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May God free everyone who watched this video and is dealing with these situations. I pray for healing and restoration in Jesus Name

@naturebgood1575

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@VictoryConyers

5 жыл бұрын

nicole perkins I receive it

@donnamorse1890

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the prayer!

@rickeylauderdale74

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!!

@taylor5887

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

Lord save me....set me free from this toxicity and demonic forces.

@roxannerose5349

5 жыл бұрын

Take you fight into spirutual realm , and when you are in the spiritual realm God takes over your battles .trust me siss on this one. I was there for 6 yers until i found Derek prince a pastor that no longer live among us my he rest in peace .

@chasitysanders8830

4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear. This enlightened me completely.

@gloriasimpkins823

4 жыл бұрын

Claim it in the name of Jesus Christ Whom the Son sets free is free indeed believe in God He will do it! Be blessed.

@barbarariley3488

4 жыл бұрын

@@gloriasimpkins823 This is where I was at for 3 yrs. Jesus set me free but it wasn't quick or painless.

@gloriasimpkins823

4 жыл бұрын

@@barbarariley3488 God blessed you to get out of that messed up relationship thank Him and move on He knows that you are better than that , and you spirit was troubled God will for us is to be at peace.

When an empath meets a narcissist is a perfect storm ⛈ 😳 WOW

@trogers418

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, wow is correct ! A perfect storm ! They absolutely drain the empath. Thank God for revealing truth to his people !

@sugarplum2308

Жыл бұрын

Omg

The narcissist will always give you a big dose of love in the beginning then start acting like you don’t matter when they have you hooked on their love and probably amazing sex. It was never love it was just an addiction to a fake person! Amazing articulation of their strategies! Thank you for this video!

@reneegray6084

3 жыл бұрын

You nailed it. Although the sex wasn’t all that, I only have sex with one person at a time. So he basically deprived me of sex. But yes, he made me feel so special, in the beginning, then he started ignoring me in the home and when we were out. And everybody thinks he such a ‘good man’ social media will show all the ‘fake’ love. He had people so jealous of us. So I started ignoring his social media comments post pictures or anything social. Imma bout to just unfriend him altogether. 👍🏾

@crystalphillip588

3 жыл бұрын

Yes the sex is so good but they will never change

@edith324

3 жыл бұрын

get a brain scan first

@amberesha3353

3 жыл бұрын

That.narc sex be good dont it lol

@truthbetold4350

2 жыл бұрын

Sex with this narcissist is the most boring selfish sex I’ve ever had with another adult…

God please break all soul ties that have tied me to toxic people and that of anyone I have a soul tie with . Break all the bounds with these people. Memories and all .Like it never happened in Jesus name .

@MLee-tb7kj

5 жыл бұрын

-I pray for this healing too, especially for my C-PTSD

@TiaJoy1372

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@maureenbrown2511

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@najaesmith1008

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@BallerDre

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

This is one of the most painful thing I've ever been through.

@buzzingbee6380

6 жыл бұрын

Ava Goodman I don't think so he has a younger supply I can't compete with it. She fell hook line and sinker

@highlightedreply8838

6 жыл бұрын

thats soooo true...it doesnt matter if they have moved on ...cuz memba wen THAT new flavor of the month goes dry ....then they come back to "the one" they shudda never left...............

@Shadissy

6 жыл бұрын

The sure will. I left mine. I told him that I was leaving him, because he would never leave me!!! They keep coming back. I left and never looked back. My flesh wanted to reach back, but I stayed prayed up. I rebuked that demon in the name of Jesus to leave my mind, my body. 6yrs later, I still might cry here or there. But I'm better. They can do some real damage to a person. Many have had anxiety attacks, gone on medication. Leave dont let him or anybody - his family know where you are. Leave

@Shadissy

6 жыл бұрын

This is the kind of person that will mess you up and cause you not to want to get into another relationship for the rest of your life. I'm asking the Lord to help me with that. I am full of love, thats what makes me beautiful, I know this. There was nothing wrong loving someone. What was wrong is that he took it and used it to hurt me. I pray for my deliverance.

@Shadissy

6 жыл бұрын

They are so filled with a demonic spirit - out to kill, steal and destroy you. And they will if you dont break free!

Sometimes because you know God , you keep trying to forgive & heal the relationship, until depression, physical aches pains, becoming emotionally confused, spiritually drained, reclusive, exhausted , that's just a few of the harmful results.... This video is so profound!!! Thank you

@rikim1693

Жыл бұрын

I agree..They play the role.The enemy knows the power of wrong relationships and connections to destroy you

Having a soul tie with a narcissist feels like an addiction. I've never been addicted to drugs but I can imagine the struggle of someone who knows something is bad for their health but not being able to rid themselves of the desire to have it. This is what its like trying to leave a narcissist. You know they are bad for your health but you find every excuse to keep them around. You even stop hanging with family and friends just to hide the fact you are still involved with them. Yea, its that bad. Well, im a week and a half of being discarded for the umpteenth time and this time im fighting hard daily just to keep him blocked from calling me. I hope I can stay the course and fight the temptation but I still hear that tiny voice telling me I need him. I pray that God continues to give me the strength. You can not fight the urge without God right by your side! I am slowly but surely coming out of a dark place that was leading me to a place I never want to know. My family is fighting hard with me as well to keep me from going back down that road to destruction 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@eliiserose_

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you stayed strong girl 🤍

@elizabethcreated9263

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate. I am two days in of no contact after 16 months of being strung along and broken promises. Overall just confusing of being broken up with then apologized to and loved, pushed away and then “the balls in my court”? Luke 1:37. What happened?

@tammiguzman8317

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I had the strength. I'm 8 years in and stay for the kids. He doesn't even try to love bomb anymore. I get the asshole all the time since he's aware I've figured him out. Yet his mistress ( his ex he supposedly hated) gets treated like a queen. I've raised their 2 daughters since infants and they are 9 and 10 now and neither of them can stand their parents. So I stay because they need me. But I've noticed so much I was so blind to before. Trust me when I say narcissists come in packs. His whole family are crazy fake, manipulative, even dangerous, as well as his ex. But they come across as so wonderful and never would I have imagined they'd of done things that they've done . But ofcourse I'm the crazy one because they are the best "actors/liars/ blame shifters/ never would hurt a fly " type people In the world.

@bigsip37

2 жыл бұрын

This is me! I feel the same exact way you feel! This is not easy but at this point I have too stay strong and not look back bc it’s Broken me DOWN, not where ppl can tell my inside is torn UP, but I’m am fighting this thing head on now and facing the fear of losing someone who didn’t even add value to my life anyways! Thanks for sharing and letting others know we are not ALONE! 🙌🏾

@nikishamorgan325

2 жыл бұрын

@@tammiguzman8317 girl when I say run and forget about them kids, I mean run it only gets worse, let him go back to his queen and they have to figure it out! But your peace and happiness is greater! Let go and pray for those children....I'm sorry I'm not trying to be harsh but get your love back for yourself! ❤❤❤🫂

I’m 20 I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 3 years. I was the empath who also formed a bond through trauma bonding. The narc drained all my happiness and energy. He abused me mentally, physically and emotionally. Very controlling and possessive. After really getting to know him, I realized he had no sense of self, he didn’t like himself, very insecure, empty. He just had a built up persona.. God revealed and showed me SO much stuff. He showed me how evil and demonic he was and his family was. He saved me literally. I had to pray over and over for God to give me the strength to leave this person. I couldn’t so God ended it for me. The pain I went through when it ended was like I was going through withdrawals. My spirit, my soul my everything was longing literally for him. I couldn’t sleep, nothing. I felt so used and drained. I got through it though here I am 2 years later and I’m so blessed. I still think of him almost every day and I’m still working on that. I loved this video & the fact your enlightening others. I definitely subscribed!

@sadiefrazier9314

5 жыл бұрын

I promise we have the same story, it's so amazing how GOD work things the way he work them. Amen he told you out like he did me.

@tymtyqueen08

5 жыл бұрын

sadie frazier so true God is good

@bevelynbrown9359

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad your eyes r open, keep working on u. Until u know all the dating and relationship rules, don't date just hang out with your family and friends.

