Dr Grande's "informal" video feels as formal and organized as a lecture. I almost started taking notes 🤣

@karoleg3366

3 жыл бұрын

Will there be a quiz?

@joshieking6211

3 жыл бұрын

@@karoleg3366 I'm fine with that , I enjoy listening to him.

@mcd5478

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I actually DO jot down a note or two during his videos!

@juliewayseer

3 жыл бұрын

Nope. It’s Mommy’s basement. 💪🏻💪🏻

@user-fu1nw7kh2h

3 жыл бұрын

I admire his thinking , organisation and articulation so much . I wish to learn the same.🌸

"Narcissism is a barrier against reason and logic." This is really well said.

@SujaaniPrem

3 жыл бұрын

Is the way he puts it, I was thinking about this video for this very sentence you have remarked.

@thinkersthink-

3 жыл бұрын

I read this at the the exact same time he spoke it...

@rb032682

3 жыл бұрын

@@Frenchblue8 - Please, don't keep us in suspense, who said it?

@munchey99508

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, so true!

@darkjimmy33

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to use that quote in my book

“There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge.” ― Issac Asimov

@deadams8905

3 жыл бұрын

Oooo great quote. I researched the movie Idiocracy again for the first time since it came out and it felt too real

@deadams8905

3 жыл бұрын

Oops I meant rewatched lol

@mamavswild

3 жыл бұрын

Well, that’s why the US is actually a Republic, for this very reason.

@mamavswild

3 жыл бұрын

@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim Clearly you need a history and civics lesson, Allie. I suggest you find one, a mere 5 minute google search might have saved you the embarrassment. I wasn’t arguing whether a Republic was a democracy; it is a FORM of democracy. There are MANY different forms democratic societies can take. We were set up as a Republic by our Founding Fathers for a reason, I’ll let you find out for yourself but hint hint (it has something to do with the original comment!). It will be sure to dismay you though, as it brings your own ignorance up, directly to bear. But in case ignorance is an ongoing theme for you, I’ll give you a heads-up that REPUBLICS are where the people do NOT directly choose their leaders...they elect REPRESENTATIVES who will do the leader-choosing FOR THEM. Why is that? Well once again, it has something to do with the original comment! LEARN something today and do yourself a favor; take care.

@dogmomma4019

3 жыл бұрын

@@mamavswild well said but seriously, be cautious with your delivery only because certain types of people will automatically shut down from even hearing the points that you are making. With something as vitally important as this, we can not do tit for tat jabs or stoop to a certain level.

Remember, in abusive relationships, the most dangerous time is when the victim is leaving the abuser.

@monicanlamppost9631

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, Jesus. This is so accurate. Scary times right now.

@MaureenWHamblin

3 жыл бұрын

👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

@savenetneutralityanti-repu7029

3 жыл бұрын

That's why it's important to tell the victim to buy a gun and some pepper spray and if she's not willing to ice her ex-boyfriend herself to hire a trigger happy bodyguard who is.

@nicolebrown1927

3 жыл бұрын

That's a great point.💙

@En7my

3 жыл бұрын

You bet your balls he wanted to heart this comment

“Narcissism is a barrier against reason and logic” Absolutely, I don’t think this point can be overstated! Thank you Dr Grande

@Sashas-mom

3 жыл бұрын

Dr Grande, I couldn’t agree with you more. I feel that many Americans need to realize trump’s attention is increasingly focusing on punishing America. The USA is failing miserably at supplying trumps narcissistic demands and we’re having to pay. They will be punished along with the rest of us. Already >300,000 Americans have died to COVID 😖 essentially trumps narcissistic carnage.

@capefear56

3 жыл бұрын

I've seen otherwise brilliant people hold some very idiotic ideas because they don't want to admit that they might be wrong. Narcissism invites the practice of regularly burying your head in the sand, consciously in the sense that you dismiss any criticism out of hand, or unconsciously in that you desperately do not want to be wrong about something.

@boxingexpert9065

3 жыл бұрын

Most of the leaders on bith sides are narcissits

@ladymopar2024

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sashas-mom underrated comment from Doctor Grande

@neurotika

3 жыл бұрын

@@boxingexpert9065 true and the point being at what point does a narcissist have their limits? What’s out of bounds for them?

Narcissism is never harmless. The whole point if narcissism is to destroy everybody else for your own benefit. Well spoken and analysed.

@sandraharris3087

3 жыл бұрын

Shows education does not mean they have wisdom

@annalisa14

3 жыл бұрын

@@sandraharris3087 that’s old news

@kathleenreardon8943

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I can say from a life time of experience with these people that they LOVE to cause chaos.

@carolnahigian9518

3 жыл бұрын

Yes.i ought to know -P -T -S-D from sibling who abused me & sister 1960 to 2021!

@sandramcdaniel2

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathleenreardon8943 I have heard that It’s easier for the narcissist to control people when there is constant chaos.

Thank you for commenting on this. In Canada we're shocked (but not surprised) at what happened - but Canada is considered to be the quiet neighbours living above the meth lab

When you have escaped from narcissistic rage, manipulation and victimisation you know without a doubt that it is dangerous and real.

@elizabethkeller6040

2 жыл бұрын

Yup.

This seems to be similar to a boyfriend who kills his girlfriend thinking that if I can’t have her no one can.

@sandrabentley8111

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Mary Trump said basically the same thing about her uncle. She's a Ph.D in clinical psychology and describes his symptoms very well indeed.

@Cindy99765

3 жыл бұрын

@@Helga7850 And what is this...Italian software you speak of

@dabouras

3 жыл бұрын

@@Helga7850 Do you mean the truth you believe or the truth that is?

@marty7549

3 жыл бұрын

What's wrong with that ?

@blaxpoitation8528

3 жыл бұрын

@@Helga7850 Hahahaha!! Just like Sydney Powell said that she had a Venezuelan intelligence officer who was there when the Dominion machine was created by/for Hugo Chavez lmao. Except her “intelligence officer” wasn’t one to begin with. Dominion machines are only used in California, and they have no ties to Smartmatic. Also, Powell is now being sued by Dominion for lying. Now it’s Italian software 🙄🤣🤣🤣. Was it created by Mussolini ? Was he there too? Y’all cultists are funny and delusional as hell.

"Never underestimate the stupidity of people in large groups."

@neuralmute

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anyways936 Oh shut up with your deflection!

@Vivi_9

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anyways936 triggered

@annalisa14

3 жыл бұрын

It’s called: mob mentality.

@RailGunZ-wf1df

3 жыл бұрын

It's true for both sides, any side. Protests are one thing but both sides have moved into mob mentality. I'm staying home.

@andrewmantle7627

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anyways936 Riiiight.

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." Maya Angelou.

@catherinefisher8534

2 жыл бұрын

RIP 🙏 Miss Maya

@frankpaya690

2 жыл бұрын

Biden's been documented going back 50 years, as being a habitual liar, cheat, and thief but people still voted for him in 2020.

