Huh, not all people that walk around naked are narcissists. Some do it because they’ve gotten comfortable with themselves, flaws and all. ✌️

@CynthiaLouwho

28 күн бұрын

as in the case of nudists

@joanbaczek2575

27 күн бұрын

@@CynthiaLouwhoyeah alot of these nudists do it in front of kids which is traumatic and abuse!

@Theworldhasgonebonkers

26 күн бұрын

Yes but not around others that don't want to see it...

@CynthiaLouwho

26 күн бұрын

@@Theworldhasgonebonkers Agreed. My parents both walked around naked. It was very unsettling.

@madmechanic7976

24 күн бұрын

Yeah and it's really comfortable

Both of us walking around naked is one of the positive memories I have with this person. It doesn’t offset the lying, breadcrumbing, ghosting. But I enjoyed that we walked around naked

My experience with my narc ex was she would lay down at night without any worries , but wouldn’t let me touch her in any kind of way , but then she would sneak off and go cheat on me .

@katogojira7223

Ай бұрын

Wow she did the same thing to me also she would say on Sunday she had Bible study but told me not to come out of the room

@cincyfanjunglecity9871

Ай бұрын

@@katogojira7223 damn she had a set of steel nuts to do it in the same house with you there . Women these days ain’t worth the hassle

@katogojira7223

Ай бұрын

@@cincyfanjunglecity9871 she just got into a relationship and she said she's faithful in a relationship. But just 5 days ago she came over to my house and we did it all day. Later that day I asked her. So this is what you did while you were with me. She got furious

@jackiep5009

28 күн бұрын

SOME women and SOME men I agree. All I want is a NOrMAL relationship.

@katogojira7223

28 күн бұрын

@@jackiep5009 not in this generation Sux to be honest with someone that is going to screw it all up for a few hours of play. I'm really just trying hard not to let anyone get close to me anymore

My narc ex used to walk around the house naked. Never knew it's a narc thing 😂 Goodness. I keep learning new stuff everyday

@kirstianna5286

Ай бұрын

Same lol

@ramonaharter6407

15 күн бұрын

I don't think it is I've never heard that in all my life

This is going to sound bizarre because it is... I think they also walk around naked to show off... and to personally cause discomfort in their victim to show that they are better, and to disturb their victim whilst the victim is trapped and cannot protest against it. Really fucking disgusting and it makes me sick.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

My bffs husband did this when we came back from a movie!!!

@NA-fz1ql

15 күн бұрын

@Portia620 I'm sorry you had to witness this discomfort , must have been really awkward for you and your friend.

@NA-fz1ql

15 күн бұрын

@Portia620 the husband is more than likely very jealous and possessive over your friend and is trying to assert sexual dominance over your friend and the situation to control your friend and get them isolated from you. You are a threat to his supply, and it's even super weird because you are just a friend... I was always accused of cheating on my narc ex with male friends, and he didn't even want me with female friends either... nor my family...nobody- they have a very twisted reality. It's easier to manipulate the supply with their support system cut off and they will use everything from accusations, insinuations, gaslighting and isolation tactics - I hope your friend gets out of this somehow and that they are okay 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 and I hope maybe this has given you some closure more than disturbance , they really do have a very fragile ego and you are a threat to them. You and your friend have more power than them and what they are trying to frame, but they don't want you to find out.

@saveyourtearsforanotherday7303

12 күн бұрын

My bf talks to neighbors in swimming shorts. He is a body builder and knows his body is super sexy, even tho, he enjoys others eyes on him it makes him feel desirable and he rejoices while telling me his truth!

Please note: not everyone who walks around naked is a narcissist… some people are just comfortable in their bodies & may want to share that freedom with the person they love.

@joanbaczek2575

27 күн бұрын

Not when they do it in front of people other than their partner!

@amandajohnson-williams7718

27 күн бұрын

Romybrooks It should be consensual though, not just sprung on someone. Just because you love someone doesn't give you the right to subject them to your nudity at any given moment. Its about personal boundaries.

@stacyw.1863

27 күн бұрын

Says the person who has never had an extremely overweight sibling. Tg she never did it in front of my company but even I thought this inappropriate.

@richardager1861

26 күн бұрын

Context is everything. Nakedness is fine...when,where and appropriateness should be considered.

@joanofarcxxi

26 күн бұрын

It's not about nudity or being comfortable in one's body. Narcissists are inappropriate about it. They relish in showing off and exposing themselves to others, even to children. They love to get attention and cause a reaction.

