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@aishahassan-gj9vq

Жыл бұрын

This is really eye opening, thank you

@joyjacobs5273

Жыл бұрын

😊Hi Lee

@toihong4832

Жыл бұрын

Let us be the last ones who are not

1.Wants you to be happy 2.Interest in his interest 3.Initiate sex 4.Wants to be praised and acknowledged 5.Encourage him to adventure 6.Confidence in him 7. Respect

@chelsabrinkman4076

6 жыл бұрын

If anything, I would move respect to number one. I think everything you say to a man or do for a man has to be filtered through the lens of respect. Respect = Love for men, in general. I think most men would rather be respected than loved (as we think of love) if they had to choose.

@shippou21

5 жыл бұрын

@@chelsabrinkman4076 well, i always think that any youtuber guru list always starts from the least to the most important one. Like, they save the best for the last. So, I think in this list, respect is the most important one.

@chainyrabbit

5 жыл бұрын

Not really

@chainyrabbit

5 жыл бұрын

@@chelsabrinkman4076 I honestly don't give a crap if my wife respects me. Respect is a silly thing we tell each other is important

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

@@chainyrabbit That is SO WRONG. IT IS SO SO SO IMPORTANT! HE BETTER RESPECT ME! IT IS NOT SILLY AT ALL!

Watching my parents (married 76 years! Passed 1 month apart, both 97) I came to believe that a couple will fall in and out of love a number of times in a long relationship. Stick with it: They ended up with the most protective, adoring relationship I've had the honor of viewing.

@rosejacklyn

3 жыл бұрын

I believe this 100%. ppl change and if you remember to love each other in the good and bad as life takes you down different paths, you can make it. But you have to make an effort and learn from one another. This is also based on observing some great relationships over the years and others that failed.

@BeverlyM52

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosejacklyn Personally, I wish I'd been wiser when I was young. I wish I'd known God when I was young, too! They probably go together. ;) Still, I'm so blessed to have been in the bleachers during important parts of my dear parents' love/life.

@MsBee-oz7vd

2 жыл бұрын

Bev, what an honor that you were able to witness that! That is wonderful!

@BeverlyM52

2 жыл бұрын

@@MsBee-oz7vd Amen, Ms. Bee..And thank you! I was so lucky to spend almost every evening for 2 1/2 years with them at the end. We got to say everything. And they were wonderful parents! I wasn't so great (Divorced mom), but these great parents of mine helped me with my own kids.

@tantig5923

2 жыл бұрын

@@BeverlyM52 There is nothing wrong with you… You are great. I am sure your mother and father would agree. Divorced doesn’t mean defeated. There is hope There is Love and it’s beautiful the second time around as if it was the only. I believe it for you♥️ 🇯🇲

Most women I know, including me, always get passionate about their man's interest, but it is rarely reciprocated.

@jimmynewman9436

3 жыл бұрын

Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...

@jrrichard1977

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Sally, I am in the same boat. So frustrating. I hope things improve for you. Hugs

@ravinderkaur5812

3 жыл бұрын

1¹

@paulahenderson8723

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!! It's nice to see that mem actually appreciate the lil things!!

@Castielsgirl

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. You just don’t get the reciprocation you see from our end.

The list is almost the same for women if you change just a few words and take it to a higher level of abstraction 1. She wants you to be happy 2 she wants you to take interest in her interests 3. She wants you to initiate connection (through conversation, not just through sex - do the former and you'll have more of the latter than you ever dreamed) 4. She wants to be praised and acknowledged (especially for things OTHER then her looks/body) 5. She wants you to encourage her to have a life and community outside of her relationship with you (and the kids) 6. She wants your confidence in her 7. She has a deep desire for your respect ----- Men often kill #6 and #7 by mansplaining and assuming she can't figure out anything mechanical. Men are often afraid of impairing their masculinity if they do #2

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3 жыл бұрын

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@thomaschristopher1710

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@annstropes2236

3 жыл бұрын

Yes to all of them!!!

@hari325

2 жыл бұрын

@@RoddyPipersCorneas Dude, did you even understand what she even wrote even to the tiniest extent? No one expects you to like or take part in 'girly' hobbies. She just wants you to be accepting of her having a life outside of you and your children. Not only accepting, but encouraging as well. You seem like that bitter so called pro male activist whose only contribution to men's rights is complaining about feminists on youtube channels with a misplaced sense of self righteousness.

@chasegreen237

2 жыл бұрын

I think constant criticism is demeaning but men usually do that because they want to help/fix whatever is wrong rather than be buttholes. Rest assured, there are some guys who genuinely are butt holes and get off to criticizing and belittling you. But many men just want to help and feel useful, especially with something they’re familiar with.

