PHONE PHONE PHONE PHONE PHONE. Without a cell phone, a cheater is powerless.

They commit to cheating on people and cheating in life's game but they're never committed to life itself

@cynthiadunlap9071

6 күн бұрын

Nope never

They do it right in your face and behind your back at the same time. They want you to feel insecure and unsure but it’s impossible to be THAT fake and hypocritical.

i suspect that all serial cheaters are narcissists. You have to have complete lack of empathy and be mentally off to do a heinous act like that.

@jasonforsyth6191

10 күн бұрын

15 years of thinking she had a split personality only to realize none of the good times were genuine.

Turning the phone away when you walk up on them or turn it over on table ..

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@user-er9hv4pl2u

19 күн бұрын

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@peterwilliams6361

19 күн бұрын

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

@user-er9hv4pl2u

19 күн бұрын

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

@peterwilliams6361

19 күн бұрын

You wont regret it

Yes, I experienced all of these! Unfortunately, the flying monkeys were our own kids. To this day, they still just think I just had mental health issues and have gone through estrangement with 2 out of 5. I never put down their dad or told them to truth, because i thought I was imagining things. Fortunately I am divorced and it’s behind me.

@thenativeconservationist

19 күн бұрын

So sorry Lauren. Good be with you 🙏🏽❤️

@thenativeconservationist

19 күн бұрын

God

@user-wj7lp7ok1l

16 күн бұрын

Good for you! Leaving is harder than staying.

@priscillaL83

16 күн бұрын

Oh my goodness thankyou so much for this comment. Yes unfortunately they slowly brainwash the kids right under your nose. Not just kids but the friends you share with them. They will manipulate your family too.

@foreverblest54

15 күн бұрын

God help and be near you. I also have been Thur it all it’s rough my divorce has been over for decades but still I have trouble but God does help me

Oh my goodness this all happened to me. My ex husband contacted his ex while i was pregnant with my second child. He invited her to stay with him in a hotel to " hook her up with his Army buddy". He always accused me of cheating . He also took " business trips". Its amazing how many people he manipulated.

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@robdegrilla2618

9 күн бұрын

Narcissists do a ton of projection. Basically they accuse you of what they’re up to. Mine’s poison is parental alienation. She kept accusing me of trying to turn the kids against her. 3 out of 4 won’t talk to me anymore. I’m very obviously totally rubbish at parental alienation 😂 take note of what they accuse you of. They’re expressing both their guilty secret and fear

@priscillaL83

9 күн бұрын

@@robdegrilla2618 thankyou for this comment now i dont feel so alone. Thid is exactly what happened to me and now my kids will always take his sude because he constantly plays the victim. Sadly in cases like this the kids find out many years down the road who the victim really was. You know what though the way i see it is we both know the truth and we did our best to live life honestly. The narc may be getting away now but not forever.

@robdegrilla2618

9 күн бұрын

@@priscillaL83 I believe so. When you’re out of the picture the narc has lost their scape goat to project all their sins onto. It raises the risk that others are subject to the behaviours and inability to self regulate. I also think that narcissists carry their own hell with them. They seem hyper vigilant, as though they think everyone is like them and going to backstab them. Apart from sugar hits from acts of cruelty, I don’t think narcissists can experience happiness

@priscillaL83

9 күн бұрын

@@robdegrilla2618 thats exactly what it is. I think thats why they get meaner as they age because all the kids left hime and spouse is gone too so they have no one to give them supply. It amazes me how many people they manipulate against you right under your very nose. Due to the lack of resources on this disorder back in the day i wasnt educated earlier on it so i fell victim to narcissist quiet a few times. I am a very empathic person so we can be sniffed out pretty easily. I am so glad that more people are being educated on this.

All this happened to me. I caught my covert narcissist wife right after the first date she had with her coworker last month. I noticed a sudden change in her behavior and that she is speaking about this coworker constantly. I spied on her and recorded their conversation. They took a half day off went into a hotel room and spent 4 hours. I also heard them say that they have had the best sex ever. This is so evil and sad, especially when you realize that you fully trusted and fell in love with someone who stabbed you in the back. I confronted her that same night and now we are filing for divorce. I just discovered she is a narcissist last week. I need to save my 6 year old daughter from that demon, she is my angel. I pray for my daughter everyday and I hope that our divorce and crazy so-called mother will not affect her life really hard

I suspected and confronted her about it and she made me believe that it was all in my head and that if I didn't get help I could get out. 4 months later find all the text messages and pictures. Confronted her again and her response was,"good for you, get over it"

@sandyyoung-boling9336

20 күн бұрын

Well I hope you told her that you had already got over it cause you she's not worth it since she couldn't admit it when asked. That's as bad as it gets when they are ask and they lie straight to your face

@jakelee7657

20 күн бұрын

@@sandyyoung-boling9336 For whatever reason I have stayed and tried to put the past behind me, but,two years later,I still get triggered and she tells me I'm living in the past. I hate to quit on 40 years together, but I am at my limit. I'm going to have to leave before I end up hating her.

