What If My Child Just Doesn't Care About Consequences - kzread.info/dash/bejne/d6ltwaeRkbngf9I.html

@coltenronald8501

2 жыл бұрын

InstaBlaster

@KarriSimone

2 жыл бұрын

My child actually put soap in her own mouth after I threatened it once. She doesn't care. She'll starve herself if I don't make one of the 2 things she'll eat. Its crazy!!!

@tabitha9890

2 жыл бұрын

...And for only a moment, they go through this faze, but feels like a life time to us at that moment. You got a strong willed girl on your hands. No man is going to control her, that's for sure. 😃❤

@martinmcgowan4591

Жыл бұрын

A mother complained about her son that he was good for nothing only for driving nails into a plank of wood. The teacher padraig pearse told the mother to get a hammer some 🪵wood and nails for the boy

@kizuwandalawrence4266

9 ай бұрын

Inspiring🎉

My eyes just filled with tears when I read this video title. I feel like I am always so angry at my 4-year-old and I hate that side of me. So I am grateful for your advice. Thank you for thinking of us "grumpy" moms 💛

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Veronica, you "grumpy" moms are the angels that raise our kids. You make all the difference. I had a special experience making this video. You need to know who you are! So honored to be on your team. DrPaul P.S. - did you see this? kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZJh1o9CtYcyYoNI.html

@georgeannepanos8132

6 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way!!! I bet there are many of us out there.

@susylopez9308

5 жыл бұрын

You are not alone Veronica. I hate my self when I get angry at my 6 year old and see his little eyes water. I can’t wait to absorb this information.

@shireenhendricks2194

5 жыл бұрын

Im feeling gulity too.

@susylopez9308

5 жыл бұрын

Shireen Hendricks I’m holding your hand Shireen.

Thank you doc. All of us moms need this. I hate myself sometimes, I feels like an evil mom and I don't deserve a child.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

You can change to positive parenting, Sharifah Shelin. I am honored to be on your team and offer some tips.

@oreofegeorge3083

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly . 😔

@princeandqueen5412

4 жыл бұрын

I definitely understand that is why I’m here

@Altheaisokay

4 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable

@nicoledecoty9719

4 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly how I felt this morning 😞

"I'm not keeping a clean house, I'm raising a child...". Wow, that's liberation for me there. Thank you, Doc!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Right! Perspective is everything. DrPaul

@boojank

5 жыл бұрын

I’m currently a SAHM of two young children. I often feel bad because it’s hard to balance keeping a clean house and properly tending to my children. I don’t want to sit them in front of the TV all day or give them devices all day so that I can fold clothes and wash dishes.

@ColinCasperLMHC

4 жыл бұрын

That's so good! It all comes back to priorities and getting distracted chasing the wrong things!

@roadrunner3232

4 жыл бұрын

Finally...thankyou for this...😀

@munchieshdzv

4 жыл бұрын

This hit home for me too.... i had been feeling drained and checked out and then he said this.... THANK YOU!!

“Cleaning and scrubbing can wait for tomorrow, / For babies grow up so we learn to our sorrow. / So quiet down, cobwebs, and dust, go to sleep! / I’m rocking my baby, and babies don’t keep.” That’s the poem. There is a melody for it, too.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Suki Baldwin. I love that - it puts things into perspective.

@BellaBear96

3 жыл бұрын

My eyes just teared up 😭

Scrolling through the messages here, I've realised I'm not alone in what I feel. I want to extend my love to all mothers and fathers out there trying to make things work!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your supportive comments, Ashena.

This is beyond powerful. I yelled at my kids today and I felt so lost, sad and regretful before I watched this video. After I apologized to my kids, prayed for God to forgive me and help steer me in the right direction, I found this video. Thank you!!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

I Am Love & Abundance, you are on the right track and I am excited for the changes coming to you and your family. Take a look at the parenting playlist for some more strategies.

I'm crying real tears. As a young mom, and now grown teen mom, I never anticipated how discouraging motherhood can get, and it's nice to see this in such an empowering perspective. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

DeAnza Andrews, honored to be on your team.

@lorenalafontaine4973

2 жыл бұрын

I'm teary-eyed specially when I hear #3,#2 and #1. I get to be so angry with my babies sometimes when the house is messy and starts to yell sometimes and after I did that I'll have so much guilt and I feel so bad and realized they're just babies. They're just playing and learning. I'm glad this video popped up when I opened KZread. Thank you :)

@stavonnawon

2 жыл бұрын

Keep on pushing momma ✊🏽 you are not alone

@nandnisharma269

Жыл бұрын

I am weeping 😢..... motherhood during teenage can be so challenging. Most of the days I feel like a failure as a mom and worry about my teens future.

@tonikennedy6208

Жыл бұрын

To all of u moms out there who are worried ur not a good mom.... MY MOM once told me only good moms worry about not being good moms... lousy moms dont even notice they are not good at it.

