Are You Emotionally Intelligent?

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  • @BinkieMcFartnuggets
    @BinkieMcFartnuggets10 жыл бұрын

    I kept telling people EQ is more important than IQ during my SATs but they just laughed at me, then I started screaming and pooped my pants.

  • @sonic20x

    @sonic20x

    10 жыл бұрын

    why are you everywhere? -_-

  • @ElevateConcepts

    @ElevateConcepts

    10 жыл бұрын

    I KEEP SEEING YOU BINKIE.

  • @prankfiles

    @prankfiles

    10 жыл бұрын

    I agree 100%

  • @robschanaynay3500

    @robschanaynay3500

    10 жыл бұрын

    Im soooo EQ that one time I stepped on some fat bitches toe and said "sorry"

  • @Ificationer
    @Ificationer9 жыл бұрын

    All I need is social skills and empathy and I'm good to go

  • @libbykunnings5718

    @libbykunnings5718

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nayram - they're lying to you.. high EQ will only hold you back.

  • @sabira8367

    @sabira8367

    6 жыл бұрын

    X ho Thats pretty edgy and cringy,...

  • @libbykunnings5718

    @libbykunnings5718

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sabira Aldiyeva - cringy? Sorry mate but you don't need to adapt and be a socially capable person to succeed. Being and individual working on your own creative path will get a lot further in life than becoming like the rest of the socialising sheep with high EQ. Spend more time becoming a creative individual Freak than listening to this basic person.

  • @sabira8367

    @sabira8367

    6 жыл бұрын

    X ho You said high EQ is holding people back. An high EQ can be pretty usefull in life. Being able to understand each other well can have many possitive things. You can work well with co-workers, which makes your work much easier. You can make others feel better by being able to acknowledge and talk about their problems. You can meet interesting people with their opinions and storys. And you can meet people who can help you get further in life. Im not a social person myself, but in my point of view a high EQ is pretty usefull

  • @Grimfang999
    @Grimfang99910 жыл бұрын

    12/20... but honestly the test was really stupid... the emotions didnt look genuine at all, they all were clearly faking it and exaggerating the expressions, and didnt even look serious about it. Half the time they just looked amused at their own faces they pulled.

  • @lokaal18
    @lokaal1810 жыл бұрын

    To all of those people who are saying like 'those actors suck' or 'test isn't accurate': maybe if you'd give up your narcissism you would get a better score.

  • @mksabourinable
    @mksabourinable10 жыл бұрын

    that test sucked! The actors were terrible at portraying emotions. For a lot of those I have never seen someone make those expressions when feeling that emotion. And no I'm not just miffed about my result, I got a 16/20, because I learned what they were expecting. Who the hell makes a "I'm holding my breath while scrunching my face together," face when in pain?! Most people open their mouths or clench their teeth. And who puts a finger to their eye when their embarrassed? Most put a hand to their face to hide their embarrassment, not a "fake tear" gesture with their finger.

  • @PlatyMadness

    @PlatyMadness

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah the test is pretty inaccurate and made up

  • @Paulbarbato
    @Paulbarbato10 жыл бұрын

    I wonder how would you even measure and record someone's EQ? Is there like a "humility" test you can take? Crap, just by asking that question I probably lost like 90 EQ points.

  • @yazz4ya

    @yazz4ya

    10 жыл бұрын

    ***** Hahahaa!! Horse of a different color...

  • @4Wickeralas4

    @4Wickeralas4

    10 жыл бұрын

    to be honest i dont think you can even really measure iq... the human mind is very complex and difficult to measure in any kind of way

  • @GuthriePrentice

    @GuthriePrentice

    10 жыл бұрын

    No worries about taking a humility test, just remember you always need to be learning. If one adopts critical thinking and the scientific method as the paramount way to evaluate EVERYTHING they come across, then one will remember they don't know everything and actively need to learn and analyze more. This way, you consistently ask for feedback from people you know on various issues, and analyze for the good bits that match existing data. Just remember to ask them to lay out their arguments in full and back up where their ideas come from, so you don't miss a detail in the full analysis. I know it's difficult to do, but we all need to do it; especially in the information age.

  • @alcusaco
    @alcusaco10 жыл бұрын

    Test wasn't long enough, it only measured part of emotional intelligence and the emotions are fake. Some of the facial expressions shown i have never seen in my life and I wouldn't have guessed some of the emotions if not for the multiple choice so I got 18/20.

  • @Salpeteroxid

    @Salpeteroxid

    10 жыл бұрын

    I also got 18/20

  • @Asadron

    @Asadron

    10 жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree. Beyond that one has to remember that emotions are also conveyed through tone of voice, choice of words, movement and composure, etc, while this test only tested your ability to read faces. This test is insufficient imo.

  • @Salpeteroxid

    @Salpeteroxid

    10 жыл бұрын

    Asadron Fake faces too.