I’m one of those “strong” women. I’ve been a single mom for 20 years, put myself through college twice. I work long hours. What do I secretly want in a relationship? Old fashioned manners; to be treated as special & delicate. To have a man offer to help me carry something heavy, hold my door, my chair. I get told my men that they respect me because of my strength, but I don’t want to have to be strong all the time.

@phanicekhalayi8250

2 жыл бұрын

I know the feeling ma

@kelliefenton6482

2 жыл бұрын

I JUST WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A LADY!!! ROMANCE...A TRUE GENTLE MAN...

@chrisbrand5728

Жыл бұрын

Same for me ladies but no one seems to want me.

@c.duesler7255

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisbrand5728 hold the line. He's out there looking for you. 😉

@chrisbrand5728

Жыл бұрын

@@c.duesler7255 I hope it's not a she! I am a she and only go one way!!

Matt!! She wasn't thanking you for paying for dinner...she was thanking you for giving her your time and attention. Really that's what most of us want. Also on the appreciation comment, I truly think the most lost words in a relationship are " I'm sorry"... I think many people remember to thank each other for taking time out, but the "I'm sorry" gets lost when someone has been let down. I don't expect for anyone to be perfect, but at least acknowledge that you've let someone down. If you do that...then you get the chance to make it right. If you don't....and it's been more than a few times...then that chance gets lost. Would you agree?

@beverlybronson9041

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I do!

@aimeealexispilipinas

4 жыл бұрын

😇😇😇

@-Solange-

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it wasn't about the money but it was about his willingness to take her out for a dinner.

@saviourssoulquotes9282

3 жыл бұрын

Quality time.

@patriciachirgwin3238

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on!

Sending love to everyone working on their relationships ❤️

@angelagallant6864

2 жыл бұрын

Respect is one of the most important one of all if you do not have that for one another than you have not much love.

@kelliefenton6482

2 жыл бұрын

It's. THANK You...NEXT...TY...NEXT...I SO GRATEFUL FOR MY EX...NEVER 2 MAKE THAT STUPID MISTAKE...EVER... AGAIN...SO...TY...NEXT...TY ..NEXT...💗🗝️💓💯🎶💫🙏 AGAIN...TY...NEXT💫💯🎶💗♂️🗝️

@marykaluki6208

Жыл бұрын

Am trying 😂

What I want from a man is for him to take the lead sometimes, make plans, see them through.. Having to call all the shots becomes stressful and feels lonely and like I'm managing him as well as the rest of my life. A man who is forward-thinking and holds his own is very attractive.

@blueskyy2280

Жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes

@jarvisjackson4833

Жыл бұрын

you wanted feminism, so women can lead now.

@sizesmall1756

Жыл бұрын

@@jarvisjackson4833 I personally never wanted feminism. It's so boring.

@klm7858

Жыл бұрын

Have you tried asking him to make some choice or decision and then even if he doesn't, just leave it alone? And don't try to correct it if it isn't done the way you would do it. Too often we unconsciously undermine them by trying to micromanage him after we ask him to do it, which makes him pull back because he thinks "I can't do it right anyhow! Let her go ahead and do it her way! What's the use in my even trying!!" Even if it's something important like a faucet leaking or something needs fixing---try asking sweetly, then LEAVE HIM ALONE! Men absolutely HATE being told what to do or how to do it!! :D

@guillermolledowolkowicz7085

2 ай бұрын

​@@jarvisjackson4833 unrelated. You're answering to someone just saying "a leading man is attractive".

1. Tell her you love her ... When it's not connected to physical intimacy. 2. Tell her she's beautiful... when her hair is a mess, when she has an acne outbreak, and when she least expects it. 3. Honor her through opening doors, making sure she's seated first, helping her bring in the groceries, and just letting her know that your her teammate. 4. Be honest with her. In the little things, and the big things. Never EVER lie, or twist the truth. Be open about YOUR ideas, because she DOES want to know them. 5. Have fun with her. In group settings and alone time. Be willing to try new things together. Laugh until your gut aches, and your eyes get teary. 6. Do something out of the ordinary sometimes. Surprise her and keep her guessing about you. 7. Learn to read her moods, and act accordingly. Sometimes she'll want hot and passionate. Other times, she'll want gentle and sweet. Give her the space to feel down sometimes. You don't need to fix it, but just knowing your are there for her, and aren't being critical goes a long way. 8. Communicate! Talk about the mundane things, and the big dreams. I'm very blessed to have a man who does all of these things. And he keeps me coming back for more, as I hope I do the same for him. Love your videos and your seminars, Mat. I have a strong relationship, but I'm always reminded of things I can do better, or of things I've let slide, and gotten comfortable in.

@bkmama5206

6 жыл бұрын

LOATHE autocorrect. 😉

@lorrainehanna9319

6 жыл бұрын

Love this. Thank you for sharing.

