The last time my ex called me I told him that I couldn't talk that I was at a funeral. When he asked me who died. I said my feelings for you. And I hung up.

@betseyglam1799

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@MsSugarDyme

3 жыл бұрын

Ayyyyeeeee 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

@ladytricia9808

3 жыл бұрын

Well said. 😅🤣😂

@viviancheek2241

3 жыл бұрын

Yes buried ex husband six feet under in the bottom of the earth while he's still alive..

@viviancheek2241

3 жыл бұрын

Thier souls are casted in helll.

When the devil can’t get to you... he sends a narcissist🙅🏽‍♀️

@stephaniecarter5087

4 жыл бұрын

TRUE

@shug_no_avery8172

4 жыл бұрын

I seen this last night stg

@themarro6695

4 жыл бұрын

@ shug_no_ avery Someone said it and I totally agree! The Narc has the resemblance of the devil.

@shug_no_avery8172

3 жыл бұрын

The Marro exactly

@themarro6695

3 жыл бұрын

@ shug_no_ avery We need to be alert. These Narcs are masters of deception 🙅🏽‍♀️

Being in a relationship with a narc is like living through a real life psychological thriller.

@JH-td4mn

Жыл бұрын

And at times a horror film

@TaeMeshon

11 ай бұрын

Definitely a horror film, waiting for it to be over

@peachezp1587

11 ай бұрын

Trying to figure out when did you accept the invite or sign up for this. Who is this?!

@user-vr7ey2zn6p

10 ай бұрын

no, it's like being in a real life horror movie

@PeaceDayCortez

8 ай бұрын

More like a horror story 🤔

OMG!!! I just recently called off my wedding in June of this year 2021 with a narcissist. I thank God for discernment🙌🏾I can’t stop praising Him🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@healthyheart8972

2 жыл бұрын

Thank God 🙌🏽 …

@rebecaoquendo7363

2 жыл бұрын

run as far as you can , he will not rest until he destroys you . I been there

@longislandny696

2 жыл бұрын

Very lucky for you

@pastorveracampbell3383

2 жыл бұрын

You did the RIGHT thing too!! Thank GOD!!

@SanctifiedLady

2 жыл бұрын

Close call!!! Wow!

Until you've actually LIVED with Or EXPERIENCED one of these monsters up close and personal you won't EVER fully "get it"

@hausofrocks

3 жыл бұрын

Very true. You cannot talk about what you dealt with anyone because they look at you like you're crazy.

@rrodriguez4336

3 жыл бұрын

You are so right. I find its best not to try to explain to family and friends so I pray and focus on myself.

@Victoria-ik7mn

3 жыл бұрын

You sooooo right.DEMONIC TO THE FULLEST.

@emagreen2795

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@anthonyp6823

3 жыл бұрын

No one will understand. They say just leave, I wouldn't put up with it, you're making excuses. But they don't know the half of it.

Listen closely to what a narcissist accuses you of, it's the closest thing to a confession you will ever get.

@TingleVerseASMR452

3 жыл бұрын

Man you are amazing at the points you state. The facts that maybe due to this being fresh to me its not been a full year since he abandoned me but of course not without the good old fashioned smear campaign and delusional as all get out telling he saw me get in cars with people that didn't exist and, oh that fool probably had like 970000 other supplies anyways i know for those of us who have, unfortunately experienced the tragedy of these animals, when we or I tell someone my ex they ask , oh how long ago I state 8 months been broken up its the same response, dang that was a long time ago haha um..first off we were together almost a decade, but mostly when abused by a narc healing process VERYYY DIFFERENT so i just dont bother.

@jamiweeks5775

3 жыл бұрын

@@TingleVerseASMR452 Its not just healing from the lies, abuse, betrayal, and abandonment. They took us away from ourselves and over time made us someone who was so used to pain that we don't feel normal anymore without pain. There is one plus side to going through this... when we find ourselves and our self worth again. We become stronger then ever. God bless you honey. I don't know you but know I love you. /hugs

@TingleVerseASMR452

3 жыл бұрын

@JamiWeeks awe man I love you too! When we go thru hell like this type of experience..and fight thru it no matter where you are in the world and have experienced this kind of atrocious pain, breakage, and everything that made us awesome and unique and light houses, if you will , has been sucked out of us and like pastor RC BLAKES who is spot on like so spot on which blows my mind and makes me.so happy he does I feel it's the holy spirit and God leading him etc but normally only tbr narc knows the game as well lol...but we are like our own sort of family and community because I tried to tell my fam sometimes and everything I read abt what a narc will do and smear u to ut fam? They'll make it look like all ur fault becuz to outsiders if you will ppl ask the same frustrating questions! Why don't you juzt leave? ( I want to I am silently screaming 😱 loud and need someone to love me and believe me etc.) Or they're just I guess to be kind ignorant to what's going on and I guess fot that I'm happy for I don't wish this pain on NOOO ONE. But it does leave us utterly alone..however I learned that sometime a big reason we even fall for toxic narcs is also something broken inside of us so thats how God sort of kills two birds with one stone. Sorry for the analogy lol but he uses that sickness in us attracted the devil lol..who then opens up more broken places and new junk etc exposes both us and tbe narc so we leave and get healthy (hopefully) and not waste anymore time with someone who will kill us for reals I was so skinny omg bones and literally not well and then my GOD MY HERO THR LORD JESUS VIOLENTLY SHOWED MY EX TRUE DEMONIC COLORS AND SHOWED ME JUSY A LOT IN ME THAT WAS DYING , HIS SICK AGENDA my ex and his WIFE hahahah wife anyways not here look back but God is so precious GLORIOUS STRONG AND MIGHTY AND FR THR FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I FELT THE LOVE OF GOD THRU HIM CUTTINV THE STRINGS FROM ME AND MY EVIL PUPPETEER ONLY ONE WHO COULD AND I. Became stronger smarter a thousand times closer to the Lord finally allowed him to break me and remake me and it hurt like a son of a gun on me to tell you what but I'm so grateful and I thank you for I feel that those of us who have been abused like this are our own family because sometimes there's families in mine was very close to do away with us cuz they think that were just stupid heads saying something only know better and should get out and my touch's not reality that's not for me anyway that was not what was happening it's a sick mental psychosis crap at the Double it's hard to explain to just anybody but thank you for saying what you said it helps me to feel not so alone I think anybody I don't feel alone all the time anymore but I just want to know when I'm going to stop thinking about him everyday you know it's not like it used to be at all thank you Jesus I just think the healing just takes a lot longer for this is not any type of normal relationship God bless to anyone going through this just going through this or trying to get out and Miss Jami idk where you are in the world' im.in az haha but WERE FAMILY NOW

@jamiweeks5775

3 жыл бұрын

@@TingleVerseASMR452 I have a hard time with not thinking about him myself. It does get better. Just keep swimming. Keep praying and keep this king God for your freedom. The chain is broken. God is so good. And yes we family girl. Family through Christ and pain.

@TingleVerseASMR452

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamiweeks5775 man you said something so beautiful and deep. Family thru Christ and pain! Wow I want to start a blog or something I know there are many for this topic but the lord also told me.to write a book..and that's in the works but todY is so hard for me this day last year another new year's eve that I was having anxiety abt for I out if 10 years neber once got to have him ans yes if course id get all crazy like why not wth is going on and alwus same answer gonna be with my kids so of course in all why canf we all be together duh when you're blinded by a narc it's like a spell but anyways this time last year as we died our relationship his wife showed up at my house and I almost passed out cuz she come banging onnmu door as I would have if tables turned but I open mh door and she is like 4 ft 9 haha tiny im only 5 2 and she fell into mu arms weeping I was weeping cux she saw him on mh couch where he was everyday and I know tbe pain she felt and I didn't mean to cause it I DIDNT KNOW I SWEAR CUZ I. BEEN THERE I DONT DO THAT and ny whole world crashed she collected herself and she wasn't mad at me and we like in tnaf moment wer together against him for we jjsy found out abt each there and I'll never forget I am telling me to hold her in to console her can you believe that the. She released a ton of HEAVY ARTILLERY WOWOWOW SHS GOT PREGNANT HAD miscarriage just my mouth kn fbe floor and it all made sense in tbag moment and when that happened I was no longer able to be controls and of course he told me she was lying and beg me he worked it out with her first in my house I left my own house then he came back at like 3 in the morning as usual try to tell me a bunch of lies and that's when I didn't in right away because I was in love with him I didn't know what to do I didn't know who to believe but that's when his mask started to fall off and then it fell off hard and thn all hell broke loose and blah blah so today I didn't think would hurt so dang bad biy I woke myself up out of sleep crying haha however I know God saved me and I know he changed me I let him break me to heal properly so thank-you for being there and im here for you as well happy new years love ya

Even when they get caught they never accept accountability. Lying is their strongest suit!