@sophiachin1262

5 жыл бұрын

Hey cancel that it's not complete. Your mind is the battlefield. U must forget him complete. Let God strike him from your memory. Hallelujah. I been thru all that honey. Focus n loose that. U want real love proper love n husband... Right? Focus on that new life submit to God n make it become real.

@tiarab6655

5 жыл бұрын

kayla monroe that’s crazy same exact story sis woww

An "empath" is simply a person who is addicted to the vast amounts of hormonal rushes of cortisol and adrenaline/endorphins that are released when dealing with a narcissist. The fighting and the arguing release "fight or flight" hormones (cortisol) and the make-up, honeymoon period afterward release endorphins; a rollercoaster. Once a person's body is accustomed to these heavy doses of hormones, they find it difficult to let go of the relationship. Like any drug addict, they are so physically accustomed to the hormones they have a hard time changing their behavior. This is why empaths constantly seek out the same toxic relationships; they seek out the hormonal rush. They are consciously or unconsciously attracted to mates with the same toxic traits because they know that they will receive the flood of hormones they crave. This is also why empaths find healthy relationships to be "shallow" or unsatisfying: healthy relationships do not flood them with hormones, and while this is a positive thing, it makes an empath feel like the relationship is "empty." It is difficult for empaths to overcome their addiction BUT IT IS POSSIBLE. The first step is realizing what is happening and why: it's a physiological addiction. The second step is to DECIDE to live a healthier life. No amount of advice can change a person who doesn't want to change; while they can help you, no therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist can do this FOR you, you must choose it for YOURSELF. With time, you CAN end the addiction and find real love. But you won't find true love until you can love YOURSELF enough to make life choices that will enhance your life rather than destroy it. The third step is TIME; you must give your body the time it needs to HEAL. You must seek out support and surround yourself with people that truly care for you. You must give yourself the time to get accustomed to the peace that comes from breaking the addiction. This also means NO CONTACT with narcissists and with people who raise a red flag. Their problems are not yours, neither do you need validation from people who are not qualified to GIVE IT; MOVE ON. The fourth step is to find a PURPOSE for your own life. When you are focused on your purpose and become good at what you do, you have neither the time nor the inclination to seek out people who will distract you from it. Empaths suffer from low self-esteem; they are usually people who have been raised by narcissists and are constantly trying to validate themselves to the parents who were unable to give them the emotional support they needed growing up. They replay this scenario in adulthood, and pay a heavy price for it. LET IT GO. If your parents weren't good people, acknowledge it and move on. YOU can be a good guardian to YOURSELF, and you should be. Peace and love to everyone here, I went through this myself and I was able to overcome it. YOU CAN DO IT. I hope this helps.

@heatherfields2275

5 жыл бұрын

Nadia Asencio I do Worry about the Empty feelings of New Relationships!!! 😢😞💔

@NewYorkNadia

5 жыл бұрын

@@heatherfields2275 That's because you are comparing everyone you meet to your "idealized" version of your ex; stop doing that. Think about it this way: if this were your last day on earth, how would you feel about every experience you have right now? You'd appreciate every single one, wouldn't you? I think we all would. Learn to appreciate the good people who come into your life TODAY. You're wasting your present living in the past; stop. That past wasn't even good, so why relive it? When I started dating again I kept picking men that looked and acted like my ex; it would take no more than two dates for them to blow up just like he used to. After the third time it happened, I learned, I remembered why I wasn't with my ex anymore. I realized that men who fall into those patterns about him that I "admired" ALSO came with all the issues that he carries around. I also realized that I had grown; the minute one of my dates raised a red flag, I was out of there. That's what finally helped me understand that I didn't actually miss him, I only missed the "idea" of him, the many hopes and dreams we had built together, but because of his disorder, would never be a reality even if I had stayed. I finally gave a nice guy a chance, and it was GREAT. He was handsome, funny, kind, ambitious, talented, and no issues. We dated a few weeks, nothing serious, but the experience freed me from repeating my pattern. There ARE handsome guys out there who are sweet and still masculine; there are men out there who are deserving of your time. Stop pining for a man who didn't know how to value you; life is too short, AND too long, to waste on anyone who can't treat you with the respect you deserve. You got this, lady.

@peterpopowycz1058

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the explanation regarding hormones. You hit the nail on the head with that. It's the rush and the addiction of the push-pull and the intensity of the rush it gives you. looking back I can clearly see how my body reacted.

@NewYorkNadia

5 жыл бұрын

@@peterpopowycz1058 Crazy, right? But also, normal. Human beings are complicated; not only mentally/psychologically/emotionally, but physically as well. We tend to forget that there are massive amounts of hormones and chemicals flooding our bodies and minds, and that these have a profound affect on how we process the world around us and the decisions that we make. However, we can overcome any addiction by avoiding the people, places, and things that cause us to engage in destructive habits. We CAN get our bodies used to living without these rushes, and we should, if the behavior that is causing them is also causing us and those we love unnecessary pain and suffering. When I was weaning off of my last relationship, I only had to remember the many family members and friends that truly love me and that would suffer at the hands of my abuser if I decided to go back to him and allow him to hurt me. It was difficult, and it took TIME, but I did it. You can, too. Never forget that the power you seek to overcome this cycle is already within you. Believe in yourself; I do.

@heatherfields2275

5 жыл бұрын

Nadia Asencio THIS THREAD CONTINUES TO HELP AND REMIND ME!!!! THANK YOU 🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm convinced God led me here tonight. I've been struggling and having an internal battle with myself, wondering why I couldn't let this man go. Now I understand. I pray that I'll be emotionally, mentally and spiritually set free. Thank you Jesus for guiding me here🙏❤

God brought me here for a reason at the right time before I said “I Do” 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

@kaylamarie1416

4 жыл бұрын

Catina Jenkins wow God bless you. I know your testimony is big

@yolandawright789

4 жыл бұрын

Wow so many people have went on and married that joker god bless you lady

@aqua5185

4 жыл бұрын

That's exactly how I feel 🤗

@healingonesmindset

4 жыл бұрын

@@aqua5185 I'm unfortunately 6 years in😔

@lindayates1136

4 жыл бұрын

@@healingonesmindset 42 yrs of marriage

That soul tie is very strong it nearly killed me, the Narcissist wanted my soul, once you start to walk on eggshells you lost your self by trying to save the Monster it's chaotic and destructive, You will never have peace or harmony, know resolved issues, it's a rollercoaster ride from Hell, Only God can break that soul tie, I am free I Thank God everyday he delivered me from the enemy, I never experienced such evil in my life, God bless everyone who encountered that kind of evil!

@warriorwoman432hz

6 жыл бұрын

Shar Hughes, they are tied to the spirit realm through blood, candle magic, or a host of other occult mediums, and they know exactly what they are doing. They are being revealed because their own lives don't matter to the darker powers they serve. As another sistah-queen posted, they have no soul, so there is nothing in there to redeem to the Most High. Any pity towards them is wasted energy.

@sharhughes1086

6 жыл бұрын

WarriorWoman your spot except for one thing they have a soul it's just dark and full of demonic forces that's taking control over their soul which they can know longer control. Satan is the driving force behind the wicked they do!

@warriorwoman432hz

6 жыл бұрын

Shar Hughes, I'm not entirely convinced that a spirit and soul are the same entity. I have shared office space with covert Narcs and they tend to lie and do evil continuously and with a callous disregard that is inhumane. At different times I have tried to warn their victims, but the Narc just went after them harder. And I believe a true Narc knows that he or she is evil, as they have no desire whatsoever for change. I agree with what you are saying, I just think there is a difference between a spirit and a soul.

@mimi2781

5 жыл бұрын

You hit a nerve when you said "once you start to walk on eggshells you lost yourself by trying to save the monster"....I couldn't have said that any better..its so true..I've done it for so many years..in the process of letting go..

