0:01 - IQ / CQ / EQ 0:40 - the definition of EQ 1:50 - 1) Empathy (affective and cognitive) 3:05 - 2) Self-awareness 3:55 - 3) Curiosity 4:45 - 4) Analytical Mind 5:35 - 5) Belief 6:35 - 6) Needs and Wants 7:35 - 7) Passionate 8:30 - 8) Optimistic 9:10 - 9) Adaptability 10:20 - 10) Desire to help others succeed and succeed for yourself

@Dimmary

4 жыл бұрын

Well that's me in a nutshell

@taniabrown3716

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for listing them

@AyushKumar-xd2jg

3 жыл бұрын

Careful there.. He's a hero

@todorokiyosukedesu

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

this channel is a gold mine

@TheArtofImprovement

4 жыл бұрын

thanks

@EvolvedTeachings

4 жыл бұрын

Let's spread the message! Personal development isn't promoted enough.

@dawsonpierini7719

4 жыл бұрын

The Art of Improvement do you get all your material through books or what?

@dotcassilles1488

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheArtofImprovement Have you ever read the book called "dont bitch just get rich" ?? Blessings, Dot

By watching the people in my life I've learned that emotional intelligence and analytical intelligence should always be carefully balanced. Whenever one catagory of intelligence out weighs the other the rest are left unchecked and the ego replaces them. Maintaining a balanced and opened mindset is the ideal way to approach life

@lammosley8144

4 жыл бұрын

how to balane

@kristinariley4642

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly ....been explaining that for years or trying to ..i felt it first now I speak about it ..some things people pick up or no naturally without a college course to pay for...

What a quality video mate ! And it's so true what you said about being passionated, when you meet that person who is passionated about something you can just feel the energy they bring !

@amaan4379

Жыл бұрын

Yeah !!

I love how you apply all the content to your personal life, it reflects in your videos. Appreciate all your work, it’s really made a difference to my way of living.

I feel so lucky to have found this channel. To anyone who is reading this, you will be successful. Just utilize the information from these videos and incorporate it into your life. Don’t rush anything and trust the process. As long as you put in the work, use your mind effectively and stay consistent, you will get there. ❤️

This was absolutely amazingly presented! Thank you.

This was THE best EQ video Ive seen ! 🙏

Brilliant, thank you so much. Well done, Christopher, well done. I love it.

I *really* enjoy the quality and variety of educational videos on this channel. All I can say is *keep* *it* *coming* ! :)

This channel is a life changer for me THANK YOU🙏🙏

Yet another fantastic piece of advice...Thank You Sir!!

I can listen to you all day, and I do. Thank you

So enlightening. Thank you ☺️

Excellent. Great Work!

I like this episode a lot. I had not heard of CQ. Something to dig into in my spare time later! Thanks.

Well done~! Keep making these! Love it.

Really nice well Made and wrapped up! :) thanks for helping improve the life of thousands of people.

I love this video! Very well put together & informative! I made a likewise video with only 5 qualities, I thought we would have all the same but strangely there were some extra ones I had mentioned! Its so great to see even further elaboration on the topic.

Please try to make a 1 minute summary of the whole video at the end. This will greatly help to integrate the concepts. Thank you!

Really, really a great video. Relatable at many points ❤

Simple and straight to the point, pure intelligence 👌🏼

Great! Thank you very much indeed. It's so well explained 👏. 🙂

Managing people's expectations and yours, so everybody Is happy. Not always easy

Thanks a lot for such a nice and informative video...

Fantastic videos. Love this channel

Reaaaally enlightening video!!!

excellent summary!

This is a really good video, I’d recommend it for anyone trying to learn on emotional intelligence and life bettering

Thanks a lot for sharing

Emotionally intelligent people say “sorry” 🔥

@TheKlink

4 жыл бұрын

the people that say sorry a lot use it as a license to do it again

@hogg_inthagame4615

Жыл бұрын

@@TheKlink Facts 💯

@dinelli630

Жыл бұрын

So emotionally intelligent people are unpredictable and 🔥 and this passion is infectious! !

