I am commenting because I am very concerned about how Mrs. Webb and her husband are being portrayed concering this matter with property lines. Metro Davidson County Maps division is who declared the property lines and mapped out where the fence could be placed. Also Metro Davidson County Water Services placed installed the sewer system. Documentation has been given to the neighbor concerning this matter and instead of accepting the resolution the neighbor decided it could be solved by posting unfounded accusations to youtube as if Mrs. Webb and her husband have the power to change Metro Davidson County maps. Evidently this was done out of some sort of spite or revenge since he is aware that he can't change the property lines. Why post something to enrage a group of people that know NOTHING about the facts unless he is trying to get Mrs. Webb and her husband hurt, because there are a lot of unstable people that will pick up a cause without knowing anything about the real truth. Consider what is really happening before you make negative comments on a post that can affect a persons life.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking your time to do some research and post your thoughts on this Denise. I respect that you want to stand up for your friend (you are friends with them on facebook and you were over here today). Humor me please and take into account what I have to say. Watch my videos (the entire playlist), share them on your Facebook page if you want to get your husband's and friends opinion. You seem like a nice lady and probably are a good friend. IF anything you read here or see in a video that gives you doubt that they would lose an expensive court case, please help me reason with them. If I have to hire another lawyer to get this taken care of I will go as hard in the paint. It's a waste of time and resources which are limited to both parties involved. Any money I have left over will go to a beautiful landscape solution that will make both parties involved. We ALL would benefit from a simple arrangement instead of a fight. The reason for this channel is to document the challenges I have had with Mr. & Mrs. Webb. When they started calling the city on me to attempt to derail the remodel of my back yard (a vision I have had since I moved in and they know that). Inspired by what they did with theirs I should add. I initially put up 1 camera and on the VERY first day it was up we saw them trespassing in our construction zone. 2 more went up as soon as I got back from my vacation. I put the recordings up on KZread and had no idea this would go this far. 90% of the footage that is here is unedited. I didn't put words in their mouths, nor did I force them to behave how they have. If they wanted to make a YT page with the evidence they have against me I welcome seeing that footage. I know I got kinda drunk one night and spoke to the camera about how much I missed hanging out with Jack. Probably lots of me giving the finger when that stupid camera would LOUDLY say “Smile, your being recorded”. Some loud music in the day time to drown that out. Make me look kinda stupid and very frustrated but I got nothing on your friends. Since you brought up Metro Government, here is what I learned about the local city government on this issue. After calling Codes and NES and Metro Water and a dozen other phone numbers that start with 615-862-xxxx: Metro Davidson County has a department that's in charge of drawing out and devising property lines. It's called the Davidson County Property Assessors office. The Assessor of Property is currently Vivian M. Wilhoite and the office number is 615-862-6080. I have spoken to them a number of times about this issue and what to do about it and am VERY familiar with those that work in that office. The first thing that they will tell you is that they have no part nor wish to have part in a property dispute. The second thing they will tell you is that they have never and will never send someone out to verify property lines. The third thing they will do is refer you to the plat map that is published here: maps.nashville.gov/ParcelViewer/. You know the exact address here so you are welcome to take a look. The fourth is to get your own surveyor and no they cant/wont recommend one to you. If you ask they will also tell you that there is no such thing as the Davidson County Maps or Mapping Department. I know that because I called and asked immediately after reviewing the body camera footage to ask. While I appreciate your statements, everything you have said is incorrect. You are correct that Metro Water Services did come out and perform a job that cost Metro Water Services under millions and millions of dollars. The contractor that did the work informed me that the ONLY reason why the work was being done was because of the constant complaining from Mrs Webb and that there was no structural reason for the work being done on the EASEMENT. The easement by the way is 7.5 feet on either side of the property line. Because the work would affect beyond the easement on my side, they needed to access my property with heavy equipment with my consent. I consented to them as honestly as if it made Joanne happy, that was fine as long as they put it back the way it was. Which they largely did with the exception of some poor grass seeding, which Joanne and I worked together to fix. ALL of this happened more than 5 years before this started. Let's fast forward to the present. I was told and you can hear this in the first 2 videos that if I wanted a survey I could spend my “white boy money” and get one. This was someone I have known since the day I moved in. I was hurt and shocked that the woman that told me many times I was her “white son” and that she was my “black momma”. I know we had had an issue the week before but after almost 2 decades of a great friendship I did the only thing I could. I spent my “white boy money”. What you see is the unedited results of doing so. The survey team has come out TWICE to verify the property lines that are based on the plat map that the Davidson County Assessor office signed off on from the original survey team. That survey team is Anderson/Delk. I have spoken to Mr Delk who drew the actual map of our property lines. He was VERY clear about where both pins are after reviewing the Plat. He said that it was not the telephone poll but on the other side of that poll just above the storm drain that metro had installed just after his map was verified by the Assessor of Property at the time. It's clear from prior discussions with Mr & Mrs Webb along with the statements that THEY made on the publicly available body cam footage that they don't understand what an easement is and that they can do whatever they want with it. This is clearly not the case. You are correct that Mr & Mrs Webb don't have the power to change the map. However they do have the responsibility to know the laws and regulations around building on an easement and also staying within the bounds of their own property. When they saw the results of the survey they chose to ignore parts of it. They were happy to find out that their back yard does indeed extend out about 8ft beyond where they thought it was, however they seem to be in COMPLETE denial about where our common border is. I have been COMPLETELY patient and have attempted to discuss with them the situation like adults and have repeatedly offered them the Olive Branch both on this channel and in person and they refuse. They refuse by offering nothing but hostility, anger, horrible comments to myself and others about me. Telling the cops that I am suicidal and bringing up my dead brother? All that to justify poor behavior? Now when you say “there are a lot of unstable people that will pick up a cause without knowing anything about the real truth” are you talking about yourself, are you being the white knight or are you just making a vague threat? Because that sounds to me like a poorly worded veiled threat. Lets try and keep this respectful. No one here wants those kinds of issues. This is Nashville not Chicago. Again I am trying to be respectful in hopes that if I have changed your mind in any way you can help me avoid any further unpleasant situations between us. I realize that there is no going back to the friendship we have but maybe this can result in some sort of healing.

