'I Tell Men To NOT Get Married!' -
In the $O$CAST Adam Sosnick discusses current events, trending topics, and anything related to money. In this short clip, Adam Sosnick, Hafeez Baoku, Coach Greg Adams, Allie Rae, and Natalya Delvalle talk about marriage.
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When my nephew announced that he was getting married. I noticed that not one guy congratulated him
@blacklyfe5543
10 ай бұрын
Lol
@TrueVintageRnBFan
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@HighVibrations22
8 ай бұрын
Nah man🤣🤣
@zeeski7454
6 ай бұрын
Because men know the voluntary prison sentence they get themselves into with marriage
@anthonybaker5199
6 ай бұрын
@@zeeski7454😂😂😂
Coach is the adult in that room.
@jddiggy2343
Жыл бұрын
FACTS
@celsocosta880
Жыл бұрын
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
@user-op7uc6jb9k
5 күн бұрын
Yup, sadly.
Very few men are happy in marriage, we just put up with it...I'll check back with this guy in 5 years
@sigmablack9483
Жыл бұрын
Hafeez blue pill asf, but he'll learn.
@radhiadeedou8286
Жыл бұрын
How do you know that?
@letsgetsocialinfo
Жыл бұрын
@Radhia Deedou because I'm a married man with married and divorced men friends...
@celsocosta880
Жыл бұрын
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
@westernstar9121
11 ай бұрын
@@celsocosta880 chances of winning the lottery a much higher and Progressive chances of having a least a half decent marriage
Coach Adams is the truth.
I love how people keep bringing up married couples from 40+ years ago as if times haven't changed drastically in reference to dating. zzz.
@NPFfumbi
Жыл бұрын
Yea and even they got divorced
@DocNinini
Жыл бұрын
@@NPFfumbi Or theyre completely miserable in their marriage 😂
@zeeski7454
6 ай бұрын
Nobody married 20+ years is happy, and if they are they're the exception
@brutustantheiii8477
2 ай бұрын
THIS! R Pill is FACT because it is the HERE AND NOW. My boomer Chinese immigrant dad couldn’t fathom why I avoid marriage like the plague jt is, despite him not dating anyone since my mom more than FORTY YEARS Ago. Half of which is in the culture of Hong Kong/Chinese. Yet those like him speak as if he knows
@heisenberg2966
2 ай бұрын
Times haven’t Changed; Women have Changed.
Greg saved my life.
@soulsurfer639
Ай бұрын
Mine too
Coach is the morpheus of our time
@imagegotbeats
4 күн бұрын
🌚🌚
Most of the men I have known to be married got divorced. The guys I know who are still married seem miserable
the panel got CGA wrong. he doesn't focus on the negative outcomes of marriage to stop men, he focuses on it to warn men.
@kashemvai5025
20 күн бұрын
its bbq in there
CGA is the only content creator that talks about this stuff that I listen to regularly. I don't even call it red pill content, but more like 'the morning after pill'
@keithlangfordjr.689
4 күн бұрын
Exactly. The "redpill" is goofy af. CGA just spits logical information supported by facts and life experience
Coach is right, I went through it and NO ONE WAS THERE FOR ME, IT'S NOT WORTH IT FINANCIALLY or SPIRITUALLY. I always ask people, ( have you ever seen Thank you.............
@keranseunarine4274
Жыл бұрын
And Charles Boyle from Brooklyn 99. Alan and boyle are the definition of "WHAT TO NOT BE"
@JADiaz10
Жыл бұрын
Dude fr your finance AND spirit is gutted. This why I haven’t been in a relationship for a while.
@chadtyrone5
10 ай бұрын
@@far7romlan harper lives on his brothers coach(his brother is a bachelor)
@DDillys
3 күн бұрын
Exactly no one is coming for us bro.
The statement my mentor made when I was going down the road of proposing is "I see you love to travel...knowing that, would you board a plane that works 50% of the time?".
My wife and I were happy for 25 years but then we met. 😂
@DocNinini
Жыл бұрын
Good one 😆
@SchrodingersMath
Жыл бұрын
Oh Gawd...
@nananyantakyi1549
10 ай бұрын
💯
@MonochromaticBlues
8 ай бұрын
well you got ur care taker :) n cow
@soulsurfer639
6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
For my wife’s 40th birthday I got her a trip to Europe. For her 50th I’ll get her the return ticket.
