I use another tactic called the energy drain. If my daughter does something to drain my energy, then she simply needs to replace it, by choosing a chore to help me out. She can even pick it herself, just as long as I agree. And it goes both ways, if I do something to drain her energy, then I replace it. It helps us to "make it right" without just saying sorry.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

I like it, name it and put an action into place. Awesome.

Bruh I’m 14 why am I watching this

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure, but I appreciate your watching, Christian H. If you want more relevant videos to your age group, we have a "Just for kids and teens" playlist at kzread.info/head/PLq2mRDkHEBPCicx6xcJ5ZJzVe9UBlRTQV. Hope you find something valuable there!

@leslielou4970

3 жыл бұрын

Wise

@would-you-rather.

3 жыл бұрын

Well on the bright side when you become a parent you'll be an awesome parent

@mousecat9223

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 14 too but im watching this because i needed it for homework 😂

@comitelulalivreengland_oxf9343

Жыл бұрын

Because you care .😍

I’m a single mom and you guys are a blessing to me

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

We have a lot of single parents here, rhonda Walker. You are not alone. Thank you for joining our Live On Purpose community. It's an honor to have you here!

@crystallinamedeiros5485

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

I gotta watch this again so i can get this right....

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Watch and practice, get up the next morning and watch and practice. It truly takes effort but is sooooo worth the practice, Stacey Boling.

@danieladietel-wright8054

3 жыл бұрын

right...?! i always feel like taking notes! in fact i am!

@tinamears1613

3 жыл бұрын

ME TOO! SOME GOOD STUFF HERE THANK YOU SO MUCH. Y'all WILL BE HEARING BACK FROM ME. LOL, wiping the sweat off my forehead I need help with this 5 year old baby girl. She's actually my granddaughter I've had her since birth and she does call me Mom she also knows her real mom and she calls both of us mom. That's not my problem though he is good at school she is good at her Playmates house it's just when she gets home to me he is a total different person you mean you're ugly be quiet don't do that and even tries to hit me what is going on with this baby I need help. I am a child of God and I do pray I really do believe I'm saying all the wrong words to her so these are helping out tremendously

@tracylowe2564

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😁🌻💞

@sweetiepie4328

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Incredible point of views! I’ve been watching for hours and I’m blown away with the time and effort you are giving to help us better understand our little humans! It’s 2am where I am and my brain needs to rest haha! Thank you so much for making these videos I am so grateful to have found you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

J D4eva, hey, I even have a video on how our brains need to rest. Go to bed and see you back here tomorrow for a new video.

@amnewt1640

4 жыл бұрын

J D4eva Same!!!!!

@stephaniearaica5235

2 жыл бұрын

Me right now. Just found his videos and I can't stop watching been watching for almost 2 hours it's 2:30 in the morning where I'm at.

@m0bz0mb39

Жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Why are your eyes so red doctor?

9:43 is such an important lessons that I'm currently learning. Anytime I yell at my children, I can instinctively tell that I've weakened myself. And I think they sense it to. Yes they'll feel a bit of terror for a short time, but as they get older even that little bit of terror will fade.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. So glad you are here at Live On Purpose.

Watched this twice - first time I just listened, second time I took copious notes. Very helpful information. Thank you!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Sajid Shafi, honored to be on your team.

I'm so thankful for this channel! I've become so more positive with my son thanks to you guys.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Dustin Prudhomme, thank you for letting me know, this is exactly why the channel was started.

As a mom of 7 kiddos under 10 years old, this is powerful! Thank you❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Tabitha Goldsmith, thanks for watching and showing up for your kids.

@zazustephens1436

4 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ

@patricialucas393

4 жыл бұрын

@@zazustephens1436 😆

@miryreina925

4 жыл бұрын

@@zazustephens1436 😂

@ericmeans9070

4 жыл бұрын

OMG - been getting busy 🤫🤣😉 - W0W!