@valeriedemoss3052

6 жыл бұрын

Your last 3 words really hit home for me; gotten comfortable in. I surprised my hubby a few times when he tells me "love you"... I reply lightly: "why?" then laugh. It's fresh, surprising and shakes it up a bit. After 30+ yrs, let me tell you girls, you better learn how to keep things fresh and alive. Thank you Matt!

@LinaP

6 жыл бұрын

Love this! Men need to give more attention to their women. They need to listen and remember what she likes/ dislikes/needs/craves. Being thoughtful and chivalrous. More romance....the kind that sweeps you off your feet.

@courtneyfox6464

6 жыл бұрын

You have so much wisdom and strength. Everything you said in your post, nailed in on the head, what needs to be done in a relationship.

I'm not a relationship advisor, but I just wanna tell everyone out there, let it go with the flow, don't try to adjust or create any situation to make him/her love you. Because love can't be created but you can only feel it.

@moanapooh9726

3 жыл бұрын

Righhhhttt, let it go w/ the flow while keeping these ideas in the back of ur head

@editsweet101

2 жыл бұрын

That is terrible advice. Stick to your day job 😂 Love is actions, not feelings.

@hannahashlia1520

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said

@lindalox2607

Жыл бұрын

True rhat

@royalacity

Жыл бұрын

Incorrect. Love is an action. Thinking it is only a feeling....will have you divorced real fast.

As a man, I agree with this list whole-heartedly.

@itzgelo905

3 жыл бұрын

You have a good opinion sir

@sallymcmurray949

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, thank you for reaffirming!

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3 жыл бұрын

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Dennis Prager said it best. “Men want to be admired and women want to be adored.”

@Meira750

2 жыл бұрын

I have no interest in adoration. I can get that cheaply for the wrong reasons. I want someone who admires me and whom I can admire. If we wind up madly in love and discover we both adore each other, it's a nice bonus.

@reinettebornman9759

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

I love my man. He’s kind, gives me compliments is very smart. Makes me happy no matter what. He cooks and cleans, doesn’t text or looks at other women. He’s faithful and very handsome. Oh guess what, he doesn’t exist.

@maureenvandervelden2344

6 жыл бұрын

Adelina V. You made me laugh out loud so hard!!! 👍🤣

@SpicySpinach

6 жыл бұрын

Mo V I‘m glad I could make you laugh. 😌😊

@crazykayci5041

6 жыл бұрын

Adelina V. Wow I have a bf and he's perfect

@ebonybrooks9972

6 жыл бұрын

To take initiative

@ebonybrooks9972

6 жыл бұрын

Allow me to depend on him without worry

I want a man to follow through and keep his word. When that doesn’t happen, it’s a wretched feeling of disappointment. I’ve learned disappointment is the worst feeling of all.

@misskelly8114

6 жыл бұрын

If your man is on his way out, there’s only one thing you can say to pull him back for good. *4WhatHeWants. Com*

@devinechakraa2713

6 жыл бұрын

so fkn agree being dissapointed is like i can't explain its a undescribable feeling.

@janety7264

6 жыл бұрын

Anna Sauls Grieving for the loss of family member is the worst feeling on this planet You are lucky

@annasauls2717

6 жыл бұрын

janet y I know all all about grieving for the loss of family and loved ones. I have lost both parents, my sister only a month ago on Easter Sunday and my ex committed suicide. I thank God for my Faith in knowing I will be reunited with them in Heaven. This, however, is a post re: romantic relationships. Thanks for the comment.

@annasauls2717

6 жыл бұрын

janet y btw, I'm only 46. Sorry for your pain.

Men and women think on different levels and have different needs. I think the number one most important thing is communication with your partner. My husband and I have been married over 30 years, rarely fight and we know each others needs and are there for each other no matter what. To build a strong relationship takes a lot of patience, understanding and love.

@devenderkumar427

Жыл бұрын

Hii can u plz help me out? I have many times hurt my bf (emotionally), it wasn't my intention to make him sad but I always mess up and did smthg without fully thinking about the outcome.....i don't want to make him sad, I want to change myself....can u plz give me some tips

@royalrumble1448

Жыл бұрын

@@devenderkumar427 what exactly did you do?

Thanks for your advice, Mat! I watched your videos for a couple years as I was feeling perpetually single and wanting to “get out there” and start dating. I now have an amazing boyfriend of 4 months, and rewatching this video has helped me realize that I have implemented these qualities! My boyfriend has verbally praised me for them, too. Thank you!

When I dress up for Dinner or for a Night out, I would like my boyfriend to tell me that I look great more often because I only dress up for him.