@SchrodingersMath
Жыл бұрын
🤭🤭...😎😎
@illustrious1
9 ай бұрын
🤯😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 You made my day hahaha Thank you.
Married men have always told me to never get married. In my 38 years not a single one has ever told me how awesome it is.
@sandman1347
6 күн бұрын
I remember meeting this one dude named Lance about 10 years back who really seemed to be happily married. At the time, I remember asking him several questions about it. I took more of an interest than I normally would in that kind of thing for some reason. It's only recently that I realized why. He was literally the first American man I had ever met who was married for more than a decade and happy about it...
@pleasedonttemptme5963
4 күн бұрын
Same. I am 34. Not one man, maybe 1 and he cheats on his wife hah, has told me to get married. I’m not getting married ever, and my mother is totally fine with it, that’s all that matters to me
@kykenzo9115
6 сағат бұрын
38 here too. The mens never told me how bad their marriage is. But often ask the question why you’re not married? And now begs the question, why ask that? Thats simply because why even get married, in the first place? Marriage does not benefit the men. And not at all. Therefore, if guys want to dive into their own grave. Well good luck!
Hit them with the marriage wheel coach, the marriage wheel is undefeated! Lol
@anonymousgh608
Жыл бұрын
What’s marriage wheel? First time hearing it
@theerealatm
Жыл бұрын
@@anonymousgh608 it's a graph CGA made and exhibits.
@nananyantakyi1549
10 ай бұрын
@@anonymousgh608It's on his channel, look it up
Hafeez, you are using the exception to the rule argument. Sure, some marriages will end up happily ever after, but with a 50% divorce rate for 1st marriages, and of the other 50% 47% end up miserable then it is basically a 3% success rate. CGA gets the W here
@JADiaz10
Жыл бұрын
Very very low success rate. It’s ridiculously low. As a Christian I can’t defend monogamy. I just can’t. Even people who do things “the right way” have failure.
@JoelGoose
Жыл бұрын
@@JADiaz10 there is no reason for monogamy. Imagine how you'd feel if YOU were monogamous the whole time, turning down other women, only to find out your chick was effing other dudes behind your back, no condom. That would break most men
@JADiaz10
Жыл бұрын
@@JoelGoose same Vice versa. Plenty of women prolly turned down just to find out their husband cheating like Beyoncé n Jay Z in the elevator. It’s just not realistic.
@Eye_of_Horus
Жыл бұрын
It isn’t just the 50% divorce. The real percent of longterm happy relationships is roughly 15-20%. Many people stay married but separated or live as unhappy roommates.
@celsocosta880
Жыл бұрын
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
Never get married full stop
CGA speaks facts.
Men would be more inclined to marry women if they came with a cord that you could unplug to stop the insane chatter and endless demands.
@Matt-yz3iq
Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha this one was a gem comment
@MisterGoodDad
Жыл бұрын
*holy shit this was gold*
It's funny the people in the comments who announce they've been together forever - who are from completely different generations. lmao If you and your partners were the kids today - you'd be just as screwed up.
@ladabe4979
Жыл бұрын
FAX
@Ja50nkAt
Жыл бұрын
Social media has changed everything.
@joshuamoore3515
Жыл бұрын
Nice excuse. Go ahead and give up. Or notice what is against you and fight to procure yourself. Or just give up....
@LavishPatchKid
Жыл бұрын
@@joshuamoore3515 I'm not giving up. I'm running rotations. Filled with wives; of dudes like you. Have fun kissing her goodnight.
@joshuamoore3515
Жыл бұрын
@@LavishPatchKid haha your ridiculous. My wife would take one look at you and die lauhing. No you don't and no you are not. You could never in a million years out pull me. I'm dying of laughter... thank you. Stay short, shriveled and salty my friend. 🤣😅👍
Coach is out here saving lives!
Actually I’ve been happily married for 2 years…. It’s called separation.
@anthonybaker5199
6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@thelockofgapa
13 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂
My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years and have two children together. She is a 10 in every way even after two kids. She would never ask for a ring. She doesn’t need to. All a ring would do is rip my balls off. A woman would rather be with a man then marry a weak one.
I won custody of my 4 kids believe it or not. I raised them by myself.
@thegulagarchipelago5921
Жыл бұрын
Brilliant 👏 👏 👏 Same here. 2 Daughters. Both 18 now. Had to Fight like All Hell but I'm a Ecstatic Single Father!!!!
