I really love how you pointed out that no matter how your body looks, there is always going to be a voice saying that you aren’t good looking enough and to just love yourself no matter what. I needed that 🥺

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Totally! So key to ignore that critical voice. Nothing will ever be enough in their standards.

@aereid6

2 жыл бұрын

Yup even when I was struggling with an eating disorder at my skinniest, I was the most insecure. Thanks for being so honest Jen 💕

@_dearolive

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like this voice was strongest when I was trying to lose so much weight. I was constantly putting myself down. There’s truly a sense of peace once you begin just loving yourself no matter what size.

@alice9193

2 жыл бұрын

I am 33w pregnant and I was comfortable with the weight gain (15kg already) but suddenly I just felt insecure about my body image and I even want to lose some weight at this point of time... I definitely need to get rid of the mindset. Thanks Jenn

@lydiakoh813

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssa 💕

Love seeing you two prioritize dates. Jenn I've been married for almost 27 years to my best friend, and we still schedule date night every week. Our kids are grown now but it's such a strong habit we've built, we actually feel off track if we don't do it:) Another thing we did were in house dates when the kiddos were young, once they went to bed. Remember, one day your baby boy will leave the nest and you don't want to look at each other and not recognize the other because you didn't nurture your marriage. We actually just had a in house camping date (it was too cold outside) with tent and all in the living room. We had blast.

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

This comment is so incredibly heartwarming to read. So inspiring! x Great tip about the in house dates too!

@SincerelyKimmy

2 жыл бұрын

@@aidasa3791 Thank you. I’m actually 53 but I appreciate the compliment😊

@JYYB

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true! Our kids are still young, so most of our dates are in home movie nights. Just being together and sitting together are the best moments. We have been married for 12 years and dates and togetherness is VERY IMPORTANT for a relationship along with communication and just plan fun! Haha

@professorpineapple2512

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Kimberly!! I just want to say that you are so gorgeous lol!😄✨

Do you know how many people you help by showing your body and saying what you said about it? Thank you for that. I’m several years post partum and it is really nice to see someone (especially someone in the public eye) who isn’t in a hurry to get their pre-Child body back. Love what you said about your body working and functioning being the most important, because it is!

@_dearolive

2 жыл бұрын

So encouraging even for moms to be 💕

"Not the first time I've heard that" THE WAY I GASPED LOL. love seeing different sides of your beautiful relationship!

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha his cheeky side 😂

@the_seasons_of_summer

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I had to listen again because I was like “Did he just???” 😂 too funny

5 months already!??? Girl I remember when we were waiting for Lennon and it felt like forever!!! ❤️

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Right!?!?!

Your reflection on your changing body and acceptance of the fluctuations in your weight after childbirth was really inspiring to see. Thank you for using your platform to be so open and honest about your motherhood journey!

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Madison! x

What an iconic intro haha 👏🏽😜 Feeling the 5 month mommy power! 💃🏽💃🏽 Always such a pleasure to watch and relax to your videos Jenn 🙂💓

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh ty Natalie!

“I’m not in a rush to get rid of this.” I love how you are embracing your postpartum body! Thank you for the reminder that we should embrace and accept how our body is built; before or after. 💗

I’m 4months postpartum and stretch marks everywhere but I’m not ashamed of my body. It’s weird because when I was a teen and early adolescent I hated my body. Now, I just accepted how it is and thankful for it because it carried my baby.

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you so hard on this!!

@ivonnetham

2 жыл бұрын

It’s strange how we used to mind our body so much and now we are so comfortable with it…. Knowing what it went through…

ben discretly walking in the background at 5:52 was so funny !!

I've been watching you since I was like 15 from your thrifting videos with Sarah and now I'm 22 :0 you've been like an unni to me from giving life advice, book reccs, influencing my fashion, and being my Korean-American role model. It's amazing to have seen your journey from a college student to a mother! I love watching your videos and I'm so happy to have you guide me through life through your videos and vlogs

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Aww this makes me so happy! Thank you for your loyalty! T__T

@dumblucid1563

2 жыл бұрын

You're so much loyal, i've Been watching Jenn since i'm 18 and now 20🤞🏻

Also a heads up on Why We Sleep - it's considered a bit misinformative, as the writer used a lot of questionable data and poor citations when making his points! The Maintenance Phase podcast did a great episode telling the story if you're looking for more information! x

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Ooo thank you for letting me know, Lucy! I'll make sure to listen to that podcast after I finish reading to clarify what points need amending!

