Nailed it. Everything you mentioned has been listed to me as my faults. And the more I am controlled the more I want to be gone. The controlling aspect is the last straw and gives me the push to end the relationship in my heart. The controlling aspect makes me feel like I cannot breathe.

@markflierl1624

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. The control freaks drive me crazy. Most of them are so arrogant, that they actually believe they are helping you. They think you are stupid for not following societies rules/norms.

@nomebear

3 жыл бұрын

I am an empath male, and this video described me to a 'T'.

@desireeespinosa3954

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

I’m happy you mentioned the criticism part. I don’t mind constructive criticism. It’s the way people tend to do this that bothers me. As I have noticed and in my experience. We have had toxic people in our lives criticizing us on a daily basis. So it tends to be difficult to receive criticism from others even if it’s in a loving way.

I identified with everything except #7. I’m mostly extroverted. So if I’m at a party I like to talk to people and usually find someone I can lend advice or life experience to, while I listen to them vent about what’s ailing them.

@QUEENCHAI

3 жыл бұрын

same here

Omg! The phone call/ visiting thing! I am not alone in that? AMAZING

"The pets are always in conformity to their will or command" This statement threw me. As an empath, I have always loved our pets and all animals, however, never have I ever thought that any animal was conforming to my will or my command. This seems very foreign to me, to think this way. What I can say is that as an empath I'm so in tuned with our pets. My little chihuahua tells me when she wants to eat. I ask her which of the three foods she wants to eat, then she tells me. My husband watches in frustration. For the life of him, he cannot see it. He's not an empath. It is one of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced and I get to do it every day.

@Hawaiiansky11

Жыл бұрын

Maybe a better way to say that would have been, "pets don't try to force their will onto the empath," because pets are cool with us no matter what, for the most part, and therein lies the 'freedom' with them, whereas people the closest to us, often try to control us / coerce us into decision 'for our own good,' which just makes us want to run away fast.

I Am a Powerful Empath. I can go in a crowd without a problem. I Am trained to block the feelings and Energies of all the others. You are describing untrained Empaths that don't put walls up. Just saying...

@kossiscott1002

4 жыл бұрын

Can you teach me

@bluginberry

4 жыл бұрын

@@kossiscott1002 I can help give you information and you can see if you can get yourself to this point....

@missinichols8419

3 жыл бұрын

May I ask how u trained to block off other people's emotions? That's the whole reason I'm here trying to learn! It overwhelms me! Almost consumes me! But I also hv ptsd from loosing a loved one violently. So being in crowds I try to avoid. I love my solitude but think it's a double sided sword when it comes to the ptsd. But I generally feel others emotions in smaller settings or just passing by someone. I am trying to figure out how to prevent that from being so out of control! Thinking maybe if I learn how than I have a better chance at dealing with this deep depression I'm in! (PTSD I know has added stresses) But what brought that on was many yrs ago. I've just sunken into this rut off depression. Any advice would truly be appreciated!

@aneural

2 жыл бұрын

@@kossiscott1002 Start paying attention to yourself, Don't allow people to walk over you emotionally, it's not selfishness, it's just that you might be too selfless.

Well I've evolved with time and experience to better deal with my emotions & to differentiate which emotions are mine, and not others I've picked up. I do love my freedom and that won't change.

I must have my freedom and I can't stand someone to constantly text and call. I feel like I'm imprisoned and I need my freedom. It's a must and I guess I give the wrong impression because I don't want to feel crowded and someone to control me. I don't like feeling smothered. When I go off alone I want that by myself & no one in my space. The signs describes me to a T.

@susanmoran5226

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way suzi.

I don't get bored if not stimulated - but if I am in an unfamiliar space, I guess that could be true...

So I found out that I'm an empath, but I also might be dating one as well. And I'm trying to figure out how to deal with both of us being one

I’m the empath lol and no one is dating me but everything was true. I have a lot of emotions, and I definitely need space to deal with them or just feel them out so I need a really nice and understanding guy, honestly not sure who can really understand that but hoping one day I’ll meet someone who can haha so I can have a family that I really want

Um, is it not hurtful for anyone when someone states that 'The food is awful'?