  • @caileymills5530
    @caileymills553010 жыл бұрын

    I scored 12, but the people in those pics were obliviously acting so I wouldn't take that quiz too seriously.

  • @teddybruscie
    @teddybruscie10 жыл бұрын

    "You get knocked down...then you get up again...because they're never going to keep you down" I see what you did there Laci. 90's flashback. FTW.

  • @barryderrick4693
    @barryderrick46937 жыл бұрын

    Thank god Laci is not on dnews anymore

  • @freshbubbleo

    @freshbubbleo

    7 жыл бұрын

    Barry Michel she is so ugly... and her voice ewwww

  • @cloudy4l989

    @cloudy4l989

    7 жыл бұрын

    rude af lol

  • @AllOfOurCats

    @AllOfOurCats

    7 жыл бұрын

    I strongly disagree. I truly enjoy her and her knowledge. We all have a right to feel how we wish about things though. :)

  • @mrzagaz5079

    @mrzagaz5079

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dravin Grey laci green is not knowledgeable, she's just stupid. She's a third wave feminist who doesn't use any logic or sources the back up the things she says

  • @sonicknuckleswomble8927

    @sonicknuckleswomble8927

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mr ZaGaZ I don't think you can honestly say LaciGreen isn't knowledgeable about some things, she may be petty and closeminded on certain topics but it's not fair to discredit her entirely, a lot of people don't agree with Sargon either, it doesn't mean he isn't intelligent and knowledgeable

  • @gregaaron89
    @gregaaron8910 жыл бұрын

    That test sucks, they're all fake emotions and they're bad at acting them

  • @devitrasuga7601
    @devitrasuga760110 жыл бұрын

    that test cant be real i got 18/20 but im bad with people and usually say the wrong thing i've been looking for a job for over a year now wtf?

  • @girltarist
    @girltarist10 жыл бұрын

    Chumbawumba.... or however you spell it....

  • @Moossey
    @Moossey10 жыл бұрын

    In the quiz provided, I felt as if the actors were not genuinely feeling the emotion which made their expressions seem fake.

  • @jonsprivatelife
    @jonsprivatelife10 жыл бұрын

    I get knocked down! but I get up again!" hilarious. Made my day.

  • @Caglehead268
    @Caglehead26810 жыл бұрын

    What I don't understand, is I know someone who sleeps with married men. They don't care about the man's wife at home. Although they say they are empathetic, how can they be?

  • @wrathofme03

    @wrathofme03

    10 жыл бұрын

    well.....they can be lying....one of those evil "geniuses" that she speaks of....even though any evil person is kind of an idiot for only being able to figure out how to get away with bad things instead of being able to play it out in their head before hand and consider how to prevent bad things in the first place

  • @Massflavour
    @Massflavour8 жыл бұрын

    laci green is one less reason to tune into this channel

  • @brideut

    @brideut

    8 жыл бұрын

    Nah. This channel is awesome.

  • @iMadeMyLastUsernameWhenIWas14

    @iMadeMyLastUsernameWhenIWas14

    7 жыл бұрын

    love Dnews but Laci is the one person on the team that I can't watch

  • @DownundaThunda
    @DownundaThunda10 жыл бұрын

    "Anyone can improve upon it"... Really? Well, I just need to make sure that I have those five categories... 1. Self-Awareness, not really... 2. Self-Regulation... yeah.. nah. 3. Social Skills... Really? I mean, REALLY really? I am on KZread at 3 in the morning, commenting on a video... Does anyone think I have a life beyond this screen? If your answer is yes, then you are sadly mistaken. 4.Motivation... I sleep until 3 or 4 in the afternoon, and even when I do get up, I just stay in my bed on my laptop all day. I am about the least motivated person on the planet. 5. Empathy. I actually have Asperger's Syndrome, which for those who don't know, Aspeger's actually prevents me from feeling empathy... so... nope, I don't have that either... So, Laci... can I improve on my EQ, or am I doomed to be emotionally dumb for the rest of my life?

  • @EurrikkeEdward

    @EurrikkeEdward

    10 жыл бұрын

    If you cant "feel" empathy, try observing and picking it up using objective cues then act/respond accordingly as society dictates as acceptable. I'm just pulling this outta my ass so it could be wrong etc but its worth the try. Kinda like learning and blending into a new culture :0

  • @DownundaThunda

    @DownundaThunda

    10 жыл бұрын

    Pretty much, what I did was I just stopped feeling for a LONG time. I becaume closed and distant from everyone else. It worked for me, and no one bothered me.

  • @DownundaThunda

    @DownundaThunda

    10 жыл бұрын

    I said for a long time.. Not so much any more. But there are still things I can't feel. Sadness and anger are two that I find really hard to express.

  • @AbelLawliet

    @AbelLawliet

    10 жыл бұрын

    I also have Asperger's Syndrome. It doesn't mean that you are an emotionless psychopath, it just means that you think differently then most. Like Laci said if work on it you can have a high Emotion Intelligence. Then world domination will be a breeze for us.