@motoonthis1514

16 күн бұрын

Same thing happened to me, except her excuse was “we weren’t together”. Starting to find out she’s been doing it for years. As soon as me and get in a fight or have martial problems she goes and has unprotected sex.

@sandyyoung-boling9336

15 күн бұрын

@@jakelee7657 I've been told the same thing that I'm living in the past and I went through 5years of multiple changes in his behaviors that all pointed to infidelity. Idk i don't have solid proof plenty of things that led me to my gut instinct telling me that something was going on in some way & that he was keeping it from me. We are still married but live apart due to a long story, when I said the hell with this roommate bs and started walking THEN he started scrambling to get me to move forward and just forget all about the broken marriage and lets be us again. 😂yea bc that'll work 🙄thats been 4years ago I see no real effort being put in to us other than words but no actions no respect for our home yet I've never let go.

Yes, my ex said she was going to her sister's house. Watch a movie. Have some wine and talk, she lived a mile away, so I see her on social media (on her cousins page) he videos her and her sister walking into a bar, 90 miles away, in their old neighborhood. I text her, what are you doing in Maywood? She texted back, "There you go, being delusional again!" While im watching her 🤷‍♂️

I have mediation tomorrow and he is in contempt of court again ! He didn’t care about the court order

I’m 62 yrs .Delt with this 50 yrs ..I now know how to handle him thanks to these wonderful people who helped me through..And I love playing back knocks him off his feet at times …stay strong 💪

@KellyJoseline-jg2wi

8 күн бұрын

I’ve been through the same experience not until I noticed my partner making late night calls in the sitting room, changed his phone password to face recognition. I got a clone copy of his messenger apps he wasn’t transparent and accountable all these years

I was married 17 years always suspected my ex over the years all the above happened regularly my goodness you mentioned it all! but at the end all the signs of betrayal slapped me - the Triple A’s the gaslighting the quick trip to the hardware store. I was Done! He had an affair over a year but i couldn’t catch him then he got violent with me again and then had a second affair one month later and that was it!!! I busted his hand with a cell phone bill. I’ve been divorced 21 years never met a good guy thereafter it’s been hard but better than the 17 years of living with narcissist , he married the Second Lady in 2007 claims she is perfect the love of his life. Thank you for all your support

@Leola-yk4oq

20 күн бұрын

Feels almost like me I was married 18 years then divorced stayed as friends then 3 years after divorce he left me for his friends girlfriend I had a feeling he cheated on me with her and she is a very nasty person Then he said to me she has showed him nothing but love and he loves her after 21 years and she does this. Very hurt full

@greyfox243.

13 күн бұрын

Everything with the narc is over the top. Using words like this or that is THE best ( my ex had his “dream job” at least three times). Barf.

Yes all of those signs every single one

YES. I've gotten it all and more for several years now. worse is...Her Bestie Man friend. Always says they fight but will defend him to her last breath. Has her movie nights and dinner dates or lunches. When caught or confronted I'm the one put in the box on the shelf for weeks and told I'm the one in the wrong. EXAMPLE. I had minor heart attack and she didn't come to hospital... He breaks his toe and she rushes to the E.R. to hold his hand.

We are our worst enemies...my ex wife was a whole who slept around got pregnant by her boss while we were married.... I saw a physiologist she told me the cheater will always blame the partner for cheating which in my case was true...I could never have been truer... When they cheat they will ALWAYS accuse the partner.....

My narcissistic ex-wife always accused me of having affairs whenever I made new friends, whether male or female, but I believe she had a number of affairs when I was with her. Just before I left her, she confirmed my suspicions because I heard her having what seemed to be intimate conversations over her phone and she also was bold enough to tell me our marriage was dead and I was free to have an affair if I wanted to!