It's sad and frightening. In Latin America we've seen enough of that. Wish you the best, USA. Don't fall asleep.

@RiDankulous

3 жыл бұрын

Sad to hear, yes. What specifically do you see in common between this leader and some in Latin America's past? Is part of it that they are willing to perpetrate a set of lies and where truth is non-existent, or just the part about narcissm and caring only about themself.

@crieverytim

3 жыл бұрын

you've seen enough of what? leftist fascism?

@makaylahollywood3677

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you;-) xo

@enjoyesk8978

2 жыл бұрын

@Over It trump was a failed experiment

@RUINOUSDOLL

2 жыл бұрын

@@crieverytim please leave us alone gringuito, your imperialist fascist dictators have done enough damage to the region

“When a narcissist gains power in an organization, they destroy it from the inside”. Thank you so much for your clarity and wisdom.

@kurger100

3 жыл бұрын

This is not a riot compared to what BLM/ANTIFA thugs did over the summer... They looted businesses, killed people, burned cars are formed 'autonomous zones'... Its funny how 'experts' run to criticise rightfully angered Trump supporters over an election with many dubious situatations but didn't say a word about how leftists has been calling conservative Americans racists/ sexists/ white supremacists when they disagree or resist

@politicschannel2312

3 жыл бұрын

He's not comparing the two at all. Not commenting on blm or antifa at all. Just simply stating what happened was fueled by narcicism.

@Matthew-dd6kp

3 жыл бұрын

Basically every president has been a narcissist.

@quidproquo82

3 жыл бұрын

@@kurger100 60 failed lawsuits, some tossed out by Trump appointed judges, and voting certified by republican state legislators proves that it was a fair election. Only in the minds of you delusional fools is there a controversy

@Tyrannulet2k

3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what is happening, the Republican Party is at war with itself. Now Trump is attacking his own Vice President, and not allowing the Pence's chief of staff in the White House. He set the two Republican senate candidates in GA up against their Republican governor and Secretary of State. McConnell lost control of his caucus in the senate because a couple of opportunists wanted to grand stand trying to take on the Trump mantle. It's also no coincidence that a pipe bomb was found at the RNC. This mob that invaded the Capitol has no loyalty to the Republican Party, only to Trump.

Your calmness in discussing this has brought some peace to a very chaotic and frightening day. Thank you so much for your thoughts, Dr. Grande.

@Happyinmontana

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for stepping up and sharing your thoughts...

@caramelfrappuccino234

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@darlenegriffith6186

3 жыл бұрын

Emily, I agree. Dr. Grande's level-headedness helps to quell my anxiety about the events of today.

@razorella

3 жыл бұрын

Most definitely agree, thanks Dr Grande! 🙏🏻

@emilyevans6989

3 жыл бұрын

@@darlenegriffith6186, I hope you are doing well. This day exhausted me on so many fronts. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I am holding a good thought for you. Peace.

"Welcome to the party. Narcissism is a real thing. It's really dangerous. It has real consequences..." These words are no overstatement. Thank you.

The mob mentality is the worst of the worst and quite a stunning dystopic thing to witness in real life. They are true believers, the other is non-existent.

@rb032682

3 жыл бұрын

@Salmon - These mobs need to be educated using facts. Actual facts, not "lost cause" terrorist propaganda.

@mirandataylor6385

3 жыл бұрын

@@rb032682 Trust me they won’t listen I’ve tried.

@rb032682

3 жыл бұрын

@@mirandataylor6385 - I know. They are the willfully ignorant who avoid facts and logic because such things trigger their cognitive dissonance. Facts and logic can be very painful when viewed by the willfully ignorant. Whether they listen or not, I prefer speaking facts and logic rather than personally devolving into violence.

@Sputterbugz

Жыл бұрын

exactly, they think everyone else are just plants, liars, "sheep", the "real" mob, or pawns, when in reality, this is just a projection of themselves

We really need more level headed and open dialogue like this video. It's time to heal in the USA.

@krrr.4902

3 жыл бұрын

👍 love your videos, man. They help ME heal.

@Incessuserro

3 жыл бұрын

Fuck that noise. democrats are in power and the knives are out.

@rw7975

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe history wont repeat itself this time? Do you think this all just... goes away now?

@Kyle-bv6di

3 жыл бұрын

then get rid of democracy, democracy is a false god and anybody who reads political theory knows just how cringe it is. Install Joe Biden for all I care, but democracy only causes divide and unqualified individuals get the option to decide our fate. The best argument against democracy is talking to the average voter

@Dwyanerose

3 жыл бұрын

@@Incessuserro Y'all are really a bunch of crybabies lol... We really just witness a bunch of grown adult riot and trespass because they couldn't get what they want lol Pathetic

― Dwight D. Eisenhower “Never let yourself be persuaded that any one Great Man, any one leader, is necessary to the salvation of America. When America consists of one leader and millions of followers, it will no longer be America.”

@Francesco-cj3oi

3 жыл бұрын

this goes for both "leaders"

@JohnMassari

3 жыл бұрын

@@Francesco-cj3oi ANY ONE LEADER!

@hallievanoutryve3109

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this quote

@48917032

3 жыл бұрын

I like Ike

@lymarie1974

3 жыл бұрын

So true

I'm not an expert, but I think "flying monkeys" might be at play.

@duewhit310

3 жыл бұрын

👏 👏

@mikediamond353

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking about the Dr's claim that Trump will never lose their support. What if Trump ordered his followers to take a "special" vaccine?

@duewhit310

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikediamond353 if trump TRIED to get rid of them, at which point they will get confused and tell themselves he is speaking in secret code again.

@kandylandtarot142

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikediamond353 he'll discard them. He is already. They let him down. Then it's time for them to grieve.

@duewhit310

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikediamond353 a koolaid vaccine!

Thank you Dr. Grande for your accurate and professional insight. I don't consider myself a partisan but Trump's behavior and character have been exposed by himself.

"This situation illustrates that narcissism is nothing to be toyed with....It's a barrier against reason and logic." So true. I wish more people understood this.

@shadrach6299

3 жыл бұрын

Most politicians are a bit narcissistic but malignant narcissism is very dangerous. Ted Cruz is the next dangerous one.

@jasmineflower4809

3 жыл бұрын

Trauma Mom, Well stated.

@itsmeekers

3 жыл бұрын

What about the billions in damages deaths and destruction did by blm and Antifa? You have some broken windows, two unarmed killed by cops. One pushed off a Roof another was a veteren mom looks like you there for her 2k check and she was shot in the neck only because she moved he was aiming at her head. What's are the rules does she have to be black shot by a white cop and then it's wrong? He executed her. He picked out one of them to shoot the least of the target's and fired. Those that were inside I laughed at because they stayed between the tour ropes because at heart these are lawful folks no records not the typical blm Antifa rioters.

