Gentleman bottom line is.. You can’t protect what you can’t control. Also, no girl trips with single girlfriends.

@ththim7785

24 күн бұрын

You men forget that you came through the portal of a woman? You men created a neiche of harassment and violence only to turn around and capitalizes on calling it protection. Protection from who exactly? Violent gnomes like yourselves?

@ernestagyemang-botchway108

19 күн бұрын

@@thebusinesshour1733 u can't protect what u can't control period!!!

1.) don't trust them 2.) don't follow them 3.) quit smiling with them 4.) quit playing with them 5.) be on guard in their presence 6.) never submit to women 7.) never play with women 8.) don't open a heart to them 9.) don't love them unconditionally 10) worship God, not women

@cedricmiller4370

2 ай бұрын

Your 10 comments will save a man life in this new era we living in cause they looking a weak man to make they life easy

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

10 interesting facts

@unconqueredmale339

Ай бұрын

@@cedricmiller4370 I agree.

@MoeCain748

Ай бұрын

Stay single , stay a virgin sound like you about to go to combat with another country And lose

@worldadventuretravel

Ай бұрын

Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence. You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy. You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives. You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction. You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine. You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect. You could be planting trees. You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone. You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals. You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south. You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation. You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out. You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that. You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves. *If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet. But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority. And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore. *PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.* Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.

That's definitely the case, I trusted my wife, it was cool when we went out with other couples, once she started going out with her single friends it went south real fast

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Yep!!!

You submit to God and she submits to you. If she refuses to submit to you, it's because she's submitting to someone else. People can only be emotionally connected to one person at a time and if it's not you, it's him!👉🏾

@leeolie3728

2 ай бұрын

Either someone else or a demon

@Jazzmarcel

2 ай бұрын

@@leeolie3728 yeah that demon called BPD/NARCISSIST!.........

@user-fz5qv7uf6v

Ай бұрын

I believe you...

@christianhenry4173

Ай бұрын

You do realize that means majority of men are just roaming around the planet either living for God totally or waiting for a rare virgin. This is going to get harder and harder to as the times of revelation are revealed

@BluefaceTrice-jo8vr

Ай бұрын

I agree to disagree with your statement but ultimately there is some truth to your statement. I think that a woman can be emotionally connected to more than just one person. I’ve seen woman connected to two different guys before and struggle with who to go with. That does happen more than people think it does.

DNA testing should be mandatory in ALL cases, and the cost should be included with the delivering of the child.

@ththim7785

2 ай бұрын

I fully agree with you and men should be jailed if found to be the father and pay reparations! Furthermore, if you were not there having unprotected sex, their names would not be called except if the woman is no in her right mind.

@abciniarose2629

Ай бұрын

lol why are you procreating with a woman you don’t trust or have no marriage to?

@wisdomakpabio8268

25 күн бұрын

@@ththim7785 I know you’re a black woman from your comments

@jeremylesso857

24 күн бұрын

Most people don't pay anyways😂😂

That brother was spot on with those words of wisdom. If you're weak, she won't respect you my brother. Let Jesus Christ lead you and you will always stand up like a man, period!!!!!

NEVER, give a woman money. NEVER. pay her bills. NEVER, give her family money or gifts. thats her job not yours. NEVER, sign a govt. contract with her. it gives her leverage and increases her value and lowers yours while she did nothing to earn it. NEVER, feel sorry for her. women sometimes like to play victim for their bad decisions and not planning ahead. no one is going to feel sorry for us and bail us out so why do that for her?

@theSword-

Ай бұрын

Exactly right. I was going to say all those things. No marriage, no kids, no cohabitation. You only put your name on your cars and your house. Not a woman that doesn't add a real, tangible value to your life.

@worldadventuretravel

Ай бұрын

Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence. You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy. You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives. You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction. You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine. You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect. You could be planting trees. You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone. You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals. You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south. You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation. You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out. You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that. You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves. *If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet. But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority. And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore. *PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.* Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.

