Once you have dealt with one, you can spot them from a distance.

@Dollhousehenderson

Күн бұрын

I’m still waiting on this one I do see a couple of them around me, but of course my narc is still around me so he is also trying to convince me that I’m crazy listening to these videos is just crazy. I would absolutely recommend you trust your intuition because they will make you think you’re crazy. They will make you think oh you think you’re better than everybody else because you can see this no I do not think I’m better than anybody else. I just see who you are. I’m sure a lot of other people do too. That’s probably why they keep their distance from us this whole time you would rather me believe that it was me why people were keeping their distance I am not the reason and I am not wrong for trying to get better. My just doesn’t want me to know the truth as well. He shouldn’t. This has been going on for more than 20 years so that means there’s a lot of past that I am trying to sort through what really happened and what didn’t trust your intuition.

Set boundries with them and refuse to let them control you then they'll accuse you of the very things they, themselves are doing, Easy peasy, one two threesy. A narcissist's accusations are actually confessions.

@MHLivestreams

9 күн бұрын

They definitely accuse others of that which they are guilty. Most of their behaviour is displacement and projection of uncomfortable emotions . It's the most complicated nonsense ever.

@rickwolfe7386

9 күн бұрын

@@MHLivestreams I agree.

@lorrainegordon6745

7 күн бұрын

What is so great is firghure them out. Want you firghure them out you know everything, every mood, every steps, reason and why. They may think already play on game time. Great advice

@lorrainegordon6745

7 күн бұрын

The easy part is take back there power and set boundaries. It drives them crazy they will try every tricked just to get you mad. Either they will try love bamp or move to another person. Right on point

@elizabethash4720

6 күн бұрын

You can be tricked when your guard is down. I take time to reflect in solitude as my emotions sometimes get in the way. Of course, too much too soon is always a red flag.

Lack of empathy is the easiest for me

Yep. She started out by saying "I do what I want"... I didn't know what that entailed but soon found out ....

@Donp876

9 күн бұрын

I had one say the exact same words and that was a red flag

Yes Anoushka, narcissists DO disclose who they really are. It’s just that WE need to be paying attention. Thank you for educating us on these character-disordered individuals. 💕🙏🏼😃📚

@anoushkamarcin

9 күн бұрын

Yes 🙌 you are absolutely right we need to pay attention to what they say 😮 thank you for your comment 🫶🫶

she told me from the very start literally told me

They show who they are at the discard. You can’t recognize this person anymore.

@ArchAngel435

8 күн бұрын

This is spot on. 25 yrs and he played his role to the T as husband and father. Ofc there was abuse, financial, emotional and sexual. But when he left, I saw him change like a chameleon to source new supply. It left me shell shocked.

@tempestous-i3k

8 күн бұрын

The discard has been going on since they first devalued you. It's was there from the start, a preemptive strike to prevent injury to their little egos which is ironically a self fulfilling prophesy. Had my ex been what he showed me at first I'd be around forever and he'd have everything I had to offer. It's during this long period of shuffling between trying to keep me while devaluing and insulting me, gaslighting, all that that he tipped his hand and I wen t no contact before he could drop the hammer on me. Still 8 months out and the damage is done. Have better days and bad but either way the old me, the one I was do happy with is gone.

@rde4017

7 күн бұрын

The person you fell for never existed in the first place.

From the few I know, their upbringing is to blame. Unless they begin to understand that and get help they'll never change their temper tantrum jealous evil rage ways.

Anytime that one is able to objectively, impartially, observe a narcissist in motion or watch when their lips are moving vital information about who and what they are is given to you on a silver platter.

@anoushkamarcin

9 күн бұрын

Very true it’s given in a silver platter … great analogy 🙌

My ex husband used to “joke” that he was not human and he had no emotions.. I used to think it was as a joke, he was t joking. The discard after 12 yrs of marriage with 2 little kids was the true reveal. He had no emotions. It was hard then but now I see how God was blessing me. Anyone out there in the dark tunnels please hang in there.. it’ll get better

I grew up with them and had to recover from it. I agree with what you're saying. It is elaborate and they will never get well.

Yeah can definitely pick up on how they slither and maneuver through life...been trying to identify non verbal clues🤔

❤ thank you !! for the last week I'm learning about Narcissistic people

@lilfairycupcake

4 күн бұрын

the more you learn, the better of you are.

With social media and smartphones, narcissists aren't as needy to their partners and can fly under the radar

Mine talked about narcissism and reg flags on the first date. No joke! Think he wanted to evaluate what I knew. Gosh, I was so naive then.

There's a scale of consciousness created by Dr. David Hawkins. At the bottom of the scale are the people who are always focused on "getting". (This fits with the Narcissistic mindset of supply, greed and envy) In the middle of the scale are the people who are focused on "doing" (or accomplishing). At the top of the scale are the people who are focused mainly on "being".

@flemingsiobhan

8 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for this.

