If a woman hates prenups, NEVER fall for the lie that "you're gambling that our marriage will fail." She is ABSOLUTELY planning divorce before marrying

@Joe-gl8sr

8 ай бұрын

Especially when the deck is already stacked in her favor… why would she want to sign a doc that says how she will be taken care of when the courts will totally screw the guy??

@jeffreycfmok

8 ай бұрын

word

@dansemacabre6515

8 ай бұрын

@@Joe-gl8sr And prenups are being ignored & thrown out by judges at an exponentially increasing rate. Contract law is nonexistant these days

@moleahy6880

8 ай бұрын

By insisting on the prenup she is doing the exact same thing, gambling that the marriage will fail.

@123pb

8 ай бұрын

@@dansemacabre6515 Incorrect: It depends on how and when it was signed. Child support and alimony are big issues. You gotta pay something bro

"I'm not dependent on a man." Yet they expect the man to pay for almost all of the bills. Make it make sense.

@FazeParticles

7 ай бұрын

it makes sense if you believe in equality between women and men. it doesn't make sense if you know women are not really adults in their state of mind.

@ericb7776

6 ай бұрын

So strong and independent !!!!

@manifest2203

6 ай бұрын

It is not about being dependent. It is about being compensated for the work women do in relationships. Most men don’t add any value to the woman other than money. But women offer lot more value than money.

@ericb7776

6 ай бұрын

​@@manifest2203Protection. Emotional support. Leadership. Men offer plenty. Women just take it for granted. Hopefully the babies are his.

@ndhtyu

6 ай бұрын

​@@manifest2203do you even live in this world? Women don't bring any value to a man besides sex. Once a kid is older than 5 or 6 years old, the father becomes more important than the mother

Men marry for Love; Women marry for their own financial interests. Mic Drop.

@lavender123u

3 ай бұрын

But majority of yall cheat

@markuchiha7737

3 ай бұрын

Straight fact

@swadey2.017

3 ай бұрын

@@lavender123uMajority of men cheat, but all women cheat period

@manzchello4752

2 ай бұрын

@@lavender123uBecause married women, let themselves and their libidos go out the window. Giving a man the feeling he’s in a chastity belt that argues a lot after awhile. Marriage is bad for men.

@jetcrews97

Ай бұрын

Exactly

Modern marriage: he's in love, she's in business!

@starseedenergy8069

Ай бұрын

Do you think it’s a good idea even if you have nothing to lose?

@alkirk-ws4co

27 күн бұрын

@@starseedenergy8069 no..and yet again hell no.

@starseedenergy8069

27 күн бұрын

@@alkirk-ws4co why exactly?

@alkirk-ws4co

27 күн бұрын

@@starseedenergy8069 Due to the simple fact of the severely one sided family courts, the fact that divorce can ruin you financially. The fact of the Divorce Rates are astronomical and 75-80% of Divorces are filed BY WOMEN. The shear dogshit that is NO Fault Divorce. The risks FAR outweigh the SLIM nigh on non-existent benefits there are for a man to marry, EPECIALLY in the west. In short in this modern era, Marrying is equivilant to betting your entire financial future in a casino. And yeah sure there are the occassional 'winners', but 9 times out of ten the House( In this case the woman/Big Daddy Govt) always win. And then there is all the BS and Drama you need to put up with in the dating scene. To put it simply, though it's been said already to many times to count now. "The Juice just ain't worth the squeeze.'

@Chaddron

10 күн бұрын

Its A Binding Contract With Women &> (State/Gov)~ 2Break Men~ When She Wants 2Break Contract She Cheats & Makes The Man Pay 4Life~ They Are Now Using Marrieges 2Turn Men In2 Cuckolds 2Now ~ Cause The Man Can't Just Leave Easily When She Out Cheating Now😂

We can’t have a backup plan. But they CAN 🤦‍♂️🤡

@KillingBlow1

8 ай бұрын

You aren't supposed to block my attacks pikachuface

@markumoeder

7 ай бұрын

The only backup plan a man has is prison in this current government situation at least you aint dead or a slave to the system , maybe in prison you dtill could be a slave with their policy's, this could've be the next phases of the plan.

@robertjones7327

6 ай бұрын

Welcome to the “patriarchy”

@AmillJaime-ub3lc

6 ай бұрын

Prenup are legal marriage contract.

@jeroldparker7766

6 ай бұрын

@@robertjones7327 And then there is reality, the matriarchy! Better make we keep it a secret right girls?🤥😉

Women, for the most part, want the wedding, not the marriage ...they don't want to be wives.

@TheHerc1932

8 ай бұрын

Facts. That's why they celebrate divorces.

@bengsynthmusic

8 ай бұрын

And why is that?

@stephane1623

8 ай бұрын

You forgot to put “some”

@snipe-won

7 ай бұрын

This a bar right here! FACTS!!!

@ntobekonovukuza804

7 ай бұрын

They want the wedding and the title of being married but they could give a fvck about being a wife, being married gives them status to other women and society that's why they want that title so bad.

If a woman hates prenups, then DON'T GET MARRIED TO THAT GIRL.

