Full conversation with Charity Lee: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dYJnlLaPpcjbldo.html

A psychiatrist told Charity when he was in the hospital that he had homicidal tendencies and she chose to take him home and not get any treatment for him. He then killed Ella.

@juliehicks8459

5 ай бұрын

That doctor also told her that he wanted to hurt her specifically. He told her to leave him there and change her name and go into hiding.

This makes NO sense. The mom and grandma both say on The Family I Had, that there was something obviously wrong with Paris to the point that 6 months BEFORE the murder that she took him for a psychic evaluation AND was told that he was a phsyopath with "murderous intent". How can she claim that she had NO idea that Paris had issues 😮

Never ever underestimate the power of DENIAL🤦🏾‍♀️

NO ONE SHOULD EXCEPT THAT ABOUT CHILDREN, EVER!!!!!!! NO ONE SHOULD TREAT ANIMALS LIKE THAT EVER!!!!!!!!!! ALL OF THESE WERE SIGNS THAT SOMETHING WAS VERY WRONG WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!

@misfitm1457

Ай бұрын

People abuse animals all the time for food, if you accept that, you can't complain about any other abuse

Charity is almost as disturbing as her horrible son. Poor little Ella - RIP Angel. 😢

I went through something similar......My son did not kill anyone, but all the other brutal things,,, were always directed towards me.......He is missing, I wish him well.....I have relocated, changed my name.....

And he also previously had tried to stab his before an was put in the mental hospital and was suggest he stay but she refused an took him home an 4 months later he murdered his sister...lady wtf were you thinking...the delusion is real with this one.....smfh

@anayhiasmimi1409

3 жыл бұрын

Yes this was a Hugh thing that I couldn't understand!! But then like she says she won't compromise when it comes to her kid's which means she doesn't want anyone else to have control over her kid's.

@gamingbypix

4 ай бұрын

She also mentions a relapse, and I know from experience addict parents don't give you the adequate emotional support children need. There's definitely some things not being taken into account. Or at least so it seems.

This is a very disturbing story by why does this guy have a smile on his face throughout his questioning?

As a little brother I can't wrap my mind around this, when I was born my brother was 17, and to this day he says that was best day of his life was the day I was born, he told me the first time he held me in the hospital, he cried because I grabbed his finger and he said I looked at him and smiled, the day I was brought home he wanted to cuddle me so bad he begged my dad to let him, and dad let him, dad said he was so gentle with me that dad knew he was going to be an amazing big brother, and he was and as a baby he wanted my crib in his room because he had to look after me, I slept in his room until I was about 7 or 8. There are tons of pictures of him holding me there is one where I'm asleep on his chest and he's got his arm around me as is asleep on the sofa. I can't begin to wrap my brain around this guy killing his baby sister, my brother would have killed you if you even looked at me the wrong way that's how protective he was of his baby brother me.

@tammyhotchkiss9165

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you had one heck of a great big brother! I'm 10 yrs. older than my younger brother & 11 older than my baby sis. She died in a snowmobiling accident 12 yrs. ago. Sadly my baby brother died back in Feb. this yr. I adored both of them so very much and it sounds like your big brother loves you beyond the moon and back🙏❣️

This is why it's so unfortunate because people don't realize what monsters these people truly are. All I can say is how horrible it must have been for little Ella to have her big brother come in and completely go nuts on her.. I can't even I mean that's the real victim here. An innocent little girl.. to have to wake up to her brother manifesting in to what he really is. That's the real victim here..

@tammyhotchkiss9165

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏❣️

I saw a documentary about this year's ago. A psychologist told the mother that she should stop sending Paris money and gifts, disconnect, save as much money as possible, change her name and vanish before Paris gets out because he's a psycho and will kill her if he can.

@Occams_Razor489

3 жыл бұрын

@@ourcorrectopinions6824 Paris is going to kill his 1/2 brother to

@thegojifamily184

Жыл бұрын

Yep! Yet being the narcissist she also is, she wants the clout to say oh but love is unconditional. That poor girl was r***d and then murdered by him and she FORGIVES him? Sends him gifts??? Takes pics with him smiling?? That little girl is turning in her grave.No.

@danipulido2888

Жыл бұрын

It was Dr. Park Dietz

@tammyhotchkiss9165

Жыл бұрын

​@@Occams_Razor489 That's exactly what he's going to do if released on probation in only 2 short years. I believe this pure evil creature is up for parole in 2025.Master manipulator... He's probably been planning on how he's going to do this again🤷🙏❣️

So many Red flags..

All the signs were there for the potential of him to become a killer. Many times parents refuse to acknowledge what is going on or cannot process it. There is nothing to excuse what happened! What I will never understand is why she has any contact with her son There is far more going on here than will ever be revealed.

@alyaajalal2618

Жыл бұрын

maybe deep down she feels that she's one of the reasons that her son did that .that maybe she wasn't good enough but she won't admit it cuz it's hard to admit something like that..

