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@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

I'll be there for you! ❤

@johnjohnson1681

2 жыл бұрын

See I want to believe you when you say that judges hate liars and lazy people who don’t follow court orders in my case nothing could be further from the truth literally I documented chronological order every single lie my narcissistic ex-wife made to obtain a DVPO and she was granted the DVPO. With literally zero evidence no police reports no medical records no photos of bruises or lacerations cuts whatever the hell you wanna call it not a single witness not even a friend or family member to testify saying yeah you know she’s been telling me about this abusive monster for years. I spent close to $15,000 to fight this bullshit DVPO just to lose. The judges don’t give a goddamn about anything except for making money for the machine and if you have a penis you lose 100% of the time. Pierce County Washington state

@wadelinn3059

2 жыл бұрын

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@thequeenofwitches7943

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree when you say that narcissists are very lazy.

@nobsnoargue4126

Жыл бұрын

Spot on.

I’ve heard a saying: “Accusations are actually confessions.”

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@GrahamDyckSinger

2 жыл бұрын

It seems ppl usually accuse the things of which they would do or are doing …

@cosmea553

2 жыл бұрын

So true! They've got sooo very twisted minds! What they did they accuse you of and if they missed out on doing necessary stuff, they blame you of failure! I experienced this over and over again! 😈

@altonvdmerwe6711

2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmea553 this made me think back, yeah its true

@thequeenofwitches7943

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

1. Respond if needed, but do not react 2. Document. Diligently and in real time 3. Don't get sucked into the mud 4. Become immune to guilt trips 5. Use one form of communication 6. Never be alone with them

@jackpot6829

Жыл бұрын

7. Never feed them after midnight

@MassMultiplayer

8 ай бұрын

@@jackpot6829 its funny but its also sad and epic that its actualy insanely real

@jessecamp2752

5 ай бұрын

These are great parameters. Thanks for sharing.

@johnmcgrath3466

4 ай бұрын

Ugh your number 2 step to Document. I know you are right but the idea of doing that sucks. (2.) Document diligently in real time. yuck. Besides how do you do that in a casual setting and not be ridiculed anyway ?

@0my

4 ай бұрын

@@johnmcgrath3466 I was just summarizing the video. I'm no expert... However, this is what I would recommend. Never meet in person. If absolutely necessary to meet in person, bring legal witnesses. Use only methods of communication that are easy to document like email or specialized apps. And perhaps use a calendar (like Gmail calendar) to document events.

Narcissists are naturals when it comes to spreading fear, slander, and deception.

"Narcissists love to accuse you of things falsely" TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

Rev.2:20 is probably how Satan will be loosed to establish his government, after an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God through his heads and people/followers. Satan is called the accuser of the brethren ( Rev.12:10) in the last days ( times of the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ going on in the world) before darkness ( the power and authority of Satan) takes over completely in an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God. There's plenty of narcissist Jezebel types teaching in the temple today. Those types can get the world to come together through their wrong judgments,beliefs--and treachery. Mat.24:- 5,11,24 is happening now!!! (+ 1TIM.4:1,2; 2Tim.4:3,4; 2Pet.2:1-3; Acts 20:29,30)

@motowngirl5891

4 ай бұрын

They are making fun of you ,they want to see your reaction

@Happydays14385

27 күн бұрын

I call this crap "confessions by projection"

This should be taught in every highschool education to protect people from psychological abuse

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with prepping younger ones on dealing with false accusations!

@hawaiigirl8089

2 жыл бұрын

Children would not get this. HS are TEENS- not adults yet

@texaslovelylady

2 жыл бұрын

Healthy boundaries should be taught.

@LethalWeapon73

2 жыл бұрын

Much sooner like Elementary

@wvwyut

2 жыл бұрын

You are the victim of the educational system. You honestly, truly believe, they want to teach you something valuable in high school? Travel the world. Try to learn how the FAMILIES function in culturally rich countries with thousands of years of history. I seen my ex-wife, who is a narcissist, to devalue A TOP PSYCHOLOGIST. The people with strong sense of cultural identity, could sense/understand her tactics from a mile away - while the psychologist was in a room with her, treated like an ignorant child. In a corporate run culture, people are turned into senseless consumers. The pharmaceutical companies will run out of business, if they create the right environment, for you to learn the basic rules about human nature. People in corporate run countries are conditioned to chase pleasur, sound politically correc, feed their ego with subjective nonsense. Put the phone down, turn off the TV, start reading books, if you wanna regain control of your yourself. Everything you need to function normally in this life, is already inside you.

I really think they actually start believing their own lies!! A true sickness!

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

The worst part is when this kind of person gets the world to believe the lie. Imagine those types passing lie detector tests, for believing their own lies.Dear God.

@christielawrence4640

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I know one who will try to justify lying, or outright LIE. about LYING! If the justification is obviously, embarrassingly lame, or if it has zero logic, Ive pointed it out (actually while laughing at him is that not nice?), he has literally mumbled something stupid as he leaves the room. If he's got nothing, he runs.

@Pocketraisins

Жыл бұрын

They do believe their own lies! They leave out their evildoings and parts that make them look bad to make themselves look like a hero, saviour or victim. Then they regale their story to anyone that will listen and in their mind they think "Hey. I have these other people telling my story of how great I am so it must be true!" My brother (again) split with his wife and went their separate ways. The reason was he was caught cheating a multitude of times. She said if he didn't stop cheating, she would find someone else to emotionally support her just like he had been doing for sex. With my sister in law it was lack of emotional support toward her and their two kids. He begged her to come back after a few months under the stipulation that SHE would have to give up her boyfriend, but made no mention of him not cheating, and of course she said no. Now when he tells why they broke up, he says "Its because she wouldn't give up her boyfriend even though I said I would take her back if she did." No mention of his multiple affairs or violent behavior toward she and the kids. Why? Because in his eyes he genuinely believes he was the victim.