@gauge6513

23 күн бұрын

They are worthless. Prenups are another waste of mens money

It's amazing how men understand women better than they understand themselves.

@Gus375

3 ай бұрын

We have to..

@user-pl7bk5bx4j

3 ай бұрын

oh they understand themselves which is why they pretend to be something else they themselves can't even face or be outwardly proud of who they truly are sadly because some simps fall for it, they place their bets and perpetuate the facade until they hook a guppy

@zeusx6479

24 күн бұрын

Only minority of men understand women, and those are called players

"If you want a prenup you expect it to fail." Sounds so much nicer than "If she refuses a prenup, she plans to harvest it."

@jeroldparker7766

6 ай бұрын

= bad news, she was spinning, with zero accountability, and it was on purpose.

@justhomas83

6 ай бұрын

@@jeroldparker7766 Very true indeed. It's a racketeer at this point and time. Women are selfish by nature don't get screwed over because she says I love you.

@sshreddderr9409

4 ай бұрын

easy answer: Im not expecting it to fail, Im making sure Im safe in case it fails. But I would take any hint of opposition to it as proof of her thinking about my money, but I would never puy myself in a position where I am not in control anyway, so no marriage period, and also not cohabitation in a state or country with that common law bs. if a woman doeant accept an arrangement where you hold the power, she is planning to screw you over.

@user-tm2uc1pf4i

4 ай бұрын

Plan B is the court system for a women

I was married and lost it all to an ungrateful woman. Never in my life will i ever be stupid enough to say I do. To hell with marriage.

@Empathy_17

6 ай бұрын

Hope you were able to recover emotionally and financially

@blacklyfe5543

6 ай бұрын

Should've gotten a prenup

@maxpyn8120

6 ай бұрын

Was it comon law ? Or did you marry in court

@gordocarbo

5 ай бұрын

@@blacklyfe5543 Those dont work these days. They can take your money get a better lawyer and youre paying them ea month to screw something else. If only divorce laws were equal....which lawyers will never allow to happen

@blacklyfe5543

5 ай бұрын

@gordocarbo I wanted to get married when I was younger and still do but I don't know if I should get a prenup or if I should move outside of the country and get married.

One girl said "As long as I get the engagement ring and the wedding ring and the destination wedding" than I'm okay...RUN from her! She is clearly marrying a lifestyle and not the man. Geez... The more you listen the more it is clear, there is no reason to marry these women of today.

I know a guy that built a house himself on a nice piece of land overlooking the river in the mountains..met a women afterr it was done married her two to three years later. She filed for divorce after 3 yrs. The judge gave her the house and the land and alimony and child support. The man couldnt afford and apartment had to move back into moms house. Tell me how that is fair and right

@FredericFreedom

4 ай бұрын

😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

​@@FredericFreedomBro there are way more scary stories than this.

@randyroebauch1466

2 ай бұрын

I think the scary part is nobody ever tells you the real reason of the divorce. They cite like infidelity, we had a lot of differences or that the man had “anger issues”, what’s anger issues? Cause they argued ?

@JoseDiaz-pn7tw

3 сағат бұрын

So that makes it better?​@nananyantakyi1549

I worked for a law firm criminal and civil for over 15 years, the fact that, the women mentions specifics on common law marriage raises a HUGE red flag for me, she knows that she doesn't need to be legally married to receive support and in certain states if the man and woman can not come to an agreement a judge will settle everything just as if you were legally married with a marriage license, and i am still waiting on just 1 benefit for a man to get married..

@jryo8220

7 ай бұрын

You know the female attitude. The benefit is husband gets access to her Va/JJ instead of the other men she doesn’t want to entertain. (For the moment) Lol

@wtf1231122

7 ай бұрын

Shes a nitwit; she thinks shes more intelligent than she is

@whodat84

7 ай бұрын

There is ZERO benefit for a man(especially a high value man) to get married in America

@fightsims1252

7 ай бұрын

They all know the laws. Men have been the fools.

@ericb7776

6 ай бұрын

The benefit is showing her you really love her and trust her. Be a real man and get married. Give her a big wedding too. Sincerely, simps and women

This is the latest movement starting recently , for the next 2 years ALL men need to do this: 1) do not get married 2) Do not have kids 3) Do not live with them ….if all men follow this I guarantee you that society, government and courts will change. We need to do this..its not hard, 24 months!!!

@Dejusticed

7 ай бұрын

Just don’t marry any women in the west period. Marrying my Filipina wife was the best decision I could make. Watching these western 305’s shows me everyday that I couldn’t have made a better decision. My lady doesn’t argue with me, cooks, cleans, hell she puts toothpaste on my toothbrush. She puts lotion on my body and on my face, every dang day. She has breakfast and coffee ready for me when I wake up. She lays my work clothes out for me. She takes it every single night, I don’t even have to ask for it. Sure she has high standards for me, and she 100% expects loyalty. Filipinas are fiercely loyal, and she gets extremely jealous and expects 100% loyalty back. But she does everything I ask and never questions my decisions. Best decision of my life fellas

@kastelvetro1491

7 ай бұрын

dont forget the last one= only date dutch. no free dates, women work, women buy their own food and drink, stop sponsering free meal job interviews for mooches its the cleanest way to live, do you buy your actual male friends salads to treat your right? stop the sponsering for adult kids.

