Black or White? Refusing to Choose & Embracing Biracial Identity | Daralyse Lyons | TEDxLehighRiver

As a Biracial, multiethnic woman, Daralyse Lyons is uniquely empowered to use her seemingly disparate background as a catalyst to bring about a more inclusive world.
Daralyse has always refused to choose between her black and white identities. In this talk she tells us why embracing biracial identity is critical to overcoming systemic racism. Known as the Transformational Storyteller, Daralyse has written more than two dozen full-length books, a handful of short stories, and countless articles, performed in various plays and improv comedy shows and occupied a variety of stages to tell powerful stories in order to make a positive difference in the world. A member of the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ) and a summa cum laude graduate of NYU, with a double-major in English and Religious Studies and a minor in History, she is relentless about advancing comprehensive and multidimensional understandings of history. Her perspective is one that looks to acknowledge the past while refusing to become incapacitated by it. As the creator of the "Demystifying Diversity Podcast," and the author of "Demystifying Diversity: Embracing Our Shared Humanity" and the award-winning children’s book "I'm Mixed!" (which she penned under the pseudonym Maggy Williams), Daralyse has written and spoken extensively on a variety of subjects pertaining to diversity, equity and inclusion. She has found her life’s purpose as a DEI expert and inclusivity strategist. As a biracial, multi-ethnic woman, Daralyse Lyons is uniquely empowered to use her seemingly disparate background as a catalyst to bring about a more inclusive world. Known as the Transformational Storyteller, Daralyse has written more than two dozen full-length books, a handful of short stories, and countless articles, performed in various plays and improv comedy shows, and occupied a variety of stages to tell powerful stories in order to make a positive difference in the world.
As the creator of "The Demystifying Diversity Podcast," and the author of "Demystifying Diversity: Embracing Our Shared Humanity," and the award-winning children’s book "I'm Mixed!" (which she penned under the pseudonym Maggy Williams), Daralyse has written and spoken extensively on a variety of subjects pertaining to diversity, equity and inclusion. She has found her life’s purpose as a DEI expert and inclusivity strategist. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @occasionallyemo
    @occasionallyemo2 жыл бұрын

    It is very rare to see biracial people that embrace both their races publicly & proudly stand their ground & embrace their identity even when met with resistance. Absolutely loved this!💛

  • @claireF-14D

    @claireF-14D

    Жыл бұрын

    BIRACIAL is NOT a race.

  • @cultureequalsus_jasonyoki3025

    @cultureequalsus_jasonyoki3025

    7 ай бұрын

    Very true

  • @Britta_no_filter
    @Britta_no_filter2 жыл бұрын

    As a multi-racial woman, this spoke volumes to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🤘🤩👏🏽

  • @ambercoleman9737

    @ambercoleman9737

    4 ай бұрын

    It surely did. VOLUMES. Videos like this help so much. Not only bringing awareness to those who do not understand and those who just do not know at all, but also giving a voice, understanding, clarity and comfort, to those who actively go through these experiences daily. Hearing messages like this (which are sooo rare) help biracial people like myself, feel like guilty and ashamed of their race. Even more aware of the things we say or do unconsciously to be smaller in all spaces of life as to not offend or make others uncomfortable. Instead of dealing with this from other races, we are dealing with it from all races. The most disheartening, from our own. I appreciated the message from this video beyond words. 🤎🩶🤍

  • @ambercoleman9737

    @ambercoleman9737

    4 ай бұрын

    *Less guilty

  • @cyndidenise902
    @cyndidenise9022 жыл бұрын

    The world needs to hear this.

  • @Ascension1004
    @Ascension1004 Жыл бұрын

    Amen sister. I stand in biracial solidarity with you

  • @nancyschwartz9152
    @nancyschwartz91522 жыл бұрын

    The brilliance and insight that Daralyse Lyons shares here about her life will help change our world into a better more peaceful and understanding place to live. I’m proud to know Daralyse and proud that Daralyse was the developmental editor for both my books, Up Not Down Syndrome: Uplifting Lessons From Raising A Son With Trisomy 21 and my new book upcoming with my coauthor, April Beard, Up Bow Down Bow: A Child with Down Syndrome and His Journey to Master the Cello.

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 Жыл бұрын

    Love this! I’ve always known being biracial and nothing else! 🇩🇪 🇺🇸 being bicultural and a multinational is lovely 🥰

  • @ngarumurray

    @ngarumurray

    Жыл бұрын

    Both of those countries are white though lol

  • @Waryfuls

    @Waryfuls

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ngarumurray that's what I was thinking.

  • @kisha4040

    @kisha4040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ngarumurray America is not a White country

  • @RO49569

    @RO49569

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ngarumurray Not America

  • @passionpf.t.w5193
    @passionpf.t.w51932 жыл бұрын

    So Inspirational!!! Thank Daralyse 🙏

  • @marcoava2601
    @marcoava26012 жыл бұрын

    This was so refreshing.Thank you.

  • @dcryer85
    @dcryer857 ай бұрын

    I really loved every point you made here. Very refreshing to see this. I hope you inspire many many more people to see and embrace what you speak of

  • @godislove7410
    @godislove74102 жыл бұрын

    Good for her

  • @amyhallock8882
    @amyhallock88822 жыл бұрын

    Wow ! Dara you’re a natural speaker as always ! Your beautiful heart is always so palpable!