@shouldabeenaborted

2 жыл бұрын

So does miss jones not have a response? I hate when people listen to one side and make a decision. It is what is wrong with world today.

@colleenpiechowski8511

2 жыл бұрын

He did ask them to please wait until they had a survey done. There was no rush to put it in before a survey.

@craigtedesco1464

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously lady I am in another country (NZ)and even I can see Karen and Chad are in the wrong , anyone with any intelligents can see it...

@muckaluster9277

2 жыл бұрын

Governments do not regulate property lines. Official boundaries are established by licensed surveyors.

Dude you are one he'll of a man. Massive respect to you.I know this hurts. Proud to watch you!

The saddest thing about all this is that you were friends for such a long time, that picture is heartbreaking. I don’t know what was the initial trigger for that to change, there must have been a point when they became angry with you. And in the same way that you are hurt by this, I’m sure they are feeling that too, which comes out as anger and all the petty little things like the gargoyle etc. They obviously feel they have some sort of case, whether or not that is actually true. People often stoop to petty and malicious behaviour when they feel wronged by someone they cared about (look at what ex’s tend to do to their partners!) It’s awful because you are stuck next to each other, no one can walk away. I really really hope you can in some way find a peaceful resolution and build some bridges…life is too short and at their age they should know that. I’m so sorry you are going through this, great respect for your handling of it, and wishing you something better in the future. 🕊

Oh my gosh, I hadn't realized these are former friends. How foolish of them to squander a friendship. I wish you success with your case and keep living your best life.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@willybones3890

2 жыл бұрын

Until she tried to steal his land...

@g.g.2940

2 жыл бұрын

It’s shocking to me that she’s blowing up such a great neighbor for what? A great loss in my book.

As John Adams said: “Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.”

@michellebehr7669

2 жыл бұрын

Amen. Well stated.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Great quote to bring up and live by. Its too bad our current social and political factions have forgotten this plot.

You are a terrific guy that most people would love to be neighbors with! I wish you the best!

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that they can ignore the prior friendship and cooperation with you is so sad, kind of displays that they never really cared about you as a person. Respect is #1 in my book and the fact that they have never shown respect here speaks volumes. When she crosses your property boundaries with the police, her workers, her dog it is done purposely to put it in your face that she thinks she is entitled. Good luck and God Bless you. Remember you are the better person.

I appreciate your efforts to resolve this. I really do believe that your neighbor has a mental health issue...she may even have had a stroke or have a form of dementia... to change from a supportive relationship to a combative / rageful one is very troubling... I appreciate your patience.

