Narcissists Always Watch You
In today's video, we're exploring a compelling and often unsettling topic: why narcissists always watch you. If you've ever felt like you're under constant scrutiny or surveillance by a narcissistic individual, you're not alone. This behaviour can be confusing, intimidating, and exhausting.
Narcissists have a deep need for control and validation, and one of the ways they maintain this control is by keeping a close eye on those around them. Whether it's through social media monitoring, constant check-ins, or subtle forms of surveillance, their goal is to ensure that their influence remains unchallenged and their ego constantly fed.
In this video, we'll dive into the psychological reasons behind this behavior, the tactics narcissists use to watch and control you, and how it impacts your mental health and freedom. We'll also offer practical tips on how to protect your privacy and set boundaries effectively.
Join us as we unravel the complexities of narcissistic behavior and empower you with the knowledge to reclaim your space and peace of mind. If you find this content helpful, don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful discussions. Let's get started!
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:46 Why narcissists tend to stalk you
02:32 Validation and attention
04:12 Insecurity and fear of abandonment
05:07 Paranoia and distrust
05:51 Need for superiority
06:53 Manipulation and gaslighting
07:37 Jealousy and possessiveness
08:38 Conclusion
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They can Watch all they want ,THE DOOR IS SHUT CLOSED FOREVER 💥
beware of narcissistic neighbours pointing high tech camera or monitoring/listening systems into your house
@vootamu1
Ай бұрын
It's all part of the persecution that goes along with the Kabbalistic beast system that we are living in.
@JacK-qn4zh
Ай бұрын
I had a neighbor yeas ago who had listening systems. She knew stuff she had no way of knowing!! Thank God I moved
Only a „super empth" can solve this easly: 1) A super empath has a strong sense of awareness by questioning them wihout fear, they call them out 2) A super empath sees through a narcissist's mind games, 3) A Super empth break a narcissist ego by pointing out their insecurities, 4) A super empath doesn't take anything personally because of arrested kid stuck in adult's body, 5) A super empath fight with narcissist real hard because they have a strategy. They know the predictable behavior.
That is why the recommendation is to become silence and invincible for at least a year. To recover and find your real own me and don’t give the narcist any possibility to know what you are doing
My ex has been watching me. Last week he broke my garden furniture and left a note, past thursday i found a dead mouse on my doorstep and today i was moving and hes seen my belongings in my friends car and kicked the rear bumper off. Im now in my new home with a new phone number, new email, new everything and all hes got to look forward to is jail for 10 years with no visitors.
My narcissistic father in law would always “drop by “unannounced . Drew a boundary with him but then he would drop a “present” by . I cut that tactic off too by boundaries, it wasn’t taken well. A month later my mechanic found an apple tag on my car. He earlier talked about buying apple air tags for a travel trip …
@Thisdudehere-e6n
Ай бұрын
That is scary. Your partner needs to talk to him.
Too true. While so called ”in the relationship”, he would feel free to ignore me, not follow through on a plan, etc. But he also lived within view of my car. So, had I actually felt like talking with him, I could just drive away and within minutes my phone would ring with him questioning where I went! It was bizarre.
@fifilafleur5555
Ай бұрын
I dated a creep like this who I suspect put a tracking device on my car. He would turn up out of nowhere wherever I was. He told me if I tried to date anyone else he would show up and cause trouble. I finally had to get the police involved to get rid of the creep. Just a real scumbag…
@markh4926
Ай бұрын
@@fifilafleur5555 I'm a guy and have been able to spot a male narc fairly easy. I'd lived with a narc wife for 22 years so I started listening to these videos and watching and learning. I could have saved one girl a lot of trouble, but it was a group setting and I wasn't asked to get involved. Would you get upset if I got between you two and said something? I've asked this question before and never got a clear answer. Let me know if you would.
@dougdeepdown
Ай бұрын
Ooh...best to avoid the "karpman triangle" @@markh4926 in my experience. But I get you. To see it and not get involved is a toughie 💯
@dougdeepdown
Ай бұрын
I see it in Addiction groups a lot. AA CA Etc
I agree with what you are saying, and it did happen in the past, but it is not happening now. They don't like being out of control, so they cut their losses and leave. These particular family members really don't have anything to do with us. I don't actually consider them part of the family any more, and the revolving door has turned into a door that locks. GOODBYE!!!
Update: the grandiose narcissist who broke my heart is trying to enter my life again, after 4 months of strict no contact that I imposed. Why? Because he saw another man flirting with me (another selfish, not really nice man, also).. Because he now knows that I am over him. Of course, thanks to your videos, I have healed, he cannot influence or convince me for anything and I know what this is all about. It's sad that most charming men in my country are spoilt, narcissistic and players. I can spot them now. Thank you.
That's why you make them so scared they don't come near you.
He will have a hard time, I haven’t gone on Social media
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
That’s good that he won’t. Be aware of mutual friends or common acquaintances
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
Ай бұрын
That's the plan for me to get off of phone for a while
@ainahaga
Ай бұрын
Im working on to not go on social media. But its like I feel the pull and feel when he puts out a new picture. When I saw him and was with him in the end he looked old and I looked so young and beautiful. I was amazed and he also looked soooo young when with me it was insane. He will never ever forget me ever!
Anoushka it's like they live in a FRENZIED STATE ! NON STOP !
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
YES 🙌 this is very true 😊
As a child survivor of a nasty covert upbringing in narcissism you seem to me to have a good grasp of what narcissism entails. I am very glad of the work you are doing to bring this personality disorder to peoples attention. Many thanks
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
Imagine wasting your own time and days/years of your life on voyeuring others to the point of compulsion. There is no way someone is truly happy with their own self,life -deep down. It would be sad if it wasn’t so disturbing.Believe it or not? There are those who are at it on a daily basis. Mind blowing.