@brendalenoir2840

5 жыл бұрын

@@warriorwoman432hz Oh my God l am learning so much! Yes He was tied to demonic forces. Only took, never gave and if he did give anything I had to give it back. So no matter what I gave, he still needed whatever he gave back. The most sick twisted person I ever met! God gives me dreams so He let me know he was leaving. He was the second narcissist, didn't listen to God. Ladies there are red flags, we must pay attention.

In order to break the deadlock of a narcissistic abusive relationship, the empath must give to themselves the gift of desperation (GOD). The narcissist comes into our lives to teach us to build those boundaries. To learn to balance our feelings and our thoughts and to learn to discern the difference between frivolity and love. As an empath I always thought that I could fix things in others. That's playing God. In this area I have been agnostic. The gifts of intuition and intuitive thought need to be bridaled by discernment. So balance between our thoughts and feelings can only be achieved by enlarging on our spiritual lives. Understanding spiritual principals and being a disciplined learner of such is the key to freedom. Thank you for your work brother.

@danglicous

5 жыл бұрын

If GOD Could Cast Out demons In The Bible He Can Still Do It The devil Is A Pig He Tempted JESUS Who IS GOD In The Human Form Not Once Or Twice But Three Times And What Did JESUS Do He Spoke The Word Of GOD So We Are Suppose To Be CHRIST Like We Are Not CHRIST Let's Start Rebuking Let's Start A Page For Rebuking All Soul Ties In JESUS Name And With His Most Precious And Powerful BLOOD For Everyone Who Is Watching This And Everyone All Over The World. And Let Me Start By REBUKING NARCISM From My Husband And From Everyone Watching This And In The World Who Is A Narcassist. May GOD COVER All OF Us And Our Families And Friends In JESUS Mighty Name And With His Precious And Powerful BLOOD. This Is Not Benny Writing I Am Under My Son's Name And My Life Has Been Destroyed But Let Me Tell You The Word Of GOD Has Made Me Stronger Do We Want These Souls To Go To hell These Are demonic Forces No We Don't All This Is True Ignore These People VerballyYes But Pray GOD Can't Change Them Sometimes Faith And Love Are Things They Don't Come Automatically You Have To Chose To Believe AND LOVE. AMEN P.S. The HOLY SPIRIT REVEALED THIS I CAME ACCROSS THIS BY ACCIDENT ABOUT NARCISSIM THERE IS POWER IN NUMBERS LET'S START PRAYING FOR THE DEMON OF NARCISSIM.

@heatherfields2275

5 жыл бұрын

Well Put 👍

@xenigma35ray21

5 жыл бұрын

wow.....couldn't have said it better myself!!!! right on!! I do relate to your positive choice of learning from this as well as. I've experienced two of these in a row.....and, I'm trusting the Lord that he has taught me much from them both. And their IS indeed a diff between Spiritual discernment and Soulish intuition.

@jevonbivens6399

5 жыл бұрын

Very well said

@justsharing9631

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! It took me awhile to come to this truth. If only I learned this earlier. It's in the asking that we receive. When I truly let go and let God my eyes were open. When I started loving myself and everyone around me I started experiencing the peace that surpasses all understanding. Did my husband change, nope. Yet, God equipped me to with wisdom, knowledge and understanding on how to respond to him. I am no longer the victim. I now take responsibility- (respond-able) how to respond to him and All the wonderful well-beings on this planet. It was not an easy journey, but indeed it was worth it. What you are seeking is seeking you. Walk in forgiveness towards yourself and everyone that hurt you. Love yourself and everyone. Have appreciation for everything, yes even the heart breaking experience. Everyone comes into our lives for a purpose observe without judgment(that's really tough). Stop reacting to everything that is happening in your life take control over your feelings. Stop allowing others to control you. Remember we all have a path in life. Find what makes you feel good and happy. Focus on the now it's the present( it is a gift). Alone time is all I seek for now. It's peaceful, quiet and not demanding. It's in those quiet times you fill those spaces with love, joy and peace. You'll receive more in return. Remember you are worthy and deserving. The only person that I have control over is myself and my thoughts. You'll notice that people only come from their perception of you based on how they feel. So many people like to control so they can feel better. They want you to behave in a way that makes them feel good. Love, appreciation, forgiveness is key. God is leading us we just need to let go and trust Him. Believe that everything is always working out. We are all creating. Why not create the life you desire. God will either remove that person from your experience or they will change. Love, light and blessings to all my wonderful Co-creators. God bless

I finally let go of a toxic relationship with a narcissist. I feel like I've finally gained my peace and freedom back 🙌. There are days where I question myself on where I might have went wrong and how I should have changed the way I responded to certain things. The sad truth is we were never supposed to be together in the first place, God even showed me a vision regarding this man and what I saw is exactly what played out throughout our relationship. I felt emotionally drained, worthless and felt like I lost a sense of myself. I couldn't function properly, I was always sad and depressed. My mind could only focus on the failed relationship. A week wouldn't end without me shedding tears. He used to tell me I was crazy and dramatic and the more I internalized the negative words the more I started thinking that maybe there was something wrong with me (its a lie from the enemy).

@dashabarrett2574

Жыл бұрын

He’s doing the same thing to me… all I do is question myself and what I did wrong and what’s wrong with me

@alnutsa31

Жыл бұрын

Narcissist do that to everyone! It’s like they are clones ! Made and raised in the same factory . I have read so many testimonies and they all talk about the same type of abuse . They break you to nothing that you loose yourself who you are . I had to go through deliverance , soul tie breaking without this the battle in the mind is unbearable. I used to think where is the pause or stop button to press so my brain can rest . You can only get rest in Jesus . I am going through divorce it’s not easy but Jesus can turn any situation into our good , we just can’t see while we are going through trials . God is good keep hope in Jesus , He will help those who seek him . only

@Trisha_23

Жыл бұрын

Am going through this and it hurts so bad. Am stuck in this toxic relationship for fear of starting over. This is the only person I have ever loved with all my heart and he treats me like trash 💔💔

@lorrain4646

Жыл бұрын

Be advised, you couldn't have said it better...I experienced everything you spoke on. The holy spirit had told me, I was going to be with this person, before we connected. He was a recent widow. I misunderstood the holy spirit, and thought my role was to nurture this man, and build him up. Now, I realize, the spirit was trying to warn me of being with a devil. He literally destroyed my spirit. I am now afraid to talk to men, and the sad thing about it, I consider myself, a good girl.

@blu_rey8656

Жыл бұрын

Why does It seem like mostly women suffer from the ‘soul tie’ effect?

“When a relationship ends with a narcissist, for an empath, it is traumatic and leaves a demonic longing for closure and twisted sense of guilt that I have done something wrong and that the narcissist can change” this hit a nail on the head, now they're on gods path and your the demonic spirit smh,

We are in a spiritual battle with these demons.....

@crownedmelaninqueen

5 жыл бұрын

I pray that these people are freed from Satan's captivity!

@sophiachin1262

5 жыл бұрын

Yes long story short God's ppl vs. Satanic agents. God knows the best husbands or wives for His ppl. Stay in God's will these ppl come to kill, steal, destroy or use. Distractions n diversions. If u gone thru it gain knowledge n power n war that wickedness. The devil been defeated long ago these are just life tests & obstacles. Repent n turn to God He will give you your best spouse. U will be delivered and healed.

@kelishapatrickable

5 жыл бұрын

Most certainly!

Trauma bonding is no joke.

@YoYo0204

6 жыл бұрын

Tracie Brown you are absolutely right, I'm going through it now

@traciebrown8455

6 жыл бұрын

Well I'm praying for you because I grew up with both and I mean both narsassistic parents ,relatives, friends, coworkers and bosses. Not knowing what it was and no one I could relate to about it. That caused me to be codependent and having PTSD and fight or flight. People in the church leaders included are victimized due to narcs. Some are overt or covert. But now because of the Grace of God and Jesus blood I know what it is and being prophetic that was what the enemy used to destroy my anointing. I am diligently going through deliverance and healing to be a vessel for Gods kingdom to help his people in Jesus name. Thanks to Pastor Blake's for helping spread some healing. Don't give up God gotcha. Be encouraged Isaiah 54:17, Psalm 118, Isaiah 41:10, Psalm 23,27,34,37, 51, 53, 63 and 91, 2 Timothy 1: 7, Galatians 5 , Ephesians 6: 10-20. May these verses help give you strength encouragement and hope. God has us all. He's leading us to pages like this for true teaching but remember ask the Holy Spirit for edification and verification. God Bless you my sister you are not alone.