I cried at "things are exactly as they should be." Thank you so much for this reminder! I have 3 little boys with autism, and I have been so anxious and afraid that nothing was as it should be. The idea that something was wrong and needed to be fixed has been the root of all my anger and stress. My children are happy and healthy. They see and react to the world differently then neurotypical children. They meet milestones at their own pace. I don't need to panic over that or try to rush them.. They are each exactly who they should be. Each a treasure. And the work to raise them is unending just as it is supposed to be! I am a mom, and so very blessed to carry that title 🥰.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Blueberry Cottage, you are truly the mother your child needs.

@miffedcuttlefish6139

3 жыл бұрын

You are loved by those babies more than you think, or know. God bless you

@katherinefielder3415

3 жыл бұрын

❤

@Dani._ella

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I needed to read this 💗

@shantyhomestead2345

3 жыл бұрын

When you read a comment of someone whose living your life in another continent it validates, it gives strength and it gives hope. Thank you 😭🙂

I'm sitting here, nodding, as if you're actually speaking to me directly....

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Love to be on your team! DrPaul

@georgeannepanos8132

6 жыл бұрын

Grateful

@georgeannepanos8132

6 жыл бұрын

I often revisit some of your videos....Ever hear of Kenny Chesney? He has a song titled...YOU SAVE ME...the first couple of paragraphs depict me on some stressful days.....then I watch and think, YOU SAVE ME.

@alanbloxgamming6446

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh

Im so glad im not the only mom struggling with anger ❤LOVE this advice❤

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

No way, J S. We are all in this together and you are not alone.

@evian.

4 жыл бұрын

J S What kind of glad it is? You are trying hard to explain your ugly behaviour. Tell it to your children that you are not the only one! Take responsibility for your actions women.

I just want to say that every mom commenting here is a great mom, thank you for sharing this experience and for trying to better yourself. You are so inspiring. I've always felt ashamed to talk about this, feeling like all the other moms are doing a much better job. I have been constantly reminding myself to accept the fact that it's okay if things are not how I want. It's a rocky road but we will manage.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Appreciate your support of others. This is a great community.

@daniellejohnson2373

Жыл бұрын

I have self esteem and self confidence issues so every time I go to the store with my child and she throws a temper tantrum because I say no on something and I see other moms with well behaved kids I always get jealous and wonder what I’m doing wrong

@gracemarthambabazi6726

Жыл бұрын

Love this. I honour you momma

I cried at #5. I have a 16, 7, 5 yr old and 7 months old. I just want to enjoy them. I feel like so much gets in the way of that, it makes me sad. Chores, home and yard maintenance, kids fighting, extended family obligations and more.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

You're right Che Lawrence - lots of stuff on our plate, and the really important stuff can slip. Perspective makes a big difference. So glad you're here! DrPaul

@knottychelsie

6 жыл бұрын

I’ll keep perspective in mind as I go through my day. Thank you for the valuable content you are sharing.

@shireenhendricks2194

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Single parenting 2 boys is hard work.

@arixxnexx1640

5 жыл бұрын

I know what your saying and it’s true when you have kids and so many things to do is not easy at all//

@shireenhendricks2194

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. Wishing you well

i feel guilty about being grumpy mom. It makes me sad. But this video help me how to manage my anger.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Glad you found the video helpful, Celestial Maniaul. Thank you for watching.

Thank you for this. I’m watching it while hiding from my kids because I’m too hoarse from yelling at them. This video just changed my life.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Heather Chance, glad you are looking for resources to help. Calm voice will save your lungs. Thank you for trying it out.

@courtneynelson8235

4 жыл бұрын

I'm literally doing the same thing!!

@pankhurinigam480

4 жыл бұрын

Heather Chance me too !!

@swapnareddy7147

4 жыл бұрын

Happened to me yesterday.

Thank you so much .. I'm crying right now , because I'm mom who lost control of her anger and this video is like a cure for my soul 💕.. mom from Libya

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honest comment, Zakeia Benmoussa. Thank you for showing up for your children.

@sbiegs3885

4 жыл бұрын

And you are from Libya so, that alone is a punch in the face.

@mytalkingtom4mylittleponys658

3 жыл бұрын

Same here I'm an angry mom too Everyday I got angry at my 3 and a half daughter. But thanks to this video it made me realize a lot of things.