  • @daemonicfae

    @daemonicfae

    10 жыл бұрын

    Asperger's doesn't prevent you from feeling empathy. It may make it harder in some situations, but can you really say you never understand how anyone is feeling at all? Just because, for example, you can't tell if someone is upset, doesn't mean you can't understand smiles and laughter or horrific sobbing. All of these categories can be improved upon. Asperger's can make it harder, but it's not impossible. You just seem to not want to. I was the same way for quite a while, with the same excuse. You're selling yourself short, man.

  • @Dragnotey
    @Dragnotey10 жыл бұрын

    After reading the comments, I don't feel bad that I got 12/20.

  • @fkgabbana
    @fkgabbana10 жыл бұрын

    I don't think that quiz is a very accurate way of determining EQ. The only category was guessing facial expressions. I can totally see that being PART of an EQ quiz. But not all of it!

  • @kapilesh14
    @kapilesh1410 жыл бұрын

    I need to make sure that my comment is regulated, stable and motivating, for me to sound emotionally intelligent!! :)

  • @cryofpaine
    @cryofpaine10 жыл бұрын

    16/20, and a couple of those were ones that I knew better, but managed to talk myself into the wrong answer.

  • @TommyDecentralized

    @TommyDecentralized

    10 жыл бұрын

    same here,lol

  • @narimancharkie2633
    @narimancharkie26338 жыл бұрын

    from what she says I was really emotionally intelligent. but now I don't know what happened. I'm a pessimist, I hate people, I hate seeing people, I lack motivation, I get angry at nothing and don't care how people feel...

  • @fintanwatson8137

    @fintanwatson8137

    7 жыл бұрын

    I know it's been a long time but are you sure you aren't suffering from depression? Some of the things you said are tell-tale signs of the it... If I were you I'd research into it more :)

  • @scooynilo
    @scooynilo10 жыл бұрын

    13/20 As a person who finds himself a very socially awkward person, not too bad

  • @Lotus-Son
    @Lotus-Son10 жыл бұрын

    I think i have a low EQ; I still cry over a good piece of pie :/

  • @Suriner1
    @Suriner110 жыл бұрын

    8/20 Everything went better than expected. :)

  • @amvidhariwal3607

    @amvidhariwal3607

    3 жыл бұрын

    got 3

  • @kotoroshinoto
    @kotoroshinoto10 жыл бұрын

    EQ is everquest obviously tbh test is kind of pathetic, to be accurate we should have to choose among all choices not just 4, and the faces shouldnt' be so damned exaggerated.

  • @FutureAIDev2015
    @FutureAIDev20158 жыл бұрын

    Yep, I'm gonna rewatch this and take notes haha. Thanks Laci!

  • @SpcGiraffe
    @SpcGiraffe10 жыл бұрын

    13/20 but the quiz is clearly bunk because their faces aren't genuine; you can tell they are faked by actors. Though fortunately it does seem to act as a similar experiment. Those who immediately notice the emotions are unauthentic are better at recognizing true emotions whereas those who score well and do not realise the emotions are fake are better recognizing acted emotions. This would have very broad results but could be reformed into another test displaying both real and faked emotions and asking you to choose which are genuine.

  • @gloomydf9621
    @gloomydf96218 жыл бұрын

    Not to brag but I think I'm pretty fucking EI

  • @user-iz3ns6vb2c

    @user-iz3ns6vb2c

    8 жыл бұрын

    me too lol

  • @ushira_dharmaratne

    @ushira_dharmaratne

    8 жыл бұрын

    +StoneD Kidd you dawggg

  • @thechopclan2901

    @thechopclan2901

    8 жыл бұрын

    ME ASWELL

  • @EvangelistaGrace

    @EvangelistaGrace

    8 жыл бұрын

    +StoneD Kidd virtual high-five!

  • @GlitchedLink1
    @GlitchedLink110 жыл бұрын

    17/20 That second embarrassment one really threw me off. I've never seen embarrassment expressed that way. Also, the expressions should be A LOT more subtle than they were. Most of them were exaggerated, some to the point where you'd probably never encounter them in real life.

  • @pythonmajestic
    @pythonmajestic10 жыл бұрын

    I can tell I have a good EQ ..but I lose track of my self awareness and how much it shows to other people because I have depression and it makes relationships nerve wracking and difficult on my side. Does anyone else feel like this? And have you conquered it?

  • @kiko3971

    @kiko3971

    10 жыл бұрын

    I have had the exact same circumstance and I did conquer it.

  • @pythonmajestic

    @pythonmajestic

    10 жыл бұрын

    Kiko H Congrats on conquering it.. how did you do it?