@brucesorensen3224

7 ай бұрын

If all men would do this ,that would send a loud message

@derekhollars8985

7 ай бұрын

It's going to take a hell of a lot longer than 2 years brother there are millions of simps out here in all forms shapes and sizes. This society will only continue to rot

@anonymoususer1824

7 ай бұрын

Too many simps out there. They just can't help themselves.

I'm currently in process of diverce, father of a austistic kid, I am trying my best to work things out. Its always what she wants, not whats best for the kids. Absolutly dont get married, these women are completley selfish and dislusional.

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

True, they dont even care about the kids

There is absolutely no benefit no matter what state you live in whether you have children or not! The deck is completely stacked against men!

@kevingouldrup9265

4 ай бұрын

That's why you never live with a woman!

The eight states with common law marriage are: 1. Colorado 2. Iowa 3. Kansas 4. Montana 5. New Hampshire 6. South Carolina 7. Texas 8. Utah This women was capping hard.

@misterjay85

7 ай бұрын

In states like California a woman can go to court and have her former partner barred from his own house until her assets are catalogued. Only a damn fool would want to deal with that bullshit. Don’t cohabitate.

@peterharrell7305

7 ай бұрын

"I'm entitled to your shit" is all I heard.

@klash85

7 ай бұрын

Yup, I live in Texas and never lived one. Just go out and fuck afterwards. Lmao

@crunchy_dad

7 ай бұрын

South Carolina is the only one that punishes women committing adultery. Just don't marry.

@icbm502

7 ай бұрын

Yep, that's some states (what I already knew) not "most states" like this woman was confident in her statement.

When a female starts spouting facts about commonlaw or any other law for that matter - please dont take her word for it no matter how much confidence and conviction she speaks with - do your own due diligence and fact check 99/100 you will find the reality to be different.

@Greybeardmedic

8 ай бұрын

I would have called out BULL SHIT right then and there. She was following her "FEELINGS" not facts.

@metaLungiez

8 ай бұрын

I expect better from Erudite, she's smart and she fact checks so I think she was being intentionally misleading and I say that as a semi fan of hers. Not a good look 😢

@Lichor2369

8 ай бұрын

I know Texas has common law after 8 years but tbh don't know about any other states.

@johnmaddern3519

8 ай бұрын

wise words

@anon7596

8 ай бұрын

Nah bro in Texas that shit is REAL.

“The divorce is planned before the wedding.” Always remember that.

Men: I want Marriage Women: I want Wedding

@jean-louislalonde6070

6 ай бұрын

Women: I want wedding and your money.

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

Women:I want wedding, divorce, Alimony and child support for kids that may not be yours.

@jean-louislalonde6070

4 ай бұрын

But hey, she's fighting the evil patriarchy!@@nananyantakyi1549

@Chaddron

10 күн бұрын

Social Media Pics 4 Attention & Likes ~ & Like Dude Said Above Child$upport 4Kids That Not His 😂

The more i listen to this the more i can tell that marriage really doesnt benefit us men. Tbh, we men really dont need that contract crap.its all for these women

@alesul2007

7 ай бұрын

As a divorced man I can tell you that it's definitely not worth it. And I'm lucky in the sense that it didn't cost me money to divorce but the emotional toll it takes when someone you love with all your heart and plan to spend your life with decides one day that she is too good for you and wants a divorce, is horrible. It makes you not be able to trust anything coming from a woman's mouth when the same woman just a few years before was telling you she loves you more than life and would stay with you even if she has to eat rocks only to betray you at the 1st sign of financial difficulty.

@toddjohnson271

7 ай бұрын

And government. They can ruin men with the contract.

@KR-jg7gc

7 ай бұрын

Keep listening😂

@usernamena2324

7 ай бұрын

​@@alesul2007Sorry to hear about that bro. That sucks. I'm from the other side of the spectrum. To keep it short, it was worth it for me. To see my legacy in front of me makes it worth it. But I would never take anything serious from these females on the show.

@jeffjohnson5053

7 ай бұрын

I work for the local county office. Reviewing the marriage records. The average women gets married and divorced 3 times in her life time. There are some women who marries and divorces 7 times in their life time. Marriage is a business venture for western women. You all are free to go to your local county office ask the clerks for yourself. The days of women staying with men for 50 plus years are LOOOOOOOOOOONG GONE!! ..Look around you, does western women respect men?? Of course Not! The democrats has passed too many laws that favor women, and gives her MORE benefits if she divorces than stay married. When she files for divorce, she will automatically get the house, the cars, your money, all the government programs, custody of the kids. Why should she ever want to stay married, and if she is mean, like many women, she will lie in court and say you were abusive, you molest children, you use drugs. Then the men will be in jail for a very long time. The amount of POWER western women have is un-believeable. ...This is why many men marry foreign women. Foreign women are humble and maintenance free like Honda cars. Don't say no one told you so. Don't say no one warned you so.

There are currently eight states that recognize common law marriage: Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah. Each of these states has its own specific rules for recognizing common law marriages. All other states do not allow or recognize "common law" marriages. So, the young lady claiming that almost every state recognizes "common law" marriage is TOTALLY incorrect.

