which went began attending college! My other parent which is my dad worked as a Veterinarian! He moved out of town after 40 years. My mom is a retired counselor and teacher. Both of my parents lost their birth Dads when they were teenagers. This was before I was even born! My mom had been the one who would tell me about it coming up! She would usually keep me and my younger siblings (brother and sister a breast on things like the family history , things in our lives and health! This kind of relationship subjects vlogs for people sends a strong message out to people about what matters most in their lives! There have been some extremely personable and thoughtful/kind comments on this page on this couple! I'm extremely moved by the way the story about the couple staying together regardless if their differculties or challenges that they face it does not change their love for each other! Sarah has been so thoughtful and supportive to Justin and his parents even though they were not supportive to her husband or her! They are setting a wonderful example to those parents about what it means to be compassionate and caring towards others as a family! ❤😊

@robertaegeorge

6 ай бұрын

FORGIVENESS and Understanding are powerful healers...❤ Receive the lessons that life pains and Joy's have taught you....Share them with your children and grandchildren... " forgive us, as we forgive those, who trespassed against us" ... Be at peace...🕊🕊🕊

So sorry to hear this sad news. As an African American lady married to a white man I understand what racism is all about. Justin, Sarah is right, please make peace with your dad. Remember you can’t change how he feels about people that are different than him. There are so many reasons, never valid reasons why folks are racist. Just love your dad at this time…I will never understand why there are folks that hate me for looking different, but I don’t worry about it anymore or try to change them. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

@aliciawilliams5181

7 ай бұрын

Exactly I agree with you...forgive.. honour thy father and thy mother so thy days are mulitipled

@NewMediaMaiven

7 ай бұрын

Beautifully said.

@Sunshine-zi4nq

7 ай бұрын

Your parents are old so their time is limited. Just don't have any regrets later on. Remember his whole life, all he has done for you. I lost both my parents , mum recently. I had a good relationship with them.but regret not saying and doing so many things.

@angelamanely9254

7 ай бұрын

praying God's comfort during this difficult time ❤😢😢❤

@nesadcruz7840

7 ай бұрын

It isn’t about looks, many Asians just don’t think well of Africans and if you live in Asia you would see many who marry Africans get divorced. Also unfortunately Africans come here from Africa especially Nigeria reinforce this stereotype. Even Sarah’s own dad left her mum.Am not justifying stereotyping but saying firstly it’s not about looking different only( though that does play some part) and secondly it has to do with older Asians like his dad feeling more comfortable with their own race. Even if the in law is another Asian it won’t be easy.

Justin, I lost my father 13 years ago. The one thing I didn’t truly appreciate until that time is how permanent death is. Use this time to have as many conversations with your dad as possible. As far as the racism, let it go. That is something your dad has to atone for. You’re a good son. Show him grace during his time of transitioning.

As a fellow Korean American man, I’ve observed that the men of our fathers’ generation struggle to express their emotions. Part of me believes this difficulty stems from the traumas our fathers, uncles, and grandfathers faced during the early part of the 20th century. This wasn’t too long ago. I attended my eldest cousin’s funeral, and his father (my uncle) commented on a collage of my cousin. In this collage, I noticed many pictures of him showing a lot of affection towards his sons. During a moment when he was seen giving a piggyback ride to his son, my uncle remarked that he never gave my cousin a piggyback ride. He expressed this with so much remorse that he ended up in tears towards the end, questioning why God gave him so much pain. I can only speculate on what your dad is going through. My guess is that he regrets not being in your life. It’s possible that he sees this as a punishment for his actions. But probably wouldn’t inquire any further, and, as everyone says in the comments, be by your dad’s side so that you wouldn’t live with regrets.

Sarah is such a sweet, loving and understanding person. She doesn’t hold grudges to anyone, that is fantastic! Justin I am sorry for your father’s condition. Hope that he will go peacefully.

You see how life is... the family that he disowned is the only family that birthed children in his name, honor, and legacy. You've done well. Now, your Mom will have to lean on Y'all for strength, comfort, and help.

