Things The Heyoka Empath Does That Make Them HARD To LOVE | Heyoka Empath | Empath

Things The Intuitive Empath Does That Make Them HARD To LOVE | Heyoka Empath | Empath
Creating a love story with someone needs a great deal of work and sacrifice, and one of the most crucial aspects is understanding your partner's traits. Loving an empath is identical. While it's true that their qualities are distinct, understanding their nature will substantially enhance your relationship. Empaths Refuge
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0:00 - Opening
1:57 - Empaths prefer solitude
2:52 - Typically, empaths find it difficult to say "no."
3:38 - Empaths often behave as though they were parents or teachers
4:22 - Honesty to the core
4:54 - Empaths are actively assisting others
5:30 - Frequently, empaths take things too personally
6:10 - Empaths prefer to attract those who desire their assistance rather than their affection
6:45 - Most people do not comprehend empaths
7:19 - Ending
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  • @dreamwalker5519
    @dreamwalker55192 жыл бұрын

    No one is difficult to love once you understand what love is ❤

  • @stephanieporter2892

    @stephanieporter2892

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is so sweet.

  • @solcordero9412

    @solcordero9412

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly I will meet a man that will love my empath traits and every part of me unconditionally.

  • @howardjamespatterson4119

    @howardjamespatterson4119

    10 ай бұрын

    True , like the difference is between being in love ( the early courtship bubble ) with someone and loving someone ( the mature love that is considerate of many facets including freedom and few demands , more understanding , kindness , intuition ) . I prefer loving . 🔥

  • @cpickett2376

    @cpickett2376

    8 ай бұрын

    What is love ....... and what causes it

  • @Christie_OUR_TURN_2024

    @Christie_OUR_TURN_2024

    3 ай бұрын

    Well said 💯🫶

  • @robbiePlanetaSano
    @robbiePlanetaSano2 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend and I are both empaths with a slightly different style. My boyfriend is better at deciding who he lets into his life, I am still learning. We manage a global school for sustainable living, and I am president and founder on both boards of directors ( one is in Costa Rica, the other in california) , he is in charge of all the facilities and the farmers markets and artistic decisions. It works because we are so much alike and have learned to give each other space and still support each others efforts in our different camps. We have been friends for twenty years and lived together for 5 years in the beginning, now we live together again. He has a house of his own where he goes when either of us need space. It has taken me a long time to get that he is an empath ,too. I feel his feelings from a distance and know when he is stressed or anxious, He feels my feelings from a distance, too. Once, long ago, we lived in a remote area without telephones and I had an emotional breakdown due to an assault, he felt it thirty miles away and showed up within the hour. It is common for us to know how the other partner is over long distances. Like we are attached cosmically in some strange way. We are very happy together and enjoy working together and cooking together and building and remodeling as well as building teams that work harmoniously together. We are best friends. Basically, with a lot of physical chemistry and emotional chemistry. Our only challenge is understanding who feels what, as we feel each other's feelings and it is not always clear where the feelings originate, with him or with me. I have always felt that he is the only person I have ever known who really "gets" me.