Damn you just described me!!!😢which no one ever did

Really good video!!☺️👏🏻I agree with everything! Especially when people try to control our time, and the feeling overly sensitive to criticism! It doesn’t help that more direct communicators tend to be kinda tactless in their delivery of criticism🙁... I’ve experienced this really every relationship sadly, and after I’ve felt sad for awhile I realize there was a much easier way to saying what they felt they had to say... I hope to find myself the right Empath for me someday soon!🙏🏻

@suzyloo21

4 жыл бұрын

It's been very hard for me to date. My last date was a narcissist so I got all that relationship very quickly. It was like he's trying to control me and I couldn't stand all the lies. I have a date tomorrow and this guy... I feel like he may be the one. I sure hope so.

Watching this. I feel seen 😅🤣

You are not wrong, hihi. I do not have all the trades anymore. Meaning i have worked hard to keep the less fun stuff on point. But 7; yes! If you meet me one on one, i could come across as a goofy, but insight person, who wants to know you. In a groep? They think i am shy and weird, who does not care who and what you are. But they have no idea, i am shielding myself from their emotions, just so I can stand in a group. If you thought we had mood swings 🥺 it took me many years to learn this teick and if i still sometimes fail. Many people have come to be a lesson for me, how not to engage, because it Will cost me my sanity and in time i came to realise: i teach people how to treat me and how i treat myself. Took a hot minute, but i am getting there. Thank you, for helping me explain myself (and my Son) to my husband. ❤️

@shaunrussell4558

4 жыл бұрын

Demelza Brevoord hey there!! I completely resonate with what you said about being fine in small groups and one on one is my favorite way to open up to people☺️ but I’ve never been into going to a crowded place where I know no one😣😨I start to panic, and it appears like I’m being rude when I’m just trying to get through something that terrifies me! I don’t like the attention and so I usually try to at least connect with one person at a time! I never want to appear rude or cold, because everyone that knows me knows I’m a very open and caring human... so, yeah I hope more people see these videos to really witness what it is we go through day to day! It’s overwhelming to say the least! Thanks 🙏🏻 and hope you find other Empath friends who can be understanding of where you’re coming from as far as socializing goes🤞🤞✨🍁💗

I'm An Empath,In A Relationship With Myself🙂

Congratulations on ur new KZread channel name dude :D

Spot on.

You described me!

Good information, even for the married.

Every behavior on this list seems to be the same as a covert narcissist. Controlling/unable to take criticism (even when done gently).

@jb8405

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, it's not an empath, we have no ego, criticism does not bother us if it's the truth, this video is all completely wrong

@TruthNJustice33

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you.👏👏👏

@mariyaa111

4 жыл бұрын

SuddenlyHope No! If you were truly an empath, you would understand the true feeling behind this.

@markflierl1624

3 жыл бұрын

He didn't say they were controlling. He said they hate to be controlled.

@mearaftadewos8508

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariyaa111 agree on this one. Meanwhile, his phrasing misleads non-empaths....

I feel like every empath is different. For instance, I take constructive criticism very well as I know it’s not coming from a place of malice. Also, I love my cat but not intensely like you say. A pet is a pet to me.

I would like to date an empath. I'm tired of dating narcissists.

I don’t agree It more the narcs what you are talking about Don’t lie to an empath Don’t act in a way that isn’t authentic Don’t do small talk Don’t manipulate them Just be open and honest to an empath and you be fine 🧚🏾‍♀️

Well maybe im not an empath since i am all over the person i love constantly

I love your cooking...