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I've been married to mine for 32 years. I realized he's a narcissist only a little over a year ago. Everything you're saying is everything I've gone through for the whole relationship. What I don't understand is does he know he's doing this? Or has he set out to do this to me? Looking back there have always been signs but I was young and dumb and just ignored them. There's no reason for me to stay but I feel guilty for wanting to go. I don't know what to do

@shirlspark_stardust

12 күн бұрын

Pray about it ask God make a way

My narcissist was also a recovering addict who was able to leave the house any day of the week and any time of the day, morning,afternoon, or night because he needed a ‘meeting’ His affair went on for 6 years and I didn’t have a clue. He did go to legitimate meetings too because I was friends with a lot of the other addicts and he stayed very active doing service work and staying clean , but it made it so much easier for him to lead his double life

@tresboujay

11 күн бұрын

This totally happens my ex narc was a sex addict. He even admitted he stopped going because it was nothing but a hook up market.

Can someone please help me this man is going to make me go crazy

@laquintonpiggee5855

6 күн бұрын

I feel you! This woman is driving me crazy!!! Oh my I need to leave her!

I had ALWAYS been a faithful wife….so I know that faithful people can exist. However, I am so pissed off after being faithful to my first husband (he died of cancer) for 31 years, only to be gaslit and tolerate his unfaithfulness……and then getting screwed over again in my second marriage (which is still ongoing for nearly 20 years)…..that I don’t hold out any hope for a faithful spouse in my lifetime! I’m not playing this game ever again! When/if I can break free of this marriage, I’ll just remain single. Apparently, my being faithful means nothing to the men I marry.

Yes, they will also say they have to be at work super early like 3am when they actually can't start working construction til 6 am. While I'm sleeping early in the am he would sneak out. He used to come see ME at 3am so I automatically caught on to that. They will also have a lot of females they talk to that are just friends. They also tell on themselves alot because they can't keep all the lies straight. I remember every word he said. I have had 2 narcissist boyfriends in a row. The first one woke me up to it, so I saw the second ones shenanigans right away. I caught the first one red handed with someone else and he told me "no that wasn't me you saw" . I just laughed because that was so ridiculous, of course it was him. He left when he realized he couldn't gaslight me. They also get some kind of kick out of doing things like that right under your nose. Like we would go for a walk and walk right by the other girls apt. The first one used to take my dog with him. Then when I would walk her she would automatically go up to the same door 3 houses down. Come to find out, he had been seeing her for months. Damn I wish my dog could talk to this day! LoL. I'm able to laugh about it now, but then I was so devastated. I had no idea how many real narcissists there are out there! They started praying on me because I'm a really open, honest, and kind person. They mistake my kindness for stupidity!

@sandyyoung-boling9336

15 күн бұрын

Yep they sure do only we're not stupid. Good for you for standing up and believing in yourself and not staying with them.

Yes... Just went through all this in the last few weeks. My ex got back together with her still married ex-boyfriend... After all the things I've done for her and she string me along for a year doing the" I need to find myself and I don't even want anything from anybody right now but I love you and I trust you..." treatment on me. There's more to it of course, but this is the comment section on KZread and unfortunately I'm not perfect and lost myself a couple of times when arguing with her about certain things. Therapists tell me this was a verbal version of reactive abuse on my end basically because of all the BS and things I should have never had to hear, or deal with, or that she should have ever done if she was a healthy person. Very sad and enraging stuff after all the confusion and lies... Feeling a lot better now after not talking for almost a week and having blocked her number. Hoping to stay strong I'm hoping I don't run into them, I will be hard because I live like three blocks away.

The word, "narcissist" has been bastardized. A narcissist has been conflated with a manipulative, self serving, self absorbed, inward thinking, arrogant, egotistical, self righteous person. Simply put, they are not the same. You're entire premise is flawed. Keep up the good work.❤

Me he was a recovering addict and alcoholic and he would get tel nos of other women at his meetings (alcholics anonymous/narcotics, etc) and he constantly told me I was jealous, it was all me. I always felt in my gut he was lying all the time wanting to hook up with someone else. I wish I would have known this, your talk, 20 yrs ago. Yes yes

My boyfriend denies ever having said something yet it was recorded on his channel while streaming. He has a selektive memory.

