You know what's gunna suck getting old and being alone.

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

Honestly who cares. you enter the world alone your gonna die alone. Get used to it.

@AzamatSlowedAndReverb

Ай бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 go ahead bro

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

@@AzamatSlowedAndReverb what? Are you scared of being alone? Mf your gonna die alone lmao don’t tell me your that much of a coward

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

We never know what is going to happen. I could win the lottery or I could get hit by a truck and die tomorrow. I had friends two years ago but they moved or are building families. What I mean is: being single at 30 does not equal dying alone 😂 and if your mindset is that negative I would love to recommend some books to change your perspective in a healthy way. 🖤

@AzamatSlowedAndReverb

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler yea bro well there's zero negativity, comment says what it says you feel a certain way about it that's irrelevant to what is said. And nursing homes are not positive places.

Not even 4 minutes in but I can tell that you’re the kind of person young guys need to listen to. It’s not about material results. It’s about accepting yourself and managing your feelings and asking yourself questions when you’re feeling down or angry. The best men in the world are the men who are comfortable in their own skin and who appreciate what they have.

@Silva38

Ай бұрын

bro woke up today and decided to spit fire

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you guys, I think young men need to support each other the way that young women can you know? Listen to each other, be there. Be a good friend you know?

@10pmmemes88

Ай бұрын

do whatever you have to cope. If it saves your life, the delusion is worth it.

@kl7514

Ай бұрын

​@@10pmmemes88guy is giga coping lol

Yup I was on food stamps and medicaid and was so ashamed. But guess what all these rich people get help from their parents and no one shames them for that. But regular folk get shamed for getting help? Ok... I'm done with this built in shame from society. I'm out here trying to make it work like anyone else.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You have no idea how many people in my life qualify for food stamps, but think they are above it and are struggling. I don’t think people during the Great Depression would say no to some help 😂 thank you for sharing and stay strong

@Allplussomeminus

Ай бұрын

Very good point 🤔

@xxspecterxx

Ай бұрын

I’m disabled and get ssi and food stamps, but I can’t do the things most people do, so I feel that “I’m not doing enough “ feeling, but I’ve learned to feel comfortable about it

@soldierofgod7412

4 күн бұрын

@@xxspecterxxwho do I get SSI ? Or disability

a "monk-mode" way of life (largely, an avoidance of romantic relationships) and just living for simple pleasures is the best lifestyle I've lived.

The male role model importance can’t be overstated. Kudos to you for realizing the impact of your dad’s abusive nature and how helpful therapy can be, and NOT being like him is why you’re not a loser.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate your kind words and your time immensely

@mono5401

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzlerhey man, I’d recommend reading no more mr nice guy. There’s some chapters about “not being like dad” and relationships with abusive parents that I think you may find interesting. Internet archive has a free e book copy btw

You’re the first guy I’ve seen that actually acknowledges this. You don’t need to be Elon Musk to be happy. You need to be happy with yourself.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree more, I’m hoping I can show that so others don’t have to struggle until 29 before feeling content with life 🖤

@droppeddogs

29 күн бұрын

Elon musk is a dork anyone would kill to become andrew tate

@GreenEyedDazzler

22 күн бұрын

Elon Musk and Andrew Tate are not welcome in this household. They both dork asses

No therapy, or family. I bottle everything up inside so nobody sees my pain

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I see you ❤

@myb5558

Ай бұрын

Jesus said "I am the truth, the way, and the life"

@myb5558

11 күн бұрын

Pain is for growth. Growth leads to something. Pleasure is in heaven

got randomly recommended this 😃

Your words need to be everywhere. This is the message that needs to be spread.

@GreenEyedDazzler

29 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words 🖤

I'm in the same kind of situation, no friends (literally i talk to like one person online lol ) no bf, 28 y/o girl, and a job. but somehow it feels ok. it gets lonely sometimes. i wish i had people around me who cared other than my actual family. :(

@owmeow

Ай бұрын

btw, i hope you're okay. wish i could hug you! we will all get through this together, life is just hard. but i know we will make it through the shit somehow whenever that happens.