  • @Lc-yy6rn

    @Lc-yy6rn

    2 күн бұрын

    learn manipulation , stocicism for managing emotions and protect energy ,learn to spot redflags , green flags , listen to your feelings , bad people trigger your body tell you . being out of any reproach ,integrity , you can spot easy and you can trigger them tellings things but not alone when a woman ,there are opportunities at job front of the others ,telling the personn did really bad something . most of them hate rejection , discard against discard , if you feel that they fake step back don't try to connect everybody, kick those who give bad sensations , les play victims it s always other people fault never , it s hard for excuses or fake one about your feeling not the fact ,they avoid accountability so they like jobs where there is immunity ,some hard too hard to spot . you must work and set boundaries ,tell it if they don't don't let them be crossed ,punish discard ,ghost don't forgive even if they are not narcissists ,people don't change , maybe a close in burnout for exemple . no contact regime , they have no hobby ,passions real friends , see those run after girl , those who are eternal single and very cool ,it s good sign , authentic people are natural , when you cutt access after spotting one dont keep those who stay friends with ,you can spot those who are attracted by them avoid too . there are redflags for different type , they are weird with money ,some have compulsivity , see their ex 's if they were all down ,they like to tell nice personnalities traits they don't have , let them cry for fake but dont keep people like that as employee ,coworker sellors ,etc when you discard ,ghost they will do a smear campaign , but if they have experience they dont do it if there are people who love you too much ,personnaly , most of the time i dont show in public how i could be close from some . but if you are too hard too manipulate they will respect you but 1st opportunity they will foul you robbing is their speciality ,they are snitch . if you are the boss they will be too kind you can feel the witch style ,no inner peace ,they want to shine, praise , chicken fake confidence less dangerous but they hate kind people ,they crave vulnerabity ,jealousy , lies , introvert are more dangerous most of the time , so cover narcissists do things in your back not in front . look at "mental healness" he is a narcissist" they can t heal but they can change they up grade , if there is big money i can have good behaviors , they try to put division and scapegoating if there is someone who receive toxicity from familly little broken empath ,or borderline or gifted are easy to vampire et turn crazy . be sure gifted can't turn narcissist but they can turn borderline or burnout , nervous system can break so must watch ,spot ,understand triggers , to much toxicity bad event that trigger an old trauma not repaired , sleeping and eating good . forget about excitment ,emotionalism . you should take a look a the mbti and eneagram if you don't use it . with BF is very to understand yourself better and the other ,how it works together to see where you can have an issue sometime . you can visualize good things , understand you strentghts and weakness , what isssues can have your type , when you are nice empath your grew up healthy ,but lot of poison on the road so don't crave external validation , they can use it ,learn how to say no with pleasure and class as a woman , never find excuses for others for things you must never accept for everything ,if people dont care what you want and dont want . kindess ,respect and peace but no naivety . those who avoid explaination ,don't hesitate to tell what you think. toxic people is all about control ,domination ,fear , they can have friends by interest ,each one function , they can love ,some can love their children a little , it s hard to manage guilt and shame , but higher rank like psychopath /sociopaths /some middle range , they deny , play the victim ,they will test empathy with stories but listen to you at the first and they are not clear ,don't talk about them ,behind the facade it s empty ,there words are annoying ,negativity ,they dont hide love but ultimate hate ,lot of are pedophile ,avoid to marry one if you BF is done with you hahaha much success for your work ,if you need . the good way someone you know ,you trust , in very good friendship you can have great partners when people struggle to understand you . empaths attract fake prince charming and you miss amazing people being taken by the one who choosed you fast and very hurry . you can take back your energy . they must let you feel that you had a problem to have a heart ,emotions so you think that sabotage you receive was your fault . devaluation or fake nice words ,when you are exhausted put you down ,they can use bad things that happenend to fake support and make you feeling guilty ,well being is the best vengeance . learning from the past ,take good decisions . if you have the doubht theirss no doubt ,don t risk bad surprise or trap ,trap is no for begginners ,women must have to be very careful , poker faces are good ,don't argue , tell fatal truth , stay away from fear ,stress,gossip . understand how to charge your energy ,like nature ,alone so you must be 2 introverts , look at gifted or not , discipline with boundaries , selfesteem better people pleasing . avoid takers . focus on your self and real priorities . you first and BF after same for him , having different and common projects is very . there are sigmas empaths most INXJ they have integrity , they are cold observer but sweet inside , they are very confident calm , we are beast but with heyoka ,very high EQ and IQ , but i dont use my brain it runs alone . since always people trust me instant they are right , when we open the mouth it is smart or dumb for me but psychopath have only wicked so they are focus more on interests. sigma are the unbreakable they brain is solid are more calm but you must cross their shield , we can have trust issues ,this feeling for come for true reasons we have honnor ,lone wolves , but psychopaths fake confidence they try to copy but they are snitch , if a sigma watch you i can do it without feeling uneasy , boundaries let them respected , feel my your body tellls your , a nice person don't take all their friends , if you a winter job for exemple ,i will try to grow morel in the alps . if you know someone who have an organic farm or whatever in cannabis , i love to grow plants but my back is limited to not fat charge . i you grow babies with your BF , i know a bit too much manipulation because i wanted find solutions to protect low EQ children , different strategies if the 1st is a sigma very good , or empath it s good too benevolence instead of jealousy 2 opposits world , with a sigma even if there are controlling parent broken mother ,we are sweet beast we protect nobody test us , i feel a bit like their chief , sometimes . avoid broken people but someone targeted can be triggered , im dangerous for toxic people ,i can't loose , psychopath have sometimes black eyes , i don't fight , sigma gaze ,or heyoka one ,is very afraying for those who attack you from behind they run away fast , i the more thin i need to eat and don't fight , i don't care ,my energy is too powerful inside ,calm like water but i protect i kill with my sweetneess fatal words . a 1200pounds man who is front of 120pounds who is sweet not affraid ,i m not naive , maybe since my 3 yo most evil people are mute , instead of being scapegoat , they thought i will be the black sheep , i was the golden grandchild both side ,evil and good granparents , dictators they have to fake like me , they can love , they can loose their overpower very fast , psychopath and sociopath , were very nice around me with everybody ,i promise they helped me to do the good for free traped . they don't come back with me . for high lvl i prepare counter , they don't imagine that my third eye saw everything ,they can't understand how i find solution , you can remember your past friends ,BFs, in nusery school i remember who was who ,2 worst turned very nice men they hated me so much i humiliated all bullies ,i didn't trust them too much i thought that they turned good , i can understand weakness of wicked people ,they fear for their little person . stress for nothing ,fragile ,during 35yo maybe i helped and solved every issues on my road ,bad guys are hidden snitches and all bisexual . i never used lies in mindgames 🤢 i have to as fatal , p qd que des gens tranquilles ,i give good advices for your ladies to avoid traps