Thank you for talking about this sensitive matter, as the sexual experience, to me, is a big part of his abuse. It makes me feel embarassed , ashamed and weak. And gaslit, even there. I feel confused as to where my consent stopped and the coercion started. I'm so angry. Yes. Walking around naked DID imply dominance and control. I sensed it then, I felt that sth was wrong. I can see it now. He is blocked. Everywhere. I m so angry

A sociopath commented on a post I made this morning. He stated that he could murder without a second thought. (Paraphrasing). His profile name was "PowerAgainstTheWeak". (Paraphrasing once again so as not draw attention to him.) It sums up their consciousness quite well.

Narc walking around naked is definitely about sexual dominance and control, also lack of respect for you. Its unexoectedly introducing and forcing a sexual enviroment on you without your consent. My ex boyfriend narc used to turn up at my house to visit, ask me to put the kettle on, then without any discussion, undress and lay naked on my sofa, so that when i came out of the kitchen I'd be unexpectedly confronted by him naked on my sofa. It was a form of sexual coercion which I didnt like, as we were supposed to be going out somewhere. It made me feel like there was an obligation to engage in sex there and then! That ..that was all he'd come round for ultimately. I got sick of it happening, and he'd undress really quietly so it was always an unexpectedly shock to suddenly be confronted by him naked. Its a lack of respect.

My momma used to walk around the house naked all the time it really upset me when she did it in front of my boys which are her grandsons she has no respect and it’s disgusting I’m so glad I went no contact

@suekolliopoulou8419

24 күн бұрын

So sorry you had to endure such shameless behaviour on part of your mother To me ,she must be unstable to show her private parts to her boy grand children .

@DianaHernandez-ok1mz

23 күн бұрын

Ugh....that would gross me out.I didn't even like my mother in the bathroom while I was in there as a young girl.

@sgayle6689

21 күн бұрын

OMG ! I won't say anything, because I care about your feelings. But, thank you for sharing this. Maybe I'll just say this- The fact that you recognize this as something to turn 'away from' is heartwarming. Bless you, my dear sister ♥

@jennifersalvador1894

18 күн бұрын

Omg this my experience as well!!now I just dated a man who this as well

@HISIAM888RUHIS888

2 күн бұрын

I would put a STOP to that!!🚫😈🚫👿

Just coming out of 8 years of madness with who tuened out to be a sociopathic narcissist, the finale was extremely dramatic so I'm here trying to make sense of it all and of myself brutally honest conversations with myself and self reflection and questioning. Particularly as my previous partner was also a narcissist on a totally different level.But made me chuckle as one of his last messages to me was a photo of him naked with derogatory words about my physical appearance attached. Unbelievable the arrogance ,the disrespect the delusional belief that i am to blame for his sociopathic behaviour and actions involving others and that's not even touching on the things he did to me over the years , absolutely bizarre, ruined my life on so many levels so much disruption and damage. But still he believes i am to blame. Thankyou for this A very helpful as i am trying to process it all . Much appreciated. 🙏😊

@ChristinaFalgout-ek2jm

Ай бұрын

No doubt it’s unexplainable to anyone who hasn’t been through it all. As we cannot relay the extent of trauma and brainwashing it seems either.. it’s unbelievable how you get almost rewired then come to a realization finally and. It’s a whole new battle and set of emotional abuse,,

@heart3752

Ай бұрын

Thanks for your informative talk. My husband is a 200% Narcissist and he does walk around in his underwear with our daughters in the house.