@Occams_Razor489

Жыл бұрын

@@alyaajalal2618 Or maybe she’s on the spectrum along with her son and her mother. Because all of them admit to really bad dysfunction then in their next breaths they are dismissive and make excuses for every single rotten behavior. Something is wrong with all three of them. And neither Charity or her mother ever admit their personality disorders created Paris and indirectly they are both responsible for Ella’s death

@thegojifamily184

Жыл бұрын

She’s just as much of a psychotic narcissist as he is

I can’t believe what this woman has been through. I can’t even begin to try and comprehend this. Breaks my heart. She’s so lovely and these interviews really send the message of what humanity is and what it is to be a mother in every sense of the word! Much love to her. Thank you for these interviews Charity! xxxx

@NatzTalk

3 жыл бұрын

It's nice seeing a kind word about her. I don't think I could be so forgiving but I loved her good morning America interview, she explains why.

@annwethenorth

Жыл бұрын

She was barely there during his childhood, passed him around because she was too high. Her mother killed her dad. You need to watch the docs on her, she's just as bad.

@AlexandraBolz

Жыл бұрын

Neither can I. I would’ve lost hope if I was her dealing with this situation. And the fact she is staying strong over this is very inspiring that you can get through something this bad.

@listentothenightfilms

Жыл бұрын

You don't think she's a tad...uh 'kooky'? She seems to love doing interviews about her psychopath son. Paris shouldn't have been told of Phoenix's existence, you can't rationalize otherwise, surely?

@MissOrchid12

11 ай бұрын

​@@annwethenorthThought she had a relapse for a short while, before the murder but had been clean before she got pregnant with Paris??

I’ve never seen my son throw animals to there death

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

Lol well u never met destructive children. The thing about children especially boys is that they lack empathy. Empathy is something that grows with age My baby cousin would hurt and bother piglets when he was about two Kids in the countryside hunt pigeons etc... also it’s hard to spot a psychopath that y u have to go through a specific training to be able to spot them

@Occams_Razor489

3 жыл бұрын

@@carmencapa6945 That’s not true. Only psychopath children lack empathy and all that other crap you said

@kudoss23

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve seen it plenty of times. The difference between a psychopath and a normal person is that the latter develops empathy and at some point realises it’s wrong and feels guilt.

@rockyevans1584

3 жыл бұрын

@@Occams_Razor489 many children need to do something mean in order to develop empathy. Seeing a negative reaction is the impetus for change

@NatzTalk

3 жыл бұрын

@@carmencapa6945 exactly and he's a genius! Him calling her stupid and everyone else.. 😱 creepy af. He pretended!

I find this fascinating. I must say I believe there is a mental defect with all of them..grandmother mother and son. Manipulation seems to be a common bond with them in different ways. Very intresting and sad. The human brain is such a mystery. I would not allow this boy around his younger brother. For all we know he might be planning his demise already.. I would run and hide when he gets out. So sad

@katelynmarves3988

4 жыл бұрын

Sandra Bosewell lol

@anayhiasmimi1409

3 жыл бұрын

Thats why I don't understand why she even lets paris talk to Phoenix thats just crazy

@Longshlong304

3 жыл бұрын

Run hide get a wig change skin colors leave country learn to shoot and get good at it ... Get a security system and sleep with a gun under my pillow

@ourcorrectopinions6824

3 жыл бұрын

A family of narcissists. Grandma, mum, and son.

@NatzTalk

3 жыл бұрын

She already said she's not going to put herself in that situation

HES WHERE HE BELONGS🔥🔥🔥

This whole damn family is screwed up!

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

Like my mom says, “don’t open ur mouth too wide cause it might come back” U never know u might just have a psychopath in ur house too. If psychopath were so easy to spot we wouldn’t have people who are specifically trained to spot them

@mali1128

3 жыл бұрын

Well, the most pointless comment on social media, goes to your and your mother! Congratulations! 👏

Warning, stay away from this family. No one realises there are much darker days coming surrounding this woman.

@debrarow1933

3 жыл бұрын

Agree , total narcissist, why doesn’t she just stop !. She loves talking about this letting the whole words know her conversations with him , took no notice of the warnings, this woman is off ,

Charity living in her own reality.... She knew something was wrong & even a mental specialist told her he had homicidal tendencies & she took him out and took him home. He even pulled a knife on her & she never speaks bout that. Is it her fought this happened; No but she should of paid more attention to all of this perhaps things could have turned out differently...

I don't think anybody has the right to criticize or question this woman on how she has dealt with this horror. I cannot imagine anything worse than losing her kids the way she did. She lost her son that night as well as her daughter. And she has my respect for coming through all that somewhat intact. She doesn't owe anybody an explanation for not turning her back on him. I think she is an amazing Mom who loves her son no matter what. I wish the best for her.

@explorer0213

3 жыл бұрын

@@ourcorrectopinions6824 How do you know and in peddling her shit as u term it she maybe helping other people who sadly deal with similar things.

@LaurenThompsonIsMyRealName

3 жыл бұрын

@@ourcorrectopinions6824 and you are here buying it too. Smh.

@emmagreen6087

3 жыл бұрын

She is psycho who loves all the attention. She barely even mentions Ella. It's always about her.