@YoYo0204

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much God bless you

@Joni-qf2it

6 жыл бұрын

I was 56 before I figured out what was wrong with my mother. All my life she was an addict and I was told she was scitsophenic but I believe she is psychotic narcissistic personality. Thank you all for your words and advice.

@ci.ci.1998

6 жыл бұрын

Tracie Brown Heck Nawl!

You are the only person I’ve seen nailed Narcissism & codependent too the bones

@anastasiast.pierre188

3 жыл бұрын

Yes however check this out also. There is a lady pastor on UTube that looks at Christian Narcissism. She also explains narcissism so well

OMG, this describes my life and I want out of this mental war.

@renitajordan8129

5 жыл бұрын

Tyreesha Thomas me too

@bandieboo8102

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. ..i am losing it. What sort of god does this to nice people. ..i have no faith anymore. ..what sort of a god allows this to happen.

@hthomas9891

5 жыл бұрын

You have to find other friends. Friends that you pick. Don't always let people pick you. Those people target you because your nice. Let them know your not too nice.

@siphokazishiburi1838

4 жыл бұрын

@@bandieboo8102 It's not God. Yes, he allowed it to happen but it was not him. Your choice to not wait on God's best led you settle for less than God's best. So you never were supposed to be with him in the first place. God desires for his children to have Godly relationships filled with unconditional love. May he heal you and restore everything that has been stolen from you.

@cleohope4209

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, me as we. I just keep praying on it😒

And the worst thing of it all is how they tell everyone that YOU are the bad person , that YOU are the poison. After they sucked out all you have to give and it still wasn’t enough, mentally drained you, they will want to tell the whole world how terrible you are! And they all believe it. And I still wanted him back again and again. This is the worst thing that ever happened to me. This video is a blessing. Thank you !! I will watch it over and over again to never forget !

@warriorwoman432hz

6 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Hauser, this for sure happens with females working in the same office or professional arena. Women are catty with one another to a point. When a Narc enters the equation, the whole office takes a moral nose dive and people start bickering over stupid stuff. The Narc takes a break, goes on vacation with his/her latest boo-thang, re-appears to everyone as the voice of reason, then the space is calm for a few days. This bliss only lasts for about a week though. It's like a controlled burn in the forest but nobody warned the animals. I have had my whole body scalded in high winds, so these wicked trolls must be vaporized from every aspect of my life. If my 'best' personifies that thing they hate the most, then good--game on!

@sherronb3348

6 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Hauser ..you're absolutely right Vannesa..it's only 2months for me..I've wasted 6 years with this Narc..all the love balming, gas lighting etc..I feel broken , angry, depressed.. Emotional roller coaster..and we live in the same complex..it's very hard for me..I wish he would EVAPORATE!!!

@vanessahauser6467

6 жыл бұрын

Sherron B it was almost 5 years of my life I wasted for this devil. It’s 2months now of no contact for me as well and I pray every day that he doesn’t show up again so I can heal completely. I am so glad that I finally got it and do not want this toxic person in my life. It took forever but it finally made click in my head and I thank god every day. But sadly i still struggle and I know it will take a long time before I am completely healed. I wouldn’t even wish my worst enemy this experience!!! Truly! May we stay strong 💪🏼 I wish you the best for your new start 🙏🏼

@taraspehar6718

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!you said it right. I'm going thru this

@MicMurphy1981

5 жыл бұрын

I went through the same thing with a female she went around the city that we lived in and dog me out to everyone but in all actuality they made themselves look stupid because they were with us if we were that bad then why would they stay with us that long so we couldn't have been that bad and I know everybody isn't that stupid to believe that we were those type of people and if they are they carry the same spirit that did Jezebel narcissistic carrying

I feel the most toxic narcasstic relationships is when it's your own MOTHER

@cassiesagittarius7353

5 жыл бұрын

Can we talk

@nolimitkk2715

5 жыл бұрын

Mrs Cassandra W Bryant AMEN !

@sharingyourexperiences5305

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Either parent. My codependent mother turned borderline/narc after 30 years of being abused by my narc step dad

@lawrenciaspooner2327

5 жыл бұрын

Thats where it begins...

@cassiesagittarius7353

5 жыл бұрын

@ronsgirl i understand I found out the same and turn around and married one ....

Before I knew he was a narc I had a dream where he wanted to be intimate with me (thing that never happened) but when I opened my eyes he was growing fangs like a vampire. The Spirit of God revealed his true nature months ahead of time. Thanks for the teaching. I’m on my way to healing and wholeness

@anastasiast.pierre188

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my word. Lord have mercy

@mildredmanford5068

2 жыл бұрын

@@anastasiast.pierre188u

@missnicoleblaze9477

2 жыл бұрын

I got the wign and told them and it was left. I should had bailed out then

@rikim1693

Жыл бұрын

Spiritual vampire

@t.soleilsykes2993

9 ай бұрын

​@@mildredmanford50680

The sad thing is the narcissists really think that You're dumb and that they are getting over on you not knowing that you're very intelligent and don't believe a darn thing they say when they say they love u never believe it go BY THEIR ACTIONS I ALWAYS GO BY ACTIONS but that soul tie had me stuck so glad its over!!!!

Yes Pastor Blakes. This is true. My daughter's father strategically selects the women he dates for his needs & if the woman wakes up & realizes he doesn't love her & thats he's using her, he calls her selfish, attacks her verbally & then will serial cheat. He did it to me & all his gfs. There is a saying that says a selfish man is a thief. That is a narc. You never get back what you put into a relationship with them.

@survivertatimprofloraldesi3112

6 жыл бұрын

So true!!!

@etherenow

6 жыл бұрын

A selfish man is a thief. This is it exactly. I love that quote.

@etherenow

6 жыл бұрын

You never get back what you put in.

@survivertatimprofloraldesi3112

6 жыл бұрын

etherenow Facts!!

Abstinence is the only way

@artimusgee9488

6 жыл бұрын

I'm a 35 yo man n my last convo with my father a week ago this is what he said. It's true

@artimusgee9488

6 жыл бұрын

Told me to learn to control my mind to refocus away from sexual thoughts. That's tough fiddle

@freesiapetals2882

6 жыл бұрын

swag-gal Absolutely, they've been running in different directions when I tell them I'm abstaining.

@ParentsVoice

6 жыл бұрын

Freesia Petals yes girl because they trying to convince you to give them the goods on credit or a promise of a future commitment -that usually never comes by he way!

@ParentsVoice

6 жыл бұрын

Artimus Gee it's especially nice to see a man keeping his goods to himself. So many men think a woman wants a man whose been ran through and that it makes them look like a boss, but I'm totally disgusted by a man whose had a lot of partners.

I would say I am a recovering co-dependent and definitely an empath. What I've come to know is that a narcissist and co-dependent are shadows of each other. And, until we get the deep healing we need (rooted in abandonment and rejection) we will ALWAYS find ourselves in these MAGNETIC relationships!

@sacredalkhemia28

Жыл бұрын

Facts and I'd like to add validation.

@ckl5801

11 ай бұрын

Sad but true

@meli7315

9 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

They are like the devil hating on good as they are jealous and envious of the good in u thank u

@riyamitraministries

4 жыл бұрын

They are very jealous by nature

When my narc ex saw me getting stronger, and totally transform! Aaaaaand just when he thought he was "the man" well something shifted and he began to have issues in every column of his life. Long story short he was curled up in a lil corner crying talking about how low his self esteem was. We split of course 👏but I've transformed so much my relatives are jus happily blown away, in regards of how much I've "queened up"

@AuthorLHollingsworth

6 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@darlenegarr3549

5 жыл бұрын

Love!