  • @inescristhine

    @inescristhine

    10 жыл бұрын

    pythonmajestic I have found out that depression has a lot to do with expectations i.e. the way things should be, including myself. And you can get there by analysing the Description you make of things. Saying NO to these description, eventually gets you to a point of nothingness and connection with inner self. I practice meditation regularly. It helps a lot. Good luck. You are not alone. Respectfully.

  • @Praktikantmanny

    @Praktikantmanny

    10 жыл бұрын

    i have been in very deep depression under lets say from 8-23 i took medication under maby 10 years and i thougth it was gone several time and stop take the medication but it took from 1 month to 6 month and it was back... i been free from medication and i think i found a way out of the depressions hand on me. by doing this simple steps!. 1. i found a small amount of group that having other problem like i did (not depression) and they had a plan how to conquer there thing. 2. ask your self: what am i feeling sad/bad for? if you find the answer go to next part. now you understand why you are depressed. ask your self is it worth it to hold on too this sad/bad thing ? isent it time to let that be in the past and see what else i will find happening in the world? if you finding step 2 hard too do by your self? why not telling a friend/familymember/cousin or who ever to have them to ask this questions and you do the answer? 3. when you are finding the answers you have to go over to action and say to your self: yes i have been scared for life BUT now it is time for me to move along (but you will always remember it) and see what is coming next (be curius it will be very important to succed other wise you will ceep walking around in the depressing thougths) for me i see this like a sort of meditation and if you feel this isent helping you there is professional about meditation (i am not i just did this steps and i came clean) you can always feel free to contact me about this steps or if you feel you need a helping hand or something was a little bit blurr. you have my faith in you to succed, and wishes you good luck, and a happy life :)

  • @pythonmajestic

    @pythonmajestic

    10 жыл бұрын

    Thank you a bunch for the response, I will try meditating

  • @fredharding5087
    @fredharding50878 жыл бұрын

    Lets be honest, most of the people who are successful in business have no empathy.

  • @EndranExit

    @EndranExit

    8 жыл бұрын

    You are right.

  • @marcanthonyramos3801

    @marcanthonyramos3801

    7 жыл бұрын

    A lot of them tend to be sociopaths.

  • @classicnobody9872

    @classicnobody9872

    5 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you the most intelligent girls in my class have NO empathy and who laugh at others suffering , make fun of people crying and people with disabilities , like me .

  • @tetsubo57
    @tetsubo5710 жыл бұрын

    One of the problems is that almost of all these traits are viewed negatively in the US. They are down played at best when not being actively vilified in the media. They are seen as 'weak' traits. Sadly also seen as 'feminine' traits which are almost always viewed negatively in the US as well.

  • @zsupersaiyan

    @zsupersaiyan

    10 жыл бұрын

    So traits ARE inherently weak. Evolution destroys those with weak traits. Those with weak traits, i.e. those who break down to cry whenever faced with a tough situation, cannot function properly in society and cannot contribute strong leadership to it, so they should be abused until they work off these bad traits.

  • @tetsubo57

    @tetsubo57

    10 жыл бұрын

    zsupersaiyan 1/10.

  • @danr.5017

    @danr.5017

    10 жыл бұрын

    zsupersaiyan Evolution only destroys traits that result in death before one can breed. Society however has evolved to protect it's weakest members. A society that allows it's own population to thin is doomed to failure. Not everyone is meant to be a leader. Case and point being that most people living protected assembly line jobs is the basis for industrialized society. Simple jobs where personality is moot and the challenges people are required to face are minimal. Evolution cannot breed out these traits because they have no effect on anything.

  • @zsupersaiyan

    @zsupersaiyan

    10 жыл бұрын

    ***** Societies don't actually protect their weakest members. They protect members with no resources- yes- they protect members when they are pregnant, and they protect members from fighting each other by having rules... however it is against their interest to have members that are inherently weak. That's why ants banish members of their colonies that catch a disease. That's why wolves bully their omega wolf. That's why most animal mothers kill any offspring they sense is weak. That's why bullying even happens, when someone is too weak to contribute to the tribe positively, that member just gets killed. And yes, not everyone is suited for leadership. That's an alpha position. You can be an epsilon and do bland work if you want. But I'm sure you'd rather raise your child to be alpha and teach him to keep a cool face when a situation gets hard to inspire all around him, like a true alpha-leader should.

  • @danr.5017

    @danr.5017

    10 жыл бұрын

    zsupersaiyan Insulin.

  • @SangoProductions213
    @SangoProductions21310 жыл бұрын

    19/20 ...what's the difference between shame and embarrassment?

  • @ShawnRavenfire
    @ShawnRavenfire10 жыл бұрын

    19/20. The hard part was keeping myself from overthinking, because I knew they were just modeling for a quiz. My biggest EQ weakness is motivation. I'm the kind of guy who gets knocked down, and then says, "Fuck it." (I'm working on changing that about myself, though.)