I'm a 16-year-old boy but I feel like some of the things in this video are really insightful on human relationships in general. Thanks

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

I'm honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV, Andrew Ahn. Thanks for watching. Yes, many of these principles can be applied to other relationships. If you are interested in watching more videos, we have a "Just for kids and teens" playlist: kzread.info/head/PLq2mRDkHEBPCicx6xcJ5ZJzVe9UBlRTQV

Hey Dr!! I was an angry mum. And it's not like I'm never angry anymore, I still get angry but it doesn't define my life or my relationships. I was also suffering "depression" and was even suicidal. One of the things that really changed my life was sleeping early. Instead of staying up in my phone after the kids sleep, I'd get kids to bed at 730 and be in bed by 830. For me, this completely cured my "depression" which I really think was just sleep deprivation and I'm really wondering if this is a common misdiagnosis. I became a better wife and mother just by sleeping. I think my husband has ptsd from how I used to be lol. So if this is an issue for mum's they need to sort it out. It sorts out a big chunk of the anger issue. Another thing that changed me was realising that I could lose my kids at any time. I think a lot of our anger is exactly what you said about "things are what they should be". You aren't meant to be holidaying, sipping tea and floating alone in the pool. You're meant to be in the kiddy pool watching your kids having an amazing time for a few years till they grow up a bit. So I chose to enjoy all the blessings that I was overlooking because I was distracted by what I thought I wanted. Another thing is I hear a lot of my friends say they wasted their life by having their kids and they wished they had a career. I view my motherhood as my career. I view my home as my workplace. When you take it seriously and you get what you need done, you feel accomplished. Now I expect my house to get messy. I have a day care and tutoring centre and restaurant happening here! But once the kids are in bed and they've been nourished with everything they need, its closing time. I can do my end of day cleaning and really feel so fulfilled. I now enjoy all the things I used to hate. And it's actually all that matters to me I have no interest in any of the things I used to long for. Getting enough sleep and changing perspective is so important. I totally agree with you on not getting worked up when kids destroy things. I'm better at that but still not quite there. I have a destructive 3 year old that always finds a way to make chaos. And he always goes after my brand new things. Really looking forward to a year from now when he's 4. They tend to calm down by then 😂

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Umm Osayd, you hit on so many good points here. I always say you first need to take care of yourself. Getting the proper amount of sleep is so overlooked in our society and as your situation indicates, it is an individual need. It is so much easier to be our best self when our needs are met. We must live in the present and be happy where we are, each and every moment. Children don't keep, they are growing every minute and reaching that time when they will leave the nest. Disappointment comes from unmet expectations and when we change those expectations, we are all around happier. Thank you for a wonderful comment that really brings out how these things can have impact on not only one life, yours, but your entire family as well.

@mrssuw6725

5 жыл бұрын

salam mashaallah this is indeed a very practical advice that i would love to execute it immediately. i think you might be right, perhaps my anxiety and impatience are the results from self-deprivation!

@urmomdotcom4039

5 жыл бұрын

This comment helped me. Thank you💕

@princessdavina6614

5 жыл бұрын

I thank you for taking time and writing all this for people in same boat.

@maisoonmoaaz7019

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment I also noticed that when I wake up before my baby it gives me time to start the day with taking care of myself so when she wakes up I'm able to take care of her better

🤭😢😭🤭 thank you Doctor, I HAVE to STOP complaining, and start enjoying my ride...😭😔😭🤭 ...babies don’t keep😭😭😭😭😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Lady Bow - yes, enjoy the ride - and what a grand one it is too! DrPaul

Reading through the comments and learning that some of you cried watching this and wish you could be a better mom. I completely understand where you’re coming from. Please don’t worry. Just the fact that you are looking up things on how to be a better mom for your child already says that you are a great mom, and you are trying. ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Eden Gebrezgi, well said!

I want to thank you for this much needed video. I have a 7 yr old son and a 4 yr old daughter. I love them dearly! I’ve wanted to be a mother for as far back as I can remember. I had an angry mother and I swore I would never be that to my children, but here I am.... An angry mother just like her. I’ve hated myself for this. A few weeks ago, in prayer, I promised God that this was the year I would stop screaming at my children. That I would step outside if what I know, and find the tools to help me in this endeavor. I love my children more than anything, and now they will see that in the way I deal with them. Thank you for helping me take the first steps.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

luvinlife225, so honored that you found the videos and are using them to change to a more positive parenting style. You CAN do this.

I'm a 2 year old girl's mother from China. Recently desperate from China's lockdown and unemployment and experiencing the terrible 2 with my kid at home every single day. Cried while watching this video, Thank you so much. Really learned and inspired. I might still won't be a perfect or patient Mom, but I will try and learn and I believe I will be better after watching your videos. Appreicate ! !

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Penny Wang, we are all in this together. Remember to love them no matter what and even if... We will get through this.

@camisnyder3460

3 жыл бұрын

Hang in there girl!!! Us mothers need to stay strong and know that we are so not alone.

This brought tears to my eyes. MY husband is psychologically incapacitated showing narcissistic signs. Im a single mom now

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Ms Pretty Kawaii, I hope you are in a safe place and I wish you the best.