@memejay1589

8 ай бұрын

Never accepts accountability NEVER NEVER

@user-nj7ew1wl4t

8 ай бұрын

Yep

They never accept responsibility for anything that they do is wrong. It’s always someone else’s fault.

@redjulmar7391

2 жыл бұрын

My ex husband keeps telling me that it was not him .. it was not him who did all the vile things to me... it was a monster !

@hazelrael4532

2 жыл бұрын

I have a pastor who is a narsacist don't know what to think

@hazelrael4532

2 жыл бұрын

I could really get help on this please

@patricetheauthor6535

2 жыл бұрын

Never EVER!

@healthandwellness6312

2 жыл бұрын

Yep

When they ghost you please know they are also laid up with or entertaining someone else while you are left trying to figure out the total chaos!

@sweetkelllz

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. My son’s father ghosted me for 6 weeks while I was pregnant. Had the nerve to come back talking about some woman wanted to be his girlfriend but he was cautious and told her no because he wasn’t sure if he and I would get back together. Can you believe the arrogance? I didn’t ever get back with him and before I left the house for good I ended up walking in on him and the new supply in bed. I had my sleeping baby in my arms, I turned around and never went back.

@sirquincywashington7584

4 жыл бұрын

u think u know about mind games hope u know about these narc women

@patriciawhite1664

4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetkelllz you make me so happy that you were strong enough with or without a baby to walk away from that sick bastard. Stay NO CONTACT. God will take care of you.

@misguidedpearls7456

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@wandasbodycare4142

4 жыл бұрын

@Lovieto this is so true. OMG!

A Narcisist can make you second guess yourself into thinking maybe you are the narcisist who is just not self aware.

@sheenaking3026

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is I definitely started question myself

@ruthawuor5973

3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@simplynatasha4542

3 жыл бұрын

Facts 🙌🙌🙌

@robingraham7618

3 жыл бұрын

So true. Done that many times.

@jeanniecannon4612

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and they make you so frustrated that your only teenage child tries to convince you that you are the narcissist. But the father is oh so good because he allows the child to do whatever. No emotional involvement. Warfare. Spiritual warfare.

They deserve an Academy Award for their story telling and acting!

@femaletribefitness

Жыл бұрын

🎉I swear !!!

@shannonkelly7247

Жыл бұрын

And don’t let them be a physically attractive individual cause folks believe anything that comes out their mouth

@kishafaggins392

Жыл бұрын

You must talking about David aka Aileak Walden!

@hintonmarvella44

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@MsVeeBee

Жыл бұрын

Yes great performers indeed

A narcissist is an enemy in my eyes I don’t see it any other way. A lot of time us as women don’t feel this but it’s true the person you share a bed with could truly dislike or damn near hate you and you don’t even know it. Your man or your woman could become your enemy. I have experienced this.

@joanbarrington9914

Жыл бұрын

I can see where men of this catastrophic character contaminate the dating pool. Dating is more difficult than any calculus and physicics course I have ever taken. Pastor you are the angel of mercy God has sent to warn the vulnerable as a cautionary tail. God bless you.

@SunnnySkies

Жыл бұрын

I slept with my enemy for 8 years. One day he just left. It was so traumatizing. I was blamed for everything he did including the cheating.

@theloveleeone

Жыл бұрын

💯 I was with someone for almost a year, before that, I knew him (thought I knew him) for 5 years, we've had heart to heart conversations and he opened up about how he couldn't control his thinking but he was trying and I did see that. but after that he was accusing me of so many things and created the most outlandish scenerios (he could of taken that energy and wrote novels) within that time I received back to back dreams of him choking me. I was like yea I'm definitely out. ending peacefully with him wasn't easy, he became more vicious and blew up my phone with no lie 100+ calls and multiple messages trying to sound scary. I stood my ground though and after that I went silent. he wanted me dead anyway so I went ghost 👻🤍

@MzStEy3z

Жыл бұрын

@@theloveleeone 🙌🏾🙏

@goodmorningsundaymorning4533

Жыл бұрын

It's literally sharing your bed with a demon. 🤮

Can we stop calling them Narcissist and start calling them Demons? It puts things in better perspective that way

@hillbillyheadcam1729

3 жыл бұрын

But they themselves are not demons. They are hurting people with demons in them.

@LaReinaPrieta

3 жыл бұрын

@@hayleyyardley3408 JINN-tiled (Gen-tiles)...”demons in flesh”!

@quevestermoore297

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! A demon is A demon" no need to sugar coat it

@LaReinaPrieta

3 жыл бұрын

@@hillbillyheadcam1729 Why Not!

@CodyCole80

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissism is the medical term. Demonic spirit is the spiritual term.

Celibacy has been a Tremendous Healing to my SOUL.

@indiahindiah7295

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@tonyhoward211

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! That's where I'm at currently.

@indiahindiah7295

3 жыл бұрын

Is celibacy using adult toys instead😳🤷🤦

@empathicmisslady

3 жыл бұрын

No toys for me. I've never purchased any never used any and I'll be 40 in January.

@tonyhoward211

3 жыл бұрын

@@indiahindiah7295 Lol masturbation is a step in the right direction (but we're not supposed to even be doing that).

I was with a narcissist for almost 8 years. Worst relationship ever. Towards the end I literally prayed and begged God with tears in my eyes to remove him. If he was never gonna change, to move him out of my life. He left my two weeks later and I'm finally at peace and beyond happier. I thank God for removing him out of my life.

@teresarenee3829

Жыл бұрын

You got lucky...Congrats, seriously, have a blessed life...

@user-jf7dn1ff4j

Жыл бұрын

Good for you and how are you now?i did the same after 16 months Dating and God did it in 2 days for me😊

@rachelf2401

Жыл бұрын

@@user-jf7dn1ff4j I'm good 😊 I lost weight, and feel so much happier and at peace!

@beautiful_wonderfullymade

7 ай бұрын

@@rachelf2401 I’m reading your comment and beyond happy for you ❤ I’m in the same predicament

@-Jesus-daughter

7 ай бұрын

Yes its a demonisch evil, spirit in them, on clean spirit s the sell him or her soul by the Devil satan is a liar Father of all lies. People need too repent today don t wait for tommorow before its to late.

So many people need to hear this.....being with a narcissist causes soul damage and can take so much out of your soul. Thank you for your service to educate us! God bless you!

@1010QUEEN7

Жыл бұрын

The only thing he couldn't take out of me is the God in me he sure as hell tried his best

@1010QUEEN7

Жыл бұрын

Joy is a beautiful name the Joy of the Lord is our strength. Love won at CALVARY

@staceybarnett1801

Жыл бұрын

Yes is definitely dose had me believing it was me buttttt God thank you Jesus

@staceybarnett1801

Жыл бұрын

So true

@janicebrown1291

Жыл бұрын

God Is With You ! He Is So So So Good ! But they Pop Back Up ! And When God Deal with Them ! Stay Out Of It ! Go To Italy To Live ! But Stay Away! Live In The Peace Of God ! Because you are uncovering a whole lot’s of people. That live raggedy live’s. Mad 😡 Because you won’t participate in there’s craziness ! Thank You!

What they accuse you of, is what they are ACTUALLY doing right now. 😔

@killahlipstick7654

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@mrsmjjoseph

3 жыл бұрын

Nailed it!

@ginahess4504

3 жыл бұрын

Yes so true!!