@malinawassman5050

7 ай бұрын

He doesn't want to miss you just yet..medication❤..will put him out sooner😊

I love how supportive Sarah is. I understand wanting to leave the past in the past, but it obviously still bothers Justin. This could be why he seems or feels indifferent to his father's condition. 10 years is a very long time, and what his father, mother, and sister did and said hurt him deeply. Not just because they didn't support him on his wedding day but also because of the way they treated his wife (Sarah) and his children. Some wounds are too deep and take longer, or a situation like this to help them heal. He has the right to want closure, and if that means bringing up the past and making his father uncomfortable, then so be it. I hope he gets the answers he's longing for, and I hope his sister and mother will apologize and make things right. Acting like it never happened doesn't change the fact that it happened.

@bibbiana4Lyfe

7 ай бұрын

He isn't indifferent. He is terrified and his reaction is the frozen fight or flight syndrome.

@zoraxye4325

7 ай бұрын

🎯. @Ambi1021 I agree with every word.

@RiqochetRoseTarot

7 ай бұрын

I agree!! I think Sarah means very well, but she has to try not to push him past his grief or convince him to let things go. He has to grieve the loss of time and the loss of what could have been with his Father😢

@zoraxye4325

7 ай бұрын

I wish Justin's father would dig deep in his heart and give a heartfelt apology before he transitions. Something like Justin, I'm so sorry. I know how much I've hurt you by rejecting Sarah and not attending your wedding. I'm going to be honest. Your mother and I were extremely hurt, angry and disappointed when you chose to marry a black woman. We expected you to marry a Korean. We don't like black people. We've heard terrible things about them and we didn't want one in our family, married to the son we adore. We were very disappointed and very hurt. But Justin, we saw how much you loved her. Back then we couldn't say her name or see her humanity. Something you may not know, *and I'm sure you don't know this Justin* We watched every single one of your videos. Every single one. Your sister would read and translate some of the comments under your videos. We watched your wedding video so many times. We saw how much you loved Sarah and how happy you looked. We didn't talk about it. We couldn't accept that you had married her so we just decided, a silent agreement, to just continue with life and pretend that Sarah doesn't exist. We watched all of your videos. When Sabrina was born we watched even more. We didn't want to admit how adorable she was or what a good wife Sarah is. When you came over to give us photos of our first grand daughter we were secretly overjoyed but still torn because she's part black and not fully Korean. I'm glad you gave me the photo albumn and I really wanted to jump in the car with you to go and meet her. Justin I could say so much but it all boils down to I'm sorry. Your children, our grandchildren are beautiful. We've missed out and those are years we can't get back. I can't get back. Please ask Sarah to come upstairs. Holding Sarah's hand... 🤝 Justin, please translate. *Sarah, I'm sorry. I'm just so sorry. Thank you for being a great wife to my son. I've never seen him so happy. He made a good choice. I watch your videos and I appreciate your sunny disposition. I've watched all of your videos. I know you're a respectful and kind person. You were always so gracious and patient towards my wife and I. You always kept the door open for us while we never opened the door, not even a little bit for you. You can't help being part black and it doesn't matter. You're my daughter and you have turned me into a grandfather of 3. I thank you and I'm sorry for rejecting you without knowing you. I'm so sorry.* *Please forgive me* Now listen, I have a big lump in my throat after imagining and writing this. If Justin's father said even HALF of these words to Sarah and his son, it would be full circle justice! Justin could let go of a decade long suitcase of pain. I'm praying for an exchange of some healing words before it's too late. 🙏 🙏 🙏

@cathytauscher6760

6 ай бұрын

@@bibbiana4Lyfe I agree he doesn’t seem indifferent at all.

Sarah, you’re such a good wife. You’re giving him everything he needs to get through this. Continue to take care of yourself and your family.❤

I am so sorry Justin. My mum passed away 2 month after finding out she had the same. Make sure to say all you need to say and make sure to make peace with everything. I am so so sorry

@vblake530530

7 ай бұрын

I’m a physician who has seen this many times before. The advice you gave is best anyone can possibly give.