@erniechipdouglas9779

3 жыл бұрын

Ive been there it gets better i promise you i soent 8 years with a partner who nevet cared about me ot his own childs needs. I hope you havr the support you need to help yoi bring your child up happy and healthy

I appreciate this session. Opened my eyes. I remember asking my son 5yrs old why do you do these stuff repeatedly. He's so much smarter than me.. lol.. he said "mom", I'm a kid"

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

He is a smart kid, Latoya Logan, as are you. We have more for you on our Positive Parenting playlist: kzread.info/head/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU Honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV.

@aspiringfurnitureflipper9087

2 жыл бұрын

Wow that totally warmed my heart, and that’s one of those things that I just know will stick with me lol so sweet!

I was in a bathroom stall the other day at the mall and I heard a mom being so impatient with her son because he was talking so much and I suppose, dragging, and she sounded SO annoyed at his dragging and talking. And it broke my heart because she has no idea how lucky she is to have a little one that TALKS. My 4 year old doesn't and how I wish she did. I was also sad because I heard myself in her, too. The realization that I needed to be kinder to my children fell on my heart like Atlas struggled to hold up the sky. And I was so hurt because despite how I was feeling, my kids love me right now, unconditionally, and I want that to go on as they get older because home is always going to be here for them. Mommies and daddies, good luck. I'm rooting for you too.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Miffed Cuttlefish, thank you for sharing the experience. You are the mother your children need.

I cried many times watching this video . Feeling guilty feeling sad and feel the hope and encouragement to be a better me for my daughters. It's not an easy job being a parent but it takes awareness and willingness to mold a better people for the current and next generation. Thank you or this❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

wind archer, parenting is not for wimps. This shows you are the mother your children need.

I listened intently just soaking in these truths and then literally sobbed when you got to number 1. I can’t thank you enough. You’ve no idea how badly I needed to watch this video today. Thank you thank you thank you. -Mom of 2 toddlers (soon to be 3!)

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Ash - YOU have no idea how much your comment means to me. Of all the videos I've created over the past nine months, this one has meant the most to me personally. Thank you for who you are and what you do! DrPaul

@whofarted2903

2 жыл бұрын

Not easy babe but I guarantee those babies r the love of ur lives ❤️ ❤️

@nicolasmith7539

Жыл бұрын

I feel you! I have 2 toddlers and a preteen, all boys too haha its hard on my own

For moms with little ones... and children of any age. Some words that helped me when my daughter was going through terrible twos. I was just take some breaths and tell myself "this too shall pass". The frustration can be intense sometimes...but an eternal perspective can give so much peace. Hope this helps someone.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, this too shall pass. Very powerful and true, Dawn Harris.

I’m over here crying. 😭 I’m a mum of 2 boys and one in the oven. Your Content is wonderful. Just found you Today. I’m videos 3 in. Needed this today.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome!! Glad you found us, Abigail Scott.

I am sitting here crying my eyes out!! There is so much expectation on us moms, we need to be the perfect wife, mother, daughter, sister, employee, etc. We just need to work so much harder and it never stops. Thank you for that, just thank you. My husband is an awesome man who loves his team and truly appreciate and values us so much but to hear it come from someone other than him that is not another woman is amazing. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

D Pinto, I am honored to be on your team.

As a single dad, I have to learn feminine traits along with bettering my masculine traits to raise my child. It's helped me become more empathetic and patient. This was really helpful, thanks.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome. I wish you well! Love them no matter what and even if...

I'm not keeping a clean house, I'm raising a child. Wow. Things are exactly as they should be. Thank you for your wisdom. You are making such diffrence.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Amy Pirnack, you are the one making the difference in your part of the world. Thanks.

“Babies don’t keep.. and neither do teenagers” - this part had me in tears thinking of my own.. thank you for sharing your knowledge it is really an eye opener!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Jet Oro, glad the video helped. Thank you for watching.

I am folding laundry as my kids are napping and I am just thinking to myself how can I apply this to my everyday Actions !! And it brings me joy and tears to know that I will be a greater mom after this video thank you God bless 🙏♥️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Mariana you are their whole world. Thank you for being a conscious mom. You've got this! DrPaul

@shireenhendricks2194

5 жыл бұрын

Agree

"we're not raising apples,we're raising boys"those words made me cry😭i feel guilt with my only son😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

jennifer calixtro, no guilt today, just enjoy your son.

I needed this! This lockdown has turned our home upside down and my 4 year old has turned so angry ! It’s so hard not to lose my mind! Crying every night feeling like a failure! Thankyou for this! It’s nice to know I’m not alone !

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Amy B, you are the mother your child needs. Focus on what you can do with your son. Consider some of our parenting groups for added support.

@narissaraghunanan5483

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like the exact same…I would love to help my 4 year old to stop being so angry…at not getting his way, when play needs to stop or when it’s time to leave somewhere…angry angry angry…and I hate myself for not being able to help him, and for being upset at him at the same time for acting out.

@sheena171

2 жыл бұрын

Going through the same thing with my 3 year old.