@kayduplin4940

2 жыл бұрын

I also believe there is something. It looks like she may have a port in the picture, that may explain a lot.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

Dementia can bring paranoia, it is commonj. the fact that her husband has not brought that to redzot's attention leads me to either believe that he does not recognize it or she doesn't have it. Dementia patients can be very aggressive and harmful.

Sometimes it's a sign of dementia early dementia for them to focus and be hateful towards one person I wish everybody the best of luck

Sir, you have been the epitome of a decent human. I would be very happy to have you as my neighbor.

Ok mate, let's "bounce the ball" (an Australian Rules football match is started by a bounce of the ball). Firstly, you're a legend . Next, totally agree that it's your home and you will keep living there, so you can't completely overcook the situation. Lastly.. just give them enough rope. Keep up the great work 💪🇦🇺🍻

@Visceralreality

2 жыл бұрын

First rate reply. Couldn't agree with ya more! They've done these things to themselves. Supply the information to authorities, let the decisions land where they will. Keep doing the right thing, hopefully you get a timely resolution that allows you to solidify your prior friendship with your heighbours.

@aussiepete67

2 жыл бұрын

@@Visceralreality cheers mate🇦🇺🦘🍻

This video should be part of your presentation to the court. Your pain over your lost friendship is palpable. You have never acted badly to all the abuse you have received. I think that's why I find these videos so compelling. I keep watching because I want you to be able to finish your project in peace and move on.

Keep being YOU....you seem to be doing your very best to remain as objective and as kind as you can be under the circumstances. My late mother used to tell me..."don't do anything you'd be ashamed for me to see" and to me it seems as though you're keeping to that track as much as you can. It's sad that friendships sometimes die over stupid little crappy issues that could be avoided with common sense.....but that's the way things sometimes are and you just have to live the best life YOU can. You can never control what others will do, you can only control how you react to it. Keep surviving man, you're doing good.

@michellebehr7669

2 жыл бұрын

Your mom gave sound advice.

@lakemichigan6598

2 жыл бұрын

You sound like you're someone who's read the Stoic philosophers Seneca & Marcus Aurelius.

Great job dude, very honest and off the cuff. Wishing you all the best! It's a shame they are so stubborn. Keep laughing.

I hope that everything goes in your favor! I don't understand some people. Sending positive vibes and mad respect for you and all that you have been through...

Best wishes. I had a falling out with a "friend" years ago. The hardest part was the feeling of betrayal, still haven't gotten over it completely. The only thing I had going for me is I didn't happen to live next to them.

The other night I had a nightmare, where I had a neighbour who put up a fence, looking just like yours, on my yard just around the whole house. So your videos has somehow made it way into my subconsious, I have no idea how it was recommended to me in the first place. I don´t even own a house, I live in an apartment, in Sweden! Wish you well, hope this will turn out the best way possible.

@nevillejohnson8316

2 жыл бұрын

roflmao...😂

@tammydietzclement8813

2 жыл бұрын

Dude! I'm always having weird dreams.

It is always sad when you have an issue with a neighbor. I just recently subed and started watching. I have wondered how old this lady is, because it can be the cause of her actions. Many years ago my dad did strange things when he was coming down with Alzheimer's. He thought everyone was out to get him. Just wondering if she has an issues that might be making her act like she has been acting. Either way, she has no right to your property. I think you have been as nice as one could be under these circumstances. Praying it all works out for you both. It is as you said, it best for the judge to deal with your neighbor. Stay strong!

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the Sub! I appreciate it. She is in her early/Mid 70s and we suspect the same thing.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot Has her husband ever spoken with you about it. Has she always been hotheaded or did this come on quickly. I was in a Dementia/Alzheimer's support group for over 3 years because my husband had Abnormal Dementia from a brain injury. It totally changes a person's personality. Many have what is called sundowners which is they do not sleep much after dark. I had to put special locks with alarms on my doors as my husband took off one night in the middle of the night and left the front door wide open. Thank goodness a policeman brought him home and woke me up. The next day the alarms went up. He did not like the alarms as I put one on our bedroom door so that he could not open it without the alarm going off. He had also gotten to the point where he did not believe that we were living in our home, not quite sure where he thought we were but not home. He made me pack up a lot of stuff to get ready to move back to our home (have no idea where), as we had lived in this home for 6 years. So do they have other family members that come to see them? It is a difficult situation no matter what. Even if a judge tells them they are wrong, but she has this medical affliction, nothing will change unless he puts her in a lockdown facility. Luckily my husband always knew me and his daughters so he stayed at home until he passed.