@laraking804

6 жыл бұрын

Kim Katharina there's a quick remedy. Next time put your 'staying at home clothes' we all know what they are... that old hoodie with holes... but oh no comfy... If he says anything just say 'oh I didn't think u paid attention to that, that's no problem I'll dress up for u next time.' He'll never forget to compliment u again 😂

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

That is so pathetic. Sometimes I can’t believe I’m a woman because I can’t relate to most of y’all at all lol your comment got over 40 likes. Meanwhile I couldn’t care less about “compliments” and approval/validation, I focus on important things.

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

Kim Katharina *ALSO* if you “only dressed up for him” you would dress up for him while you’re home together, not going out. Makes no sense.

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

Kallen xo more like why are you so bothered by my opinion??

@taylorlynn-art

6 жыл бұрын

For sure!

My late boyfriend always said thank you when I cooked a meal for us. And we told each other thank you if one of us picked up the check for a meal out.

@EarlyBirdCraft

6 жыл бұрын

I never cook for a man. Men are the providers. They feel great by providing and I feel great by being spoiled. I always say thank you for the meal even if I picked up the check.

@scorpiopheonix

5 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend always says thank you after every dinner. I love him so much

@adampetrowski

5 жыл бұрын

@@EarlyBirdCraft why sounds like you just want him to do all the work tbh

@alopez5559

3 жыл бұрын

@@adampetrowski Too many spoiled little girls out there. They want us to pay the bills and cook and clean. Then they say " Why am I single?" LOL

I'd like for him to accept and acknowledge when I tell him that he has hurt my feelings instead of getting angry and trying to make it my fault.

@Davecasteel

8 ай бұрын

I really want to be with someone I love and I'm looking for someone that can take care of my child. I lost my wife.

You know, I’m proud of myself for searching something like this!! I’m finding that in life sometimes if you go first, and do the things for ppl you wish were done for you 1. You realize how much effort it takes and have sympathy for those who have enough in their cup to even try 2. You realize how happy it makes ppl, and that maybe they had no idea how to love you but you just gave them one !

1. He wants you to be happy. Your happiness is his effectiveness in the relationship. 2. He wants you to take interest in his interests. 3. He wants you to initiate the sex. 4. He wants to be praised or acknowledged. 5. Encourage him to adventure. 6. He wants your confidence in him. 7. Deep desire for respect.

@etera2011

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

"Happy spouse Happy house " If my man isn't happy im not happy either

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

That's my saying too! 😀 Both people need to be happy. There should not be a hierarchy

@kimleonard7945

3 жыл бұрын

A

I still believe there’s a good men out there. Old fashioned, sincere , gentlemen , romantic and has a sense of humor and oh btw a truly good hearted man ;)

I give my boyfriend so much respect personally and the fact that he's a respectable person at his job too. I always acknowledge his hard work and his love for me. I tell him how handsome he is, how hard working he is and how he'll be an amazing dad to our future kids. He knows I'm all for him❤

@junetaylor8396

8 ай бұрын

Start writing your pre-nup.

I'd like a verbal expression of appreciation for being a good mother to the children. It takes a lot of time and energy to invest in raising his children, so I'd love to hear, "Babe, I love what you do for our kids!"

do a video about jealousy in a relationship pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase. everything u give advise on i always have done, and people wonder why and how i have a very succssesful relationship, and i still love to listen to u. u're amaaazing

@theblushfaerie

6 жыл бұрын

yes and trust issues in a relationship!!

I want him to keep the communication constant and consistent. Simple compliments or appreciation in every little thing I do

Mathew, I don't know if you gonna read this comment, but I just would like to thank you. Thank you so much for your teachings and advices. I've watched a lot of coaches here on youtube, but I can tell you that you stand out for the way you highlight the topics and approach the subjects wisely, in an extremely intelligent and deep way. You are such a great communicator. Thank you and wish you success.

He stares at me,in a train like no one else is present!!,he apologizes, he likes it when I ask for some help.He's always behind me cuddling me when am either cooking or washing the dishes...

@ScaryTimesWeLiveIn

6 жыл бұрын

The girl with a golden dream Wow, you're a lucky girl! ❤

@crazykayci5041

6 жыл бұрын

The girl with a golden dream omg my bf is always there to make me happy no matter what he's amazing but... Too many cuddles ....JK no way cuddles are the best

@josephinemukeni8574

6 жыл бұрын

I count myself lucky and I try to be the best I can,we are best friends we share everything and help each other.Many cuddles and forehead kisses...

@marygalofre

6 жыл бұрын

The girl with a golden dream that's just ADORABLE l want that too!