@kirstianna5286

Ай бұрын

I'm in the same place. I realised I was conditioned to attract narc's due to having a vulnerable/covert narc mum. It's a lot to unpack at almost 40yrs old. In looking back I realise what a good child I was. I'd never ask for things I wanted. Throw away letters from school that involved anything financial. I was afraid of being a burden, guilty of being born (my mum had me at 17 - so I felt I'd made her miss out) and didn't want to contribute to my mums stress/difficulties. She did everything and no one appreciated her. As an adult i realise she went out most weekends to get drunk & I know how costly that is. Which is probably why she was so skint. Not because she had to feed & clothe her kids. As I got older and started working (a paper round at 14 & KFC at 16) I spent most on her. Spa treatments to make her feel better/appreciated/pampered. Then trips away to places she'd always dreamed of going. At 18 I got work abroad as an animator and my younger siblings suffered severely in my absence as I would take them on fun outings with my wages, skating, swimming etc. My parents used to take us on outings but it would always be stressful and my siblings would be blamed (they had different ideas, & so sibling rivalry was encouraged). I'd just be 'sulking' not engaging as I hate drama. As an adult my brother spent many years either in prison or hospital for mental health issues - my sister got into a dangerously abusive relationship and now has many resentment's towards me that has made her try/want to kill me (extreme right?) Despite my helping her whenever I could (I let her live with me to escape her abuse til she stole from me to go back to him - then she tried to burn my house down. She claims I abandoned her... I've learnt she likely has co-depency issues and borderline personality disorder. When I separated from my marriage (husband didn't marry a person with post natal depression and hated me because of it). My mum accused me of being selfish after I'd attempted suicide. I moved away to a friends place in the countryside & then found a lovely cottage in a beautiful village. Id also Found God (or God found me) and I've been healing and growing and enjoying a peaceful life until (when kids went to school & I was working again & off anti-depressants) my ex took me to court for custody. Which he lost at first. But by the 3rd and 4th attempt 6yrs later he won. He'd convinced school and LA I was very unstable, dangerous and suffering religious delusions. It was only by the grace of God that I wasn't back at square one. But my pain is amplified knowing my boys are now suffering a narc parent as the primary parent. He also has a vulnerable/covert ex who accuses my eldest son of being a bully whilst his dad refers to him as a pick or dickhead and gaslight's him as he did me. My sons now 13yrs old and has started smoking cannabis as I did around his age. My other son (almost 12yrs), who is not as opinionated often sides with the narc's rather than defend his brother. If not for my boys suffering, I'd be OK by now, but it's like the cycle never ends. I only pray it will end with my boys and they will do better than just survive. If anyone reads this and believes in prayer. Please pray for my boys. God bless and help us all. We are strong! And worthy of love and care xxx

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

We are the blame but dang did we win by leaving!

@saveyourtearsforanotherday7303

12 күн бұрын

Why we fall twice in the same pound? I am also immersed in my 2nd relationship with a narc...didn't I learn the previous lesson??

My toxic ex and his momma. Once we were going through problems and he moved back in with his mother. I came over to speak with him mind you we were married. His mom came to the door in a see through nightgown I seen her big ole black areolas. She slammed her door in my face and came back with a robe on. Then my ex comes to the door with just them old school boxes with the hole in the front. I’m like WTH, why are y’all waking around each other like that. Mind you most of our problems stemmed from his mother. She hated my guts from the first time he took me to meet her. Sick people

@jackiep5009

28 күн бұрын

Yep Narc spider mom here too. Telling him to get rid of me when we moved into the house. My mother in law started to wear makeup around my now ex

@batteredwarrior

27 күн бұрын

Gross... Yeah, my narc exe's mother hated my guts from the moment she met me because I have a chronic illness/disability.

@fitlife1205

22 күн бұрын

Big ole black areoles 😂😂😂😂

@dos1763

18 күн бұрын

Uhhhhh were they screwing eachother??

@franco2b145

12 күн бұрын

Sounds like we all had the same ex mil! 😂 I found half naked pictures of his mother in his phone that he forgot to lock! She was coming out of the shower wrapped in a towel with her breast exposed. Another one in a two-piece bikini with her leg up against the tree! She’s 62! …another one doing the fish mouth kissy mouth pose, a selfie to him.. These are just a few , all captioned: “LOOK AT ME!” 🤢🤢🤮 I confronted him even if I wasn’t supposed to have been in his phone I didn’t give a damn!

When my sister and I were young, we were walking past a car that had been pulled over to the side of the road. The occupant was pleasuring himself; which shocked and frightened both of us. It was considered illegal. We didn't have phones, though. By the time we reached a pay phone, he was long gone and we had talked ourselves out of reporting the disgusting details. My ex father-in-law exposed himself to his wife's sister and sexually assaulted my sister at my wedding. I didn't learn about it until years later.😢 My ex would use the toilet 💩 while I was bathing, despite other bathrooms being available in our house. He was addicted to pornography, too. That's why he's my ex. I'm happily married for 20 years, now. Whew! It's possible for narcissistic abuse to be a thing of the past; enforce your boundaries. ❤🙏

@flightmama3191

3 күн бұрын

Magnificent gratitude beautiful SOUL, Thank U 4 helping me. I'm out four months getting money together 4 divorce, he killed my chickens and my cat, and constantly wants my HELP after calling me hore and slut ....what a joker....I need support but the river seems to be helping me heal❤ I'm so grateful for you 🎉🎉🎉

10 seconds in and I know that this hits the nail on the head.

@r_EVOL_utionRENEGADE

Ай бұрын

I could name 5 situations regarding my ex from the top of my head that confirm this, also little children involved which is VERY disturbing. I’ve told police, social services and the court about it but it’s being dismissed as I’m the revengeful mother to them … they say I’m making this up … 🤮

You didn’t cover how immediately after literally spoiling & overwhelming the partner in bed they just distance themselves & act like nothing is there btwn u both. Probably the shame comes back after the fun of being shameless. Oh my the healing journey is 1 of the toughest ever!