@danahummer765

7 ай бұрын

Sry guys ... I have my ex here at my home was told his diabetics end stage kidney liver failure and congestive heart disease... he has covid amd pneumonia as of now they sent hum home so we have hospice coming in the next few weeks

@DeeDiamond2981

7 ай бұрын

My mom as well, has pancreatic cancer. It sadly gave us 3 months with Mom. Sry to hear

@mianone7486

7 ай бұрын

​@@DeeDiamond2981 Im sorry for your loss ♡ It was so brutal. Losing mom was so so hard. The last thing she said to me while being in so much pain was: oh honey, what have I done to deserve this? It broke my heart 😢 My mom was the kindest most loving mom I could ever wish for ❤️

Justin, I know it's hard to let things go when you feel resentment, but just try to put it in a place where it belongs: in the past. Your father is of a different generation and, while his attitude was not acceptable, appreciate that the next generation (you) has moved on in a good way. Right now, maybe you feel robbed of the precious time that you COULD have had with your parents and your wife and children. But it's done now. Life is about learning. Value the feeling of pain your father's reaction to your wife caused you, because it is a blessing to realize your children will never know that pain. You dealt with it so they never have to. As far as the Xmas party goes, skip it. It's certainly understandable that you would be preoccupied. There are nicer Xmas parties in the years ahead.

@EricaL2024

7 ай бұрын

You’re right. But, as a blk person it’s very frustrating. When you know you’re a good person and not a criminal, it’s extremely frustrating to be disliked for something that you don’t have any control over. Asians, as well as most other minorities, are known to see us as inferior. They only see the negative parts. Most of us aren’t criminals or bad people.

@francheskajernigan832

7 ай бұрын

Justin ask him everything you want to know…Sarah stand.

@shecurvseswords

7 ай бұрын

Sorry, your family is facing this. Prayer said for all.

@battybatshytcrazy4365

7 ай бұрын

Poor Justin, he is so stoic but you can see in his eyes there’s a deep well of pain.

@shereem3291

7 ай бұрын

O dear so so so sad very sad indeed so sorry

Justin, I am so sorry! My mom passed from this same thing. Your dad needs palliative/hospice care at home. They will keep him comfortable. This disease takes people quickly. A day or so before he transitions, he may seem to have a sudden spurt of energy and seem like he might even improve. But that is when the next day or so he will make his transition. Your sister can't face what's going on and that's understandable. Prayers for you and your family. 🙏🏾

@IVant2BAlone

6 ай бұрын

This is so true. My dad was almost completely out of it, no energy, not seeming to be aware ofwhat was going on around him. My brother, whom he hadn't seen for some time, went to visit him. My dad came to life, was talking up a storm about all sorts of things for hours. He passed the next day. I was so glad they both had that last connection.

Justin, don’t beat yourself up about not wanting to see your Dad. It’s painful to watch someone you love suffer. When my mother was in her last days of her life. I tried my best to see her at the hospital every day. The one or two times I could not make it, I actually felt relieved.

@DeeDiamond2981

7 ай бұрын

Oh yes I felt this too. The relief

Justin, you CANNOT change your dad! You just let him be and even though it’s been so many years ostracized by your family, don’t let him or his ideology bother you! Your family made their own choices and you have made your own choices and your choices are the right choices. So, stay with choices and just set aside the hurt caused by your family because you cannot go back to past and change anything. I believe in what your wife is really telling you. Don’t be the PRISONER OF THE PAST brother!

@hsk233

7 ай бұрын

True

@nicky25294

7 ай бұрын

He will be mad about how he was 😢like I was then he will be at peace with all that had happened

Justin, you have been grieving for years because of the strained relationship with your father. Grief varies for everyone. Accept the help. Talk with your beloved wife, a spiritual advisor, a grief support group....and love your kids. You are in my prayers.

I am so sorry to hear this!! I lost my 51 year old brother to pancreatic cancer on August 7,2023. Sending lots of hugs and prayers to your whole family ❤

From Ireland:Appreciate your honesty and openness about your dad and his illness.There are so many ways to react to grief, it's very personal. Wishing you peace.

His processes, his process alone. He will deal with the death of his father the way he does. It doesn’t matter what anybody says to him or suggest he do in order to grieve correctly. Because that would be only someone else’s opinion. JUSTIN has to deal with this on his own. We all deal with our pain and sorrow and grief differently.

I'm so sorry, Justin. I lost both parents to cancer, so understand the pain of this journey and loss. My heart goes out to your both.

