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@joannelauer1372

28 күн бұрын

Yes, leave and don't look back, but it's harder than you may think.But do it anyway😂

@joannelauer1372

28 күн бұрын

Amen

@joannelauer1372

28 күн бұрын

❤

@joannelauer1372

28 күн бұрын

No Fear

@joannelauer1372

28 күн бұрын

So not good

Most narcissists already have their replacement supply well in place before they discard you.

@jessies8119

3 күн бұрын

Absolutely! I broke up with my ex narcisisst, and I told him to go find someelse. He said " I already did" listen carefully to what they say

@justgadgets1572

2 күн бұрын

True

@Cowboy19735

Күн бұрын

Yep, learned that my ex-wife was on dating websites 3 months before she told me she wanted to divorce. And during that 3 month time frame she did the following: August- Decided to divorce me. September - got on dating websites, rented 2 storage units. October - told her sister-in law she is going to divorce me and started pack up - aka " Decluttering " the house and told me she was " pre- spring cleaning ". November - ask to have her car put in her name, mid Nov. Informed me she wants to divorce/ Discard!

@jessies8119

Күн бұрын

@Cowboy19735 I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My ex narc did the same. It's painful but we can get through this. I wish you the best. Only settle for whay you deserve ❤️

@Cowboy19735

Күн бұрын

@@jessies8119 Thank you 😊

When you play the game you get covered in their guilt and shame. It's not worth it, stay no contact!

They move onto the next victim. Thats what they do

If you feel lonely after going no contact, get out with friends. Join a group, get help these demons don’t have emotions, I think that’s what you are dealing with. I like to look at him that way instead of a toddler. He has already discarded you, and moved on to his next victim

@MitziUribe

17 күн бұрын

I am trying I feel helpless

@kylecrowe3719

14 күн бұрын

She destroyed me

@gabrielleaumont3971

9 күн бұрын

Be glad he left. Whew. He may come back, love- bombing all over again.

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Or victims. Mine had four.

The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized.

@DailamiPuang

Ай бұрын

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@peterwilliams6361

Ай бұрын

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

@DailamiPuang

Ай бұрын

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

@peterwilliams6361

Ай бұрын

You wont regret it

@sleepydoppy8516

25 күн бұрын

We are talking about narcissistic abuse. There is no fixing a narcissistic relationship. 3 times cheated on 3 times thrown out. She even pretend to commit suicide. Just to stop me from leaving and taking the kids. But once the boys moved out, she tell me I have 3 weeks to move. She had already signed a lease and of course the lease on our house ended.

Once you see it, and go through the narcissists sequence of actions and words, it all becomes so clear.

@byonnoyb

10 күн бұрын

I've been writing things down and the dots are connecting more each day. I fled him on 24 April and I've been through so much emotional turmoil. It's now been three days since I cried. He's a Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist. I never saw it until a few months ago when somehow I came across it via Dr Ramani. Life was absolute hell on earth. I no longer want to close my eyes and die. When I look down the starcase, I just cannot imagine now throwing myself down just to get away from him...his tortuous, mind bending, cruelty, and the gaslighting...oh, I can't even really begin to describe the last ten years on here.

Dont be afraid of them! Accert yourself

Going through it as we speak, lots of rage, lots of blowback, lots of nice one day not nice the next day, the dysregulation of emotions continues. And one thing I’ve realized is that the overall treatment that I receive hasn’t really changed since I announced I wanted a divorce, it’s just that she’s not hiding her treatment of me anymore because now she feels justified because she’s the victim of having a divorce sprung on her. Nightmare!

@donnafillers419

2 күн бұрын

Same here!! Rough had no idea until I watched these narcissist videos…. Knowledge is power

The first year my new “bff” was great. It ended when I disagreed over a general subject and she told me,” I’ve been getting tired of you and your opinions for a while”…I laughed and told her it wouldn’t be a problem for her anymore and left! I’m not looking back!!! I wake up relieved and overjoyed that I never have to see her again

I am on the verge of breaking up. I won't look back

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Stay strong, don't announce anything. Just do it. Block on the telephone block texting black Facebook block any people that are associated with the narcissist.