@trustytrojan

Ай бұрын

love the heartfelt words here 🖤

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Hey! I’ll admit that I still get lonely but that’s normal! You could have a million friends and a partner but our brains are complicated, sometimes the feeling of loneliness is actually your brain trying to tell you that you’re missing something, for me it was making art and videos. When I do that I’m never feeling lonely ❤ hope this helps or even makes any sense lmao and much love my friend

@owmeow

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler I think that's so true. brains are so complicated and it sucks how they make us feel like we aren't worthy, or unloveable, or won't be happy. i know this isn't the case but sometimes it just kicks a person when they're already down and it sucks. I'm glad to hear you're not feeling lonely anymore, even though lonely moments do happen i hope you are in a good place genuinely. You deserve happiness and love. you made sense, i didn't expect a reply at all honestly, but i'm happy it was acknowledged and that we can relate to each other. (and others in these comments too) big hugs! much love

@servantofthelord8147

Ай бұрын

You have a family!? That’s huge. Hope you’re enjoying their care and support and giving that back to them too

I'm a woman, but I absolutely loved this message you are sending out to young men in the online space. I also see a lot of those "30 and lonely" types of videos, and it's all so depressing. Especially the blackpilled kids, they honestly think their life is over at 25 if they haven't gotten a girlfriend or have friends. Thanks for showing an alternative way of thinking, one that is positive and supportive

@EpicMinecraftFail

Ай бұрын

If you were in their shoes maybe you'd understand how demoralizing it is

@Jaylon2300

Ай бұрын

sorry to tell you but the blackpill is 90% right

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I feel the same way, this is in no way trying to invalidate anyone’s loneliness just here to say to those people that they aren’t alone

@RichardsGaySon

20 күн бұрын

Lol i love how people like you are trying to normalize never having a relationship in your mid 20s like that’s somehow normal. That’s not fucking normal and it says a lot about how fucked up the dating scene is and how hard it is for men to live up to the standards of women. And then on top of that they have to listen to society telling them the reason they can’t get a girlfriend is because they are somehow a bad person or something

I enjoy being alone, even if sometimes i feel alone. But ive had people around and they are fake, judges, freeloaders.

we're all gonna make it 🔥

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

There’s too many good things to experience in life, we deserve to see them 🖤

Thank you this made me feel better as a 19 almost 20 year old girl

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

You can be my 20 yr old girl

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I was NOT trying to improve my mentality or understand my emotions at 20, which puts you miles ahead of where I was. Thank you for listening, you rock

@mikethaison432

27 күн бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 This is ain't it brother.

@andrewcruz3837

27 күн бұрын

@@mikethaison432 you have no profile pic aint it

@mikethaison432

27 күн бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 Cool, anyways clearly this isn't the place to try to pick up women.

God sent me here. And I thank him with my life after death for doing so. And I thank you kind soul for making this video. You have no idea how much this helped to hear basically myself speak in a different timeline, because almost every if not everything you said has almost been equivalent to my life. And I’m sure many others. So I genuinely just want to thank you with all my heart, and Jesus loves you. I love you all with the love of Christ, God bless. 🖤🙏🫡

@GreenEyedDazzler

29 күн бұрын

Much love to you, thank you for listening. As long as my feelings resonate with one person I’ve done my job, so thank you for stopping by and saying something 🖤

Its rough out here but at the end of the day we ball fr, Btw you look good for your age G

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

That’s right baby, we ball cause it’s all we can do. We have to stick together. Thank you for your kind words

Society has moved to be standoffish. Grind grind grind for what? I did it all that, I met all my goals in less than 5yrs going in pure monk mode out working everyone. Fit, money, traveled, nice car. Now what? Everything is cyclical in life, expansion, contraction. Even the hustle culture and protesting marriage will also wane when everyone becomes an island to themselves. Everyone is an expert and entrepreneur today.

Life is better with at least 1 friend, family and a partner. Keep going!

Man, I wish I knew cool people like you... I'm some 33 yo Joe working a dead-end job on the fast track to mid-thirties and some of the stuff you said really hit home. I'm so inarticulate and an emotional mess but like you said, still here.

@GreenEyedDazzler

16 күн бұрын

I’m glad you’re still here, genuinely, you rock and you’re doing well, nobody knows how to live life, we are all struggling to figure it out together

I love you man. Thank you for sharing.