@habibamakgatho958

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I started to understand that, he accused me of everything he was doing to me including cheating

@mhrmisodi4402

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 👌

I just blocked the guy I had an almost 2 year situationship with the other day. I can't play his game anymore, watching myself block so many blessings because of my addiction to him and our toxic, codependent relationship. He is such a charmer but an even more skilled manipulator. Touch and agree with me that I won't repeat anything with him. My mind told me there's no one like him but shoot I'm going to just do without the little things. I don't want to ever feel the way he always made me feel on the silent days. LORD, guard me and let me only progress forward and evolve. I forgive him, but God, kill and demolish this demonic soultie, in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen. 🙏🏾 I am free. 🕊

@flawedyetredeemed395

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@narc699

3 жыл бұрын

hi! i noticed that my blessings were being passed to him! thats when i started to realize i was being used.

@pricillageorge5028

3 жыл бұрын

You sound like me. I'm feeling like I'm going crazy in the mind. Thus is pure evil.

@simoneclark1820

3 жыл бұрын

@@pricillageorge5028 I was there 7 months ago if you need someone to talk to I’m here for you I had no one to turn to but you don’t have to go through this alone ...

@jamaicanjoyh6883

3 жыл бұрын

@@narc699 mine was even takin credit for everything while jokingly devaluing me No more. I will have to do without the lil things too...the good that was there...the pleasantries....BUT I trade it TO HAVE ME BACK✌🏾

When the narcissist comes back they traumatize you even more! The stress level is overwhelmingly strong! They never let you go!

MARCH 22, 2022. This happened to me in 2014. I have not recovered. Now l understand why. I’m searching for closure; that will never come. WOW, 6,000 comments here. I’ve been reading them for an hour, and these comments are the same thoughts going through my head for the last 8 years. We are all hurting in almost the exact same way. JESUS, reach down and heal all 6,000 of us! Thank you, pastor. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

@dianelivermore7093

Жыл бұрын

Thank U muchly lovely soul 💯💜🌸☮️🇦🇺😁 n blessings from Oz 2U n Urs ALWAYS xox Namaste 💌💯🙏🐻🙌❣️

@peachezp1587

11 ай бұрын

Closure is knowing you have been rescued by the Most High. Now it is time to love yourself first. Blessings

@nonjongon7280

7 ай бұрын

❤

I try to tell people that they will never understand unless they experience it themselves. I don't wish these demons on my enemy.

@indiahindiah7295

3 жыл бұрын

Wtfys 💞🤦🤷

@HandsofGlory1

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Narcissistic personality disorder is real. Im learning there are also different types of narcissists too... overt, covert, & malignant.

@Prettygirl-oo6mp

3 жыл бұрын

@@HandsofGlory1 and actually just when you think it couldn’t get worse, theirs dual levels combos .. sociopath narc, psychopath narc.

@MegaDiva1999

3 жыл бұрын

@@HandsofGlory1 wow now there's a fresh layer. to unpeel

@HandsofGlory1

3 жыл бұрын

@@Prettygirl-oo6mp right!! They hate it when you call them out on their bs too.

They play chess with the Emotions of their victims. Every move they make is Calculated!

@gabrielgavreel1825

3 жыл бұрын

I am seeing it now. Calculation from the inception of the relationship

@achiengcaroline5920

3 жыл бұрын

They Will loose even the greatest chess players get a checkmate!

@Escobaz96

3 жыл бұрын

Not every, I feel like that gives them too much credit... some of them are so demented they can't even control their evil

@cindystebbinsroark6673

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes years in advance oh yes yes yes years in advance and then they like to rub it in your face and tell you what their evil plan was and then tell everybody else what a victim they are insane absolutely insane they will plan years in advance

@cindystebbinsroark6673

3 жыл бұрын

@@Escobaz96 agreed.. I had to say agreed I told one they would need to medicate you so severely that you would surely OD

I spent 7 years with a narcissistic pervert, thank God this relationship ended. We have two young boys together, please keep them in prayer as narcissists also manipulate their own children. They have no empathy.

@renaelacaille3262

Жыл бұрын

😭sad

@chantemckeithan372

Жыл бұрын

I pray my son doesn't grow up to be manipulated.

@zsmith7590

10 ай бұрын

May God continue to bless you and your family 💝 in all you do 🙏🏾. Let your truths set you free, protect your kids the b st way you know how. Don't look back 🎉

Basically when they come back and offer to “move forward with you” they are asking for another chance to abuse further… 😢

After the narcissist has "reversed" things and gotten the other person upset, they will sometimes 'act' like they don't know why that person is upset and try to make them think that they got their own self "worked up" like THEY had nothing to do with creating the drama in the first place. In other words, trying to make the other person believe that THEIR reaction is "overboard" and unnecessary. And the narcissist will sit back as cool as a cucumber and "smirk" because he's accomplished his goal of getting the spotlight off of what he's done and now the focus is on the other person's "erratic" emotions instead of the situation the narcissist stirred up in the first place. Narcissist think they are smarter than everyone else.

@taylorthomas8869

3 жыл бұрын

They need to meet our Dads! Something interesting my ex narc said to me once was your mom probably wouldn’t have liked me and I said she gave everyone a fair chance, the narcs tell on themselves in subtle ways.These are the things we can easily miss. I was on antidepressants and anti anxiety medication while I was with mine because I was so f’d up in the head. I’m finally getting over the attachment thank God! And feeling stronger so when if he comes back I will finally be strong enough to tell him to go back in his hole!

@lonyettadunbar2920

3 жыл бұрын

Happy late birthday 🥳

@dearmaya939

3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what my man does to me. 😳🤔🥺

@BlackCulturalPreservation2023

3 жыл бұрын

Yup it’s called Gaslighting...playing dumb and making you think you are seeing things wrong/or going crazy.

@sunshinedayz2172

3 жыл бұрын

So sad but true.

My daughters father is a narcissist I learned from being w him to stay away from men like him....they prey on gd hearted ppl...

@gabrielgavreel1825

3 жыл бұрын

He says he kept me on punishment cause he thought i would never leave. He came at me with a knife and I reported him to the police. Then he called the officer and slandered me so that even he has turned his mind against me. Smh. I endured 10 years.

@princess373357

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with you, they are predators but once you have the power of God and pray you overcome, I went to hell and back and I mean darkness and if it was not for God and my now 14 year old daughter I would not see the light. The soldiers of God was with me and I cane out with no scars. He had to run back to me for help , I was reluctant but when he needed food I did what the scripture said, but Only God showed me who he was was, I am a warrior in the spirit. God will allow you to prevail, pray pray and pray and he will leave don’t let your daughter get emotionally scarred. This world and people are evil but God is powerful he loves you and your daughter very much.

@mememarcia329

3 жыл бұрын

yes, and they will turn your own children against you.

@angelicearth78

3 жыл бұрын

@@princess373357 what do you do when the narcissist is your father, your own mother believes him and covers for him and the bible says to honor your father and your mother? I am really struggling even though I am 39 years old, they have destroyed my soul and I am trying to go no contact but it's not that easy when you are closely related.

@rozbee9685

3 жыл бұрын

Im living this now too. My daughter father is a text book narcissist. It used to be so draining until i just stop communicating with him. When i need to speak with him its all thru text now. I just cant😣

Thank you for articulating this: the curse of desperately wanting to PROVE your innocence...they already know you are innocent, they concocted it.

My husband of 7 years has been doing this. I have gone crazy to the point that I questioned if I was sane or not. All I went through broke me for a moment but all I could do in my brokenness was humble myself before my God and plead my case to Him. He has fought for me, He continues to fight for me. I pray for people that are going through this.