@l.ferrer7923

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry to point this out but... unless the cuddles lead to intimacy - as in he's got the hots for you in bed, & on a frequent/regular basis ~ forehead kisses is a sign of a mere friendship, could be close friend - respectful type of "friend love". Lip kisses, or at least on the cheeks sometimes, with the hugs or cuddles, that's the intimate "in love" type. BTW, in my house, my husband does the cooking... 'cause I'm not a good cook and tend to burn things up. Lol 😊

My mother explicitly taught me six of those seven things. She used different words and anecdotes, but she knew how to make her man happy. These are all old fashioned and traditional things that women used to all know--but the feminists told us that it was wrong to "ask a man to help you" or "show a man respect". I remember my mom telling me many times--if your guy is into cars and likes to work in the garage, then you go sit in the garage with him in your cutest outfit, and act interested in his cars. Learn to like cars with him, and he will love you all the more. My mom always said if you put your man on a pedestal, he will put you on a higher pedestal.

@lindafinney

5 жыл бұрын

OMGOD, I am tired just reading this. The man has to want a relationshp, it is that simple really.

@mogenerosity1750

4 жыл бұрын

You are right, mother is full of wisdom

@martinfetch2759

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Pamela

@auralay2497

2 жыл бұрын

So basically go all out pretending without actually having any interest in what he does... That's extremely unhealthy and insiduous. It's not lile guys are advised to do the same for women, in fact, they're advised to "play the field" and f as many chicks as possible without strings attached. Your mom was lucky to be with a man who appreciated her but most men are not like that. Best be careful who you put on a pedestal...

@CharlotteG754

6 ай бұрын

What’s up with bashing feminism … everyone who is ignorant shouldn’t put that word in their mouth. Feminism is and was about women rights and freedoms - to stand against abuse and discrimination. Making a mockery out of it is dangerous. Ugh. Annoying

Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!

This can go both ways in a relationship. I have known some men and women who don't appreciate and take for granted what they have with someone until it is lost. It's difficult to build/maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't appreciate what you bring to the relationship and vise versa.

I've watched many different dating advice videos & I love yours the best - because I feel like they're coming from a very sincere good place - keeping chivalry alive - yet also being realistic of modern day dating. Keep up the positive messages

Your pointers are bang on! My guy loves when I do these little things. He does the same for me. After being single for so long, i finally met a guy that gives me the emotional support that I'd always wanted in a relationship. He's just fantastic! I hope i can keep him happy always

My husband and I have been married 44 yr and our relationship could use a reboot. Thanks for these insights which I will try! 👏👍

Wow thank you for this. There are actually three things that are important to me. 1 I want to feel safe. If I'm struggling with something, in order for me to be vulnerable, I need to be able to go to him without feeling judged or criticized or for it to become a weapon to use against me at a later date. 2 I want to feel adored. Like he sees me and he wants to understand me and he accepts who I am without needing to change me. 3 I need him to have staying power. When things get tough that we're willing to do together what it takes to keep things alive. Which often equates to taking responsibility for his thoughts words and actions and for his own life experiences.

I loooove it when I am standing next to him for a selfie and he put one of his hand gently around my waist. I feel soooo protected and safe for some reason :) and be a gentleman meaning hold the door open for me, walk in front when we go shopping because I am a small person and always feel like people will walk into me haha

I have been with my husband for 19 years (dated 10, married 9). I have to say I agree with these points. I also tell him Thank You when we are finished eating at a restaurant. Yes our money is combined and we both helped pay for that meal, but its him taking the time to take me out and spending that time together that I'm thankful for.

We always praying together and he always mention and include the names of my family in our prayer together

When a man says “That’s my girl” as an unexpected comment, this melts my heart. What simple phrases can I say to my man that gives him chills like his words do to me?

@floweryasset

Жыл бұрын

I am proud of you! Men love that, especially when you back it with a reason. You handled that really well. I am am so proud! I am so proud of how you … ❤

Thank you for this. I hear so many of my girlfriends complaining about what THEY should be getting from men, and never about what basic emotional support men appreciate from women. You guys aren’t robots; it’s time for us to recognize you have basic emotional needs, too!

@popvision8857

3 жыл бұрын

even in this post, some women are quick to respond with what they want instead of just listening and letting the man have the floor.

You're my favorite coach so far!!!

Thank you so much for this video. The tips seem really helpfull

Wow, so so true👍I showed this to my wife and she listened and then came up to my lap and we talked about😊 really good and happy for your expertise!

If I can catch the attention of a man with 0 makeup on my face and dressed in sweats and a T-shirt I feel like it's mission accomplished. That's what makes me happy, that a guy loves me without having to cause me to work too hard to attract him. I mean presenting a false image cuts away from my Skyrim or Monster Hunter time!

Not only are you speaking in a calming, soothing tone but this really gave me some insight on some things I’ve been thinking about. Thank you SO much!!! ♥️

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Honestly dude, your voice is a comfort. Thank you for the advice.

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I cannot agree more with these desires especially respect!!! This the number 1 need of a man and women who takes care of this need they make a man stick to them for the life! Bless you for educating us women, you are doing a great job!!