Thanks man, wise words, keep making content like this, you would grow pretty fast, good luck on life brudda

Man I really needed to hear this thank you so much

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching and remember that you are strong, you rock 🖤

ain't no rush broddie, just keep doin you the rest is gonna come in due time. as long as you happy that's all that matters💪🏽

video popped up in my recommended at the perfect time. Thank you

Keep making videos bro! These are incredibly inspiring, I’m glad the algorithm brought me here. We all go through tough times. Your 30s are going to rule - your outlook proves it!

Thank you for your honest words, only way is up!

We need more of these messages. I'm 29, and I've been struggling to get better since I was 27. I see people around me marrying, having kids...while I feel like I wasted most of my 20s, and only now I'm starting to man up, slowly. But it's good to know that there are people out there fighting similar battles, and being better people as a result. Keep it up man, we are going to make it,.

i needed to hear your words tonight, thank you for uploading this 🖤

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I’m glad if I helped in any small what at all, thank you so much for listening

really great and underrated view on life. Honestly feel the same way, I consider myself super fortunate. I have a mortgage, a car, a partner and maybe two people who are true friends, and a couple more online. I don't need much to be happy, I love gaming on pc. Currently going back to school, and going through life at my own pace.

Added 101 essays to my list. Thank you for posting this and have a great day🙏

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for giving it a shot, I promise that trying out new ideas always fills us with a sense of accomplishment even if our minds are changed by what we read!

Thank you bro. Thank you. So much. Thank You.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and hearing me. I will try to upload some more thoughts over the weekend if you get bored and need something to watch, more millennial/gen x talk 🖤 stay strong

Dude I love your videos. Youre amazing.

@GreenEyedDazzler

22 күн бұрын

Thank you for giving me a chance, you’re amazing!

Well said. You’ll do OK.

I love this. I think it boils down to being content. One friend that truly knows your in's and out's. Loved by a small group vs just being liked by a large majority. Same boat brotha. Few friends, good relationship with parents and selfwork. Keep it up man.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Hug me brotha! You understand me completely, you rock

You seem like a cool dude, thanks for putting this out there and spreading some positivity. I hope you find what you're looking for when the time is right for you. Dog bless

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Dog bless my friend, you seem pretty rad yourself. We all find what is right when we have inner peace, it’s an ongoing battle. Much love ❤️

Honestly, I'm glad you made this video, even though it was probably not an easy one to make. Thank you for sharing your life wisdom

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

It was not east to make, and I wanted to edit a lot out but I felt that wouldn’t be genuine. You guys deserve the unfiltered truth 😂

Right on dude this was pretty sweet gotta say at 21 I share a lot of what you’re saying in my own mindset Love you man thanks for spreading the peace and love

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You’re so young! Just take your time, there’s no rush! Thank you for watching and I know you’ll do great 🖤

Bro I needed to hear this Good stuff 💪

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You got this, you rock 🖤 thank you for taking the time to say something kind. That speaks immensely to your character!

I'm in almost the same exact position, I'm almost 30, This resonates with me quite well honestly. And it is true, things do get better as you get older, we can only go forward so keep going forward and don't give up, even if it appears easier to give up.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I promise you there’s only one way for things to improve and that’s to give it more time. Some of my favorite content creators didn’t get started until their 30’s. It’s never too late

Thank you for your vulnerability and keep making videos like this!!!!

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your encouragement so much, my plan is to keep going 🤞

So glad this was recommended. Such a real video. Thanks for sharing, brother. You're fucking awesome and would love to have a homie like you. Keep it up brother

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You too my man. If KZread had DMs you could message me any time. We the people have to hold each other up. Much love ❤

This was fantastically vulnerable and speaks to a lot of hurt hearts and minds (mine certainly included). Thank you for being brave enough to display comforting vulnerability. This video will help a lot of people who feel alone and like they're in a hole (i.e., me).

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to listen, I hope you know that you’re not alone. Something I can’t recommend enough would be to join or even start a club (for reading, sewing, hiking etc) it’s a way to make more than just friends but even a small community 🖤 hang in there

@AmateurArtisan

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler Thank you for such amazing advice. The world really needs great people like you. You're totally going to excel in any and everything you decide to do (the way you are now!). Your kind of heart is rare and so valuable to not only yourself, but anyone you encounter. 🤗💝

And this would be recommended to me because… Google knows everything about me

@farragoprismproductions3337

26 күн бұрын

That's pretty deep for a comment these days.