@samhill8552

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed ❤

@dayslee1729

Жыл бұрын

@@narissaraghunanan5483 wondering if it's gotten better I'm going through this with my 4 in half year old.

I think this video will help many parents and grandparents. Such wisdom. My babies are 37 and 33 now. Some of the days went by sooo slowly, but the years flew by. My boys are men now- good, kind men. Their lives aren't perfect, but they have good lives. That's all I truly ever wanted for them, so I'm happy.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Carol, perfection not required, sounds like you and they are in a good place. Thank you for commenting.

I needed to hear this. I've been so hard on myself and my toddler lately. Things are exactly as they should be.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Lyndel Paris, honored to be on your team.

Thank you Doctor Paul for helping us lonely & lost moms. God bless you 🙏

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Siyara KB, honored to be on your team.

I'm crying after listening and watching to this entire video. I've recently become a single mom after being a young (early 20s) mother and being low income. I tried my best but feel I made so many mistakes, especially because I was being treated so badly/abused by the father. Now my kids are older and I have learned a lot but I need to relearn more in order for my kids to have a better life. A lot of times the guilt takes over-- really they are the most important thing in my life ❤

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

You got this! Don't ever give up, keep trying and it will turn out o.k.

I don’t even have kids and I’m crying. I found these videos to learn how I should interact with my young siblings. I love this channel!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Tabinova, and we are happy you are here. You got this.

Thank you for this! I needed this video today. Number #5 literally has me in tears because it’s so true. These stages don’t last so we should enjoy it.❤️ Love your channel so much

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

FacciaBella5, I'm honored by your comment - this is why I do the channel in the first place. Thanks for watching. DrPaul

I've listened to this twice in the car dropping my fiance off at work, and I've cried both times. This video is so moving and your words are comforting. Thank you for making me (and I'm sure others) feel seen with this video!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Marcia. You are the parent your child needs.

This is a great video but why is it just for moms? I'm a single dad here dealing with all this same stuff. It's still helpful at any rate though so thanks.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Motherfudger666, it has to do with what people are searching for on the internet. I have lots of dads and even teachers and daycare workers, grandparents and aunts subscribed to the channel. Just hear the word parent when I say mom.

@motherfudger6664

5 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Fair enough. Thanks.

@m_d587

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a Dad as well and I loved and appreciate the video but why not say parent instead of mom...only moms have children?

Appreciated your awesome talk. Moms need that affirmation. Emotional labor is so draining. During your talk it tripped a memory of the anger I felt taking care of my 97 year old mother, and had to apologize to her at times. And the guilt I felt at being angry. And the lack of anyone affirming the difficult job I was doing. There should be, if there isn't, a national caregivers day. I am watching this video because as a "great aunt" I want the emotional health of my niece and her two daughters. This lecture reminds me to encourage her greatly which I will now start doing...

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and trying out the suggestions. National Caregivers Day is the third Friday in February.

Thank you Doctor for such sound wisdom and advice! Thank you for being on the parenting team!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Chloe Li - so honored that you are here. Best! DrPaul

Ha i knew you must have been a member, I prayed for help and this is where i ended up.. thank you heavenly father and for these posts.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Vele, that has happened before. So glad you have found value in the videos.

@tecumseha

4 жыл бұрын

The exact same thing happened to me! Thank Heavens for Dr. Paul! So glad he was willing to follow the prompting to start a KZread channel to help parents everywhere. This is one of my all-time favorite videos of his, so I come back to watch it every now & again.

Actually today I felt so much anger towards my 3yr Old. Parenting isn't easy, we need grace

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 ай бұрын

Agreed.

Awesome message! I just realized I need to apologize to my girls for losing my sh*t last night when they flooded the bathroom playing at bath time :-( Perspective is everything!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Luisa H Lee, you are teaching them a valuable lesson.

@Tritriumchannel

4 жыл бұрын

Hell, i flooded the bathroom one time and i wasnt even a kid anymore, i was freaking 20 or something. I planned to take a bath, then stuff happened and i had to go in the yard to do some stuff. I came back in and the whole place was under water. In my haste i simply forgot to turn off the crane. facepalm Mom was pretty pissed about the damage (some woodwork damage), but she also was laughing at how i managed to cause the flooding. Yeah that still gets brought up at family parties to this day.

I’m just so choked up I can’t even speak leading up to the top 3. This is so powerful. I need to hear this. As a mum of 4 wonderful kids that test me every single day. My heart is just bursting as I recall the day I became a mum 😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Nurhayati Mokhtar, glad to have you as part of our community.

Wish I'd had this advice when mine were little. Still good advice as we head into teen years

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Yes April - remember we can never start any younger than we are right now. You've got this! DrPaul

Thank you for these tips. I would like to add that breaking and overwriting negative traditional reactions and patterns that we observed and received from our own parents and have become our default reaction to frustration with our kids could be helpful, too

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

It takes a lot of effort, but we can change and become more positive, despite our upbringing. Thanks for commenting, Santiago Hernandez.