@nyhtlyht

Жыл бұрын

They do. Then they use charisma and convince others of it. That's where things get dangerous

@anamartafaial1916

Жыл бұрын

Yah…. They are patologic liers

I never realized how dangerous they are… they can destroy a man’s life by false accusations. This is so scary… I dated a narcissist and it was a nightmare. It makes dating or talking to women very difficult. Thank you for your help.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

I believe I was falsely accused to the authorities by a narcissist Jezebel neighbor, back in '93. There's plenty of Jezebel types teaching in the temple, 'these days ' (+ Rev.2:20) A Jezebel represents Hell They're false accussers and lovers of themselves, as relates in 2 Tim.3:1-3 I believe Satan's extreme blow to his pride given him in the Garden of Eden for wanting to be worshipped like God in his own right will be healed through Jezebel types. Satan is called the accuser of the brethren (Rev.12:10) in the last days (times of the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ going on in the world) before darkness (the power and authority of Satan through his heads and people/deceived followers) takes over completely in an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God

@alexandragrace8164

8 ай бұрын

Or a woman’s! But yeah, I have seen many men be victims.

@strangemusic100

5 ай бұрын

Happened to me... was doing dishes she flew at me ripped my phone from my pocket all I did was keep a grip on my phone till it came free she called the cops an said I threw her down went to jail on Easter weekend wasn't allowed to go to my own home probation yada yada yada... CRAZY

The only connection I can think of is that both are based on the perpetrator’s undue emphasis of his/her own thoughts/emotions. In narcissistic abuse, perpetrators usually expresses the attitude that everything centers around them. They may object to that description and even insist that they don’t believe that; but, their actions say otherwise. Virtually everything you do/don’t do gets tied back to the perpetrator as a person. You’re either doing something right b/c you’re smart, capable, etc., or you’re intentionally doing it wrong in order to hurt/anger the perpetrator in some way. You are also likely to be accused of doing it wrong, even if you’re doing it right-again b/c of the perpetrator’s thoughts/emotions. Toxic positivity is generally not perpetrated with the intention to hurt anyone, and most wouldn’t even recognize it as being toxic/hurtful; but, in most cases, the perpetrator is still oblivious to the effect it has on others, and to the value of that effect. Narcissism is a psychological disorder and, with few exceptions, abuse is perpetrated with the tangible intention of causing harm. In contrast, toxic positivity is a behavioral flaw that is essentially an extreme version of selfishness, based in denial, and is generally perpetrated with the intention of maintaining and creating happiness. Most people are selfish, in some way or another. Toxic positivity is a subtle expression of selfishness-so subtle that even the perpetrator may not realize why it’s wrong b/c, after all, s/he is only seeking to encourage/uplift people. This is where denial comes in. Most people struggle/suffer, at some point or another. I believe that most people are also aware that there are people who experience more pain than they are aware of from their own lives. Denial allows people to look at someone who reminds them of themselves and assume that they cannot be justified in their suffering b/c the observer is not suffering. Denial also allows people who have suffered to deny the significance of other people’s suffering b/c it is notably different from their own, or b/c they perceive it as being notably different. From here, there are 2 extremes: One is for them to be semi-consciously abusive-meaning that they are generally aware that their actions are hurtful; but, they rationalize it as being justified. The other is to perpetrate toxic positivity-in which they are completely unaware that their actions are hurtful and it’s difficult for them to identify why they would be. Additionally, If you need to find out about a cheating spouse; send a request to: Metaspyhub@gmail. com

Be aware of a narcissist that tries to apologize to you only to take them back/forgive them, but then turn around and blame you for it. It's never genuine with them! 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@angelaharris1112

2 жыл бұрын

Never had an apology!

@LethalWeapon73

2 жыл бұрын

Never had one but he got worse each time I took him back.

@ChrisPyle

Жыл бұрын

You mean like apologizing for cheating but then saying she would try therapy if you only you hadn’t told anyone? Being embarrassed is worse than cheating lol

@archiehendricks6093

Жыл бұрын

Oh brother where art thou, one part in theater presoner says do not go there. Bibel says a dog will return to his vomit. Lets not be the narrsist dog.

@archiehendricks6093

Жыл бұрын

Spot on

So true! The hardest part is to wrap our heads around their craziness. A mentally healthy person does not do this!

@localizer50

Жыл бұрын

So true!!

@pocahontas4583

Жыл бұрын

It is mind blowing how they’ll just keep hammering and hammering at you with false accusations as if they’re going to convince you that you did something you didn’t.

@treeseneese8655

Жыл бұрын

@@pocahontas4583 So true!

@catherinevaz6139

Жыл бұрын

They will physically abuse you and deny it the next day! He pushed me into a wall so hard I bumped my forehead and I blacked out for a few seconds. The next day, I confront him, asking him why he did this. His answer? « I did nothing, you’re so clumsy, you just slipped. » I was shocked!! Another day, we were arguing and he jumped me! Same thing, he said: « I had to defend myself, YOU hit me! » WHAT?? I - 😮 Incredible how he twisted everything that happened! It’s a horrible / scary experience.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

@@pocahontas4583 I believe I was secretly accused to the authorities by a narcissistJezebel neighbor back in '93, of things I know not. She REALLY has me all charged up 'these ', after Mother recently passed away. She's behind that. Rev.18 speaks of her. She's got serious blood on her damn hands. Rev.2:20 and Rev.17 also relates to her. She wants my head on a platter. She won't rest until that happens, as relates in Rev.14:11. Satan is called the accuser of the brethren ( Rev.12:10) in the last days ( times of the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ going on in the world) before darkness ( the power and authority of Satan through his heads and people /misled followers) takes over completely in an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God (' these days ')

They accuse of things THEY’RE doing. Don’t defend yourself. It’s useless. Walk away. It will never change. They can’t hear you. And the abuse will NEVER end. Of course, this only applies to those who are free to walk away. If you’re in a relationship, get out.

@angieh190

Жыл бұрын

Yes agreed to the walking away bc if you waste your time trying to defend it'll fall on deaf ears OR IF YOU DONT then to the narc it will be an admission that he was right then he'll punish you bc that's all they do!

@steveholloway8576

Жыл бұрын

I'm thinking caulk your losses up and go . I'm 60 with 30 yrs in and she wins ,, I can't spend the rest of my life walking in eggshells

@richard5981

Жыл бұрын

What if the person that’s acting that way is a neighbor who tries to get under your skin and when you confront them by making a complaint with the police, they Falsely accuse you of things you haven’t done how do you deal with something like that?