Hey everyone I just want to say thank you for checking this out when the thumbnail looks the way it does 😂 There are starting to be a ton of comments and I’m trying to respond to you all! I apologize for the clickbait title, I’m 29 (born in 95) but everything else is true. If you’re broke and single and 30, you’re not alone. ❤

@takwin42

Ай бұрын

I might have been you almost 20 years ago. But the world is way more screwed now due to inflation, housing, wages. You aren't a loser. I watched your video and liked it, but then you dropped a recommend for "101 Essays to Change the Way You Think" by Brianna Wiest. Great book, and stay good brother.

@kl7514

Ай бұрын

Gigacope, Chad is having the time of his life while you try to gaslight yourself in your car lmfao 😂

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to leave kind words, nobody is a loser, nobody should feel bad for having a real life

much love

@GreenEyedDazzler

29 күн бұрын

Much love

Even though I am a girl you talking about being grateful and happy about simple things in your life makes me reflect on my own. Thank you

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Things in life that brought me fulfillment are learning new things (like recipes) and my hobbies (one for exercise and a few where I can express myself) Thank you for watching 🖤

Great! Life is good when youre happy.

@GeekCultureWars

Ай бұрын

Life as a man is dope because you can do whatever the world legally allows you to do. Just be strong, kind and confident. Understand boundaries and morals, have respect for everyone, especially grandmas and hold babies in photographer. Love the video, bro. Nice perspective

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I agree life as a man feels like easy mode all too often 😂❤

There is not one relationship I look back on and say "I sure wish I married that one". All relationships end. It is better to not have any legal attachments in this country. It is hard to imagine that when you are young and your biology only wants to find a girl and use her body as an amusement park, no matter the cost. But that urge, plus this legal system, is a recipe for a miserable life.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Dude first I love your profile picture, second: there is no way I’m getting married! Too antiquated for me 😂

Meaningful human helful energy thanks man

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for listening and responding, you rock

Having friends is definitely a good thing it’s good open up and be more confident around people but the problem with having friends is nobody can have a deep connection with a friend that they can fully trust nobody is to be trusted and it’s not there fault, they just don’t suit your trust

I’m 26, and man you hit the nail on the head here. (I’d love to be a gamer tho, but nothing grabs my eye!) Thank you for making this video, I know it’s going to/has helped a lot of others already

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for listening to me ramble 😂 and there’s only one video game you have to try in this life: Super Mario Bros. 2, baby

@SpaceCadetDoom

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler funny enough that was probably the second game I ever played, my dad had his childhood NES still and let me play a bunch of those. Mario Sunshine is still my favorite ! Nintendo, Valve and FROMSOFTWARE don’t miss !

@GreenEyedDazzler

22 күн бұрын

That rocks lmao love your profile pic btw!

@SpaceCadetDoom

22 күн бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler hell yeah dude. Think I stole this from some image board lol. I was using the original/classic picture from the movie but this is way better

You are right, no one is a loser. No matter how hard society paints that picture. And you are also right to be alone and still feel happy about not having friends or a gf. It's imperative to be on your own and happy with yourself by yourself. Too often, young people go into relationships when they are full of wounds to be healed first, and that is why relationships don't work out. I did it when I was young and how I know this. I was full of hurtred over my family and the first man I was with was full of familial hurtred too. With his situtation a great deal worse than mine, as he too had an abusive father. And it didn't work out between us bcuz the composition was wrong. And it took me a long time to realize that. But be understanding of your father and not hold any hard feelings against him bcuz everyone is going through difficulties in coping with this baneful thing called life. Parents don't know what they're doing. They don't know how to raise children and just do the best they know how.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

My father and I are in a healthy spot, I did reach out this year to make sure he’s healthy, thank you for taking the time to come listen and watch. I appreciate you being so vulnerable and sharing your thoughts. You sound strong and wise and I know that you can do this!

This was a great video, man. I'm 25, and lately I've been getting comfortable in my own skin after the past decade of trying to fit in with normal society. Life hasn't been very good to me in any case; dropped out of university and all. Anyway, while I'm not always happy, this is probably the best that I've ever felt. Cheers.