@user-os7ll6qt3h

3 күн бұрын

Stay strong! I'm trying to get the courage ❤️🙏

Im actually writing a book about my life! My husband always mess up holidays! This Christmas he went shopping for clothes for himself and didn't buy anyone a gift! He never greet my guess when they walk in the house, he usually has his back turn towards us when they walk in the house! He cuss me out while in the hospital when I was sick, he was upset because i was getting attention! He would make me the butt of jokes in family settings!

@gabrielleaumont3971

9 күн бұрын

Are you still with him? No contact?

"Don't look back" "Amen" "No fear" "For sure" "On track"

@waltw918

Ай бұрын

Don’t look back and never acknowledge them ever again if they reach out later in life. Acknowledging them starts the clock over in their mind. Dont give them that.. your power is to treat them like they no longer exist or matter to you anymore.

@missp1030

Ай бұрын

Thank u. My adhd brain was going crazy trying to remember them all !

@1benny09

28 күн бұрын

@@waltw918 After I broke free, I was badmouted, all common friends were turned against me, in an effort to marginalize/exclude me from the group of friends.

@dennyfie

28 күн бұрын

I tried to let my ex narc. A old High school sweetie back iny life,it was a total disaster, In-between CPTSD,TBI,,NPD I stood no chance,no emotional connection at all just wanted control,my neighbors told me when she showed up not to get involved,but my love from 46 years ago I had to at least let her stay with me for a few weeks she has TBI And I loved her back decades ago,well 14 months later she had to go,Dr.put me on Valium.I have no respect for narcissist.​@@waltw918

@SharonFears

21 күн бұрын

Amen

Dont look back. Radical Acceptance. Its ok to have been wrong. You got this!🤗🏖️

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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We decided to leave our mother. Its really a relief. No more contact. Now were happy with our life. No more heart aches. Stress, nervousness, fears. Thank GOD we finally come to our senses.

@karencornelius9640

15 күн бұрын

Same with me and my 3 siblings going no contact with our older sister! The only way to handle her was not to.

I love you said that”you have no power over me “, I feel myself again just showing the narcissist that I have my power

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Why would you say that to a narcissist? it will not affect them at all so don't bother. Just walk out. When they are not there, no announcement.

Don't look back!!!

For sure this Covert was my X fiancé. I never engaged. I am enjoying a 1 1/2 years of freedom from him. I dropped him out of my life.

The sickness one definitely He played me for 12years with that Devil

Dont look back ! ❤ The power trips the accusations the actual telling me of how i think and what I need or replaying a story line to fit their reasons. Then the lies to break your spirit keep you oppressed breaking more each time in isolation questioning your worth and locking that down with them being the victim and your the disfunctional family member. Thanks i have spent yrs trying understand it all!

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Have you spent any time getting out of it

Had a good day in court today. The judges here in the hudson valley are awesome. Upstate NY I FIRED my attorney and represent myself. I’m a pharmacist married 30 years. 4 kids. He ghosted us to live in Walmarts parking lot with a woman he met driving a bus. Thank you so much. Thank you. ❤

@margitck7600

Ай бұрын

I wish I could have represented myself! My attorney gaslighted me 3 years dragging things out...taken for $250,000 of equity and Marital estate. I'm forced to pay child support, while he draws thousands/ month from a trust .... Disgusting corrupt courts... (All women who have turned against women and children...).

Let them know that don’t have any power over you. Don’t feed there beast…

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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My experience was that i tried to be too civil and amicable when it came to dumping the Narc .. he couldnt stand that. He wanted it to be the worst and most acrimonious break up possible. He needed it to be a toxic ending. So he said the very most vile things he could possibly think off right at the end, to try to hurt me for walking away. He sent huge long hatred filled text messages in a complete RAGE. I just finally blocked him and never looked back. Sad he felt the need to do that, but it did inadvertently help me to let go altogether and write the man off.

They are so fucking sick in so many ways. You are right on the money.

@MargotDemi

2 күн бұрын

Mine was arrested for smashing my head off the wall 3 times & then strangled me he told the police I did it to myself! He also took my card with him before he left

Amen sister, I’m working on getting out slowly, been ill hopefully will get better few weeks. Gees how draining this is.

The little hints they drop.