@princeosmom1

5 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@starlightangel1569

5 жыл бұрын

So happy for you & many blessings your way !

@arnellpharr5122

5 жыл бұрын

Yaaasssss! 👏🏼👏🏼😆😆😆

Whew! This was spot on Sir! I was the empath and was in relationship with a narcissist ex for 7 1/2 years. So glad that God helped me break free of that!

@melissanaeem4897

3 жыл бұрын

This is excellent!!! I have finally broken free after 7 years.

@justbyougail8820

2 жыл бұрын

How did you break it? For me its been 14yrs!

The "trauma bond", for me, came from having to rely on a person that I could never actually rely. That right there can change a person in ways that even I can't explain!

God gave me the strength to walk away I was dying slowly

@tammysnide5389

4 жыл бұрын

I pray that you have recovered well. Go forward and grow in Gods love.

I was sitting in my car crying my face off LITERALLY about my breakup and I was watching a random video and THIS popped up in my feed. JESUSSSSSS JESUSSSSSS JESUSSSSSS! I'm a gallon person and I fell in love with a pint person. I ended it about a week ago and this video was everything I needed. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! My friend recommended your book and I never ordered it, and then I sent her THIS video and she responded...THIS IS THE SAME GUY THAT WROTE THE BOOK I KEEP TELLING YOU TO BUY! WOWWWWWW. LOOK AT GOD! This video was CONFIRMATION. THANK YOU! Ordering book now! I feel like a burden has been lifted off me. Sorry this was so long. This was a #godsend.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@ClaudiaDancingDove

4 жыл бұрын

T L what’s the name of the book?

@michellesescoe8428

4 жыл бұрын

ME TOO!@

Another good point 👏 The codependent is starved for love 💕 The narc is avoidant of love 💕 The narc throws bread 🥖 crumbs or tiny bits of affection Bread 🥖 crumbs so the codependent is never satisfied or full/ always hungry for more .... ****ah ha moment 🤔 💭

@vivaciouslyred

4 жыл бұрын

Wooow

@PinkElephantTV1

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, exactly.

@indiaolivia9014

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@lovelypastelpuppy1640

2 жыл бұрын

🍞

You nailed this 100%. I realized this is why my whole life has been stolen from me... I thought it was just my mom, but when I "escaped" from her and went to my dad's, who promised to help me, I found out he is just as bad, even worse because he hides it. It is the final piece of the puzzle, for why I have never been able to find love, because my parents both drained it from me, and I thought I had to give everything of myself to be loved, which never came. AT 52 years old, I'm finally learning to make my needs important too.

"You're on top and you're going higher. God has more in store for you." A blessed seed to plant in my heart. Thank you pastor.

A narcissist is a jezebel spirit

@lexip396able

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@skw2882

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@SuperCookie011

3 жыл бұрын

No, they are not the same.

@SuperCookie011

3 жыл бұрын

@@lovewins8045 Leviathan is the Spirit of Pride; Python tries to constrict your prayer life and isolate; Jezebel has an Ahab, even if it’s not her /his spouse and can be very pious outwardly, but it is an organized network that spares nothing to take down their victims. They look “motherly” but their children tend to be “narcissistic “.

This spoke to me today! I was in one of the relationships you spoke on Pastor and I spent the longest time trying to figure out WHY I was so connected to this person who treated me with such disregard! When you truly surrender your life to God - he takes away toxic relationships, pain, hurt and disappointment! I am a living witness that you can have life after narcissists! He did it for me, and he can do it for you too!!

@valeriemitchell5521

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Beverley. This is encouraging.

I have tears falling like a waterfall. I have trauma bond. Lord, please bring healing and restoration to my soul.

Im on a serious healing journey so I've noticed why he blocked me an got upset was bec he realised he cant manipulate me as he did before yes all my relationship were Co dependant I was everyone life saver but im trying very hard to heal an break myself from this behavior

@garrysmith9856

5 жыл бұрын

Put God first then your self and Watch how your life begin to change..Selflove and Strong Mindset

@Thelifeofgisel

4 жыл бұрын

Omg this made me realize that a guy I used to talk to blocked me because he realized he couldn’t manipulate me anymore 🤔

@ratnaghiraw896

Жыл бұрын

Same here sister

Thanks for the anointed teaching for empaths. We need this. The narcissists are literally capable of killing us if we don't know any better about what they are ☺ God bless you.

@brendalenoir2840

5 жыл бұрын

A H when I first heard of the empath months before his teachings I thought it was like the horoscopes etc. But when I heard RCBlakes teach on it knew it was ok. His teaching for me came as I had just dropped a narcissist before he did his damage. As an empath, as he said I was questioning myself. Next day I heard his message on men and the narcissist. God bless him because he's bold enough to step out of the boundaries of the preacher. Like you I am so thankful God lead me to him.

@27ltm

4 жыл бұрын

A H praying your better! I know the feeling

So glad to see a pastor bringing this type relationship to the attention of those who may be suffering a soul bond with a narcissist . One thing people need to understand is this is happening in the church as well . Many narcissist are hiding behind the bible . They know scripture well and want their prey to believe everything is their fault , and use scripture to back it . Thankyou for explaining in such detail . You have brought light to many . God bless you !

Great content! I’ve come to find that the narcissistic personality is the leviathan spirit. Pride. That’s what needs to be prayed against. I love the breakdown and I would just add spiritual ways to break free. It’s powerful when we can use psychology and faith to move toward healing!

This video has helped me start the process of true healing and release. Thank you!!!

126 unlikes? Obviously Narcassists unhappy you've revealed their stratergies!

@Tommi717

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂right!

@cassiancass2424

5 жыл бұрын

I wish this had a love button lol this is so true

@juliaanderson8956

4 жыл бұрын

I came across the word "soul ties" randomly in a you tube video I was watching. This is mind blowing!! And speaks VOLUMES in my life as I type this. I always was a pleaser and lived my life to make sure others were happy as well as the the relationships I had. I decided that in 2020 I would remain single and learn to love myself again and find ME. Ur videos on soul ties and breaking them have truely been a sign as well as point me in the right direction to begin my spritual journey today. I am a new subscriber and ur videos are truely the sign and blessing I was missing!!!

@monicageller1807

4 жыл бұрын

Correct...

@mollyross3607

2 жыл бұрын

Ha Ha Ha😂

My God... Cover me Lord, cover me with your blood dear Jesus.

@freesiapetals2882

6 жыл бұрын

B.P, May the blood of Jesus Cover and Sanctify you NOW in Jesus mighty name, Amen.

@justzee1574

6 жыл бұрын

God has given you the knowledge to help you identify these people and not get intaglled. In my case, it is my mother which it took me all my life to heal I that God for social media where people like this pastor is shedding light on it

@geraldinemiller1473

6 жыл бұрын

AMEN AMEN AND AMEN!!!!!!

@dansefureva7664

5 жыл бұрын

@@justzee1574 How did you break free?

@beeproverbs1042

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Amen. Today the light came on with regards to a trauma bond and forgiveness ... I left just over a year ago and have been fighting this battle and did not understand it, or put a word to it. "It's not longing... its bitterness" at being so betrayed and hurt in SO many different ways. Wow. Thank you for bringing this to the light. This is such an important message for so many people suffering at the hands of a narc. Bless you. Thank you Lord, you are the Almighty One, the Alpha and the Omega, I praise your name and thank you. I am the righteousness of God through Jesus Christ. With God for me, who can be against me. Amen.

This helped me I’m in a sole tie and trauma bond. It’s the most difficult relationship I’ve ever been in.

It took me getting ill with chronic pain to realise that I'm an empath and my entire family are narcissists. God finally woke me up to realise that I can't help them. I have to help myself. Finally I'm breaking free.

can you pray for me? that God will break all soul ties for me and restore me, and pray for my family.

@foxyroxy123

6 жыл бұрын

Navatia Wallack .....I learned about soul ties many years ago, I was taught to call back the fragmented pieces of my soul from every relationship I had. So I did and I'm whole now. Pastor is right on with his information. I hope this helps you.