@itsmeekers

3 жыл бұрын

You been programed with white guilt and orange man bad you don't see you been insulting folks with you Ists, isms, phobias and you got to bees. The ripping down of man and woman and family in a mid pandemic?

@itsmeekers

3 жыл бұрын

@@shadrach6299 I didn't see his 40 thousand dollar fridges packaged with cakes each rack worth more than our Stimulus checks, or getting his hair down breaking Covid regs did you?

I’m normally not emotional about political matters but I’m very sad tonight. Peace and love everyone ✌🏻🥰

@stacyyoust

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Peace to you

@meagancobb1417

3 жыл бұрын

Same. Sending love to everyone

@shalini_sevani

3 жыл бұрын

@bobbyduggart4493

3 жыл бұрын

It is literally a nothing burger, imagine getting emotional about this.

@debrapatterson6940

3 жыл бұрын

I've been breaking down in tears off and on all day. The Cabinet MUST remove him ASAP. PLEASE!!!

It is incredibly comforting to listen to Dr. Grande, a voice of reason.

@tluv6921

3 жыл бұрын

Is that a jazz flute?

You...DR. GRANDE, should work for the new administration and others to come. This video and breakdown of the narcissistic characteristic should be a mandatory training for every elected official.

@xino_z

2 жыл бұрын

@Jake Stockton overly broad and destructive.

Could we get a round of applause for ourselves, Dr. Grande’s audience, please? I really like sharing this time with you and appreciate the general good humor and civility in these comment sections. Even when we aren’t on the same page, I feel we consistently “generate an interesting dialogue.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕

@spudmurphy9264

3 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏 👌

@tbforester

3 жыл бұрын

I just have to say, I disagree with one thing in this video. When he said the election results are neither good nor bad. They are very very good. Very good indeed. :-)

@blowitoutyourcunt7675

3 жыл бұрын

Cheers mate!

@outlawJosieFox

3 жыл бұрын

@@tbforester Agreed. And sadly it is voter apathy as much as anything which has led to so many Republican party politicians holding on to power for so long. Whether you like it or not, politics is life as it affects everything.

@kgolem79

3 жыл бұрын

100% feel the same. TY

“There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.” ― Soren Kierkegaard

@BradyKaynee

3 жыл бұрын

I refuse to believe Elvis Presley is dead

@eavyeavy2864

3 жыл бұрын

Republican commit blatant terrorism. That is true.

@ethereal1425

3 жыл бұрын

@@ajhproductions2347 would ANY other group be allowed to storm the Capitol that way? I think not.

@Incessuserro

3 жыл бұрын

@@ethereal1425 They weren't allowed. Law enforcement was on scene, responded, and the national guard was deployed. The rightist protest was quickly and effectively quelled. Unlike the years of rioting, lootings, property destruction, harassment, and beatings from leftists that have gone on nationwide for years.

@breamstoms9987

3 жыл бұрын

​@@ajhproductions2347 nice deflection to antifa, but of course you can never provide any proof of antifa being convicted of committing domestic terrorist acts.

"Welcome to the party pal", I too can relate when Elaine Chao whom just resigned as the Secretary of FMCSA even though she was getting replaced by the new administration. Elaine refused to protect truckers from rioters on Interstates and after just watching the DC riot on TV, decided to quit. The world would be worse off today if truckers decided to quit and not deliver essentials across America. Truckers faced the virus, rioters, no parking, waiting 8 hours to get unloaded, rates cut in half, no place to eat, rocks from overpasses broke windshields, assaulted drivers and we're even shot at. As usual, trucking men and women have stepped up to the plate for America. Mitch, her husband needs to follow her out the doors.

@abbynormal206

3 жыл бұрын

she has lived in the swamp for many years.

@lolaboden2641

3 жыл бұрын

I have relatives who are truck drivers. I have great respect for them. Like you said without truck drivers, we’d have nothing..

@ramblingbill9101

3 жыл бұрын

As a fellow trucker I agree with what you said. We were told the official response for truck drivers who come upon protestors, rioters, or looters is to turn around if possible. If not possible proceed at a slow enough speed that people can get out of the way but fast enough that they can not jump on your truck or trailer. If you run over anyone keep going until you are a safe distance away, at least two miles, stop and then call 911. They said never stop. That was the official guidance given by the federal government. Interstate truckers are under the domain of the federal government so any crime against them is a federal offense. Did you know even peaceful protestors who block a truck are each subject to a $15,000 fine for delaying interstate commerce?

@stilltrucking3070

3 жыл бұрын

@@ramblingbill9101 Apparently, the laws that should protect truckers are not enforced, it is the opposite, like the tanker driver that got mobbed by protestors blocking I 35 in Minneapolis. He was beaten down, wallet stolen, etc and they are charging him with crimes not, the protestors. Our judicial system is ridiculous. It would help to only hire educated law enforcement not, uneducated and biased people.

@geekdivaherself

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your service.

Thank you Dr Grande, for being a neutral voice. ❤️

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Tabitha Miles, hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!

@teebittamhiles6649

3 жыл бұрын

@@lioydwilliams1850 I used to be!

Dr. Grande! i'm a college student who was raised republican/conservative and am now becoming more democratic/liberal. your content has helped me learn how to look at situations more evenly as a young growing woman and to not let anything else clout my opinions. Love the new set up and I hope your channel continues to grow!

@hallievanoutryve3109

3 жыл бұрын

👍It’s a good thing to be able to examine your beliefs and adjust when necessary.

@BeachsideHank

3 жыл бұрын

@@hallievanoutryve3109 It's called the scientific method, the best analytical tool we have ever had.

@Purwapada

3 жыл бұрын

@@BeachsideHank no, that's called the fallacy 'scientism' - the overapplication of the scientific method where not applicable

@chatnoir9038

3 жыл бұрын

@@Purwapada It's called people smart enough to jump out of your sinking ship while they still can babe

@Purwapada

3 жыл бұрын

. @@chatnoir9038 what?

I'm from India and I'm disturbed because if such a thing can happen in a 'developed' country. What about the rest of us? More importantly, y'all got some crazy number of nukes and the guy that has control over those nukes has just now been deemed too dangerous to have a Twitter account.

@praderwilli4313

3 жыл бұрын

Chill out and worry about your own politics. Thanks.

@SapphicKnits

3 жыл бұрын

@@praderwilli4313News Flash: American politics affect everyone, not just Americans.

@jhoang861

3 жыл бұрын

@@SapphicKnits agreed! It’s a ripple affect.

@jollygreen9377

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, the left in our country are fascist. They will be the downfall of it.

@lukrecja2102

3 жыл бұрын

@@JK-mh5lt except civil one..

Paul n Golda here. Thank u 4 jumping in2 these current events, Dr Grande. Our nation is traumatized.