@andrearowe8103

Жыл бұрын

Right now I am so deeply hurt this gentleman showed me he was trying to do something online and his credit card was not going through and out of no where my phone number came up with my name. And eventhough I am telling him I don't understand how my name come up he is saying I was trying to use his credit. I cried and still is. How do I prove am not guilty

@sostrucking

9 ай бұрын

​@andrearowe8103 find one of his friends to explain it to him because he is not listening to the one he things is guilty

I dealt with this for five years!! These people are sick. I thought I was helping someone who was mentally ill. Little did I know.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

No. You thought right.

This isn't limited to partnerships. Narsistic siblings, parents, false friends, co-workers, etc can create the same horror.

@missymintz3189

Жыл бұрын

16:40 My Narcissist sadly is my daughter. She has said the most ridiculous things about her “bad childhood” when in reality, she had an amazing childhood. Anyone that really knew her as a child knows that these statements are all untrue. She’s now 36 and cycles through being hateful towards me, or “tolerating” me. Always in toleration mode when she needs something big; a loan or something big such as that. I’ve learned my lesson and have walked away. I’ll always love her, but I wouldn’t let a friend treat me and talk so rudely .. so I’m not letting her either.

@CheeseGraterToiletPaper

Жыл бұрын

Complete strangers can also do this

@ArghMatey

Жыл бұрын

YUP! hate working with the mean girl types and have had to quit jobs over it :(

@Beth-iv4lj

10 ай бұрын

I think whole systems can suffer with it.

@ArghMatey

10 ай бұрын

@@Beth-iv4lj definitely! I look at our culture here

This is my life 30 years ago. No one realized this back then. The court system was not a justice system. It was a horrible time in my life. I am 70 now and I am at peace but it has been a hard journey. .Thank you for helping people, Rebecca.

@julietcrowson3503

2 жыл бұрын

Narcs are the prosecutors at regulators in the UK.... God's love for us is much bigger than the narcs' horribleness. ✝️🫂☯️☮️🙏🙂

@kvj859

2 жыл бұрын

@@julietcrowson3503 Yes, thankful to God everyday. When you "know " you have no value, it is hard to walk through everything that is put before you. Part of my problem was my mother taught me the same thing...it took me 60+ years to walk away from her as well. She died 17 months ago and it has brought such peace to my heart. Few people understand but I have learned not to try and get them to understand. You have to live it.

@julietcrowson3503

2 жыл бұрын

@@kvj859 we probably should pray every day 🙏☯️🫂✝️

@truthtarot7074

2 жыл бұрын

O gosh 🙏

@texaslovelylady

2 жыл бұрын

@@kvj859 my mom is your age and I know the toll of this abuse on the mind, body, and soul. How anyone can not see what they have done, or they do and don't care. I had the strength to leave.

After two narcissistic partners I’ve invested in learning how to be happy and complete as a single person.

Thank you. The narcissist who makes false accusations can also be a neighbor or coworker. It is not just limited to a person you had a previous intimate relationship with.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

I believe I was falsely accused to the authorities in '93 by a narcissist Jezebel neighbor. There's plenty of Jezebel types teaching in the temple, 'these days ' (+ Rev.2:20) They're false accussers and lovers of themselves, as relates in 2 Tim.3:1-3 . I won't be surprised if Satan comes into full authority as God by such types. Satan is called the accuser of the brethren ( Rev.12:10) in the last days ( times of the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ going on in the world) before darkness ( the power and authority of Satan through his heads and people/deceived followers) takes over completely in an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God Mat.24-5,11,24; 1Tim.4 1,2;2Tim.4:3,4; 2Pet.2:1-3; Acts 20:29,30 are all happening now!!! Unlike Jesus, I'm dumb ( Mat.27:12) God knows my case. This is Jacob's trouble ( Jer.30:-7-), described in Mat.24:21 ; Dan.12:1

My ex was a covert Narcissist. He would always accuse me of doing things or saying things that NEVER came out of my mouth. At first, very early into our relationship, I thought he was just "mistaken" and meant no harm. Then...it started to become a pattern. That's when I realized he would fabricate things in order to win disagreements and make me squirm. It's like he got this internal thrill by triggering me, for no apparent reason. Every few weeks, he would start a petty argument. I thought I was going crazy...and yes, I wanted to record conversations. Weirdest encounter I ever had.

@ashcash8539

Жыл бұрын

this is me to a t. theses narcs are crazy.

@cyndim8785

Жыл бұрын

That’s the roller coaster ride that never ends.

@christinenewhouse6920

Жыл бұрын

Da Diva I'm in one now..I dont know how to get out of it..PLEASE HELP.Should I see a therapist?

@rit20095

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@Godiswith_HER

Жыл бұрын

@@christinenewhouse6920leave him asap!

"Don't be surprised when they act like themselves, be surprised when they act normal." That comment was mind blowing and takes staying calm during trial to a whole new level. Thank you, Rebecca. I will keep this in mind.

@eastside907ak9

Жыл бұрын

It scares me when there nice

@Jmg354

Жыл бұрын

There's no hope, them acting like a normal human being, When the evil is simmering Inside them, at all times, They are miserable people Want to dragg down every one They know, especially there close empaths, or empath, Carry around a voice recorder at all times

@thebewitchinghour831

Жыл бұрын

When mine is calm for too long, I just know that the meltdown is coming soon. He made it for 8 days before his meltdown this last time. I was impressed.

