And as always, when we’re in our darkness nobody’s there for us but ourselves

@destree6348

4 жыл бұрын

@Cuntstantine MarìaPolette So true

@cmmontrose1469

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly, very true.

@Hundredacredaycare

4 жыл бұрын

Cuntstantine MarìaPolette true

@Artbug

4 жыл бұрын

Before reaching the darkness, find someone you love and trust for those times. It can be difficult at first because people are broken and imperfect, but those who truly love you will work to learn how to take care of you

@Hundredacredaycare

4 жыл бұрын

Artbug but how can we take care of ourselves in the meantime?

It’s a such a great tool yet nobody seems to want us around cause we can’t be lied to

@autumnhoffses4514

4 жыл бұрын

Doug Joseph Most people in general are like that

@tana5098

3 жыл бұрын

So true. We can sense if someone is not being truthful with us and I am brutally honest with people. It's not easy being a friend of an empath. Are u also selective with who you spend time with? I'm an extrovert, but I am somewhat of a loner because I have been hurt too many times by people i've trusted. So, I have very few people that are in my inner circle. Lots of acquaintances though.

@cjuuljohnston

3 жыл бұрын

Too many people want to live in la la land, (a bubble) they don't want to hear the truth... And we say it the way it is..

@toxinnescorpio4857

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly❗

@user-qq6em4cn7d

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that! Gets lonely, but I don't want to be lied to either!

These videos are so comforting to me as an empath recovering from trauma. Thank you for providing a place of understanding.

@josephschneider9451

4 жыл бұрын

im sitting here in tears not because im sad but because it took 55 years of rejection being annoying ,in a nut shell i spent my whole life going over and beyond putting others first neglecting my on needs just trying to be as helpful and as humble as i could but yet there were always repercussions for the tiniest to the most helpful moments giving it my all ,not caring about the trouble i would get in for neglecting my needs but nomatter what thats who i am cant change if i wanted to so for believing thatand being told that its not my problem dont do it i just cuoldnt stop heelping right to the point of thinking i was different and my wholefeeling like i wasnt worthy side maybe they are mad and expected more of me so i tried even harder which i needed more time to do all this so i tried meth which i thought finally i have all the time in the world to finally get somebody to understand but again just made it even worse, im 55 years old and feel like im 100 just got out of the county jail again 2nd time for driving on the revoke list 1st was driving to work the 2nd for driving to the pharmacy to get my wife meds because she was a 6 month recent dabilitating stroke patient .so the lock up for 6 more month and to talk to her onthe phone hearing her needs and her pains almost killed me i wanted to be dead got out 4 days ago no where to turn not knowing what to do next'.in jail i told myself i have to try being the most humbling i can be ,had a none important 55th bday thursday .Tonight im at one of the only 1 persons house that understands and i think the nicest person i know/ but has also been told hes an outcast'well got the best bday gift ever/we were surfing the net tring to learn the knowledge of the eluminaty the people of knowing. listening to songs for direction and never giving up on the saying no matter what you need its on the internet///////////thank you thankyou and thankyou each and everone of you that everything is going to be ok its easy the only thing you have to do do is believe in yourself its that simple ,life really is to short to waist especially if it takes most of it to understand it..........

@denishalafontant3035

4 жыл бұрын

fr

@raynestorm555

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! It makes me feel like I’m not just sensitive because I’m a woman. This is a gift, and intuitive gift that I have to learn how to control

@stevennewberg8781

4 жыл бұрын

@@josephschneider9451 l

@cassandrac8849

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

Here’s the list but watch the video for the deeper information ☺️ 1. They are sensitive. 2. They absorb others emotions. 3. They are mostly introverted. 4. They are easily stressed. 5. They are human lie detectors. 6. Sometimes they give too much. 7. They become replenished in nature. 8. They are creative. 9. They are targets for negative people. 10. They love deeply. 11. They’re highly intuitive.

@allensheets9369

Жыл бұрын

all true

@allensheets9369

Жыл бұрын

i will take a chair and put it in the field and sit there in thunder storm i feel so much better there

@carrorallison7656

Жыл бұрын

We are also more sensitive and susceptible to pain. Physical,mental and emotiona. Speaking from experience. Blessings to all

@loreneholmesrule8327

9 ай бұрын

Loyalty is very important to the empaths I know. They love either their dogs or cats because they are loyal.. just my thoughts from experience; I am not an expert on the subject.

The most painful thing is to give the very last drop of yourself when you have nothing left & people still don't know because you've got a smile on your face & a helping heart. No one knows that cost, unless they're another true empath! Saddest thing that absolutely broke my heart was the fact that no one is there for you, when you have given away all that you are to others. That particular hurt is so heart breaking!!!! It is a curse I feel, because no one looks inside your heart truly!! That leaves you as a very lonely person!

@braklola

4 жыл бұрын

It is the most painful thing , giving our very essence until the bitter end... I understand. 💜💜💜

@neogirl37

4 жыл бұрын

@@braklola thank you kind heart ❤️❤️

@gossaconnon6875

4 жыл бұрын

Dude, I feel what you are saying So deeply!! But let me tell you something, that moment when I looked myself in the eyes in the mirror, and felt those hot tears down my face and that overwhelming feeling of healthy, honest pride for who I am, dude, go to the mirror one day, ask that guy how he is and tell him you love him. You owe me a hangout now if you do that. Cheers!

@CarolHuang

3 жыл бұрын

I wanna give you a hug. No any intentions.