I have been struggling for the better part of the last 15 years with discipline now three weeks ago I started using the response cost and my live has changed! Thank you so much! Finally something straight forward and easy to implement. My 5/7/9 and 11 year olds are so much more civilized.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Verena Windsor, Thank you for letting us know. So glad it has helped you.

When my kids do positive things I started giving them a tick✔️ on a plane paper, and a ❌ for undesired behavior; at the end of the day we count the ticks. Even having a single tick was so powerful even for the baby too and the cross was so hurting that proved to be a positive reinforcement. It worked. More ticks means rewards.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful, glad they see the connection.

@micateasdale8776

3 ай бұрын

Brilliant idea and very simple

I was doing a lot of rewards based positive parenting but had to stop when 4 y.o. asked one day "What will I get?" to my request to have him help with something. I want my kids to help with things for more than greed/ego reasons. Ugh. Raising decent, competent, co-operative adults is so challenging!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You are right, it is very challenging, Renee Hinkson. Rewards don't have to be the only thing to use in positive parenting. : ) We have additional ideas in this video: "Consequences For Misbehavior | 6 Specific Examples" - kzread.info/dash/bejne/eJaX2dJynsSWZLw.html Thank you for watching.

I was looking up videos to help myself, my son, and my daughter in law, ( we all live together and I take care of my grandson while they are working) work together to try and understand my grandson’s defiance and lying constantly. (he is 7 1/2) While I really feel it is attention seeking, you can never be 100% sure. I am definitely guilty of the “ Why did you do that?” Or “Why did you lie about that?” So many descriptions and scenarios you have spoken about in the few videos I have watched so far have been so on point, it was as if you were talking about us. I am excited to share these videos with my children so we can learn about the best way to work together to relieve the tension and stress in ourselves as well as my grandson. I can’t wait to take these first steps moving forward towards a bright and cheerful future.Thank you so much for these fantastic videos!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Donna Mellow, I am glad you are all working on this together, that is awesome.

@rayb.6345

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Donna, my 5 year old just went threw this and come to find out she has been bullied at school and didn’t know how to express herself. A lot of her lying came from her not being able to decipher between what really happened, what she thinks might happen and what she wants to happen. Once we explained the difference between those thought processes, the lying dramatically decreased. Also, If I felt as if she was lying I would say she could tell me the truth with no consequences. I don’t use punishment, the word, because I think it’s damaging psychologically. But choices have consequences, whether positive or negative, so my daughter feels better to express herself if it’s a time of no consequence, We also found a child psychologist who did online sessions and that helped a lot because she had somebody positive believing in her and being calm. Based on my experience, something might be going on with your grandson that he can’t process very well at a young age. Having him draw out a problem he is having or something he wants to talk about or something he is scared of of something he wants to do every day for awhile might be a great idea as well a child psychologist. Having a picture to discuss while you give hugs and cuddles and problem solving together should help. Jesus bless, I hope this helps ❤️

@deejungk828

2 жыл бұрын

@@rayb.6345 your contribution is wonderfully helpful. Awareness of experiences the child is exposed to is insightful and so, so eye-opening. Having the child draw pictures...or even color (what crayon colors they choose, the pressure exerted on the crayon, etc) is another avenue for the child to express their feelings without words. Many, many Thank Yous...💞💕💞

I absolutely love all your videos!! thanks so much for your wisdom!!! We have been waiting forever to get into a good family therapist.. It is just so nice to kind of have one with the show. I really think a lot of our family issues can be solved with good parenting by consistently using these tools. I have a very active 5 year old boy that I have used that one method for bedtime when I tell him "if you want the door open you need to be laying in bed quietly, but if I hear you making noises I'm going to close the door. Before using this method he would be very disruptive to his 15 month old little sister trying to sleep in her crib in the next room over and also to his 10 year old brother who he shares a room with. Since using this method he stays in bed quietly and falls asleep on his own and I really just can't thank you enough! I never thought it could be so simple!!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

lindsey bailey, you are welcome, glad this video has helped your family.