Highlights: Important to remember- 8:40 The narcissist wants you to be triggered (the narcissist gets supply from your being triggered 8:41 The narcissist wants to position you to look like “the crazy one” 9:09 As long as you are giving the narcissist “supply,” the narcissist will never leave you alone SIX WAYS to deal with narcissist’s false allegations 1. (9:27) Respond, don’t react (be very calm & deliberate, not triggered or reactive) 2. (10:03) Make sure to document everything, in REAL TIME (too hard to re-create what happened if you wait to chronicle what happened or didn’t happen) 3. (12:15) Don’t get sucked into the mud (view situation as if you’re a third-party detached, objective observer) 4. (13:15) Become like Teflon when it comes to succumbing to guilt trips (be aware that a typical narcissist tactic is to use shame or guilt to manipulate you and when you are aware of this tactic, you can avoid being manipulated into feeling guilty or ashamed) 5. (15:21) Use one method of communication with the narcissist (use email only or, if you have children, you can use an app; if using the app, it’s best for it to be court-ordered so there can be consequences if the narcissist fails to communicate via the app) 6. (16:57) Try not to be alone with the narcissist (so the narcissist cannot fabricate claims against you; use school for transferring child(ren), as drop-off or pick-up to minimize in-person interactions, or have someone with you who can be a witness)

I've been falsely accused such an awful experience

"Spot on!" I am 24 days away to 6-15-22, divorce day. This past week the last piece of the puzzel and a huge piece of leverage was discovered. My ex had been working for months but had told the judge that she was disabled and her doctors had not cleared her to go back to work. She has no idea that i now know not only where she works but also how much she makes, when she started, and where she has her direct deposits going. I had been paying her alimony despite me having custody of our 10 year old daughter and she has not been having to pay child support. Also uncovered this week is that she has been on multiple dating sites since 2014 meeting with both men and women and she had the nerve to been accusing me of cheating for all those years smh. She has yet to provide one piece of documentation for this divorce. We had a motion to compel filed and are waiting for her to be sanctioned. She was also found guilty by trial of violating the protection order i had againist her. I have documented like crazy from day one in all forms, journeling, audio recording and video recording. She has lost every little battle so far by me doing my due diligence and the biggest battle is 24 days away. Two days ago she sent me a message saying how she wants us back together and how the family needs us together blah, blah, blah. I did not even respond to it. The beauty of my leverage is that it is rebuttal evidence that is not privy to having get disclosed in discovery. We just continue to not just feed her rope but also her flying monkees. Yes i have all the texts and conversations audio recoded i have had with them so they will be exposed right along with her should they choose to take the stand. My lawyer and i are pushing for the judge to order that we communicate through "our family wizard" post divorce. I have child protective services, my daughters school councelor and teacher, three police officers, multiple family friends and former employees going to court to testify on my behalf. I am so ready to SLAY this malignent narc that had physically, emotionally and sexually abused me over the 23 years i was with her. June 15th is my day to be vindicated and gain justice but most importantly freedom from the insanity. I am breaking the chain of domestic abuse and showing my kids that it is only to late to leave if you are dead. Rebecca your channel has guided me through the legal part of this so thank you. Dr les carter's channel has given me the emotional support group that complements my going to counceling so my thanks also goes to there. If i can make it through this then anyone can do this. Know you are not alone and support is available. Most importantly be true to yourself and dont sacrifice your own morals trying to beat the narc. So strong and stay safe and please take care if your mental health.

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Stay strong! 💪🙌❤

@ReRe_642

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Good luck handle your business.

@julianndavis9415

2 жыл бұрын

Keep us posted on divorce day What a joy to be legally free

@SavedByGrace806

2 жыл бұрын

I am sorry you’re going through this! You’ve already won the battle by staying strong. You got this!

@jloggy7643

2 жыл бұрын

@@angelabluebird609 thank you

Oh boy you nailed it! The ex a covert narcissist FALSELY accuses me of the things he is doing! Smh! Does it daily despite I left HIM 2.5 yrs ago. Tyvm for your knowledge💜

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

You got this!

@scott495

Жыл бұрын

I left her 3 years ago and it took watching this and hearing from other people who relate because they literally went through the same things everything she did she accused me of doing to her

I had a covert religious Narcissist in my life several years ago, and she'd actually take the time to call me and hurl false accusations at me and call me names. And yes, she "love-bombed" me at first. I had just been diagnosed with lymphoma, and she came to see me. As we sat on my couch, she looked around at all the nice things in my apt., then buried her face in her hands, appearing to weep-and I fell for it! What an idiot. I gave her a hug and thought "She must be really tender-hearted," and gave her a hug. Then she asked if she could use my bathroom. I joked "Yeah, got a quarter?" But when she went in my bathroom, I never heard the toilet flush. NOW I realize she was faking "collecting" herself. She wanted me to think she was drying her eyes-yet I never saw any tears! As time went by, she manipulated me into hiring her and her son as my Executors (though she made me pay off my one outstanding dental bill FIRST), for a fee of $3900!!! THEN she manipulated me into paying $5 grand for her son's books to be published. And now that I have her son's ministry's Form 990's, I see his ministry was dying, and my "friend" wanted to profit from my death. It's the ultimate betrayal, for someone to exploit your illness and possible imminent death. When I finally dumped her and cut her off from the autopay I had her son's ministry on, she said she couldn't believe there'd been so much misunderstanding, when she was just "concerned" for me. She took my last dime, and she knew it because she'd manipulated me into putting her and her son's names on my accounts, yet she was just "concerned" for me. Unbelievable!!!

After 60 years of being bullied and beaten by my alcoholic sister, I found your channel. Now I know why she behaves the way she does, but none of her 5 children and their families don't know. She does to them what she used to do with me including her drunken rages. She last beat me when I was 65, knowing I have acute heart failure and COPD. Enough, I walked away. She spread filthy lies about me and because they've never seen one of your videos, they accept her lies as the truth. If I'm challenged about any of it, I won't defend myself at all, it's a waste of time as they think I am the liar. None of my family contact me now because of what she's told them. I call it 'Doing the rounds' as she can only 'feed off' one family member at a time, then she's done with them and starts on someone else. She still tries contacting me, the last excuse was she got shot, of course a lie. She's dead to me now, thanks to you telling me why she behaves the way she does. I'm grateful to you letting me know what is wrong with her.

Spot on, as always! The more I learn about narcissism, the more I feel bad for those who suffer from it, especially in excess. But, that shred of sympathy only goes so far, considering they're still usually mean, angry, manipulative, bullies. Just the same, I often just tell myself "They're simply unhappy creatures who are jealous of the happiness of light bringers".

@catherinevaz6139

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. They suck the light and life out of good people. They are psychological vampires.