@theblackandrew4119

3 жыл бұрын

I can understand.i am in that situation right now..

I love the person I am and I don't apologize for being me. I still struggle with setting boundaries sometimes, but the upside is, it allows me to witness the ungrateful side of human nature: People will really take as long as you give. People will go as far as you let them. People/this World are really not used to people like us, and instead of appreciating our sincerity & genuineness, most people are always searching for an angle to use us, and take advantage of us. But only if they knew, when we're done, we're done, and when it's over, it's over. I thank God for making us how and who we are.

@Michelle-ke7me

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! So do I! I love being me, an extroverted empath. Yes, working out boundaries with certain family members, however I try to follow this first. Is this making or made me happy? Sometimes the event/person was draining as Hell!!! but I had a great time. To me it was worth it. Now, I can't do that all the time, however this works for me. If it does/doesn't I don't tell myself I should have done......(like I used to in the past) I still need to find time in my schedule to do energy work, quiet time. My husband and family is very understanding. I'm blessed.

@TheGhjgjgjgjgjg

4 жыл бұрын

Not to sound like a self righteous ass but I think empaths are the next step in human mind evolution.It's the only way this world has a chance.

@melissad.gordon6283

4 жыл бұрын

Very well put!! Words to think about... I'm thankful others like me/us exist. For the longest time I stayed quiet about how different I was from everyone but I can't anymore. Thank God. He opened my eyes. I'm not so alone. And yes, we can help better this earth... I intend to navigate the path chosen for me by God as He is my guiding light!!

@YakkateeYak

4 жыл бұрын

Amen! You summed that up beautifully!!

@pandaking7555

4 жыл бұрын

Amen to that man

And my friends and family wonder why I stay away. I can feel every drop of thier energy. Others wonder why I like to be alone so much. After years of giving to much, I just got tired and quietly went away.

It took me 30 years to realize I was an empath. It doesn’t solve anything but helps you understand your behavior in certain situations. And now a lot of things make sense. I can grasp the personality traits of someone by just looking into their eyes and feel their vibrations. Musician here! 🎶❤️

@vernathompson261

4 жыл бұрын

I'm 51 and just discovered I'm an empath. I'm so glad to have learned it's a real thing and I'm not alone! 💜🤗

@Diathon1

4 жыл бұрын

30 here. I didn't know what to look for because I wasn't listening. You knew. We always know. Just trust. Trust so much it's scary and people call you crazy. Trust.

@gossaconnon6875

4 жыл бұрын

And you get to discover the proper ways of shielding, grounding, discharging, disconnecting, to manage life well and protect yourself, once you put a name to it.

@cosmogtopper

4 жыл бұрын

I am 68 and. Recently discovered I am an Empath and why my life is the way it is.

@Kim-vs4vb

3 жыл бұрын

😱😱😱😱 yes, just looking into the eyes, I know the person 😳😳😳😳😳 character, personality ect

I’m an introverted extrovert. I need to socialize but then I’m drained and need to be alone.

@olivegunung

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@125daxJ

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@tomdeters735

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, everyone who knows me thinks I'm totally outgoing, but I get wiped out mentally, I never could understand it, I always thought it was a blood sugar thing like maybe I'm a borderline diabetic..but the more I learn about this stuff...the more it makes sense

@125daxJ

4 жыл бұрын

@Miss M done that. And it confirms what I said

@russride

4 жыл бұрын

I think you are an extroverted introvert.

Just want to be valued sometimes not be left alone like a freak. But then again left alone to restore.thank God for my pets

@jessblackwolf5333

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you. I've always gotten along FAR better with animals than people. Just a few years ago (after recovering from almost 2 years homeless) I developed a lifestyle of isolation and it's the most comfortable I've ever been in this life. Also, I got tagged with that "freak" label at a very young age, way back on the very first day of kindergarten. I often feel that being an empath is more a curse than a gift.

@snjert8406

4 жыл бұрын

@@jessblackwolf5333 I wish both of you that you finde someone who actually values you. I met someone last year and it's been the most rewarding friendship in my life. Everyone needs someone like this.

@avidnongetit8710

3 жыл бұрын

Love you Shelly Even though I don't know you. I hope you are gaining new tools. I'm like you, always thought I was weird, just learned I'm a Empath. These videos are amazing. This refuge sight on KZread is wonderful..m

@JeffJohnson-uw3fi

3 жыл бұрын

I think being devalued and discarded is a harsh reality Shelly and getting through it is a lot of work.. peace and remember that god loves you

Is any ither empath has a deep emotional connection to music? I literally can cry and all my body gets goosebumps if i like the sound/beat/tune xxxx

@SamSine

4 жыл бұрын

Ceri-Anne Murphy Yes, I’m the same here. I think that’s what made me become a musician because music has given me feelings that are indescribable. I always thought everyone was feeling the same until I realized that people were liking music but not getting that emotional depth to it with physical reaction such as tears and goosebumps. When I create music, I feel transported somewhere where time and my surroundings become inexistant. It’s an intense feeling. Not sure all empaths feel that but you and I definitely do.

@AAmitBhardwajofficial

4 жыл бұрын

Me

@thediabolicalempath7246

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@jennifermcalchemy9816

3 жыл бұрын

Search Heyoka Empath. I react to music intensely and mirror others emotions. I find it embarrassing not being in control of my emotions or worse trying to. It’s exhausting.