@demonkat5

6 жыл бұрын

Lo Lo it helps a lot. thank you

@christineelizabethhorner5829

6 жыл бұрын

Navatia Wallack a soul tie or trauma bond is breakable by choice and dedication. You are not powerless to decide who you want in your life or not.

@demonkat5

6 жыл бұрын

Christine Horner I don’t keep in contact with anyone I have soul ties with anymore

@blondiek8934

6 жыл бұрын

Navatia Wallack prayer for you now. God free your soul spirt and body.

This struck home so much. As a Christian now separated from her narcissist husband this really helped to see why i kept having him back why i had no boundaries and let abuse take over and keep thinking it would change. Thankfully after 19 years i walked away. Thank you so much for this

I know exactly what your talking about. I'm going thru this now!!! But God can definitely deliver!!! I'm a living witness to that. I was a crack addict for 18 years and for the last 12 years I've been set free!! THERE'S NOTHING TO HARD FOR GOD😇😇. Thank you

Great video..I'm in this situation right now. I wouldn't be in this situation if I just followed my instincts. My gutfeeling😩Almost 2 months narc free..No Contact! Thank you🌹

@NostalgiaVibes420

6 жыл бұрын

Lynn Htown you got this girl it's been almost a year for me and I tell you it gets easier day by day no contact is the only way!

@eyeoffthetiger2691

6 жыл бұрын

Nikkita Padgett thank you ..yes it only 2 months of NC.. I will get there you are right about family and friends..they could be 🐒🐒🐒🐒 ..can't wait to see progress after 6 months..especially with that soultie bond...thanks for the tips..

@eyeoffthetiger2691

6 жыл бұрын

Naturally Taylormade88 Thank you.. good for you..a year no contact.. ✊ and yes its gonna be easier. No Contact for sure🚫

@eyeoffthetiger2691

6 жыл бұрын

Smiley Murphy thx yes i'm still hanging in there..it's hard sometimes. I'm working on progress..succes with you're freedom as well💯🌹

@warriorwoman432hz

6 жыл бұрын

Lynn Htown, I concur with the other sistah-queens, absolutely no contact. I had children involved, ages 11 and 16 at the time, but they were old enough to retain contact if they wanted to--no pressure from me either way. They both decided no contact on their own, and at 17 and 23, have become better young men because of it. Coaches, cousins, and other positive men stepped into my children's lives, and I was grateful for their intervention. Happy Father's Day to those men!

When I was toward the end of my relationship with a narcissist monster, I did not know at the time why I felt this way, but I knew without a doubt I was going to die or was in the process. Never in my life before, have I ever felt without a doubt I was dying or going to die soon. Its was very creepy and unexplainable at the time. Now I am out, God has wrapped me in his arms and as I begged and prayed for help and protection, God has graciously giving it to me. Even after 4 years of no contacts I still struggle with these horrible "ties" sometimes. I have to constantly pray for protection and for God to change my mind and help me to fight the emotional pain he inflicted on me. I would not have ever believed ANY man could or would have this kind of power over me. Demons do exist, put on your full armor of God! You have to have Gods armor to fight this kind of evil... 🙏💔

@purityonthenarrowway

3 жыл бұрын

You explained the exact feeling I have every day! Like I am dying. Not like suicide, but from the pain. I can feel the stress and tension in my body. I need God to help me!!

@ButterCookie1984

3 жыл бұрын

I was continually suicidal with him. Every-single-time.

@lilbirdhates6

2 жыл бұрын

Hey I just wanted to reach out to you because it's the first time I feel like another person knows what I know and had to feel what I felt. I kept telling him you are taking years off my life and I just feel like what you are doing is literally causing me a premature death. I am dying or I wish I was dead because you are causing me so much agony that I feel I am in the process of my death! I never felt like anyone would understand what I was talking about if I was to share that feeling with them, so I am grateful that you shared this , and I can at least feel like someone understands what I have been through. I am so sorry that you know this horrifying reality , and I wish it never happened to you or me but it did and now I hope you know that I am with you in this experience and you are not alone! And GOD is with us of course.

@Melanatedminimalist

Жыл бұрын

Praying for your full healing and let God be your comfort and guide!!!!

Amen! I have attracted Narcissists my entire life and I’m learning to Rebuke them in Jesus’ name Amen!

@sll110

Жыл бұрын

me too

Narcissism is the biggest blessing of my life. It has fired my heart to help forge my faith and returned me to myself. I believe my soul's mission is to break through these relationships by understanding myself. I have been very toxic and I have been seeking these relationships. Deep within my soul I know I could not have woken up from the illusions of this world, if not for my painful experiences. I needed to learn that even feeling people can be destructive. I needed to learn that ignorance in the name of goodness or Godliness is especially destructive. I needed to learn that I have to learn to pave my own way. I needed to learn that my anger is not always bad, but is a protection of myself. We must learn to tap into God and break this bond to ignorance that controls so many of us. When we are free from this we will be free to give Love and Truth in the world like it needs! We must fight to be free of these things, we will only win the fight by finding God within ourselves and honoring ourselves as Holy. We are made of Love, we are strong enough to defend that Love in ourselves and others. Find You, Find God, Find True Freedom. That's what your narcissist is hear to teach you.

You nailed the description between Narcissist and the Empath!!!👍🏽👍🏽💪🏾💪🏾

I’m so glad I’m Single ... I’m learning so much !!!

@conchettam6861

6 жыл бұрын

Lucrisha W. ME...2...🌸SINGLE AND HAPPY!

@maryhudson3420

6 жыл бұрын

+CONCHETTA'S BLESSED me too happy but somewhat miserable. i havent had sex in 7 years and i get sexual urges months apart i try so hard with the help of Jesus and it works for months then the sexual urges comes back. im tired of holding on cause i dont want to hear the words from the Lord depart from me i the lake of fire. for sexually pleasing myself so sorry to bother you this is another topic

@misslewkingdom6390

6 жыл бұрын

keep up the Great Work urges are Natural

@maryhudson3420

6 жыл бұрын

+Lucrisha W yes it is but why do i feel so guilty. thank you anyways.

@misslewkingdom6390

6 жыл бұрын

Mary Hudson first of all guilt is not from God ask Bishop Blakes the devil wants you to be miserable but be Happy and Joyful and Blessed hold your head up and Thank God for that kind of Self Control !!!

OMG I am the Empath & he is the Narcissist!!!! Ended with him going to jail for Agg. Assault.. Praise God I Have a way- making, life sustaining, Author & Perfecter of my Life.

This presentation is SO needed from a Biblical perspective. Christians are dealing with this just as the World. Thank you for your hard work. God can deliver, ask Him. If you surrender and submit to God He can heal like nothing else can. Amen

@lorrain4646

Жыл бұрын

Thanks you Cheryl, you are so right. I am a victim of a narcissist relationship. I am so grateful that I have a personal relationship with Christ. Currently healing through this grace. Bottom line,....christians and demonic do not match!!! Hallelujah!

My God 😔😔😔... I am trying to heal from this.

I was with a narcissist, I didn’t realize he do such a thing, we got married and he slowly broke me down to the point were I was left with nothing, he beat me when I discovered his ways and blamed me.. I’m not the only one he’s done this to but I was the first to discover who he truly was, I was in my lowest point in my life, I was so traumatized, he hurt me in every way possible, I did feel like I was gonna die.. it took me so long to get myself back up and it’s been over a year and I’m still struggling getting back up. He has changed me forever but I thank God I didn’t stay bitter. I describe him as a monster

I think this was an excellent summary of the damage of the narcissistic individuals to the empaths and the like. I am on my way to healing and forgiveness. Thank you! :)

You have no idea how much you have helped me. The pain of soul ties has existed for many years. As a woman who never knew who her biological father was/is and the men my mother had were abusive to her & me both emotionally & physically. Thus, I felt rejection from the womb from my father who I never met & later my mother as she chose her men over me! Then to have been molested by 2 different uncles & my stepfather I have had to fight many demons. The suffering is so real & the pain associated with it is catastrophic! It has manifested over my entire life, for decades via drug addiction, being arrested, 2 abusive marriages & several failed narcissistic, co-dependent, love starved relationships. From the bottom of my heart I thank God for you & your obedience ...thru study, books & social media you have saved my life!! I never knew peace until know & I never thought I would ever be TOTALLY free!! I'm no longer in church yet dying inside! God Bless you!