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

@@emmagreen6087 yea tell that to the police officers who watched her go crazy when she saw the body of her little girl. U think this woman hasn’t cried hasn’t had to come to terms with the fact her little girl is never coming back

@emmagreen6087

3 жыл бұрын

@@carmencapa6945 She probably did all that, no doubt. But she sure has cashed in on her experience, too. Watch her interviews and count how many times she says "I", then "Paris", and then how many times she says "Ella". Ella was the victim, not her, and not Paris.

Hurting animals is being grossly justified. In this vid - that is a key sign of psychopath. A bug and a frog are very different

Im sorry, this interviewer is naive to say the least. All of those things are unusual and psychopatic. Problem is ignorance. No one knew what was psychopathid. He clearly doesnt. His Mom didnt know, but ehen she was informed the woman course NOT to believe it. And that innocent little girl suffered for her brother's sadism and her Mom's refusal to believe it. Narcissism at it's finest.

@courtneycarnevale3736

3 жыл бұрын

Who told her paris was a psychopath before the murder happened?

@kehindesho5414

3 жыл бұрын

@@courtneycarnevale3736 psychiatrist

@lex61519

3 жыл бұрын

@@courtneycarnevale3736 In November of 2006 he tried to stab his mother with a kitchen knife. After that his mom took him to a psychiatrist and after an evaluation the mother was told that he was a sociopath n he had homicidal tendencies. Charity ended up taking him back home despite what the psychiatrist told her. She claimed that she didn't think they would be able to help him there and said that she has no regrets in making that decision. In February of 2007 Paris killed Ella.

@courtneycarnevale3736

3 жыл бұрын

@@lex61519 ahh thank you! Appreciate the info

@Omar-kl3xp

3 жыл бұрын

@@lex61519 wow I can’t Believe that she knew about this ,now I understand she is getting some hate from some people ,she could have prevented the death of her daughter ,I knew something was off ,all her family is off fr,from her mother to her and her son .sad because usually things like this could always prevented as you can see if their behaviour is off normal and I knew that she saw sign of violent physocpath behaviours as there is no way that he could have put a "mask on "every single day as in my opinion her son would have definitely shows his true colour to her.

She sounds like she's milking his crime for all she can get. She is the worst. What he did was heinous and yet, I can't help to think that she played a big part of that. It's irritating that she's attempting to sound as though she is intellectual and insightful. Even though she speaks of the signs he was giving her of his disturbing behavior she also seems to have just brush them off. Another commenter stated that she is manipulative and she certainly appears to do so. Can't stand listening to her.

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

His mother had talked to his psychologists and stuff. She’s been trying to relearn who her son was after the murder. U don’t think it was hard for her to suddenly have her daughter killed and son be the murderer. And realize who u think was ur son was just a face. Which bring to the next question is love conditional or unconditional? This boy was the reason this woman got her life together. He was her everything for six years and so was her daughter

@avimae4225

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone grieves differently. Its horrible. My daughter was murdered. The killer walked. He brags that he got away with murder.

@thegojifamily184

Жыл бұрын

Agree with you. She is enjoying every paid interview. Narcissist. She is awful.

One year before she took him to a psychiatric and the psychiatric told he had homicide tendencies and want to put him in a mental hospital for awhile and she refused help and went back home with him. And now she act like she doesn’t have any guilt for me she has...

@Enoughalready20237

Жыл бұрын

You don’t know how you would handle the situation if you were in the exact same situation. Knock it off with the Mom shaming.

She seems completely insightless and very reluctant to admit any shortcomings on her part. I don't believe 'psychopaths' are produced from thin air....their environment always plays a huge part....but apparently not in Charitys family

@steppy3736

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think that's lack of insight. I think that is self-preservation. For her to accept that she missed, overlooked, or ignored any signs about him, she'd have accept some responsibility and she'd lose both of her children simultaneously.

@SharnNZ

3 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths are nature, sociopaths are nurture.

@Alex-nt7li

3 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths are “produced from thin air” though. Psychopaths are born, sociopaths are created.

@Longshlong304

3 жыл бұрын

You are about as dumb as they come. She said she had issues with a relapse and the dad being an issue. You cant judge on 1 off interview? You judgemental never had to change a flat tire or live in a homeless shelter judgemental pos

This reminds me of the movie HALLOWEEN, he is Michael in real life..:.. run lady when he gets out 🥺🥺🥺🥺

@anayhiasmimi1409

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she can run when he gets out but he will be out here with the rest of us I think he's going to hurt mostly children its hard to say.

@haij16

3 жыл бұрын

Yes they have told her to change her name move away because when he gets out he's going to try to kill her he probably will kill her if that woman had any sense she would take her child change her name and get the hell away from him but right now she's so busy word about the limelight and money that's all she's worried about

@Gwen19764

3 жыл бұрын

He will never get out.

@haij16

3 жыл бұрын

@@Gwen19764 girl I don't know how she talks to him I just don't you know it it just and I'll tell you what did he get life in prison because I know the prosecutors is always telling her to move and I'm like honey I would have been gone and I tell you what she's enjoying that Fame that's why she won't change her name I change my name because of the child the other child God she needs to get fixed

@Enoughalready20237

3 жыл бұрын

@Beth Lewis: you are insane. She isn’t doing this for Limelight or Money, she is doing it for EDUCATION for other parents who may relate, for her own personal therapy, for justice reform, etc. Shame on you for staying otherwise.