@julianakleijn2487

3 жыл бұрын

yes

since i found this channel, every video has exposed me. i feel, for the first time ever, understood. i fight my tears as i continue to watch. and i know those who read this, also understand. this is healing for my, our, souls

One of the things I try to hide is my eyes when I’m hurting or on the verge of breaking down. The eyes is the window to the soul. I’ve notice people find more interest in me when they look into my sadden eyes. It’s like they see something else. I’ve been told by different people that I’m an angel and that they can see my halo. I always knew earth wasn’t my planet and that I’m here for a short period of time as I feel. The good die young. Being an empath isn’t easy 😰

@marknewsome-guru7054

4 жыл бұрын

TelepathicEmpath777 ✨💫🌟💛 take this good ass energy 💪🏼🛸👽👁

@jessblackwolf5333

4 жыл бұрын

I have always been the same way...nobody is allowed eye contact for any length of time. I've been that way even long before I knew I was an empath. I even avoid mirrors because I don't like where looking into my own eyes can take me...always back to places I never want to visit again. Also, many times I've been called a fallen angel. I know we are only here for a short time (I feel like I'm racing against time every day), but sometimes being an empath can make it feel like an eternity.

@sandraadams7913

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, and people mistake the no she contact in us as something else, like maybe dishonesty, but they are so wrong.

@cassandrapatrick5804

4 жыл бұрын

Always feel that way every now and then that I don't belong the earth realm

@lashonhunter8996

4 жыл бұрын

Metoo sis💋

The hardest part is dealing with a jealous person. I can read the other person. They lie and believe you believe the lies. The narrsacist is the worst for a Impath ,we know the evil in them and drain our good energy. I stay alone rather then put up with people that try to take advantage of me

@rosiestewart870

3 жыл бұрын

@chocolate bunny i lived in a house where every single family who moved in, were intrusive, trashy, rude, inconsiderate. the other neighbors were fine. i moved to a different area, and every single person is kind and likeable. i think there could have been something about that house---

@sutapadey3940

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's fun being unaffected, pretending to believe those narcissists & look at their confidence.. 😂

@HisWordisLife4U

2 жыл бұрын

It's more fun to just give a little of what people actually need when they need it, than to spoil one or two people with everything they need all the time. I like random acts of kindness. Lately, if I just look around when I am out, I can spot people who need something--mostly they appreciate someone who cares. It opens their world and lifts their spirit to think there are people in society that notice their pain/needs. It brightens their outlook. This can feed you to help someone like that without draining you. Don't exchange numbers, don't tell them where you live or work, just bless them and go on your way. It's fun. Even listening can be a blessing; so few people listen.

I now know I am an empath and why it hurts so much when people tell me to stop caring so much or to stop saying sorry so much. A lot of the time I say sorry because I grew up that way. Trauma really changes the way a person thinks.

@catherha1

3 жыл бұрын

I had to learn to stop saying it as well.

@saturncosmic4449

3 жыл бұрын

Lifetimes with Kath its nice to know your not alone

@catherha1

3 жыл бұрын

@@saturncosmic4449 absolutely

@saturncosmic4449

3 жыл бұрын

Lifetimes with Kath ive been scared that i was the only one who was like that

@catherha1

3 жыл бұрын

@@saturncosmic4449 by no means at all 😆

I don’t tell anyone that I’m an empath. I’m worried that they’ll put their emotions on me more than they already do. I can’t risk it. I already take care of my friends all day, and the last thing I need is to be bombarded by MORE emotions. The only person who knows is my mom (she’s an empath too). Plus you never know who you can trust. I’m WAY too trusting with everything else, but my empathic abilities are a different story. I can’t risk trusting someone with that knowledge. I get hurt too easily.....and there’s a LOT of negative energy in my school.

@kingkooper7522

3 жыл бұрын

It wears you down, distant yourself from negativity where can,you will pick up alot,trust your gut,there are no coincidences, none.......be safe,take care.

@cherrytheresa

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I totally understand you. I feel like I want to tell my close friends so that they will understand my emotions however it will cause unnecessary stress in the long run. I am way too trusting and I am learning to understand some people are truly negative and there are some people that I can’t help. I will risk suffering emotional burnout. At 18 I’m learning why I go through emotions that I thought was ‘normal’.

@hershitabharti3355

2 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you ✨

Emotional Exhaustion. Never knew why. It's debilitating and annoying and makes you think you are crazy. I thank God everyday for all these channels of my co-Empaths and INFJ's that are literally crawling into my brain and explaining myself to myself. It's awesome to know you are not alone in all this. It's so important to understand our personality types, so that we can find a "normal" (subjective bias) state or happy medium to be able to be perceived as normal. But then we still have to retreat and recharge regardless. Lol

@melissad.gordon6283

4 жыл бұрын

Oh so so so very true!! I felt like myself reading my-self-writing that!

@justingrinnell6454

3 жыл бұрын

Iv been trying to find the "normal" my whole life but I know now that it doesn't exist.

My old friends emotionally drained me. The last one on this list resonates since they didn't realize how much I was picking up from their actions. I can read way more than they can is all and they can't see past themselves. Years of lying, gaslighting and other attempts of manipulation all apparent, but pointing it out is like opening a can of worms with these guys...

@MH-cv5ye

4 жыл бұрын

No contact.

@snjert8406

4 жыл бұрын

I know it's hard, but it would be the best for you to cut ties with them

@brittanyparks8242

3 жыл бұрын

Then they weren't your friends honey. You may have been their friend but they were not yours.

@cassielee1114

3 жыл бұрын

I’m living with my partners family and the manipulation and gaslighting i witness between them is so painful and frustrating to me.