Dr. Grande is popular because there's no other video series like it that seems fair, just and educational as far as mental illnesses, because he is educated in so many ways....also, he refuses to give diagnoses which others don't...I find his talks fascinating and easy to listen....he's well mannered and uses no vulgar language....keep it up dr.☺😊

‘One person winning and one person losing is actually a victory for that process.’ That’s right.

@monkeywkeys3916

3 жыл бұрын

If the fraud was reversed. And the riots were Nationwide. Would you be saying the same thing???

@Claytone-Records

3 жыл бұрын

G S, What fraud are you referring to?

@npg68

3 жыл бұрын

@@monkeywkeys3916 If means nothing because there was no fraud significant to change the election result.

@monkeywkeys3916

3 жыл бұрын

@@Claytone-Records Playing dumb is fine. It's a democratic party motto.

@monkeywkeys3916

3 жыл бұрын

@@npg68 That's a simpleton answer to a deep State effort that would boggle the mind. Why is Mark Zuckerberg funding the purchase of voting machines??? It is a matter of government to oversee elections, not big tech companies and multifaceted media conglomerates.

“When a narcissist gains power of an organization, they destroy it from the inside.” “If I can’t be in command of this country, I don’t care what happens” This commentary is on the nose. Thank you Dr. Grande.

@MarcosElMalo2

3 жыл бұрын

I think it’s an understatement. Trump is beyond not caring, he actively wants to harm us on his way out.

@debrajones7344

3 жыл бұрын

@@MarcosElMalo2 Agree with you both. Trump has been rejected and he is enraged. He needs to be removed immediately, he may not be through with his revenge.

@williamwagers1182

3 жыл бұрын

We should also figure out all the riots blm and antifa caused, notice how nothing was stolen, and burned down. I don't think they were smart for what they did.

@itsmeekers

3 жыл бұрын

What you think Trump is the first to have that in his character? Nancy? Mitch?

@itsmeekers

3 жыл бұрын

@@debrajones7344 Antifa broke into the Whitehouse not Trump. Its your fear you have put into you by the media. You have him using the football every day because frankly every day the media says here's the president he said some stuff Nword Nword Nword Nword good by Nword and left in a rage.

"Their intention was to disregard the process of democracy to preserve democracy?" "What could Trump do to lose his supporters? What is beyond the pale? The answer is nothing. There is nothing Trump could do to lose his supporters at the Capitol. "

@lolaboden2641

3 жыл бұрын

That statement terrified me. Thousands stirred up lunatics on the loose....

They hitched their star to an outhouse and now they wonder why they stink!

“Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

@emizerri

3 жыл бұрын

@@YourPartnerInCrime yess

@jacoboflaherty5282

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but there's no truth here. One side is spitting allegations of voter fraud, one is spitting allegations of non voter fraud. We have no data. It's not like we know anything facts wise. We're always in the dark and you shouldn't completely trust any politician. Just listen to what they say they're claiming to offer then to remember just incase they don't so you can vote them out. Edit: im also curious to what you think is fact, since facts are provable.

@eavyeavy2864

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacoboflaherty5282 this. People just copy pasting random quote and act like diva to look smart

@jacoboflaherty5282

3 жыл бұрын

@@eavyeavy2864 It's ironic that his name is question everything.

@nmc1859

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely !

Dr. Grande with breaking news alerts AND a new set?! 2021 is already kicking 2020’s ass!!

@mounag8518

3 жыл бұрын

I am telling ya

@mariaotto6732

3 жыл бұрын

This was a nice surprise!

@kkandsims4612

3 жыл бұрын

By fucking far

@mollie3244

3 жыл бұрын

Ammm, maybe, except for the maga revolution? ;) Maybe 2020 was awful but maybe 2021 is saying hold my beer lol.

@SCAScienceLab

3 жыл бұрын

@@mollie3244 You have a point. I should have qualified my statement. 2021 is better than 2020 in the Dr. Grande KZread univers(ity).

*_Tolerate, in fact, may be far too weak a word to describe the complex relationship between toxic leaders and their followers. These intriguing leaders first charm but then manipulate, mistreat, undermine, and ultimately leave their followers worse off than they found them. Yet many of these followers hang on. I do not speak merely of the leader’s immediate entourage-the leader’s close-in staff and advisors. I am speaking also of the larger mass of supporters (employees, constituents, volunteers) who only glimpse their toxic leader through a glass darkly-perchance through a window of the executive suite or on the television screen. More surprisingly perhaps, even those groups charged with keeping leaders under the microscope and on the straight and narrow-the media and boards of directors-fall under their sway. Followers of toxic leaders often do much more than simply tolerate them. They commonly adulate, abet, and actually prefer toxic leaders to their nontoxic counterparts. That astonishing choice occurs everywhere that leaders strut their stuff-in business, politics, the nonprofit world of education and religion, athletics, the family, and all the other arenas of human action_* Jean Lipman-Blumen, The Allure of Toxic Leaders

Dr Grande, you are such a well spoken, calming, intelligent doctor. Thank you for your work and time.

Bless you Dr. Grande. Yesterday’s events were beyond horrifying.

@mikeformisano764

3 жыл бұрын

Pretty convincing show right? If it was real there would be 1000's of police there within 30 minutes but its not real.. Just entertainment for television viewers like every other "big" event. Gotta look at things happening that they don't mention on TV to see what's really going on.

@machinegoat2280

3 жыл бұрын

I know. Seeing cops brutally slaughter an unarmed woman was horrifying. Fvck 12

@mikeformisano764

3 жыл бұрын

@Sam "you need help" "take your meds" Typical brainwashed sheep response. How many shots of tap water have you consumed today sir? If you're still buying 1 minute of this clown show on TV you may need a vaccine. 2 if they'll let you. There's enough of you running around sucking up natural resources that someone worthwhile could be utilizing.

@marijnmens7583

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeformisano764 don't be mad, 90% of the information in their heads comes from Rotschild. It's like being mad at a todler, they need protection not anger.

@aarontheperson6867

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeformisano764 4 people died. that wasnt fake.

This event made me reflect deeper on how mental health is a completely unaddressed topic in the US.

Thank you Dr. Grande. Great video, very informative and easy to comprehend. I'm so sad that my fears from four years ago did come to fruition. I do have hope for the future.

I wish everyone could have such mature thoughts about election outcomes, and political differences in-general.

"It's only fair if everything is all about me! It's only democracy if I get what I want! It's only a fact if it suits me! Me, me, now! I get to throw violent tantrums and then pretend to be the victim if things don't go my way!" Not sure how there can be really any doubt about it.

@tanyadavis6138

3 жыл бұрын

While keeping my own hands clean.