This case still fascinates me. This interview....the mother is a narcissist as well. It’s all about her. She sounds like she is on “meds”... she wouldn’t have an outlet if her son hadn’t killed her daughter. Most of Charity “interviews “ are about Paris.. who is Ella...

@explorer0213

3 жыл бұрын

Of course coz that's what fascinate ppl the mind of these individuals.

@Ytdeletesallmycomments

3 жыл бұрын

Yea she is using again

@tamibyington1509

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ytdeletesallmycomments I sincerely hope not.

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

Really? Like did u ever go through wat she went through. When the police let her see the body of her daughter the police noted she screamed and let out horrible cries. Her first baby boy and her everything. He was the reason she got better and stopped doing drugs. Infact she had planned to tell him when he was older that he was the reason she got better and stuff. And when she was pregnant with Ella and after Ella was born she thought everything was fine. U really expect ur little boy ur world to be a psychopath. Mothers will always see their children through a colored glass

@tessagrace3982

2 жыл бұрын

G thang has no education. May be as sick as Paris judging a mother and throwing out assumptions

Charity: "He killed frogs because he liked the sound" Rob: "There's nothing unusual about that" Charity: "He liked to wear my underwear" Rob: "There's nothing unusual about that" Charity: "He had thoughts of decapitating me so he could play with his playstation" Rob: "There's nothing unusual about that" What the hell? What IS unusual then, in your books? Good god. Anyway, fascinating interview. Thanks

@cmwillisful

3 жыл бұрын

Not unusual...to a psychopath.

@raceystacey7945

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@kaliaxiong4172

3 жыл бұрын

Pp

@nicolebroski4311

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like you guys are going out of your way to demonize charity while also having no idea how you would have felt w this awful situation. She said it herself those incidents caused concern but not the type of concern where you would ever assume one of your children would murder your other child ? Hindsight is everything truly. Also Paris didn’t share his fantasies until after the murder, she was just stating that HE knew he was dreaming of hurting her at that age, didn’t tell her that until he was already in prison obviously.

@Occams_Razor489

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicolebroski4311 The problem with narcissists is they talk to much and give themselves away. When the kid was recorded saying “kill Charity’s children” then tried to stab her was enough to raise serious concerns. There are plenty of instances she gives. SERIOUS concerns. Then she takes him out of treatment after a psychiatrist tells her he has homicidal tendencies and has the nerve to bitch about the prison system not doing enough to help her murdering psychopath kid. SHE dropped the ball many times. Now a little girl is dead.

She needs to take the hint and stop having kids and preserving that crazy DNA.

Why this guy was creepy smiling all the time ?

@bekacynthia

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! He’s smiling all the time and in his stupid opinion, there was nothing unusual with Paris killing frogs and wearing his mom’s underwear

the mom might be just as crazy

@Longshlong304

3 жыл бұрын

Ur mom might be. I mean you could be normal chris drug free watts from a church fam foh

@bekacynthia

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Too many bad genes in this family

@explorer0213

3 жыл бұрын

Grandmother killed her own hubby.

@amylynnkroening2238

3 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for Charity

@bempomaa489

3 жыл бұрын

So the both guys (Ella and Paris) are different dads?

Wonderful and loving until he hated you enough to kill his sister. I hated my mother for a lot, but never thought of hurting my siblings.

There’s more going on than she’s revealing. I grew up with a stepmom like her. If I wasn’t a Christian I would have probably ended up like her son.

@jonathanbrunner5202

3 жыл бұрын

I also don’t understand why she’s fine with all the television stations filming her talking about it. This isn’t something a heartbroken mother would be ok doing. Children are born innocent. I wonder what happened..

@MissOrchid12

11 ай бұрын

​@@jonathanbrunner5202Perhaps she wants to highlight these issues for others to learn? She knows everyone judged her, perhaps this is a way to destigmatize the situation?

I don’t know how she still has anything to do with that boy granted he’s her son but still I’d fight the urge to take his life like he did ellas! So twisted!

Charity sounds like she is on something.

@Longshlong304

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe all the psych meds from all the trauma she endured you dimwit

@barbm1001

3 жыл бұрын

I would agree. Meds. She is also a recovering drug addict.

She is so brave and resilient. I don’t think I could have survived what went through

No one has a right to say she should or shouldn't. They have not gone thru such a terrible thing. I couldn't even begin to imagine what she went thru. And I don't think anyone else could either

Jesus. The frog story. When my nephew was 5ish he had a sick frog incident--sadly then I knew he had issues more than most k normal kids. We had to cut any contact with him by age of 18. Cple yrs passed and gave him another chance. While smiling in your face he was robbing and manipulating every and anyone. Been a good 5 yrs now since he showed his true colors a final time as we have all completely cut ties.

They should interview her baby daddies...NOT one stuck around! Don't want to become like Paris? Keep promises...did you promise not to be on drugs? I bet if Ella was a teenager she would not be able to handle her. She was just a little girl that paid the price for a dysfunctional relationship between mother on drugs and son that had to raise himself and his sister!