@nonjongon7280

7 ай бұрын

❤

I remember when my ex cheated on me 2 months after our wedding, he accused me of making him cheat. I was devastated. He pushed me to our balcony and told me to jump the 3 story building to die if I couldn’t accept him cheating. He posted on social media how bad I was and all the “mental problems” I had. It almost destroyed me. They’re evil. God saved me from this man

@oliviachimdalunwosu6267

3 жыл бұрын

ooh no😔

@ace-tetteh

2 жыл бұрын

It most likely wasn't the first time that he cheated on you. It was the first time you caught him. He will definitely reap what he sowed. The devil in him will eventually throw him away like the trash that he is. I'm glad you were able to get away from him, because there are many who were unable to do so. There are many who were killed or died by the narcs hand or because of the abuse the narc inflicted upon them. Many of the narcissists in this world are rapists, child molesters, murderers, abusers and more! Make sure you are healed before dating again and that you know how narcs operate. Because you are susceptible to another narc coming to try and destroy you again. God Bless You and may He protect you and may goodness and mercy follow you all the days of your life, in Jesus mighty name!

@nunya6721

2 жыл бұрын

I've had a lot of abusive relationships every last one since I was 18. I am sorry how you felt.ive been through that and way worse.i stayed single for 10 years.then married a narcissist husband. He is by far the worst he humiliates me so much I just can't take it Anymore I have to save my money and go back to work to escape this lizard man .my mom always said fight fire with fire lol I think it's time for me to stop being fearful

@lashondajack7403

2 жыл бұрын

But God

@coffeeeloverfree7309

2 жыл бұрын

Praise God you survived

If you read this please pray for me🙏🏽The minute I found out I was being played I ask him to leave my home immediately, He had the nerve to try to convince me my eyes were playing tricks on me. Because he was embarrassed he literally laughed walking out of my house. Tell me that’s not demonic?!?! These narcissistic men don’t like a wise woman that expose them for the lying, cheating, no good Devil that they are. He’s so caught up on saving his image putting on for social media like he’s doing so many positive things in the blk community. The whole time you are the problem in our community tearing the blk family apart. He haven’t contacted me since & I didn’t call either. I’m still healing from this, happened about 4 months ago. Please keep me in prayer 🙏🏽

@kellyheflin685

4 жыл бұрын

Praying for you now! In Jesus Mighty name!!!

@kekebeauty9380

4 жыл бұрын

Kelly Heflin Thank you ❤️

@frenchvanilla7109

4 жыл бұрын

My dear be glad he isn't contacting you. Thank God for stepping in to protect you. Some women feel bad when these monsters don't try to reach out. But please see this as protection from whatever horrible plan the narc had for you next. They inflict trauma into your life constantly. Stay away from him, pray do not allow him back for any reason at all.

@gingermullins8866

4 жыл бұрын

I am so proud of you! You are in my prayers and please keep me in yours.../hugs

@Mscoffiedash

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t let that energy hold on to you too long! Tell yourself that you are healed! Sometimes we can heal to long! Let that shit go mentally! Release him from your mind an your spirit immediately!

I broke up with a narcissist this summer. It’s was horrible. We went out for my birthday for dinner and because the attention wasn’t on him, he created a huge fight and abandoned me at the restaurant really late at night. He blamed me because apparently I didn’t like the photos he took of me. I was so confused

@dineatrislloyd9365

11 ай бұрын

I know exactly what you mean! Every time we went out, it was always something wrong. He would get upset and start an argument over nothing! So glad I'm free of him!

@Propacarmel

6 ай бұрын

Girl I'm sure your living your best life now.

They abandon/ ghost when you bring up how they have hurt you They paint a different picture to the rest of the world- your common friends/ puppets. I feel like it was a constant battle between light and dark Thanks for the confirmation 👏

@bayoncacollins2050

Жыл бұрын

You have to ignore them and expose them to everyone.

They’re accusations are confessions. They cannot face their flaws so the project them onto you. In their mind, you did what they did. They will tell all their friends that you did it too to strengthen the illusion. They are SICK individuals

@natural1863

3 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed✌

@teressabrown4635

3 жыл бұрын

Heartless perverted cowards. I came into contact with a few. Didn't know what the medical name for it, But Demon. The devil time is near he is recruiting...Stay in the word of God people..Overcomer🙏

@rosemarylopez988

3 жыл бұрын

Yup my soon to be ex husband has started a smear campaign. Telling my dad, sister, mom, friends that I left him for my ex. While he was the one always talking and texting his.

@c.l.9344

3 жыл бұрын

Projection and blame shifting.

@c.l.9344

3 жыл бұрын

@@MsButterfly57 Yes, the accusations are really revelations.

Extremely unhealthy to be around a narcissist. They are very manipulative!

@triciajones7679

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@rayshelldavis6834

4 жыл бұрын

Yep...so I'm not around/contact them ANYMORE

@queenjewels3585

3 жыл бұрын

Very manipulative!!

@joannajohnson2669

3 жыл бұрын

Evil is a better word

@taylorthomas8869

3 жыл бұрын

And they act like they don’t know what manipulation is

Thank you Pastor for breaking that demonic spirit down for me. I will never understand what I did to deserve such a evil person to enter my life. I suffer from PTSD now. I found you Pastor looking for more understanding about how I got here😞

I dated a narcissist. At the beginning of the relationship I thought he was an Angel. At the end of the relationship, I had lost 10 kilos out of stress.

@charlesrobbins2208

Жыл бұрын

Maybe people could use them as a new weight loss program. The only problem is that once they are in, they do not ever really go away.

@faithadaobi

Жыл бұрын

They are evil 😢

@-Jesus-daughter

7 ай бұрын

Yes me too

That reversal game will have you seriously questioning yourself!! I'm literally watching this with chills but GOD is a deliverer and healer.

@lolamanteaser1806

3 жыл бұрын

They tell your stories but they don't can't tell the story rite.and then they eliminate you piece by piece from the stories and songs t.he things that were your good memories .I've even had friends that tell a story and they substituted themselves into a memory that you and your person only knew .or I've heard their voice and ideas comming out of a friend or strangers mouth .

@charlottemuller2233

2 жыл бұрын

Flip and turn the truth and make it look real! So DECEPTIVE !!!!!,!

@cherylrobinson5050

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it will

@lovelymosha8437

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@bollagurl

2 жыл бұрын

Things they say. "I never told you that." "Your crazy" "Why would I say that" "Its your fault" never ever have I heard "I'm sorry" only a real man says that. Narcissist are not real men.

The narc's/psychopaths are so very good at "lying" - in all sorts of ways, (eg: part-truths, blatant & pathological lying, word salad, denying, joking, projecting; leaving, cutting u off, avoidng); the "silent treatment", "ghosting; "normalising" their bad behaviours, minimalising the situation, blame-shifting, projecting their "stuff" onto others - all to avoid admitting, taking responsibility & apologising for their own actions - like a normal adult should be able to do.

@DatDyme980

4 жыл бұрын

Patterns of Satan and the Demons if you believe in the bible. Definitely demonic.

@percillatucker80

4 жыл бұрын

Wow.. I just got out of in engagement and you named half of this once so gentle and loving man’s traits. I feel so disappointed in myself that I’m a smart girl but did not recognize this. He would speak of his past relationships and lead me to believe everyone wronged him and now all regret he left. When in fact right after I said yes.. his true colors came out. My God!

@angeleyes5362

3 жыл бұрын

Lies about EVERYTHING...even stupid little stuff. Disgusting creatures.

@niyiapooh6168

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@jennifersalinas716

3 жыл бұрын

Going through it now, but he has a new supply and demanded a divorce.

This happened to me and I ended up in a mental institution because of him causing me abuse, stress etc I'm calling the doctor to get myself a therapist!

@LadyBugShaun

2 ай бұрын

So sorry... How are you doing now?

This is too accurate 😮 I can’t believe I got caught up with a narcissist for 10 years! I never even knew such personality disorder existed. But he was such a great person! I thought he was the best man I had ever met! I don’t know who to believe in anymore.

@zsmith7590

10 ай бұрын

If it walk like a duck, quacks likes a duck, it's a duck. When people show you who they are, believe them. Don't loose or give up your life trying to figure out the truth for only the truth will set you free.

@marygavin3203

8 ай бұрын

Same experience. It's the love bombing

@angelajingles1504

7 ай бұрын

10 yrs for me filing for divorce

@ltcam2500

4 ай бұрын

God! Believe in him🙏🏽

I feel like narcs are suicidal but want the other person to kill them. Don't let them bring you down with them!