@yvettebrown1498

7 ай бұрын

Me too

@slockhart1234

7 ай бұрын

Me too😢

Hey Justin. Im so sorry to hear about your dad. You may want to look into therapy for yourself to help you let that resentment go. Its an easier said than done type of situation. Talking to someone who is neutral and can give you a different perspective on things can definitely help you wade through the ocean of those feelings and help sort them out. Hugs to you and your family

Sarah gave amazing advise...you are definitely his rock.

Please spend time with your dad as much as you can. Sadly, Pancreatic cancer doesn’t have a great prognosis. My neighbor was diagnosed with it and passed 5 months later. Please help your sister as much as you can. She has a lot on her shoulders taking care of both parents full time.

OMG Sarah is the absolute sweetest! My heart and prayers go out to you all! Like Sarah said you have to free yourself of any bitterness you may have toward your parents because it is like a cancer. Just know you loved him and in his own way he loved you too. He grew up in an error where those thoughts and feelings were instilled into people. Just continue teach to your kids that forgiveness and love is what is right, which starts by you forgiving, forgiveness is for you not the other person. Y’all such an amazing sweet couple and I commend you for all you’ve overcome with your families and obstacles! May God bless you all! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

Justin tell your Dad that you love him while he can still hear you. Even though he made some tough decisions. Forgiveness heals you even if your Dad does not reciprocate. My son died from pancreatic cancer 2years ago. I was blessed to be able to spend time with him and say what I needed to him. It gave us both peace . Praying for you and your family.

I lost my Mom two years ago on my Birthday after a 5 month major health crisis. Her death was and still is devastating seeing her decline. Spend that time with your Dad, lotion his arms, hands and provide whatever bits of comfort you can provide. I would just let your Dad know you forgive him and that you love him. Find the peace now and give it freely. You will have no regrets.

I'm sorry to hear this awful news. Cancer sucks. I lost my mom to breast cancer, and like Sarah said, thank God you can spend your dad's last days with him. So go see your dad and love on him while he is still here. By having that time with my mom before she passed, I was at peace after she was gone. Praying God gives you and your family the strength ❤

Lossing a parent is tough. I feel so sorry for you and your family. My thoughts are with you all.

Justin please give yourself permission to feel like you feel. There is no right and no wrong! I give you my love and support!

Whatever your parents did or did not do they brought you in this world. Mr. Justin you are truly Blessed that you have a Beautiful wife and children. They bring you happiness and great joy. 🙏🏼❤

Don’t feel bad about not crying. My siblings and I never cried for either of our parents when they died, it depends on your circumstances and how one was treated by them. So sorry to hear about your dad’s illness.

@hotdrumchick

7 ай бұрын

True. I loved my ma to pieces, but when she died I had a short burst of tears at that moment, and again at her memorial service. That was it.

@DeeDiamond2981

7 ай бұрын

Yea so true

@habib-vq9fl

6 ай бұрын

I hope Justin does not feel guilty or self-blames himself for not crying. People grow numb to abuse and then just carry on through life gracefully. It's hard to feel deep emotions for your abusers when you've been betrayed and treated like you don't matter. But at least he's a loyal son and so is his wife. They are willing to look at the bigger picture- breaking the cycle only to bring joy and love to their children and with other people.

Justin please forgive your father. Stand him till the end. I know you're angry but just be there for him till the end. It's gonna tear you up not being there. So forgive before he leaves and tell him to ask for your forgiveness about your wedding plus the children.🥺🥺🥺🙏🙏🙏

@Ambi1021

7 ай бұрын

How can you forgive someone who isn't asking for forgiveness? He wants his father to admit his wrongs and apologize or at least give an explanation. Forgiveness isn't owed to him just because he's sick and dying. If anything, this situation should make his father see the light.

@jesstankard6643

7 ай бұрын

Think about it this way, his wife was mistreated for years and yet still remained humble and respectful. His children were ignored, like they never existed until serious health concerns arose, and then his parents decided to 'allow' their existence in their lives. Justin owes nothing to his parents, and they are not entitled to his empathy or compassion either. Justin and his family also suffered, and he continued to show respect towards his parents and also wanted to be there for them. When you are considered the black sheep in a very strict household you have no one to turn to. Justin has always been polite and respectful to his parents and so has his wife when she could've been an outright bitch.

@wj3445

7 ай бұрын

Sometimes, an outward expression of forgiving someone is a step in your own healing process not theirs. This, coming from a black woman who has felt the pains of being mistreated.