@alpheusjoseph9907

Ай бұрын

I agree bro

@alpheusjoseph9907

Ай бұрын

these new women and especially the younger, are out for benefits, money for sure, and what they can get out of you

@user-ip9fk6yp2z

Ай бұрын

PREACH!!!!!

Its disgusting for real big dawg. Some dudes just happy to be a presence of a woman and ignore everything but will fight you for pointing it out. It makes my blood boil for real.

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Facts Mr. Thomas Facts!

@ththim7785

2 ай бұрын

@@darwynnmcpherson Why are you contradicting yourself?

@texasmade2719

Ай бұрын

@@darwynnmcpherson Great Advice from this video!

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

@@texasmade2719 Thank you

@AnthonyJohnson-qf2bc

23 күн бұрын

Simps .

I hope I don't sound preachy because I'm not religious. However I've been living life from a Biblical perspective for the last 30 of my 52 years on Earth. The Most High (TMH) had a very interesting relationship with Israel his people, and I equate it to Manhood. Let me explain. TMH set boundaries and laid out expectations for his people. This is what you CAN do, and this is what you CANNOT do, and despite the fact that he could utterly destroy them, his biggest threat was that if they crossed those boundaries he'd leave them to their own devices and unprotected from their enemies. We as men can do all that, and our greatest superpower is that we can walk away from an uncooperative women. So my rules that have served me well are. 1. Set boundaries and expectations. 2. Be ready to exact whatever penalties you've enumerated for transgressions of your boundaries. (In other words, if you say that doing X will get you Y make sure you stand on that.) 3. Never allow a Woman to disrespect you in any way. (This can also be part of your boundaries just make sure she knows you don't play that.) 4. Her job is to be a help and or support as well as a companion to me, not the other way around. If she has Girl Boss dreams she is perfectly free to pursue them on her own, and I wish her the best of luck with all that, but your not what I'm looking for. AND 5. I run my household and make the decisions. I may seek her opinion or counsel on certain matters or I may not. In the end I take responsibility for the choices even if I go with her suggestions or counsel, and I never REGRET any of my choices but I do learn from making bad ones. Anyway I could write a book on it but I'll stop there. Just my 2 cents.

She either really likes you or she doesn't theres no middle ground fellas! Sorry! If you can't CORRECT her you can't PROTECT her, period!

@asgplumbing781

21 күн бұрын

exactly right I agree with you homie

10 years of pure hell, Federal and State taxes and license taken, only to find out that the child wasn't mine,whew, glad i made out of it.

@JerseyVibes

2 ай бұрын

Damn. 💔🤲🏾🙏🏾

@southpaw336

2 ай бұрын

Well Damn!!! You have story to tell these youngsters..

@reggiem8407

Ай бұрын

😮

@rickyhough1594

Ай бұрын

🙏🏾‼️‼️

@success_over_everything760

Ай бұрын

I'm sure you had an idea but you looked the other way.

MAN UP!!!! If it makes you feel uncomfortable don't go for it. Keep your boundaries. Me!!! I don't take no sht off of nobody, a woman don't have a chance. Love em like crazy. But don't take no sht off women. And guess who taught me that, A woman. Who happened to be my mother

You are 100% right brother. Never pardon the last one.

A man's peace is the most important part 🙏 in his life 🙏 everything else is secondary.

For sure!! Single women keep single women single! 💯💯💯

@user-ip9fk6yp2z

Ай бұрын

So true that happened to me my wife started hanging with single woman and that's what broke up are mirage 😢

@318DoubleE

Ай бұрын

Married ones too and the gate keeping tactics are counterproductive in these times.

Some of these men have been made weak by their mothers. One adult guy that I know was cooking Thanksgiving dinner instead of the mother, like she had him trained.