@BlackButterfly504

4 жыл бұрын

My ex narc would always say I am going to kill him because of the dirt he was doing behind my back. But why stay with someone you fear may kill you behind your actions but yet steadily doing the same crap? I believe he wanted me to kill him so it could ruin my life. That is how mean and hateful he is. He would take the L to see me suffer. They really are crazy like that.

@manifestationofgod1379

4 жыл бұрын

My narc use to tell me to kill him, he was ready to die anyways. Well I didn't kill him, but I left him without a trace

@vuokkorusso2841

4 жыл бұрын

Narsisstic people are not suicidal. They use this tactic to terrorize you. My narsisstic daughter used to do this for years ,I even took her to mental health facility over this until one day I started to tell her that "Isnt it time for you to suicide already,shut up or do it". She has not said it since. It's a powergame. The best defence to a narc is to tern all threats and accusations immediately " See how powerful I Am game". Narsisstic people want POWER and ATTENTION. As soon as they start you MUST start saying how they" adore " you and how they " give power " to you. They do not have a response to this because with their evilness THEY WANT POWER OVER YOU.

@madelinebigio7565

4 жыл бұрын

Yes the signal good

@moneymitchamp

4 жыл бұрын

Good point.

The only way to deal with them is no contact.

@tashaylove4580

4 жыл бұрын

🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯

@Toytatu

4 жыл бұрын

I would love to, But we have a child

@billion86

4 жыл бұрын

@@Toytatu 🙏🏽 for you and child

@Toytatu

4 жыл бұрын

@@billion86 thank you lots

@allianceoflight9473

3 жыл бұрын

@@Toytatu Fast and Pray ... Cast the Demon out... if its Demonic Narcissism it's a Demon... Most likely more than one Why Christ Said Fasting and Prayer... necessary before Deliverace. .. You bind the Strong Man ... Satan .. First ... Then Cast.... Will spoil all the Rest. .. Take care of them All .. Shalom.

Thank you for the great content. Videos like these are so helpful to survivers of narcissist abuse. Prayers to all who are dealing with or healing from narcissistic abuse. Ghost them back.......permanently. These evil beings will destroy you if you stay around and let them. There is no human help ( aka therapy) for the malignant narcissist. I was nearly zeroed out by one myself. I kept allowing her back into my life. The final ending was unbelievably painful. I never thought a person could be so cruel and emotionally abusive. ( Although I should have realized this a long time ago). No contact is a must. You will never change them.

When his eyes turned jet black while he made threats to my life, his face contorted in unnatural ways- shape-shifting, my soul understood he's 10 toes down for Satan. I left and had to fast and pray .I cried hard for days, then God showed up! God showed up!! I then remembered one of God's promises, " Vengeance is mine and I will repay." He set me free with a peace that surpasses all understanding. 🙏🏿

@LadyBugShaun

2 ай бұрын

Wonderful... How are you doing now?

@GoGo..

Ай бұрын

@LadyBugShaun Wonderful now! It's been 3 years and my life is back on track. My relationship with the Lord has grown more closer.

@LadyBugShaun

Ай бұрын

@@GoGo.. Oh what excellent news!! What would you say we're some of the things most helpful to your healing?

@GoGo..

17 күн бұрын

@LadyBugShaun I kept a journal of my experiences. During this time, I was experiencing crazy dreams. I kept a journal detailing the dream. I would then take it to the Lord in prayer to help me understand it. The dreams went on for months. Then He took over from there, and 1 day, a YT video popped up on my page constantly. I didn't understand why, but I clicked on it and was awestruck. The video explained some of my experiences I told no one of. That's how the breakthrough started. The journaling was the key because I didn't realize it until later how much of a fog of confusion has developed around me. The journal kept it real, The Lord kept me honest.

The worst are the "empathic" or vulnerable ones with knowledge of psychology. The more subtle evil stuff they do: -they act/are fake (no its not a personality trait -they talk in movie lines -they have a weird relationship with their mother (and sister) if its a man -they are emotionally stable (because they dont have emotions) -they tell you sometimes that they can lie really well if they want to and manipulate very well, actually only feel anger (dont ignore these, these are their honest moments, but they tell you to seem sensitive and open) -fake empathy (you will know and feel that it is fake) -they dont protect you -they like gossiping (about you!!) -emotionally cold during intimate moments -they talk in I, not in we -they dont help you grow (its your own responsibility but they do expect you to go out of your way to help them) -fake crying or they say they cant cry and make you believe youre so amazing that you got these tears out of them -they deny your intuition -they make you go out of character (this is an important one) -play victim, a lot of self pity but tell you to man up. -evil smirk when you are hurting (yes yiu saw it, it wasnt your imagination) -fake amnesia -jealous of your character and personality traits -act like theydont understand social cues like saying "thank you' and 'im sorry" (because they expect you to do everything for them, without anything im return) Hope it will help 🙏🏾✨

@davidwels4644

2 жыл бұрын

100% acurate!

@quoteme.goddess6957

2 жыл бұрын

You sho right! ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

@andi1968heygurlhey

2 жыл бұрын

Nailed it

@Nicole-kx9vg

2 жыл бұрын

Yessssssssss. Exactly. Right-ON.

@jarmirahicks6093

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could heart this

They are the most egregious--calling themselves clergy or godly and treating their partners like trash behind closed doors! Then lying and making it seem as if THEY are the one's being mistreated. It's sickening!

@3Heartsxx

3 жыл бұрын

TRASH!!! at it's finest!

@crystalphillip588

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going through it right now! everyone told me turn to God which I have, and the sad part about it everyone believes his lies I pray and read my bible everyday, he was even bold enough to tell me he have another woman me I'm so done with my husband 8 years its over

@victoriouspinkministries3279

3 жыл бұрын

THIS! My dads a minister & this describes him to the T’

@yvetterita

3 жыл бұрын

My ex claimed to be a man of God . So how is that possible when you brought the devil into the relationship I asked ? Of course I got no response!

@janiececooper6758

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, they are mine is a Jehovah Witness and he is two different people, a JW on Tuesday & Sunday and a demon otherwise, religion is a safe place for malignant & covert narcs, he was my dream man until the night before we married, I didn't want to marry but everyone said I was being too tough, society gaslights victims especially women, especially black women, so grateful for this channel!!!! Thank you Rev 😊

You are speaking directly to me I endured this for 28years I gave him 5 children never was I unfaithful he blames me for ruining his life I’ve been separated for 3 1/2 weeks finally found the strength to love my self and walk away thank you for you amazing wisdom

@hachduloola6450

Жыл бұрын

You're so strong, well done!!

I agree with you 💯 I didn’t know I was with a narcissist until I learned about this mental illness and the games they play. I was too innocent and that is why he took advantage of me an triangulated me, and still wanted to be with me. Yeah he blamed everything on me.

As long as you allow a narcissist to come back and forth into your life whenever they want to they will continue. My experience is every time they come back they get worst. You literally have to stop all communication with them to give yourself time to become stronger so that you can resist them. Which is the process that I’m on now. Closure with a narcissist is impossible because they don’t have empathy so they can’t acknowledge or apologize for the trauma they bestowed upon you. My husband ghosted me for 2.5 weeks tried to contact me today I wouldn’t answer so he started calling all my siblings asking if I’m okay. He’s used to ghosting me and being able to just have access to me whenever he wants. Those days are gone. Yeah I’m okay. I actually feel better than I’ve felt in a while.

@rhondamallard9822

3 жыл бұрын

And when you feel weak!... Please reach out to your support system to hold you up!! It takes time for all that bad energy to fall off!! Stay Strong 💪🏾

@kikia.1352

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Its been 1 1/2 weeks since being ghosted for the umteenth time. I would put him on block then miss him and unblock him to wait for his phone call. Well this time, I took him off block but heard that small voice telling me to keep him on block so I can remain on the course of healing. We share kids but the kids have been trying to reach out and he has been ignoring them as well so this is just more fuel for my strength to move the heck on!! He's never gonna change and I can NOT allow him to put my kids through the same emotional war zone.