@retiredyeti5555

2 жыл бұрын

@@tcurry1531 - I am a retired nurse, and worked with Alzheimers/dementia patients most of my career. My mother-in-law developed dementia, thought people had keys and entered her home when she wasn't there, moving objects around. We knew it was her doing it, but she denied knowledge of her actions. She lived with us the last 4 years of her life, never combative or aggressive, recognized us until the end. Sadly, she died one morning while my wife and I were doing her morning cares. Gone in a flash, was DNR.

@howdoyouknowthat

2 жыл бұрын

My neighbor lost it when she went (back) on opiates. Paranoia, irrationality, she became a whole other person overnight and one I wanted nothing to do with. So so sad.

I'm sorry your friendship has come to this over a few feet of land. I hope everything works out for you.

@michaelcarmichael1796

2 жыл бұрын

Look at you trying to trivialize “a few feet of land” you must be a renter.. you obviously don’t know the value of property

@johanna6050

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelcarmichael1796 I did not interpret the statement as trivializing the land in question, rather, that the loss of friendship is more the issue, due to a few feet of land.

The best to both parties here. I can only hope that one day there will be a path worn into the turf between your homes and that love shines through .

I have a lot of respect for you! This isn't happening to me, it's happening to you. I'm glad you made the voice-over video, you should do it more often...you're good at it.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

You think? What else would I talk about that is relevant. My horrible drone flying? LOL

@patrickwayne3701

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot Brother,,, if you haven't seen it yet, there's a guy in Michigan who's having crazy stuff out of his neighbors on a lake. They are a post wall couple who are not married each other and she is having him harass the existing neighbors to try get them all to relinquish their deeded property rights that have been recorded since before 1911!!! It's been absolutely recorded, the Thug, absolutely on the videos, has cursed the guy, and outright said he is going to kill him, and the sh*theel cops have not arrested the Thug!! It makes switching over and watching your clowns like Saturday morning cartoons after Friday night at the horror show with his neighbor. I have been sending both your posts, and his, to my brothers and we all agree why we moved to where there's NO neighbors for EXACTLY these reasons. We had stepparents that were mentally screwed in ways, similar to both your neighbors,, and we were abused for years. Made it to our autonomy and now,,, we'll not suffer fools ever again. We agree, it's all evidence of where this is all heading.... biblically.

Can’t believe I still want to know what happens here. Normally I’m into KZread for learning believe it or not. I don’t understand, maybe I bet you don’t either. Good luck sir! You seem like a good dude.

Yup.... That relationship is irreparable. Super sad.

I for one hope for speedy resolution, which some people may mistake for revenge. They're two different words. Justice isn't wrong.

You have done a great job at explaining your situation. It would be good if you all could be friends after this is over. And I guess I'm like everyone else. I laugh at a lot of things they do. Hopefully cooler heads will prevail.

The car parked on the street is most likely in the public right-of-way. If it’s not blocking the curb cut to your driveway, there’s no issue. However, if you need construction vehicles to have better access to that side of the house, you may be able to ask the city to post No Parking on those construction days.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Oh I know its in the public drive. Its just annoying because that is where I normally parked when I didn't want to park in the driveway.

@elizabethdawes9527

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot I feel ya. Neighbors doing crazy things wears you down day by day. 💕

Thanks for the info and best of luck. Don't be sorry for not letting us see everything, never put all your cards on the table.

You're a good man with lots of patience. Much respect. We will continue to watch for the outcome.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that, thank you.

Thanks for the brief explanation. I stumbled across your channel a few weeks ago, and have been watching this hot mess. Who on earth hasn’t had “that neighbor” along the way? I hope you get it all straightened out, and somehow come to some reconciliation with your neighbor. Keep to videos coming!

Dude I don't even know why this was on my recommend but I watched one of your videos and then instantly had to go to the beginning videos and watch everything in one day. My good man your dealing with this like a true gent I know I couldn't deal with it the same so a tip of the hat to you good sir much love from Belfast northern Ireland

@waspbitch6014

2 жыл бұрын

@@Babs27 Dispute over property lines. 💖 🤘

@robertmarks2379

2 жыл бұрын

I thought it was just the fence was started then sh1t hit the fan and pride overtook and they wouldn't admit any wrongdoing

I'm pretty sure they will escalate after they lose. She doesn't seem to be one to take loss well. Wish we could see the court proceedings.