@katogojira7223

27 күн бұрын

Tell me about it. N i was starting to believe it was me

@starlight1126

26 күн бұрын

I never, ever thought it was me. He knew that I was onto his lying, would tell me every week or so that he'd have no place to go if something happened me as he was living in my home. Always knew he'd bolt. They're cowards, can't accept accountability for their entitled behavior

@elizabethjimenez9729

25 күн бұрын

It's called indirects because of how evil they are they mess with your head

@katogojira7223

23 күн бұрын

@@elizabethjimenez9729 but I know her since we were kids Years and years of trying to reach out for her finally ! But y her y? I loved her since we were kids Finding out she is not the same person

@TimMobberley-he2rf

15 күн бұрын

Amen

Ending my narcissistic relationship while currently 37 weeks 🤰🤰🤰😩🙏

@dillenderl1

21 күн бұрын

Sending love and hugs to you. Stay strong, we got this 🙏💕

@MzJoniLove

21 күн бұрын

@@dillenderl1 THANK U SM! Yes we got this 💪🖤🙏

@bonnielynn9979

21 күн бұрын

God bless you and the baby.

@lastofthe70schildren70

19 күн бұрын

God will see you and your baby through. You will both be much better off without his toxic energy. Look after yourself going forward & don’t believe their soapy/ pitiful behaviour. Be strong. We know the struggle of breaking away from these people. Sending you hugs🫂 and positive thoughts.🙏🏾

@mariannaoleshkevich8996

18 күн бұрын

It's better they don't influence kids. ❤

No fear. I told him he was gaslighting me. This isn't my first rodeo.

I know i am not going back to anyone from my past! It's going to take more than nice gestures. I have no interest in rebuilding what has been broken. To be honest... i have no interest batting my feelings to or fro wifh mending abusive relationships, because that's all i attract. I enjoy my time for me to grow and rediscover myself. I am not bored or lonely.

I feel sorry for the next victim.

@michaelrobinson8915

4 күн бұрын

Pray for me please. Today and tomorrow...bendiciones...michael...m

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

And, I have been through this, if you're trying to warn them, he will tell the new person that you are trying to get him back and trying to break them up. They have all kinds of tricks up their sleeve. People will have to learn the hard way. I wrote her three letters, and of course she thought I was terrible. And then he completely discarded her after he got some money.

@ValindaRoberts-cg5gf

Күн бұрын

For Sure. They did have new Supplies ready before they discarded me.

I been married for 25 years I didn't know what Narcissist mean she just explaining me about my X wife 100%

As a matter of fact they made some of these disrespectful remarks which I was heedless of. Surprisingly ,they gaslit me and sent a "How are you doing message "" after a month. Geez they're completely out of their minds. He's blocked since then

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Don't forget to block on facebook, block on your telephone, block texting, and block any person that is associated with him.

Oh yeah he told me how much he loved me the morning he walked out! I have been hurt like I never believed was possible.

@user-kf3yz7so6q

8 күн бұрын

They don’t care…my narc ex husband discarded me after 37 years together, he walked out as if I was nothing!! So basically, all those years meant nothing to him. Been no contact now for eight months, it’s been hard and still is at times but I’m better than him because I have empathy, I care about people’s feelings, I hate the thought of ever having upset anyone…. He doesn’t, he sees people as objects, to be used, to be there for his purpose….the narc can’t be in their own, they hate it therefore they always cling on to whoever will give them the time of day…but all these people are to the narc is a means of putting their day in… how sick.

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

Not only does he not care about hurting people, he actually plans it out and he actually really enjoys it! Did you ever see the narcissistic smirk

My younger female sibling (I refuse to call her a sister) is a mid range covert malignant narcissist. I don't play her games. She tried to destroy me the day my mother died. She started a Twitter account within hours of her dying. I don't play her games but she tried. She got about 8 flying monkeys out of just under 800.

@stacymethvin3426

24 күн бұрын

I have a sister like that

@pamelacarter2769

5 күн бұрын

My daughter and sister in law have all of these traits!

@courtneymcgregor3417

4 күн бұрын

@@pamelacarter2769 my daughter, after my female sibling got to her, developed the same traits. That totally shattered me.

I would rather say: NEVER SHOW FEAR ( even if ya are)❤

Good information. Being that I still love my Narcissist. I'm on the fence over a divorce. I know I should do it. I've been trying to learn your techniques. So I can be in my power. It's just not that simple. He's not all bad. I just hate the rollercoaster. Really need to make some meaningful decisions. Thank you for all the insight

@waltw918

28 күн бұрын

It goes from bad to worse. Dost ever get better.