@asligar3887

3 ай бұрын

I agree with you completely. I understand where it comes from and the how's and why's of what happened to me but I don't think it's justifiable to treat anyone abusively because you are hurting. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and take care 🙂🌬💕

I just went through a nasty divorce with a covert narcissist. It took me a while to learn the person I was dealing with. I’m thankful to come out on the other side mostly unscathed. You MUST request a court ordered app to communicate, I did and I wish I had done it sooner. My story has a happy ending though. Although I went though a year of literal hell with someone making false allegations, trying to financially ruin me and me having to spend 20k in attorney fees to uncover the truth it was absolutely necessary!!! I also had to use my leverage very strategically. Now I’m actually better off even financially after this I am happy to say. It was a huge chess game during the entire divorce that lasted more than a year. Never trust someone who you suspect is a narcissist especially during a divorce. I lost a few pawns and even a bishop or a rook, but in the end I got checkmate. Rebecca is “spot on”with this advice. I wish I discovered this advice in the first month of my divorce. Its essential and can help you survive and even thrive in the long run. Someday soon I will have to share my full story. I could write a book on it. Do NOT underestimate how low a narcissist will go in a divorce!

@amandahagee4692

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in the middle of a nasty divorce and custody battle with the covert narcissist I’ve been with total for almost 10 years. Absolutely hell for my son (5 y/o autistic boy) and 14 year old daughter. Please tell me we will get on the other side of this! I’ve been using a lot of Rebecca’s wonderful strategies and even though I’ve lots a couple bishops and rooks, he is unraveling now. He is surprisingly proving to the court through his desperate behavior why it would be impossible to co-parent with! Man, I hope this turns out the way it should be!

@marionthompson3365

2 жыл бұрын

Well done Keith and sending my best wishes x

@marcusavila2961

2 жыл бұрын

No defamation court?

@therealtyronehill

Жыл бұрын

I'm going thru the same thing right now. Dealing with charges bc they believe the Narcissist.

Everything is spot on Rebecca. I grew up with a psychopath for a mother. She tried to kill me more than a few times. She turned my brothers against me. Why did I become her target? She wanted a girl. She did some of the most horrible things to me you could imagine. I am in therapy. I have memory gaps but writing a book has helped me put the pieces together. INCREDIBLE! Pure evil!

@TruthBeTold0914

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your post. It helps others- myself- to not feel so alone. I'm so sorry you grew up with this. My only differences are that mine hasn't tried to kill me, she just physically and mentally abused me. And I am a female, the only one. So I think there was something to that (I'm the scapegoat) She loves the males in my family more and treats them way different. She turned my family against me too and I've been recently black listed from them. I hope you get to share your writing, I'll be interested to see it.

@fortythiefs

Жыл бұрын

@@TruthBeTold0914 thank you so much. It is an amazing read. A real page turner. All kinds of abuse. 08/24/2022 filed a criminal complaint against someone she got to try and kill me in 2018. I found the video through Google. I thought I lost it. Google sent me an email the day before with the video. Your memories from 2018. Thank God for Google

I'm going to court right now. This one actually gave herself a black eye.

@fron645

2 ай бұрын

no way? I mean are we surprised?

@RebeccaZungEsq

12 күн бұрын

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Man this hit hard . After 22 years of marriage I found actual evidence to prove her infidelity . The next day she told the police I raped her and my life was shattered. I lost my kids , my family, my house and job making $10k a month . She Told everyone I never paid bills and I was mean . I volunteered to coach all my kids after school activities . And after she couldn’t pay the bills but I mentioned she said I never paid anything that why can’t she pay like she claimed I didn’t do . I’m still dealing with the Courts over this . After I helped her get a new car for my daughter to have transportation. She told the courts I went to her house and started arguing with her . She did try to start the argument but I left . But again I’m the one in trouble. Stay away from these people.. I even stopped contact with my children and that hurts this most but it’s for my own good .

@jodiejo1609

Жыл бұрын

Oh honey wow!!! Praying for you! God has this. I’ve been through similar and I promise you that it WILL work out! This is not the rest of your life. It will end. Your children back in your life soon. Love again. So much pain I know. Praying nightly for you. ❤️🙏

@Mellyouttaphase

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear this. My partner is a victim of false allegations as well. You have to keep going, push through hell and get out the other side. It’s the last thing she expects! Also. We need to speak about this SO MUCH MORE! We have a system that is set up to protect people but was left wide open for exploitation by shameless manipulators. We need to fight the system and change it so we stop aiding and abetting these LIARS! (Yeah, I’m angry)

@stardustsparkles22

Жыл бұрын

@@jodiejo1609 Hi Jodie,My name is Meri-lee. I really need your prayers. I'm dealing with major coercive control, stalking,false accusations, and attempts on my life. I've been drugged against my will,accused, threatened,I can't take anymore, and I have no money! And he puts gps trackers in my stuff. Other people are actually helping him and lots of people believe I'm a slut and I'm not even sleeping with anyone! Celibate going in four years in January. Help please. If you can please pray neither one of my enemies win against me and that ppl can help me and know I'm not a bad person that would be great. Much love to you. Thank you for your time.💛💯

@howyduinyall7653

Жыл бұрын

You’re definitely not on your own my friend, it’s true what the Bible says “the devil rules the earth”, not for much longer thankfully. 1 John chapter 5 verse 19 and Psalm 37 verses 10,11 amongst others.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

This is where Satan's deadly wound ( extreme blow to his pride given him in the Garden of Eden for wanting to be worshipped like God in his own right) will be healed (+ Rev 13:3). Satan is called the accuser of the brethren ( Rev.12:10) in the last days ( times of the light/ righteousness of the gospel of Jesus Christ going on in the world) before darkness (unrighteousess; the power and authority of Satan through his heads and people /followers) takes over completely in an overwhelming attempt to overthrow the government of God .The world ( described in Rev.13:8) will be worshipping an accusing god( by reason of transgression >Dan.8:12)> the sins of God's people > Mat.1:21, described in 1COR.1:26-28 Rev.2:20 seems to indicate that there will be plenty of Jezebel types teaching in the temple in the last days

My mother accused falsely I just blocked her and went no contact and banned her from coming near me or my home or my kids. Blood doesn't make family. My ex also took me to court and all the lies he said about me the judge saw through him and his lies because we had not spoken or seen each other for 3 years. He lost the case and lost his money too. The judge rolled in my favour and I couldn't be more happier ☺️.

Narcissists are real people, remember stay good and even if you can't smile, be the bigger person ALWAYS, it works believe me.

It's like this illness makes them all play from the same coaches playbook, its very fascinating

@phoenix_sol_riseup2556

Жыл бұрын

Isn’t it!?