@brandynicjones

3 жыл бұрын

Your amazing..... I’m going though this as well! Stay Strong 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽❤️

@jackrock1313

3 жыл бұрын

Going threw it now

@jccolly

3 жыл бұрын

My narc gets upset when I ghost him. He starts to call our kids to see where I am. This is after years of living a double life. They have NO empathy, compassion or human kindness.

When they ghost you go no contact let them go you will heal in time

@jonesfredrick94

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks very much for this message

@manisymone8622

3 жыл бұрын

What if the ghost is the husband?

@williebrooks6920

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@michellejackson1096

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@micheleb9104

3 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly what I did

I’ve never heard anyone who understands this more!!!!THANK YOU RC BLAKES!

I ran into a couple of narcissists in my life and both times I didn’t “know” what I was looking at because I’d never had an encounter with one or knew what the word narcissist even meant. However, both times I knew something about them were just wrong! I dodged the bullet with both of them. I thank God I listened to the Spirit of God because I know now that it was Him that was warning me.🙏🏼

My son’s father is a narcissist. I called him "TOXIC" took my child and fled. Women have to be ok being, staying free and single.

@rubicon2608

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@BlaqueDNA

2 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@truedoh2831

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you realize that some women are narcissists. The one in my life has damn near destroyed me and everything I love

@SK-dy2ie

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. My fiancé was married to one and still suffers from PTSD. My older brother was married to one as well. He retired 5 years ago and died in 2018 from a stroke caused by her. A lot of women are Narcs.

@Micha63857

2 жыл бұрын

Men or women, recognize the signs of these "fools" early on and save yourselves.

I've struggled a lot trying to understand how someone could be so cruel to me while I tried so hard and sacrificed so much trying to love them back to health. I hadn't considered that those were demonic forces trying to break a child of God. This video gave me a new perspective and I think I can make peace with that. I really appreciate what you're doing. God bless you

@karriesaunders8597

2 жыл бұрын

I watched a good film that would help people who are struggling to get over domestic abuse.... Retribution. I am in a terrible state because of severe emotional and all kinds of other abuse,if I watched that film every day,it would keep me walking from every toxic person

@akomeyam

Жыл бұрын

Agree...

@1010QUEEN7

Жыл бұрын

@@karriesaunders8597 what's the name of the film because I need to watch it too I'm so tired of the abuse for 38 years

@karriesaunders8597

Жыл бұрын

@@1010QUEEN7 Retribution is the name of the film,it gives some accurate perspective about what's behind certain people.

@1010QUEEN7

Жыл бұрын

@@karriesaunders8597 can't wait to watch it thanks again 😘

I'm going through this now... I WAS LITERALLY SLEEPING WITH THE DEVIL FOR A YEAR AND A FEW MONTHS.. Man RUNNNNNNN at the 1st warning..seriously because this could end deadly

@veronicathomas4607

2 жыл бұрын

What State are u living in, Narcissistic men rampant in the winter, HoboSexual, Tax Season & Holiday Season ghosting & Hoovering out on the Prowl at this time of the year, maybe there's the same common denominator in the Man cause they get Around

@dineatrislloyd9365

11 ай бұрын

You are so right! I had so many red flags in the beginning and ignored them! My family saw it as well. After 2 years of being with him, I finally left… literally ran

I kicked out the narcissist 2 years ago. I'm so glad for the awareness. I realize that I'm surrounded by them and I can spot them anywhere. I talk to basically most of them, yet I call them out on their crap and keep it moving.

These snakes are very manipulative

@deboraford1549

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, in every way, been there, done that. Not trying to revisit a toxic relationship like that again. It takes so much out of a person in this kind of relationships.

@murielmartin3288

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly what they are Had a dream before l ever met the man in person only on line My dream a snake crawling around the edge of my bedroom I believe it was a dream from the Lord I put it on back burner ALWAYS LISTEN TO GOD

@vanessahemingway8374

4 жыл бұрын

When I see their name, hear their voice or they are in my presence I put up my gate, my wall I suit myself in heavy armor, and some Barbed Wire. I don't believe NOTHING they say I mean NOTHING. Do not engage with them. They CANNOT be true. Just sit and look through them like they are not there.

@stephaniecarter5087

4 жыл бұрын

THERE SATAN IN SHEEP CLOTHING !

I’ve dealt with a narcissistic man before for the first time a year ago and he tore me down so bad that it felt like my world had ended but dealing with him taught me better judgment of the men I date, how to trust myself more, and walk away from things that are only meant to hurt me.

@tashaylove4580

4 жыл бұрын

Me too... I dealt with that narcissistic man almost 2 years and that was way to long!!! I left and will never look back!!! Im glad you got away from it my sister... I didn't even know what a narcissist was our father God showed me!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 im so blessed and grateful and thankful to our father God for keeping me covered under Jesus precious blood... I pray he continues to keep you covered too!! God bless you my sister... Keep moving forward and don't look back!! God has way better for you coming soon!!🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💞💞💞💞💞

@cherylmcleod6088

4 жыл бұрын

Mee too...but the sad part about it...there's more narcissistic men in the world than down to earth godly men...single moms are raising narc men bc he becomes the center of attention in her world now as a adult looking for another mommy...cycle of pain hurt abuse

@brittblessed

4 жыл бұрын

You just said a mouth full. Thank the Lord Jesus Christ, for growth!

@janaemonae9472

4 жыл бұрын

Tasha Garrett thank you and God bless you too ❤️

@janaemonae9472

4 жыл бұрын

Cheryl Mcleod truth and i pray guidance over the single mothers raising young boys into men. Because my sister is a single mom of a baby boy and where praying for guidance every day

Thank you Pastor for being used by God to be that light I seen as I walked out of that darkness. I’m so grateful to have encountered your channel and appreciate your empowering messages. I ask that God continue order your steps in enlightening us women. God Bless you and thank you again Pastor, stay Blessed 😇

I’m praying and putting in the action to change my environment. I’m bruised but not broken. Thank you for making this video

My ex narcissist husband told me at the beginning he was going to break me. He set out on a mission to do just that. For 8 years I experience the worst demonic attack ever imagined. I went on a 2 year healing journey and God has completely healed me through this ministry and through other counselors who educated me on narcissistic personality disorder. 🙏 I will forever be grateful!! ❤🙏💪

@Whynot356

2 жыл бұрын

I knew a narc who promised me to break him in order to build me up to his likening. SICK man.

@cozettemorgan7496

Жыл бұрын

My husband told me he was going to break me and drag me through it and make me suffer. He did not know I am stronger than he thought and a warrior at the most. Stay strong

@umekademon3113

Жыл бұрын

Happy for you so much peace when your not around them 8yrs myself I know how you feeling im getting out this month never looking back pure torment and hell Satin himself

@authenticme7351

Жыл бұрын

@@umekademon3113 awesome! So happy for you! Make sure you NEVER LOOK BACK!!

@authenticme7351

Жыл бұрын

@@infi1429 been 4 years for me so "won't"

It took me one year to fully heal from a narcissist. I kept battling with myself, lost my self Esteem, self confidence. Upon self reflection, I noticed I begun to speak in a toxic way to other people which drove away some great potential friends. Gradually I'm healing and getting better.

@akomeyam

Жыл бұрын

I can relate. I miss the old happy me.

@NoelleknowsMusicPortal

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@damienwelch9067

Жыл бұрын

Wow only 1 yr

@nmmcpa19

Жыл бұрын

Keep healing! I’m just at the beginning of my healing journey. Please pray for me as I pray you and all others that have experienced this trauma.

@tonnieverse4038

9 ай бұрын

@@damienwelch9067 yep..she was lucky...maybe she escaped right at the beginning..and had lots of support after...