Definitely takes training for it not to feel like a curse. I'm not seeing it that way anymore and getting stronger!!

@brennadickinson3562

2 жыл бұрын

I trained as a psychic, so I could turn the volume down, and have my own thoughts and feelings. It worked for me, at the time. It's only in the last ten years that I have understood what being a HSP empath is really about. Too long to go into here. I don't now automatically and unconsciously 'run' other people's feelings and emotions through my nervous system. I remain aware of the dangers of 'leakage' from other people. Strong ego boundaries.

It’s good to finally understand all the weirdness inside you.

@teamhuman2

4 жыл бұрын

High alx !!,, I don't think its wierd

This is so accurate, I wonder what the world would be like with only Empaths left.

@tinahuffman588

3 жыл бұрын

Peaceful and kind.

@gailcessna8343

3 жыл бұрын

the world would be a wonderful place! I'm so tired of crying about others selfishness. it should natural that when someone needs help and need money and I'm right there they know I will never say no. but God forbid 2 weeks later when they promised to pay you back and not say a word and then you have to ask them but cant find the words and I'm cringing they come back defensive like I demanded and then I really feel like crap. everything seems to make me feel like crap anymore. I guess they all can see me coming. yes empathy + empaths= good empathy + narcissists= life of hell. you wanna disappear completely without a trace. no one understands, respects, has the patience for an empath. except another empath. we should all be on an island together than all those thoughts, depressing reality thoughts would go away and I could be happy again. my narc husband is going to be the end of me. km starting to feel just like this video and I'm not happy about it.

@jotun.616

3 жыл бұрын

What it was meant to be all along.

@AgentDearestZ

3 жыл бұрын

The answers you’re getting is childish. I think people would be on guard even more.

@ghostghost2295

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of emotions!!!! Lmao

Sounds like me. Frankly I just been through too much abuse. People say I'm too nice that I'm a people pleaser and more. Well it used to hurt when they say that now I don't really care what they think.

Keep your circle small, to much of negative energy can make a empath sick. It's hard to trust people because most everybody has negativity in there hart. Even me.

@jessblackwolf5333

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate. I have no circle. I isolate.

@debarghyachattopadhyay2614

4 жыл бұрын

@@jessblackwolf5333 its better for you to breathe in that toxic energy i wasn't sure what i waa , in that process of self realisation i wasted 3 years if my life , its not easy living but we were created for some reason lets search it

@monkshavano3613

3 жыл бұрын

First thing I look at is who is this person and what do they bring to my spiritual circle

@KC-fl1ek

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessblackwolf5333 i can relate. I'd rather be at home then in public. Even going grocery shopping is hard for me. My anxiety is out the roof going into the store. I have a hard time trusting people now after a10 year marriage to a narcissist 💔😥. I didn't know there was such a thing. He left me broken all the way through. I have one friend and she is there for me when i break down!

@avidnongetit8710

3 жыл бұрын

A truth I learned. We are taught, told, exposed to the toxic lie that Everyone is a liar or mostly Negative. Truth is, we are raised to surround ourselves with needy broken people. Our very Empath abilities draw them in. But we can learn boundaries. We can learn that No is ok. We can protect ourselves. We must. Especially from energy vampires! But I've learned there are vast numbers of kind loving people out there who aren't Empaths. We just have to learn we aren't perfect, they have huge vast lives which inform their own choices and we allow them room, but not battery cables to our Empath batteries..,😉 I sincerely Hope you understand or find your "way"..

Wow I thought my friend was an empath but actually it's me! I removed her from my life because her problems are too negative and affect me. It's sad but I don't miss her or her problems.

@DivaDen

4 жыл бұрын

This happens far too much in my life. I can't handle or deal with my own issues and when "friends" issues become too much I shut them out. I miss them but not their problems but their problems are apart of them so...

@mariasartzis-pellicier1723

3 жыл бұрын

I understand that 💯% I had to do the same!

@debbysmith5346

3 жыл бұрын

I had a Narcissistic friend who totally lost it when I told her, "Your happiness is your responsibility." I don't miss her, I don't even have to reblock her.

'give too much' that one hit hard. Always wondered why I give all myself to the people that I get in a relationship with. Loving too much can drain you especially if you are in a relationship with the wrong person.

I replenish by taking my motorcycle out for a nice ride in the hills

@125daxJ

4 жыл бұрын

I love eat miles and miles at the wheel of my van. There's only one place where I feel at home and that is on the roads by myself.

@DarrenDorganMusic

4 жыл бұрын

Same nothing like it

@jessblackwolf5333

4 жыл бұрын

I had done the same for many years (been riding one machine or another since I was 6). It was the greatest release in the world...great for clearing all the clutter out of your head and grounding again. Unfortunately, I can't ride anymore. Carpal and cubital tunnel syndrome got really advanced and has done some permanent nerve damage. I have the first of a series of surgeries in 3 weeks but getting back to 100%, I've been assured, is an impossibility. Now my car is the only alternative I have, along with some pretty extreme isolation. If I avoid people, I can't get assaulted with all shit they are carrying with them and don't even know it. The damn carpal tunnel is also responsible for the blown disc in my neck. Had a pretty bad dirt bike crash riding home ( hands went numb while riding, poor throttle control...I'm sure you get it).