I got so emotional thinking of the times I missed being observant of what my child was actually doing and jumped to being judgemental and missed the opportunity of recognising who this child actually is. 😭😭😭😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Ashiya, and when we know better, we do better.

@ashiya3706

4 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV yes we do sir. Thank u so much.

My baby is 24, and I daydream about being able to do it all again ... but better. As a single mother, I took the "I'm here to..." too far and was too strict (though my parents thought I was a pushover). I wanted to impress people with how well behaved my child was, and I did get many compliments on his manners and sweetness, but this video makes my heart ache.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Lilac Milkshake, you obviously tried your best and that is all we can give our children. Thank you for sharing.

@amatikwapeterson4913

5 жыл бұрын

Jhkkg

@jerikas

5 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@valeriaacm72

4 жыл бұрын

Omg I'm doing the same thing

Hello! I found your videos today and I am so glad that I did!!! I truly enjoy your wisdom and warmth. Thank you for being able to take such serious subjects (from a worn and weary mom's perspective) and bring them to the light in a caring and candid way!!! And yes, I am here because they don't keep their room clean! I spent most of yesterday trying (threatening, bribing and harassing) to get my six year old daughter to clean her room!!! Well your words are so soothing. There is a better way. Now I just have to spend every waking moment that the kids are sleeping learning those ways! THANK YOU SO MUCH and God bless you!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Monica your comment means so much to me - thank you! Spend a little time here on the Positive Parenting playlist - we've got dozens of videos there that I think you will resonate with. You might also be interested in our Parenting Power-up Audio Course, which will be released in the next few weeks. DrPaul parentingpowerup.com

@monicastone4952

6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I'm excited to share it with my MOPS mamas!!! We are always looking for encouraging parenting resources like what you offer here. I look forward to the audio course! Thank you! God bless you!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Honored to be on your team Monica - let me know if you guys want some particular topic and I'll put it on the production schedule. DrPaul

@monicastone4952

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr Paul! I will discuss it with leadership! I appreciate it very much!

Things are exactly as they should be and will get better. Thanks.😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Yes Palma! Thanks for watching, and for being a conscious parent. DrPaul

I cried throughout the video. Exactly what I needed. Thank you all.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked the video, ke fang. Thanks for watching.

Wow... I can’t stop crying. Thank you. 💕

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Awww, Tanya, you got this. Honored to be on your team.

Literally crying! You’re so inspiring ~ it’s been so hard here in melbourne australia to manage pregnancy life with a toddler and no support under strict lockdown rules where no one can help out. I forget about all these ~ thank you! 😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome. My best to your family.

Thank you for this msg , i cant stop cry .

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

luna chiu, please decide on a positive step so you can see a brighter future ahead. Thank you for watching.

Oh number one melt my heart, and that was all I needed, number five brought me back to the point of consciousness. Thank you for this. I chose to enjoy this ride from today.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Uma-Ele Joseph, honored to be on your team.

These videos have forever changed my life, perspective, awareness of how I need/want to parent. Thank you Dr.Jenkins...you have shifted my whole being. What a saving grace you are.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, C jv. Glad you found the channel and find the videos helpful. Honored to be on your team.

@cjv8768

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly, best parenting advice I have come across...having three boys. So reassuring, not a guilt provoking focus....just honest, sensible advice. Im so happy

Awesome!! Thank you! As a mother of seven children including 5 real BOYS, I could listen to this every day! Hope to always keep life in perspective!

@blessedkidsreality1569

5 жыл бұрын

Oh my God.. number1😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Esty Flam, you have your hands full! Thank you for being at Live On Purpose TV.

Mom of a three year old son and I need this. I have been searching,reading+watching all things that can help me to deal with my toddler until I watch this and opened my eyes.Thank you so much Doc for this video. I was once a kid and never treated as a kid so all your words makes a lot of sense to me and will help me and all moms to understand our babies better. Much ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

ALL KNIGHT VLOGS, thank you for watching. So glad we can connect.

Thank you for such an empowering moment! I love kiddos, mine are all adults, so blessed with the grandkiddos! There were moments I did put myself last, still struggle at times, then when I’m crafting or whatever we choose to do, I find this as a reminder, I want to watch all my grandkiddos succeed with what they choose, their parents have! Thank you for for the uplifting words.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Grandkids are the best, wish mine were closer.

Dear Dr. Thanks so much for healing and helping us..You withhold nothing but generous with your kindness to make home a happier place.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Princess Davina, thank you for your kind words. Thank you for being at Live On Purpose.

Thank you so much... no. 1 is an eye opener....you make my life, as a mom, smoother... stay blessed.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Devika Bhargava. Thank you for being there for your kids and trying new things.