@00jdn

2 жыл бұрын

I love the Maintenance Phase podcast, so so good!

@engineerepixlele2845

2 жыл бұрын

Matthew Waller acknowledged the flaws and is going to update his book sometime in the coming years

@evajmd

2 жыл бұрын

Came here to say something similar - while there are MANY theories on why/how we sleep, there is not consensus on specifics. I'd caution taking in any information as definitive! :) That said, existing sleep theories and data to support them are fascinating. I think taking in said information while acknowledging nuance/uncertainty can be amazingly helpful nonetheless to contextualize sleep habits and patterns that work well for us

@Tayuyasoundnin

2 жыл бұрын

I was going to comment the same thing!

hahaha i love the little phrases Ben uses like "sippy wippy" LOL im gonna have to start saying that

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

He has so many little catch phrases! x

Jenn, you look AMAZING for 5 months postpartum. Taking a look at myself one year postpartum - I still have my pooch, I still have a hint of a linea nigra. And you know what? I am ok with it. My baby makes it all worth it 💗

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kate! I have the same feelings as you! n_n

"Realizing I had nothing to say" loll Happy to see your makeup application. So pretty!

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

LOLOL! Sometimes you just gotta let the music play~

The way you talk about your relationship with your body is something everyone needs to hear. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look a certain way and it's so refreshing to hear someone talk about body image in such an appreciative, positive and real way. Our bodies are truly incredible.

Hi Jenn, You’re philosophical thoughts about your postpartum body are just perfect. This way of thinking will make you a brilliant mom to your son. You’re doing great!

My favorite moments: - that ciao sweater omg can i have?? - jenn's postpartum body is GLAM - also ben just shuffling by lmao

Jenn! I’m so happy to see you in such a good mood! Life’s about finding bliss in the simple things and that’s what you’ve been teaching me. 🥰

Jenn you are such an inspiration for me. Love how you are so consistent and organized

I am loving the realness of your content! I think you’re at your most powerful and inspiring point yet. Matrescence stripping back the layers and showing us just how strong and beautiful you truly are x

8:48 "not the first time i've heard that" HAHAHA 🤣 💀 loved this vlog like always 🥰💕

Jenn- your honesty and healthy mindset about your body is so incredibly helpful for us young women navigating the horrors of capitalist body pressures so thank you❤️

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I could help by sharing my experience! x

It’s been so amazing to watch you grow over the past years and enter this new chapter of your life! Your authenticity is so inspiring and I love seeing your videos pop up in my feed!🥰

Thank you for always sharing your journey! ❤️ love you! Love seeing you as a mama!

Hey Jenn, hair loss is super normal while breastfeeding. I'm a hairstylist and i see so many clients going through the same stuff. I always put my clients onto Kevin Murphy's plumping range and it honestly helps so so much with the hair loss. Taking vitamins too is such a good move 💕

Hi Jenn, thank you for existing and for creating all the videos with so much love. These are a few of what keep me sane and happy❤️

Love that you and Ben are intentional about creating time to spend together!!! Your relationship always inspires me😌💗

Thank you for sharing these moments, Jen. You're an inspiration and role model to me.

Aww first ❤️ Love watching your growth over the past 6-7 years, I feel like we’ve really come along in your journey + grown too!

i love seeing you grow throughout the years. i also love how you and ben both make quality time for each other which is really important in marriage life

I want to tell you that I really appreciate your sharing from the moment you found out about pregnancy until now, it helps women feel more confident in this complex journey, and makes us feel much more comfortable with our body, and all the complex feelings that come during this journey, thank you very much!

So powerful words about your body! ❤ Love how you are always real and authentic

Lennon is so cute 😭♥️ love it when he smiles! So cuteeee

It’s been a habit for me to enjoy your video and head on over to Ben’s to watch his videos. Really glad to see you both prioritize date nights, and so inspiring to see you embrace your body post-partum. 💕 thanks for always being so honest and eloquent about how you feel.

Jen I been watching since you first started clothesencounters and I’ve loved to see every stage of your life. And I must say you as a mom is my favorite! You have such a glow to you that makes me happy and smile. This baby has brought out a wonderful side of you and I wish you nothing but blessings for your little family💕

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh! Thank you, Nina! x

I just want to say, your channel is really, really inspiring especially for girls and women. Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us!