@qendresaful

29 күн бұрын

Omg yes 😭they want you off of them immediately they don’t cuddle it’s so pathetic how evil and cold they are

@batteredwarrior

27 күн бұрын

It's super tough! Keep going...you will get through it! It has taken me a long time to get to where I am now and I am still in therapy.

@waraichs40

21 күн бұрын

all men feel disgusted after sex , me too 😂

I walk around naked. I make coffee every morning naked as our kids have moved out so why not. I will say I have to be very careful ironing my cloths.

@Riowestie

22 күн бұрын

That's just wierd.

@PJHEATERMAN

22 күн бұрын

@@Riowestie What's really weird is i like a good game of "Naked Twister"

@reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou

18 күн бұрын

As soon as i get home, my clothes come off and im naked. Weekends, naked. Its just comfortable🤷‍♀️​@Riowestie

Narcissists emotional development has been arrested and compromised (by early trauma etc etc, but who isn't?) and they are trapped as kids or toddlers in adult bodies, in Nature this basically makes for a biological monster. In this sense they are pathological. Let's face it: the same behaviour from a kid would be normal and accepted and can hurt but somehow it does not hurt because the the nature of the relationship and looks. The problem and torment is never outside but always within, and there are never real "problems" in life, there are just different kind of "handlings", unless we want to feel and become "victims". The narcissists are not the problem, they problem is why one is attracted and attaches and trauma bonds to them in such a way. Cannot fix anything outside of us, only inside, unless we want to play the victim, staying more stuck. The narcissist is a mirror unfortunately, one cannot blame the mirror, even if in the mirror everything is reversed, and one does not recognise oneself, because in the mirror the left is right and the right is left. The narcissist is a stepping stone, cannot blame the stone if we stumble over it. There are not victims and no blames, just new awareness and consciousness and new "Know thyself" thanks to them. Otherwise it is always a loop, small or large, but a loop and return of the same.

@kylelove927

23 күн бұрын

Very well said.

@tonimaric4867

19 күн бұрын

Typical narc no culpability​@@kylelove927

@tonimaric4867

19 күн бұрын

They also stalk you spread malignant lies about you and bully you sometimes even getting violent. Making the narcissist culpable is difficult enough without idiots like you placing blame on the victims of their unwarranted toxicity.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

A loop yes. Cycle or loop. Don’t blame a victim as some are not aware of this and do innocently enter into said realionship. Even therapist blamed the victim! It’s absurd how even educated people don’t see it so how can you blame a cult victim…cult of one? No different and anyone can be drawn in just look at last 3 years with a virus! How many people fell for that gaslighting and manipulation and goal post moving??? Rest my case

It's Grandiosity at its best. And we should all be impressed and enamored at the amazing marvel that is their nakedness. Also a very clear boundaries violation.

I had no idea that his walking around naked all the time was related, I didn’t really know what as behind it.

My ex marc wife used to walk around the house naked when her sisters or daughter were visiting our house. Embarrassed the heck out of me. Then sit on the toilet with the door open daughter at the sink putting on makeup. Weird

@anoushkamarcin

Ай бұрын

Yes that is weird and shameless 😳😳

@persiamotorman

Ай бұрын

My Sociopathic roommate did the toilet routine. An open door for the world to see. I'll spare you the details.

@ChristinaFalgout-ek2jm

Ай бұрын

I feel you,my narcs sons came and spent a few days and suddenly she Left the bed room door open (usually always closed it)when we went to bed then initiated sex and was way more verbal and at a listen to me level.. wtf huh

@Langolin1998

Ай бұрын

Oh my gosh! That was my ex (husband). Loved exposing himself….peeing outside openly, not caring who saw him. Using the bathroom with the door open. My son would come to visit and he didn’t change his behaviors for the sake of not embarrassing me. It was the opposite, he “enjoyed” embarrassing me. Very odd behaviors. Didn’t even have this great physique that “might” explain some vanity issue. No, it was a more creepy, insidious, motivation behind it.

@Nyumc99

Ай бұрын

Not weird at all . Females are comfortable with each other. They have pj parties and sleep overs together . Same bed sometimes. They are child like. Not weird though. It’s all about understanding evolutionary psychobiology. Women are not mad . They are different to men. All that needs to happen in 2024, is that the girls find tru value in themselves. The dating apps won’t allow for that sadly.

context is everything. healthy nakedness is great, but I agree it can become exceptionally toxic in an instant

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Yes!

Eleven and half months a year in the UK, it’s far too cold to walk around naked !

@anoushkamarcin

Ай бұрын

Very true !