Thank you, Mathew, for putting together this video for girls like me, for us to be more aware of what our partner really wants. Those points you mentioned I totally agree with!

@quinnrichards5969

5 жыл бұрын

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Your videos are so wonderfully motivating! 😄 I would like to simply be understood. Thank you for your content and have an amazing day!💕 you did not miss your calling Matthew God bless!

Hi Matt, my name is Toni M.,and I just came across your videos , this video is great, it really opened by eyes, to the little things that my partner does for me. I appreciate him so much, and everything that he does for me, I see the love in his eyes, and I don’t ever want to take for granted everything he does for me. Your videos have opened my eyes. I am now as subscriber to your channel. Thanks again, for the great advice.

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@marleygoot174

Жыл бұрын

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You are a sweetheart Mathew. My good man is too. It's a joy to watch this video and find I am doing those things, and he has so many admirable qualities he makes it easy for me to do that. His family and friends have said he looks happier than ever. I am happier than ever. When it works like this it's really worth nurturing, I've said to him many times I will never take him for granted.

I am from Taiwan. Very much like your sharing help me Understand more about man’s thinking.

I took that minute as asked for and subscribed.. This kind of information is a great reminder..appreciated!

Basically in every relationship just be yourself and love means already all these things

Looking good Matt! Thank you for the video :)

Oh man when he said I looked gorgeous in the dress, I was blown away. I dressed up only for him😏

I do love the content of your vlogs, its so inspiring and lessons to learn.

You are simply the best! Great video and advices. Thank you 😊

We all have our own love language. Know what each other likes or need and try and work with it. Just don't let the other person feel pressured to meat your needs.

"Be happy damn it!" Haha

@digiverse7686

6 жыл бұрын

MFreedom lol!

@marijackson3707

6 жыл бұрын

MFreedom 😂😂

@fireballc9854

6 жыл бұрын

MFreedom....you know how to be a man...why I should I be the one to carry all the worry and weight. I can do this with no man...get the point.

@samstorer26

4 жыл бұрын

Omg that was funny!!!

I just love your videos!! They are sooo helpful, really... I'm 43 and I'm starting to build a relationship with a guy I really like. We are going slow but with the constance and we are on the same page. And your videos just teach me what mistakes I've committed in the past and how to avoid them, and put the real, conscious effort into this man and our relationship. I'm learning so much with you!! And the crazy thing is that the most of things you say are so obvious, but we simply don't pay the attention to them, or just don't think and we make things automatically. Thank you Mat🙏🏼🤍🥰

Wow ! Great advises been giving me a huge booster since I’m in long distance relationship texted a great army guy in Kabul ,Afghanistan. He always checking on me how he feels about me as I for him . Time have always very limited ,though we managed encouraging each of us , I’m a deaf woman in my 70’s he’s 45 yrs old . The numbers don’t mean anything to us , our hearts entwines ...He have a very high regards towards me as I am to him , he tells me how grateful that I’m supporting him emotions and financially when he’s so very stressed out I write him a story to enlighten him that’s the way to ease his stressful moments .... Adding to send him pictures of me and my smiles indeed his heart melted, I wanted him to come home soon . As you have instructed , I’ll do to him he needs a lot of rub downs . Thank you Matthew Boggs so much and keep up a great work !

@jasonbryan9056

3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing 😊👋👋😊

@Davecasteel

8 ай бұрын

I really want to be with someone I love and I'm looking for someone that can take care of my child. I lost my wife.

This is exactly what men should do to women. Or maybe I should speak for myself. These are the things I want from my man. If men want these things, why aren't they giving it?

@CallofWar5

6 жыл бұрын

probably don't know you want it. Communication is key it seems

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

Cassandra Okotie if you want these things, why are you giving it??

@jburckhardt33

6 жыл бұрын

exactly!!!!! same comment I did. we also want the man to get excited to in our plans although they might not like it

@stylishhomeswithcassandra

6 жыл бұрын

I clearly know what I want and I'm bold enough to talk about it. It just amazes me how men want these things, can't say it but don't do all these things to their women. You want to be treated right, treat others right. It's really that simple.

@jasonearls2891

6 жыл бұрын

Just ain't found a real man yet

Happy wife Happy life 🤗😂

@keekee1982

6 жыл бұрын

Poi son I always say this to my boyfriend 😂

@jasonearls2891

6 жыл бұрын

Ain't that the damn truth

@liounaz.8713

6 жыл бұрын

you know... There should also be some youtube link that says "7 things a woman don't say". And on that list there should probably be: "What you don't hear complains about = a compliment". Wich means, if you hear her complaining about the dishwasher, the meal. And that's it for that day, but you didn't hear her complain about: how you hugged her, how you stood up for her, how you fixed the machine afterwards, etc. That's that there isn't something to complain about (and she probably forgets to compliment you, cause you probably forget to compliment her too on the tasks she does for you. You both think that it's "the normal life"). Also there are types of woman. And to be honest... the perfectionists are the ones who are often misinterpreted. Because actually, they are high emotional. Try to figure out what type of wife you have, AND PUT TIME IN THAT THING! In stand of blackmailing her all over the place like: internet, café's, etc. If you are sarcastic about this "happy wife, happy life" kind off thing? Then you just don't know your wife well, I supose...