I only watched this video 48 hours ago and I swear these past two days have been a drastic change for me that was much needed. I plan on watching this video regularly to keep me on the path I have been going.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Kristen Holmes, I love that about the videos, come back and watch as needed. Please share away with someone who might benefit from seeing them.

I just discovered your channel and I'm loving it so far 💕 It's so sweet and touched my soul. I'm literally crying in this video, I need it so much at this moment. I'm grateful I had found you and THANK YOU for doing this for all of us.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

We are glad to have you at Live On Purpose TV, Damares Lima. Share with your friends.

As a young mom. My child is really training me to yell at her to do things😭 I hate that I get so angry sometimes. So I really need anger management🙌🙌 thanks for this video.. I'm looking into creative ways on how to get my child to be more interested in learning. Guess I'll start right here🙌🙌😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Jonnel Mclean, yes, pick one thing to start on and focus on that before trying to do more. Take back the control, don't give it to your child. Say it out loud, I won't allow you dictate my feelings and I will not yell at you. Sometimes just saying it out loud allows us more control.

Thank you for making us mom feel special. And making us realize how our parents raise us and how much love and respect they deserve.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and commenting, women radiance. I am grateful for my parents everyday.

I need a new heart. This just crushed mine a thousand times. Everyone MUST see this. Not only parents, every single one of us. ❤

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Joyce Di, please share away with anyone you think would like to view. Thank you for being here.

I love the "Remember who they are" and remember who You are".All the lessons that Ive learned from you is so applicable to me now that I have my toddler.Anger management help me remember the purpose why I chose to become a mom.🥰

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Love that!

Thank you so much Dr!!! I can't get enough of your videos... they're so comprehensive and make so much sense! I'm so grateful for your advice and guidance 🙏 am lapping it all up, making mental notes, and determined to make a difference to the quality of life for my kids, myself and my team!!! God bless you for all your efforts to help us all. It's truly a blessing to have you provide us with your insights and wisdom!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Honored to be a part of your team, M S. We need each other.

I had tears in my eyes the whole video. You have spoken to my heart, I was angry towards my 5 year old this morning, and I’ve been feeling bad the whole day. Thank you for giving me perspectives, and all the reminders about the precious journey that we are blessed to be on, isn’t gonna be forever. ❤️ Thank you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Carol F, glad to have you at the channel.

Your video is such an eye opener! #5 made me cry. I can see myself getting angry at my 2 year and 5 year old all the time.. "I'm not keeping a clean house, I'm raising a child..." That's so true. Thank you so much! God bless!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and commenting, Roshni Wilson. You can create a more positive, happier home and family.

Congratulations for ur little daughter turning 21,,,god bless her always,,, Ur talk was amazing,,, Thankuuuu

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, mandeep

This is beautiful, heartwrenching, and much needed tonight! ive let the stress of life make me so angry lately to the point I am irritated with my daughter for just acting like a typical five year old. My reactions to her behavior have only fed the fire and tonight I was left feeling very regretful with how i treated her today. I love this and Im very thankful to have found it.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Jen Mitch, thank you for the comment. I am glad the video has helped you. Just know that you're not alone and that you're actually doing better than you think. Feel free to browse around the "Positive Parenting" playlist to see if there is anything else I can help you with: kzread.info/head/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU

I was searching KZread out of desperation and in tears because I am so upset with myself for the anger that bubbled up inside me. I get angry so quickly! I don’t want to be this way. I want to be the mother I want to be! I dearly love my children and treasure them, why do I get so cross so quickly!? I am desperate to change! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video and wisdom. It has given me a lot to think on. I am going to make some pictures to put around my house with some of these points on to help me remember and to keep perspective. I really am so grateful! ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Jo Raine, glad to have you at Live On Purpose TV, please continue to watch and interact with comments, I am sure there will be others who will help you on your journey. If you want more individualized help, you can make an appointment to speak with one of our Live On Purpose Coaches at www.drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall to see what other options are available.

@Jo-hello

4 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much for your reply! 🙂

I just felt so overwhelmed and my eye teared up as soon as I heard the number 1- 'Remember who you are' in the list. Everything and every major events of my life just came flashing in my mind!! I really want to be a good MOM to my daughter and I will try to be as best I could be. Thanks for this video!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Nayana Bodhi, You got this and we are here to support you.

Watching your videos is changing my life. Thank you so much Dr. Paul.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Comments like yours keep me going when it gets challenging to create all of these videos. So honored to be on your team. DrPaul

@jehfelene21

6 жыл бұрын

Live On Purpose TV thank you for all your efforts making all these videos Dr. Paul. It's amazing how a busy person like yourself still manages to make videos like this, and even replies to comments. Somehow I feel like somebody cares and understands me, and helps me understand what's going on and what to do. Thank you so much.

@shireenhendricks2194

5 жыл бұрын

Agree

I just yelled at my 9 yr old and she got teary and hearing this changes me

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Ruthie Brenda, we all make mistakes. You can do this.