So me on ever level

Dont know why i forgot all of this

This is a narcassist, my ex was so jealous of his ex, he drove himself insane trying to make me a bad person to no avail, I don't call them narcs i call them idiots and dumbasses because they don't know what they are missing, then again next time someone tells me they are just an asshole thats why they have no friends. Or proud they have now lost 5 people, forget about empath, just be yourself, real and honest even if it's just with us, we are few, me for one my narc cant even say hi, crush a a narcassist with the truth, they are allergic and move on

Yeah this is spot on... man, some days i actually hate being like this coz i know that some of these traits make me hard to get on with and creates pain in my partner :( I hope the fact that i tune in so quickly to what i know he likes and wants kinda makes up for it. I know that no-one else has ever done that so effortlessly for him and he is so appreciative of it, and it feeds me to know that he finally feels so significant to someone that they would even bother to tune into him and give him what he wants and needs and make him happy. This puts me at peace with myself & my flaws :)

@micheles8747

3 жыл бұрын

leighatkins22 this up and down emotion to where it causes issues in a relationship sounds like bi polar. One can be both. But the bi polar part makes it hard to be stable.

Make more videos for empaths. 💖❤️

Your right.ℹ️💯✅✝️🙏🏿📖🗡❤️👌🏿👍🏿😎

💞✌

thumbnail looks like harry potter

This man is knowingly miss informing people. This is the exact explanation of who a Narcissist is.

@mollymal9690

3 жыл бұрын

There are subtle differences. An empath won't ever be malicious back. They may just cry alone or be a bit passive aggressive

@missinichols8419

3 жыл бұрын

I thought narcissistic ppl and empaths were complete oxy-morons ?

@mollymal9690

3 жыл бұрын

@@missinichols8419 they are

@shorfafza7818

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissists prefer constant calls texts praises and anything that boosts their ego. This is a big difference. Although I agree that this video is quite a narrow summary. Empaths are not afraid of constrictive criticism which improves them. Narsissists are afraid of all kinds of criticism. It hurts their ego. And constant mood swings happen, true, but the people who stay submerged into them and show it as an excuse to treat their loved ones wrong are either narsissistic or emotionally immature people, not empaths. Empaths are quite good at masking their pain and sensitivity. Empathy itself is being considerate, and empaths are over considerate to the extent which drains them and that's why narsissistic people pray on them. This video misses many vital points.

My friend, what you just described was exactly a perfect Narcisist. Those characteristics belong more to a narcissist. Are you sure you are talking about the right topic my friend? I think you confused the title.🤔🤔🤔

@recoveringsoul755

4 жыл бұрын

no, narcissists love big groups of people to feed off of them, and will never show any remorse because they really don't care if they hurt you. They will try to control you, and blame you for everything that goes wrong in their life no matter how ridiculous. It rained? must be your fault somehow. The rules change constantly so you never know how to please them and empaths try to make their partner happy. So narcissists love us. Some of these were off, but some were accurate. Not sure what happened with this video. Empaths get drained easily, by narcissists.

@romsrequest

4 жыл бұрын

I agree regarding the pets and narcissist s. Narcissist love the control and loyalty of a pet. Narcissist also can't stand criticism. Empaths are also willing to sacrifice habits and make changes to make others happy, narcissists can't take criticism well.

@jonathanbaker7854

4 жыл бұрын

Ray Of Light Rayo de Luz Most empaths attract narcissists, age old rule if you don’t check it fast “Association brings about assimilation “. What you probably observed was an empath turned narcissist, it almost happened to me.ℹ️💯✝️🙏🏿📖🗡✅😎

Some of them are not empath traits

"...how to move your empath partner in the right direction." Not even close to reality... empaths would KNOW a manipulator in a second. Actually, most of this video is completely incorrect. Weird as this channel is normally accurate.

@TruthNJustice33

4 жыл бұрын

💯 agree with you.

@heatherproctor5140

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t agree. A lot of empathy are so loving, caring, and can understand anyone, that they tend to attract narcissists and other people that will take advantage of them.

Im empathic but If im Comfortable Around Someone i Can Read women So good i Can Finish her Sentence's SERIOUSLY Messs With Anyone you Can do that With.

@susanmoran5226

3 жыл бұрын

What would you be like with a female empath?

@lastofus456

3 жыл бұрын

My Lady Was a Empath too When Your Mind is open its a Two way street. I Read her She read me.

This seems like 7 signs you’re dating an immature person

this is so wrong

@tinycell1836

2 жыл бұрын

How