@waspbitch6014

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto! 💖 🤘

Thumbs up Bro! I've always tried to be civil in all things I've done as well. As far as the car blocking access, the judge can make them move it so you have ccess to your property at all times. See you in the next one!

Much respect for the way you have handled this issue, man, I hope you can have it resolved without too much acrimony.

I look for your updates all the time. keep em coming. I can'[t wait for the finally

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

I am working on a couple videos. Not sure if it should be a couple videos or one big one. Its just them being silly or reactionary to not liking where I put my trash cans vs their car.

Thank you for the channel and the posts. It's unfortunate that you have to go through this. I am experiencing a similar demise on a border. The pins are there and the owner has been shown several times. He has been an ass to me, and I continue not to feed into it. He has cut my trees down and graded my property. I've stretched a rope from one pin to another to show where he is going to which he has cut it through the night. He has apologized. I told him that all he had to do was reach out to me. Hopefully the newly planted grass is not something he maintains on a regular basis.

I am hooked on watching your channel with these shenanigans! Seriously though, sucks that y’all used to be friends and it has turned into this over something so “small “ as a property line dispute. In the bigger picture of things…..life is to short to have such anger and disagreements over something that you can’t take with you when it’s your time. Peace at home is something everyone should have! I applaud you for how you continue to handle this situation. I hope that once you go to court they both understand and listen to the court authorities and you all can move forward and START to live in peace….again.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

I would very much like that. thanks for sticking around and your support.

She always knew she was being recorded. She chose to act how she did knowing that. Where ever the videos go, she built that! I suspect, sadly, the race issue is front and center for Karen, which I don't see, but somehow I think they must. I pray you are all able to grow and build the friendship post the grounds of dispute. I think you all can..

Kee it peaceful, I’m going through the same bs 2 weeks ago it everyday numerous times knocking on my door, they aren’t fond of him either. I know the struggle but, I like seeing pics like this. Even if it’s old, we are all different and the dumbest cra all alter a friendship, keep doing what your doing, you’re a patient man and I’m notsorry about the spelling on some words, Boston accent and push to talk translator is a bitch. The situation for now is horrible but it will work itself out she’ll eventually catch on.

I pray for the best outcome with everything. A shame all of this has happened And that you lost good friends and neighbors.

I admire your tenacity & patience. Any loss of a friend of any kind. Is a very educational experience, eh? Good luck & know we are hoping for the best for you all ;- ]

I have been watching the whole kit and caboodle, and finally subscribed tonight. You have the patience of Job. Watching from Wisconsin.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks and welcome. My favorite place in all of WI is Pete's Place. Long story but that place is awesome!

@retiredyeti5555

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot - Which one? The one in Kenosha is currently closed. Or the one in Fort Atkinson? Both of those are known as dive bars! LOL! There is also a Pete's place up in St. Germain at a resort.

Trust me, when this is over and that fence is gone the shenanigans are only just going to begin! One of you is gonna have to move in the end.

@waspbitch6014

2 жыл бұрын

I'm betting she loses her sh*t in court to the point the judge makes her wait outside. She just strikes me as that particular kind of person. Almost like she had some kind of a mental break. Such a shame. How you are so calm about it all I'll never know. I DO know had my Dad been in YOUR shoes they both would be buried in the backyard. My Dad was NOT 🚫 know for his diplomacy!🤣 💖 🤘

DUDE, glad to hear your voice !!! If you aren't proud of how you handled this I AM. You are a good example which should be shown to children, or teenagers for that matter, to say, " You see kids this is how you act like a civilized citizen in society". I have watched the old silent movies, if you haven't check one out, but, not many people would say they actually prefered silent, glad you gave your story a voice...peace to you .

Looking at this picture, it makes me sad that two neighbours can go from this to fighting in court. Here's hoping for a peaceful and fair ending. The spite fence appears to be temporary at best.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

It is. I wonder what they will come up with after its gone.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot I wonder what she would think of you making up a flyer of your picture here and put her name saying missing. You can only watch the deterioration of her mental decline if it is medical. Watching her husband join in and show like actions makes me feel that even if a judge settles in your favor neither one will change their behavior. Ask you lawyer what happens if they have mental decline and they do not accept the judges decision? Usually in a county if they need age appropriate care it would take a family member to get it for them.

