Remaining bit: I've been learning a lot and hired some experienced professionals to help run things. The pressure from my aunts and uncles asking for money just made everything even more stressful. After a lot of thought, I decided to cut them off. I blocked their numbers and stopped responding to their messages. Now, my parents are furious with me, saying that I'm being selfish and that family comes first. They think I should at least help out my aunts and uncles a little bit. I don't know what to do with all this money and the business. I want to use the inheritance wisely, make sure the business thrives, and ensure everything lasts. I was thinking about investing, maybe expanding the business, or putting the money towards my education and future. But now, I'm second-guessing myself. Am I being an A-hole for cutting off my family like this? Should I be helping them out with the money and business my grandfather left me?

@raymondbaltimore383

2 күн бұрын

Not the AH

@livanaluna

Күн бұрын

If grandpa wanted to give some of his money to the aunts and uncles he would've. Must be a reason why he didn't leave them anything so NTA

NTA. DON'T GIVE THEM A SINGLE PENNY. Your grandfather didn't leave them anything for a reason! They only see you as a bank account and so do your parents.

NTA. The moment family starts seeing you as Only a ATM and not a member of the family is the Second they Loose you all together.

If your grandfather wanted them to have it he would have left it to them. Honor your grandfather and keep them blocked. Your parents should be helping you with the business, if not they can kick rocks too.

NTA- DO NOT GIVE THEM A PENNY. Your grandpa left that money to you for a reason. Maybe help them out with an interest free loan to pay off some of their bills and let's see how they'll treat you afterwards. If things don't change well at least you found out by losing a few thousands not millions

Money changes everything.

No

I do t blame you wanting to use it wisely, and not falling for sob stories. But the college funds… that one might actually be a good idea Set up some kind of account only the children could reach with enough to cover tuition when they graduate(and only if they graduate high school) can they reach the money, with strict intent for school. It’s really really expensive nowadays, if nothing else it will be better than you sitting on it for a few years unable to really make a strong choice with it .. surely tuition out of 8 figures wouldn’t hurt.

Nta. Respect your Grandfather wishes. If he cut them out of the will he had his reasons. Don't let exploit your kindness.

So bro earned more than a billion Daym

@v0n12z

6 күн бұрын

8 figures is in the 10 millions youre a few orders of magnitude off lol

@Mi-o1

6 күн бұрын

@@v0n12z ah right sorry math isn’t really my strong suit lol

Yes you should be helping them out. Right out the door

Reinvest the money into the business and your education. If the family needs a loan, make a contract that is legally binding with pay back terms, otherwise you’re just an ATM who “should support family”. Family are the first people to take everything you have, because they want it. If your grandfather had meant for any of them to have the money and business, he would have stipulated that in his will.

Nta

no. theyre there fo4 the money, they dont give a fuck about you or that your family.

Ask them how much they want and then give them 5% of that amount. You will have helped them and not spent all that you inherited. If they whine that it isn’t enough then tell them to give it back. I bet they take the 5% amount and walk away. If you give them money or not you will hear plenty of grumbling so learn to turn a deaf ear to their demands.

You know at some point with that kind of f u money. U have to give some of it away. Not particulary to family members still. Nta

Yeah, help then out

@professorrosenstock5026

7 күн бұрын

No, there was a reason he didn't will them anything.

@kathreencaywood4258

7 күн бұрын

Oh look it’s one of the relatives 😂

@grim9820

6 күн бұрын

@@kathreencaywood4258BAHAHAHAHAHAAH

@userjwny04

6 күн бұрын

No that is disrespecting the deceased and grandpa put only op in the will for a reason so they should suck it up and cry about it