@briankhall9963
Жыл бұрын
Yeah it was a tough one. Luckily She was her own worst enemy
@thanos1952
Жыл бұрын
I won custody of my daughter 7yrs ago....
@juliusperseus8612
Жыл бұрын
that's Not the Norm. and that's what they hide from Men.
@celsocosta880
Жыл бұрын
Most men lose custody and that's why kids are lost without they father's 👀
Greg - preach brother, WE need you
Can’t lie after 2 minutes I can’t listen to hafeez….he needs a buzzer
@audiofeinz5754
3 ай бұрын
He's drunk he needs to go home
Divorce is sexist towards men. Men should avoid marriage at all cost. If anything, sign a prenup. But I reiterate: men should avoid marriage at all cost. ✌🏾
@Jenda-ld8dj
2 күн бұрын
Prenups are not a guarantee. Most prenups today are overlooked by the Court. If you live in a no-fault divorce state and are married, there is your prenup.
They intentionally lefy out the part where Coach handed Hafeez his ass to him.
The divorce industry industry needs to be held accountable. In the Nordic countries the marriage and divorce rates are the same as the rest of the world but men have guaranteed access to their children and alimony is fairly distributed. People don't go broke going through a divorce. Fix that and men will come back to the table, IF they're still interested.
@frankright4454
8 ай бұрын
@@JabariParker-zw1oo Damn that's deep.
@BrianMolstad
Ай бұрын
I assume eventually almost all men will know the facts and the divorce types will have to go out and get real jobs.
Coach, you are the man!!!
💥💥 I just watched the documentary about this woman who hired a hitman to kill her husband so she can collect the life insurance, lucky for him his friend over her the conversation and informed him and the husband informed the police and the police and husband staged his death and they had his wife on camera laughing after they showed her the pictures of him being fake dead. She ended up getting like 20 years of prison. I don't see why anybody would want to get married when you have risks like that I would just not deal with that type of BS. There is exactly no benefit to a man getting married in today's age, women hold all the cards in everything. That's her house she's deciding what the kitchen look like she's going to decide what the bedroom look like she's going to decide what type of wall paper and cabinet you put in the bathroom etc She's going to decide what to buy during holidays heck she's going to decide if you celebrate Christmas you may be a guy who like myself is not even into celebrating holidays but I'm forced to celebrate it because she wants to celebrate it. Y'all go to the movies you mostly going to go and see what she wants to see. The man spends far more money in the relationship than the women does like I just don't see the benefit of marriage for men. And also when you get married you have less sex than a guy that's single because your wife dictates when she wants to have sex. Then there's the financial stability like me I'm a single man, I work two jobs all of my money from both of my jobs go to me and to me only. I don't have a wife I got to spend all my money on and I don't have kids that I got to spend all my money on. I'm sorry but I just don't see the benefit of a man in today's age getting married it makes no sense to me.
@JuancoPRoFlow
Жыл бұрын
Preach
Wow that was a very passionate and convincing argument against his own point.
Coachhhhhh in the house
CGA🐐🔥..Its funny how dudes who defend marriage have eithet never been married before or have been married for just 2 years..lol
If you want to be married forever ♾ go overseas in the East! Never marry an American woman. My parents are from Kenya 🇰🇪 married till my dad passed away 35 years. This is my opinion! Love CGA!
CGA IS THE 🐐
STILL... The greatest episode!
thank you coach Greg
I love how you put this!!!!!!
I clicked for Greg Adams & got some other dude whining instead.
@andre1987eph
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, CGA dissapears when he's on these live panels. He goes soft.
GOD bless CGA!
This title is misleading. Coach Greg did not say "I Tell Men to NOT Get Married" in fact, he said IF that's the path you choose, "Do not get married without leverage". Stop misleading your audience with disinformation.
@QuintonMillow
Жыл бұрын
Facts
except for my parents who got married 40 years ago......... i don't know any men who are HAPPY AF...MARRIED!!! FOH
coach Greg is one of the greatest!
If women were expected to assume the same risk as men, I wonder how many would consider marriage? My guess would be less than 10%. When asked why I don’t want to get married my response is a simple one. If I agree to get married, will you assume the financial risk if it fails? How many takers do you think I get?
Mgtow is the way!
When I told my grandpa I’m getting married he asks me who I’m getting married against.
@hillsideonly
Жыл бұрын
Married against 😂😂😂
@MCADHD-rf5kl
10 ай бұрын
Your grandpa is a wise old man.