My ex used to walk outside on sexy shorts when neighbors were outside but although I knew what she was doing I notice she was acting that way to make me uncomfortable but I just acted normal and didnt say a word. One thing for sure if you dont start a conversation they dont have anything to say. If we stop conversing the house turn into a graveyard.

@cathyh1680

16 күн бұрын

That is a good way to put it. "The house turns into a graveyard." I experienced this with most of the narcissists that I have known in my life. Sister, husband, the occasional narc friend. Sometimes they even act negatively when you try to have an interesting or just even casual conversation so they can shut it down, and they have no conversation to offer, just the graveyard experience.

@deanwilliams8129

4 күн бұрын

Must be demons,a human cant keep this up. I mean ruin every vacation ,start endless lies and situations out of the blue.

Good video. Thx for the confirmation/insight. All the best to you with your new creative platform.

god, I wasnt even allowed to wear pjs in bed,,,huuuge no no! naked parading from the ex all the time, lovemaking just had to be circus sex, kinky, new, ,,,not just comfortable togetherness, never ever

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Sounds like a friend of mine’s husband.

Excellent video, my husband and I had a brief stay at his mothers house and one day she came down into the kitchen with no underwear on and her robe was open and I was like , Patricia you have no underwear on and I was shocked . She looked and us and said this is my house and I can do whatever I want I was so embarrassed I made my husband call his brother and he called and spoke to her and she later apologized , this woman has caused major trauma for me as I have never experienced such strange bizarre behavior, just a little foot note this woman My mother in law came to my wedding we payed for her flight my husband later told me that she asked him for money to buy us a wedding gift because she apparently had none.. she is a cruel and crazy person

All the narcs I came across had no problem getting and staying in relationships 🤔

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Yep!!! Truth as they cheat because they like their cake and eat it too!! Great point!

This was very helpful! Thanks!

In multiple occasions I had to explain why walking in fornt of or standing in front of an open window while naked is not a good thing.

On the Facebook page of the narc I had fallen in love with I saw pictures of him being at a party with collegues and only him totally naked. I asked him about it but he never gave an answer that I understood. The actual first red flag. I knew he was off but I couldn’t ‘name’ it..

This is the first time I have seen or heard of anyone mention this. 3.5 years post narcissist and I’m honestly still dealing with the sexual trauma of that relationship. Not the walk around naked part. But the “weird sexual behaviour” my experience is way deeper than walking around naked! Wish the deeper aspects were more talked about.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Good points line bondage and others!!!

They're walking oxymorons inside they are riddled with shame from all the things they've done in the past. You don't have much of a conscience so to speak or empathy for what they've done but they do have anger that they express outwards. Outwardly the narcissist has no shame whatsoever. I picked up on this right away and couldn't understand the differences. Inside total shame outside no shame.

Thank you so much , I’ve been watching you for more than two years , you helped me the most in my healing process

Hé thought hé was a Superman 😂 no matter what Hé was it all... No way. Its not to laugh about it. Hé was a little boy, in a 56 year old body...

@palapalak.8907

Ай бұрын

Pathetic

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

😂😂. They are funny! I laughter at mine all the time!

I wonder how many narcissists identify as empaths. It's like defense mehanism--"I'm not a narcissist, you are which must make an empath."

True, but not all naked people are narcissists, but the reasons she outlines are valid.

CAN YOU PLEASE DO A PODCAST ABOUT FEMALE NARCISSTS? My mom did these things and thought i was her competition since i was little! thanks

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

They are the same however she should interchange men and women narcs

OMG this video describes my maniac to a T. Years of questions answered. Thank you so much.

My ex G.F would walk around naked, dress in front of me, but refuse me sex every time, or try to arrange a time that we could have sex, then make another excuse to avoid it , such as...time to feed the cats 😢 ive finally left the most dreadful time of my life .

Over a decade ago there was a Narcissist in my friend circle, and there were a few pool parties where he did shed his clothes, and it was definitely an attention seeking behavior.

My last girlfriend would walk around the house naked early in our relationship. She’d started doing it when her daughter wasn’t there. The first time she entered the common area when her 11 year old daughter was out there, was an awful feeling. Turns out she and her daughter did it all their lives together (kinda worrisome, how the will turn out later in life. Controlling, over dominant exhibitionist?) The girlfriend even told me I was allowed to do the same with them, and the daughter wouldn’t mind. No, but thanks.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Got court case! No no no!