@GreenEyedDazzler

25 күн бұрын

Thank you for stopping by and sharing, you rock. I think we are bombarded by social media that leads us to believe that everyone but us is always happy and always thriving, I just want to show that in real life, sometimes we are sad or bored or broke but that’s the full experience of life 🖤

Thank you for this it really spoke to me, even as a girl.. here's a lil of my story if you're so inclined to read it... Got severly depressed at 14, battled it till 18 then gave up, dropped out of senior yr, checked out of life in every way that counted & basically became a shut-in till abt 20(had some health issues too with my vision that contributed).. started regaining a bit of my motivation and drive during the time (sadly) coinciding with the pandemic.. the whole world was on hold & being on hold was NOT new to me but wasnt my choice this time.. I went back to school when things started to calm down & still in school now at 24... I do feel behind in life, i feel like i'm mentally a child & constantly trying to catch up to the life and the peers that have passed me by, everyone around me seems to be socially streets ahead.. I'm lonely, i dont believe ill ever be happy, im dealing with this alone, too ashamed to even reach out to friends online but i just keep going for reasons unbeknownst to me.

@GreenEyedDazzler

28 күн бұрын

Hey I dropped out of high school and to this day I only have my GED but it doesn’t hold me back. You can do anything, I honestly believe in you, and I’ll be your friend too if you want 🖤

@farragoprismproductions3337

26 күн бұрын

bro don't worry if you're struggling in school by the way. I got two math classes in college to catch up on if I ever want to get into University. Would that even be a good decision, _no clue lol_ please help.

@GreenEyedDazzler

22 күн бұрын

That’s a good question! Ask yourself this: what do I want to do in five years? Design games? Work in a hospital? Run a business? Then research if you need schooling: if yes, then you do some price comparisons. Then you come up with a budget to get that schooling and pay off the debt ASAP. I never went to school so don’t feel like you NEED to. Maybe I should make a whole video on school and furthering our education in general

Thank you

based hopecore thanks for upload

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

No thank you for taking the time and giving me a chance to ramble

Good video subbed hope you make more content dawg

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for giving me a chance and listening, definitely more to come 🖤

I think that people like you are the role models that young lads need these days I think one of the people one of the reasons people are lonely it might sound controversial but it's because people are following the wrong people like the red pill podcast etc learning how to hit themselves and how to hit women and they'll stay becoming lonely because they hate the very things that they want they don't know anything besides having the most beautiful woman beside them for the peers approve of them getting jacked out in money that's what Society to tell someone to care about I think people are spending too much time on social media etc wishing they had their life they don't is leading to loneliness and depression I think we'd have a lot to talk about I don't know if I'm allowed to put my name on here but if he was interested in getting to know me and took my name is Annie Valentine you can find me anywhere with that name except from KZread

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I agree 100% when I was younger (19) I was almost swept up in the red pill movement and it’s like narrowly avoiding a train lmao you articulated my exact feelings thank you Anne

Im 20 this is helpful

You have put a lot of thought into this topic, the road to redemption must always leads through deserts though the trip is well worth it. I've been thinking on how we value things. Markets, assets, people, status, cars and have come to similar conclusions. Like currency, value is intrinsic, and authentic. To be valuable, we must also be intrinsic, and authentic. We must define our own values internally through the 'self', not externally through the outer shell, the 'ego'. The mask to the masquerade eventually gets too heavy and slips exposing our imperfect selves, so just chill and be yourself.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Exactly, this culture of side hustling and always earning more is toxic for us as people, what works for the corporations does not work for the people. ❤ Love your insight

@PowerofRock24

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler I don't necessarily believe it's toxic. Just that we should do things for reasons that benefit our well being, not to impress other people. If you want to start a business because you want to be rich and a luxury car and the illusion of happiness, then you will never be happy. If you start a business because you want to be financially independent or because it's a passion project, you will be far happier. I see a lot of people chasing dropshipping gurus or SMM gurus online, but no one actually wants to do that full time. They are being controlled by their perception of money and how other perceive them,

good job big bro

Great video, friend! I love your insight into life! New sub :)

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you friend, I hope I can keep you entertained and engaged in the future

I’m 24 and I’ve been lonely my entire life, had “acquaintances ” then and there…been there done that…but the reality is there is no such thing as “close friends” I think the term BBF has really decreased in the numerous of years lots of people use to have close friends and be buddies forever but the truth is your life and boundaries has no time and energy for being around a friend, I am a believer that you can make friends but most friends you will make in life will all turn out to be an outcast because everyone is focusing on there own objective life style

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Hey, you are very wise for your age, because you’re right. Many people grow apart. Maybe most people in fact due to one factor or another. I thought my high school friends (two closest) would be in touch with me for life but we haven’t spoken in years. I know I don’t talk about it in the video much but I went through deep loneliness in school. I feel like I understand where you are coming from. But on the flip side, my current best friend, my roommate, has been my friend for over five years. That’s long enough to give friendship a shot in my eyes

You look younger than 30 !