@TheHerc1932

8 ай бұрын

Do you think she cares? She's arguing to be right.

@chrisgg2026

8 ай бұрын

Texas you have to prove you been presenting yourself as married and husband and wife. It is not automatic

@joshualambert8346

8 ай бұрын

This list, from Google, isn't even accurate anymore. South Carolina abolished common law in 2019.

@Joskemom

8 ай бұрын

Dump the woman after 2 1/2 years. Go ahead and restart the clock and get back with her and then dump her after another 2 1/2 years. Ok, thats dumb, never mind.

@MrBenji1059

8 ай бұрын

😁

So, seat belts in cars should be removed because nobody buys a car expecting it will crash?

How does she lie so easily about common law. It's 7 yrs and only 8 states. 15 second google search. Brutal

@lordjake7421

Ай бұрын

Yes and each of those eight states carries exclusions as well; it is only full common law in some of those eight states. New Hampshire, for example, only recognizes common law marriage for inheritance. And it is not simply about two people living together for 7 years. They also need to intend to be married, refer to each other as married, share finances, etc.

UNTIL FAMILY COURTS ARE ELIMINATED… Do not get married, men. Divorce should be adjudicated in civil courts like other matters, with 50-50 child custody the default position, only splitting assets accumulated during the marriage and not beforehand.

@andrewa182

8 ай бұрын

1000%. Also mandatory paternity testing and criminal charges for paternity fraud

@Username12665

8 ай бұрын

I see precisely 0 lies here 🎉🎉🎉

@MarkLeel

8 ай бұрын

Also who puts more towards accumulating those assets should keep the majority of them.

@nickalan5539

8 ай бұрын

But why isn't it already like this?

@jasmitharani9838

8 ай бұрын

@@MarkLeelthat way we have push women towards workforce rather than house work and rearing children. 👍

Shocking that all the women demand marriage, a contract that benefits them.

@stevep5408

5 ай бұрын

To break the contract. If you had a business would you contract with another company where it benefits the other company to lie, cheat and steal to break that contract? Seems counter intuitive to me? Men it appears take longer to fall in love and longer to fall out of love.

@boston312

5 ай бұрын

Dont just blame women when there is always some gullible beta male simp ready to sign the marriage papers

Stay strong lads. Dont fall for it

The idea women think they deserve something for their time means really, all sexual experiences might as well be transactional. They are essentially monetizing their time with us. Why would we marry someone who sees time with us as having a monetary value

@ExpatPlans365

3 ай бұрын

Just like an escort 😂

I used to want to get married and have kids, but this just confirmed my decission to never get married, period.

@jose_moya

5 ай бұрын

Welcome bro, it's not a pleasant realization but definitely it's a smart decision.

That lady is SO WRONG about common law marriage, only a few states still have those laws (Florida is one) but it’s not so simple as “we’ve been together for 7 years, therefore common law applies and women can legally steal men’s money” To be considered common law a number of conditions must be met - you must be living together does an extended period of time, BOTH people must have expressed a desire to be married, both people must PUBLICLY have identified themselves as married…meaning introducing each other as wife / husband and exchanging rings etc. The key point from this video - notice how TIGHT that room got when the black guy said there’s no reason for men to get married, men literally get NO BENEFITS while exposing themselves to financial ruin…the ladies had no response. Men: women don’t like us the way we like women. They only view us for what benefits they can get out of us. When you truly understand this, without getting mad at women for naturally being this way, is the day you graduate into true Red Pill.

@inquisitor4635

8 ай бұрын

Wrong. There is no common law marriage in Florida.

@GBU61

7 ай бұрын

In the 1960s the term was called “trial marriage.” As we progressed and liberalized relationships common law was the new term. I think most men would prefer to be in a committed relationship if they would get something out of it. With “no fault” or “irreconcilable differences” an option for (mostly women) divorce, anyone can get out at any time. Men love very hard while women love conditionally. If he has more value than she does, he is entering into something where she reaps the majority of the benefits. Really bad move on his part.

@TheSunboy25

4 ай бұрын

Common law was abolished in 1968 thanks God Jehovah in Florida. Look in the internet.

@jrcedeno7

9 күн бұрын

Florida is NOT one of the states that have common law marriage

Common law marriages are just as dangerous for men. Prenuptial have frequently been torn apart in courts. Do not let her leave a toothbrush at your house.

My ex ran off with my daughter and my daughter hates me. I gave my ex custody because she lived so far away. Used to drive hundreds of miles to see her. She remarried and all of a sudden wouldn’t let me see my daughter. I became disabled due to a serious injury. Loved my daughter to death. That was 30 years ago and it still breaks my heart!

@rayrwyr

4 ай бұрын

So sorry about losing your daughter's affection. Why is your daughter so brainwashed?

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

​@@rayrwyrShe is a child and the evil mother has brainwashed her.

@ExpatPlans365

3 ай бұрын

That sounds about right I’ve seen it with my own two eyes a few times

‘I don’t trust the government’, finally someone with a shred of common sense.