@elizabethash4720

6 күн бұрын

We only need to be who God created us to be, nothing more, nothing less.

I just got confronted the other day for...trying to help out. I took a beating with words thrown at me for 2 days and stayed calm saying I'm sorry, I won't do that again. Today...I got a Sincere apology! All is good but... Won't help again now seeing the first...Big Red Flag!

Omg! I so get it now! Thank you! They are Not Humane!!

Energy vampires…

When I was pregnant and married to my second ex narc? (I found out that I was raised by many Narcs but didn't know it. Now everything about my life makes sense to me. I'm the Truth teller in my Narc family. I was treated very badly by them.) I asked him if he thought pregnant women were beautiful to him? He said yes. Then i would ask him different questions over time and i noticed that every question received a different answer. I started noticing this more and more so I asked him about pregnant women again. This time he said no. That's one of the first times I noticed that he was a liar. It really hurt my feelings. Just one example of his crazy side. Way too much to share about my life so forgive me if I don't get everything right on here. He was never involved in my pregnancy until MY son was born. Then when he was born? He acted like he gave birth on his own. He brought him out of Labor and Delivery like a proud father. It was nothing but BS show! I never heard of Narcissistic Abuse until 2019. He alienated my sons from me. One is talking with me again starting last year after he realized on his own how crazy his father (first husband) was while he was living with him. He got away from him finally. But my youngest hasn't spoken with me for a decade. I had great relationships with both of them until I started to feel like I was losing my mind. My life was filled with terrible moments like this for decades. I noticed i was getting sicker and sicker and no one could diagnose me until my friend (a doctor) told me that he sounded like a Narcissist. I bought a book and I could have written it. I contacted my attorney and filed for divorced. Found out from my attorney that he had a flying monkey contact him 3 weeks before I filed for the divorce behind my back. He tried to steal my attorney but he didn't like either one of my exes and wouldn't represent either one of them. I got half of his retirement and this shocked him that I divorced him but after watching him throw temper tantrums in his 60's? I knew i needed to get away from him. He couldn't care less about the children but was only interested in what property he was getting in the divorce. He almost put me in my grave. Im doing better but still don't have my youngest son back in my life. Parental Alienation has been very difficult for me to handle. I don't know how to apologize to my son for everything that happened to all of us. I never knew these people existed until 2019 but please help me get my son to speak with me again. My ex ruined us financially so I'm having a difficult time financially and don't know what to say to my son without upsetting him more. Where do I start? I've seen him but he won't speak with me. I know he's hurting and it's breaking my heart. Any help would be appreciated. Everyone should question their boyfriend or girlfriend to watch for this pattern of communication. If they are not consistent with their answers then run for the hills! Thanks Anoushka for helping us. God bless everyone who has ever dealt with these demons. 😢

One thing for sure is they talk but their actions don't match what they just told you the day before! Huge red flag! They also can't seem to be alone... If one relationship fails, they are in another one within a few days or weeks

@anoushka Thank you for your videos, they're very eye-opening and educational. I split with my ex 4 months ago and 2 months no contact. I've decided to no longer watch these videos. It's about me and my healing. The longer I watch these videos the longer it will take to heal. Those of you going through this, remain strong and believe 💪🏻 Give yourself the love you want from others. And remember you fell in love with yourself. Thanks again. Happy healing 💙

Thanks Anushka. Your video got me crying but helps me tremendously with the wisdom and support! 😥😊💖🙏.

In the first five minutes on our first meeting… I told them about something traumatic that lead me to where we met. I had not finished the sentence when they jumped in with something *far worse* that had happened to them ten years before and ended up being not quite how they originally described it. My gut knew immediately and I was able to keep a distance for about a year. I still got hoovered later and paid the price for quite a while.

When the ex, whom I had known and. liked as a colleague, forr eight months before we started a relationship, changed into sth totally opposite to what I had experienced, I was shocked. He must be a covert narc. I immediately exposed him when I suspected that I was being manipulated again by a narc. Thanks to all of your videos. I wish I had seen it coming since the 3 weeks intense love bombing stage. I wish I had seen it coming when I thought he was an angel. Thank you

Great content! Have you done a video on the aging narcissist?

@anoushkamarcin

9 күн бұрын

Thank you. 🙏 yes I do have some videos on the aging narcissist… have a look in the playlist 😊

You’ll recognise lack of consideration & action pretty fast from any dysfunctional person …. Don’t stick around to analyse have the courage to keep moving on and that’s when the authentic people of this world will enter your life 👍

Hi Anoushka. Nice to hear your message with clarity. YES, they disclosing to keep you trapped Anyway I been in this situation cost me a lot. I really appreciate your support and information . My message is walk away from them Dangerous people Thank you you 😊

Accurate. I look back now and see all the signs so clearly. I laughed when my Ex MIL told me upon our first meeting the her Son will never disappoint her wishes. I laughed and laughed but she was warning me. I stopped laughing when I realized I was their new target.