@rjskum688

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

@nighttrain1236

3 жыл бұрын

The thing is that describes in essence what has been going on in progressive circles since 2016. The Dems never stopped stamping their feet and moaning about how unfair it was. Million spent on investigating 'Russian collusion' and nothing turned up. The pathetic attempt to impeach Trump. It seems hypocritical to accuse the other side of not respecting democracy when one has spent 4 years exactly doing that. The US has become like two school children arguing. Neither side is consistent in their position and neither is listening to the other. When BLM was burning cities such as DC, progressives were telling the police to back off, now some rightwingers got into the Capital and they want the National Guard to machine-gun them. It's bonkers. Whether they are (mostly) peaceful protestors or domestic terrorists seems to depend upon your partisan position.

@nighttrain1236

3 жыл бұрын

@@svenolafson3032 Both.

@rjskum688

3 жыл бұрын

@@svenolafson3032 all of the above. Don't tell me you've picked a side....

DR. GRANDE! I was hoping you’d hop in this. Thank you!

@bbdarknyss

3 жыл бұрын

He's so calm and restful

@nunovurbiznis

3 жыл бұрын

I knew he would!

@feargalkearney1329

3 жыл бұрын

FUCK YEA DR GRANDE

Fun fact; Scotland has a 3rd possible outcome in court cases, albeit very rarely. A verdict of 'not proven' essentially means 'we know you did it, we just cant prove it'

Thank you so much for elaborating on Why our WORLD IN AMERICA CRUMBLING UNDER A NARC.🤨🤔

@monicadefreitas8776

Жыл бұрын

2 years later and he still won’t stop. Unfortunate that people are still giving him the narcissistic supply that keeps him going.

Dr Grande that was a sad analysis. I hope everyone is safe. I'm so sorry about the turmoil people are going though. Thanks Dr Grande I hope you and all Americans stay safe.

@DuckyThorn

3 жыл бұрын

So kind; thank you. It's good to hear that there are people on the outside who still have compassion for us in the U.S. The most unwell and/or lacking in character among us have drawn the lion's share of attention these past 4+ years. I'm hoping that will eventually change. Small steps make solid progress. Soon we begin the trek back to decorum and decency.

@cottontails9003

3 жыл бұрын

@@DuckyThorn Thank you your all good people like everyone else in the world

"What Role Did Narcissism Play?" Now there is a rhetorical question if ever I heard one!!

@rishaa682

3 жыл бұрын

omg someone with the same last name as me lol

@beatsbyserafim

3 жыл бұрын

Ridin4Biden

@damianeadie510

3 жыл бұрын

@@rishaa682 I know how that feels! Not many of us about :-)

@harrietthespy2119

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@kimihuff7645

3 жыл бұрын

@@beatsbyserafim You'll be hidinfrom Biden before it's over.

I almost did not watch this because Trump's behaviour makes his diagnosis so obvious. But as always, you never fail to entertain and educate.

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Lucia Karp, hope you are not with a narcissist 😈 cause you are too pretty!

@lisac8509

3 жыл бұрын

Things will not improve until the LEFT realize they need to be on the side of the people. It is ridiculous to think that President Trump had anything g to do with the breach at the Whitehouse. Get deprogrammed and turn off the tv.

@fishjj76

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisac8509 It is the Capitol building that was breached and Trump and his enablers bear full responsibility for it. Trump is a dangerous narcissist who should be removed from office.

@DivineLightPaladin

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisac8509 four fingers are pointing back at you. Follow your own advice and get out of your newsmax/OAN bubble. The left is for this country more than the "rebel" confederate right has ever been

@lisac8509

3 жыл бұрын

@@fishjj76 lol. We will see. Tell me why a 47 year politician makes a great leader? What great things will Biden do for us? Crickets??????

It was disgusting to see a video of Trump watching this insurrection unfold on a screen with his family.

@polarbearsrus6980

3 жыл бұрын

They thrive on chaos, this was one of the highlights of his entire life.

@sammyandoliver7522

3 жыл бұрын

They were watching the crowd gather and the speeches before Trump even took the stage.

I'm happy for Dr. Grande for growing his channel so well, I've been watching since he was at about 100K. I've noticed with the growth that the comments have gotten really nasty at times. Its not the same as sharing opinions or feelings about the video anymore, but I guess thats the internet...I hope things continue to go well Dr. G

@manomiejones6787

3 жыл бұрын

I started watching him to brush up on theory for licensure. I was pleasantly surprised when he expanded his videos.

@francesbernard2445

3 жыл бұрын

Nasty is putting it too mildly. While I was not being allowed to sign in for the last a few days to his channel in order to share my comments too some people there were starting to act so bad in their comments that they would make any self-respecting man from the cave man era seem sophisticated in comparison.

@1313MockingBird_Lane

3 жыл бұрын

I've seen it happen before as channels grow and attract a wider audience with different opinions and beliefs. I prefer la vie en rose 🌹 😎

Soothe me with your level-headed analysis and calming voice. SOOTHE ME.

@millsykooksy4863

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@SuperConsii

3 жыл бұрын

Did you just yell "sooth me"!? 😂

@higgaroc

3 жыл бұрын

😄 I love this

@orchidsrising7910

3 жыл бұрын

I thought you said Smooth me. Same feeling as sooth to me. I know- Dr Grande is cool and relaxing

@jodiefinney5072

3 жыл бұрын

Thats why were here!!!!

It's important also that Trump has never been challenged until now. He has always been able to lie, cheat, or buy his way out of any bad situation. Suddenly he has come up against an absolute, and that... he just can't deal with that.

@ladyzinada5341

3 жыл бұрын

Truth

@worsethanjoerogan8061

3 жыл бұрын

Wait, do you mean before he went into politics? Because he's definitely been challenged frequently in the past 4 years

@Valdagast

3 жыл бұрын

@@worsethanjoerogan8061 Challenged may be the wrong word. He's never had to face any consequences. First his father bailed him out, pumping $400 million into his failed enterprises. Then the banks bailed him out, because he owed them so much money that he _had_ to succeed. Then he went into politics and the GOP were always there for him because he had the base by the balls.

@lolaboden2641

3 жыл бұрын

He went bonkers that 80M can’t stand him... he roasted Biden incessantly. And to lose to him? Trump short-circuited.

@MissDeviancy

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. He's bullied and intimidated his way his entire life.

Thank you, Dr. Grande....I always learn to understand when I listen to you...I am one of those people deeply effected by the siege of the capitol and the riot squads...and in dealing with my feelings of this event, I turned to your explanation, and now I better understand what really happened. I have always been aware of Trump's narcissism but now I am aware of just how destructive it can be in a person of trust and power.

its nice to see a mental health professional who appears to actually truly understand narcissism

@flowers6576

3 жыл бұрын

@risha a: Finally!!

@rishaa682

3 жыл бұрын

@@flowers6576 i was raised them and had a partner who is one, i can tell when a therapist understands narcissism! hopefully all of this trump issues will bring more awareness to it

@rishaa682

3 жыл бұрын

@@dfinite4089 yes everyone needs to be protected especially children. another good place to look is narcissistic abuse communities, people with lots of experience can often describe them with a lot of nuance i kind of think people can only understand it in depth with experience (it sounds like dr grande had his fair share of experience with them, probably why he seems to *get* them) and then if everyone else could somehow be warned and truly understand the depth of the damage they can do, without having to actually experience them, would be great.