@teresworrell7973

6 ай бұрын

The government is full of shit

@blacklyfe5543

6 ай бұрын

Same

Did you hear her? A marriage is all about the wedding experience. Let them speak, they will out themselves.

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

Exactly

Nobody needs to get married to have a relationship or having kids.

I got married in 1985 in Tokyo and my girlfriend then (later wife) jokingly (?) said 'I give it 5 years.' Now having raised one stepdaughter (woke as fuck), one son (married and doing well--they've been together for 10 years), we're still married 38 years later which astonishes me at times. We survived culture shock, buying a home, moving to a new country and culture to retire to, and the surprising changes it elicited in us, and we are still together. I 'love' my wife but I dont dwell on that--I think more that I feel loyalty to her which holds us together. It's not lost on me that she's not from this current US generation which is in a deadlock dating struggle. Without throwing shade on either gender, I'd say to any marriage-minded male...find a woman overseas in SE Asia, DR, or wherever. While no relationship has a guarantee of ultimate success, the trending characteristics of women in SE Asia is that they're more traditional, less combative (but not always), and not quite as inclined toward being 'girlbosses' and put family and marriage first. Also--think twice about bringing your wife back to the States where associations with western women might taint her gentility.

@slamdunktiger

5 ай бұрын

Thailand stats came out this year. Highest infidelity cheating of all married couples globally. Ya. Don’t give advice if you don’t know what you’re talking about. You’re like the Falcons at 28-3. Don’t brag about your marriage’s third quarter score. And you raised another man’s child. You’re a biological failure to your own bloodline for that sin. Dude, you were the back up guy, the clean up man for another asshat’s jizz on aisle 3. Cope and rationalize as much as you want. Facts are facts. You’re just a good servant for a matriarchal Asian woman. Good luck in the fourth quarter of your marriage. Enjoy the step-grandkids in the future. Lol.

@Shaolin91z

5 ай бұрын

Thanks Lord for salvation

@BaaSicStuff

4 ай бұрын

Wow that’s exactly what I would’ve said I also got married overseas 27 years of marriage loyalty, and marriage is great as it allowed me to retire at 42 and live the good life

If women really believed their value isn’t tied to their youth they wouldn’t feel they need to be compensated for spending years with a man

@reggiebrown4911

7 ай бұрын

Exactly

@kastelvetro1491

7 ай бұрын

a womens value to men is 16-24, lets just admit this fact. if you dont want kids there is zero benefit to having a realtionship with a women aside from sex, any women not pregnant before 25 will regret not doing it sooner as she hits the wall. what man would buy a product at 30? who wants a womens last and worst 5 years as opposed to getting her at 18 and getting 17 years before she looks like bruce jenner

@clevancampbell850

7 ай бұрын

Good point

@antislobb

6 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@manifest2203

6 ай бұрын

It is not about youth. It is about being compensated for the work women do in relationships. Most men don’t add any value to the woman other than money. But women offer lot more value than money.

The west is done. Get your passport fellas. To new women overseas. In 20 years these lonely feminists will be done

@123pb

8 ай бұрын

Divorce laws are harsh on men in Thailand and Brazil......grass isnt greener bro

@Chris-ti3gq

8 ай бұрын

@@123pb there are other countries, thanks for the heads up about these though

@williamjohn8633

4 ай бұрын

Precisely. I have mma friends in Brazil. You don't even have to live with a girl in Brazil to be considered common law married@@123pb

@ExpatPlans365

3 ай бұрын

Be careful with those women too can’t really trust them anyway

@Chris-ti3gq

3 ай бұрын

I dont trust anyone unless I know your trrue character@@ExpatPlans365

Prenuptial agreements aren't holding up in courts like they once used to. Lawyers are constantly finding loopholes around them, so, simply having a prenup, doesn't protect assets like it once did.

Refusing prenup should be a giant red flag

@richardparker2555

5 ай бұрын

A harsh lesson Destiny is learning the hard way

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

Prenups are useless anyway

"I date to marry" however I am over 40 and single....the things children (women) say

@anthonyx5818

7 ай бұрын

Should say I date to take mens stuff 😂😂😂

Be WISE, NEVER MARRY, coming from a Man who is traditional, hard working, F boy who never got hurt by any woman and never will be. BE SMART. NO BENEFITS AT ALL GUYS. TAKE CARE.

@teddywestside4816

7 ай бұрын

I use to be a nice guy.....now im a fukboy. Women suck

@lonnie008

7 ай бұрын

thank you

@k.duelist4913

7 ай бұрын

F boy and traditional at thr same time lol 😅😅😅

@ViktorMudryiSW

7 ай бұрын

@@k.duelist4913 translation for kids: When single i am an Fboy When in relationship i am traditional husband material Now it makes sense right?😉

@michael10613

7 ай бұрын

@@k.duelist4913 lol bro switched to the dark side

To the woman who kept saying common law marriage is in most states it is not. It is currently only in 8 states.

"I think it's stupid to enter a relationship already having a backup plan" - what does she think a legal marriage is, if NOT a backup plan for women to get out and take half of your stuff?