  • @NicolasUnger
    @NicolasUnger10 жыл бұрын

    I got 16/20, some were very ambiguous and could perfectly be more than one option.

  • @EveChantelle16
    @EveChantelle1610 жыл бұрын

    lol so i got 9, most of those questions are arguable. pretty stupid quiz lmao!

  • @CodenamePrince
    @CodenamePrince8 жыл бұрын

    I checked my Emotional Intelligence and it's...Over 9,000!

  • @mattlm64
    @mattlm6410 жыл бұрын

    I got 12/20 but surely facial expressions, as well as other behaviours, are largely unique to the individual and the more you know someone, the better you will understand them?

  • @evnwood
    @evnwood10 жыл бұрын

    11/20 ...most of them were faking the emotion, a couple were over exaggerated to the point that it was obvious what answer they wanted.... I guess I got to get better at what emotion someone is trying to show when they are pretending....

  • @pete30simon
    @pete30simon9 жыл бұрын

    Get better actors for the test :D

  • @TheKnudie

    @TheKnudie

    8 жыл бұрын

    that's what I'm saying....

  • @peter7718

    @peter7718

    8 жыл бұрын

    +pete30simon Those actors in the photos seemed to be too aware of the fact that they were acting. It would have been much better if they actually managed to make themselves feel those emotions for real, so that they ACTUALLY felt happy/angry/surprised etc.

  • @DizzBetchh
    @DizzBetchh7 жыл бұрын

    Love this channel. Thanks.

  • @alexandrawilson-newman6956
    @alexandrawilson-newman695610 жыл бұрын

    I took the test and got 17 out of 20 it's surprisingly hard and that's equally surprising because you make most of them each day and don't even realize!!!

  • @Niniischill
    @Niniischill10 жыл бұрын

    I have like no personality. I act depending on who I'm with

  • @Vairlocom
    @Vairlocom10 жыл бұрын

    I got a -1. I think I broke the scale....

  • @hiERD100
    @hiERD1009 жыл бұрын

    A- In all but A+ in empathy and D in Social skills... I suck in this world

  • @jumperchu
    @jumperchu10 жыл бұрын

    Awww! I remember watching Lacy so many years ago, good to see her again, subbed!

  • @PossibleTango
    @PossibleTango10 жыл бұрын

    Half the faces I never even seen anyone do in real life.

  • @starshipfantastica
    @starshipfantastica10 жыл бұрын

    That EQ thing is a bit off. Some of the traits like empathy and self awareness are traits introverts have while great social skills and being very motivated are extrovert traits. You can't be both. Also great leaders and successful people tend to be a bit sociopathic in nature, caring more about themselves and less about those around them. Meanwhile I find the host strangely attractive.

  • @AfroSnackey

    @AfroSnackey

    10 жыл бұрын

    IDK why that's strange I do too.

  • @MrLachupakabra

    @MrLachupakabra

    10 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand why introverts/extroverts have entered the equation - why are they relevant to the emotional intelligence of a person? And exactly how many people are entirely an introvert or extrovert? Also, I'd be cautious about generalizations if I were you they tend to lead me down rocky roads.

  • @McCAlexander

    @McCAlexander

    10 жыл бұрын

    introverts vs extroverts. bringing in personality types? yeah, I guess that is a related topic. but you should probably be aware that personality traits are not ultimatums. you most certainly can be both and most people fall somewhere between the spectrum. I think you will find that even you have behaviors that fall both introverted and extroverted. the other things about personality traits is that they are preferences and can be learned. someone who prefers to be introverted but masters the ability to be extroverted in situations as needed, genius.

  • @DatBoiAderbeen
    @DatBoiAderbeen10 жыл бұрын

    16 out of 20. when the last one came up with love, its kinda weird how i got it. i kinda felt that energy from the expression and my instinct was telling me love but my brain was saying otherwise

  • @wickedest-witch
    @wickedest-witch10 жыл бұрын

    I got 15/20... the majority of the ones I got wrong was because the expressions looked too fake... Like with happiness, his smile looked so forced, I figured it had to be politeness... I overanalyze things, lol

  • @Xenn000
    @Xenn00010 жыл бұрын

    13/20, some of those could have easily been two out of the four.

  • @Tardivex

    @Tardivex

    10 жыл бұрын

    Same score here and I agree

  • @Schematist
    @Schematist10 жыл бұрын

    18/20 But some of these actors/models need to find another job lol.

  • @rha2298
    @rha229810 жыл бұрын

    those haven't anything to do with empathy or emotional intelligence, they're just based on microexpresions, although they help you know what a person feels, it doesn't mean you understand them. and that,to understand is the real empathy.

  • @jimmyboy9883
    @jimmyboy988310 жыл бұрын

    The one problem with being emotionally intelligent is you can easily lose focus on yourself and care to much about other people. Once you realize how upset everyone is you just wanna fix it. You can't...