@starlight1126

26 күн бұрын

Sure, I did love the narcissist, all the way until he once again packed up his stuff, bought a trailer in a retirement community, told me that he, "Couldn't live in my house anymore because he felt like a border." Then threatened me if I contacted any of his exes, which I did

@justmontina

22 күн бұрын

Divorce isn’t always the answer. 80% of the time your husband is going to be amazing and 20% of the time they’re terrible. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@franco2b145

21 күн бұрын

⁠@@justmontina The subject is narcissism. There’s no 80% amazing time with such.

@bestrong-bm9uj

16 күн бұрын

You should just file it. I am in the same boat as you. Time is all you need to heal and clear your mind. I have finally picked up the courage after 16 months of separation and filed the divorce last week. It was just dragging on for way too long and I have finally saw through him. All the sweet talk but not physical change. Enough is enough, I still have a long life ahead of me and I know I can pick myself up again and start all over without him. If he thinks money is the only thing that he can control me. Well..he's wrong. I've drawn up my plan and start making a living myself after leaving him. I don't care if I will get a penny from him. I know many will think that I am stupid not fight for his money during divorce but I can make my own money. I'd rather take it the hard way than begging him for money. So you hang in there. You can do it. What I can tell you is ....He doesn't love you enough. If he loves you, you won't be where you are. I used to be like you and think 'He's not at all bad', but after 16 months, I don't ever think of that anymore.

I actually don’t even block them I just don’t pay attention to them! Blocking in my opinion gives them a win so I don’t block! Just gotta be strong

@marshamacmartin4769

6 күн бұрын

Not blocking sends the signal that you will be open to the hoover and your not ready to hand them their walking papers. They love the fact that you don't dare block them. If you don't you will regret it. I know this first hand after trying it both ways.

@movingsaudade6028

21 сағат бұрын

@@marshamacmartin4769 If it's the covert narcissist you don't have to worry about a hoover...Those demons are too proud.Whether you block or not they still expect that you will be first to reach out.

I dated a narcissistic 8 years ago. What blows my mind is I'm working with her ATM. She never changed, doesn't want to learn, still shallow and coldhearted. I really dodged a headache being with her. I believe a relationship needs to bring out the best in each other.

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

What's an atm?

@joshiceman1983

4 күн бұрын

@@marcialussier2467 At The Moment

@Yoshibelle615

3 күн бұрын

@marcia it mean at the moment

I was about to walk away but you said "put it in the comments" lol. This monster had me fraudulently arrested in 2021 and still dragging his feet on divorce. He got a lot of supply from my arrest.

Rebecca you are communicating my entire relationship with my soon to be ex. I listen to you while driving so I cannot leave all of the comments you ask for because I’m often driving while listening but I wanted you to know that you hit the nail on the head.

NO FEAR!!

I'm glad you haven't taken on board narcissist traits and are helping people instead . .... DON'T LOOK BACK

Reverse psychology 😅 it great to know that he is the one afraid of me and tries everything to inflict fear. And he sure did, but now that I know this, it's over. They love Reverse psychology, I feel when he talking bad about themselves in a negative way like they saying i will never be enough for you," they are actually talking about you.😅 it's been confirmed today. Thanks for sharing this. He has me so trap I feel like I can't run, I probably need a detachment ritual done now that I know the kind of person he truly is😢 because it's not love it's a trauma bond attachment

@gabrielleaumont3971

9 күн бұрын

You will be strong. Talk to a counselor who understands narc behavior.

@marcialussier2467

4 күн бұрын

A detachment ritual? No, you need to take steps, maybe buy a book and learn about self-confidence and self-worth, be just completely neutral with him, look up grey rock. He will give up after a while if you can't get you upset. Upset. Start planning your exit, and do not announce anything to him, just disappear and block him in every possible way and block everybody that has any connection with him. Be strong. Don't let someone victimize you.

@user-os7ll6qt3h

3 күн бұрын

I never got sick other than a cold or flu once in a while. Now, I never have energy and I get sick a lot.

Read him like the back of my hand 99.8% . Thank u for the therapy.