Thank you, Dr Grande. There was something extraordinarily unsettling about the wearing of a jacket with the words "I don't care." by a high profile member of the presidential family long before this tragic event occurred. Now it has happened and as you say, we can be hopeful for a more positive and sensible turn of events.

@OneAdam12Adam

3 жыл бұрын

@Jake Stockton Yeah thanks Russian Disinformation Troll. We believe you yeah! 😆

Off topic but... why is Dr Grande literally the coolest dude ever? I hope with this new studio and mic we will be getting a podcast soon! I could listen to him all day.

Dr Todd has a voice that is soooooooo relaxing you'd think that falling asleep would be a problem. It isn't. Unlike seemingly everyone else on you tube, there's no filler on any of his posts. He Gets Right To The Point, Stays Focused, And Stays On Message.

As someone who has been abused by a narcissist, and lost a job I loved because of him...they ALWAYS ALWAYS turn on their minions...when the minions realise they have been used...

@brucesmith3072

3 жыл бұрын

I can sympathise with you as I too have been abused by a boss & some family members by narcissists, but didn't know the name! lol Yeah, I'm old! lol The irony is they all "acted" the same! Beyond my logic. But they never get it right in the long term. I'm happily retired, the boss is long dead, family narcissistic members miserable & broke. A few stretch out for help: "No thanks!". lol But they can be very dangerous I agree.

@Mehki227

3 жыл бұрын

@@brucesmith3072 I'm sure everything that went wrong in their lives was your fault. 🙄

@cher3093

3 жыл бұрын

And sooner or later their true colors show through always.

@neuralmute

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mehki227 That's what they always say...

The only thing missing is Dr. Grande coffee cup merch on the desk.

@brentrazz6355

3 жыл бұрын

With his face on that mug. Silently judging you. Lol

@55shocked55

3 жыл бұрын

If he can add an address ill make one I own a business and that's what I do. Mugs by miranda im on Facebook

@claytongoode5715

3 жыл бұрын

I would so drink from that cup every day for the rest of my life.

@stacyyoust

3 жыл бұрын

It's the most boring of merch

@BellaLeoLicorice

3 жыл бұрын

@@stacyyoust Yeah underwear would be more exciting

When we study about ancient civilizations that considered their leaders as gods, we find this weird and think: "this would never happen nowadays". Well, look at these riot, if this is not worshiping a man, I don't know what is! A lot of things evolved with time, science evolved, technology evolved, but human nature continues the same. "What has been is what will be, and what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." (Ecclesiastes 1:9)

@fbxurumela

3 жыл бұрын

Brasileiro fã do Dr. Grande? Ainda resta uma esperança rsrs... Falando em culto à personalidade, gozado como isso só é possível dentro de estados enormes com burocracias gigantescas, como o Império Romano, o Egito Faraônico, a Alemanha Nazista, a União Soviética e, agora, os EUA. Ninguém houve falar nessas doideiras em países pequenos como a Suíça, p.ex., onde existe a coisa mais próxima de uma verdadeira democracia no sentido original da palavra. É a distância enorme entre o poder central e o cidadão comum que propicia a deificação política. Quanto mais inalcançável o trono, maior o fanatismo pelo rei. Napoleão certa vez observou que não importava que ele fosse o imperador da Europa: ele não passava de um cagão para o servo que limpava sua latrina

@josehenriquefs888

3 жыл бұрын

@@fbxurumela Interessante, eu nunca tinha notado essa relação entre o tamanho do Estado e a deificação política. Faz muito sentido

@fbxurumela

3 жыл бұрын

@@josehenriquefs888 Pode reparar, ninguém deifica prefeito nem vereador, somente de governador para cima. Divindade requer distância, afinal, "santo de casa não faz milagre" Mas não esqueça a burocracia, ela é fundamental. Tenho um colega que adora história antiga e uma das teorias que a gente discute é sobre a relação entre os escribas e o faraó. Todo mundo só fala dos faraós, mas será que eles mandavam mesmo grande coisa? Quando vc vai ver, eram apenas uma família incestuosa cheia de problemas físicos e mentais. Tudo tinha que passar pelos escribas, os "marajás" do serviço público da época. Quem decidia as coisas eram esses caras Uma visão alternativa é encarar o faraó como uma espécie de abelha-rainha: aquela criatura gosmenta que a colméia inteira alimenta mas não faz nada além de procriar. E uma estratégia para os escribas se perpetuarem no poder era justamente TIRAR O FOCO de si próprios e jogar todos os holofotes para cima do deus-faraó. Dessa forma eles poderiam continuar mandando sem ninguém reclamar. Nasce faraó, morre faraó, e o escriba continua escrevendo a história que o povo quer acreditar Pensando bem, Brasília e Washington não funcionam num esquema muito diferente. Todo mundo sabe que quem manda de verdade são as grandes corporações através dos lobistas. Gozado como ninguém sabe o nome deles...

We need more sane, calm voices like you on these topics.

I respect Dr Grande more than ever now. He put his heart into this video.

@marcdraco2189

3 жыл бұрын

I love the guy. I wish he was my therapist.

@seahawksfan7298

3 жыл бұрын

Right?

@fittomakeup9890

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, he truly did. I watched it three times.

@jennw6809

3 жыл бұрын

You can tell he is distressed/concerned, yet he is still calm and reassuring. We need more therapists like this in the world. Thank you, Dr. Grande.

My heart is breaking for the future of this country

@Rebecca20239

3 жыл бұрын

gonna get ugly!

@Tcrror

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rebecca20239 They're the terrorists, not us, not BLM, not Antifa. They're pathetic, and ended up looking even more sad than the first Confederacy.

@Rebecca20239

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tcrror ya, I don't care "who " it comes from, it's gonna get f'ed up.

@rw7975

3 жыл бұрын

That wont be enough.

@justanotherguy4283

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tcrror talk about gas lighting. This was a minor event compared to a lot of what happened this summer due to BLM and Antifa all over the country

"Welcome to the party pal!" Sums their arrogance and denial of his actions pretty succinctly. . .

Thank you so much for addressing this Dr. Grande. I was hoping someone would and you laid it all out very well. Happy new year.

Thank you for this video. I believe that people throw around the phrase "narcissist" like it's glitter these days. It's very important that people understand narcissism when unchecked can be very dangerous.

Thanks for putting this up. I felt a sense of relief when I saw the notification pop up that you were here with this topic because I knew you would bring some calming clarity to this emotionally draining event.

Thank you for your time to make and post this.. to bad some people won't watch it.

Thank you for putting this into perspective, Dr. Grande.

So agree, “narcissism is nothing to be toyed with”

@kevinhornbuckle

3 жыл бұрын

Yet, that’s all there is. The elections themselves are celebrations of narcissism and orgies of delusion.