@user-pl7bk5bx4j

3 ай бұрын

she knows it she's just shallow and thinks if she plays dumb and bats her eyelashes simps will be hypnotized by her hypocrisy and make it make sense to buy her V

I have told every girl I ever dated pretty much from day one if we ever got married there would be a prenup. This is not even a conversation I am willing to entertain, it's 100% take it or leave it.

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

7 ай бұрын

don't break!

@dezcuts5319

7 ай бұрын

Is advise you not to trust family courts that aren’t accountable to anyone and no appeal process. Just one jackass in a robe deciding on your life. So if that scum bag wants to throw out your prenup they can find a way.

@kastelvetro1491

7 ай бұрын

your a fool, pre nump is a peice of paper the lawyer sells you. now if your consiously lying i repsect you, i even respect men who get engaged without a prenump but have no plans of ever getting married and are just waitinga year while the women is in dream town while he's waiting for some drama or issue to show up and break up. marriage useless marriage with a prenump= valueless co habitation= same as marriage in many places non dutch dating= for fools

@GBU61

7 ай бұрын

I would require a prenup at least a year out, then a post nuptial and an additional one after any major life change (buy a home, children). That paper trail would reinforce the agreements we initially had.

For a woman that is against signing a prenup, she's okay with marriage as it is insurance for the risk she's taking on in the marriage. But the man can't take insurance for the risk that he's taking on in the marriage. Sounds like a double standard mixed with a dose of entitlement.

@kastelvetro1491

7 ай бұрын

kevin samuels '''men give up garenteed resources for garenteed liabillities''' no marriage, no co hab, no non dutch dating boys and men and society and women class up and stop acting like entitled ageing brats with crows feet covered in hair dye and clown paint. marriage is for girls 18-24 who have been with less then 3 guys

Signing the marital contracts enabling her to take half or more of what you earned is irresponsible, reckless and well, stupid. Never sign contracts with someone who is rewarded with cash and prizes for betrayal.....

Ha! Everybody misses the FACT that a marriage license is a contract with the state...that INCLUDES divorce. Unless there is a prenup, the state (& judge) decides everything.

Marriage is for women. There's nothing a woman can give me that I can't pay for. I'd rather pay a pro. It ends up being less costly and less of a headache.

6:40 “if you need a safety net then you’re expecting it to fail” that’s literally the same reason why women don’t want to sign a prenup

@mitchrapp5214

8 ай бұрын

Easy to say when you have 0 risk

I am not a lawyer but been divorced for 20 years. Here's what I have learned about common law marriages. Most states its a period of 5, 6, 7 - 10 years. For that common marriage to be valid you both must share community property i.e buying furniture, cars, and property together. Further, if she changes her mail address to yours she then is establishing residency at your home over time. Don't let her do this. Also, how much time she spends 5 days vs 2 days at your home leads to what we call "Constructive" marriage i.e events leading or that can lead to. Same doctrine as constructive gun laws. Also taken into account is does she has direct access to the property i.e keys, security codes and what not.

Only 8 states recognize common law marriage. Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah.

@davionwillis1815

8 ай бұрын

Texas -ish. There had to be plans for marriage and you have to show proof there was a plan in place to be married

@Seetiyan

8 ай бұрын

Good to know! Something men should stay updated on.

@villanousvic323

8 ай бұрын

​@@davionwillis1815shouldn't matter, the state should never be involved in marriage

@Lichor2369

8 ай бұрын

@@davionwillis1815 IIRC correctly that is only if living together less the 8 years, after 8 years your "Married"

@gameon2000

8 ай бұрын

Thanks man, now we know, what states to avoid. Texas also has death penalty to this day. 1 reason more to leave Texas. I do like the smell of a nice BBQ... as long it's not mine meat grilling!

All laws protect women. Add "if you divorce because you're not happy, you get nothing, kids stay with the man" in government contract, add mandatory paternity tests before signing the certificate with full financial responsibilities, remove common law, cohabitation and other bs, then men would consider signing it.

Like your video. What are the places available in Trece? Sounds like a good place to settle down.

Common-law marriage is only recognized in 15 states in the United States and it could take years for the courts to sort it out 50% of the time they'll usually side with the man

Eliminate No Fault Divorce 2) Mandatory DNA testing 3) Eliminate Alimony unless the is a true stay at home mother 4) The cost of child support goes to a child’s needs only. Very simple fix for the problem.

@FazeParticles

7 ай бұрын

women will never vote for that' would require a bottom up revolution.

@nickgeorgiou7770

7 ай бұрын

@@FazeParticles They’ve already implemented parts of this in Tennessee and Florida. So it’s a start I guess

@jean-louislalonde6070

6 ай бұрын

And child support must be calculated accordingly to the child's REAL needs.

@heartlessangel1460

5 ай бұрын

​@@FazeParticlesWhat gender makes up most of the congress & senate???

@bench3885

3 ай бұрын

This is going to be very long process but eventually things will work out or men will just drop out of the marriage completely

Check your state laws for common marriage, and talk to a lawyer before you let her move in. "Adverse possession", which is sometimes called squatters rights, is the doctrine under which a squatter could acquire a property's title without buying it. To claim squatters rights in Minnesota, a person must live on the property for at least 15 years and pay property taxes for five.