Social media makes it so difficult to get out of these situations. I was smeared for six months straight and it was one of the most difficult things I had to endure. I am very thankful for my friends and family who supported me and helped me to take the highroad and ignore as much as possible. No one should have to go through that type of treatment, but I can honestly say that I have grown so much self confidence as a result. Be kind to yourself and know that there are plenty of people out there who will treat you with respect just as you deserve.❤

“Fluff or favour, vomit later!” Magnificent! Okay ✅

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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They so disorganized and messy. Think they have made service

Totally sounds firmilair, 5 yrs no contact . Best thing he did was leave

Amen sister! Experiencing this stuff throughout different relationships. I started therapy to find out what was wrong with me because it happened multiple times. Happily nothing is wrong with me! 😂🥳

They will lie and they know you know but they telling you thats the story they going by now

@Bedivine222

Ай бұрын

Nailed it! So true. They want their victims to believe what they say about them is true and they suppose to accept anything they say about them. But because the victim loves the narcissist they will do anything to be with them even accept their lies and live being confused. So traumatizing.

Yes yes my ex was almost in tears when she told me that at " our " sons first Birthday Party she told her aunts and others she wanted a divorce and they all told her how much they liked or loved me...I don't know how much was said but they were behind me... The quotation marks around the word son I used long story short she got pregnant by her boss while we were married...she waited one year on her sons birthday party to announce she was divorcing me... She married this man with a lavish wedding....I know their divorced for over 10yrs now

Yes lining ppl up and never say they did anything wrong

Do not look back...Amen..No Fear

Don’t look back! AMEN!

Thanks for your time and sharing your knowledge.

You got this! Stay strong! 💪🏽

True enough in many cases, just remember narcissism works on a scale. This is not black or white either, so please don't jump to conclusions if you're just seeing symptoms. So I agree there are cases you should just run from. But many just end up in that corner when they're stressed while most of the time it's okay with them. If you find that to be the case, you can use that "okay" time to help fix their basic troubles. And for that you may find people like Tim Fletcher and his lectures on Complex Trauma to be of better value.

Absolutely love how you explain narcissism!

U are great exposing your own personal problems and experiences. Yet nothing changes the fact systems are favorable to men.

Not everyone I met is a narcisisst but they are even not good for my life because they used my trust in them.

NO FEAR!

The smear comes way early because once you met the New person in the group...they already look at you different.

Omg, you are very intuitive and smart, beautiful too!!! :) Thank-you for knowing!

Girl, you are so on track

AMEN! Every one of these item's you mentioned in this video (and other's) are so spot on. Thank you for your expertise.

You are absolutely on track. They often use the phone for their proximity, and whenever they were more intimate it was around the time I was giving the money. And it seemed like when I was not helping out financially they were more distant, problematic, irritated. It was like the further Away or the more timely went by regarding Money the less friendly relationship became.

Thank you for your time and information Needed to listen to this video today.

Amen! My ex is a text book narcissist . He has destroyed my life. I'm determined to get myself back. He has done all of these things over and over and over...went as far as to buy my dream ring and wedding dress, then he started the devaluation, the lying , sneaking around, staying gone, ignoring me. Then I found all of the nudes he still had of his ex wife. My hopes and dreams are crushed, my spirit is crushed. I will get past it all. I will never fall for his b.s again. Thank you for your videos. They are empowering. ❤

Yes during my divorce in court my husband wasnt the only covert narc in the room. It was brutal. They tore me apart 😢

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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I relate to all your posts. Thank you ❤

Thank you for your videos and support, I love you and all of us. We are brothers and sisters and strong.

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Spot on.Thank you.

❤Amen! It's so hard to be strong and not fight for yourself when something triggers them , it's crazy! I'm always unsure , we could have a great day, and somehow someway I do something wrong. I'm so sad and confused He goes off on me and I try to be silent because it doesn't matter what I I say I try my best to do everything perfect, but he finds one little thing and belittles me so bad. I try to be strong. I know who i am and what I'm about But i have started to stop trying making me feel not special but how can someone be so mean!? 7yrs. now , my spirit is dying! I know what what I need to do , but I'm at his mercy at the moment!

@lalunit

8 күн бұрын

I feel exactly like you do 😕I still love her but after 5 weeks of separation I'm starting to see the real her She would start arguments with me all the time and use my response to her arguments and call me abusive 😥so just like you I stopped responding to her and became a weird shell of myself. Be strong you can do this, you're not alone on this journey ❤️

Thank you! This is so helpful

I miss him He moved on 2 days after. It's been 2 months no contact

@RavenWolfDrum69

Ай бұрын

You got this . Stay busy. I left 15 yr marriage my children's father. Treatment was sobad for me and 3 kids . 😢 you will be great. You're just going to have to be strong Suggs. I have to do the same again another 15 yrs to a narcissistic son o a b.