Your a good looking dude man and you seem well worded You need more than a girl you need something bigger

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

All I need right now is to help anyone else who struggled the way I struggled. Thank you for your kind words and thank you for watching, sincerely

@kyliosmx

Ай бұрын

Brother you are more than that bigger plans are definitely ahead I would cut the therapy dude I would 100% say you are one of the hottest dudes I seen

If you said you were 20 I’d believe you. Idk if it’s the lighting but you look great

Its like bro was talking directly into my soul. He's a good speaker. Wish I was there w you💯💯Bro is like a wise old sage🧙‍♂BRO IS NOT RAMBLING BRO IS SPEAKING FACTS. 10:56 Bro may not be a millionaire but in terms of knowledge bro is 🙏🙏💯💯💯

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, I wish I felt this content sooner in life, now it’s my responsibility to share what works for me in keeping my peace

You are a very good-looking, thoughtful and intelligent man. I recommend that you seek out a male mentor in a career field that you're interested in. That's what I did (sought a female mentor at work) and she became the mother I didn’t know that I needed. I not only did well at work but she helped me to navigate friendships, dating, marriage, etc. It's been a few years and now we're like family. Wishing you the best.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your wonderful advice you are incredibly sweet! I will absolutely keep looking for a male role model who help me advance

Yeaaaaaah. Dont sleep on the brushing your teeth daily. Im paying for that at 28 and i started doing it consistently at 24…. Then again, no one taught me why. Good shit bro, you living the life i wanna live !

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching, bro, you rock!

39 and feeling fine... No friends outside of the cult, no fiends in it... Now I just study numerology and social engineering and kinda observe the fireworks.... May God bless and keep you guys out there, if you dont beleive in God then just search for your higher formed self and you'll be fine, I hope so anyway 🙏🏻 With peace and love gents ✌🏻👼🏻🤟🏻

I like your content. I like your style of content it's similar to mine in a way. I game and upload random vlog type videos too. People like to put a face to the content they are viewing. You also said what I always say at the end of my videos which is "Thanks for watching if you did." haha

@GreenEyedDazzler

13 күн бұрын

I’m gonna come check out your channel today after work! 🖤

I'm going to start brushing my teeth now

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Idk why this comment is cracking me up so bad

29 and same.. I turned 29 last month in March... I'm a feminine gay guy though. I'm not interested in women. I think because I'm androgynous looking.. i have 5 dogs, I work 2 jobs and going to college again... ppl are usually rude to me or think I'm to "girly".. I don't know. Life feels like a dream..😞

40 and been this way since I was your age, a full decade now. Best friends, Mom, Dad and Sister are my only friends. Spent my 20s making tons of money, running through tons of women, fast cars, 8 three somes and making one son at 27. Never spent more than a week single between 16 and 30. Been single by choice for 10 years and life is almost perfect! I make way less money and spend most of my time taking care of my father who has heart failure after his 2 heart attacks. Most rewarding, fulfilling job I've ever had. Repaired my relationship with my mother and sister after being a terrible teenager and worse son for 30 years. I have everything I've ever wanted and even more than I deserve of what I need. Most importantly, the time alone lead me to a relationship with my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ who has made me a new man and more important saved my eternal soul. God bless yall out there. You get out what you put in. Take some time for yourself, you'll never regret it.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Yes, I’m so proud of you! Amen, and congrats on turning things around. I did a lot I’m not proud of when I was younger but I wanted to talk about the positives I see around me instead. Thank you for listening

@mainlinemitch

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler I'm proud of YOU! Subbed too, looking forward to hearing more from you! God bless and keep u n urs in His Perfect Peace!