@melissad.gordon6283

4 жыл бұрын

@@jessblackwolf5333 I am really sad to hear that Jess. You don't deserve that treatment from anyone. You've been down a tough and long road already. I think you are being prepped for something close ahead. You'll gain the strength and wisdom needed, I know it for sure. I am saying a prayer for you!! You are worth much! And those that choose not to acknowledge it are too insecure to recognize their lack of self worth, so they need to harm others to protect themselves. It's not you.

@craig9299

4 жыл бұрын

You're name followed by a piece of tranquillity, speaks volumes about why the escape is needed, its much like myself, I will say that kind of thing in my head all day about people lol.

Depression is the battle that people only recognize when you lose it. some of us struggle with it horribly, every single day is a challenge, and you fight to stay alive and no one will notice it.

@accountabilityisadmirable

2 жыл бұрын

It's had me by the throat so long now I just want to feel nothing.

@ibnenkigalileo9256

15 күн бұрын

Wow so true. I love your sentence about the nature of depression.

Coming into this KZread channel is always a relief when I feel alone, shitty and misunderstood. It kind of makes me breathe with ease and mental peace. Thanks and love to my soul peers ☆

@tana5098

3 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you Eli Seta. 🙏😇⛪

@hwowb

Жыл бұрын

You are not alone that's one thing I Can Assure you with.

@hwowb

Жыл бұрын

We are Gifted I Now understand that. As We Go Through So Much Problems, Do you think we'll ever get a breakthrough and leave a normal life?? I'm tired of leaving this way it's draining very.

Everything is true. Knowing when we can help when not to. Also as an empath, never let anyone underestimate you by any means. For you know if being push to the point of no return, to let out your true strength to those and stand your ground. When it's over, go and recharge yourself ever more fully of strong loving energies from nature's elements and spirit. No matter what empaths we are truly loved. Even if it's just ourselves in this crazier world we live in.

@melissad.gordon6283

4 жыл бұрын

@Miss M Awe, the old intuition gets the say in this play!!! And we already understand the outcome as it reveals itself. And what not understood gets decoded shortly after. Empaths are cool!! Not because one I am but because we are deep thinking, loving, and rare spiritual beings. And we will value what's truly to be valued!!

@DivaDen

4 жыл бұрын

What elements fo you recharge yourself?

@randyphelps520

3 жыл бұрын

How come is much known about this?

@clarencedixon3290

3 жыл бұрын

@@randyphelps520 life's experiences

These videos are like manuals for the "Feeding and Caring of Empaths" Wow! That point about asking an empath to be in an uncomfortable situation really hit home with me! It doesn't happen often but whenever someone asks me a probing, intimate or sensitive question, and I sense they're being genuine, I am instantly uncomfortable yet feel myself unfolding like a flower to the sun. It is altogether thrilling and warm and exotic and hopeful and beautiful and scary...

Its a hard life, but can anyone of you even imagine a life without those feelings ?

@TheGhjgjgjgjgjg

4 жыл бұрын

Sure,I just gotta look out side and see a world of mindless,emotionless drones.

@jazzy9282

4 жыл бұрын

Ever been around a narcissist?

@MikiLund

4 жыл бұрын

Lived with one, what a nightmare

@homewardbound6471

4 жыл бұрын

You know it would be like having no sense of smell. Smaller world.

@vsatonthebeat4101

3 жыл бұрын

@@homewardbound6471 I can't smell(I mean not stinky smell but the sense) good since half a year idk first it was an allergy now I just think it's depression😂 it really is unfortunate from time to time

A total of 7:12 that perfectly, truthfully and precisely summed up my life in a nut shell. Crazy empaths, sometumes such gluttons for punishment, GOD BLESS YOU! KEEP SHINING AS YOU DO! To the creator of this video, I love you, thank you 🙏❤🕊 shared sis

This really help me understand who I am, Not who I think I am. ❤️

Going through #9 as we speak 😬 trying so hard to enlighten but just end up getting attacked

I've always said the sound of being underwater is my favorite sound, and being completely in water is like the biggest hug you can get. Now i know why I feel this way lol ♡♡

@lissettemarie7367

2 жыл бұрын

I always need to take showers when I’m overwhelmed

Thank u .it is all very true. When i can say all but for me when i feel too much i need space and when i am in pain. It is like someone stabbed me in the heart especially if i am pushed away. I am working on boundaries . being an empath is a gift and a curse.

This video is so incredibly accurate! This summarizes my personality in a 7:12 minute video. I have, however, lost touch with my creative side a bit and working on tapping back into it.

I wouldn't be watching these videos on Empaths if I had not come to realize that I am one. The wisdom of the material is of great reassurance to me. Thank you for the producing them.

@uncutjems

3 жыл бұрын

It really is. I would love to connect with people in the comments here. It feels very lonely being an empath. Apparently there are lots of us but it does not feel like I come across many if any.

Life can be a problem and death can be a release

@shornaallen9829

4 жыл бұрын

Hmmm..🤔

All 11 things resonate me. I'M EMPATH & BEING AN EMPATHS IS A GIFT 💓💓💓

Ha! a lot of these traits resonate... and I'm very good at hiding in plain sight, being very open about myself and my life experiences can be a form of hiding, as well as giving other's permission to be open about themselves, often for the first time, which is an honour and one of my purposes this time it seems. A friend once called me out with "You give the impression of being good at talking about your feelings, but you really don't do you?" Ah. Bugger, yup you've seen me!

I need to visit the ocean more

@joeyboedeker7205

4 жыл бұрын

@Desley Hemmingsen I found myself taking it personally that they closed the beaches.