Dr Paul. You are a Godsend! Your chanel popped up on my feed a couple of days ago after a rather nasty argument/screaming match between my 12 year old daughter and l. I have been searching for videos to help mend my relationship with my children but many are too airy fairy to help with reality. This is so not the case with you. I am watching the videos as I clean my house so can't always comment but this one is as are all your videos is so practical. I think "hey I can do that." so easy to implement. I thank you both from the bottom of my heart ♥

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You are welcome, thanks for watching.

I had the worst day managing my kids and distance learning. Thank you SO much for this video! Now I have to subscribe and binge watch.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! In The Moment, teachers have bad days in class, but they show up the next day and try something new. You can do this.

... lol ... what I love about the baggie example is that the kid sees you nonchalantly removing one of the things they want and they are going crazy wondering which one it was! ...so they are thinking they had better straighten up if they want to get any of the goodies ...

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Blue Moon, worked good for us. Have fun.

Great content! I appreciate the clear explanations. I love the idea with the "prize" baggie for keeping little children quiet at an appointment. I would absolutely LOVE more practical, explicit ideas that I can implement right away for different scenarios. Do you have some you could share?

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

TECox1, I have tried to include more examples on the videos since this came out, check out the playlist.

I am someone who was very abused as a kid and I am trying to raise a child(not mine, my little cousin), and I will definitely be trying some of these. Bc I know that hitting, screaming, and verbal abuse did not work on me, and I want to raise this kid right.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Shae Jones, I am touched by your sincere comment. It is short, but powerful. Honored to be on your team.

I’m am hold authority on this as well, I raised 3 boys & all 3 in high school & Cal Poly at the same time... I’ve seen it all (I thought) but they never fail to amaze me... so it’s a constant “stay on top & in front”! Love it:)

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Darla Nunes, thank you for watching. I am glad you are there for your children as they become adults and then begin to parent on their own.

I believe there are multiple ways to change behavior, including modeling, practicing the good behavior in a safe environment, experiencing natural consequences, and persuasion, and that punishment (causing something unpleasant so they won't do it again) shouldn't be used on anyone we love (which should be everyone). Many respectable, responsible, kind adults today have been raised without punishment. They learned in the other ways.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, we don't have to resort to hitting to discipline our children.

You are natural, down to earth people - thanks for being who you are. I know it's hard to explain complicated things in a simple manor, but you succeed, every time - sorry for my poor grammair, I'm from Croatia, but you have influenced may way of behaving with kids in a positive mannor, even when I thought - there's no way out. Thank you for beeing.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Natasa Jaksic, so glad you found value in the video. Thank you for watching and being positive, even in the difficult times.

I've watched this video about 3 times now and It's truly a blessing. I'm Thankful for your channel!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you!

Who says raising kids doesn't come with a handbook hasn't seen your videos. Thank you for providing the tools

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Tricia Fandrey, please share with anyone you think could benefit. Thanks.

Thanks so much for your videos, Dr. Paul. I am a Nanna and am hands-on caring for my three grandsons who are under ten. I care for them during the holidays, sick days and after school every day. You are coaching me to be a nanna of happy grandchildren by keeping a healthy perspective and enjoying the time with them which really flies by so quickly.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Well thank you for your service and positive influence on your grandsons, Fleur D'Rose. It's an honor to be on your team!

My 5 year old has developed a major case of anxiety after my wife and I have separated. It's hard for him to hear "No" and when he does it's an epic meltdown that usually takes hours to come down from. I feel so helpless. Thank you for a bit of hope with this video, definitely found a few highlights that I'm going to begin implementing immediately. Thank you dearly.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Kyle Miron, you are welcome and good luck with your son. It is a major adjustment and he probably feels out of control.

Amazing couple teaching us parents specially the once’s that are older how to raise our kids. What a much better way to look at parenting just want to make you love your kids more. Thank you dr Paul great speaker.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

We are honored to be on your team.

I've been adding to reduce a behavior. I give out extra learning to my child.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, HumbledByGreatness.