@misfitm1457

Ай бұрын

her exes you mean

Thank you for letting her talk. She really just needs people to listen. She is going thru something most parents can't even comprehend.

There were red flags all along. Mom just wanted to write it off for her comfort.

Where is Paris's father?

@broadwaylights100

4 жыл бұрын

I believe in the documentary she stated that his father had schizophrenia and was either in jail or a mental health facility.

@Willa4420

3 жыл бұрын

@@broadwaylights100 Psychopathy has genic element . 🙁

@robertmas320

3 жыл бұрын

In France

@Willa4420

3 жыл бұрын

@@robertmas320 Funny 😜

@curvymervy3193

3 жыл бұрын

@@broadwaylights100 so Paris had it in his genes

That’s why do not use drugs and have children after, it probably messed his genetics and his brain. The mom seems to be messed up too and is in denial and thinks his son is still an innocent child

Charity, you are incredible and inspiring. I could never coming through what you have and be so beautiful and graceful on the other side. I am listening and thinking what a incredible and amazing person mother. You are touching others with your capacity to love forgive and move forward.

Is it me or does she seem a little off?. She almost sounds like she is slurring her words. Maybe that's just the way she is?

@heide-raquelfuss5580

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe she takes meds. When something happens like this, i think you need meds anyway to go thru the days. Most people take meds, for a lot of less serious issues. Or maybe she drank alcohol to keep her together.

@eileendom5858

3 жыл бұрын

@@heide-raquelfuss5580 yes you could be right on target. So chilling.

@nikkib0420

3 жыл бұрын

She is a heroine addict, maybe now she’s hooked on OxyContin or some synthetic heroine. Sure seems that way to me

@eileendom5858

3 жыл бұрын

@@nikkib0420 wow I didnt realize she was an addict

@maggieroberts3450

3 жыл бұрын

DOCTORS AND EVERYONE OF US ARE TROLLS . YOU NEED A JUDGE , SHE IS IN HEAVEN . THAT BEAUTIFUL FAMILY NEVER GOT A BREAK . JESUS THAT PARTY , IRISH WOMAN AND NEWFIE GIRL WITH WONDERWOMAN . JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN . I GOT TUNS OF STORIES ABOUT YOU . TO BAD YOU AND I HAVE FOOT IN MOUTH DISEASE . EVERYONE HAS THAT DISEASE . BAR OF SOAP WILL NEVER WORK . MOM I NEED YOUR ADVISE TOMORROW AT 9;30 . MY HEAD HURTS . I GOT MORE MASK AND CANNOT reach them sorry . love always and forever always and forever

My son passed away from a seizure and I'm not being judgmental but there's something wrong with her too she needs to be fixed so she never has another child come out of her body because I'm listening to her talk my son passed away in 2002 I still have problems to this day she just sounds like it's you know another day in the park for her and why she still talking to this little boy I don't know I don't care if he was my son or not they've even warned her that she needs to change her name and move away because if he ever when he gets out I have a feeling he's going to kill her and probably kill the new town this is really sad and very disturbing

@carmencapa6945

3 жыл бұрын

My only question to u is ; Is love conditional or unconditional? Mothers are meant to give unconditional love and clearly she did. Mom’s love for us is so unconditional that I feel like if one of us (thankfully not) had done wat her son did she would forgive us. It’s so easy to judge when it’s not ur child, ur situation but honestly I will say that I probably wouldn’t have abandoned my child either. The love a mother has for a child is so strong that even when they hurt u a lot u still will love them

@Omar-kl3xp

3 жыл бұрын

@@carmencapa6945 if it’s that the case instead of doing tv shows and talks she should protect her new son which he is definitely in danger since the psychopath son would def most likely trying to kill him and her .what kinda of mother would risk by still remain in contact with the psychopath son that want to kill her and her new son. Any "normal"mother would have listen to what expert recommended her to get as far as possible ,in my opinion to a totally different continent ,changing their name and identities ,she should have never in the first place introduce his new son to the psychopath son to make sure that he was at least secure .she is clearly off her herself ,maybe she is delusional which I believe she was before the son kill her daughter as I believe she knew that her son was not normal .

@Omar-kl3xp

3 жыл бұрын

@@carmencapa6945 and if u decide to risk your life by remain beside him ,DONT BRING ANOTHER CHILD TO LIFE BECAUSE OF YOUR SELFISH DECISION AS YOU KNOW THST HE WAS GOING TO BE IN DANGER .

@debrarow1933

3 жыл бұрын

She thrives on telling the story

Is my phone crap or is the audio crap?

@daisylavender5275

4 жыл бұрын

Audio

@ddjenai12

4 жыл бұрын

It's bad, not your phone.

@cherilynnsorensen668

4 жыл бұрын

Audio

@shananalexander9789

3 жыл бұрын

It’s the video

@janelmpls612

3 жыл бұрын

Their WiFi connection is crap. I thought my phone was having issues at first.

Lady, I'm so sorry but he's going to either kill you or your son. 😢

@frankpaya690

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe both

@explorer0213

3 жыл бұрын

She should just write to him if he gets out through probation services then she can still be in contact but under there protection and Paris not knowing where she lives.