@amna1939

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@donnawoodford6641

4 жыл бұрын

Go hug a tree. Walk in the grass. Plant a garden. Smell the roses. Watch the stars. Listen to the birds. Feed the squirrels. Breathe and smile.😉

@FirehouseDub

4 жыл бұрын

Me too.......its no fun being stuck in this lighthouse.

@Jungianguy

3 жыл бұрын

“It's been so long since I've seen the ocean I guess I should” -long December, counting crows.

Wow I moved to Vancouver Island because the ocean and the rainforest calms me. And changed careers from carpenter to sculpture and teaching guitar. Your channel describes me perfectly

I am 100% this!!! It is so lonely and a lot more worse when you suffer with depression

I get physically ill just thinking about being in the same room with the narcissists that I had shunned years ago - just hearing their name brings on anxiety. Whats odd, I’m not a coward...

@Jungianguy

3 жыл бұрын

Of course your not. N’s drain the life out of people. Hell, they don’t even see us as people, just targets. Coward, no. Emotionally intelligent, yes.

Because telling others...it is hard to make others understand how we really feel unless they are open minded and deeply intelligent and that's a hard quality to find ... people are scared of being different... accepting someone who is different is the same

I resonate with all of this except for the beginning part that says empaths don’t like to talk about their feelings and don’t want anyone to know their true selves. After a 7 year relationship with someone with pathologies (strong narcissistic tendencies) I’m finally learning how to have boundaries and to speak up when I feel my bullshit meter is going off. It’s still hard though, I don’t want to over compensate for having been taken advantage of and manipulated for so long.

Spot on. Growing I was this and didn't know what to do. Thought I was weird and different. Grown me is happy that I have my superpowers 😊

I have been through a lot, in the space of 3 days I drove back and forth, 60km each day when my step mother passed away, after the funeral that very day on my way home I had a accident on the highway. My car overturned from the fast lane across to the other side of the road. I came out of the with no injuries and that was 16/12/2019. Up until today none of my family came to see me.

@DivaDen

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear about the accident and no one coming to see you. Thank Goodness you weren't injured. How are you now? I'm the empaths that doesn't want anyone to come see me.

@DivaDen

4 жыл бұрын

Byw, I was in an accident on 03/01/2020 (hope I wrote the order correctly).

@singerrb4984

4 жыл бұрын

I'll bet they're right there when they want something from you!

I did really enjoyed it, I never knew I was an empath

@sunfish7021

4 жыл бұрын

Welcome home. 😘

I feel so much for so many everyday. I cry almost every day for so many. Just looked up at my gf n teared bc her energy is nothing but hurt, confused, wants help but covers up herself so carelessly with me. Just found these videos. Am currently in tears over it. I'm so glad y'all are here with me 😢

This was all spot on. Everything on the list. I'm needing to get back in touch with myself, the life lover that has been chiseled away. So I'm happy to have found these videos. Maybe they can help me get back the positivity I've lost, the me I used to be. And give me pointers in how to manage being an empath and managing the onslaught of the negative emotions. Thank you for creating this page and posting these videos.

Crazy to learn about empaths, especially when I am one who grew up with narcissistic parents, it's crazy how it forms the way we are and how people dont realize just by existing it effects us, and I'm curious has anyone felt the vibe of the world change negatively?

@singerrb4984

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. We are in troubling, scary times.

This was completely accurate about me. I wish I knew these from a tender age. But awesome video, spot on!!!

I love this girls voice. I find it soft, sweet and comforting.

Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse work on your shield is my best advice stay strong my fellow empaths

I'm an empath (I think lol) I'm also highly sensitive wich I feel has a lot in common. One realy weird thing about is is I've extualay experienced this moment where I knew something was about to happen. I went horsebackriding and I had been riding for about 3 years and never fell of. That day I knew I would fall of. I also knew I wouldn't have a serious injury. Because I knew I was prepared and I didn't try to catch my fall with my arms, otherwise I would have probably broken them. Feeling other peoples emotions is realy hard. I identify them as my own. I've become a bit better at knowing if it actually mine but it's realy hard. For me it actually make me reject all my crushes. (they always have a crush on me too) it's because what I'm feeling isn't my crush for them. I'm feeling their crush for me... In large groups (even school) it realy drains me. Because I'm feeling sooo much.

Thankyou for taking the time to make this video. I thought I was an Empath until you said that we don't tell anyone our feelings/ business but I have to have counseling and I had to cry out and ask for help to do that. So if anyone out there feels like they're an empath please don't stop yourself from asking for help. Very often just as this lovely video shows we put everybody first but, maybe a point could be made about an empath that is exactly how you described but had mental health problems like anxiety and depression and more. Now THAT is a battle. A very well made video do you do the illustration yourself as well? X

@tana5098

3 жыл бұрын

Been there and you are right.👍

I think whats so comforting about these videos is that people like us tend to feel really lonely at times, even when we are surrounded by friends because our deepest selves are a place for just us to enter. On one side I feel like this is very positive, as you have a safe place within youself, like a Castle that you can come back to. On the other hand, these thoughts and feelings can be very negative and consuming and you are with them alone and others dont know you completely, which can be very solitary.

Just found this channel this morning, and I'm crying! Thank you so much for all this content. It is 100% me. Recently I've been trying to connect with more empaths, and talking about experiences seeing our similiarties. It has been the most amazing experience!! So healing and powerful for me as an empath who has ALWAYS isolated myself, and NEVER talk about my ability, thoughts, or feelings with anyone. Thank you so much for this.