This man always speaks the truth! Rolo just talks no real game behind it . His wife prob runs it at home .
@theerealatm
Жыл бұрын
3 men talking. 2 men mainly talking.... Who are you talking about? 😂
Save your money, don't get married, don't live together, don't put titles on your relationship ( boyfriend/girlfriend). Friends with benefits ( have a few,friends with benefits are entitled to NOTHING).
Marriage The beginning of the end of any great modern relationship
I loved Hafeez on Howard Stern. Howard - "Spell RED" Hafeez - "Red? L-S-T-E-R"
@soulsurfer639
Ай бұрын
I don't get it ???
Where’s Hafeez these days??? Haven’t seen him around for a while.
@Vietmac1993
6 ай бұрын
He quit KZread
@scottmatthews8500
Ай бұрын
Got divorced
I married at around 55 years old figuring that if I made a bad decision, I wouldn't have to suffer so long before I died. My cousin emailed me last night. He's getting married and he's 55 years old.
@travelingdude1621
Ай бұрын
No reason to get married in the first place. A risky thing to do and a waste of time and money.
@bjung8858
28 күн бұрын
@@travelingdude1621 Hopefully she is old enough to realize that she'll never find another guy that will marry her because she's about the same sage. Yet, she'll spend time to help him out by keeping him company. She's financially secure too.
CGA is the truth!
This dude is so emotional his wife gonna leave his ass for SUREEE HAHAHA
Coach Gang!
@natural_law
3 ай бұрын
and that's you
People have such weak backbones these days that they avoid challenging things. Many people these days want the easy route.
@MCADHD-rf5kl
10 ай бұрын
Just that, in marriage, both sides have to have an unshakeable, strong backbone. One is not enough.
@namanverma1282
8 ай бұрын
And what’s wrong with wanting an easy route? Are you some masochist who takes pride in putting himself through pain
Marriage is a worthwhile pursuit....in Asia
@soulsurfer639
Ай бұрын
😂 exactly
No more DATING and MARRYING women .
Marriage rates going down and that trend won't change any time soon, and the idea of guys being alone it's true, break ups, divorce anything and apart from being left alone there's also the element that people do tend to screw you over already adding to the whole disaster like a grenade with mini grenades inside of it. So it's definitely something to contemplate with utmost caution but hey some people say unicorns exist maybe... Just maybe... We could all find a unicorn. Bless
@MonochromaticBlues
8 ай бұрын
lol true which is why i wont marry or sleep with men.... :) or any other soul a bunch of selfish fks @JabariParker-zw1oo
Hafeez is such a panderer
@jbevolve2023
Жыл бұрын
and a beta male.
@ShaunHensley
Жыл бұрын
Hafeelz
@ghettoloco3313
Жыл бұрын
@@ShaunHensley lol that's funny
It's not just the financial element. Married men have given up, imagine not wanting to spend your life alone. That you need someone there constantly
@jeevajoethy5945
Жыл бұрын
Wouldn't you like to be with someone?
@blacklyfe5543
10 ай бұрын
Your kids
@billcipher3946
6 ай бұрын
@@jeevajoethy5945unless you get tired of them, and you don’t like them anymore 😂.
@rahuldahoob
5 ай бұрын
I'm not gayyyyyyyy
No marriage
Its the grenade in the room for me.
My guy said “some of us won’t make it to the mountain top of marriage” lol yeah fuck that then, I’ll spend my time climbing the other mountain, success mountain
When this man said “roomates” and I know current people who’s divorced but forced to still live with each other cause this country is economically imbalanced smh. I always thought getting married young was dvmb.
Please never invite hafeez back.
There is no benefit at all to getting married. You can do the same things married, unmarried.
@BlazingNChilling7s
3 ай бұрын
True. Take a good look at Oprah.
@user-nu5ri3mt8n
4 күн бұрын
Naw not really.
@3naturalBionutrition
4 күн бұрын
@@user-nu5ri3mt8n then tell 1 tangible benfit that excludes emotions and feelings??
People who try and use big words to sound intelligent are usually not
The guy earring the blue suit talking too much is just some amateur simp male who’s in love 😂.. he’ll find out the hard way..
F*ck yeah 😎
What's wrong with engaging in loveless relationships and financial ruin?