I LOVE watching video’s like this that reference a book which it’s based & I have-& read it!!

This is so good thank you

Love your videos. Great speech. God bless you.

Very informative!

Great collection of qualities that make up an emotionally intelligent person! Sadly, I don't think I've ever met anyone who possessed all those qualities. In general, having an optimistic outlook, a belief in yourself based on actual accomplishments and rational and realistic thoughts that dispute a distorted and exaggerated negative mindset are pretty good qualities and probably all most people need.

@SelfDevelopmentQuest

4 жыл бұрын

I struggle the most with #1-empathy? What about you?

@Mensmentalwealth911

4 жыл бұрын

@@SelfDevelopmentQuest would you be willing to share some of the skills or techniques you use to increase your empathy? Belief is one that I, and seemingly so many others, struggled with.

@SelfDevelopmentQuest

4 жыл бұрын

@@Mensmentalwealth911 This is really a big problem in my professional life. Mainly because, with HR and having to be PC these days, it's tough to really pry into people's lives too much. You never want to offend anyone, and you never want to get sent to HR for asking too many personal questions while trying to show empathy.

Emotionally intelligent people are the ones who go places, people who aren’t tend to be drones, the type of people when you look in their eyes and you see nothing, where as emotionally intelligent people are there with you, you can truly connect with the, but there tends not to be many of those people around, it’s difficult

Great video

The EQ is by far the intelligence people should be focusing on increasing the most. - that's what's going to help you most in life. It is sad how our society promotes superficial things such as IQ :(

@RealThomasHyldig

4 жыл бұрын

True that !

Exceptional video bro

🤔🤔Very informative video. Thank you.👍🏼👍🏼

Such a great channel ....

Valuable information

I love everything bout this

Any Conestoga people?

GREAT list. 👏👏👏😊 Especially self-awareness ♥️ Such an important skill to master. Thanks for this insightful video! 💫

As someone once said, It's not enough to succeed; others must fail.

Amazing 😍

I wasnt aware i was emotionally intelligent already. Thank you for pointing it out for me.

@SelfDevelopmentQuest

4 жыл бұрын

Nice!👍

@doralymartinez7256

3 жыл бұрын

How are ur relationships?

@LyonsDenFarm

3 жыл бұрын

@@doralymartinez7256 most relationships i have are either good or bad by perspective. Im still highly introverted, but as I've noticed in the last year the more I've been willing to to explain my expressiveness the easier my relationships become to be apart of.

Your video are the greatest

great!!!

great video! explains clearly and precisely. but anyone notice the tools positioning in 5:04 lol or is it just me and my immature mind

You should incorporate brief summaries at the end of the video covering the headlines of what you showed.

The empathy is a powerful weapon to get knowledge

Until now I cannot even imagine that all connocted with EQ. I understood it is important to know a real purpose, meaning of it.

*_Quick Fact_* *_Emotionally Intelligent_* is known to be more important than IQ in the work place

@leonardticsay8046

4 жыл бұрын

Life Progress - a channel for introverts soft skills > hard skills. See this all the time. Soft skills help jerries fail upward.

@peterfallon4018

4 жыл бұрын

I agree but when you make a statement like that-w/o qualifying that ‘fact’-which the vast majority of people do-it has no validation. Make the habit of being able to cite, exactly, just ONE source, to support that ‘fact’. NOT being a jerk-separates u from vast majority-83%-who don’t (per 1998 study from Purdue)

@mamindhive

4 жыл бұрын

Keith Anderson from my 6 years experience of work at airport where i work with more than 4000 people i find it 100% true, someone might be extra smart but emotionally stupid which will effect all the surrounding negatively. Someone might be the highest at productivity, but treat his coworkers in a not nice way which will decrease their overall productivity, that person is a cancer at work and must be out in order to succeed, what the guy is said is 110% true in my opinion and i have personally suffered greatly because of those “cancer at work”

@mamindhive

4 жыл бұрын

Keith Anderson yeah, your way of looking down on people who dont have the highest IQs prove that you got big Emotional Intelligence problems. Good luck in running a company, or working with teammates, your arrogance will be your failure. And btw, remember Einsteins quote about curiosity? Yeah he never had the highest iq in his life, there are literally thousands of scientists who had higher iqs, but he had better emotional intelligence, and he achieved and discovered better than them all.