  • @maxrico6660
    @maxrico66602 жыл бұрын

    I've discovered that I'm an empath. A lot of things make sense now.

  • @leylamaxaley5325
    @leylamaxaley53252 ай бұрын

    On point!! We are not selfish but selflessly isolate ourselves to cope with challenges rather than hurting others

  • @traxikscifi8105
    @traxikscifi810511 ай бұрын

    Well! A grown up Empath, can say no... and knows what he does not want. Simple.😊

  • @erindowling8540
    @erindowling85409 ай бұрын

    Heyoka Empath is not hard to love once excepted. Most people are drawn to them. Others either love them or just dont like to hear the truth.

  • @Mx.KARLEY

    @Mx.KARLEY

    2 ай бұрын

    more to the point, I am a mirror to other's insecurities and my zodiac mars-lilith makes it so i am either hated immediately or loved. quite a life ngl... lol

  • @acool6401
    @acool6401 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! This video was spot on! I didn’t think a heyoke empath was even a thing and I took it with a grain of salt but apparently it is because these attributes described me with amazing accuracy.

  • @davidarundel6187
    @davidarundel61872 жыл бұрын

    My mum , had no choice in the matter , the rest of the family did . This described my life to a Tee . Nature makes up for the moments humans cannot , or will not .

  • @gregor9654
    @gregor9654 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for a BLESSED PART OF YOUR UNIQUE WORK BEING TO ME, I have strugled for a LONG LONG TIME not knowing who I should be, who I acctualy am in the Big and MOST UNIQUE PLAN OF THE ALMIGHTY AND ONLY LORD JESUS CHRIST FIR THE GLORY OF HIS FATHER OUR GOD. May HE, THE CREATOR OF ALL THINGS MAY BLESS YOU ALWAYS. I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ THANK YOU 😊

  • @anewrose
    @anewrose2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this I can relate to most of it! It helps me understand myself better.

  • @shapyrmashah7595
    @shapyrmashah7595 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You so very much for this Powerful True Words of Empath Characteristics. I definitely needed this clarification.

  • @rhondasnow7752
    @rhondasnow7752 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I need to say this without harming anyone’s feelings, but it’s very nice that you think us for watching and asked to share the video but many of the other videos that I have watched you say it sometimes six or seven times during the video you might try just to say it once and leave it in the comments or in the description box I hope you understand

  • @Coupy-pie

    @Coupy-pie

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha that is something that I have noticed. If I start a KZread channel I won’t ever tell people to like the video and subscribe etc, people can decide that for themselves. My interpretation is, “I want more money so share the video, subscribe and like it” comes across as very needy.

  • @vesselsoffaith4756
    @vesselsoffaith4756 Жыл бұрын

    Great video.

  • @Coupy-pie
    @Coupy-pie Жыл бұрын

    Well currently I’m pushing everyone away from me because no one understands me, they see me as a threat or I come across as intimidating when all I’m trying to do is help - doesn’t change the person in me though. I know there is a partner in the universe that will understand me and love me for me. I’ve only just discovered this personality in me so friends and family are a bit confused.

  • @sublimetrance

    @sublimetrance

    Жыл бұрын

    At this point, I am thinking only God...

  • @googleshitsyt5557

    @googleshitsyt5557

    Жыл бұрын

    That partner is 1st and all INSIDE you...

  • @julianamallory3547
    @julianamallory3547 Жыл бұрын

    I cure people because I mimic you and you hate that but I have to do it. In the end my help will give you a better life.

  • @cherylowen1093
    @cherylowen10932 жыл бұрын

    I think it is wrong to assume empaths belong in just 1 box, because many of us are aware of our nature and have learned to protect themselves and act accordingly in relationships.