I have been following you guys for a while now and listening to your story. It breaks my heart to hear that your parents aren’t well. There’s been a lot of drama goin on but honestly, there’s no time for that nonsense anymore. Everyone needs to put aside whatever they feel and spend time with your dad in his remaining time. Let him go with the love and peace of his family around him.

Spend as much time with your Dad as you can. With your dads condition right now there will probably be questions you have left unanswered. Live in the moment of now and focus on the precious moments you all have left with your Dad. Blessings to you all.

I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad. But as hard as it is to see him, please go and visit him. I’ve lost my Dad and Stepdad. One to kidney cancer and the other unexpectedly. Say all the things you need to say, and tell him you love him. You’ll never know how bad you’ll want to see him or talk to him until you can’t. Praying for strength for your family.

I'm so sorry to hear this. Justin you are being strong now. The real hard emotion comes after everything has settled. You'll have a quiet moment and then it will come over you. Let it happen. You have ur wife and kids there for you always. Sickness and death is a horrible thing and I'm sorry this is happening. You and the family are in our hearts and prayers ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹🙏🙏

I’m so sorry to Justin to hear that. It’s not easy. My dad passed away from lung cancer and my mom from stokes and diabetes complications. It’s almost 20 years ready and I still think about them everyday.

I pray for your Dads peace and Moms healing. I pray for you too Justin, for your heart to remain soft and peace to envelop you, God bless your family, I pray your Sister will continue to find her way too 🙏🏾❤️

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I lost my father last year to stage 4 bladder cancer. He was in the hospital for almost 3 months, and my mom and brother put off hospice in the beginning, but they finally realized he couldn't be healed. He lasted for 5 days in hospice. This was the best place for him. They kept him comfortable, and they treated our family so well. Despite what happened those past years, it's a blessing that you are able to see and talk to him, and he finally met your beautiful family. I hope your dad will validate your feelings, but if he doesn't, that's ok. You are living the life you want. Take care.

I’m sorry to hear this about your father. We all grieve in different ways. Prayers to your family 🙏🏾

Justin on Dec 8, 2016, my Dad left this world. I miss him every day. I'm glad you told YOUR DAD "you LOVE him!"

I lost my father to cancer and it's so hard. Your situation is unique because of the many years of estrangement and the disappointment that you must have felt. You have shown so much grace, restraint, and compassion despite your parents' stubbornness and ignorance. You deserve answers, but unfortunately you might not get them. People want to go save face and your parents are probably embarrassed by how they treated you. Try to make peace with this knowing that you always did right by them. Take your time, but try to make peace. Lots of love to your family.

I’m so sorry guys. It hasn’t been an easy road with Justin’s parents and now this devastating news. Your KZread family are here for you both too when you need it. X

Justin, love is all that matters. I've lost my identical twin, brother's, parents, friends and now my husband 3 months ago. Be bprepared to ride the waves of unknown, grief, love, memories good and bad. There is no easy way through this but in the end love is what matters. You will get through it and learn to adjust to the new weight you will carry the rest of your life. Peace and blessings!!

Justin it's very good that you spoke to your dad and told him that you love him. Forget the past and focus on the fact that your family are following their tradition. Just try and make your dad as comfortable as possible & leave the rest to God. Show him as much love as you can & be satisfied that you have done your best.

Make him as comfortable as possible. Dad made his peace, he got to see his grandchildren. Praying for strength for you and your family Justin. May God continue to guide you 💜💜💜💜

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. Just know God worked things out for you. Allowing him to enjoy your wife and his grandchildren in his home with your wife and sister. What a blessing. We have to take the small blessings with the big ones. Prayers for you all for strength and healing. And that you, your children, and wife will have a closer relationship with your mom and sister. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You have a beautiful family!

My Lord what a lovely couple. May the bless this family always I pray!

Sarah, you’re a good woman. It permeates through the screen.

So sorry Justin about the health condition of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers goes to you & your family in this difficult times. Stay strong and leave everything in the hands of our creator. Take care. God bless! 🙏🏼

I am so sorry to hear about your father's illness. I'm praying for all the love, support, and comfort you and your family need through this difficult time. God bless you.

