I fall in love with this man every time he opens his mouth. He is just so so good from any point of view you look. Funny, exceptionally intelligent, very articulate and most of all - super balanced human being. I would make him ruler of the universe, and I am not joking

@amandadexter1689

3 ай бұрын

Good to know I'm not the only one who feels that way! That level of intelligence = 🫠😍

Alain is the best living philosopher! I love him!!!!

what a mature, balanced, considered lecture - thanks

The complexity of the human condition is utterly big.. We even have no capacity to begin to understand ourselves! Its both scary and reassuring

Listening is 'empathy in action'. Something I've learned.

I love Alain”s teaching!!❤

love this so much. huge fan and admirer of alain de boton. so calming

What Alain talks about here in such a convincing way is a wonderful key to a less troubled, more flexible and more enlightened life. The world would be so different if this was knowledge more generally 'out there' and if we all understood the significance of challenging the rigid distortions, denials and unwritten rules our childhood left us with!

I feel extremely lucky to be there bathing in his presence. Listening him was such a soothing experience. Can't wait to read his signed copy of his new book. A therapeutic Journey. looking forward to listen him agian in the future. Thanks to How to Academy Mindset to make it possible.

@realbobbyaxel

8 ай бұрын

were you there in that auditorium? wow

@Pratikphago

8 ай бұрын

@@realbobbyaxel yeahhh!!! I was there. It was held at Emmanuel Centre near Westminster abbey. One thing I found appealing was his modesty - such a charismatic display of simplicity.

@realbobbyaxel

8 ай бұрын

@@Pratikphago Happy For You. I am a fan of his but I have never been lucky enough to see him. I wish I can see him in the future.

@realbobbyaxel

8 ай бұрын

By the way would you mind sharing... What was it like to go to that auditorium. How were the people like. What was the vibe. How did you guys get to know about the event, etc.

@Pratikphago

8 ай бұрын

@@realbobbyaxel Thank you so much with all my heart! You must see him next time. To tell you I had no clue which topic he was going to venture into, honestly. I was just too excited to see him and be there, but it went beyond my anticipation. He mostly talk about childhood, parenthood and trauma etc etc.. He was witty and made funny remarks🤗 I had googled it a couple months earlier and bought ticket. Hope I’ll see you in his next talk.

So many people say they are 'easy going'...I think to myself more like 'deluded' 😂

Love this video. Very insightful ❤🍀✨

Deepest gratitude for your dedication to mental health. I’ve found your teachings to be invaluable. I will buy your book and spread the words. Tess, LPCC in New Mexico, US

"The ghosts of the mind" 💡

I wonder whether we are putting so much pressure on parents, in a cruel incomprehensible world , that there is just no way we can ever get it right.

At weekend dinner parties Alain describes himself thus, " Hi, I'm Alain, a philosopher" Even Socrates and Plato would show a little more humility.

@sylviatochimaduka679

2 ай бұрын

Why do you want him to be humble by defining himself as something other than he is?😂

Allain, as usual, a great pleasure to listen to you (I am partially sighted and cannot read now). If you ever need anothe "guinea pig" I have plenty to discuss with you ref my life (not a extraordinary one, but with plenty of issues to explore. Thanks again. Mayte (MFL tutor)

I love it.

such an amazing lecture! thank you❤

Elite - thank you for your knowledge and inspiration!

Brilliant, engaging and relatable ❤

Alain is an amazing psychotherapist! Thank you for all your research and teaching us about childhood trauma and relationships. You are the best!

@triptripnow4314

4 ай бұрын

He is not a psychotherapist, he's a philosopher :)

and would you please have a BSL interpreter help to have subtitles for Deaf society as we are also in need?

ok, i'm quite severely mentally ill according to his definition, good to know, i can't get out of it though. it's literally impossible for me not to think of these things

Why did you take down my comment? Do you want me to make a longer report?

@esterhudson5104

2 ай бұрын

Sometimes the algorithm takes it down when there’s nothing in common with the subject at hand. and no, they just want you to get a life.

Recap , mental health issues are common, temporary and or permanent, fragile beings, childhood environment factors.Why? Brain is undeveloped then wired by reacting to the environment .

Smug certainty packaged to sell books?

Too many jolting tripwire ads cutting in. I will avoid this channel for that reason & will listen to him thru other means.

reminds me of a comment that the British think that optimism is some kind of eye disease

Adverts stopped me from watching

I chose to be childfree at 16. I end the suffering right there lol.. the more I listen to the more I feel right about my decision. The shit you have to go through and the effort you put in just to live on .. not worth it.. most kids should have been born.

Thanks for the lecture But Sir, please TURN COMMENTS OFF. There are too many egos who having listened to your enlightening lecture, then immediately feel a need to hijack, copy, paste quotes or give their evaluation blah. blah blah. We all should SHUT UP, and just listen, absorb and go quietly reflect/contemplate upon what was shared. At least before we open our mouths etc.

crazy and insane are very different...OMski

The problems with this trouvaille of thoughts is that they cannot or nearly cannot be demonstrated to be wrong. It always fits, the story always fits no matter what. If a story cannot be falsified it ceases to be science. It may be art, therapy, philosophy or psychiatry: but it is not science what Alain de Botton is teaching us.

@realbobbyaxel

8 ай бұрын

you seem to miss the point

@littlesometin

7 ай бұрын

nobody claimed it was science, it would be utterly ridiculous to rely just on science to understand things and get through life that way, good luck with that

@user_user1337

7 ай бұрын

@@littlesometin oh, if it is not science, therefore makes no claim to validity, I am not the least bit interested in it. Others may be into gods, fairies, unicornology, and what if scenarios, not me, just interested in reality.

@littlesometin

7 ай бұрын

@@user_user1337 Logical positivism is dead, dude. The world has moved on. I'm not going to debate a positivist in the comments.

@user_user1337

7 ай бұрын

@@littlesometin "I'm not going to debate a positivist in the comments." Well, people might think you already DID. Truth is truth, no matter what the period. I am not going to move on from Capital-T Truth.

He was asked about anger and gave a poor, rambling reply. There needed to be a follow up by the questioner to discuss and clarify but he just moved on to the next questioner. Unfirtunately he is no expert on these matters tho he knows something about them.

@esterhudson5104

2 ай бұрын

Then why don’t you tell us about it.

I think de Boton should stay with philosophy. His venture into psychotherapy might seem like the logical next step in his career, but it feels like sleight of hand to me. I wouldn't consult him under any circumstances. Hubris knows no bounds.

Here’s my biggest concern, first off, he recommends therapy every two weeks. My question is for how long? Also at my age that shit is expensive, espescially if I don’t want a run of the mill therapist either. This is hard to actually put into practice, which is his point I know that, but I’m saying practically speaking it’s hard.

Put a bunch of waffling crap waste of time.

@hmmcinerney

7 ай бұрын

So you didn’t understand it then?

I have said sooo many of these things to clients over myvlife time. And had ooodles of therapy but still effing struggling. 🫣 Ah well.. one foot, other foot...