@virginiamoss7045

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevinhornbuckle Sadly, I think this is the reality; this is what we have come to.

@HandbrakeBiscuit

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevinhornbuckle There are absolutely other states of mind that differ from narcissism. Narcissists will of course be drawn toward positions of power and influence but 'the flame doesn't make the moth' as it were.

@HandbrakeBiscuit

3 жыл бұрын

@Robin Yabanks Hitler was charming to women and kind to dogs. Your question is like saying 'so you think this guy caused millions of deaths and torture and suffering because he was charming to women and kind to dogs..?'

@kevinhornbuckle

3 жыл бұрын

‘The flame doesn’t make the moth’? The combination of winner-take-all elections (aka first past the post) and capitalist organization of society DOES combine to both manifest narcissism and recreate it. Democrat and Republican parties are united against proportional representation. They want and need the illusion of democracy.

Narcissism is REAL!!!!! Let us learn more NOW!!! We need more empathic leaders. 🙏

@Aaron-kj8dv

3 жыл бұрын

I've been thinking a lot lately about how sick our society is. Our political leaders, business leaders, media, universities, et al seem to be completely narcissistic institutions

@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044

3 жыл бұрын

Joe Biden is narcissistic and in favor of Hitlers ideology search the videos yourself! He speaks in favor of The New World Order!

@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044

3 жыл бұрын

The elections were stolen!

@Cindy99765

3 жыл бұрын

@@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 You give a claim. The burden of proof is on you. Provide some sources like credible websites or youtube channels that explain what you're talking about.

@mikeformisano764

3 жыл бұрын

No such thing. They're all apart of the same club with the same agenda. 2 wings of the same bird.

I love the new studio, looks like Dr. Grande is going to try and break into the 90s stand up comedy circuit. (Excellent analysis btw)

I'm surprised there wasn't a crowd crush too. And this is why I stay away from narcissists.

Love the new studio!

@almo7189

3 жыл бұрын

I don't care for it. Too Charlie Brown, ha.

@aking4766

3 жыл бұрын

@@almo7189 all it needs are a few small plants, cool coffee mug and a pic of a cute dog...it is brand new so let's see! 🙃👍🐶

@PhoenicianPrincess88

3 жыл бұрын

@@aking4766 a fuzzy blue couch would actually go kinda nice

@IdeologieUK

3 жыл бұрын

Eew, green screen - I prefer ye olde gaudy office :)

@marionrosannaanna4590

3 жыл бұрын

I’d like something with a little humour to adorn his new setup - something to match his subtle and delightfully droll comments within his analyses. A Marx Brothers statue, a Monty Python or Far Side print, Munch’s Scream, but Regardless I sure do appreciate Todd giving some insight into human behaviour. (I’ve been worrying about the little speaker falling off the granny table, or private work showing on the screen, so the change is good.)

The world is run by narcissistic people, thank you for your insight into this Dr.Grande. Stay safe and may the world find peace and healing for itself. Amen 🙏

@JaneDoe-ip5yl

3 жыл бұрын

Amen & awomen😣

@coweatsman

3 жыл бұрын

History chooses its actors to suit the times. The actors do not make the times. Always there is a pool of narcissists but only sometimes do they find fertile ground to grow in influence. Now is such a time. We have pains of empire and the certainty of decline and scape goats will be sought out, dragged out into the streets and that could go to very dark places indeed. What happened today will grow worse in the decades ahead. There is worse to come, so buckle up. It's going to be a rough ride.

@tanyadavis6138

3 жыл бұрын

🙏

Interesting analysis Dr Grande, words do matter. Thank you

I didn't like this "protest," AND I didn't like what I saw of the George Floyd protests in Portland, etc., with all the burning and destruction and chaos. But sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who sees both things as terrible. I agree with Doctor Grande: I don't like politics one bit. I vote (usually), but that's all.

The sad thing about this whole affair is what you've said about narcissists: no matter how much one loves them, they don't have the capability to reciprocate. Thank you for covering this.

@dsrtflwr6093

3 жыл бұрын

Were you saying this about Antifa last summer?

@48917032

3 жыл бұрын

@@dsrtflwr6093 Obvious troll is obvious

@Hibarasama

3 жыл бұрын

@@48917032 Troll's reading comprehension is nil~

You're watching The Dr. Todd Grande Experience.

@vibe_oli

3 жыл бұрын

Good one🤣🤣🤣🤣

@stevebob240

3 жыл бұрын

Just need to get Hendrix in the background, or maybe some serial killer would be more thematic.

@cameronfielder4955

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly I’m convinced he’s a secret Rogan fan

@yetigriff

3 жыл бұрын

Concil by day. Dr Todd Grande Podcast by night.....all day.

@tomatocan2502

3 жыл бұрын

a Black and White Jodi Arias Poster would be Gangster

Watching from Canada, long time viewer. Thank you for this calm, logical, and balanced video. I like the format in the new studio and I find it significant that for the first time you did not say, "I'm not diagnosing anyone". Coincidence? I think not! Great minds can often speak volumes by what they *don't* say.

​ Sorry, part of my comment, for some reason, was cut out. Here the original comment:Dr. Grande. Thank you for your interesting thoughts. One thing that could be added is that people with narcissism, especially when under stress or obtaining a narcissistic injury (i.e.,they don't get their way), will often decompensate into the formation of persecutory delusions, invoking primitive defense systems such as disowning projection and splitting. In this case, it appears that the persecutory delusion was in the form of a conspiracy of "liberals" who deliberately rigged and stole the election process "against him". For those that are not familiar, the definition of a delusion is that of a fixed, false belief, that is essentially impermeable, despite contrary evidence.This process could also be applied to cult leaders, radical Neo-political groups, and, possibly, very dangerous people such as Adolf Hitler, all of whom may not be particularly dangerous if not that their delusion is taken on by others, many of whom likely have a vulnerable and perhaps similar personality structure, in what I believe is known as a "Shared (or Induced) psychotic/deluaionsl disorder", which is actual psychiatric diagnosis (ICD-10 F24). In my opinion, this is what makes narcisstic delusions potentially more dangerous that what most might think of those coming from someone with a predominant psychotic disorder, e.g. schizophrenia, whose more bizarre (implausible) delusions are not as believable. Perhaps educating the public of these processes in one way that could keep these from these events to continuing to occur.

For a minute, I thought you were sitting at a grand piano. This is a serious issue, but I was hoping you'd serenade us into feeling better.

@laurenmay2098

3 жыл бұрын

I always feel better after watching Dr. Grande, I do love his analysis.

@tomsterling8009

3 жыл бұрын

You mean at a Grande piano? :D

@desiderata333

3 жыл бұрын

@@tomsterling8009 Ahahahahaha! Touché! 😉

@PendalMarks

3 жыл бұрын

@@tomsterling8009 Well done! I wish I thought of that!