Don't bottle up your grief, Justin. My Aunty did that when her 2 sisters died. Then she got sick. The doctor couldn't find anything wrong with her. When her final brother died (my Dad), we included her in our grieving. She cried so much and we loved her through it. She told me later that all her health problems went away. Grieving is important and makes you no less of a man. You are an amazing man and are blessed with an amazing, caring, loving wife. She will be your strength. Let her help you. Tell her how you feel. That is what she is there for. God bless.

So sorry to hear. Blessings and much grace to you all.

I feel so sorry for you guys! I just completed chemo for stage 4 lymphoma and my heart goes out to you! ❤️

I am very sorry Justin. My mother had the same thing, but didn't tell anyone. I found out 2 days before she passed. I know it's easier said than done, but please try to stay strong.

So sorry to hear. Much love to you and your family.

You guys are so kind and blessed 🙏🏻

I think Justin wants to remember his dad looking more healthy & well, and to not carry that death-bed image if him in his mind. And there's nothing wrong with that. He has to think of himself too.

So many prayers for your family. Sending love your way 🙏🏾❤️

You are both amazing people.

Sending so much love to this family right now!!!! Been following this story for many years and to hear about the cancer is devastating! Justin, its okay to not cry and feel the way you do! Use this time to have as many conversations as you can and remind him that you love him every day!

I’m soooo sorry.😢 Sending prayers and strength to your family.

Justin I'm so sorry to hear this. I know how hard you have fought to have all your family together. I have no words to offer beyond what Sarah said. Let the feelings come, scream and cry and pound pillows. Get it out and let it go and you'll hopefully find that, although it doesn't lessen the pain, nothing ever will, it does somehow make it easier to go through the days. I'm sending good wishes to all of your family.

I am so sorry you are going through this difficult time! I am praying for you and your family!🙏🏽

You both are such a sweet couple. Prayer for your entire family. Your parents have come along way from old foolish thoughts of the world outside of them. I know it was hard for them to live for there family and not for others anymore. Justin will never get all the answers to your question from the pass but reflect on the now and how beautiful to your family under one roof.❤

I'm so sorry for what you are all going through :( Sending so much love & prayers to you in this very tragic time 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

As much as I understand how Justin feels about his dad and wants those answers, you’re gonna have to put those feelings aside rn. I know it’s hard. I’ve been there, but you have to be at peace with the fact they came around. Even after a decade, they all know each other and that’s what matters. I’m sending you grace and love 🫶

I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad Justin. Sending warm thoughts and wishes to you and your family during this challenging time. 💕💕

I’m so sorry to hear this about your dad. Sending prayers for your dad and the entire family ❤🙏🏽 Stay strong

So deeply sorry to hear this devastating news. So glad you were able to share your family before it was too late. Your family has been blessed with your love and presence. Holding you all up in prayer.

I'm so very sorry 😞. Keeping you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. I know you must be so very thankful for the time that you both have spent with Justin's parents lately ❤️. We had the hospice nurse to speak to my siblings to discuss care for my mom after her major catastrophic hemorrhagic stroke. One sibling was wanting to get her TPN, and tube feeds to try to keep her alive. I'm a nurse and tried to explain that forcing fluids and nutrition on someone who was unable to swallow and was non responsive, would increase discomfort. She was sent home on hospice and survived for about 30 hours before she passed peacefully at home with her family. Sublingual Morphine was very helpful. ❤️

Prayers go out to you and your family.. much love.❤🙏

My heart goes out to you all. Praying for peace and comfort 🙏🏽🙏🏽💜

I’m so incredibly sorry y’all. My grandfather had this and he went pretty quickly. Which hurts, but the silver lining is he didn’t have a long period of suffering. I think the thing about pancreatic cancer that I’ve heard is when you start noticing symptoms, it’s often already at late stage, so I’m sure there’s nothing y’all could have done, even if he got checked out a couple weeks earlier. My thoughts are with your family, and hoping you all get through this together, with love. ❤️‍🩹

My deepest sympathies. I'm thankful I had those tough conversations with my mom before she passed. Each situation is different ,just be gentle with yourself and allow your grief to process. My prayers for you and your families.❤

Thank you for sharing, God bless.❤❤❤

Sending prayers of comfort and peace to you and your family Justin.

I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. You all are in my prayers.