Hi I have seen this my whole marriage thats crazy and they make you feel nuts ive been accused of cheating so many times im just over it thats what I get for being faithful

Yes, all of this. 30 years of being together and 26 years married .... Can't believe how much I was put down latterly, he acted like a cuckoo in a nest. Am in a much better place now divorced, it hasn't been easy. Onwards and upwards to a much better place 🙂🙏

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@audreyblackmon8413

15 күн бұрын

Me too

yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!

My husband kept telling me his kids did not look like him He go at my work and tell them I had a mental illness breakdown it goes on and on it’s crazy mean while he was having affair with his coworkers

yes especially in changing of appearance

@SusieBear-ji3hq

20 күн бұрын

and in the dousing of cologne 😅

Yes. I was told it was business. He'd yake ideas we'd talk about. My aspirations dreams, then He'd run to other women pretend it was his idea, & lure them in, then pretend it was another business idea the woman had that needed his help implementing. He'd target women with children to pretend he was into helping the yout. Then He'd set up a playdaylte with our child & theirs @ homeboys house, & tell me I needed a Mommy day off & suggest I go to the casino with a friend of mine, he knew she stayed for long hours, & since I was riding with her he knew I wouldn't be back for a while. I didn't catch any of it right off it took me a while to notice our lack of spending time together. He would blame it on video shooting, model photography, and never brought money home, saying he was bartering services in exchange for the experience.

Yes the use of all of those

Great information//yeap, I've experienced those

Yes, I've seen this .I deserve the best loving ❤️ ❤️

You have given a clear description of my wife.

My ex used to time my trips to the grocery store! If I took too long (by his perceptions), he accused me of having an affair! One time, I was so pissed I replied, “Yes! You caught me. Somehow, I managed to have a wild sexual encounter with the store manager in the dairy aisle, I managed to return home with a car full of groceries, and I did it all in 45 minutes!” Get real! Oh, and yes, he was cheating on me - with several women. The good news is that one of his ladies snapped, gave me all the evidence I needed, and HE LOST EVERYTHING! It’s been five wonderful years since our divorce, and my life is wonderful! If you are with a narcissist, get away ASAP! Life gets much better.

I had a hunch that i dated one that had cheated on me. She lied stating that the guy was gay. The moment i saw the text and confronted her... statin the text said: I love you with all my heart... and I mentioned no too many gay guys that i knew had said this to a female unless they were close friends. So I woke up early one morning and her phone was flashing on and off... so i decided to look and i saw all sorts of text messages. When i look pictures of it and showed her what was said because she couldn't say i was lying... she was caught

My narc father used me (when I was a child) to hide his affairs, often claiming he was taking me to “play in the park” (he was playing around, all right bur not at the park). He denies it to this day, even coming up with excuse after excuse to blow it off with.

Mine tells me each week he’s going to see her “ mother” then reminds me how this woman took him in during the month I kicked him out. If I confront him that I know he’s using it as an excuse to see her I get the gaslighting then am told I’m just looking for a fight. I actually heard her voice seconds before he hung up the phone on me and he swore it was a kid playing outside 😡😡😡😡

Yes all of the above

I’m always being called crazy he brings in everybody else into the issues saying everybody thinks I’m crazy also he will tell me I am Hallucinating that what I seen or heard is crazy that I am insane. Oh my goodness you have no idea what you do but wow.

Absolutely YES you everything correct

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16 күн бұрын

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💯 Yes.. support

Yes yes absolutely right

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My ex narc built his cheating into his work day. He’d leave uber early and met his flings on the way to work. I also believe that he took days off without my knowledge. He was just gross.

@TAP-xs4nd

8 күн бұрын

So did mine my husband worked at a community college as a maintenance worker surrounded himself with the young girls and the women that worked there got paid to do it

This is good

I'm focused on paying my bills and payments

Hello my 1st time listening

All of the above.

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Yes. I'm going to comment so that if anyone comes close to being abused like me, they see this comment and run.

I have called it out and get told I'm the cheat.

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Yes mine hated nights all of a sudden he started working nights YUP HE DID ..

Yes

See them all

"Yes"

From my experiences with two different women, it seemed that a secondary mental illness was at play as well: they both were bipolar (one was diagnosed as. Ring bipolar). Any connection between the two mental illnesses? Thanks

I also experienced all of this and finally got out of the whole thing ..what I want to know is will they always be like this ..he had other woman all over..do they change or just get better with hiding things ? He's married yet again and with a young child ..does a leopard change spots ?