@pvaz

6 жыл бұрын

No wife, happy man!

@rudylynsarocam360

6 жыл бұрын

pvaz lol 🤣

Communication is key!!! :) It's hard when you both have communication issues... or trust issues. If there's an issue, talk about what you both want!!!! Be happy together 😊

Watching your video, I've learned a lot about how to love a man. I think your video is very useful. Thanks.

Hey Matt on the "combined bank account" note, could u please make a video about the money issue?? Like who should pay for things in the house when is a woman required to contribute and when do u let him take the lead. This issue is always in the grey zone please make a video about it. It would be great :)

@wshelby83

6 жыл бұрын

Ingy Bahaa that would be a good video

@juliaarnold1078

4 жыл бұрын

Nunnha B because things aren’t so black and white. Women usually take on more of the housework and taking care of the kids...

This made me feel really good, because I realize that I do these things consistently. My boyfriend and I are both very happy. Love begets love. I will be sure to consciously keep these in mind.

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@martinfetch2759

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Melissa

I love to be asked for help with tasks, even little things, where my knowledge and intelligence is needed. It shows me that he acknowledges me and what I’m capable of.

Man, you are so right. I have been married for 4 months now. I have observed all these things working out.

I'd like it if he'd say that I look beautiful today more often. It's rare that I get that compliment from him.

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

Amanda Mizelle do you tell him that he’s beautiful? Do you compliment him?

@MandyM8807

6 жыл бұрын

La la la all the time.. I'll say damn honey, you look good or something like that.. Sometimes I just let my actions speak for me.

@Lalala-fz2ci

6 жыл бұрын

Amanda Mizelle maybe that’s not his love language.

@MandyM8807

6 жыл бұрын

La la la lol true

@angeliquehall6557

6 жыл бұрын

Amanda Mizelle Yes I 2nd that motion.. Definitely lead him to tell me I'm beautiful way more often!!!

I am looking for that old-time type of love. When couples were together say like World War II generation they knew how to love each other and I would like to find something like that

@robinwalker1021

6 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Nolan ❤❤I pray that you find that 🙏🏾

@q.7356

6 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Nolan how romantic :)

@biteofdog

6 жыл бұрын

That sounds like a Hollywood WW2 movie plot, but not reality.

@ElinWinblad

6 жыл бұрын

Those were more traditional so I would work on femininity and etiquette and traditional house/wife/mother skills since that will attract guys to want to get married/ have kids. Cheers

@sondjica

5 жыл бұрын

I had this when I was... and then I broke up with him for a stupid reason. I know he'd never have left me. He is dating a girl in a wheelchair now.

Hello Matt - - I just want to let you know how much I enjoy your advice. YOu touch on sooo many topics and are 'right on' with your approach to solving issues and having the best relationship possible. I might add that you have an enthusiastic, friendly, and caring attitude that promotes confidence in the advice that you are giving. I am a devoted fan!!! However, I am wondering if you could present a video on long-distance relationships? That would be soooo helpful!!! Many thanks - - and I look forward to this video!!!

The best advice I can think of that I wish i'd thought of when young is to take an accredited basic psychology course. It will help you to understand yourself and what YOU need first, and also help you pick out those who are putting on an act - which most men and women do at first, and some can keep it up until after marriage a couple of years along the line. Still, there will be tells and a basic psychology course will help you spot important things you might otherwise not notice or may dismiss.

I’m so excited to apply these to my relationship. After 2 years together you often forget these little things that matter. I’m writing these down and I can’t wait to make sure I do all of them every single day. Thank you for the reminder!

@bridgettepierce7144

2 жыл бұрын

2 years is still a new relationship but it's good to do these whenever you feel it needs it

I believe that most of these are common both ways...

@abseleser8544

5 жыл бұрын

I'm a Guy, and I agree I think its all a matter of common sense, common courtesy, and empathy, all of which should by-lateral

@galaxylucia1898

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I completely agree.

I really appreciate and admire you. It takes quite a man of love to pursue understanding of the love between two. Love ❤️

Very true you are a real expert . im doing all of these things out of love . He always says he is very happy with me. Even after we broke up for 18 months. he said he comes back because of these things 💖

Great information, thanks for the video.

@craigpurcell1628

3 жыл бұрын

Hello

@jimmynewman9436

3 жыл бұрын

Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...