Me and my boyfriend lived with his narcissistic brother, he would do everything he could to break us up and I could never understand how someone could be so unhappy to the point they have to make sure others around them feel the same

Sooo needed to hear this! The Validation is motivating me to move on; God bless you! 🙏🏽

They never listen, its all about them. All of the time!! Walk away. Hide from them, heal yourself first

@Ladyfee56

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@bernitapennick4685

4 жыл бұрын

True I know some people like that, go away

@randieedwards3052

4 жыл бұрын

20 years and still in it kids in it when he realized I am going to knee was cheating he came home and say if I catch any thing is you give it to me I was lost wandering wat is he talking about but I said I go no where so you must be mad lol presently I didn't see him traveling but he wasn't having sex with me saying he tried so he come to me now i said u have do a test to god be the glory days after he traveled now he is back and don't to do a test so he is cursing me giving me silence cause am not giving him anything cause I remember that tric

@stephaniecarter5087

4 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY ALWAYS LOVER OF SELVES

@AJ-kb9hf

2 жыл бұрын

I never even knew what a narcs was until very recently but I remember saying to him "it's all about you" If something made sense to him then it became a very important issue to be dealt with, but if it didn't make sense to him - it was simply discarded. No amount of explaining made any difference - he simply was not going to take your viewpoint on board. He was selfish - but so giving when he wanted to be. It was all about him.

While I was still living in my marital home I saw something which totally shocked me. The entire pupils in his eyes and irises turned completely black. I almost jumped back in dismay because ut made me realize that all along I was dealing with a demonic spirit in him.

@kuterahfarr

3 жыл бұрын

I have experienced this and thought I was crazy! Omg

@cindyann4474

3 жыл бұрын

I believe you ...

@Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829

3 жыл бұрын

I have seen many demons show up in his eyes

@virginia3580

3 жыл бұрын

I have seen this too. This happened while at my home. I was having a conversation with him and then it looked like his whole face shifted looking as someone else then he just gave a blank stare like he did not know we were talking and walked off. After that I started praying and annointing every entryway way into my home.

@debmccafferty1007

3 жыл бұрын

Yikes!

The way you broke this down Pastor!! You spoke directly to my situation. Trusting God to help me finally break free from this destructive cycle. Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏🏽 God bless!

Thank you so much! Keep on informing us! We truly need it! Still recovering! Mind games is no joke!

When we were together, I was always Infected with STIs and I never cheated. He always accused me. They are demon posessed. I saw it in dreams and visions..that's what motivated me to finally leave.

@user-hd1ue8ud5n

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you JESUS!!!!

@Annivonmusic

3 жыл бұрын

I did too. Thanks for sharing dear

@camillecooper1964

3 жыл бұрын

They are sex addicts...it is truly demonic

@joyceforbes5748

3 жыл бұрын

Bless you Jesus Fav daughter... because you made it OUT with your life 🙏🏽 My Son was murdered by his Gaslighting Narcissistic MURDERER ! Our whole family loved her and My Son Adored her . We GET THIS by her rage and most vile evil rage , JEALOUSY and GREED was biggest factor as she became desperate enough to $ell her $oul for MONEY 💰 in doing this to someone as sweet as My Son was to her . It was the Most BLATANT BETRAYAL I have ever seen and believe I have seen Many . She is all over internet circuit trying to be a role model - for HIS CAUSE OF SUICIDE! He did not shoot him . Her and her band of devil worshippers did ! She is still celebrating 🥳 her horrendous actions . What can you do but LEAVE TO JEHOVAH SHALOM ! VENGEANCE IS HIS

@joyceforbes5748

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSS🐍 they are insatiable sex addicts who live : BIG TIME DOUBLE LIVES THAT Get people MURDERED like the one that just murdered my Son and LIED from day one and has not took a break from lying and who has not even skipped one beat from partying since she GOT AWAY From this evil most dangerous Spirit of CONTROL and serious WITCHCRAFT she had over him . The cruelty she showed him in exchange for all the wealth of his true love , giving his all and all for someone who was not meant for him ! GOD did not join them together . Satan did . Sometimes our Sons and Daughters have to have WHAT and WHO GOD ALMIGHTY tell them stay away from and the results MANY times is their own FUNERAL ⚰️ Because she sure put My Blessed Child in one and she has not Stopped dancing 💃🏽 on his grave with all her new friends in this new life she has DECEPTIVELY Invented at the expense of my Son . All I can say is WHOA watch out to next poor soul DECEIVED AGAIN :( The very LAST OF LAST days are here people ❗️Stamp marked with the very endtime Sign of : BETRAYAL ... With a word to the WISE BEWARE ❗️Take the word of someone else tragedy so it does NOT end in YOUR own ⚠️

Never go back to a narcissist. They will destroy you if you do. Never ever open the door again to one of those demons.

I love your disclaimers Pastor but you are right on! Spot on in fact! Thank you for your wisdom and Godly guidance. This is helpful.

Well needed message Thank you Took me over 2 decades but am currently in the process of detaching from the narcissist that was in my life!

I was in a narcissistic relationship. He was taunting me while I was driving and when I pulled into a gas station on an interstate hwy he got out to use the bathroom. I pulled off and left him where he stood. He was 200 miles from our final destination. I was fed up. Every since that relationship I can see a narcissist a mile away. I have learned to detatch myself from being emotionally soultied to folk like that. So if they drop off the scene on me i act as if nothing happened and move on with my life. If they wonder why I didnt wait hmm where we do that at? I start blocking getting restraining orders and changing all I can without disrupting my life completely.

@bebebe1354

3 жыл бұрын

Thats right

@LovettbalngoodsLLC

3 жыл бұрын

Sound like you was the wrong one. Why leave him. Why you got him in the car with you in the first place. Sound like you was the controller not him. You a piece of shit

@SweetTeeze

3 жыл бұрын

@@LovettbalngoodsLLC Sis, I just read a message where you said you're getting your butt whooped emotionally and this is what you tell her because she had the strength you don't have? Wow. Yeah, your narc has REALLY done a number on you. Smh Pray for healing.

@SweetTeeze

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you sis! They ALWAYS choose themselves. We have to choose US!

@elle7014

3 жыл бұрын

@@LovettbalngoodsLLC emotional abuse is worse than any other abuse you can experience. She did the right thing. It was the last straw for her. Good for her for waking up to her self-worth. Trust me, he had another supply pick him up and i bet he let out his narcissistic rage on that supply. Those monsters do not deserve an ounce of kindness. Shoot, leave their butts on the side of the freeway if you must, GET AWAY FROM THEM!

I call them energy vampires, they suck the energy out of you !

@c.l.9344

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, there spirit draining demons.

@Nicole-kx9vg

3 жыл бұрын

Yes- they have. They OFFER Nothing.

@joannaferrara5884

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nicole-kx9vg you're right, Zero, zilch, Nada!!!!!!!

@ebotcanisiatanyi555

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly mine dumped me two months ago and he put all on the blame on me and he went around tanishing my image to every one who listens I thank God he left me and his family supported him ,he is a devil in disguise

@ebotcanisiatanyi555

2 жыл бұрын

They will make u feel u are the worst woman on Earth and that u keep doubting ur self value chaiii those creatures are demonic

You are so wise and such a blessing to us. I so enjoy listening to your way of delivering these messages. You have a gift.

Thank you Pastor. I divorced my husband, rise my boy's age 5 and 7yrs alone. Today grown up married serving God. Thank you Give me strength . Always thankful to God🙏

I left one 18 months ago. I trusted God bc I had nothing but our kids when I left. After 6 months of giving it all to God we are prospering and I have more abundance than ever in all aspects of life.

@billion86

4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful

@xoxo-vp7ww

4 жыл бұрын

Praise God 🙏🏽💕

@vedasultenfuss7473

3 жыл бұрын

This gives me hope for myself and my children. I broke free just over a year ago. I've grown more in this last year than ever in my life. I still feel stuck, but I have such strong faith this time which I never had.

@lisablake7462

3 жыл бұрын

Saudia Broyard same!! 7 1/2 years of pure hell. He ruined my credit, hurt my family, caused me to literally lose my mind and give up all hope of a future that would be outside of his grasp and awful influence of sabotage and utter ruin. I picked up the pieces and dried my eyes and made excuses over and over and over until my mom died and my eyes were opened. I finally did what she always wanted for me. To see things as they were and remember what true love feels like!! GOD HAS RESTORED ME AND MY CHILDREN, AMEN!!! GOD HAS GIVEN US A NEW FUTURE FULL OF HOPE!!! He is mad and mocks all our blessings stability and peace. He wants me to feel guilty and bad for him. I’ll not be confused. No more!! I prayed and worked and desired GOOD. He has sewn destruction and chaos. We have both made our choices. Now I’m walking with God into MY destiny and his journey is all his own. Divorce finalized

@anastasiast.pierre188

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. Praise the Lord

I wanted closure, either an apology or at the very least, acknowledgement for my pain & feelings... up until I listened to this. Thank you!