@paulareger9195

Ай бұрын

Don't even think about him, narcissist s are sometimes the hardest to get over! I've been there! Keep yourself busy busy busy!! In time u will thank yourself, I promise! Sorry to say this but you are probably the last thing they are thinking about. Move on. There's so much better out there for u!

@palapalak.8907

Ай бұрын

It's so hard.

@godsgirl2496

Ай бұрын

You will get through this. Walk through the pain. Stand strong. This is a good community. You are worthy and valued.

@user-q992

Ай бұрын

This is why I stayed until I was completely sick and tired of my nasty narc husband. So I will never miss him. You are lucky you were able to move out early. Watch out that you don't fall for another narcissist. That is the real risk for all of us empaths! 🥰

Listening carefully. Most people see through the negative rhetoric.

1:11:44 Drained and they still say they did more for you than you ever did for them, and you really haven't done anything for you...

Amen. DIL and empathetic son play victim and uses not allowing to see my 4.5 yo autistic grandson. I called their hand on their conduct and DIL freaked out. Pink Hill, NC True cowards

Amen, truth spoken !!

I call him out on everything

@user-os7ll6qt3h

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Me too but another chanel said don't give them your energy.

You are one smart cookie, I have a brotherly concern. If they suffered such childhood trauma causing this kind of personality ( we know the Hell they will provide for us}. Shouldn't we have the compassion empathy to try to understand how traumatic it would have been to go through something horrible as a child I myself can't even think about going through something horrible as an adult. I know we need to be informed about their behaviors but I don't think that we should ever downplay what they went through

Great video! New subscriber... I loved it when you said "I'm half Chinese, I can say that". 😂😂

Don't look back that works.

AMEN NO FEAR

It’s amazing I’m coming out of this breakup it’s been back and forth for almost two years now. Long story short he cheated I caught him and he called me jealous 😂😂🤣🤣. I had to laugh but laid it out and said I’m done and I’m rid of him. He gave me the silent treatment everything a narc does everything I have read about and reading about and seeing these videos helps because I know what to accept so he does not have that power. So if you want to give me the silent treatment ok do it I’m good with it because it actually helps me move on better. And to that poor new supply I feel sorry for her.

Yea bang on for sure everything is tex book word for word

NO FEAR!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes 🎉on point!

Totally on track

AMEN!!!! Going through this right now!!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Rebecca Zung Wow! It is amazing to hear someone, whom I’ve never met, describe my daily experiences. I cannot believe these people exist and so under the radar for so long. I have been agonizing over how to explain to my good friend why I haven’t returned her calls for years. I truly just thought that she was better off without me and my chaos. I have just spent the past 3 years working through my narcissistic mother issues. It was unthinkable to me that my husband would turn out to be one too. Anyway I’m done being afraid. You are the Narc Whisperer. I will live by your words because I recognize the power within them. I’m almost 50 and my husband is 23 years my senior and an attorney. We have a 9 year old son who is such a sweet boy and will be looking for content on how to care for his emotional, spiritual well-being. The scariest threat is taking our child from my life. The one thing I have noticed is since he’s much older he’s no match for me ,energy wise. I have started to employ some of the boundaries, non emotional/reaction techniques. Omg the Chinese torture, drip drip drip😅 For sure! I agree and no more fear! Gray rock! Got it . God bless you🩷

I will no longer listen to their lies. Wow Things you said in this video .describe this person. It's heartbreaking. The whole two and a half year relationship was a lie

Don’t look back🙏🏾💕😊‼️… No fear; so not charming; for sure;Amen

Amen to that!!

That's exactly what it was like. I kept waiting for that good person to come back and it never happened.

Thanks!

True mam , true true true every word you explain

Look back at your own risk. Train your mind, so that when you look back you are telling your mind that you're not going back.

For Sure !

Hey Rebecca- R U familiar with HG Tudor's work on Narcissism? If not I highly recommend checking out his channel. He has such great ways of classifying and understanding Narcisism and Narcissists. And he is funny af!! Enjoy. Thanks for ALL the Work you do on this. It is key to survival these days. No FEAR!! ❤