@reallifevegeta552

3 жыл бұрын

And how would you know

It’s unimaginable what Charity’s life has become. The murder of the little girl. And the son who consciously pretended, as a child, to be a normal person. It’s an inhuman burden. A parent’s worst fear is losing a child. But this is in a totally different category. I feel so much empathy and sympathy for Charity. It’s an insolvable puzzle you will never figure out. But how do you stop trying? Paris is a very sick boy who can’t be cured. Thank god Phoenix was born. That’s the only up side. I feel so sorry for Charity and little Ella. Paris is a lost boy. And grandma is another burden.

@NefariousSpineLizard

2 жыл бұрын

Nice to see people being supportive of her instead of tearing her down. Its easy to judge when it isnt you.

I can't image your pain the lost of baby girl & your son. I am so sorry i wish you the very best& god bless you my prayer are with you ...thank you for sharing one never knows what we have to face in are life.. We live in a very hard world ......

When you have a channel that is based on interviewing people you have to up your skills. This was very subpar and poorly done. Many times you don't even finish the question, you just say "yes" with no corelation to the sentence. The suit has to be backed up!

It's like she doesn't even love her daughter only her son. That's so extremely sad! My heart hurts for Ella such a beautiful child born into such a horrible family.

This is a tragic story, there is no happy ending. My heart absolutely goes out to her. She has always done the best she could with what she knew. It's obvious which parent Paris inherited his intelligence from, she is very well-spoken & smart, not to mention, absolutely beautiful, truly God given beauty. I just can't seem to wrap my mind around the pain she has endured, she is one tough lady, bless her ❤. I know there are a lot of haters out there, but until you've walked in her shoes, don't judge, this lady deserves our support, compassion & love. #ripella #nojudgement #onetoughlady #tragicstory #shedeservessomepeace

@hangersavvy6088

3 жыл бұрын

YES - all of this. I don’t think I would have made it through what has happened to her. God Bless her

@explorer0213

3 жыл бұрын

Me either she's a tough cookie but before paris. Think of yourself and other son.

@emmagreen6087

3 жыл бұрын

Before her little monster killed her daughter, a psychiatrist told her he had homicidal tendencies, and needed live in therapy, but she refused. She should have been charged with child endangerment and neglect. She is a narcissist that loves all the attention. She neglected care for him, and endangered her daughters life.

What this poor woman has been through is unimaginable. And she has handled it very tactfully. As much as it breaks her heart she knows her son is a danger to society. And does not want him out. But wants him to have treatment and still talks to him and let’s her youngest son talk to him.

@tammyhotchkiss9165

Жыл бұрын

God wants us to forgive one another like he forgives us but letting little Phoenix talk or interact with him is another story in itself. I personally would never ever let him have any contact. No pictures no nothing of his little brother whom he's probably plotting and planning on killing if he gets out on parole. What, in like only 2 short years!? What is she thinking!?!

I really like this interviewer, doesn't interrupt, just lets her talk. Very sad story

Would anybody believe Paris Bennett if he was sorry and said "I am sorry"!

@lex61519

3 жыл бұрын

Many probably would, because they are fools that allowed him to manipulate them.

I'm confused, she says he was always a good kid yet I'm reading comments that he killed animals and thought of killing his mother from a young age, not to mention he wanted to wear her underwear. If these things are true, I would have been saying WARNING! WARNING in my head a long time ago!!

Poor Charity,can you image how she feels. This is a crazy case!!

Why doesn’t she just admit that she was high and she wouldn’t of even noticed if anything was wrong or to aee the signs

MAN this woman is on that spectrum

A lot of comments are against her and her judgement, but that was her first child. She didn’t have anything to compare what was normal and not normal. She didn’t readily jump to conclusions about him, that the true crime junkies would have noticed straight away. She also idolized this child because he was her reason for getting off drugs. She was definitely in denial at some point. She has lived through and with some of the worst scenarios you could imagine. Please do not judge people. You don’t know what happened.

What about when he stabbed you? Isn’t that a warning sign?