@cedricmiller4370

2 ай бұрын

That's right they will have you trained if you don't put your foot down these females want to be the dominant in the relationship they don't like it when they can't get over

@justiceofharlem

Ай бұрын

My ole lady can’t cook lol I have to cook Thanksgiving

@rathkhan1114

Ай бұрын

Cooking is a skill set . It has nothing to do with weakness. Mainstream media, school, college when they started teaching you their version of how to be a man, all the problem going to start from there. Matrix want man to be like feminine and women to musclin. If you are awake man , You will understand very quickly. Specially in North America they are killing our family structure. Healthy family structure play viral rule in a man or woman life. Most high created man as a leader and provider and womans created to be carrier of your child and taken care of family. You can live in 2080 if you try to change the order created by most high. You will going to face problem. God bless you all.

@user-bo6dd7fi9i

Ай бұрын

😂😂, there is a place where MEN cook and that's for his children if the wife isn't around

@abciniarose2629

Ай бұрын

lol

I agree with this man about what he's saying, meeting women online such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other websites. Those women have kids, want money, and sleep with other men with stds, it's best to stay with the one you have or make sure she needs to be replaced before going into debt with another

@abciniarose2629

Ай бұрын

Lmao yooooo thats wild having access to the internet and social media? So it’s the internets fault lol Replaced hmmm interesting

I love videos like this. Please don't stop posting. I was raised by a single mother. I'm 61 videos like this, which takes the place of an absent father.

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

I’ve watched 3 of your videos……and you’re 3 for 3, spot on! I am subscribed! Respect.

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Thanks and welcome

This brother is telling you tye truth. These are the rules of the game.

Solid info bro, you are on point

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Appreciate that

Like these 10 no no's my brother. It's right on point 👉🏿

This is so timely Bruh! You brought some great points to this video. Stay on YOUR purpose Fellas!

I agree wholeheartedly with this one especially that phone...thats just like going thru my purse... Now, that lawnmower rubbed me the wrongway...if I bought that zeroturn you had better ask me if whoever wanna borrow it can. And my answer to you will be you better make damn sure they know they’re buying us a BRAND NEW one if they break it.

Young man keep educating these dudes.

This take was well thought about and well said.

@darwynnmcpherson

11 күн бұрын

Thanks 💯💯💯

BRAVO Darwynn McPherson for this very informative and enlightening content! AMEN-ASE!

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I don’t know why this popped up in my algorithm but prayers and healing to the man behind this channel. There are good women and men out here. This channel sounds dedicated to women who look to take advantage of men! Moment of silence for the men who have been hurt. On the flip side there are also men who do women dirty too. So this video is actually interesting to watch to learn another perspective

100% facts.

Good stuff Darwinn - especially for for this society we are living in today 😟

@darwynnmcpherson

3 күн бұрын

Thanks. As the society evolves, our awareness has to as well.

Don't ever let anyone axe you a question, make them ask you a question..

Great video bro

@darwynnmcpherson

3 ай бұрын

Thanks!!!

Right right. But you can forgive but you have to move on.Not forgive and Stay with her. Can't hold a grudge all your life according God's way. Your thoughts

Great video man!

Peace =Respect & Vice Versa, they go hand and hand, imo. This list is wisdom, Brotha, a Blessing to anyone who takes heed. My grandfather told me “A woman can help or hinder you, get you one who’ll help you.”

@darwynnmcpherson

8 сағат бұрын

Absolutely Anthony!!! Glad i was able to find you bro.

Facts on facts family! Great video!

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Thanks

Forgive her for cheating I'll leave😂😂😂

Never expect a woman to be ‘on time’. Never cry in front of her, she’ll see that as the man being ‘weak’ and use that as a way to take the man for granted. Never say you ‘love’ her unless you mean it and keep your word. Never call her ‘outside’ her name. Never hit her out of anger. If there’s ‘any suspicion’ that she doesn’t love you never eat anything she cooks for you. She should always dress to impress you at home not outside for anybody else in the world. If you’re just friends dating and she starts arguments with strangers, strange men, quit her. If you’re married to her then deal and workout all these things together🤷🏼.

