Being Trans Is Depressing & Scary

#ftm #black #transphobia

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  • @anthonyproctor2977
    @anthonyproctor29772 ай бұрын

    Bro people going to talk about you good or bad so don't let them stop you from your great life keep your head up and injoy your great life bro 💯💯💯

  • @anthonyproctor2977

    @anthonyproctor2977

    Ай бұрын

    💯💯🔥🔥👍

  • @provocativeinpink
    @provocativeinpink2 ай бұрын

    I no longer associate being Trans as depressing. I've learned to differentiate quality of life situations from my emotional state of mind. One can be very happy being Trans, but frustrated with complexities. There are many aspects of being Trans that's only challenging because we're Trans. I didn't adopt the positivity mindset I see many in the Trans community have, I think as a coping mechanism. Sometimes when you have to tap into the reality of a situation, you'll recognize the external forces that make it difficult, and that's what's depressing! If we're always going to look at the positive aspect then the problem really doesn't exist, you just have accept the outcome and make the best of it. I think what makes Trans complain, rant, or vent, it's because the unnecessary compoundedness of the issue.

  • @SarastistheSerpent
    @SarastistheSerpent2 ай бұрын

    Also on the affirmation part, keep in mind (if it helps with mental health) that while transphobia seems really bad now, things will get better in the coming years. Moral panics don’t last forever, and just as how racism, sexism and homophobia have all declined, so will transphobia eventually. Plus, there a millions of people out there who are accepting of trans folks. I’m a cis guy, but I and most people I know are completely okay with trans people.

  • @oldaccount64
    @oldaccount642 ай бұрын

    7:20 the visualizations are keyyy for me to keep a positive mind and remember my goals Your videos are ALWAYS on point. Guru vibes frfr. Down to earth, spiritual advice. Keep making these videos as long as it brings you joy because you're most definitely helping me and other so much. Doing God's work my man

  • @user-venus774
    @user-venus7742 ай бұрын

    You can BE depressed Not depend pour idententity. STILL CONSULTING you're nice man 😘

  • @ykbkng_tv7282
    @ykbkng_tv72822 ай бұрын

    Yo sincerely I hope your doing ok mentally bro I been seeing yo vids idk u but rooting for you bro I pray that u feel at peace protecting and guided god got u g💯

  • @oldaccount64

    @oldaccount64

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeah the video titles be scary but then he talks about it and it be good ass advice and shit

  • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
    @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat2 ай бұрын

    This is why I never transitioned even tho I wanted too , I rather just be who I was born to be cuz even if you successfully transition you gonna have to explain to every potential date that your trans .

  • @honchokzeetv1569

    @honchokzeetv1569

    2 ай бұрын

    I wear it on my sleeve so it’s no problem take it or leave it

  • @wavyboy477

    @wavyboy477

    2 ай бұрын

    You gonna have to do that anyway.. are you not still trans if you don't medically transition? why not live in your truth? bc you're afraid of dealing with other people? 😂

  • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat

    @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat

    2 ай бұрын

    @@wavyboy477 I rather just be who I am

  • @babyfacebastard4379

    @babyfacebastard4379

    2 ай бұрын

    If u were born female and feel that who you are is a woman. Then doesn't that mean you're not trans

  • @oldaccount64

    @oldaccount64

    2 ай бұрын

    That's very understandable. Just like any other life decision, you can choose to act on your emotions or choose a different route. I respect your choice and I hope that you've found happiness in your life regardless of not being able to/wanting to transition 🖤🖤🖤

  • @CEntertainArt
    @CEntertainArt2 ай бұрын

    First up, sorry to say that, but please change the batteries in your fire alarm. Secondly... even tho I personally fear nothing about being trans myself, I easily get why someone would be. It's easy to be scary if others judge you just cuz of what you got in your pants or on your chest. Too many people don't get that someone changing their body will not harm them. There's some people out here who genuinely believe that someone wanting to be different gender makes them a threat, and it would be funny if it wasn't this sad. That being said, those people weak. Just do the best you can and don't mind those people. Violent people will be violent, no matter what you do.

  • @CEntertainArt

    @CEntertainArt

    2 ай бұрын

    Fear breeds violence. Violence is always caused by fear. Even if they don't wanna admit it, they wouldn't get violent if they didn't fear what wasn't a threat in the first place. Once you understand something is just fear it gets better to feel pity for those people.

  • @Parrotgirl-Tattoo
    @Parrotgirl-Tattoo2 ай бұрын

    Who is threatening you? Curious.

  • @FemboyKaiSaku

    @FemboyKaiSaku

    2 ай бұрын

    well, society

  • @Tony-bf3tf
    @Tony-bf3tf2 ай бұрын

    I may not agree with everything but you're cute lol 😂

  • @kaitlinski493
    @kaitlinski4932 ай бұрын

    There IS healing in Jesus Christ. Come as you are.