You come across as a very compassionate and sincere man. (Better person than me) The fact that you still have empathy for these neighbors says a lot. I think at some point you will want closure with this stream and so do we! The case settlement should take care of that. A lot of us have neighbors from hell and so part of our involvement here helps us know we are not alone and/or hopeless in our situations. I hope they will accept the outcome peacefully and let you go back to your life.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

When you love somebody you love somebody. That never goes away if you were ever really friends.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot Not always. I had a lifelong friend that started to impact my marriage and comfort. I had to cut her off as I felt she was not a positive part of my life any longer. I do not wish her ill or anything, just don't need the drama.

i can only wish for a neighbor like you patience and willing to work on things

I would LOVE to have a neighbor like you, it's a dream of mine to accidently move into a place and befriend a dude who feels like a brother from another mother. It kind of happened, I became his son's godfather, we were lifelong friends until he died of cancer. We lack the ability to put a price on deep and loyal friendship..from far afield in western WA state...I send kindheartedness and best wishes. Your neighbors are in the position to humble themselves, move the fence a few feet, make peace, and restore a friendship. They know not what they do.

If everyone would act like you are in this crazy situation the world would be a better place. Thank you for taking the "high" road which is also in this day and time,,,the road less traveled.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

ohhhh.. its certainly be the high road... usually after 5pm on the patio..

@Inamorata.367

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot I hear you

Well I was getting ready to go to sleep but it can wait!! 🤣🤣

You are a legend in the world of patient people that clearly define what the word patience means

I hope you guys work this out. You clearly loved each other at some point. I have an elderly relative who has started to “change” - their behavior became erratic with paranoia and anger where there was none before. Later we find out this person has dementia. Do you think this could be a factor with this couple, more severely with your female neighbor? I worry there may be more going on than we see in your videos.

You are a good man fighting for what's rightfully yours and you still have no ill feelings towards your neighbors. Good Luck Bro !!!!

I wouldn't waste your time morning over the loss of their friendship. Seems they were up to devious doings before the fence came into play.

Maybe another way to fix the problem is have them purchase the property from you at market value then they could leave their fence up Then you would have peace of mind

@intheburgh4293

2 жыл бұрын

such a stupid thought and idea so if i want some of your land i can just build a fence on it and you will just let me buy it that sir is a effing joke and you know it

Awesome video, thanks for the FYi, you are doing it right.

Keep the Faith. I just had a dear friend and her husband take on the town and won. yippee, feels good. Don't give up when you know you are right.

Glad I watched this. Made me realize there is sooo much more involved about these neighbors and videos that I know nothing about. All I knew is neighbors built a fence on this guy's property.

It is truly mind boggling that this is the hill they are making their stand on. I am sorry you are having to deal with all their "shenanigans." I hope that you can find some way to live civil next each other. It really is a shame to lose a friendship over something like this. You really are patient and seem like a pretty good neighbor.

You have a kind heart. It is sad when friendships withers. Is there a chance, your neighbor's mental health may be fading?

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe. Its quickly be coming my problem but also just as quickly not my concern anymore.

Loved the tongue in cheek intro😉. And I also thought the fence is pretty crooked... Love your voice by the way🥰

Your patience will pay off in the long run!

Been ten days now. Eagerly watching for next thing to happen .

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Me too but it won't be a fast process.

Once this gets worked out and the fence is moved you need to plant some narrow pines on your side to block the other house.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Planning on adding a row of American Pillar Arborvitaes.

I understand your frustrations. When my dad purchased 25 acres he had a survey done and then had to put up a new fence "with a pistol on his hip"(his words). Because they threatened him.

Well said all around. Don't feel bad for accepting help for others, that's a big part of why communities thrive is that they work together. You're in a weird situation where you're being made to feel like you did something wrong, try not to let that get to you. Hopefully better days are coming soon

Live long and prosper. 🖖 From one Star Trek fan to another.

@dustdevl1043

2 жыл бұрын

Resistance is futile. The fence will be assimilated.