Justin, suck it up and go see your dad. You will not have many opportunities to see your dad and tell him that you will miss him and that you will look after the family. This is no time to hold grudges about things you cannot change. Allow your father to go in peace and tell him you love him. Do this and you and your father will go your separate ways in peace and harmony.

Blessings, healing and peace for your family.

Bless your soul. You two are amazing. This level of vulnerability is inspiring. You two are brave individuals.

I am sorry that your Dad is so ill. Make peace while you can. Sending love and hugs to the whole family.

No words.. I’m truly sorry Justin 💐 I’m praying for strength and comfort for you, Sarah, your little ones together with your Mom, Sister and most importantly your Dad 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

Sending you love! Such a big journey for you all, prayers for peace and strength. ❤ from New Zealand

Prayers and love during this time.

I'm sorry to hear about your dad's condition. Justin, please spend as much time as you can with him now-no one can change the past. Give him a chance to make peace which can not happen if you're not around. I hope you can also find peace in this situation. I can imagine you are feeling chested out of time when everyone in the family finally accepted Sarah...at least it happened. ..this was a small prayer answered...

My grandfather had the same type of cancer. The oldest thing to do is surround him with love, children, his favorite music, and stories. Comfort your sister and mother during this time, but ultimately I know you all have this. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Sending Prayers for Your Family 🙏🏼

I’m so sorry to hear this horrible news. Sending love and prayers.

Wow this is probably one of the hardest videos I've watched in a long time. I'm balling my eyes out trying to get through it. My heart is hurting so bad for all of you. I lost my parents, so I know how difficult this time is, let alone talk about it. I really hate this for you. I am sending love and prayers of strength for you to get through this tough time. I pray that your father is not in pain. I wish I could do something to stop your hearts from hurting 💔. Stay strong Justin, I'm thankful that you have such a loving wife who understands that she needs to be there for you. The two of you are an amazing couple, and I really wish you guys nothing but the best. ❤❤❤❤

Oh Justin I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. My prayers are with you all. I’m so glad that he got to see his grand children.

I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers to your family during this difficult time. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Was not expecting this, thank you for sharing. 💙💙💕💕😍😍

Justin, I'm so sorry about your father's Cancer. It's always an out of body experience when your parent gets Cancer, and an unbelievable feeling. My dad passed away, fast from Cancer. It's was surreal. My grief has taken many shapes. It's not one thing. I'm so sorry this is happening to your family. 💞

Justing, so sorry to hear about your dad's illness. Sarah had been a tower of strength and comfort during this difficult and challenging times. Keeping your family in prayers.

I am so very sorry! Prayers for you and your family, Justin 🙏🏼

I’m am so sorry for all of you. I will definitely keep all of you in my prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Justin is in shock because he is still trying to wrap his mind around the entire situation. He will have his moment of crying when the time comes. He just has so many questions as to why... Justin I know your pain and it's okay. All of you just take it one day at a time and hand it to God and forgive him. That's all you can do. You have both been the most amazing in how you have navigated through the difficulties of your family. Sarah is an awesome wife. Justin, you are lucky to have found such a gem. I am heartbroken for all of you at this time, I know what you are all going through. Sending prayers for peace and healing. You are both doing everything right and it's going to be okay. Keep doing the wonderful job you do. God is watching you...He knows your hearts are genuine. So glad you both found each other. You will both set excellent examples for the little babies you have brought into the world. I believe the two of you will do the best to shape and mold them into good people. Justin I am sending you love and hugs from California! Paalam na sa ngayon!

I'm so sorry. I will most definitely be in prayer for your family. I lost my father to cancer, so I know firsthand the questions and fear that come along with this journey. Even though I understand, I still know that your pain is unique. My heart is with you all. ❤

So sorry to hear about what your family is going through at the moment pray Almighty God comfort and strengthen you all 🙏🏽🙏🏽

Blessing to you and your family

I'm so sorry Justin. Sending prayer and well wishes to you and your family. Please go and spend as much time with your Dad. Let go of the past. When he transitions, you don't want to have any regret(s). Geez, i'm crying while watching this. My dad who's Caucasian and my mom who is black went thru the same thing. and on my grandfather's death-bed, he apologized to my mom and him and my dad told each other they love each other and let all that crap go!