I’m so blown away by your work ma’am. I’m engaged to a woman who is showing every single sign you’ve shared in this video. She works with a guy that she says is gay, but they’re taking pictures together and she says they’re working on various projects together. I have no idea if he’s really gay, but since she’s been working with him we’ve mot had sex. She claimed she was having an issue with her body but never mentioned anything until I brought up our celibacy. I’m exhausted from worrying and concerns over another person. Lies, gaslighting, and when we were having sex it’s like there’s no emotion. She used to be a beast in bed. There’s so much I could share….

@pierrerahal5397

10 күн бұрын

Just leave her. Don’t move on, it is a fatal mistake turns crime

@Tra1tors

9 күн бұрын

its grown stale and predictable thats why. its almost a chore to have sex now. regardless if you want to save the relationship or end it, you need to take time apart. you cant miss someone who is always there. missing someone=attraction, attraction=bomb sex

@Tra1tors

9 күн бұрын

she needs to worry about you, "am i losing him, is there another women in his life, i wonder what hes up too"? thats all signs of missing someone. if they dont feel like they are losing you? they wont change a bit cause they know youll be waiting there for them when they are finally ready

They always try to befriend the wife of the giy they are sleeping with

I'm trying to come out of an abusive relationship where NPD or cnpd is that play I want to get an attorney and so far he hasn't done anything and I don't know if there's an attorney or someone who can help me with what's coming up with the deposition in reference to the lies. I feel like I'm the one that has to do everything because he's not complying at all.

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Hia Rebecca 💕Yes 🙏

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YES!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes..

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YES

yes

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Other ways: play dates for kids , worker coming to the house to repair, deliver , advise, estimate, install or adjust.

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Yes!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes . How about they tell you that a guy keeps trying to hang out with her and she kinda puts him down and says she would never hang out but the day you leave he's hanging out with him

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When a woman has had a convoy of men in her life, this is a huge red flag.

It took eight yrs.he told me he loved me and three months to take it back few times in the same bar if a guy comes to talk to me he comes over saying that I'm his girl his phone is locked tighter than any jail

❤yes ❤

Coming home late.

They just start a ridiculous argument break up with you storm out for the night/day and return after the affair to “fix” things in their mind they didn’t cheat if you broke up. had a couple of exes like that. 😂

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My husband introduced me to his work colleague’s, got my name wrong though, obviously he was thinking of someone else, maybe lm just over reacting

What about emotional affairs? Do they count because it’s destroyed my self esteem and trust in life. It was very painful and yet he said that I was crazy!

@steviejones8930

Күн бұрын

Emotional affairs do count when narcissists are involved. I am actually involved in this situation so to speak. My girlfriend has codependency issues which can be a narcissistic trait. She thinks I don’t know that she is involved with a married man who happens to hang out with us next door with friends. I am not sure if her other friends are in on this emotional affair. I think they do know what’s going on. I recorded a video saying that I didn’t do anything for her and I was just a side piece. Went on to say we are just best friends. On that recording, they were having sex in her friends gazebo on the porch that morning. After we exchanged letters to express our feelings, everything she wrote was projected on me as the problem. As much as I want to believe in her, that recording is too sketchy and there were disgusting things going on.

@user-fd8oi2dy4z

22 сағат бұрын

@@steviejones8930 Hold tight brother. Keep well

@steviejones8930

15 сағат бұрын

I am trying to hold myself together but it just hurts the more I listen to that recording. When I met up with her Thursday, all i saw was another man in my place. The longer you are with someone, you can definitely sense when things are off about your partner.

@user-fd8oi2dy4z

14 сағат бұрын

@@steviejones8930 Don't watch it. Why torture yourself when you know you have done nothing wrong.

How about how a narcissistic wife treats her husband when cheating on him. I always hear/feel that from professional people, the general or only take is the husband is the narcissist. Speak more direct. I am struggling with listening to generalities from so called professionals for more than 27 years since divorce from the 1st wife. Her mother seems to have been a narcissist from what I understand. She married husband #2 to escape her 1st husband and her own father and mother. Went to cheating on #2 with excuses like you just described for a man that was more financially successful than husband #1 and #2. Which somehow was passed on to my ex. My children, in their 40's now do not communicate with me due to the distortions they have been fed by my ex and her mother which extends to all the people we both knew that do not communicate with me now. I am just trying to stay away from all the bs. Still hurts though

Part of it very familiar But by my son opinion my ex is dark triad So it was much more complicated. He was just "asking" to be " discovered "

My exs would ghost me for hours or a day or 2.