Never mind the 'John J Bowman'; You present yourself and your concerns in a wholesome manner. I have no fear that you and your lawyers will take the same 'attitude' and sobriety into the court room. One view of the woman using foul language will disclose all the judge needs to know about 'character' when it comes to assessing both sides of the issue and from where the 'bone of contention' began. I completely understand your concern after so many 'experiences' that your neighbors witnessed you go through, and at the end of this 'episode' maybe all bad feelings and open wounds will be able to heal. That then is why the Judge, the surveyors, and the lawyers all come together. Should you 'win', I know by this and previous responses, that you are able to be 'gracious' when you need to be. That in itself is 'civility'. As a retired surveyor, I've often heard the phrase that 'fences make for good neighbors'.. Well, we'll have to let the Judge expound on that, and with your demeanor, all should go well, during and after!.. Best wishes, and yes, keep us 'informed'.. ;) I've often told folks that engaged my services that a 'surveyor is impartial, regardless of who is paying for the service. He is merely conducting that work that 'protects' those rights as lawful landowner(s). Anything beyond that falls under the auspices of the political entity that one has the land in: State, county, city, township or village.

Dang, Fences usually make for good neighbors !! I'd put up the max size wooden fence allowed on your property of course, If you can afford it.

It is very possible that Karen is suffering from Alzheimer's which is often accompanied by a complete reversal of personality. Someone normally mild mannered will become aggressive and vice versa.

I would say wait till after the court case then keep the channel going with their "other" shenanigans. It would be HIGHLY entertaining to me at least!!! I think you and your wife are very patient and lovely people. They should be PROUD to have neighbors like you guys!!!

in terms of the car u can report it the country sheriff as abandoned vessel in my county a vessel only can be parked for 72 hours. I've watched all of ur videos u handle ur neighbors maturely in every interaction I've seen 👍👍👍

♥️if you can keep your head while others are losing theirs…

This was a beautiful message to them. Very proud of you.

If the judge views the video evidence, I hope he see's how petty Karen is and treats her/the verdict as such. She really needs a good "slap on the hand" to wake her up to reality.

@michaelcarmichael1796

2 жыл бұрын

Depends on if the judge is black or not

@kennapop3

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelcarmichael1796 Lets hope not.

@patrickwayne3701

2 жыл бұрын

@@kennapop3 well then,,, tell us what was going on after the polls closed in Georgia and those poll workers started busting wholesale a** dragging those cases out from under the vote counting tables and busting moves like you hadn't seen ALL DAY... Go ahead,,, I promise to listen to your explanation in Winnie the Pooh's narrating voice.....

Praying for you !

@kennapop3

2 жыл бұрын

Still praying you!

I will be happy for you if the fence is (re)moved, this channel is shut down as a neighborly gesture, and your neighbors find a way to being cordial. Life is short.

I caught this channel months ago in my suggestions, I had some guy on my thread sure this was because of a color issue, I set him straight, I know you and Chad have gotten together, and this picture here shows the truth. The only issue is the property line...

Don't let the color Pink deter you from Flamingos. They have very powerful Ju-Ju especially against Gargoyles. Seriously though, you have the right approach. Here's to a speedy court date & an even speedier resolution in your favor.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Oddly enough the gargoyle dissapeard. I was making fun of it to the camera when it told me I was being recorded. When that happens I usually pretend I am on Americas Got Talent or something. Lately we have a bluetooth speaker thats just obnoxiously loud. We place it over there and sit on the other side of the patio where its nice and the volume is at a comfortable level. Till 10pm as local ordnance states that we cant be loud then.

So sorry you are having to go through this. Maybe they will move it before you have to go to court.

I agree with the Dementia comments both my grandparents and a neighbor of theirs went through it.i see lots of similarities.prayers for everyone ❤️

Massive thoughts of support and heartfelt warmth to you and yours. I hope for the best for you, long distance friend

After this debacle is settled, I vote this channel become dedicated to dogs. Good/bad/indifferent... No such thing as too much dog!

I'm hoping one day you'll share why the fence went up in the first place.

Let the law deal with it. Then figure out what to do after the final decision. Till then, it's a hurry up and wait situation. Lots of beer drinking and maybe even toking to chillax. Cheers and good luck.

I hope you all are able to find peace with each other after this ordeal is done.

When one lack honesty they fail in all of life's lessons.