  • @jonanasbananas2944
    @jonanasbananas29448 жыл бұрын

    My EQ is -50 or something like that... ^^

  • @observerobserver

    @observerobserver

    8 жыл бұрын

    You can't put a number around EQ

  • @observerobserver

    @observerobserver

    8 жыл бұрын

    ..or can you...need to rethink that response!

  • @KhaledAlfaris
    @KhaledAlfaris10 жыл бұрын

    I got 12, which is average.

  • @jameswray50

    @jameswray50

    10 жыл бұрын

    I am 12 as well lol

  • @sirvgod

    @sirvgod

    10 жыл бұрын

    I got 14/20

  • @KhaledAlfaris

    @KhaledAlfaris

    10 жыл бұрын

    And I thought I was good at this. But sadly as it turned out I was average.

  • @TheKiddeku82

    @TheKiddeku82

    10 жыл бұрын

    KHALED ALFARIS Too be honest, some of them look a little forced, which that itself can deceive you from the correct answer.

  • @zylan4967

    @zylan4967

    10 жыл бұрын

    I got 13

  • @DustinMillerPolyInnovator
    @DustinMillerPolyInnovator10 жыл бұрын

    This actually made my day better, I failed one of my finals because I've been having a hard time understanding the concepts and I questioned my intelligence but after watching this video and I am about to take the quiz now, I believe my EQ is rather high. I truly care about people and their feelings and try to help them. Always have, always will.

  • @xDMrGarrison
    @xDMrGarrison9 жыл бұрын

    I got 15/20. I already I was better than average, but couldn't be sure. Even if the website said I was horrible, I know that I'm pretty good at knowing what someone is feeling.

  • @mountnman3609
    @mountnman360910 жыл бұрын

    16/20 This test was wrong 4 times :)

  • @ToadyToadToad
    @ToadyToadToad8 жыл бұрын

    I scored 4/20, which is pretty darned good considering I have Asperger's Syndrome!

  • @DragcoDavid

    @DragcoDavid

    7 жыл бұрын

    I know, right? same here. I managed a 13/20, though that's mostly because I've been practicing for years on having functioning social skills. Plus, I feel like the exaggerated facial expressions threw me off.

  • @guit6452

    @guit6452

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same m8

  • @BasePuma4007
    @BasePuma40078 жыл бұрын

    I'm an adolescent, so my emotional intelligence is fucking awful.

  • @TJDrumsRHCP
    @TJDrumsRHCP10 жыл бұрын

    15/20 Could have been at least 17/20 if I wasn't confused with the meaning of some words.

  • @mattsmith7123
    @mattsmith71238 жыл бұрын

    if you want to increase your EQ, stop spying on people and dehumanizing them

  • @cyphi1

    @cyphi1

    8 жыл бұрын

    what do you mean?

  • @Nemenon
    @Nemenon10 жыл бұрын

    I got an 11, so that makes me an emotional genius right?

  • @madoric13
    @madoric1310 жыл бұрын

    I know thousands that fail at the "empathy" part so much, they passed the event horizon, the point of no return.

  • @Sutoraida1975
    @Sutoraida197510 жыл бұрын

    I missed the first question, then I realized 'Oh, their acting/emoting these emotions/facial expressions.' Feeling what someone's emotions are go beyond reading facial expressions.

  • @thejoker0123
    @thejoker012310 жыл бұрын

    hmmm i would say i'm 50/50

  • @marcosvilla7503

    @marcosvilla7503

    10 жыл бұрын

    that's still the same as 20/20 smart one

  • @thejoker0123

    @thejoker0123

    10 жыл бұрын

    ok and for what i meant is i'm caught in the middle.

  • @andreacorposmae4202

    @andreacorposmae4202

    10 жыл бұрын

    @hector288 Hey so bored today

  • @ScottTangents
    @ScottTangents8 жыл бұрын

    I don't need a test to know I have anti social issues.

  • @jakehix8132

    @jakehix8132

    8 жыл бұрын

    .... the test is society.

  • @kimikotekuno2108

    @kimikotekuno2108

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Scott Tangents You clearly don't know what that mean. -_-

  • @lucaduttwiler322
    @lucaduttwiler3228 жыл бұрын

    For any kind of relationship there's a sort of formula to this: 1. (Duration): The time you spend with the person. 2. (Closeness): The more you are physically close to a person affects the psychologic closeness after an amount of time. This can also just be the same room like for example the kitchen or the bus you're sitting in. 3. (Frequency) Obviously that's the frequency of the meetings which even don't have to be planned together with the other person. It can also just be the amount of seeing each other and realizing that she/he's there. 4. (Intensity) That's how good you are in satisfying the needs of the other person with verbal and nonverbal behaviors.

  • @fintanwatson8137
    @fintanwatson81377 жыл бұрын

    If you are a teenager taking the EQ Test, do not fear if you gain a low score, because teenagers often find it more difficult to read people's emotions then others.