@ketocutie2981

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

This is the most intelligent way Any one has ever said "I told you"

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Camilla Saietz,hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!

We have MANY MANY narcissist in Washington.

Thank you. We once had right, left, they once upon a time could meet in the middle, the love of our country. Now, it’s truly sad, very scary, & our country is is great danger due to both parties, not meeting in the middle, only fighting against one another, due to power & greed. Appreciate this so much.

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Mama ShanShan,hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!

I am amazed that people are amazed by this, it seems like the only possible outcome after the past 4 years.

@Itsunclegabby

3 жыл бұрын

Set in motion when that fool won.

@jtfike

3 жыл бұрын

It wouldn’t be this bad were it not for 2.5 years of fake accusations about Russian collusion followed by the revelation the fbi falsified evidence to spy on political opponents in violation of the constitution and then an attempt to remove a political opponent from office without bipartisan support and without any first hand evidence. And let’s not forget that a sixteen year old child was portrayed as an evil racist from a carefully edited video causing celebrities and famous people to wish death upon him, and the rushing tide of people who believed two maga hat wearers tied up and mugged Jussie smollett. All occurring in the same four year timeframe.

@ralegade7710

3 жыл бұрын

@@Itsunclegabby Dude, trump didn’t get elected for nothing. These people were already tired of it. Obama’s second term is what really drove up the rhetoric of republicans are all racist, etc. They were fed up.

@Megan.eco-Instinct

3 жыл бұрын

@@jtfike I just can't indulge this kind of thing anymore. It is one crazy alternate reality you all live in. While you perfect your excuse making, your cult leader is burning your house down. When you are standing in the ashes, he is going to come to you with his hand out again telling you that you have to pay for it --- because you love him and *you know* he is the only man who can rebuild your life (the life *he* has burned to the ground). *That* is what you are supporting. You all are his marks. He has been conning you for years and he continues to play you *only* so that he can keep your wallets open for him while he sets his sights on his next con. I am sorry but I am finding it inexcusable that you all *still* haven't figured this out; that you just *cannot* seem to get your head around *the most obvious con man in the world* . What else does he have to do? *Any* support of this treasonous criminal is simply monstrous.

@Itsunclegabby

3 жыл бұрын

@@ralegade7710 You're right about one thing: He wasn't elected for nothing. What happened last night - that was set in motion a long LONG time ago. I've been a person of color all my life. We're fully freaking aware that not all Republicans are racist, but if you vote for someone who has racist ideals, tell me WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU?

Again as always I appreciate your neutrality and logically way of presenting topics like these. It’s very soothing in a crazy world like this. Thank you for being sane 😄

As the primary victim and only child of a vulnerable narcissist (who also happens to be a big nerd about learning), I empathize with you and I am grateful for your efforts to learn how to navigate the trap that is a narcissist's mind, if for no other reason than to help those they affect. (I would not wish the narcissistic abuse I endured to curious minds for more than one day. Any more than that and their ability to laugh it off would die with a little part of of their very best attributes of confidence, compassion, empathy, fearlessness, etc.

Bravo. Dr Grande def need to speak to all US government officials on this. Dr Bandy Lee has been warning Congress about Trump AND his followers since day one. And had been making appeals to remove him for years. The government need forensic violence experts, Clinicians and psychiatrist etc on an official committee. This analysis was spot on!!!

Sending loving thoughts to all the Americans truly horrified by events in the capitol today. 💕

@higgaroc

3 жыл бұрын

You too - I feel like crap

@sandraharris3087

3 жыл бұрын

Horrified for my grandchildren I’m on the verge of crying

@dirtysanchez941

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I'm not okay.. Thank you for your concern for your fellow human beings. 💙🤗

@dirtysanchez941

3 жыл бұрын

@@higgaroc 🤗❤️ So many are with you.

@dirtysanchez941

3 жыл бұрын

@@sandraharris3087 I don't know you, but I am concerned for your grandchildren as well. We must stand together in peace. There are more of ( us ) than them. Teach your grandchildren your wisdom of time. I love you.

These events ripple through the psyche of the world. I’m in Australia and feeling anxious about the fate of America and ergo, the world.

Also, Dr. Grande, I have listened to very many of your videos! WELL DONE! It is actually quite soothing to listen to traumatic things in a "matter of fact" way.

Dr. Grande always makes me feel like I'm in class, sometimes I find myself jotting down notes😂😂😂

Interesting times. Thank you, Dr. Grande for keeping us grounded. Your calm voice is soothing.

I really appreciate you making this video, Dr. Grande. I’ve experienced narcissistic abuse and I still have a significant narcissist in my life (hilariously enough, they’re a Trump supporter). It’s reassuring to hear someone say that Narcissism is real, it is a thing. I also liked that you left politics completely out of this or tried to. Politics is so infuriatingly divisive and just a cesspool of discordance. Not very many productive conversations come from politics or anything in the same vein

@flowers6576

3 жыл бұрын

👍

@Adara007

3 жыл бұрын

As another individual who has a narcissist on the periphery of my life - I recently went No Contact for the sake of my mental well-being - I also appreciate Dr. Grande acknowledging that narcissism is a pathology in certain people. Interestingly, the narcissist in my life is also a supporter of Trump. I am not saying everyone who likes Trump and/or his actions and policies is a narcissist but it does seem to be a common trait with the most vocal of his supporters. I hope you can minimise the contact you have with the narcissist still in your life, and wish you all the best for healing from the narcissistic abuse.

@danielaberlin

3 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@shann5331

3 жыл бұрын

To everyone dealing with narcissistic abuse in their life, I just wanted to remind you that you’re not alone. I’m sorry, I know it sucks, and I know how much it can affect your own mental health. My fiancé is a narcissist and he’s constantly gaslighting me and twisting my words and blaming me for everything even when there’s nothing wrong. I believe he’s also suffering from mania but I’m not sure the cause... he’s mentioned that his dr had diagnosed him with bi-polar disorder but he’s not having depressive episodes, just manic and aggressive all the time. I wish I knew how to help him, but he’s obviously not going to let go of his “power” and pride and admit that he needs serious help, so I’m stuck right now, just trying to live day by day without losing my mind. We in this together though.

@flowers6576

3 жыл бұрын

@@shann5331 All I can say to you, Shannon, is Please Don't Marry Him! If he is truly a narcissist, it'll only get worse & that aggression will be turned more & more (violently) against you (& children, if any). My opinion after 25+ years of living it... If he's like my spouse, there's nothing you can do to "help" him no matter how hard you try & love him. Just my opinion.

“If you tell a big enough lie and tell it frequently enough, it will be believed” (Adolf Hitler)

@erikadlloyd5586

3 жыл бұрын

That was from Joseph Goebbels. He was minister of propaganda for Adolf Hitler.

As always a very lucid commentary on a destructive problem. I really enjoy the 'wisdom' of your videos.