I always listen to this video again and again every night as I go to sleep. (Your videos are in a playlist on repeat.) Just so it really stays in my subconscious mind. 😅 My baby is just turning six months tomorrow and as early as now, I want to be fully prepared in disciplining him the positive way.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you!

I'm filling up my tool box watching this channel!!! Love this!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Trina H, honored to have you at the channel.

This is a great help! Thank you both for the further discussion!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Lyndsie, you are welcome.

Thank U so much 4 this videos i’m from Costa Rica but i live in Argentina and been an foreign has been so hard and sad 4 me that even i have a very strong faith it affected me in my behavior, marriage and Kids, but this videos are amazing makes me feel good and now i put every advice in practice🙏🏻 and i notice the difference.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Diversión mágica - Magic fun Diversión para niños, I am glad the videos are helpful, thank you for letting me know.

Thanks for the help. Ten minutes after watching your video on not yelling, I’ve subscribed and will watch all of your content. Great stuff and it does work in the moment.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the sub! Ken Inksetter, glad you are in our community of positive people.

I love the video where you give your child two choices I’ve been going off of that for the longest now !

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 ай бұрын

Good choice! Haha, thanks for taking the time to let me know.

Thank you for repeating the explanation in different ways.

@nightmareTomek

5 жыл бұрын

Several times. Just watch it in 1.25x speed.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Marwa Gad, thank you for noticing, we all learn differently.

I do 4 of the things you have mentioned. I am closer to becoming better at dealing with my anger and how to act to be a better example for ky children. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Marly Catherine Licerio, I am glad you are getting a handle on it. You can do this.

Thank you so much for sharing these videos! These are very powerful!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

I love this channel. Thank you so much

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Nomasonto Zitha, thank you for being a part of our Live On Purpose Community.

I'm blessed to listen to both of you.Still not too late to learn.Thanks so much.Your funny video makes it easier to remember what to do when we're going thru the difficult times😃

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, Grace Bock. We all need reminders.

Beautiful couple. Great message. Thank you so much.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

We love collaborating, Happy Twin Flamer. Thanks for watching.

Oh, and also THANK YOU for these videos. I just discovered your videos and they are very helpful and insightful.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

Great tips. I'm going to add to what I'm doing at work. Thank you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

kahea2018, honored.

Since "positive" and "negative" can be confusing, I recommend using "adding" and "removing". It's more straightforward to talk about an adding or removing punishment or an adding or removing reward. It doesn't have the connotations of good and bad that positive and negative have. Thanks for the videos!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Tom Cerul, thanks for your comment. I will think about it.

i work in education and i will be recommending this channel to the parents that ask me for good resources and speak english ( i'm in switzerland). french or german subtitles would be awesome, too, in case that possibility shows up.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

dantela mestanek, I wish we could get subtitles. It is something on the list, but not being worked on right now. Thank you for sharing.

Both of you Doctor and your wife look great. Thank you to both of you for wonderful videos. Blessings to both of you and your children.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Sonia Yadav, we are honored to be on your team.

These are amazing tips. You are honestly changing everything for me!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

SodaColaClassic, honored to be on your team.

This is the most helpful source due to my son who's got diagnosed with ADHD AND ODD . And it's so hard as a single parent and my son keeps acting up and screams idk if i can control him like i did before .my ex bf was the disciplinary and i was more of a soft side i feel like my son is like he is now because i wasn't fair like my ex bf . I am reaching out for help for both of us .

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Pesina, I know you can do this. Be calm and parent on. Glad to have you here.

Great ideas.. Really appreciate your sharing. trying to apply them with my 40 pupils in every class that I have

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Our teacher viewers are growing, Bieha Norma. Glad to have you at the channel. Thank you for the important work you do.

This helps so much 😭 I can’t thank you guys enough. ❤

Dr.Paul, thanks for the videos and tips. It has helped us a lot.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it,Rashmi Bhat. Thank you for letting me know.