I think that I'm an empath/codependent/love addict - that's why I'm such a narc magnet 😪😭

You are spot on! I am empathic, we draw those who need healing as well. Sometimes you don't even realize it. I am highly sensitive, you can know that they aren't any good, but we rationalize giving them unlimited opportunities. I almost had a mental breaking point, but thank God, I know God!!

U are spot on. I'm an impath. And every relationship I've been in has been with a narcissist. I have a dad that's a narcissist and abandoned us played the victim in everything. Thing is I didn't really know my dad that well till after I was over 40 only then did I begin to understand why I was attracted to these damaged heartless men

My husband had an affair with a narc. His mind was so messed up. She had him soooo convinced that his family didn't love him or want him. I almost baked acted him. He was so possessed by her words. Thank God that Jesus saved him.

@jackiesanders3150

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for all of your teaching! I pray that God will continue to use you! You are amazing!❤💯

trauma bond is an addiction to hope.... more deadly than any drug.... thank you so much...

@heatherfields2275

5 жыл бұрын

bebop54 INDEED!!!!

After my relationship ended with the Narc, I found out I am an Empath & a Codependent, the perfect victim for a narcissist. This is the only good thing that came out of my relationship with this evil person. I now have boundaries and I am learning to take care of me first. It has been a very sad journey but everyday I get stronger. Thank you for your words and wisdom

I needed this today. I am an Empath. You hit every point. Bless you for sharing yourself. All the love.❤️

Wow, this was so great. So, I’ve been “stuck” in my healing journey for a few years and now I have more insight as to why. Today I had my first counseling session with a Christian therapist. She talked about “soul ties”, a concept that I hadn’t heard of before, although I’ve become rather well-versed in all things narcissistic and Narc abuse since my divorce. The therapist prayed a prayer to break the soul ties to my ex and I just could not believe that I walked out of that place lighter and with no desire to cry as I have been on a daily basis. I am a believer and trust God’s mighty power to deliver but was losing my battle for hope as time went on and I wasn’t getting better. There’s a lot more work to do, but now I see a glimmer of a brighter light thstvus my future. I searched soul ties on KZread and this is the first video I listened to and it is eye opening, validating, and gives more understanding about who I am and why the trauma bond has the hold on me it does, and about the soul tie which makes me keep thinking of him despite the fact that I have come to learn how sick he is. Thank you! Very clearly explained.

First of all Bishop 🙌 Thank you for acknowledging the definition of an Empath! Your the 1st Pastor I've heard to say this🙋

@ci.ci.1998

6 жыл бұрын

Charlotte Right!

@erica01161978

6 жыл бұрын

when he was describing this I was thinking OMG this is me :-(. im so glad he covered this!

@MAJORMAN299

6 жыл бұрын

Very tru

Pastor Blake's this is very powerful and accurate. Narcassist never totally move on because they see you as an extension of themselves . Especially if you were a good supply. They just start playing musical chairs. The final discard usually comes from you! Thank you God Bless you abundantly:)

@Shadissy

6 жыл бұрын

And when you do the discarded, it devastates them. Narcissistic Injury is what is. They cant handle the rejection, just pulled the mask off them and it painful for them to be exposed like that. You made them feel like somebody, your accomplishments, your great personality. All they did was copy like a chameleon does from you - draining you while loading themselves up with everything you got.

@heatherfields2275

5 жыл бұрын

Towanda W. - YES. YES. YES!!!!!

This is scary,he literally broke down why I still can’t let go mentally. This is a sign for me to get back into the church

2 Timothy 3:1-5 New International Version (NIV) 3 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

WOW, this teaching is so clear now!!!because I’ve been listening & learning about an empath & a narcissist. O LORD deliver us from all evils in JESUS NAME 🙏🏽💖🔥🔥🔥

No Pastor Blake..you did not talk too much..I have been suffering for 22 years under the demonic control of a malignant psychopathic narcissist and only have come to realize within the last couple of years what I am dealing with..I felt so much love coming from you that I was brought to tears..I thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking on this awful and extremely painful nightmare that is narcissist abuse..I felt God when you prayed and I know I was led to your channel through divine Grace..I thank God for you..

This touched me in such a huge way. I've been in a soul tie for 14 years and you hit almost every point that I've experienced. Thank you for such revelation and prayer

@cleohope4209

4 жыл бұрын

18 years for me and it's been hell. I have to find myself again😔god, help me, help us all. In Jesus name, amen.

BRILLIANT! And the Scripture you can quote for effective healing is Psalm 129 v.4....The Lord is faithful and has severed me from the cords of the wicked. With enough insight every mind can be healed from whatever misbeliefs are obstructing their progress/sanctification :)

@peaceabundance1254

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💜

I lived and have lived 41 years of marriage who called himself a preacher with this narcissistic person I was the empath on January 30th 2018 the narcissist left me homeless because I said I would no longer support or agree with this type of teaching and living there was going on in our home and outside of our home I am so grateful to the most high God for what he did I didn't understand it at first because I was hurt but I understood that God was protecting me possibly saving my life I am in the process of healing and it may take years to heal but he'll I will pray for us women out here who has been manipulated who have been religiously taught that we are to stand by our man well I'm standing by the most high and standing for the most time now glory to the most high God for teaching ❤️

@ms.v4138

6 жыл бұрын

Renee Alex Wow!!! God is going to use you mightily!!! All was not wasted. God is going to restore you and everything the enemy stole sevenfold. Your testimony blessed me!!! Be blessed.

@reneealex4146

6 жыл бұрын

I'm Coming Out ,I receive in the name of YAHSHUA CHRIST and agree with the word of our MOST HIGH GOD YAHAWAH that HE will bless protect and provide for my , blessings to you and your family

@ms.v4138

6 жыл бұрын

Renee Alex Amen!!! Thank you!!!

@warriorwoman432hz

6 жыл бұрын

I almost never post in comments, but I had to jump on this freedom train. I have spent the last few years praying to get back what I lost, but that has kept me ruminating on how the losses came upon me. I have done the forgiveness work, but I despise having to defend my credibility like I was the thief! I thought it would be different if I moved, but I have trust issues to work through. The YT video on "10 things powerful women do," is a great recovery tool; however I still have a problem with the Proverbs 31 woman. She has too many irons in the fire with no ability to rest or enjoy the fruits of her labor. As a literal Queen, your life is not your own and that's a given. As figurative queen, where is my help? A weary queen meets the silly woman and the harlot in ladies room several times a day, and the mirror tells all three "YOU are the fairest one of all!"

@beautyinj6426

5 жыл бұрын

Im glad you got free, yes narcissists can exist in ministry too. I learned that as well

My narc killed himself. The day before my birthday. I don't want to be tied to his soul.... ever. We were divorced for a few years. Sad. Thanks for this. 💗

@mobutter2879

5 жыл бұрын

Mine too. He didn’t have anything cards to play. And, it worked. It fucked my daughter up good.

@Dd-po2ij

5 жыл бұрын

WOMAN BLESS. U.

@ratacataviousbrown4702

5 жыл бұрын

@@mobutter2879 Good assessment or observation on your part. It really is their last and dirtiest trick. I am sorry for your daughter. As she ages, please explain narcissism to her and this was in no way her fault. God bless.