This could have happened to me, as my sister has hated me from the day I was born, because she had the full attention of my parents for 4 years, until I was born. So she felt entitled and justified to abuse and torment me, from before the time I could speak. She would be so kind and attentive to me in the presence of others, and then immediately turn to stone and hatefully speak to me and glare at me, the moment that we were alone. I was frightened and emotionally painted, I believe, as the only thing I could do is I would start bawling. She would then pretend to have no idea why I was crying ,and return to pretending to be the loving older sister. Once I reached speaking age, she told me that everything was my fault, because I was bad. And it was her explanation for when she did cruel things to me. I wholeheartedly believed her to be telling me the truth and I accepted that I deserved every bad thing she did because I had caused my parents divorce, I was the cause of anything and everything, and it was because I was bad. I didn't have the intellect to reason or question my status as a bad person. I didn't know anything about manipulation or lying. She told me I was bad, and I believed her! When she did something cruel, and I tried to object, she explained to me that my objection to her behaviour, was proof in itself,of how bad I actually was. How dare I show displeasure for being punished for my badness. That just "proved" how diabolically rotten I was; to question her punishment was further evidence she used to feel even more entitled to abuse me. My mother was extremely self involved(she has now, at 85, become a loving mother)and had been overindulged as a child and was basically ,still, emotionally, a spoiled little child who couldn't cope with her role of wife and mother and my grandparents had to move into our home shortly before I was born. I'm sure I was an accident because my mother told us that she wasn't aware she was pregnant with me for almost 5-6 months, because she never skipped a period until she was between 5-6 months pregs. And later in my teens, I discovered a receipt in her jewelry box, from an abortion clinic, dated a few years after I was born. So, I'm pretty sure that I would have been aborted had she missed her first couple of periods during the first month or two of pregnancy. Because I'm pretty sure she was already not liking motherhood while she had only one child, my sister. My sister had been a sickly(no appetite, diarrhea) newborn for the first several months of life, and I can't imagine my mother having to deal with cleaning diarrhea around the clock for even a day, and it apparently was off and on for weeks. But, as luck would have it, I was a healthy newborn baby, who happened to be exceptionally cute, a non crier, happy, an also an uncomplicated eater without digestive issues . I have decided to use the words 'exceptionally cute' in order to provide a crucial insight to my family's dysfunction.....even though I realize it may be at the expense of being misunderstood by someone who may read this comment. So, the reason why I included that particular description of myself as an infant, is first of all, the words that my mother used when she would repeat the story to me, or to her friends or to whomever, about how she would experience what sounded to me as almost celebrity-level attention whenever she took me out anywhere in public. She would go on about how anyone in the community who came within sighting distance; would be compelled to make their way over to her to tell her how adorable I was.My mother was a 29yr old,very attractive, perfectly dressed(in late 1960's fashion mini dresses),blonde, fair German woman, toting around a cute newborn or infant with big brown eyes and a single curl swoop of brown hair on top(I was born, already with hair+hairstyle). My mother, would was overindulged and basically worshipped by her parents as an only child, imo, would have been at her narcissistic peak during her young adulthood. And I can only imagine how delighted she was to receive this kind of attention. Imo, receiving attention and adoration of others is the most significant thing, or maybe the only thing, that fulfills her soul. I just had an epiphany writing that previous sentence, and realized that even now, I'm 57 and she's 86, I still hold resentment towards her for her narcissism(for which she is blameless; her parents created the circumstances by which she had a slim to none chance of becoming anyone other than an individual exhibiting narcissistic traits)...I purposely ignore her when I know she is pretending to be panicked that she misplaced her phone, or, car keys, (because it's like clockwork, every visit, within twenty minutes of arriving. Same thing, every time)or that she hit her head on the open cabinet door(yet she isn't anywhere near the cabinet, and the cabinet door is closed.🙄 My epiphany that I just about this endless loop I have fallen into with respect to refusing to reward my 86 year old mother's attention seeking behaviour; was the thought that I have never had before and therefore have previously never entertained until two minutes ago: "why not give her the attention that she is doing her shenanigans in order to receive?" I just realized I've been so committed to refuse to allow her to distract me a give her my undivided attention, because Im holding on to resentment from my perspective as a child, because of the suffering I experienced as a direct consequence of her prioritizing the fulfillment of her narcissistic needs at the expense and at certain times, at the potential sacrifice if necessary, of anyone or anything that impeded her from supplying those needs. But now, in this present day, her need to fulfill these narcissistic needs are barely shadows from what they once were, and I'm actually not facing any threat of pain or mortal danger as a consequence of her pursuit to feed the narcissism which exists, and which is an irrevesible, inextricable part of her being. Just as I'm not narcissistic; it's not a choice, I couldn't will myself into having narcissistic traits, even if doing so would bring me a million dollar winning prize. I just realized, that I have to finally accept that my mother can't will herself to be rid of her narcissistic traits, even if she realized she has them and wanted to be rid of them. So with this whole realization, I suddenly have no feeling of anxiety, resentment, pain, anger, or fear anticipating the next time she does her shenanigan for attention protocol. I can stop expending my energy and allowing my negative emotions to be triggered, in response to every shenanigan she does. I'm actually looking forward to her next visit, because I have come to terms with and I have gained my freedom, from this 50+ year unhealthy pattern of behaviour.

@tammyhotchkiss9165

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I too had a narcissistic mother. She passed away in January 2021.I hadn't spoken to her since Dec. 2017. Not one of her grandchildren cried over this hate filled woman.

@lizzieball3795

Жыл бұрын

@@tammyhotchkiss9165 I'm so sorry. ❤️

@MissOrchid12

11 ай бұрын

Thank for sharing an insight into this dynamic. Did you form a healthy relationship with yr sister as you got older? Or even now?

HOW DO WE GO FORWARD

So sad

OMG 😳

Sad thing is a place like jail will just magnify his symptoms,

See...I think he took that one year of no contact as...ok....I will keep you close and when I get out finish what I started.he will either kill her or substitute young women for her.