Love your videos ❤ very helpful

When I lived in New York many years ago, I dated a 'politician' - being English I didn't know that much about American politics and it was the days before the internet was widely used. It turned out he wasn't a politician but a kind of low level administrative in politics. He created an entire persona, even saying that we needed to leave a restaurant early to avoid possible photographers snapping him. He said he had played for an American Football team in college (again I wouldn't know anything about the world) and that was just a flat out lie.

Thank you! Truth!

This is spot on. My one said the following: - “I just told him it was over after he said x,y & z to me.” - “I’m faking it and pretending.” - “I’m crazy.” - “My longest relationship was 2 years on & off.” - “I get bored with one person and should see other people.” Always listen to your gut. A lot of their complaints about you are projections of the things they’re doing to you.

My ex husband told me who he was : 1. I thought you were rich 2. I have never been in a relationship longer than a year 3. I slept with women and they stopped crying. I sent them away I thought those were stories and laughed until he discarded me

Great video

My xnarc told me he was an Enforcer for Hells Angels!! 😅 funny thing is ... he didnt know.. who I knew. A total con he was.

They don't want me to go? Seems strange, because my mine kept on leading me on only to reject me later, I suppose she had steady supply elsewhere though, and I was really a minor source on the side.

@JacK-qn4zh

9 күн бұрын

They don't want you to go, they just ignore you until they need you again. Once you finally leave....they want you to come back so they feel superior again.

@anoushkamarcin

9 күн бұрын

@@JacK-qn4zhyes this is very true and very well articulated 👏👏

@dcikaruga

9 күн бұрын

@@JacK-qn4zh Mine was really disrespectful when I saw her again, then told me to call later in the week to meet for a coffee, I did but she just made feeble excuses. She did the same trick again when I bumped into her a few months later. Luckily, I wasn't really attracted to her, and the initial love bomb didn't work very well, but at the time, I was just thinking to myself she was playing hard to get and all those tricks. Wasn't until I saw that cruel look in her eyes did I really get suspicious though.

Hi, I've done a reverse discard 5wks now. After nearly 20 decades. So why do I feel horrible? I had no choice. Plus I happened to expose him as well. I'm scared now 😭

@flemingsiobhan

8 күн бұрын

I was like this for ages after I went no contact. Someone reminded me that if you know what they’re like, probably everyone else does too. Let them say what they want. You just live your life and the truth will come out.

Yes they've exposed themselves to me by abuse but wear masks around others. When are the enablers and others like other family members going to see but ?

💯💯

Hi , what i find strange is ..they supposedly cant control this rage ? But when i told the Narc i was seeing on his third rage in as many months " if you dont shut up and calm down you will be leaving , im not listening to your crap anymore " He accused me of making him sleep in the street ..i said that is your choice ! He immediately calmed down so does this mean they can control it ? Thanks x

@Ryno814

8 күн бұрын

Its all on purpose. They know what theyre doing at all times. Thats what so crazy about it. You can notice when certain ppl are around or youre in certain places, they act different. They know to when put on a show, therefore you know they are aware of how they are. They are one way with you alone and then anbother way with you, when ppl are around.

@patriciahaffenden4993

8 күн бұрын

@Ryno814 So they can control it depending on the situation ..They are terrifying ...He told me afterwards that I can be very harsh ! I said I can when the situation dictates being harsh ..Crazy guy , I'd had enough after 6 months ..Great fun a lot of the time but really dangerous on other occasions ..really not worth the risk .

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@anoushkamarcin

Күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words 😊🙏

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It's also worth noting that, for those of us who grew up with a narcissistic parent - that gut feeling, intuition, internal alarm, whatever you want to call it - may be missing. We spent so much of our early lives with that alarm blaring nonstop that eventually it gets tuned out entirely. If you find yourself in any relationship toiling over the idea of whether or not the other party is really a narcissist or just being misunderstood... the fact that you end up spending so much time & attention trying to figure it out is all the answer you should need. It may sound obvious from the outside especially if you've never been there yourself, but it's easy to get trapped in a place of false hope.

I'm deverstated tho losing a potential you

Stalkings a bit far but it is imaging a lick scenario

It would be funny turning up. With you

Anoushka what type of medication could a doctor prescribe to treat a narcissist? Please be specific.

@AlyssaIrvine

8 күн бұрын

There is no medication for this.

@MHLivestreams

8 күн бұрын

Cyanide.

@sarahwalters784

8 күн бұрын

😂​@@MHLivestreams

@Anne-fi2tc

8 күн бұрын

😅😅😅😂😂​@@MHLivestreams

@lavender1986

7 күн бұрын

😊😊😊😊😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@MHLivestreams

i saw that in you in the first 5 minutes/

Hola guapa, que cosas cambiarias en el mundo

women call every man a narc

@Persiphon

8 күн бұрын

Lol