I would like the guy I’m seeing to be more open to meaningful conversations rather than very broad type of conversations. We are just getting to know each other but I’d like him to be more expressive.

I had an arranged marriage to a men his whole life was about me myself and I and a motorcycle and hot temper and from day one I showed him respect patience compassion understandings space for him to grow emotionally and I built his confidence. made him into a better men even though he was fifteen years older, instead of relying on men to give us all these things we should take time understand men first it's going to be thirty years and raised five wonderful human beings. Appreciation and respect is key.

Thank you for this video, I already knew a lot of them, but there were a few I didn’t. I’m glad to know how I can do more for him

Great video I don't know why anyone would put a thumbs down. Well something that I like that I don't ask for Is foreplay. I know men like it when you take control sometimes, But for most women we take a bit longer to get in the mood. It would To be nice For him to initiate Soft foreplay, Like rubbing my shoulders my back, Then of course going in for some other things I like before getting down to it!Lol Spending at least 10 minutes rubbing me down, and getting me riled up would be awesome! Yeah definitely initiating foreplay!👍👍👍

@teymyneytor

4 жыл бұрын

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@TheSharronW

3 жыл бұрын

Yep.. that'd be handy LOL Maybe one day you tie him down and do things to him that arouse but you hang off with the gratification. (While you're doing this it's quite erotic in itself) Gratification comes when you untie him and come together for a cataclysmic climax!! 😛💞

I want his respect as well. ANd his pride. I have a job that requires a lot of education and pays little. But it's who I am and it fulfills me greatly. I need a man to respect that I might not ever get rich, but I'm hella good at what I do! Be proud of me!

@abdullahsdinosaurworld850

5 жыл бұрын

Love what you say and I have the same case as you.

@blacklivity

5 жыл бұрын

You must be a teacher.

@lisayoung2641

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Well Said

@TheBigpapax30

5 жыл бұрын

Well said

Love, Respect, Communication, Faithfulness, Words of affirmation 🙏

Great advice! Thank you for sharing!

affection, reassurance, gentle pushing or encouragement and agree with below, mostly not dwelling on other women, or the kiss of death, comparing me to them

@aimeealexispilipinas

4 жыл бұрын

😇

@aimeealexispilipinas

4 жыл бұрын

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It means a lot to me if my partner lets me know that we matter and that they are willing to step up and watch out for me as I would watch out for her. Its shows they care if they challenged one to suspend their own dogma. Life can be crazy and hard at times, but to understand that we will make it through the pain together and be stronger for it it. Together a family can make it through hellfire.

I’ve been praising & complimenting him since the beginning of our relationship and it turned out that he is all perfect and does everything perfectly and keeps nagging me all the time about my imperfections. Men should only be praised when they really deserve to be praised!

I really appreciated this video.. Thanks!!

This is an advice video for women in relationships. Yet, the top comments are all about what women want their boyfriends to do.

@fleetingfootnotes9133

3 жыл бұрын

We live in the age of entitlement.

@tash1543

3 жыл бұрын

Im scrolling through looking at all the demands and expectations that women want . I wonder what they(women) bring to the table. Hopefully a list as long as what they expect.

@JuniperLynn789

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing reading these comments! Lol

@cwhitecar

Жыл бұрын

Because at the end Matt asks women to comment “now tell me, what do you want from a. Relationship?” That’s why, he doesn’t say it until the last part of the video

I think this is a wonderful list especially for someone who isn’t quite sure how to approach these sometimes awkward moments or those of us who have simply not realized after time or stressful periods of life that these things are a big deal (and simple to implement, if we are forgetting or needing a little push/change). Rebuilding connection is possible. I have never shared my “love language” mostly because I just didn’t even know but I think this is the thing that changes it up for us and I’d recommend for anyone who doesn’t already know or hasn’t reflected WITH their partner! After taking a quick quiz together (on an app so he can take it without you giving him his answers 😝), we were both laughing and finding comfort that we always knew deep down what each other’s love languages were but just didn’t know that we could be directing some unmatched energy elsewhere. Now that the hard part is out of the way, we can begin to work on fulfilling that love language a little more everyday together. Not only does it give us something to work toward after 8 years but it’s also something that allows us to get to know our constantly evolving partner and our changing needs/wants/fantasies together. If it’s not working after that kind of intimate discussion and commitment to respect each other’s feelings both emotional, physical, and sexual, then maybe it isn’t a great match.

Love this, ty so much for sharing😊

Great content man, thanks for that!

This was so very helpful, Matt. Thanks!

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3 жыл бұрын

Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...

I would like my man to love me when I least deserve it!

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6 жыл бұрын

Dania Bamofleh when I have done something bed to my bf he still tries to show that he loves me but I pull away ... When it gets to the point where you stress or he finds it hard to show he loves u then u need a break ... Maybe a day or two

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