@QueenB0423

3 жыл бұрын

Wow... same here 😩

@elle7014

3 жыл бұрын

Same. Unfortunately, these monsters never apologize, admit, or even acknowledge their wrongs. They just deflect and project. The best thing to do is forgive yourself for EVER letting them into your life. The best revenge is to be happy and prosper. They are callous and miserable. They never change just get worse with age.

@nolavegadaboss

2 жыл бұрын

You’re not going to get it unfortunately 😭 they really don’t care….

@aliciabrown4872

2 жыл бұрын

They truly don’t care at all. Rather than giving you an apology, the narcissist likely would try to bait you back in to their web of lies life!!

@brandilocs4657

2 жыл бұрын

Sooo glad you've received what you needed from this video because an apology or some critical explanation was never going to happen. They're not true to themselves so they'll never be true to you.

You have no idea....this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. It resignatated through my soul. And the prayer at the end made it even more special! 🙏

Pastor Blake you are preaching a word. The Narc I had in my life did these exact things. Just flat out made up things. Just to stir the pot or to incite an argument so he could treat me horribly and say he had a reason. Just absolute craziness. It took me almost 3 years to wrap my mind around what was happening. Gaslighting, verbal and physically abusive. Undercover addict. Questionable sexuality. I'm 5months free from the Narcissist. I never people were evil but I never seen it up close like that. There were times I know I was speaking directly to the demon.

2 Timothy say remove narcissists from your life. For they are lovers of themselves and not of God. They are truly terrible people and you described them to a T.

@billion86

4 жыл бұрын

Hmm. Interesting. Was WONDERING where in The Word are narcissists spoken about.

@billion86

4 жыл бұрын

@Dr Z Divine meant a human with skin on example

@beencouraged4163

3 жыл бұрын

Yes 2 Timothy chapter 3! My GOD!

@beencouraged4163

3 жыл бұрын

@@billion86 yes! 3 But know this, that in the last days [a]perilous times will come: 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, [b]unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! 6 For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, 7 always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth

@beencouraged4163

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Perilous Times and Perilous Men 3 But know this, that in the last days [a]perilous times will come: 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, [b]unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! 6 For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, 7 always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth

Never try to make a narcissist be accountable for their actions just get out because they will have you questioning yourself

You said it exactly as it is Pst. I'm 7yrs out and I'm grateful. Thank you for your teachings. I appreciate you. 🙏

This is so true Pastor my husband is a narcissist. I've been through so much. You are the best. Keep up the good work.

When the malignant narcissist starts an argument and disappears for several days and doesn't answer your calls, it's because he's out cheating on you. They project on to you what they themselves are doing.

@SunnnySkies

Жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌🏽. I experienced this many times

@1010QUEEN7

Жыл бұрын

I wish he would disappear for real

@dianelivermore7093

Жыл бұрын

I experienced this many times 💯🤢🤮🤬

@user-jf7dn1ff4j

Жыл бұрын

Or to make you suffer 😂 But we sleeping like a baby 😊

Narcs are famous for flipping scripts.

@bybyana26

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yes!

@sirquincywashington7584

4 жыл бұрын

u beat they ass flip it back

@Sumiya-lp8mm

3 жыл бұрын

Faster than lightening....

@NinthJewel

3 жыл бұрын

This !

@greaterishe7197

2 жыл бұрын

Leviathan

This explains my ex husband perfectly. I listen to you every day on my way to healing.

I love your program. I dealt with a narc and got out of it. You helped! Thank you pastor!

When they ghost you after an argument or break up they already have someone else awhile already to get their attention from, they are never alone while you trying to fix things and figure out what happened they sleep with the next one. They don't care about you and they don't have any respect for you. I went through this for 7 years.

@1010QUEEN7

8 ай бұрын

I went through this for 39 years almost cost me my life

When they come back they bring salt for the wound they created

@indiahindiah7295

3 жыл бұрын

Great way to put this feels like a burning sensation in a bad way🤞🤷🤦

@sundaysjoy4345

3 жыл бұрын

WHEW !

@jamiweeks5775

3 жыл бұрын

Yes they do. They rub it in and tell you it's your fault.

@soniabernatchez7466

3 жыл бұрын

lool

This video is life-saving. Thank you so much for your knowledge and the work you do 🙏🏻

Bishop Blake's Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️🙏🏾 you are Blessing so many people with this and of course through Christ Jesus AMEN

You know you're with a narcissist when you find a box of condoms in their vehicle and then they blame you for putting them there. That's when you have proof that you're with a narcissist!! Game over!

@kymjoy7287

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂u 2

@jamekac.stuckey3228

3 жыл бұрын

Ex husband planted a condom wrapper in the couch and said it was mine. Just dumb!

@shaysinspirations4131

3 жыл бұрын

I found a condom in my exes wallet saw it with my own eyes he said it wasn't there lol then the next day said it was for me lol

@esetdey4955

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 They Never Take Responsibility

@esetdey4955

3 жыл бұрын

My Narcissistic X Husband.... literally had me committed to the Psychiatric unit because he was cheating and I told him I was leaving. He literally took off of work, went and fill out an affidavit and had the sheriff to come and get me.

I bought my ex the Kobe Bryant book in the background back in March since he was a super fan from day one. Our anniversary was 8/26 and I had to remind him 6 years in a row what the date was (apparently I'm colorblind because I wasn't seeing the red flags). When Kobe passed away, he took it super hard. On February 26th, March 26th, and April 26th, he would remind me of the date and say, "It's been x month(s) since Kobe died" every.single.month.to.the.date 🤦🏽‍♀️ When a man loves and worships an idol who he has never met and struggles to remember your anniversary, you know you don't matter. Seeing the book makes me see how I encouraged his idol worship.

@selenawilliams2219

4 жыл бұрын

He ain't no good

@toni_60505

4 жыл бұрын

@CHRISTINA M wow! Tht is absolutely the truth about him recollecting those dates but not yr special day. I am going through the exact thing and I know how badly it hurts. It's just too much dealing with these ppl.

@frenchvanilla7109

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you don't see this as you not being important. The thing about narcissist is everything they do is plotted with cruelty so he may have very well remembered your anniversary and purposely pretended he didn't. Why you ask? To make you feels less important, to lower you, to keep you off balanced in the relationship, mainly because they operate out of cruelty and are evil.

@MsSweets0211

4 жыл бұрын

That's creepy...Stay focused and get out!

@anime-nn9kl

4 жыл бұрын

It lets you know he had the capacity to be sentimental but chose to withhold it from you.

Oh my..!! You perfectly described what is happening to me now! Thank you,because now I can quit feeling like I am guilty and confused. THANK YOU!

I am so grateful to have stumbled upon your video. This is the first time I've heard anyone talk about demonic forces in reference to narcissistic abuse. Thank you. You are a blessing.

Listen up young ladies, this Pastor is speaking truth. God bless him, thank you Pastor.

@Nicole-kx9vg

3 жыл бұрын

We want the few married men husbands to view this message too. They TOO must GET OUT from their wife's poison.

During the time a narcissist ghost you and accuse you of doing something that you did not do. There are entertaining or cheating with someone Else. They put you on a shelf when they are done using you and expect you to still be there when they return. So that they can finish using you up some more.

@SACULV4918

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed. This is what my own mom is dealing with right now. Was married since June 2015(My high school graduation). Stepdad still gaslights her, even though she stands up to him and sees through the BS.

@aprildanielle2693

3 жыл бұрын

So true!!

Nothing but the truth. You have described everything from beginning to end of an argument I just had with a narcissist. It unfolded just as you explained.

This is so powerful here! I've experienced this but I knew better because it didn't feel or sound right. I listen to you alot and you're an awesome voice from God. Bless you always.🙏