Oh and right after I left the family home, he put a blanket on the bed that had pictures of naked women tied up with red rope in sexual bondage positions. Our 12 year old daughter was not used to my not being there and she missed me so he let her sleep in his room. In his bed with the blanket on there. Disgusting. No shame. Not one ounce of shame.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

That is CHILD ABUSE!! 🤢🤢. ID WORRY ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE!!! Many narcs sexually abuse or pedos

And it’s crazy to me they walk about naked when in my opinion that represents full exposure and vulnerability. My ex husband though would not walk outside without a tshirt and pants on. He was used to his mother walking around naked in their home even when he was a teen. And when I was with his family after he and I were married in the RV camper his mom was up and about naked. And she was 300 plus lbs or so. Gross.

Mine did this I told him to join a nudist colony, he was quite offended. Not the reaction he was looking for I am sure.

You described a person I know to a T. In fact, she shows a closeup of a fake neck tattoo on her FB profile which reads "All eyes on me"!

Anoushka is so amazing

How is being naked a narcissistic thing? We are born naked and clothing is man made and societally instigated. I am naked at home all the time, granted it’s when I’m alone but making such a blanket statement that being naked is narcissistic is just wrong.

@joanbaczek2575

27 күн бұрын

Alone is the key word alone is okay

Wow my ex used to walk around naked!!! This is so accurate!!

I pride myself on being physically fit and being naked around my lover is not something I am not ashamed of. I really like to see my lover naked as well because she has an incredible body. I'm calling your opinion off target on the nude issue.

My ex husband would walk around naked, hang out on the couch with me and his best guy friend. One time when he was sick, his mother came to stay with him and he slept naked in the bed with her!! I think she slept on top of the covers he said, but I thought it was way too strange.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Great points

I feel like i was a narcissist when i was like 17. I started smoking weed and when I would get really high (almost too high..... like scary high) i would reflect and i would change my mind about a lot of things. Now i cringe about a lot of stuff I used to do and think.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

All drug abusers are narracistic but don’t have e NPD which is cluster B personality disorder.

@KID_Ludwig

16 күн бұрын

@@Portia620 What makes you think that all drug abusers are narcissistic? I know you mean high on the narcissist spectrum but not necessarily a full blown narcissist. I'm just curious why you think they are. Because honestly, I feel like that's true, from what I've seen in my life. Many drug users are full blown narcissist.

My narc would mow the lawn in his underwear. He said that he asked all the neighbors if it was ok that he did this and told me they all agreed that it was ok. So I couldn’t tell him it wasn’t ok. 😂

@MujjuMujju-iv1en

25 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

I walked around naked in front of my daughter and now ex I'm completely the opposite of a narcissist. There's no shame in it I've just come out of an abusive relationship of 13 yrs and he was against nudity.

Your Topic on "walk around naked" is right on. 26 years of togetherness,(if you will) blue callor comes off, shower and then comes to find me in this manner, I have ignored this display knowing it feeds them, same as the comment "I walk on water, I am so perfect " Yes, divorce is in works, I self help for now, in time, when that is what I'll have, 100 % will be to clean and clear my self, to polish the silver. I rang my bell for you. I will be fine, as I WALK WITH OUR LORD GOD.

My thing is he was good at sex at the beginning during the love bombing stage. Now granted I enjoy being naked and walking around naked in my own home , alone or within safety area of my home. I am not randomly walking around the house naked and I have guest or people over. I am not walking around naked at somebody else's house or around people without their consent. Now, he did not walk around naked per say, but he would randomly pull his Peen out and just start playing with it and it would be at the moment random and downright inappropriate times. Like here I am working from home doing work and here he is in the background yanking on Peter Peen. LMAO. Just wild at times. Another thing I notice is instead of having a clean up rag or towel he would use random articles of clothing to wipe up his Peen explosions. Like dude you are using random t-shirts, underwear, hoodies, etc when you could simply get a washcloth or clean up rag and use. Now again I am not a licensed mental health professional so in reality I cannot say he was a narcissist but he did display similar behaviors.

I’ve really enjoyed this video. Thank you 🙏🏽 it’s important to separate yourself from those people, even if it’s distance cause you wouldn’t want to intercept whatever it is they got coming…and karma stays at their door

I have noticed this from a very narcissistic dysfunctional family.

The narcissist I have experienced is from south London and has been in the prisons and so listening to you is great. Thanks for sharing that your very correct and it's very rife in London

oh this is definitely a topic. my ex would always walk around naked and never wear a shirt, he would wear his button up shirts half unbuttoned like he was a 90s R&B star.. it was cringy and it was weird and I never understood it outside of thinking he was just very vain… he had a very nice body so I didn’t mind seeing him naked but his behavior was abnormal and definitely shameless when he should have had some healthy shame in all the nakedness.

And to add it’s not that they don’t care but they weren’t taught or trained as children, so they can’t foresee consequences. They have on hindsight (no accountability) no insight, or anything. But this is what happens when you don’t have a healthy parent nurturing and teaching you.