They LIE LIE LIE

He acts like he doesn’t like the person and constantly refers to this person What they do that he doesn’t like But still talks about her all the time Oh and try’s to get me to help her with stuff because she’s a single mom

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I think i have an even sneakier one. Either that, or im gaslighting myself. Ive decided to TRY to give it to God. Cuz ...HE knows. I try to go back to elementary feelings. I self preserve by saying.." self, its just a boy, its life, youre not the only girl on the planet, he might kiss another. " but then i get mad again. Cuz it still hurts. Even if youre a kid and they kiss another girl on playground. I cant find away to trust a man. I want to...but...meh. btw. At 50 something, i shoukdnt have to still resort to winning affection. I should be cuddled up with my choice person, who knows when to love me with a spontaneous picnic. Like I do for his spontaneous needs. Sick of being hosed, and finding out some random girl is getting all my rewards. You know? It sounds pathetic, but, if you're reading this, you searched it out, cuz you're not far from my experience.

so when my NT wife does selective disclosure, because she is afraid of me oversharing with a wider audience, then what is the problem - her or me ? I am autistic !?

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I told her that i have that gut feeling that our taxie. Driver who is married is tooking her she say an inscure am clingy.. now she discard me 7 month now for the guy pp no contact

It’s her loss. She’s trading a Rolls Royce for a VW. I trust my gut. My first thought and the lack of emotional connection. I’m done ✔️

What about victims of. Narcissism

In plain sight. My ex has a step sister with the same name as the person he cheated on me with. He says oh that’s my sister calling. Oh that’s a letter from my sister. He so called married his sister in another state while I was about to give birth to his daughter

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It’s also in plain sight. Like the neighbor who was his friend. Staying until late while they’d have cocaine. All his males friends would leave she’d stay until 4am while I was upstairs sleeping

When my ex wife didn't be in bed before me or same time with me, I knew she had someone else in her mind. Other vice she is was always in bed before me or at same time.

Another way is traveling, he is always traveling for business however he’s been having an affair for one year. I finally caught him. Now we’re getting a divorce. It was the only way he can see her. Towards the end of the year got so bad I believe she was getting suspicious and she was demanding to see him on a weekend which he always spent weekends with his family that he said he had an interview at 4 PM on a Saturday and didn’t come home till 11 the next day.

I think there is no intuition going on but it's possible a person's Holy Angel of God give warnings.

Selective help yes I'm working he would send me photos of van etc the buildings all fake

@RebeccaZungEsq

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She is not doing a great job since she went down to Florida with her kids and the trip had to cost about $8k and she does not work. Plus someone paid the $60 k in real estate taxes she owed. I have her money twice , but she never paid them when she only owed 20k. She also says that she is not going to entertain the crazy fantasy I have made up in my own head ! She also showed me the air B Ann she was at. She showed me there were four rooms. Hers, her two kids rooms. The fourth room the bed was not made and the pillows looked like they had pressure on them . I get a feeling they used that extra room before she flew her kids down . This way she did not use her room. Plus originally she only brought clothes for three days and she had all these new outfits . Something is going on . I blame myself for leaving her. She is Definitely covert , but I love her Axnd feel I could have done better. The only thing is I think if everything was perfect in our marriage and she met this guy she still would have started a Ryan’s then left me. She was always wanting a famous millionaire and I think this person is a decedent if Bob Marley and she met him through a business deal she was working on. I am so sick I just want to die!

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Sadly,tThey also use church as a deflection.

I told my boyfriend stop being all over fb liking single girls pictures, , he said you go out to breakfast with men , I said my dad and his 80 year old friends??? Lol you talk to your bible study guy friends, lol you mean so we can communicate and advance the kingdom , gaslight

Yes he always belittled me goes on vacation with x wife every year she comes thru and on the way to there sons she stops and stays the weekend weekend with him then he has a friend at the bar that he was making a comment leaving the phone on instead of hanging up he saying that that makes his ding a Ling get hard says it was on the TV that he was talking about not the lady beside him and he will never admit fault on nothing then he had two blouses in a sack for donation that he said a girl in the office ask him to drop in a donate box but I saw the lady that he sits with every sat.wear both of those before

@Tra1tors

9 күн бұрын

punctuation is VERY important. this was beyond difficult to read