  • @coolida23511
    @coolida2351110 жыл бұрын

    The faces are overtly exaggerated.

  • @rohithkumarsp
    @rohithkumarsp10 жыл бұрын

    there's no IQ/EQ test where i live

  • @dc2008242

    @dc2008242

    10 жыл бұрын

    Their is an online EQ test in the description, I got 10/20, IM TOTALLY A GENIUS :3

  • @6bettyboo9

    @6bettyboo9

    10 жыл бұрын

    CALLY THEMAN 14 out of 20 ! I'm a Jedi.

  • @sillyvalliexo

    @sillyvalliexo

    10 жыл бұрын

    6bettyboo9 15/20 I'm a tree.

  • @duel424

    @duel424

    10 жыл бұрын

    17/20 Not bad if I do say so myself

  • @Drum3Matrix
    @Drum3Matrix10 жыл бұрын

    Dnews is a genuine KZread channel and I really appreciate a lot of the topics you do videos on. I love your guys videos thank you!

  • @azure7687
    @azure768710 жыл бұрын

    Correct me if im wrong but emotional intelligence has nothing to do with being more happy but just able to understand emotions.

  • @ItsPeij
    @ItsPeij10 жыл бұрын

    Proud that I understood that song reference xD

  • @zackwrenn3926
    @zackwrenn39268 жыл бұрын

    that test is absurd. reading facial expressions is not all emotional intelligence consists of

  • @logical-functionsmodel9364

    @logical-functionsmodel9364

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Zack Wrenn Precisely! For example, self control or understanding HOW to respond in those situations How about reading body language or tone usage. I scored like 9, but that is because I read body language and people's tones to decipher how they are feeling. (I don't like looking at people's faces in general.)

  • @Audreyxdding
    @Audreyxdding7 жыл бұрын

    She's actually a reasonable person now, so no need to dislike the video lads.

  • @jesusgerardoGM
    @jesusgerardoGM10 жыл бұрын

    The quiz isn't very self-explanatory at the beginning and a couple repeat themselves and have extra characters on them, that said I got 18/20 ... Yay for sociopaths

  • @ChickenWilickers
    @ChickenWilickers10 жыл бұрын

    17/20... hate these EQ tests, they do these weirdly exaggerated faces. I find that the ones with a more subtle, nuanced face and responding by selecting a course of action to take in a certain situation instead of just identifying an emotion are more accurate, ofc that could be because I score higher on that.

  • @ShawnRavenfire

    @ShawnRavenfire

    10 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. I had to turn away and look back several times.

  • @BearWindAppleyard
    @BearWindAppleyard8 жыл бұрын

    1:42 Is that an intentional reference to Tubthimbing by Chumbawumba?

  • @lisazoria2709

    @lisazoria2709

    8 жыл бұрын

    I was wondering the same thing! xD

  • @alexc2265

    @alexc2265

    8 жыл бұрын

    I have the emotional intelligence to be pretty sure that the answer's yes

  • @RustyFiReWorKs

    @RustyFiReWorKs

    8 жыл бұрын

    Most likely

  • @LunaZola
    @LunaZola10 жыл бұрын

    I took an EQ/EI classes in high school. I had just gone through a pretty deep depression at the time and my anxiety disorder was at it's very worst and the class alone made me feel understood and validated.

  • @charlieharper1891
    @charlieharper189110 жыл бұрын

    This was great - Nicely said. . .

  • @ThexDynastxQueen
    @ThexDynastxQueen10 жыл бұрын

    14/20 due to over thinking which is a constant problem to me. I think too much about how to react, whats going on, the outcome of said reaction, etc that I usually end up acting incorrectly or not at all. Add in being aloof and I end up getting in a lot of trouble with people mainly blood family. I'm simply not an emotionally expressive woman and that probably won't change. Still the test is too basic to get any worthwhile information that most probably already know.

  • @kyutakashi4870

    @kyutakashi4870

    10 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I'm always nervous talking to people (even to my family) and overly cautious to how people will react to what I say or to the expression I give so people always misunderstand me. In middleschool I would concentrate so hard on how people would view me that one person came up to me and asked why I always looked mad and hearing that kinda shocked me since I was never mad in the first place.

  • @rockon12706
    @rockon1270610 жыл бұрын

    16/20 I had trouble with the flirting questions.. .-.

  • @crazysox305
    @crazysox30510 жыл бұрын

    I just saw " Are You Emotionally Intelligent?" and I was like "I WANT TO BE INTELLIGENT! :D" loser moment haha

  • @icutea
    @icutea8 жыл бұрын

    This was really helpful!

  • @captmoonbeam
    @captmoonbeam10 жыл бұрын

    There needs to be another intelligence factor that would measure a guys ability to fake emotional intelligence in order ensure a successful outcome when dating.

  • @MOOZIK2NA
    @MOOZIK2NA10 жыл бұрын

    12/20...god damn it...