4 жыл бұрын

@@mamindhive how else am I supposed to look at short people besides looking down? Curiosity is an aspect of creativity also known as trait openness in which I score very high. After IQ, creativity has a massive effect on success. I run four businesses so it seems you don't know what you are talking about. One of the businesses I run does consulting. I get respect from clients quickly because of high extraversion combined with a straightforward and very blunt but effective delivery. That comes from extremely low agreeableness, namely in the aspect of politeness. Hence me having no issue calling a spade a spade in regards to IQ and so called EQ. It also helps being quite low in neuroticism so I don't care much what others think. If I had to identify a weakness it would be low conscientiousness. Not very industrious about getting things done. More the big picture type. Strategic thinking is my bailiwick. The IQ and Openness intersection I mentioned. Perhaps you should offer a counter argument to my claims instead of reassuring yourself by imagining my likelihood of success. But that requires IQ, not feel good EQ nonsense. Stick to throwing bags at the airport. The airport designed by high IQ people. With tons of planes designed and engineered by high IQ people. That rely on radar and other tech also designed by high IQ people. You mentioned Einstein, quite a high IQ. I'd wager his EQ score was actually quite low. He had low self awareness and often had disregard for the feelings and even actions of those around him. Not sure you could have picked a more terrible example. Note, low IQ doesn't make you a bad person, but it is a big indication of potential success. Same with height and basketball. Stating reality and facts is not "looking down on" anyone.

Learning how and when to let go of emotions is letting go of the past and grasping hold of the future.🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

@anthonymendez4145

3 жыл бұрын

You've got to let go of everything. Focus on the now. Focusing on the past leads to depression whilst worrying about the future yields anxiety for fear of the unknown

@mrsniffwell7736

3 ай бұрын

@@anthonymendez4145 But when the "now" sucks, it still leads to depression and worry. If you delude yourself into thinking things will get better, you will only get disapointed and still be depressed and worried.

@anthonymendez4145

3 ай бұрын

@@mrsniffwell7736 when the "now" sucks you still focus on the "now" and try to do your best in the moment

From what I understand being able to pretty much turn on/off means high eq Am I right? (Note: yes some or many do it destructive from negative influences but please take what as I say as only what I said, no more no less)

Please prepare video on its not yet late for 35+ person

Pure Gold..

Recommend one part Eeyore to one part Tigger, with a jigger of owl for zing.

Inteligence.....shld've been intelligence🥰

It's just a concept, emotionally intellectual person. (pay attention) to your imagination

My biggest struggle out of these 10 qualities is #1-Empathy. What is your biggest struggle? Biggest strength?

I wish all people would watch this video to be more emotionally intelligent. 😀

meditate & read the power of now. you will get an answer

Too long to share with friends .... but maybe I can figure out a way to snip out a 1 to 2 minute clip to share on WhatsApp.

@Cass_i

4 жыл бұрын

Send then the link for them to watch it themselves

I’m gonna get my KZread channel to 100,000 subscribers one day and this channel keeps focused on that goal

In my experience, helping others succeed has no benefit for me. People just take and never give back, such that there is no gain of allies or powerful relationships; they will just leave you behind.

👍👍👍

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EQ is a curse for any man if it's too high, it's only helpful for woman or monks, priests and employers. Having individuals lacking EQ, employers often mention it feels like they are running a daycare centre with the amount of childish behaviour/drama in the workplace.

A cell phone could be a need because most jpbs wont hire you if you dont have one.