Excellent Guidelines 💯 I Live by them as a Confident Black Man Who knows My Worth @ The same time Upgrading My Self, My Territory & My Standards Thank you Wise Words to Live by On this Podcast 🤳🏿☝🏿💯

@yashiyahatlas8496

Ай бұрын

If you knew your worth, you definitely wouldn't be calling yourself "black" God Almighty didn't call you that.

Very well said.

3:41 don't help her find anything, once she does and she start feeling like she better than you or she can do better than you, she out the door.

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

I agree & its a red flag

@vicksmoka

Ай бұрын

Let her be out, shiiit

@terryebenezermason

Ай бұрын

Facts

Hey Darwynn thank you for speaking the truth I'm guilty I've let women use me fir years now I don't let them use me for anything anymore I thank you again my brother

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Hey Carl we all have a story brother. You're Welcome

@carlward6662

2 ай бұрын

Yes we sure do just gotta do better in these ways

I'm from South Africa I've just watched and listened this video ma big brother you've awakened me man God is great and i did subscribed thank you very much big brother.

@darwynnmcpherson

11 күн бұрын

You’re welcome my brother from the motherland 🫱🏾‍🫲🏿💯💯💯

Quite A Sound Advice! Thank you.

@darwynnmcpherson

24 күн бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Yo you on the money I'm 47 and be preaching the same thing to the young fellas on my job, I just found your channel keep up the good homie!

@corynewton743

Ай бұрын

Work

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Thanks will do

Men submit to God, woman submit to men! A lot of women don’t like the sound of that one, but it’s only 100% true

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

I second this!

@bethmcgill5944

Ай бұрын

Amen insisting on submission have already lost. Relationships involve mutuality

@jerrylaws3436

Ай бұрын

You both must submit to GOD , you must be dedicated to each other , he ultimately has the last word but , try not to control her because doesn't control you it must be voluntary that's what make it work .

@abciniarose2629

Ай бұрын

Actually it’s not so many pastors speak on this

@Boombastic82

21 күн бұрын

But who is God?

Please keep this kind of content up brother

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Will do! Any ideas that I can work on that can be similar to this. I struggle doubling down lol

I really enjoyed this video,I am a 48 year old Man that has learned a lot about what you talked about.I lost sight of myself but I'm in a better place.Great job

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Great sound wisdom young King 👑

Number 2 hits different and is real.

Bro you dropping some real 💎s

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Thanks

Good advice, my brother.

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Thanks brother

Nice information brother..God bless u

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Same to you

So true dead on killed it bro

Serious tings bredda!

@darwynnmcpherson

2 күн бұрын

Thanks bro

Facts dropped straight

Speaking real shit not enough people out here speakin this shit when it comes to building a relationship play strong relationship a healthy little a healthy relationship

Real talk bro real talk !!!!!

It seems everybody an expert these days and my people takes lead but are the most dysfunctional people in America. Don't know who they are, care not to find out, but can give advise on relationship and marriage. Incredible!

Good points.

Some stuff u just never knew. But I’m glad I know now!! 💯

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Salute!

This is what I'm going threw RIGHT NOW! MAN 🤦🏾

Ask to go through her phone and see what she says. Lol I learned a long time ago if someone is suspicious of me cheating for absolutely no reason then I already know who's cheating. Been there done that. I'm addicted to being single and my sanity. I have grown to feel no use for dating whatsoever. I wish I didn't feel that way but I've grown to enjoy my own space my own money. Come and go without needing to ask anyone. Almost married twice and dodged two big bullets there. After that second one I said to hell with it. Trying to date in this day and age is like deciding which squatter is more tolerable. Some people have that need for companionship. I'm not one of those people. It's sad but relationships bring more stress and irritability than they're worth anymore.

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

I’d like to talk with you about this shoot me an email let’s talk about it. I may be able to help you out.

@eugenefreeman6085

Ай бұрын

Agree💯 Word, Bless you brother!! Solo the way to go...