I love how you are embracing who you are right now. Your body is so stunning, and it gave birth to a beautiful baby! How amazing is that? You look soo strong and soo healthy! Thank you for setting such a great example, and that is to accept yourself at every stage of life. Love you, Jenn! Oh, also love you, Ben and Lennon! ❤️

I love really almost everything always about your videos and I just have to say that how you do the makeup part with the products on the side of the screen is just YES, I love it. So clean and cool and informative. Been watching your channel since long before you changed from clothesencounters and there's probably no other youtuber that I have been following so consistantly for so long, I like that! All the love, Jenn!

Hi Jenn, your channel is truly a blessing! I'm also new to motherhood and you never fail to keep us motivated, inspired and entertained thru your vlogs! Thank you for sharing with us your journey! 🥰🥰☺🙏🤍🤍🤍

i love how ben just walks pass so quietly and then seeing him on the reflection of your wardrobe 😂

i love y’all’s relationship 😩💕 hope i can have a relationship like that one day 🥰

Oh i just love watching Jens videos 🥰 I'm not even thinking about kids (i'm 23) but i found the whole pregnancy journey so interesting and heartwarming to watch!

Hahahaha! Ben passing through in his towel while listening to serious body image talk had me laughing hysterically! Enjoyed this catch-up on parenthood and marriage video 😍

I’m so happy to have found your channel. I want to continue to grow as a person and I feel like you have such wisdom. Thank you especially for talking about our bodies and how we should view them. I struggle with my body image sometimes, so it was refreshing to get this perspective. Thank you 💜

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you for this message, Victoria!

I'm glad you put up this video. So refreshing 😍 I'm 3 months postpartum and feeling a bit better about myself and my current body. Stay blessed ✨

Commenting a second time because I cannot tell you how much your videos make me happy. I just caught myself smiling at my computer watching. I love seeing your life journey and all the lessons you learn along the way. Thank you for sharing a part of it with us for so many years!

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your postpartum body and talking about self image. I remember when I was at my most fit, skinny self, I still would look at photos and feel like it wasn't "enough." That's when I realized that it's not about "those 5 lbs." It's really a mental game and I think motherhood really changes things and puts things in perspective.

Just when I thought I couldn't love her even more, she shows us her gorgeous post Lennon body aaannd shows us her face cleanser with closed eyes. You are everything, Jenn! Thank you so much for this video! Sending lots of love from Germany! ♥

You’re literally the ONLY vlogger I watch. I usually can’t sit through others, but yours I seek out! So well edited, honest, love ur humor and ur perspective. YOU INSPIRE THE HELL OUT OF ME. Thank u💕💕

I love how you laughed so heartily and Ben's little cous cous dad joke!

Hey Jenn - Happy 5 Months to Lennon! Time flies! Watching your vlogs always makes my day regardless of what topics you talk about because it always resonates and hits home. Lovely to see you and Ben making time for just the two of you and incorpating this into everyday life. Have a great weekend xxx Stay safe and well xxx

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh! 5 months has gone so quickly! I hope you had a great weekend too! xx

I've never met you but I admire you so much. All the life advice that you give about your mental health, body image and your life with Ben are so useful for me. You aren't just showing us vlogs but quality content too. Thank you, wish you all the best! And Lennon is so cute with those big cheeks 😊🥰

Happy 5 months Lennon! He's growing up so fast!!! Great to see and hear that you are feeling yourself again at 5 months postpartum. lol thank you for letting us be the 3rd wheel on your date night! You guys are so cute! Lol Ben when you were in your wardrobe, prob wondered who you were talking to. I love your points on being content on your body in its current state. We def put a lot of pressue in getting on ourselves in wanting an ideal body, esp for women after pregnancy with pressure to 'bounce back', but forgetting like what you said "health is wealth." If you aren't healthy, the look of your body will not make it better. Don't be too hard on yourself. Treat yourself with kindness and positive vibes and spend more time with your loved ones.

Ugh, just what I needed after a particularly hard week. Love your videos as always, Jenn!!

Love the skincare part. Thanks for walking us through!

As a mom of three in my early 30s (and also in the post partum period), I SO appreciate your authenticity about your experience. ❤️

@mchun21

2 жыл бұрын

Also, that photo tip from Ben 👌🏼

Wow! Happy 5 months Jenn!!! 💖💖💖💖💖

Just want to say love your vlogging so much! It’s alway full of positivity and inspiration! Thank you!