I think it's also important to mention that some of these characteristics (e.g. no.1) are also what victims of mental abuse go through (or just empath victims??) p.s. love the video!

This is true about us Empaths!

In 63 years I have gone through just about everything an empath can experience from night terrors as a child that weren't terrors but insights. Lifetime chronic insomnia can't stop thinking. Knowing beforehand the deaths of loved ones. Being used and targeted by narcissists and needy. 9 engagements I just couldn't fathom how I got into. A 30 year marriage that I finally had to end to save myself. True empaths don't just give up. A murdered friend screaming in my head to save her. Having to tell a young mans family no he's no longer alive . I've built an amazing life and then almost had everything destroyed by trusting someone that my intellect screamed not to trust. Beautiful friends and time spent abroad because I was able to see jump in, to take the chance where others wouldn't . And a week held captive because I didn't listen to myself. The most important thing an empath can do is never lose sight of their inner guidance. Never let the emotions of others block your own. This political climate of lies and turmoil has been the hardest time of my life . Turn off the media the noise of the world even just for a day or so. Protect and care for yourself. Empathic burnout is real . As a forensic psychologist and also a holistic health practitioner. I advise it to those who aren't empaths as well. We are all empathic to some degree no matter how minor.

I have an "Old Soul" as well as fitting the descriptions of an Empath, and its been very good (prosperously), and bad (sibling/friends hatred and betrayal) experiences. But, I'm still being lead to even bigger and better things that can't be shared with negative discouraging people... But, there's someone (extraordinarily unique) who's presence gives me peace, strength and a hope for many good things, I just hope his gazingly piercing eyes are really true!!! :)

A blessing and a curse. Less and less the latter as life goes on.

Mostly true :-) sometimes it's nice to watch these videos and see that when it's not alone and if there's others out there that do understand

Now I am begging to understand myself and it took me 40 yrs and watching these videos. These videos have really opened my eyes

yes thank you for these videos. at 64 years old never heard of narcissist or empath but its comforting to know I'm not alone. I always thought I "wore my heart on my sleeve" take everything personally. hurt easily . my law DO NOT DO OR SAY ANYTHINGTO ANYONE THAT YOU WOULD NOT WANT TO HEAR OR FEEL" TOO BAD MORE PEOPLE DONT HAVE THAT TO LIVE BY. THE WORLD WOULD BE A LITTLE KINDER PLACE TO LIVE. ONE CAN DREAM, AND WE ARE THE DREAMERS OF THE WORLD. RIGHT?

I notice that I replenish by just standing in the woods, 10 minutes surounded by green and I'm good.

@ReyRomantico

4 жыл бұрын

Wild McCrae me too ❤️

@kingkooper7522

3 жыл бұрын

I agree im drawn to wilds and water,peace in nature.

@rosiestewart870

3 жыл бұрын

when i can't visit the woods, i find that even sitting on my patio, looking at the trees, and hearing the birds, can restore me, at least a bit.

I have been reading the comments. I noticed that there were very few comments on the situations we find ourselves in when we love deeply. I am often drained from loving deeply. I do it anyway, because I love to LOVE... but when we love controlling or manipulative people who may not realize they are that way... hmmm... what then? Family is hard to avoid or "replace" with more positive people. I have learned that is not always an an option. I have changed myself in a myriad of ways over the course of my life to suit others, leaving myself feeling terrible in the end. Yes, more boundaries of course. But like someone pointed out, when you bring up the issues, you (I) am attacked for it. the attack can be devastating to my emotional state. I have struggled with worthiness for the better part of my life as well because of having a narcissist mother (who also happens to be an empath, who's narcissism stems from abuse of her childhood) So, there are complicated relationships and we "soldier on" with the hope that we can survive them, but what is "normal" for us???? I ask that in all sincerity. I cannot seem to hold my emotional head above water long enough to maintain a lifestyle of joy. I practice gratitude, spirituality, self care, take my retreats to replenish, and I always have to "come home" again and live with people that challenge me or censor me or try to change my nature in small ways because it doesn't suit them.... I'm sorry for the rant, I just hadn't seen this covered below, so I wanted to bring it up. Please engage with me and discuss this. I need help. My partner and I are in couples counseling and I considered going to counseling for just myself too. I was in counseling as a child. I think it helped some.

@markusbroyles1884

4 жыл бұрын

It gets better Dannielle ~ God is good and loves us and knows our names. All of this chaos was predicted by prophets like Christ in the Bible. It's taken me a long lifetime of searching because I was so rebellious in the beginning. But now I see the bigger picture. Special people chosen of God have suffered along with our contemporaries and stand to help when it all comes time to harvest the crop of truth and Light from righteous people and to divide the good from the evil in the fulness of time. We can just keep being lovers of truth and spice the world of people as salt ourselves being here to edify each other and witness it all. Aloha + God Bless

@michelcolet6975

4 жыл бұрын

I'd love to get in touch with you if possible. I've found it rare to find anyone that gets it all and I feel I can relate.

@danniellenelson9446

4 жыл бұрын

@@michelcolet6975 you can email me if you'd like. owlwomanwhoohoo@gmail.com I am also on facebook so I use messenger to talk most times since it's faster and and easier.

@braklola

4 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@singerrb4984

4 жыл бұрын

I understand completely! I finally, after a lifetime of always giving and them always taking, I finally had to completely cut them out of my life. It was painful, sure, but I could no longer be the scapegoat for my dysfunctional family. I finally have peace. They will NEVER change no matter how much we wish and how hard we try to "buy" their love and approval, they will NEVER change. Good Luck!