I have battled with myself for months and months about this. I never came out and said I feel this way. It’s quite embarrassing but here i am. I’m a very emotional person who is always told I over react or think too much. I’m in a relationship now that I have gone thru so many arguments over petty things and some big. I got to the point where I resented him and myself for taking him back so many times when I know it was best to just end it. Infidelity played a part that I knew was going on but made me feel crazy like I was just was overthinking. And the sad part about this is I stayed because of my past and the times I was doing wrong in my past relationship. So I sympathized with him for the reason of why he cheated on me. It’s sounds crazy and I’m super embarrassed. The narc part of why I feel that way is because I will say i am ready to move past it when I really know I’m not but I try to please the relationship or fool myself into thinking its all good and on the inside it’s not. Then I’ll turn around and be a bitch or negative. My boyfriend has made some changes and even though it’s a good thing I still dwell on everything I dealt with him to even get him to change at this point. I had to show him how to communicate how to try and talk things out how to just do the basics of a relationship for months and I finally got what I wanted to a certain extent and I still would act out.m. I have been dismissed, ignored and passed off whenever he didn’t feel like dealing with an issue in the beginning. Now when we argue it’s always about how I’m ready to walk away. I never deep down really want to I just don’t know if I’m the bad one or it’s him. I battle with myself everyday and I hope someone can give me advice or not judge me because of how embarrassed I am.

Thank you for your important and insightful work! I think the narcissist is the love addict. As soon as there's a problem, they bail, in order to find a more perfect , idealized person. Empaths are generally not love addicts and they'll stick it out through all kinds of bad behavior and consistently forgive. However, the narcissist's love bombing/great attention and then the pulling away/deprivation of that attention can create an addiction to him that wasn't there before. It becomes a peptide addiction. In other healthy relationships, the empath would not have become a love addict.

Was married to a narc for 25 yrs and yes a trauma bond is hell here on earth. Been out 4 yrs now and have learned about what I went through. Many miracles have happened but I still cannot understand the evil. Thank you for all you do sir.

@lg8wood

6 жыл бұрын

JoAnn Ingram I can totally relate...married to one for 17 years...had no clue what I was dealing with. Thank God I am free! There are 2 channels about narcissism that were instrumental in my healing. 1. Assc Direct 2. Petra Van Deijl Just sharing....God bless.

@BrittFulli

6 жыл бұрын

Wowwww 25 years?? Geez !!! So glad you got out!

This ministry is long overdue. Together, the acquisition and application of knowledge is powerful!!! Educate yourself, become aware, use the strategies (forgive the toxic person for preying on you, forgive yourself for wittingly or unwittingly allowing it, pray for peace, ...), and stay vigilant (watch as well as pray)! Pay it forward: help someone else.

This video was so helpful and makes so much sense. Me, I’m an empath and have definitely been with some narcissists. Thank you.

This is a whole different meaning of Jordan Peele's "Get Out". It's not healthy and if you've ever been abused and impacted by this type of person, you will know you've dealt with one. I used to say that there was something wrong with my ex but could never put my finger on it. He would wrong me and twist it to make me feel that I was the cause of it. A habitual liar, manipulator, decepticon!!! Run! It is not worth the mental and emotional healing and heartbreak you WILL regret and have to face when it's over. I'm stronger because Jesus delivered me! Now I'm free!

This was really helpful. I couldn't quite understand why I let people continually do me wrong and I​ kept them in my life.

@vfree4579

4 жыл бұрын

You're not alone but I realize now before my health Youth and beauty are gone and then you wake up old and wondered what happened❗

@patriciawhite9509

4 жыл бұрын

It's o.k. You will change with God's help. I used to be a chronic empathy for over 50 yrs. 'Friends' and family alike took my kindness for weakness. And abuse me they did. I have changed now.

@atlcentralstage7026

4 жыл бұрын

And me This Case🙄🙄🙄

@respectmygangsta3716

4 жыл бұрын

Right me too smh

I left my narc husband last year. Hearing your message helped me understand that I don't have a soul ties to him. Thank you.

@lg8wood

6 жыл бұрын

Diann Whitaker I can totally relate...married to one for 17 years...had no clue what I was dealing with. Thank God I am free! There are 2 channels about narcissism that were instrumental in my healing. 1. Assc Direct 2. Petra Van Deijl Just sharing....God bless.

@diannwhitaker6

6 жыл бұрын

lg8wood I viewed assc direct and surviving to thriving myself.

This is invaluable!!!! I can attest to the accuracy of EVERYTHING SAID IN THIS VIDEO having recovered from a relationship of 5 years in Narcissistic Abuse. It took 3 years of healing to be able to feel like I could breathe again and rebuild a sense of identity and trust in myself.

You are right on point lived it survived it and cane out of it with prayer and turning my whole heart towards God. Thank you for sharing this.

I appreciate the fact you take your time to address relationships with narcissists, and that you refer to scripture during your discussion. I've listened to alot of great speakers in regards to this subject, but I feel most deeply impacted by your delivery. Thank you! I hope you keep addressing this topic to help people like me, who find it difficult to walk away.

@unique_dutchess

4 жыл бұрын

You said this message perfectly avilesand

We need preachers like you preaching this stuff in churches. I wish i new this when i was younger. It works the same in the occult churches. Unhealthy churches. Brother this is needed. I have done a lot of growing. There is no condemnation tho. God is good and is showing me how to be healthy.

You are definitely talking about me!! I'm definitely a EMPATHY I've been down that road but praise God after leaving the 2nd time I'm done. I dealt with all kind of demons after that. The whole family I've learned was toxic!!!

This has been a refreshing video for me! So much so, it is evidence of my testimony from a relationship I had with a woman, who I had deeply and truly loved. After 13 months of our relationship (16 mos total), I had began to notice her behavior drastically changed from being active to passive. Furthermore, when I, "challenged," her of the relationship, she failed to acknowledge her participation and faults in the relationship. In other words, she would never admit wrong or concede to wrong doing. What brought truth to the light for me was when I had lost my job 2x, and she was not emotionally or physically available to me. Additionally, the ball dropped further when I became homeless and she--who claimed to love me daily and insisted to continue to commit to telling me--left me out in the street, when originally discussed that she would be there. There is more to my testimony, but when I say this video has helped me to understand and see the signs of narcissists, I will no longer tolerate the disrespect or lower my standards for anyone. I thank God for you Mr. Blakes. I know I am not alone having had dealt with people like this and I pray that many will confront this cancer and walk away the moment they "see" it.

@truefriend1128

4 жыл бұрын

The same happened to me, she is still trying to connect to me after 2 months but thank GOD I made it out

@anthonyantwhite2280

4 жыл бұрын

@@truefriend1128 Wow! And she still tries to connect who you, with no acknowledgement the damage shes done? SMH I am glad that you made it out as well. For months being with her, she really made think something was wrong with me.

Yes, Pastor Blakes! New subscriber here. You are detoxifying many souls today with identifying the Jezebel spirit. Excellent message! 💖

Intermittent reinforcement damages the neurotransmitters in the brain. Honestly you have to rebuild the dopamine levels. You can do it with prayer but if you wanna go it more quickly you would need Wellbutrin & w mood stabilizer. But also God too! But if you wanna speed up the process go to the psychiatrist & start seeing a psychologist and go to church & bible study. Watch RC Blake’s KZread videos and listen to only gospel music to rebuild the spirit and do exercise and clean up and be really clean. ❤️💕 this helped me get over my narc instantly. I started becoming unbothered by him. And I just ended up blocking him and now I’m chilin trying to rebuild my life.

@Wisesthustler

6 жыл бұрын

What is intermittent reinforcement and a mood stabilizer? I’m glad you are healed and out.

@bornoflovefirst

5 жыл бұрын

@@Wisesthustler Intermittent reinforcement is when they every once in away respond to what your actual need is. When this happens you begin to 'accept' the bad because you know the good is possible. Wellbutrin is a medication often classified as a mood stabilizing, anti-depressant.

@Munkeishia1nOnly

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😭😭😭

@Munkeishia1nOnly

5 жыл бұрын

OMG.........

@2thankfulnGrateful

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you my sister in Christ!

You're a smart man. I believe in a way it's like a spiritual rape, until our soul wakes up to it, to our power.

@damsbb2440

4 жыл бұрын

You need to modify your choice of words

@billyboat7198

4 жыл бұрын

I love your comment so much !

@vividbakery17

3 жыл бұрын

Yes felt soo dirty after leaving narcissistic....that word popped up

@Jokerjaxs

2 жыл бұрын

Yes he sends sexual energy to me it’s a form of spiritual rape.