I adore your videos. Growing up in a highly aggressive family, and then entering an awful and violent relationship, I have always been around anger. Unfortunately now I am also an angry person/ parent when tested. These videos are so calming and informative in a simple way- like a friendly reminder to stay on the right path ❤

'They are already that person' I love you for saying this

@LiveOnPurposeTV

Жыл бұрын

Clara Webb, you are the mother your children need.

This made me cry. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Hope you are on your way to more positive, happy days, Jessenia Moreno. Thank you for watching.

Sometimes as a father I think I fall into the category of things don't seem like they should when it might be normal. But I have always held myself to a higher standard so I hold my kids to a higher standard. Especially in todays world. So I feel like I have higher expectations then sometimes I should for their age.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

It is good to have standards and expectations, but it they aren't age appropriate or age appropriate, we might be setting them up for failure.

ThankYou soooo much for this❤️❤️❤️ I have to constantly remind myself that “things are exactly as they should be” as I become a mom of young adults.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

2 жыл бұрын

Melissa, we are here to help any way we can.

I just started in childcare and I can see myself using some of these in my daily work life. I am glad that i found this video.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Jessica Mullin, let us know if you ever run across a topic we haven't covered. Good luck.

As a mother of a toddler, this video was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much! It also made me want to go for a second child lol.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Lannie Garcia, hang in there, they do grow up and we can keep calm and parent on...

@hadijahmahenge2231

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 sailing on the same boat.. I have 2 year old son😇😇 i couldnt even think of another but now am at easy😊

@hadijahmahenge2231

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 sailing on the same boat.. I have 2 year old son😇😇 i couldnt even think of another but now am at easy😊

I could hug you! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with such loving positive intent, it makes all the difference. 🌻

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Ignacia Ramirez, air hugs.

Thank you for being on my team Dr. Paul much love and respect 😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Always, Janet Spiteri.

I came across this video, as i was searching for behavioural problem in small children. You have changed my life Doc.. I realized it is all me

@LiveOnPurposeTV

5 жыл бұрын

Rome Islam, I am honored to be on your team, welcome to Live On Purpose TV.

How about when anger is more a result of the frustration of a disfunctional relationship with a stubborn self centered partner????.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

6 жыл бұрын

Yes - that can certainly happen, and it affects our parenting abilities for sure. We've got a whole playlist here on the channel for positive relationship resources - hopefully that will help. DrPaul kzread.info/dash/bejne/pJlkvMWNYbm8dqg.html

@amandaarya2188

5 жыл бұрын

Same here

@motherfudger6664

5 жыл бұрын

Or a non-co-parenting ex that lives to make everything more difficult, that's where my struggle is. Still this video was helpful though.

@umaannita1493

4 жыл бұрын

Yes...me too...hvg this prob.

@reg8297

4 жыл бұрын

So so true

This is so beautiful. Thank you. Something we need to be reminded of EVERY DAY!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You are welcome, Dana M. I'm glad the video resonated with you Honored to be on your team!

I’m sitting sobbing because it’s so powerful

@LiveOnPurposeTV

3 жыл бұрын

Iris Van Der Zon, yes, thank you for being here.

Kids are like a mirror, they do what they see and hear. We yell and get angry, they yell and get angry, we are patient and talk to them in a loving way, they will too. Praising your child helps a lot too. Price them with a sticker, a toy, a candy, a date night out etc. they will understand that they have earned it for a good behavior and following home rules. Just an advise from a mom to mom/dad. 💖🥰

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Bella Vida, thanks for your positive comment and supporting other parents. Honored to have you here on the channel.

Thank you so much for this Doctor. I am crying while watching this and just had a realization about my wrong parenting with my adhd child. I have lots of expectations and frustrations as well and this video helps me to keep on track. Will share this to help and enlighten more struggling mom out there. Thank you so much

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome, efsher ramos. Thank you for watching and sharing, I appreciate it. We have much more for you in our Positive Parenting playlist: kzread.info/head/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU. I hope you can find some useful tools there.

@judyvittoria2525

4 жыл бұрын

As a single mom of 3 and one with ADHD, I understand your struggle. I have to remind myself to remember who he is. It can be very challenging and find myself yelling to be heard. Then I feel guilty afterwards. I need to get clear of my job.

I just wanna say from the bottom of my heart " Thank you!!!!" ❤️❤️❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Monica Kumar A, you are welcome.

You have just made everything make sense to me. This video got to me and made me cry. Thank you so much for the video. I needed this so badly to put a new perspective on the way I'm seeing my own children. And I'm so happy we are in the same team!

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Deidra Roberts, so am I!

I’m actually broken watching the end of this video. Thank you so very much for making this video. I’m so glad that I’ve found you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV

4 жыл бұрын

Marie Douse, You are very welcome. I am glad you found our community.