She is a bully, through and through. She doesn't care

Thanks for the update and the happening with your situation, I was one of those watching, my interest was because I had a similar situation with my old neighbors,(issues with downspouts) hope you can solve it sensibly, good luck

Where I live, a fence built of my property belongs to me. Build a wooden fence? Free fire wood! Build a steel fence? Free crap metal! Or I can just tire it down and toss it on their property. Know your borders. Respect your borders.

15’ CONCRETE WALL when this is all over.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

Think it will help the resale value?

@SamwiseGamgy47

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot sure just grow some kind of wall-covering vine….. or bougainvillea or whatever on your side of the wall. You’ve stated that you used to have a better relationship with those people but that train has left the station forever. You need a physical barrier because (and please remember this) they are NEVER going to leave you alone. My guess is, at some point, they will employ family members with criminal records to threaten you. Stay safe. Hope I’m wrong. Good luck 👍

I don’t know if you ever watched the Sopranos TV show but there were some episodes where Tony tried put a down payment on a house at the Jersey Shore and had to back out of the deal when the homeowner didn’t want to pay back the down payment Tony came up with a great solution to get compliance from the man. I love that Dean Martin live album it’s hilarious.

Sorry you are going through this!! But “the facts are the facts” and right is right. And this is your home, your property. U have a right to defend it. Good luck!!

Maybe build a 8ft fence on your property line. Then it will block. Off her fence. That would be epic.

When the additional work on your property is done, get a permit to exclude parking. Best if obtained by the contractors. Most areas the notice needs to be up 3 or more days in advance.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

@nome n clature What do you mean exclude parking?

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot I think they mean when the contractors are coming maybe put up signs that say please do not park here as heavy equipment is in use. If you have dates of the construction, add it to the sign. I would check with the contractor or the city to see if this can be accomplished by them.

@nomenclature9373

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot As T Curry said.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

@@nomenclature9373 Yeah that makes sense.

Damn, I was trying to sleep, but now I am up for the next 25 minutes. Lol

Wow, so sorry. My brother has undergone a big personality change with lots of aggression attached. Stopped talking to me and my sister-in-law stays in touch. I think he has been a victim of football syndrome. So sad, I just want him to be happy and he doesn't get that much now. Funny I love gargoyles, I would have doubled up on that, LOL Wishing a good outcome.

When is your court date ( approximately) ? My story & 2 cents … My first home many years ago had a neighbor that was not a good one & It was no fun ! When I bought my current house neighbor on one side told me fence was on the line & over bc of an angle But less than a foot & it was built by Previous owner of his house. Then the people on other side tried to get me to reimburse them for 1/2 cost of their fence on the property line . (300’ of high end pvc just on that side ) I had to pay for new survey ( just from experience) so I could tell my fence guy & talk to each of them Knowing where & what was what . Watching your vids reminds me of My experiences . 12 years later - My neighbor with fence that slightly Comes over property, we all get along fine & the one that wanted $, They are divorced & moved away. “Fences do make good neighbors “ Long as that fence isn’t on the wrong Side of Property pin markers ! Thank goodness for cameras & Good luck to you . Like others , Hopefully this will end in harmony ! Your videos have helped So many who never knew about These things & just how fast things can go bad so they will understand “ mark the pins “ Before going to close on a house ! Good luck & keep Us on YT updated !

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

No court date yet. Had to let her have the chance to respond. We will more than likely just wait the full 10 day and give her time to get representation.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot They won't reply as they don't care, they already believe in their small minds that because they say it is racist, they have won. Hope the judge doesn't fall into their trap.

Literally got a spam call about my car's extended warranty 30 seconds before watching this video. Lol.

@redzot

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering how that joke came off. Glad someone got a chuckle

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@redzot I get 4 or 5 of them weekly and then when they say push this button to stop the calls, it never works.

What you can do is get a city permit to put up a no parking sign, construction site or entrance there. If she parks there and blocks the construction crew, you can call the cops, she gets a ticket. After that, the cops call for a tow. Then they will have until the tow truck shows up to move the vehicle. Your crew can now get on the land. You can also do 2 folders - mark them “all the neighbor stuff” and “what court saw” End the both with the verdict. Keep in mind, it’s still not over. Not until they comply and maybe even not then.

"friendship" ends when BOUNDERIES are broken or encroachments beyond your personal space happens.

Aww call me optimistic but when I saw the thumbnail, I actually thought y'all had somehow made up and resolved your issues. I honestly hope you do someday.