I'm so glad that this type of information is available to younger men. I and many others had to find out the hard way without having older male advice around or the internet If your marriage fails for any reason, you can be screwed in divorce court and all those women in the video know it. Also, a couple of them come across as entitled and cold hearted i.e. They will marry a man they are not into for money reasons. For any woman reading this I love women, I love punnany but I don't like the laws in America when it comes to marriage.

To the men who work hard and earn avg income - dont worry. Just look at how they laugh at you - leave those gold diggers to the simps who fall for their cheap manipulation tactics. Those simps will eventually find out they're only interested in their 💰💰💰 If you start to doubt it, just go back to the clip where they laugh at the thought of a man not being wealthy enough for a prenup and thank the stars you dont have to deal with that

She literally said that she feels uncomfortable knowing that her husband to be would have an escape route!!! 😳😅 MARRIAGE IS THE TRAP AND YOUR WIFE IS YOUR CAPTOR‼️ Believe that!!!

@williamwallace410

6 ай бұрын

The crazy thing is she can “escape” the marriage whenever she feels like.

@Armed-Forever

5 ай бұрын

they are sick lol they don't love us they love what we do for them, terrible

@JustinFH

5 ай бұрын

@@williamwallace410 Options for me but not for thee

@joecurran2811

4 ай бұрын

And it usually an escape route that gets thrown out anyway. Way to destroy your value.

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

You are the slave and she is the master

There are currently eight states that recognize common law marriage: Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah. Each state has its own specific rules for recognizing common law marriages.

Continue to expose yourself ladies , we (men )are watching and taking notes

A quick google search debunks this womans statements regarding common law marriage. Most states do not recognise it

@davidbolen8982

5 ай бұрын

Her citation, my vagina. Besides, facts and logic don’t matter to western women.

@Armed-Forever

5 ай бұрын

and the ones that do require a de facto agreement, a long amount of time living together & shared accounts

This just show that most women are in for the security of what you work hard to earn...they leave you and take half of your shit they came and found! They are just in it for them and you can bet! They have already made plans for how they will spend your money etc before you even know it!

it's not planning to fail. It's covering all bases and acknowledging reality

very good video, thanks Adam!

Common law isnt just cohabitation. You have to present yourself as 'married', legal contracts, etc. not just dinner reservations and time.

@salguodrolyat2594

8 ай бұрын

Depends on the judge.

@peterharrell7305

7 ай бұрын

​@@salguodrolyat2594this. Nothing matters except what you can convince the judge of. Truth and evidence are basically useless.

@1949coupe

6 ай бұрын

In Canada at least the threshold is pretty low. Common address, sharing expenses, food, vacations together, on insurance policy....

@nmead33

6 ай бұрын

@@1949coupe By those idiotic standards, I would be married to all of my friends in Canada.

@trevtall1094

6 ай бұрын

Remember that women will try to game the system and share loopholes both among themselves. I remember a single mother asking online how she can trap her next door neighbour who was just regularly babysitting her kids. Women's shelters also know all the loopholes.

7:47 Denying a man a prenup is literally insurance for a woman 😂 She is literally making the argument against herself. She just wants to have insurance (lack of prenup) while denying a man his own insurance (a prenup)

@nattypatty3667

8 ай бұрын

Yup, that's what i was thinking too. It's a game of leverage.

@dezcuts5319

7 ай бұрын

Exactly she stated that marriage is about trust. So I’m other words she wants the man to extend blind trust to her but no the other way around. No thanks baby

After the check that said that if you are going to marriage, expecting it to fail with her analogy. That's like me having a car insurance and if I have a car insurance that means I'm going to always get it to accident

In Texas for a common law marriage case to be made, you still need the marriage license filed at the court house, or some kind of bonafide marriage agreement. If there is no written agreement, then common law marriage can be dismissed pretty easily, especially if you file your taxes as single the whole time instead of married. so guys, file your taxes as single if you have never signed a marriage certificate.

GET RICHT. DON’T MARRIED. BE HAPPEEE‼️👑😎✅🫡

A prenup is not an escape route and women know that, they just don’t like the fact that they don’t have the possibility of taking half of what you have, an unreasonable prenup will be thrown out, a prenup can never say “if she or I leave she gets nothing”.

@kastelvetro1491

7 ай бұрын

no nup is the only win, guys if you want to have your women in dream states like marriage puts them in you have to be a liar and just get engaged a year before you plan on leaving and keep her in future bliss while you simply have no intention of ever marrying.

@Armed-Forever

5 ай бұрын

just don't get married my boys. big scam.

What kind of crooked court gives a woman a mans house that he had before he met her? Thats highway robbery under any circumstances.

Good insights. Thanks!

Something even better than a prenup is having all of your assets and income in a trust.

People that sign 360 deals, laugh at people that sign marriage contracts.

"It's a matter of trust. You plan on failing with a prenup" Well, why do you need a marriage then? You don't trust your man? It's like you are planning on the relationship to fail without marriage.