Love ur vids!!! All these examples help a lot, thanks so much for taking the time to help us moms and dads, parenting can be auper hard and a huge challenge cause we are dealing with little humans that we want to be good humans and successful ones too, when they grow old, so thanks a lot and keep ur amazing vida coming!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

fulltimemar, honored to be on your team.

Love the waiting room and special bag with their name on trick. I have put a clear box on the fridge with my kids name it it and every time they do a good deed I will put an extra one in but if they made a wrong turn I take something out. Hopefully next week they will have some treats for their half term holiday. I think it will work because it's a very visual thing and they will see it every time they go to the fridge. Will let you know the outcome.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Rachel Tomlinson, I hope the kids respond well. Have a great holiday.

I love the bag example! Can’t wait to try it with my 5 year old!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Alina Paalz, I love it when parents are willing to try something new. Honored to be on your team.

Thank you :)

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! Thank you for watching and trying out.

Thank you for your wise suggestions and advice. You're a lovely couple and a great deal of fun!! Keep up the good work 😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

We are honored to be on your team, Lorraine.

Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome.

I love when you say: Better a bad breath than no breath ….

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

It is true! Thanks for watching.

Thanks for your amazing videos and lessons. This is so helpful and concrete. I know this video is a year old but never late to say thanks.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! I love that the videos are there for us, whenever we need them. Please share with others who may need to hear the message.

Your tips help me a lot...! Now, I am able to control my child more than he was able to control me :) I am still trying to stop his crying before entering the child care center. My child main problem: he does not know English. But here all are speaking in English. So, it's also hard for him staying their all day, more than 8 hours. Hope for the best. Thank you so much!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

TriShA, so thankful our channel is helping. Best to you and your son.

Thank you!, Helpful as always

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

anisa karmal, thank you for being a part of our positive parenting community.

Love your videos!!Would love if you made a video about how to handle it when grandparents are trying to parent your kids,making your "job" more difficult .How to put boundaries with love.Thank you!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Will get on the topic list.

@booboobidou2100

2 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you!!!!

Thanks a ton for sharing these helpful tips !

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!

Thanks doctor paul and vikieanne, i will use these examples when babysitting

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Alison Willette, these principles can be used by anyone!

Thank you so much 💖

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Rebecca Rogan, you are very welcome.

Wow, thanks!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

great video. this will help me going forward. thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it!

I really like these systems thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Asta.

I've also been watching for hours. Great, helpful, positive advice Thank you both

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

T. D., we are honored to be on your team.

Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

I'm a new Parent. Can't thank you enough for the useful information.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Honored to be on your team.

I have just found Your channel. I still don't have children, because it is freaking me out, there doesn't seem to be a "right" way to do it. But watching Your videos, makes me feel better equipped for the task of becoming and being a mother. Thank You for Your work and sharing Your knowledge!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Nessa Tesartir, I love that you are thinking about this before you enter parenthood. It is the most important job with the least training, Honored to have you at Live On Purpose.

@NevAbrom

5 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank You very much for the fast respond. I was really on the edge of probably denying the joy of becoming a parent to me and my partner, but Your channel just "found" me in the right time. I will keep on educating myself (and my partner) before we take this huge step. I want to have at least the slightest possibility of getting prepared. I wish more people would take responsibility before becoming parents. ... anyways, thank You again!

A great video as usual, thank you so much for sharing 😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

Thank you... for sharing and time. I am still with your channel. From Malaysia 😎

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Wendy Loo, honored to be on your team.

I am glad I discoveref your channel thank you so much because I really need your help to be a better mom.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

kass lam, I am glad you discovered us also, welcome.

Great material. Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Thanx so much.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Shireen Hendricks, you are welcome.

That's great thanks so much

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 ай бұрын

You are very welcome, please share with others who could benefit.

Amazing tips.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

I just found your video series - Thank you so much! Very wise advice. God Bless you & all parents trying to be the best parent they can be :)

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

That is really all we need, everyone trying their very best, m. Honored to be on your team.