  • @kingboat1200

    @kingboat1200

    9 ай бұрын

    fr through a lot of experience and self reflection im perfectly fine with being in the rebel catagory if there is one for myself lol

  • @Symphonia1983
    @Symphonia19835 ай бұрын

    If that empath is more focused on the family's health and also consider solving their own problems that could be a good trait.

  • @ilonagunszebn2674
    @ilonagunszebn2674 Жыл бұрын

    honesty is the best policy

  • @hayatilun3979
    @hayatilun39792 жыл бұрын

    Yes so true. I have all. Very Hard to maintain one love relationship

  • @LanaAnneMD
    @LanaAnneMD2 жыл бұрын

    ALL of the above. My questions: 1/ Do I just pray and wait for the law of attraction to "appear"? and 2/ Is a Sigma male better? I CANNOT do clingy and I do need my space, but there is still a void because my heart has such a great capacity to love " all in"; ( nearly lost myself in a toxic narc "marriage", and am so open to that connection again 100% . However, everyone comes to me for help - how can I find my "pillar"/ my friend/ my "complement?" Any suggestions? This video was awesome thank you🙌🌈

  • @Coupy-pie

    @Coupy-pie

    Жыл бұрын

    Law of attraction is based on your vibrations, if you vibrate at a high frequency you’ll attract things in your life but it also comes from the mind - you have to truly believe what it is that you want with no negative emotion otherwise it won’t work and you have to act like you already have it. You’ll know if you’re vibrating at a high frequency if animals are constantly coming to you. I’m a heyoka empath, these are my experiences. Sigma males are just above empaths I believe. I know how you feel, I was also in a narc relationship but honestly it’s best to seperate yourself from them and heal, it’s what I learned - I know how hard that is as I suffered a broken heart 2 times from the same person. Once you heal you can easily make logical decisions that aren’t emotionally dictated. I’m still looking for a compatible partner, but just focusing on my career at the moment.

  • @user-md9yv7jx2c
    @user-md9yv7jx2c3 ай бұрын

    During an argument, my kid brother accused me of pontificating. I was shocked then, but maybe I'm starting to get the point.

  • @richardcurley1129
    @richardcurley11297 ай бұрын

    Wish I would've found these videos before my wife passed. The understanding my family needed. The understanding I couldn't give.

  • @yesiltarla2320

    @yesiltarla2320

    5 ай бұрын

    It's okay. Pray for her. There's much we can do after a person passes away. May God compensate you and your family for your loss.

  • @donnadaniels5095
    @donnadaniels5095 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video🎯 I am different, type of empath and do not sacrifice myself, for all people, wen see you're not responding, to the help I provide, move on , will not waste my energy ,or my time ,on Ex narcissistic people., with the emotional needs.. HEYOKA/SIGMA Empath 👁Awakening 👁

  • @anthonylemison2233
    @anthonylemison2233 Жыл бұрын

    They will never understand us

  • @Mx.KARLEY

    @Mx.KARLEY

    2 ай бұрын

    if they ask questions and listen they will

  • @elizabetharmah9971
    @elizabetharmah99712 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣👍👍💕💕 you are 100% percent

  • @paulstoran7183
    @paulstoran7183 Жыл бұрын

    Namaste 🙏 👋 thankyou God bless all beings 🙏 👋 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 💛 🙏

  • @user-hc7in9pb7y
    @user-hc7in9pb7y4 ай бұрын

    Holy smokes! I've been a tutor sice 3rd grade, I help everyone willing to ask...... from the heart...

  • @user-hc7in9pb7y

    @user-hc7in9pb7y

    4 ай бұрын

    Woops wrote that fast

  • @debbyphillips6148
    @debbyphillips61482 жыл бұрын

    That's close to what might be true

  • @josephmcc234dy3
    @josephmcc234dy3 Жыл бұрын

    I’ll be alone forever. I’m Heyoka.