Man this thing with nudity should always be considered in the text of culture as well. You know in south countries, where there is probably sea as well we see each other naked from childhood and in general we show lots of skin due to extreme heat. People are more loose with nudity

@Joliefleur252

17 күн бұрын

Hum .. in Europe at least more you go south and less public or family nudity you will find.

Interesting! I never looked at it that way, because I love going to the sauna and always think of nakedness as a type of vulnerability. On the other hand I find farthing in public very narcissistic 😅 In a way I think it is funny, but also very disturbing. I find that uncomfortable.

Unreal thank you...hard to really imagine

Oh wow I think I know one. He was like a barrel on sticks I never understood how tf he was so confident. No ass big belly 😮 I thought it was weird but didn’t think it was a narc move. Now I realize years later this person is so nasty and evil. This just added to everything else

Well, where I live most of the gyms have showers without doors. So everybody walks around, dry the hair etc all naked. Not me, because i feel embarrassed and people think I have problems because of that. I know a lot of people who walk around the house naked and they are not narcissists.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

Context! They will not seek attention from you as the dopamine hit will wear off of them! They will seek approval from others and don’t have many friends and burn bridges!

I used to walk around naked because I was a binge alcoholic. It wasn’t like I was proud of my body or anything. I mean, I have no boobs , and it’s not like I have goddesses body. I wasn’t showing off and did not comprehend that my boyfriend just might have been interested. It ended in the action nearly every time. I don’t know why I would get naked. I am going to research this phenomenon.

You live you learn Also walking around naked in the living room - which is not a personal room like a bedroom or as private as a bathroom - could be a small, ordinary life example of being a bit careless and free from what’s socially accepted as “normal”.

My narcissistic friend, who punched me 2 years ago, jokingly boasted how he walked around naked on a hunting trip he went on. I haven't looked back !

OMG I’ve identified my mother to be a narcissist just a few years ago. I never thought about it but she walked around naked ALL the time! In front of anyone. She’s do it in front of my son, as a child and even as an adult. I found it to be so odd and distasteful. I’d literally have to tell her constantly about it as it caused us embarrassment. To no avail of course… sick 🥴🙄😬

Thanks so much 🙏🏼❤

Oh my gawd! My ex changed all the time in public when it was unnecessary or easily avoidable. Also always without a shirt even when no one else was public or otherwise. I always thought it was weird but now makes sense!

You’re hair looks nice ❤ xxx have you had it coloured Anushka xx

Ha ha, the two people i know who did this are narcs. Didnt realize there was a correlation but your explanations sum it up perfectly

i must be a narc too. i on occasion do that.

@Nyumc99

Ай бұрын

👌👏😂

@linalg10

Ай бұрын

Narcissistic Traits…We all have some…But NPD is a completely different animal. It’s about the intent. Wanting to exert dominance, get all eyes on you, intentional change peoples moods just by walking in a room w/ inappropriate or mixed company for the sole purpose of garnering attn.

@castieldiallo2945

Ай бұрын

@@linalg10 i see your point. i only do it if i am alone or if its just my girlfriend.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

No!! Context people! Are you in your yard doing this or wanting validation from others?

The title of this video jumped out at me because my narc just started doing this. We have been married for almost 20 years. It's been a loveless marriage mostly ( loveless on his part) . I loved him and actually thought that that if I showed him enough love that he would love me and we could have a good marriage. But there was No real communication about anything. When I found these videos on KZread it felt like I wasn't alone and I wasn't crazy. In order to save my sanity I went totally gray rock on him about a year ago. This marriage was sexless also. And now he has started walking around naked. A 60 year old man should not be walking around naked because it's really replusive and actually makes me want to throw up. We he does it I don't show any kind of reaction at all. It's very interesting to know that this is a narc thing.

My mother used to walk around half naked. What I mean by half naked is she’d have on a cropped T-shirt but no bottoms on! She’d order me to make her coffee!

Oh my gawd! Yes! My ex would change in public unnecessarily and purposefully when could easily avoid or change in private. I always thought that was weird , also any chance to have his shirt off even when no one else is. I never realized it was related but now it makes sense!

What walking naked by yourself got to do with being seen

That would have been a bonus in my case. She was a stunner. I could have probably put up with the nonsense if she did. It’s not hard to deal with them if you establish a parental injunction in their mind. Make that the snapshot. BUT you gotta be able to enforce your authority. If you can’t do that, get out.

@kirsikka3752

Ай бұрын

You want a child not a woman?