Stop this stupid denial and forget this 😈 demon

She's soooooo terrifying to me. He was a teenager, that's how you fail to begin with! No self reflection on you being a drug addict, fail him during the most critical time while his brain literally restructured! Continued popping out children, while no fathers around...he was helpful with his sister? I bet he had to raise her for you while you were HIGH!!!! Nothing major? You were a drug addict, probably abused him emotionally and mentally...how many times she said " I" in this interview! She's a sociopath!!! Overwhelmed with guilt that's what she is but not woman enough to admit it! Yeah, you didn't see the real him, you were HIGH, that's what he meant! And she just flipped it as if he didn't feel sorry enough for her! She want him to display feelings and emotions the way she does! But he's not a woman, he's a boy. He raised himself... she couldn't see any signs she was HIGH!!!! The frog story is something she made up... she's dangerous...desperately looking to blame all on mental illness!!!

@lbanaei

3 ай бұрын

I agree with you completely. There is so much more to this store that nobody is telling and has not been looked at!

I think everyone has glossed over this but I think Paris needed a father figure and he felt left out. I think he got attention but he felt left out because his mother couldn’t help him learn how to grow into a man as he is experiencing hormones. Charity treats men like sperm donors for all her kids. That’s not normal. And considering he raped his sister I think he was confused with sexual feelings and not having a dad made him feel alone. I’ve had a lot of shitty men treat me bad but even so I still understand that especially to teenage boys having a father figure is important for teenage boys. If I didn’t have a mom I can’t imagine how alone I’d feel when I had my first period. Single parents try to make excuses that kids don’t need both a mother and father. But it does affect kids to some degree. Some more than others. And Charity gives off major man hating vibes. Paris didn’t have an uncle or an other substitute father figure.

@lbanaei

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. Nobody ever mentions this.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are an amazing woman. Keeping her memories alive is beautiful and I will keep her in prayers.

So sorry for your loss though.

He didn’t do this to cause you pain he wasn’t even thinking of you when he did this, he did it to gratify hisself. It was convenient for him he didn’t even care to do it to someone outside of the family he simply does not care. And when he gets he will not want to go back to prison so if he can’t find a way to do it without getting caught he won’t do it

Most children don't harm animals. If you can cause harm to animals, you can definitely become a psychopath.Children should be taught to be careful and kind to animals.

@misfitm1457

Ай бұрын

They can't be taught that when most Parents pay for animal abuse

You could tell this Lady takes some types of meds/substances,???? SAD

I really like Charity, she’s a respectful person and I feel awful for what has happened to her family. It’s really good that she talks about these things as I feel it can highlight some of the issues other families need to look out for. I also wondered whether Paris may have had some issues regarding his sexuality, since his age range hormones are all over the place and many psychopathic killers have instances or sexuality linking the murders. I watched another documentary about him where it was said semen was found on the little girl, it sort of highlights the link between sexuality and murder. Charity, if you are reviewing these comments I wonder if you could be kind enough to update the audience on whether any psychological profiling of Paris has ever determined issues with his sexuality?

She seems uncomfortable, and her voice doesn't sound real. Why didn't she get help for her son's anger issues or psychopathic behaviour.

Good for you Charity! Clear boundaries! And if takes cutting the said child off for a bit that’s what it takes!! She really hangs in there with him.

Maybe the better question would’ve been from him what what’s it like to be a mom or father

The mother did him dirty in childhood and continues to do him dirty and telling their personal conversations on the internet. Some conversations are meant to be between the son and the mother.

@tonybluestar4954

2 жыл бұрын

I can partially agree but talking about it may help other parents!

You stopped seeing him because you had another child that you can heal from so you don't need him anymore the mother was so selfish and did paris dirty in his childhood

Why is this dude smiling / laughing while interviewing Charity?! WTF?

Why do people say that she is as bad her son, the grandmother is as bad as the son , that they manipulative . Sychopaths?

@Tburroughs87

3 жыл бұрын

she killed her husband lol

@lex61519

3 жыл бұрын

All 3 of them are manipulative

@debrarow1933

3 жыл бұрын

Watch her other interviews and you will see, all about her ,she thrives on the attention

Ur one amazing strong woman i love your raw honesty. . None the less wow Bless this family . Such a hard position for any mother or father . Baby girl is dancing in the sky . She was so beautiful.

Paris has absolutely no remorse for what he did!!! Forgiveness is not easy, I really don't know if I could do it. She is a very strong woman to continue being in his life.

Why is he smiling throughout the interview? Seriously.

Kids at 3 don't understand empathy not til their older

WE ARE GOING TO BUILD A BETTER WORLD TOGETHER FOR REAL . JOHN LENNON THANK YOU FOR LOVING SO BEAUTIFULLY . WE NEED A NEW SONG .

She's off... she expected her 13 year old son to have adult feelings and reactions to what he did at that time?

Sad story but really the whole family is wrong.

Paris didn’t want to be exposed. That’s why he acted right before a therapist. I swear that my son is so like Paris but nobody believes you until it’s too late.

I haven't seen any kids throw a cat over like that. My brother and he was a teen and had major issues though. Smh

She's mentally disturbed as well to see abnormal things seem normal. Lol

He was ok until I relapsed? I totally believe that an upbringing causes certain behavior. This is not excusing what he did but something is not adding up.

Wth,lady please keep your child or children away from the one who is sick. I wouldn't let there records be unlocked after I changed everyone's of there names.

Poor lady 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️

He put his mums underwear on to see what if felt like to BE HER?!?! Yikes