  • @katomartin7660
    @katomartin76608 ай бұрын

    i think it,s so true but heyoka empaths learn from there mistakes so there can be a change

  • @christianagehrer1726
    @christianagehrer1726 Жыл бұрын

    If anyone wants to listen to this so it sounds ‘normal’, change the speed of the video to 1.25X the speed

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 Жыл бұрын

    4:48 Empaths Prefer The Truth Most More Than Anything Else Matters In Their Life.. As An Empath If I Catch Any 1% Amount Of Lie In My Personal Relationship That Makes Me Turn Into Think Whole Another Lvl Of Negative Aspects Abt My Closed One & Specially For Spouse/Lover... We're The Sensitive Soul That No One Can Hide Their Actual Truth Frm Us.. We Catch The Lie In People's Vibe/Aura..😊 *FOR ME..."It's Better To Stay Away Frm Any Relationship Where The Truth(Even White Lies!) Hasn't Meet Lyk The Ray Of ☀️"🙂

  • @videreecrederecredereevidere
    @videreecrederecredereevidere Жыл бұрын

    I am heyoka, and im in the hardctime of awakening.... Why Sole wish to habe such "Gifts" which means you habe a Hard way and every step you do must be seeing from every side, Urs work, itshard and hurts..... Alone see the earth... That makes ne sad, angry, let Mr cry and scream, why the most not see the horrible Situation, its 12:00.30 whe havnt lot time..

  • @thejourney9360
    @thejourney93605 күн бұрын

    💯%

  • @ssiddons33
    @ssiddons336 ай бұрын

    So what kind of personality types are the best companions with empaths?

  • @nicolelashae
    @nicolelashae Жыл бұрын

    Can someone who is not an empath explain why the things mentioned are "difficult"?

  • @Christie_OUR_TURN_2024
    @Christie_OUR_TURN_20243 ай бұрын

    I disagree. No is a complete sentence and I have strong boundaries and a strong sense of discernment. Learned through the college of hard knocks. I'm transparent and open minded and respect a hard truth vs being pacified with a lie. I will be done with that person bc i will question everything they say moving forward and I protect my energy and peace above all. I'm extremely kind, understanding and have a strong moral compass, but I can read a room without words. If you acquire basic human decency then empaths are a welcoming addition to your life as an unwaivering trustworthy friend.

  • @yesiltarla2320
    @yesiltarla23205 ай бұрын

    I don't understand the choice of the visual part of the video! How is this relevant to the topic?!!

  • @elizabetharmah9971
    @elizabetharmah99712 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏💕💕

  • @yesiltarla2320
    @yesiltarla23205 ай бұрын

    Since when saying the truth is easy?? 😲

  • @SquirrelThis
    @SquirrelThis Жыл бұрын

    This was interesting but wasn't specific to the heyoka type empath?

  • @empathsrefuge

    @empathsrefuge

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks,,

  • @dianewyatt8679
    @dianewyatt8679 Жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @kala4540
    @kala45402 жыл бұрын

    What about Heyoka ?

  • @SepplMooser
    @SepplMooser Жыл бұрын

    What kind a silly pictures are this in the video? They don't match with the audial content. And what does that have to do with Heyokas?

  • @kimberlydragone6015
    @kimberlydragone60152 жыл бұрын

    I like the message, the video made no sense. Maybe next time just film the ocean or something like that if you need a visual.

  • @santinamarie4699
    @santinamarie4699 Жыл бұрын

    Treating everyone the same is actually what Jesus was asking us to do. To treat everyone as we would want to be treated. In paths just naturally do that. But it is not unfortunate, it's meant to mutate the population towards love and caring.

  • @LisaLisa001
    @LisaLisa001 Жыл бұрын

    Literally everything I love about myself.

  • @tredd9019
    @tredd90192 жыл бұрын

    What is a "Heyoka" Empath?

  • @cherylowen1093

    @cherylowen1093

    2 жыл бұрын

    The most intuitive and strong Empath. We are rare and most empaths can identify with many attributes of all 7 archetypes of Empaths.

  • @tredd9019

    @tredd9019

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cherylowen1093 Hmmm...it's a Sioux word, and means, literally, contrary. Just wondering in what context you're borrowing it.

  • @justindenney-hall5875

    @justindenney-hall5875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tredd9019 It means "Sacred Clown"

  • @shadowdancer1358
    @shadowdancer13582 жыл бұрын

    I have to agree I dislike most of the videos that come with this information. It feels misleading or meaningless and puts me off. Please improve your visuals!

  • @lostpuppy3955
    @lostpuppy3955 Жыл бұрын

    Obviously the maker of this video is not empathy ...it's feels like a narcissist twist ..

  • @thisisme3238
    @thisisme32382 жыл бұрын

    White lies? So you're telling people to lie to have and establish relationships? No wonder we can't see how many subscribers you have ... well, here's ANOTHER lost subscriber! Get real

  • @tammy1692

    @tammy1692

    2 жыл бұрын

    Buh-Bye

  • @kalimakahikina6975
    @kalimakahikina69753 ай бұрын

    You are fired you’re off track. You have no clue what you’re talking about so you’re not gonna make your KZread popular because those are all lies.