Thank you sir i am going to use you in my life.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Honored to be on your team, mado diagne. Thanks for watching.

Love these ideas!! Excellent

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

So happy you found the video helpful. Thank you.

I need more examples of giving choices for my toddler, age four...please. Thank you for all of your advise! It’s been very helpful!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You got it! We will include this in the topic development list.

It's the same take away every time, "if you..., no time on the tablet". 'Family member' heard me say this and said, "its sad you have to use that to get him to do something". My response was, "well it works". 'family member' or i like electronic time (for me, an certain amount of time is ok). Also, child says, "he takes care of me, he loves me... because he lets me play on my game".. which has evidently caused a riff between child and I :(

@LiveOnPurposeTV

7 ай бұрын

Sounds like you are doing this correctly. It would be best if Grampie would be supportive.

@saw727

7 ай бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV

Love the Ziplock bag suggestion!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

O K, it has worked so many times for us.

Ok love you guys !!

This is gold!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Marcia Alvarez.

Great vid!! Thank you!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Sharon F, you are welcome.

Many common parenting techniques are simply short term survival strategies of desperate parents trying to cope with the here and now. Sometimes the old school way of discipline can do miracles.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

wahnano, I am not sure what you are talking about, I am about relationships.

Thank you, watching in 2023

@LiveOnPurposeTV

9 ай бұрын

The principles are timeless.

Thank you for the insight. My child loves to move and can't keep still. Playing board games = legs swimming in the air or swinging on furniture. I'm here to see how I can limit this behaviour. Or when it's time to do something like brush teeth or eat she'd rather play ▶️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Andrea, We have several videos that should be helpful for you. Some of it will be outgrown.

I love your channel Dr.Paul

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Honored to be on your team, Pinoy Life in Italy.

Thank you for the tips Dr. Paul and Vicky. Both logical and easy to follow. Curious to see how it works when I have kids of my own :D

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You are welcome, Kate Hu. Thanks again for watching.

I have been watching your channel since my child was 2 and was becoming a handful. My husband doesn't believe in any of this so it is kind of difficult to have no yelling from him. I recently started working with 1 year olds at a daycare and I am so excited to apply this at their level of course. But I am excited to see the results.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Patricia Lucas, hopefully your husband can see the advantages from your example.

@mysteryguy793

4 жыл бұрын

why did you marry him?

@patricialucas393

4 жыл бұрын

Because I love him and when we were young we didn't talk about parenting styles before we had a child. That doesn't mean I'm just going to give up on our relationship, everyone has disagreements and that is ok as long as we can compromise.

That seems challenging. In that hypothetical it seems like they may start expecting rewards for any little positive things they do and that could potentially be dangerous on several levels. Its difficult to sort out.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Cesar Savan, the rewards are only used temporarily until the internal locus is sparked.

@cesarsavan2494

4 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you for the response. It's a difficult thing to manage with so many other things on a parents mind lol

I love this show, it has helped me tremendously!! Thanks a lot for taking the time to make these videos.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

muscle hamster, honored to be on your team.

How great was this video! practical and so important! Thank you so much from Brazil to help us as a parent and to open our minds!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Michelle Arcurio from Brazil. We are honored to be on your team.

This is great information! Yeah. Don't keep these gems in your private practice! Get them out where we can use them! Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to help.

B.F. skinner two by 4. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Tammy Curtiss, I hope you watch some more videos.

woooow i love this...its my passion too

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Charity Muliira, honored to be on your team.

Dr Paul, thank you for these wonderful parenting videos! So helpful, easy to understand and effective. I was wondering if you could do a video segment on small children, toddlers, hitting themselves in affect? My 3 year old does not hit anyone else, nor does she hit things, however she hits/scratches, pinches/pulls really hard etc. herself whenever she is upset! Basically she self-harms and hurts herself as a coping mechanism. Why is this and how can I help her learn another skill to release her strong emotions. Thank you SO much!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Amy Lee, I hope the videos have helped, check out the newer ones.