Great information 👍

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

My woman has had access to my phone as soon as we became exclusive. I require access to hers as well. It’s not insecurity… it’s transparency. If she declined, I would be cool with that, but I wouldn’t be her man, and she wouldn’t be my woman. We’d just be FWB. Other than that this was a good video 🤙🏽

Facts on 🔝 of Facts

I 100% agree.

good information, very good

@darwynnmcpherson

25 күн бұрын

Appreciate

Preach!!!!

Brother you have said it all!!

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Thanks Reg

Some great advice..👏

Solid information

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

You Totally Right 👍

This video should have 42,000 LIKES 👍🏾

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Facts!!!

@dzdhandzcan816

Ай бұрын

@@darwynnmcpherson I know brotha’s in most of these positions especially going out clubbing her WHOLE birthday month 🤣 not coming home till the next day at 1/2 pm her excuse “Iwas drunk spent the night at my girlfriends house” I know she done cheated on my dawg he’s too chill and square for her he’s not fun in her eyes 🤦🏾‍♂️

Telling a woman she's fat will end most relationships. They do not let that go.

Love it

THANK YOU BRO 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

@darwynnmcpherson

11 күн бұрын

Any time!

Real Talk!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯💯

As a woman 👠👠 I have to agree and I behave this way now ,u shouldn't let your spouse struggle if they need help and u both gotta pick each other up if u fall 👍🏽 u have to be your own person and have your own hobbies and friends this will save your relationship can't be around each other 24/7 not healthy 😉

@RJ12347

2 ай бұрын

Your opinion isn't relevant info this forum but "okay".

@godsnotdonewithyouyet6955

2 ай бұрын

@@RJ12347 🙄🙄hush 🤫 no one asked your single ass

@godsnotdonewithyouyet6955

Ай бұрын

@@RJ12347 hush !

@Goldenrosefusion

Ай бұрын

Ugh, I agree with you 100% hate to admit it, but it is true. I am this way now. ❤️‍🔥

As I listen to this video I am thinking: Women should start saying NO to sex without marriage. JUST SAY NO!

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Studies show this yields great results

Nothing but FACTS!

Thanks for your service 👍💪

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Any time

@kingmaafa120

2 ай бұрын

@@darwynnmcpherson BLK 2 u bro 😎 AIMMING HIGH SEMPER FI

you got bars OG

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

Thanks bro im here to help

I had a buddy tell me he knows someone who found out years later in his disease wife's diary that all three children were not by him. He now lives a very lonely sad depressed life. He doesn't talk to HER kids because it is just too much to bear. All the kids are grown now and completely hate their disease mother.

@darwynnmcpherson

2 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing this. TBH this is very sad. I wonder how was not able to see the kids do not resemble him?

My guy you cookin😂😂😂😂

All good advice

Agree bro REAL TALK

I concur 300%

💯 percent spot on🙏

Thanks King.

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Salute!

Good Money My Brother..

You just gained a subscriber.

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

Welcome!!!

All true in this video.! Game every man needs to hear! I love it. I want to hear the female prospective from Real Life Experiences and what would be there boundaries as well. I Love That Truth About; “Man Submit To GOD And Women Submit To Man.” I Love It keep the content coming My Brother for curtain. 🏅

@darwynnmcpherson

Ай бұрын

No doubt! Brad and I appreciate the love

@abciniarose2629

Ай бұрын

Facts just games I agree

Subbed my dude am I to old for this channel I'm 41 ?

@darwynnmcpherson

12 күн бұрын

Perfect age my brother

Dope video bro, you said it best!!!🦾🦾🦾🦾

@darwynnmcpherson

2 ай бұрын

I appreciate it!

Real talk

Words for all men to hear and remember .inform us more

My guy ALWAYS let me Be Me, we're up on 20yrs. I aint tryin to hear tnis mess! Get your passport bruh!😂

@daxterclark5092

2 ай бұрын

He's soft lol

@RufusEason-my6pk

Ай бұрын

When you both get in 40y you both will understand ....

@user-mi6fw4yy6w

Ай бұрын

Damn I feel sorry for dude...wasted 20 years...smh

Real Talk

…dude on point yo✔️…