Wow. Wow. WOW. Now I fully understand WHY I do the things I do, and why I am the way I am. I "recharge" by being at the ocean. And I do love DEEPLY. Sometimes, it's a lonely world for us. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I see it as a blessing! I can't thank you enough for your wonderful channel. I'm sending love to whomever is reading this💓💓💓💓💓💓

Omg I am so emotional right now, because every single things is correct, this has my heart racing, I am a holistic therapist and Its my passion the love for helping people, but sometimes at the end of the treatment I am so sick where I sometimes throw and or sometimes I am so overwhelmed, I now know why I love being quality me time in a quiet place I thought I was just being strange,

How can we help others but not ourselves? I've started walking early in the morning this week. Hopefully I can get my position energy & health back.

Its a blessing and a curse to be an empath...I crave to be a happy whole empath using what power I have for the good of others but I am currently an unhealthy very depressed empath that is doing quite the opposite im afraid! Pray for me!

@DivaDen

4 жыл бұрын

I'm in thr same position. Stress an anxiety is taken over but I want out of this state I want happiness & health but not sure how to balance this empath thing I just discovered last year and no one seems to help when you ask...

I do feel what others feel and also know when danger or negative things are going on. Sometime you have to say what you feel. YOU JUST HAVE TO. THANK YOU.PLC

Thank you for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective

Yes, if we, empaths can experience two emotions in the brain at the same time, and negative feelings around us, no wonder why we get tired a lot. Seeing nature must release our stress cause we can experience two positive emotions at once. Mother Earth gives plants, and trees, extra energy, while getting rid of carbon dioxide ( negative air) Even ten minutes a day seems to do the trick. But, we need to find others like us. We must realize we are not alone😁

Very nice video ♥️

This explains a lot about me.

I am 83 ! It’s never to late to find who you really are !👍❤️😇🙏🕊🍀

Does anybody els feel like heaven will be home. Scott

@homewardbound6471

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

@wanderer-xr5pz

4 жыл бұрын

I hope

@thediabolicalempath7246

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@tana5098

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I feel like i'm in the wrong place. Heaven is home to me. ⛪🌻😇

@chellefell1331

3 жыл бұрын

yes. there are no words in heaven. people just know... and for the first time in my life, I will be with others souls who feel feelings the way I do

As we are so intuitive, why do we so easily fall prey to narcissists and manipulators?

You do speak the truth. all the 11 things I can relate to, leaving me drained and down every time people are around me.

WOW! I feel like I've been validated. I wish this study and information was available years ago , I would have had a better understanding who I was and life would have been easier.

We don't play all our cards. Prove your worth for the best is save for last

We must be in peace calmness we love forgive but don't hurt us please be honest because we know if you are liying misleading but will not tell you.

I love these videos cause as an empath it's lovely to feel realated to.

Yes empathy need time in nature! Its such a healer. I knew I'm supposed to be crazy, but trees sooth me and emit a positive vibe. I could almost swear they talk to me and tell me everything will be ok. Try it, sit under a tree or in a Grove of them

Kindness out of scarcity is a trick of ego

I've agreed with most except that I don't try to hide everything. Sometimes it helps me to speak about it. And I'm comfortable enough that I don't worry about judgement. I guess I never realized that empaths hide their spiritual gift. Before I knew I was one and looking back, I was completely introverted but I'm out of my shell. Accepting myself has changed that whole dynamic. I'm still learning how to juggle other's feelings over my own though. It's not easy. And this narcissist thing is very true. I attract them and I'm only just beginning that journey on recovery. I'm still with my narc boyfriend because I am not strong enough to break free in that area. I don't want to break free but I'm finally stating what I see when he "narcs" over me. That confusion is gone because I'm aware now. I'm more messed up than I probably came off as but I'm never going to deny that I'm not. Taking life one day at a time.

@joeblow8757

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! I became so overwhelmed by everything and noone feeling or seeing what I do I speak up on it and try to get others to understand. I like using analogies. There is always an analogy that someone will understand.

@homewardbound6471

4 жыл бұрын

I too know exactly what you are saying. This is my trick - l remind myself that the light is always in front of me. Press on.

I had I slick smile this whole video. Because yes these are things we can't let them know... .

I like this a lot. Also, that problem with narcissistic people is very real. I've had to go to great lengths to avoid thoes kinds of people.

@wanderer-xr5pz

4 жыл бұрын

Same and the energy they give you is so negative and confusing makes you question yourself constantly

When my privacy got invaded, my empathy went down the drain. I've been trying to reforge. Sometimes in vain. I know someone who is a more true empath then I ever was. I think of entertainers as rotten empaths, well, some of them. I was bit by that stupid bug but never wanted to really stand out from others. Then I got contrarian and weird because of personal desperation.

#1 thing an empath will hide from you is themselves, #2 their bank card, #3 their chocolate

@homewardbound6471

4 жыл бұрын

Lol!

@janedoe5829

4 жыл бұрын

kristina mcclure 😂😂

Good to know who I am, I am a empath.

This was such a good video,thank you for making this video😊😊😆😆

If feels so good to find this youtube page & realize your special, not weird, powerful & not alone #HeyokaEmpath

So... 11 things that regular people will sometimes hide from you, when they are feeling really sensitive. [facepalm]

Nailed it. Now I know why I love scuba diving so much.

This is EVERYTHING THANK you. It is a blessings and a curse. Many blessings #Godiseverything