@Rabswood296

5 ай бұрын

If it wasn't so stressful it would be fascinating.

I wish I knew about narcissist behavior when I was young. Your description of how my 1st husband acted is spot on. I was with him for 13 yrs. Unfortunately, the relationship started when I was 18. I "escaped" when I was 33. It took me years to get over the bullshit he did. Not only during the entire relationship, but the child custody battle was awful! Lasted 2 years with me keeping every single email we exchanged, keeping a diary of his behavior and our conversations. Later when my son was old enough to understand things, he questioned MY behavior due to what his father told him. His father had poisoned his mind about me not caring, etc. I simply took out those emails and he saw the real picture. So in short (too late) document everything. Every exchange you have, who was there etc. It's a pain sometimes but it really helped my relationship with my son. After he saw the reality, he saw his dad in a new light and it wasn't good.

@TheQueensWish

2 жыл бұрын

Very smart to save the documentation, even for years. They hope their words will never come up again but if they have been saved .... you’ve got them.

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

Nikki Larsen,You deserve better

@tiersanapeterson1043

Жыл бұрын

@@oscarwilliamson6163

THANK YOU. My ex wife told her family and friends I was abusing her and mistreating her… I divorced her cuz she was cheating and had a child by her AP. Cuz she needed a place to stay, she started lying to her family about me… I send them screenshots of how she was begging me to take her back, how wonderful a guy I am etc 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Always keep receipts ladies and gentlemen

@ARedMagicMarker

Жыл бұрын

And I take it in the near future, GENUINE receipts, because narcs will not be above trying to fake texts to keep the lie going. I reckon phone companies helping to offer legit backtracking timestamps and receipts for a narc's even further lies will be in order.

Spot on!!!! She always tried to make me feel like I was a horrible person and i bought it for awhile and constantly hated myself. I finally stop buying it and tried to get her to take accountability and that's when I saw a side of her that i had never seen. She basically kicked me out and tried getting other people to think i was a horrible person.

Spot on…sums up my 6 years of marriage. In the process now of trying to ruin my life with false child abuse allegations. Biggest mistake I made was feeling the need to constantly defend myself and react. Wish I would have documented more thoroughly but thank God I did document a lot.

@DnBDuBstep7777777

7 ай бұрын

Well done, good luck mate with your fight...this people are terrible and ready to destroy everything around them

Spot On. This can be so silly they even try to use your reaction to another narcissist to trigger you. That happened to me.

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

Dap Dne,Hope you are not with a narcissist!

@dapdne4916

Жыл бұрын

@@oscarwilliamson6163 thanks. I have changed my situation twice. A person has to.

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

@@dapdne4916 You deserve better.I will be glad to know you.I am Oscar Williamson from Swansboro,NC.You?

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

@@dapdne4916 Which country are you from?

Yep 👍🏼 but easier said than done! Its way deeper than just watching & listening to-advice they know you & how to make trigger & smears LIKE A PRO

After dealing with a narcissist and trying to make sense of it….as soon as you recognize what’s going on….just leave. Forget the strategy, just leave and have them served with a restraining order.

@mollybaker3718

Жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m currently doing. I wish I’d done it a long time ago.

Spot On!!! I dated the poster child! You helped save my life by helping me not get involved again!!!!

YOU ARE SO SPOT ON AND EVERYONE SHOULD BE LEARNING FROM YOU!!

Probably a power and control issue! Then other people believe their lies, so much damn hell.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

This is how Satan comes into power and control through his people and their worshippers, to bring death and destruction

@Rabswood296

5 ай бұрын

The worst thing is trying to prove your innocence.

Most definitely SPOT ON...& from what I've experienced, I explained all of this to narcissist & it was all lies, denial, rage, & attempts of justification for negative behavior. Thank u for informing everyone about this mental behavior.

Spot on, this has been the most devastating experience and painful, but the best experience that has made me one strong woman.

Spot on!!! She’s used the court system against me. Before watching this video I documented everything and it helped so much! Judges do not like liars as you e mentioned. Also evidence is very powerful. I couldn’t afford a lawyer, so I represented myself. She went on smear campaign saying I couldn’t get along with her family when I never really interacted with them ever.

You're so right, they really do give you tons of material to use as leverage but if you can play the long game, as I have for 2 years, you'll end up with a stockpile of goodies for the lawyer. Going to court in September, and all the ammo and truth are on my side.

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Document, document, document! You got this!

Absolutely. Horrific lying and accusations. And this abuse is not recognized, and no one wants to help.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

Satan must be having a BIG, ugly laugh over all of the treacherous accusations, placing his kind in authority and power worldwide. GOD help HIS chosen people

@Rabswood296

5 ай бұрын

Get away go no contact. Move towns if you get the chance

they told me I was paranoid when I said she would make up false allegations about me.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

That's their ignorant way of making light of a dark situation. The ones who should be despised and condemned get the blind eye treatment

Spot on! Your videos have helped me deal with a narcissist family member. I am now on the level that I don’t get triggered anymore, I use only email with them (and they did try to guilt trip me twice for ending communication via phone), email also helps document things. I can now see them for who they are, they mimic a lot, and I feel just so much happier now that I don’t talk to them on the phone. And our email communication is sporadic. Thank you, Rebecca for making these informative videos, they really help people get their power/voices back.

So many things in my life make sense now. Thanks for this.

@dennismclaurin1487

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I get see how the kingdom of Satan was founded

Hello from Alexandria, Virginia. Your descriptions and video examples of narcissistic behavior are "spot on". The practice in which I participated, in Southern California (Mecca for the most narcissistic personalities on earth), was, for me, an ordeal; There is no other term, of which I'm aware, that comes close to adequately describing my experiences. I adopted a six-word phrase that protected me from falling into a narcissist's trap. When people approached me and asked a personal question, I responded in kind with this: Why Do You Want to Know? That shut down the narcissist every time. I very much appreciated your KZread postings. Thank you.