  • @avilst1765
    @avilst17659 жыл бұрын

    I find it weird how 90% of the time when I heard "omg he has NO EQ AT ALL", it's part of a 2 hour gossip session and it's usually about one of their supervisors

  • @alphayourface
    @alphayourface10 жыл бұрын

    Got 'em all... OK, I'm lying but I got most (18). I'd also like to add that context matters a lot for some of these things; there's such a thing as "resting bitch face" & some people that like to pretend they're happy, then end up killing themselves the next day. The most determining factor of your emotional quotient is how you relate to people & being genuinely concerned or interested in them. From this practice, you'll be called a "great conversationalist", even when you don't really say anything, because allowing people to be themselves, & openly emotional, is like two intellects having a brilliant conversation. P.S. I hope League of Legends - or other competitive online games - don't count, because I can become a total douche in those (I'm aware of it, so I am actively relaxed now). It's hard to remember that some people playing are just young kids, not good at that game, etc. & my first instinct is to think they're stupid. To all the people I treated this way in games; I'm sorry, I love you. Please don't uninstall the game like I suggested >.

  • @supmajc

    @supmajc

    10 жыл бұрын

    Lol dat P.S. I do that same exact thing except with HoN instead of LoL. hahahaha

  • @coreyeverett6367

    @coreyeverett6367

    10 жыл бұрын

    I never understood how they could measure your EQ by guessing people's facial expressions.

  • @Tupster
    @Tupster10 жыл бұрын

    EQ sounds like it should be called an "extroversion quotient", as it seems to be a little biased towards that personality style.

  • @Jinkun2702

    @Jinkun2702

    10 жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking this.

  • @mackennaleigh

    @mackennaleigh

    10 жыл бұрын

    I'm an introvert, and I received a 15/20 score, which is rated a bit more than the average.

  • @alejandrinos

    @alejandrinos

    10 жыл бұрын

    Social Skills are a big part of EQ, and being extroverted is the best way to show those skills. That's why it looks biased. You can be an introvert and have high EQ, but it would be like being really smart and never showing your knowledge to anyone.

  • @Tupster

    @Tupster

    10 жыл бұрын

    alejandrinos I do not think it *looks* biased. It *is* biased. You cannot have a high EQ if you do not show people your social skills. That would be like saying somebody is a good bailarina simply because they have good muscle tone even though they have never practiced ballet.

  • @Tupster

    @Tupster

    10 жыл бұрын

    YouMakeMeFaceplam666 What you are saying is true by definition. I am saying the definition of EQ is biased towards extroverts. You do not really disagree.

  • @illyillyill
    @illyillyill10 жыл бұрын

    18/20 ...>.>. Not surprising. I was raised by psychopathic/sociopathic parents that spoke nothing, but non sense. Had to learn how to read people based on body language alone. OR, that test was just really simple for a noobie poker player. lol

  • @INVICII

    @INVICII

    10 жыл бұрын

    Oh good, looks like my kids might be blessed with high EQs.

  • @MrAdventurousAlex
    @MrAdventurousAlex10 жыл бұрын

    I know she is reading off of note cards written by someone else or a team, but many disagree with this. The idea of EQ or EI is fairly new and i wish discovery wouldn't falsely educate masses of people. Personality types have a lot to do with self awareness and empathy and motivation, and many of these things don't all come as a bundle. So it's not very fair to people as a whole to label someone as emotionally smart, it just simply doesn't exist, and is vanity to think of yourself as emotionally more educated than someone else. And why

  • @naromngin
    @naromngin7 жыл бұрын

    I took the emotional Intelligence test and im not sure if im bad at it or the people in the test are just bad at displaying those emotions..

  • @Redflowers9
    @Redflowers99 жыл бұрын

    The test assumes that those features are what reflect how you feel independent of the rest of the face, which is why the actors looked like they were only told to pull those expressions (tongue looks more crazy than desiring... and that asian bloke looks like he's getting kicked up the ass when he's supposed to be * instantly * angry)... It would be interesting to see how effective it is if you had them watch film clips that would elicit those feelings, take pictures of their naturally feeling faces and then see if the test scores for the EQ test are proportionally the same for the real pictures.

  • @chriswong2133

    @chriswong2133

    9 жыл бұрын

    In short. The test was bs.

  • @Redflowers9

    @Redflowers9

    8 жыл бұрын

    and, I wanted to explain why...?

  • @GokuTheSuperSaiyan1
    @GokuTheSuperSaiyan17 жыл бұрын

    Emotional Intelligence is one of those things that simply takes learning from social interactions and experience. More experience with people means more EQ.

  • @MrGETLIVE01

    @MrGETLIVE01

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @billycat2168
    @billycat21685 жыл бұрын

    great video.. well written..

  • @Husgum
    @Husgum10 жыл бұрын

    thank you for the video :)

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