  • @cultureequalsus_jasonyoki3025
    @cultureequalsus_jasonyoki30257 ай бұрын

    Great video. Wish we had stuff like this in the 80s.

  • @JoseGonzalez-jc7jb
    @JoseGonzalez-jc7jb2 жыл бұрын

    This spoke to me on so many levels!!! Thank you for sharing your journey so effortlessly!!!

  • @karicorpus5715
    @karicorpus57152 жыл бұрын

    Great effort.Look forward to the next one.

  • @moonsparkle1648
    @moonsparkle16482 жыл бұрын

    Great talk! ❤ Agree with so much of this.

  • @muratcanbahar3203
    @muratcanbahar32032 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic!!!

  • @savvyguy1353
    @savvyguy13532 жыл бұрын

    Great Talk. Very idealistic but that’s what Ted Talks are about. Very happy that she was afforded a wonderful childhood being in two spaces. Most are not giving the opportunity to select and have that sturdy upbringing but one person can do a lot of good

  • @dlpdlp5709
    @dlpdlp5709 Жыл бұрын

    the beginning of peace in the new world view to move foreword in purpose as human beings

  • @kamilahallierieck698
    @kamilahallierieck6982 жыл бұрын

    Loving all of your Points

  • @geminigirl3800
    @geminigirl38004 күн бұрын

    11:42 I love this statement.

  • @denissejeffrey1743
    @denissejeffrey17432 жыл бұрын

    Great effort.Look foreword to the next one.

  • @geminigirl3800
    @geminigirl38004 күн бұрын

    14:21 Thus statement is ver true and I can relate to a lot .

  • @nicholasacku9857
    @nicholasacku98572 жыл бұрын

    Amazing 🤩 so much passion.

  • @lilliamfuselier2098
    @lilliamfuselier20982 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed every moment

  • @carelessrappide
    @carelessrappide2 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant !!

  • @maryjorojo2727
    @maryjorojo27272 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much.

  • @edingerjovanvillasenor4753
    @edingerjovanvillasenor47532 жыл бұрын

    Loving your speech every word

  • @edmelbaisley4837
    @edmelbaisley48372 жыл бұрын

    Nice, guys, well done

  • @lillianatroxler7425
    @lillianatroxler74252 жыл бұрын

    Great words

  • @dlpdlp5709
    @dlpdlp5709 Жыл бұрын

    a courageous human being!!!!!

  • @kayp4601
    @kayp4601 Жыл бұрын

    Good speech

  • @starlamalcolmisom7943
    @starlamalcolmisom79433 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful. As a multi-racial woman I did not experience growing learning about Botha sides of my culture . The affects of not experiencing this has been traumatic and is still today has affects on me today .. I really appreciate this video and I love seeing someone fully embrace who they are ! ❤

  • @Laurita-ev8me

    @Laurita-ev8me

    Ай бұрын

    That's why I am convinced that IR couples should not procreate. Not for racism but because it's selfish to bring in the world human beings that will be mistreated by both communities. The experience of the lady is an exception. Unfortunately bi or multiracial children will always seen as outsiders, outcasts by both Blk and White ppl. And WP will never see them as one of them but they will see them as Blk no matter what. While BP won't accept them for being "not Blk enough". Is it unfair? It is but that's how society works and lives,

  • @pauletelopez1715
    @pauletelopez17152 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing

  • @celialilla1796
    @celialilla17962 жыл бұрын

    Really Inspiring

  • @aleshiabeal5493
    @aleshiabeal54932 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!!

  • @marindavinnozi637
    @marindavinnozi6372 жыл бұрын

    Great Talk

  • @oguzersin9914
    @oguzersin99142 жыл бұрын

    Fresh and lovely!

  • @luckymonau7426
    @luckymonau74262 жыл бұрын

    Insightful

  • @Biracialbaddie
    @Biracialbaddie2 жыл бұрын

    Love it 🥰🥰🥰

  • @flojenkins3714
    @flojenkins37142 жыл бұрын

    Loved it

  • @bobbylewisjr5250
    @bobbylewisjr5250 Жыл бұрын

    Nice!!

  • @martineunger9627
    @martineunger96272 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @yelahm4084
    @yelahm4084 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @OOOOOOOOOF
    @OOOOOOOOOF2 ай бұрын

    q: what are you a: i'm me

  • @reginafreeman3125
    @reginafreeman3125 Жыл бұрын

    PEOPLE 👉💯👀 need to STOP DENYING GOD LOVE Commands John 15:10 HOSEA 4:1 to Live Men be Men Female be Female People be What Your HAIR Tell You Revelation 1:14;15 👉💯👀 TRUTH

  • @CriticalThinker02
    @CriticalThinker02 Жыл бұрын

    Amen. Choose love and choose life. If any young woman is reading this, don’t ever let shame be a reason for killing your child in the womb. That choice will stay with you forever.

  • @Laurita-ev8me
    @Laurita-ev8meАй бұрын

    Your case is extremely rare. It doesn't represent the vast majority of biracial and multiracial people. Good for you that your experience of life was good but you should be more realistic. You are the exception and not the rule.

  • @robertahartsfield5511
    @robertahartsfield55112 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!!

  • @jensekone
    @jensekone2 жыл бұрын

    Great Talk

  • @rondabfritz5570
    @rondabfritz55702 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic!!!

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