I have been dealing for 37 years with my Narcissistic husband! Didn’t realize it until 5 years ago and Im still getting out of it!! I look at it from the third party now! No longer living with him and it blows my mind what I see! How was I so blind and how did he take my power away? I’m a smart person but he left me a mental mess!!!!! They are soooo good at what they do! Evil😡😡

Being an master @ life is knowing the trickery

This is whats happening to me . False accusations every week . You see multiple personalities. They ignore things they say . You cant stay with a person like this . I notice also that when they start changing into that good person and treat you the way you should be treated it usually only lasts a day than it all goes back to that other personality that makes accusations and is short with you . Its a pattern . It goes over and over just like that . In my case they admitted they were a narcissist than come back and say at least i can admit what i am . Than they lay another guilt trip on you . There is no peace when you are with someone like this . Its sad for me because they know how they treat you and they dont care and you love them . We will separate soon . Its not what i wanted . Its not what God wanted . You can only take care of you at this point. I wasnt educated enough to know what i walked into. I loved who i thought she was. Thank you for the advise .

@freddynovember5842

Жыл бұрын

Alot of the times what we want is not what's best for us. You can't allow yourself to let someone elses issues drag you down. Know God did not make you to fail. Know that you have the strength in you to overcome all obstacles if you just tap into the inner badass that is in all of us. Tap into your iron will and it will help you through now, this moment in eternity

@akomeyam

Жыл бұрын

Yep.False accusation almost daily...Multiple personalities. How can they change personality in a second. THey will never hear you. They can voice out, but we can't.

@kathibeatty7948

Ай бұрын

Never hearing you goes so many ways. It’s not just the explaining what you want or need, they don’t hear you about anything! I can tell him about an event, a movie coming up etc. and he does not remember hours later. I am a non person to him beyond domestic supply.

In a previous suit against my brother I almost busted out laughing. I cited he kept driving by three or four times an evening like a stalker. He said to the judge "With the price of gas right now, what sane person would do that?" I was thinking "Thank you. You just made my point for me!"

100% real time... no matter the issue. Having a journal that looks like something else is perfect.

Oh my gosh. Spot on. I am in the middle of divorcing and I am dealing with mom who is a piece of work at times. Since I have woke up on finding out narcissist people, I could not believe how many were around me. My mom, one brother, my stbx, and my brother's girlfriend. Your videos are spot on with the behaviors that have been exhibited. I am in therapy now working to heal from the damage caused by these no good buzzards.

SPOT ON! You are awesome thank you for confirming that what i am doing dealing with my sister is correct. No emotion when there are false allegations as she wants me to get upset so she can then behave shocked and ask why am i upset lol

Lord knows this is so hard when you have children

I find most of my covert narcs accusations were actually projections of what they are doing. For example she accused me of hiding money, gambling, substance abuse, & having another partner on the side. All things she has been doing!

This is so excellent! Just had a terrible confrontation with a terrible unhappy family narcissist. She triggered me and I bit. But I have to admit she was relentless. Even though it was in public I learned a lot. Never ever again.

The devaluing phase lasted years while he was sleeping with his friend's wife and waited for me to complete a very rigorous RN program. The final year of our marriage was the discard, behind-the-scenes set-ups, smear campaigns, etc. So by the time he dumped me, he had already set up his plan with his friend's wife and his flying monkeys and others had already heard what a terrible wife and mother I was.

I have watched 4 of your videos all in a row, and can’t stop watching them. You are so informative, on all the topics of the narcissist. I was married to one for 20 years. I never saw it, think I did but didn’t know what was going on. She would just make me in raged with anger I’d blow up. After our son was born, started walking, talking. That’s when my eyes began to open and see what all had been and was going on. By the time he was 5 I’d had enough. I wanted to just leave, but didn’t feel totally right in leaving when he was so young. I stuck around until he was almost 12. Like you said in your video. A day after I left, she had asked me to come back quite a few times. I said no each time. By day three of leaving the smear campaign began. It had already started before I left. The smear campaign began to be really bad, I mean it was just awful. It did quite a number on me too. I wound moving, leaving the state, to set some distance. The smear campaign still continues with her telling our son bad things about me. Most all of it is total lies. Your videos have enlightened me so much, I see and deal with narcissists on a daily basis it seems. This is all so helpful. Thank you sooo much.

@RebeccaZungEsq

28 күн бұрын

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Rebecca, you’re Spot On. However, it’s way more difficult and much more dynamic when one is dealing with their narcissistic parent. Very helpful though.

@TruthBeTold0914

Жыл бұрын

💯 thank you, exactly my thought.

Yes the Guilt trips !! - using the children , saying what an awful selfish mother I am !! And yes they change their facts frequently, I never thought my ex husband was stupid when we were together but I certainly do now, trips himself up time and time again - it’s like he’s delusional- very odd !

Wonderful Rebecca, The more of these videos I watch, the less significant and less effective narcissists' manipulation, destruction, seduction, domination and desperation seem. These people are just so weak. It's sad to know that they, themselves, could actually be productive and healthily co-existent with the rest of us and have the potential to create, promote and foster a giving, inclusive landscape in their own, and others' lives. But, very tragically, they won't. Thanks for making US the winners, Rebecca!

I don't understand narcissistic behavior, but I do understand second chances. Which you have become a fine example of ❤

37 years with a narcissist. Only a few years ago realized that he is a narcissist and what narcissism is! I am emotionally and physically drained. 3 times Cancer which I truly believe was stressed induced. We are religious and my husband always uses religion to back up his narcissistic behaviour. Happy to find your channel. I have a lot to learn!

@tinawheeler8517

Жыл бұрын

I myself just realized my husband’s a narcissist.. I agree with your about your illnesses.. I’ve lost 30 lbs in the last month in a half.. I asked my husband if he noticed and he said no.. Lol.. from 160 to 130 .. seriously. I had started to concern me so I did get some blood work done waiting for the results. I’ll be praying for you. Sorry you’ve lived in this misery..

@simoneshlomi3869

Жыл бұрын

@@tinawheeler8517 Praying for you too! Thank you!

I am so grateful for you Rebecca. You are literally helping me save my life.

@oscarwilliamson1128

Жыл бұрын

gretchen moran towers,You look cute,Hope you are not with a narcissist…..

This one has my me on it. My roommate loves to do this, And tell other people too! Oh my ex husband said awful lies even in the original divorce papers. I had a great lawyer my I got everything. I never react when my roommate starts making false allegations and acting like a lunatic. Thanks again Rebecca!❤️ Spot on!