Jenn looking beautiful as ever 💗 love seeing her so excited about going on a date 🤣

Jenn - you have everything important in the right place. Loving your body and acknowledging your inner voice then overcoming that with nurturing words is such a gift. Looked like you both enjoyed your date x

The “and it smells like cucumbers” and “drats” just made this vlog for me hahaha so cute and really feels like I’m there while we’re on a sleepover getting ready for bed hahaha

You look sooooo happy Jenn!! Loving it

30 seconds in and I’m already loving this video’s vibes

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Yaaay!

Loved loved LOVED your comments re body acceptance. So refreshing and unfortunately rare to hear. Thank you ❤️❤️

Thanks Jenn for showing the true side of our body, especially post-partum! We definitely have the tendency to be harsh on ourselves, and I'm also trying to be more positive with my body image :)

Jen.. I must say.. you honestly look SO happy and it’s so lovely to watch. You and Ben both look happy in fact, and are both loving being parents 😍😍 xxxxxx

Love love your vids! Married my high school sweet heart and got 4 little ones... date nights are a must! Thanks for the reminder again and for another amazing video☺️💖

Thanks for sharing your body, I love what you said about that critical voice we all seem to have! It’s so true, isn’t it. I’m so glad you have a healthy body image, I need to get to that point also. Loved seeing Lennon and seeing your date night with Ben. So many lovely moments. You looked so pretty in all the outfits and looks too!

The quality of the videos you create is amazing! I love the attention to detail in the editing.

Danny Gonzalez always has the best video's to just casually laugh and vibe with while getting ready :D

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Literally the best!! x

awe I'm so happy for you jenn! self love all the way🥰🥰

No, it's never too late to start taking photos of whatever month your baby is at because you can start capturing those little moments now! My mom always told me when I have a kid take a lot of pictures of them when they're young because in a blink of an eye they're growing up too fast.

i love your videos man 🤩 they light up my day & help me so much with self-growth & -improvement

Lol!! Bens reflection of him in the towel had me dying 🤣🤣. You’re an absolute beautiful person jenn, inside and out. ❤️

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

LOLOLOLOL!

Love the vibes in this video! The makeup removal scene was so cute☺️

I was just smiling the whole time watching this vlog. You are just so cute and lovely 😭😭

I love your editing style and all the transitions and how honest and fun your videos are ❤️

Such a beautiful human 💘 thank you for keeping it real and being so honest, love watching your videos so much.

loved this vlog :) Congrats on 5 months postpartum! time flies!

Half way through your video and I'm thinking OH MY GOSH this is such a lovely vid. You, Ben & Lennon are such beautiful people 😍 Enjoy your date night out lovely's. And by the way... You look stunning 5 month postpartum ♥️

@imjennim

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you, Tanja!

The way Jenn has been my inspo/comfort youtuber since I was a teenager

Jenn, you just have this NEW GLOW about you ever since you became a mommy 😍❤️✨ It’s so beautiful to watch your journey throughout motherhood 🙌🏼

Why we sleep is an amazing book!! it really changed the way I think about sleep ❤️

what a nice vlog, your baby looks so big :D and that talk about the body was priceless, im glad you feel that way and shared with everyone.

Omg I have major post COVID hair loss so keep us updated on what works the best ❤️❤️

5:50 omg how he showed up made me laugh lol Yes all we can see you, Ben 😂😂😂😂

Hey Jen! 👋 so glad to catch your videos!!

Love you both! it's not the first time I've heard that.. lol, your husband's career as a comedian awaits! ❤️❤️❤️

Your vlogs are so comforting❤️

LOL when jenn shouted "stuuupid!!!" after ben's couscous pun reminded me of how i also yell "stuuupid!!!" when my fiancé makes silly puns

ur such a big inspiration for me!! i just love watching your videos its almost as relaxing as meditating ^^

Love your positive and strong attitude! ❤️

love this vlog and love the editing!

I’m obsessed with your channel!!!!!!!

Your skin is like… WOOOW. Also, why we sleep is such an interesting book!! Sleeping also helps us retain information.

Ughhhh such wholesome content!!! Thank you :)

Love this new style of editing! Did you get a new editor? Also, love how you're showing different sides of being a mum ❤️❤️

yayyy Jenn is back

i enjoy watching ur videos so much, thank u for being such a great unnie to look up to