@MarkLupson-it6xu

Ай бұрын

@@kirsikka3752You have no perception of what NPD is. With high IQ individuals it is expressed as charming, worldly, experienced and smart. And if your accusing me of something inappropriate then your projecting. Your disrespect is noted, as is your lack of acumen. Think before you speak. Speaking recklessly in the company of men will result in adult punishment.

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

This sounds like S&M to me when you refer to parental realionships with another adult from my studies. I know some narcs may do that but not all. Adult punishment is S&M or Narracistic behavior.

@MarkLupson-it6xu

16 күн бұрын

@@Portia620 study shows that there is an element of sadomasacism related to the guilt and shame unconsciously expressed in NPD.

Yupper and this is why I put my ac on 60° especially when I know they will be in my home

true story! so proud of his body 🥴

My narcissist ex never wore underwear. I had to tell her to wear underwear when we went out and she was wearing a dress. We went to a wedding once and her and her sister were on the dance floor dancing and pulling each other's dresses up and everyone could see there coochies. Very embarassing.

@robinberry4957

2 күн бұрын

This is twisted! And alcohol cannot be an excuse. They are sisters, and it is a wedding. This is modern day Sodom and Gomorrah. - Boston, MA USA

Mine used to walk around naked all the time as well. Whether nude or panties bra. I never asked her for any of this but she would touch herself at work and in the bathrooms take naughty photos. I always wondered why at work. But yeah she was very sexual unless it came down to us. In the beginning it was ALL the time. Then she had to go to her friends at 11 at night and called me crying at 3 in the morning . She also took our 1 year old. Just odd. I didn’t agree with her going but she disrespected and went anyways. I told her I want my key back and I want you OUT of my house. She said okay no problem packed and left. Haven’t heard from her and we’re going on 3 1/2 months. I caught her cheating and talking to other men so that’s why I let her go. She went completely ghost even though we share a baby

You are 100% right. Thank you for this video! My wife is naked in front of our kids, and i think it's wrong and weird.

My bff husband did this and I came over and was like yikes!!! I was married and they were married! I stopped going over!

They are exhibitionists

@Portia620

16 күн бұрын

It all wxhibitionist are narcs. I mean maybe you shower naked in front of significant other that’s ok but wanting many your people to look at you entered the narc territory

Why did you use a double negative in the same sentence: they don't do nothing.?To some of us that is so shocking.

Yes...they want a reaction..and if you don't like it then they will put blame on you for being a prude

Mirror image!!!!

Behaviors. 👀

I am still waiting for one KZread presenter to mention the possibility of being poisoned by 'them' with a smile on their face while they serve your food, especially if they stand to gain materially from your death.

this is so ridiculous who hurt this woman 😂

My narc Never walked around naked in the 3yrs we lived together 24/7...we live on a tropical island!!

Pretty sure their disorder is rooted in shame.

I am an aware "High cognitive functioning Narcissist" ... I know that I am a Narcissist and I only see people as "Inanimate objects" to use and throw onto the scrap heap when I am finished or bored with them. Yes, I cheated on my previous girlfriend many times and then discarded her when I got sick of her... I told her we would "Stay friends" is easier to "Hoover" in the future when I need her Narcissistic supply again. I know what I am doing is manipulative and exploitative... But I simply don't care. We are a lot more common than you would imagine... I was caused by trauma in the "Development years" and a genetic predisposition towards narcissism.. The vast majority of narcissists do not know they are Narcissists... I know... But I simply don't care. I have no emotional empathy... I do however have "Cognitive" empathy ... I am very good at showing facial "Expressions" ... But the reality is I am devoid of any emotional empathy.

@desireemcnicol6155

24 күн бұрын

You also sound like a sociopath. We're you diagnosed as NPD? You say you are high cognitive functioning, but I didn't think cognitive abilities are in question for narcissists.

narcs are exhibitionists? THATS i know FOR SURE. yes they ARE. but that doesnt also means they love going naked. some like going out in a improper dressing for example. something exaggerating, or knowing that will triggers reaction to public. they are EXHIBITIONISTS. but NOT nudists. they hate nudity in reality. they want the REACTION. thats why they go out in such a appearances that will make people turn heads. something that makes them feel like "im the only one stand out, the rest of you are suckers" "i am different" "oh you just envy" etc. my idea of "modesty" is to dress the same way the common folks are on the street. right? but that wont work for narcs.

Calm down beaut. We all walk around naked whilst going in to the shower and coming out of it. The gym scenario is not the same. ! This lady just needs a hug from a solid genuine person . Keep your guard up. You know enough now. Don’t expect to get the love of your life. If you do, expect them to change. It’s all silly egocentric stuff with human intersexual dynamics in 2024. Good luck to all viewers on your own journey . X

Thank you

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