@minoozolala

Жыл бұрын

You’d better move out or get rid of the roommate or they’ll hurt you badly.

I'll tell you how you deal with someone's narcissistic traits you walk away go no contact and never look back. Wish I had been stronger in the earlier stages but here I am getting my self worth back.

@RebeccaZungEsq

28 күн бұрын

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My heart is on my sleave so I react when accused. Ask me anything and I'll answer. But accuse then I'm going to react, especially when we both know it's a load of BS. Never ever again. I'd rather die lonely, and I'm starting to believe that's their end game. As for the abuse, it's disgusting. I fortunately screen shot a text. I've had arguements with full grown angry men and never received anywhere near the things she's called me. Always via text or behind closed doors. They even use the info you give them on previous break ups. They ask you how other relationshits broke up, catching you off guard and discard you a couple weeks later. When you get over the discard and relay it back to yourself, you're amazed at how similar the discard was to the previous.only they have to go one better.

My mother is this person, constantly. No matter what I do (or more accurately often times, do not do) she will accuse and assume and absolutely refuse to listen to proof of the contrary. So ridiculously childish for a 60 year old woman.

@RebeccaZungEsq

28 күн бұрын

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@lisatchappell912

Күн бұрын

Mine Too!!!

Unbelievable, my ex makes these false conversations. I thought it was only happening to me!

Exactly, they act you react. My time line is accurate and you are 💯 percent accurate. Spot on.

@RebeccaZungEsq

28 күн бұрын

This might help you better >>> slaythenarc.com ✨

It’s so true you can catch a thief but it’s hard to catch a liar and some are such good liars

And it almost destroys you when they actualy see some of the crazy crazy lies

Scary how accurate you are in your assessment. Good info. Thank you.

Rebecca, with one of these points, it was mentioned to keep documentation of events. I have been watching several videos of narcissism and I am finally happy to see this video where you state to keep records and to document every instance of every time when I have been abused. One time I was accused for something that I had allegedly done, but I knew that I was innocent. When I handed my sibling a documentation it was very quiet at the time and to date no apology has been given. THANK YOU.

@RebeccaZungEsq

28 күн бұрын

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#4 is spot on! I’m constantly amazed at hearing how I have screwed up. “You made me be born in Arkansas!” (He’s 38 yrs old now). The only limitation of how evil I am is his imagination !

Man, all these are spot on. The biggest challenge our family is facing is my brother’s soon-to-be ex wife. They were together like 23 years and she is just an absolute nightmare. She’s trying to fight for a family business and pass it as her own. The biggest disappointment has been my brother’s weak ass attorneys.

Lady, this is GOLD! Thank you 🙏🏾

Thank you so much Rebecca. I literally am in tears listening to you. Ex wife currently accusing me of sexual misconduct against my 4 year old daughter. 😢 CPS already closed one case, now coming out again in 2 days for new allegations. And a court hearing on Friday after judge denied her emergency application for sole custody while I (the dad) gets a Psych evaluation. She just won’t STOP!!! 😢 You are SPOT ON. She doesn’t follow the initial divorce decree, constantly makes false accusations. Now won’t let me FaceTime with our daughter. And I just have to take all this abuse and now pay for an attorney I clearly cannot afford. I feel so helpless. But you have me some hope tonight. Thank you 🙏

Thank you soooo much for all of your encouragement in your videos! Sooo reasuring & needing these GREAT reminders from each daily video! You ROCK!😎👍🏻🔥💞🤗SLAY!🔥🔥🔥

Spot on! This is so true with any type of narcissist. Good advice.🤔❤️🇺🇸

Bless you Rebecca love you you're so right..!! My NARC's are coming apart...!! Great video !! Truth sets the Victims Free..!!

Right on, spot on Rebecca. I think of them as the private real person and the (false) public acter person, and you are so right, they don't want witnesses to your conversation. 😊If they really want to talk to you, I say ok, and record the whole conversation on the phone. Accusations, I say, send me an email laying out your grievances.

I am gray rocking my NC. He is completely withholding money from me and is financially abusive, aside from the hateful, display of verbal abuse! He picks fights over the most trivial things!

Thank you for making these vids! You are helping so many people.

Thank you so much Rebecca for your wonderful advice. I have used your advice recently dealing with a narc son in law. He has done major emotional damage that I'm healing from. He hit me financially as well but I'm recovering. He tried to take my home but did not succeed. I recommend everyone who is dealing with a narc to please follow your advice. Even tho I've been no contact for 5 months he recently tried to get me to respond to text messages. It was bait. I recognized it. So I'm still following your advice Rebecca and I'm succeeding! Thank you so much!! I appreciate you!!

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

Tammy Brasel,You deserve better

@tammybrasel2951

Жыл бұрын

@@oscarwilliamson6163 thank you!

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

@@tammybrasel2951 You are welcome 😊.I will be glad to know you.I am Oscar Williamson from Swansboro,NC.You?

@oscarwilliamson6163

Жыл бұрын

@@tammybrasel2951 Which country are you from?

People are replying for compliments but I can tell you that your presentation shows that you need healing. I need healing as well I regret that I clicked on this channel

Spot on; I’m in the middle of this very nightmare- and everything you say is correct; just had to leave my girls as they sobbed asking to come with me because being with her is a nightmare-

Rebecca, I want to thank you for your recent advice... much love.

Hi Rebecca! I just finished listening to the whole video and I took notes! This was an absolutely incredible and so helpful video! Thank you so much! When you mentioned the smear campaign taking place before the discard, YUP!!! And becoming a Teflon coated impartial/indifferent observer made so much sense! I'm gonna have to listen to this again and again and again because it's so to the point! Thank you so very much! 🙏⚖️🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

You got this!

12 years blind so painful to realize so many times the heart was stepped on .😅so much love accumulated!

Spot on! Thank you! I needed this today.

Thank you Rebecca! Stay blessed 💜

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

You too, Angie!

They have conversations with themselves... mine would talk to himself all the time , mumble under his breath and he is creating a story that fits his narrative .

When my narcissist ex started his crap I was devastated. Telling him I didn't believe a word he said in months as I was leaving him was a GLORIOUS feeling.

@RebeccaZungEsq

12 күн бұрын

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