Thank you Al Bundy
Glorification of marriage is the norm. "Nihilism" is the exception, outside of the blackpilled internet Hafeez is just making ish up, on the fly
If its about love, god, and the Bible why is the state involved? Why not change the laws? If they did maybe more men would consider it. They wont because its not about that. They just want to make you believe it is.
@idontcare9797
10 ай бұрын
And DNA test every baby born before a man's name is put on a birth certificate
Hafeez is lost. he marries a woman and turns into delusional fairytale man.
Hafeez is annoying Af
Let's say I start viewing romantic relationships like business arrangements like women evidently do. I don't see why I should even come to the table at this point. What do you have to offer me other than risk? the same goes for women.
All i heard Hafeez say is "🐔🐔🐔"
years back a bunch of us were at a new years eve party. one of my buds got engaged that night in front of all of us. we all went up to congradulate them. one of my buds goes up congrats them then turns to all of us and in front of his own wife and says. why should he be happy. and the marriage after all that lasted all but 2 yrs. dont get married. stay single and raise your kids that way
Hafeez talks soooooooo much
It’s heartbreaking that we don’t look at the emotional, spiritual, and maturity levels of what marriage requires. We don’t talk about how many people pick partners in the wrong way, we don’t talk about how God is not involved in any of the process but we expect it to work out. We don’t talk about the responsibility we play in relationship and marriages. A part of my career for the last 9 years is collecting data. With the data is always the “Why”. We have these results, we see these results, but WHY. Men and women both play a huge role in whether a marriage works out or not. Both parties have to be fully in it for the long haul. Unfortunately when people say “I do” they are not thinking about the distance. If the foundation sucks or it was faulty from the beginning, it will eventually fall apart. If the relationship was built on “faking it” and lies it will fall. If it was based on assumptions and unspoken expectations it will fall. Relationships are not randomly falling apart. There is always a cause.
@youssefaithammou7351
Күн бұрын
We don't talk about a man losing half his s***t to a stranger, we don't talk about alimony, we don't talk about 80 % of women initiating divorce, we don't talk about paternity Fraud, we don't talk about feminazi.....
CGA be clicking on all cylinders!!! If you not subscribed to any of his channels you are losing bro! The hardest working man in this space with two 3 to 4 hour shows Monday through Friday!!!
marriage has been great so far
I hope the man who spoke first has a marriage that lasts a lifetime. I really do, but one has to look at statistics. From what I have read, divorce rates are at or close to 50%. In Christian marriages, it is slightly less. One has to ask what the root issue is, and I assert it is because there is no longer a stigma around divorce like there used to be. It is far easier for someone to throw up their hands and file for divorce, and the lower earner (typically the wife in the past), usually gets taken care of for life, or for a significant amount of time. In 2023, there should be zero alimony paid to another person. High earners, realize that when you marry someone, you will be forced by family court to maintain their lifestyle, even if they cheat on you, spend all of your money without you knowing, etc. It is basically the state's way of forcing you to pay for your former partner's welfare. In my opinion, it isn't worth it to get married in the slightest.
1:40 any opinion on CGA comes from here 😂😂
Hafeez is nothing but Tony Robbins style emotionally appealing BS. His arrogant filibustering is annoying.
Can we actually think an OF woman with kids has a happy marriage?
@jddiggy2343
Жыл бұрын
Ya most cuckold's seem pretty happy I guess
@hillsideonly
Жыл бұрын
Yes she can, it depends on compatible values
I am a man and certainly biased but I've seen so many damaged women hurt so many men I've known or met. The main pattern I see is that they [women] don't seem to understand or practice unconditional love whilst all along being verbally abused by women.
3:05 exactly and my perspective is like a pig or cow at the slaughter house and there's an exit, I don't want to be the next animal with a bolt between it's head....I have heard too many divorce horror stories and have no desire to be next.
Somebody is playing a lottery
Hotfeet sounds like one of these ponzu schemes guy 😂
I didn't realize how personalities clash in a marriage. I wouldn't marry too quickly. Give it time.
Happily ever after lol. He's right we need to quit selling that bs
1:50 "business partner"?
Stats don’t lie!
The beginning of the END of Hafeez. 😂😈
When someone says "Let's Get Married" they are not saying, let's have a successful relationship or let's have True Love. They are saying Let's go to the court House and execute a legally Binding Contract regarding our financial assets and wealth THEN let's go to a venue and have a celebration party called a Wedding. You are legally combining all assets. That's why you need a CONTRACT.
Love is a misunderstanding between two fools.😂