My thoughts just now is that marriage as a legally binding civil contract has failed society in what it has become. What it seems to me is that with things like prenups - people are saying, yes, I want some kind of legal contract and commitment and protection, but the current state of what the state provides is horseshit and I don't like the idea of the state dictating terms and outcomes, so we're going to build our own contract. And maybe that's how it needs to be - no more one size fits all state dictated cram down. People decide their own terms and conditions and the state honors and enforces that. This way, people get the terms they want that they think are fair and best serve their interests, plus get the benefits of state sanctioning to enforce the contract, provide the protections they people want for themselves, and the security that people need and want to build families.

Divorce rates/stats & the end results of divorce speak for themselves. Even marriages that don't end in divorce usually become loveless & more about economics/convenience than anything else.

Nobody here knows the true purpose and meaning of a family much less a commitment under God .

@msharp138

8 ай бұрын

Exaaaactly!!!!

@FazeParticles

7 ай бұрын

all of these women are Godless and unless you or I are willing to enforce God's law at gun point marriage will be treated as a mercenary contract. the main purpose is producing children for the state to use how they see fit. that's a fact the regime won't let slip.

@nananyantakyi1549

4 ай бұрын

A commitment under God not government (devil)

Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah and the District of Columbia. However, there are nuances for many of the states.

The fact that's these women are quick to know the facts about these contracts such as prenups just good to show there mindset and that there banking on these things as their out. Not many men even think about these aspects, don't let their innocent act fool you their understanding of the laws can make most lawyers seem foolish.

This man spoke nothing but facts it’s refreshing to see dudes actually speaking the FACTS about certain life topics

There’s no common law marriage in Florida where this is broadcast from

For the purposes of this debate, a marriage for the security of the children is a red herring. The state make sure that a father pays through the nose for child support whether the parents were married or not.

Fact, only 7 states plus district of Columbia recognize common law marriage rites as of 2024, plus two others on a limited basis. The gal I am afraid is wrong about almost all states.

Women use reverse psychology when it comes to Prenups because every woman is thinking of her exit strategy whether she is honest or not. A prenup is the only thing that guarantees you get married for love only.

Don’t get married or cohabitate in a common law state also demand DNA test on any child she says is yours before taking any responsibility

Thanks Lord for your salvation Thanks Lord for bible study class Thanks Lord for your peace

I wish creators would put the original stream of their clip in the description, so I don't have to go on a wild goose chase to find it.

Whats the difference? The difference is called GREED. A successful man should NOT be giving 50% of a successful business or endeavour to a woman in a divorce., especially since she is the one that most likely initiated the separation. There should be NO incentive to call it quits. If she wants out, then she wants out, but she doesn't get to walk away with 50%, its ridiculous. An equitable amount is fair, enough to raise the children is fair, but if you want to see greed take a look at the results from any high profile divorce and you can see overwhelming greed run amok. Kevin Costner for example was paying $130,000 a month in Alimony. That is the very definition of overwhelming gluttony. Unless his Ex-wife was taking care of 130 children, she doesn't need that amount of money.

Marriage is supposed to be a religious ritual. Why is the government even involved anyway?

It's time to expand the conversation, gentlemen. Having a child under any circumstance is as much of a liability for a man as marriage. One of my coworkers committed suicide after the courts told him he would never see his children again. Don't let that happen to you.

It’s easy to say the man must marry you when you take no risks at all. If anything you are rewarded after ending it.

@GBU61

7 ай бұрын

I would love to ask these women how many would agree to marry a man without a prenup if she made more money than him?

@jeroldparker7766

6 ай бұрын

That's the way they like it un huh, un huh!

Women and men are very different women are very emotional people and they go by it women don't like hearing the truth

Just looked up common law marriages. Only 9 states recognize common law marriages. NOT MOST!!! If that lady put as much effort into being a good wife and not figuring out what she can get out of it, she'd be ok. Right now, she's a big red flag.

The fact that they know about "common wife laws" lets you know everything.

Not getting married or living together is in my opinion a better choice . Give me the free single life

Women live in the moment. When she says she wants to be with you, that needs to have added at the end of the sentence " for right now, at this moment." Women and their feelings change, and this moment might not be the same as in how she feels at the moment in 10 years. Then, she feels differently and wants a divorce. Anything a woman says.... You must always add to the end of the sentence.... "This is how I feel, right now, at this moment.... subject to changes in my mood and how I feel, later." Two things for a man, you should get a vasectomy if you're playing the field, and you should never, ever mention or say a word about ever getting married.

🔥🔥"Eight states currently recognize common law marriages: Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah. There are also some states such as Ohio and Pennsylvania that used to allow common law marriages and still recognize them as valid, but they have since changed their laws." This Lady is delusional and is not telling the whole truth. She Said "MOST STATES RECOGNIZE COMMON LAW". Besides Texas, who lives in any of those other states??? In other WORDS Common Law Marriage for Most of the US Doesn't exist. I lived in CA my whole life, I even looked this up, CA ONLY recognizes this if a couple was married in Another country, so that marriage would transfer over to CA. Anyone can Simply Google Common Law Marriage.

@sharkmun

8 ай бұрын

I wish all women thinks like her. Guys don't have to get married and women like her finds that common law is not valid later when they try to leave .

@hughguys1183

8 ай бұрын

who cares what she thinks? its just another deceptive, grifting pseudo-intellectual. Anyone with an above average iq can see through the word salad and ambiguity