This begs (what appears to be the even deeper) question... why is the predatory narcissist even watching you in the first place?? Is it due to insecurity... envy... jealousy??🤔
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
Because they feel that they own you so they are entitled to do so 😮
@m0jomm835
Ай бұрын
@@anoushkamarcinto seize u up too mentally if u r still vulnerable and to able to feel they can still mentally dominate you again…which allows them to feel they’re still superior to u and u r still their puppet 😂😂who knew these lunatics even existed in the first place weak people with inner dark emptiness these people r posssesed by smthg dark saw with my own eyes the full dark black widened pupils in the eyes 👀
@123weedave
11 күн бұрын
Pathological envy, they have a complex rooted in their own indignation and 'social justice'. Theirs is a vindictive sense of spiting the good life to reconcile themselves with their own intolerable inner rage. Cain kills Abel..
Fact! It's so sick.
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
Ай бұрын
Yes it is
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
YES 😢
Another brilliant, useful video. Great work!
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
Relocating for me will finally end the off and on for 8 years. Its been 4 weeks since las t breakup. She is giving me silent treatment now. She has popped up a few times unexpectedly 😮
Narcissist tried to love bomb me, second time we met, she was rude and disrespectful, even tried to make me jealous. Told me to call her later to go for a coffee, and when the time came, just came up with pathetic excuses, saw her again a few months later and the same thing, leading me on, only to reject me later on - I just got fed up of her games and ignored her from then on, they are morons really!!!!!
@Florence-zg1mc
Ай бұрын
Lmfao I set mine up to meet and never showed. Felt good to be honest. Then gave her a taste of her own medicine by replying 2 weeks later to her rage filled texts about being stood up by changing the subject.
@dcikaruga
Ай бұрын
@@Florence-zg1mc Yep, they can do it to you, but they can't stand it when it's the other way around. Knew one guy that set it all up, showed her these plane tickets, and said the trip was all on him, then sold them on. She went to the air-port and started calling him, he kept making excuses instead, then turned the phone off, he was sitting at home all the time. 😁
Yes I feel its a interruption as passed experiences show they have no strength to communicate they get off on the silent treatment
Anoushka is a intelligent, beautiful slavic woman with class! Greetings 😘
@ericjackson-nq4hp
Ай бұрын
Hella Ethical as well!
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🫶🫶
@mmm091000
6 күн бұрын
Probably Slavic parents, south of England accent 😂 she helps so many.
I stopped ruminating a long time ago. Its been 4 years and i moved on a veryyyy long time ago
I'm no longer in the relationship I'm no contact at all I've relocated and moved away. How can she still view my life and stalk me? No longer possible is it? I'm out of the Web 🕸️ Thats 8 months ago. Havent heard a thing. No messages No contact Shes vanished from my life. Its over shes in the past. Shes no control over me So its victory over the narc 💪👋👍🏻🙂
Maybe I'm naive, but I moved far away, went totally dark!!!!
Hi Anoushka! A while back I joined your live & asked a question about why they suddenly stop watching? Well, you were right! They always come back and watch! He’s watching from a third party website now. 😂😂 This is crazy! I am thinking of changing my business page to a private account. But I don’t want to provoke a drive by my house😩😩😩😩 Any tips?
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
Thank you for your question… I would suggest not making you business page private because it won’t serve your business well. Perhaps a malware device or software that blocks third party interactions. Ask in a computer shop if there is something that can block these types of website. I know there is software that can do that. But don’t know the name of it. In time it won’t bother you that he is watching 👀 he just likes to keep an eye on what you’re doing.
@beautifulstrandz5524
Ай бұрын
@@anoushkamarcin thanks for the tip!
I just ended a 2 month relationship with a narc I think she was starting to actually make a narc in some ways
I was wondering when she'd show up again. Two weeks ago she popped up in my AA zoom meeting. At first, she wouldn't allow her video feed but the next meeting she did. She immediately began trying to control me although I was in control of the meeting as secretary. She was catching my eye and I'm wondering if she will make a move. I think she is somewhat afraid of me because I told her to go away when she started yelling at me one day. We shall see.
Anoushka, can you also make video's on : avoidants. the dismissive and fearfull avoidants.
How can they if they have purposely blocked you everywhere??
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
They have ways … it’s very easy to create fake accounts and watch social media accounts anonymously
They are sickos
I'm overly tired of them and their weirdo behavior, it's boring and pointless. I don't see why people doubt themselves when they know narcissists are crazy. How can people be so fragile to the point of not trusting themselves. I'm always going to trust me over a narc.
They really seek seek people I know she has been watching me even confront my new relationship. Is all abaut control. We feeling really traiting you. Be aware what is around you. In my case I been involved with Lauraine. I wish the family is a cult really dangerous people. Walk away from them DANGEROUS
omfg...i cleared my socials, started anew and she smears my name by calling me the stalker! i said "f-it" and "f-her with her rebound" i had already quit painscrolling months ago not my issue her family's dying-it's NO CONTACT-use your new supply for support! (sorry if some find that a bit callous after a 12+ year marriage-i missed so many other funerals being with her)
What if they put a restraining order on you?
@user-xe4qb9pv1c
Ай бұрын
They’ll break it
Is ppv atm 😂 jk as long no interference, bus throwing, threats and targeting. I’ll be back
Didn't all women do these things
@anoushkamarcin
Ай бұрын
No