Cars and phones are a need.

big lezion, fantastic

Abraham Maslow was such a high eq show off pfff

Intelligence is all about IQ and that is something you can't change unlike so-called emotional intelligence that can be developed. So, it's not really intelligence but a skill.

Honey 🍯 Jar Jar and Mansi

A high EQ person knows when they were wrong, and tries to make it right next time

In hindsight, fuck optimism. Cynicism is healthy when applied correctly and controlling which opportunities come in to your life is more valuable than just having opportunities.

Let me guess you got an assignment on this topic.

#1 s/he understands the debt danger... gvt debt is from bond sales... $23 TRILLIONS

"There is no such thing as EQ. Let me repeat that: "There is no such thing as EQ." The idea was popularized by a journalist, Daniel Goleman, not a psychologist. You can't just invent a trait. You have to define it and measure it and distinguish it from other traits and use it to predict the important ways that people vary." -Jordan Peterson

@CarolMould

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Goleman is also a psychologist

Power of faith? I’m atheist

@marinacam2755

4 жыл бұрын

i took it as faith in yourself....?

@grandjette

3 жыл бұрын

As I understand, atheists believe that there is no god. So they do believe...in themselves, and that is a beginning of having faith. May you continue your journey of seeking the truth.

I don't have faith in anything because I'm not religious.

There is a page called "Better than Yesterday" who is stealing your pictures!! If your not the artist then no worries but his videos look like literal rip offs of yours

@grandjette

3 жыл бұрын

Don't worry. The illustrations are through a paid app ("Doodley" or something that sounds like it).

😂😢😢😮😊😅🎉

Fools talk, wise listen

It’s a curse

well little you know, there's no such thing as Emotional Intelligent - Jordan Peterson

Screaming Jordan Peterson's triggered fans in 3... 2... 1...

@leonardticsay8046

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Meddis I’m a jbp fan. I’m also interested in how the incompetent fail upwardly. You ready to fail upward, bruh?

@bluebotlivingston6016

4 жыл бұрын

@@leonardticsay8046 I am a fan as well actually, but his obsession with IQ is extremely biased

@leonardticsay8046

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Meddis do you think it has anything to do with his preoccupation with competence hierarchies?

@alo5301

4 жыл бұрын

JP is great. You don't like him? Ok. Have a nice day.

@keithmiller5264

4 жыл бұрын

@ I seem to have very limited facility to process and discuss my own emotions. I have enjoyed Peterson on the Rogan podcast, where can I find this class you speak of? I found one that was not free.

Do you know what is emotional intelligence ?🤔 How many times has somebody done you wrong? Do you go and pay them what they did to you? To know what to do in these types of situations, read this article 👇 risingstrongandstylish.com/five-things-an-emotionally-intelligent-person-will-never-do/

What is Empathy? > Emotion researchers generally define empathy as the ability to sense other people’s emotions, coupled with the ability to imagine what someone else might be thinking or feeling. Affective empathy Feeings in response to others' emotions Cognitive empathy Abity to identify and understand other peoples' emotions SELF AWARENESS Art of understanding yourself - recognizing what stumuli you are facing - preparing for how to manage yourself how we see ourselfs? how we perceive others to see us? >"Leaders who focus on building both internal and external self-awareness, who seek honest feedback from loving critics, and who ask what instead of why can learn to see themselves more clearly-and reap the many rewards that increased self-knowledge delivers." -Dr. Tasha Eurich CURIOSITY Thave no special talents. am only passionately curious." -Albert Einstein when you are curious - you are passionate - it will make you want to grow and more -driven to want to be your best Analytical mind people who analyse old information - habit - how we do things - and contemplate with why questions? BELIEF Belief in yourself + action NEEDS AND WANTS They achieve needs before going to wants OPTIMIST >"When we are happy-when our mindset and mood are positive-we are smarter, more motivated, and thus more successful Happiness is the center, and Success revolves around it." -Shawn Achor ADAPTABILITY We should know when to start and when to change