@-______________________

Ай бұрын

OK Chad

@mainlinemitch

Ай бұрын

@@-______________________ far from it. I'm ugly as sin. You know what that means? You can get twice as many women as I've ever got. You'll still feel empty though.

im alone 24/7 no family no friends.

read On The Genealogy of Morals lads... I can't tell though whether this is hype or not--life-denial basically. I am happy to see this guy happy though so maybe there's something to it. Although maybe this guy sought the cures of the ascetic priest... to assuage the pain, not cure it. He does look kind of master-morality though so who knows.

I also have a saying. And this saying goes like this. WHO GAF!. thats me idgaf about anyone or anything. Who gaf!!.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

💯 you are completely right man I couldn’t say it better

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler yeah 0 fs given . apply that to yourself.

Been busting my arse working back to back only to be slapped in the face with my brother being a nonce and I gotta deal with that while going through what I do at work. I swear I've only been alive 18 years and I'm about ready to quit life already

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Jesus, man I hope you see this: That is SO much trauma and pain to experience at ANY age let alone as young as you are. I beg you, when you are feeling hurt please reach out to someone you can trust: parents or whoever, someone older though. I have someone in my life who dealt with something almost identical… And if you genuinely feel like giving up go on your phone and type that in, “feel like giving up”… and call the hotline. I know it must be impossible to imagine things getting better but at least give time a chance to heal you. 🖤 I’ll check back here from time to time in case you respond.

@titaniumcranium3755

Ай бұрын

​​@@GreenEyedDazzlerthank you so much for the insight. I didn't expect a reply but I really needed this. I don't mean to waste anyone's time, I just don't know how to heal from this or be happy ever again.

@GreenEyedDazzler

22 күн бұрын

You’re not wasting anyone’s time when you reach out. Think of it like this: if you’re in pain you ask for help, because YOUR SURVIVAL is NOT a waste of time. I know how hard it is to go to work while dealing with family trauma. Have you talked to your boss/supervisor and told them that right now you’re going through extreme drama with your family? Don’t have to be specific you can just say that your brother is in a bad situation and you’re trying not to let it affect your work but you just want to let your boss know where you’re at mentally. Something along those lines might make work a little bit easier.

@titaniumcranium3755

22 күн бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler you're right man. I'm so glad I saw this when I did. It's probably the best advice so far I can see. Thank you so much for taking your time to help. I don't want to cut anymore because I know it will lead to worse problems later on.

Wish so many young men that got red or black pilled would've seen this instead.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Same… that’s why I want to make videos like this in the first place. You articulated exactly how I feel thank you 🖤

Good positive message and one that every lonely male should hear. We all want to be Andrew Tate types but that’s just not the reality of who we are. We don’t lie cheat and steal to get what we want, and the world is clearly incentivizing that type of behavior. Take the good and ignore the bad, it’s the only way to live.

Friends are useless when I have family

kzread.info/dash/bejne/k2Wb17N9ZbrTmJs.htmlsi=PGH81nozceuP2Rjs next part in this series of millennial/genZ discussion on friendship, loneliness, the economy and even height ❤

I agree, I’m 28 and single no friends but I’m so happy, and grateful, I often ask why am I not depressed, why am I not going down a rabbit hole, I think because I appreciate the little things, I also have no desire to build relationships

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

Yeah f these unloyal witches

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

If you can appreciate the little things in life you basically have super powers lmao keep that mindset, you rock

i am married, i hate it, i love being alone 😂

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

😂 That’s actually a great point I wish single people like myself would remember. It genuinely SUCKS to not be independent

@FadiGamingRP

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler amen

27yrs old, no friends, no girlfriend (and why I hate being alive)

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Do you play any games online? I don’t have any friends that I can play with everyday but meeting people on DayZ has added more great people to my life 🖤

you all can still turn to Christ if you have not God bless

So I'm older tahn you and I have no girl, no friends, no job and no car xd I am so effed I don't know what to do, it's over. In my case I absolutely am a loser, the biggest I ever knew.

I don't know if that's the lightning or what but you look great for 30, you look 24.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you! I just uploaded another video with better lighting so you can be the judge of that! 😂

I’m gonna say all the same things But I’m different. I’m not like them. I’m not like those guys sitting in their car talking about these things

I love this video, but why the fuck did youtube recommend this

@trustytrojan

Ай бұрын

i know right

I don’t think friends are important in life, i think that people have twisted the terms of friendship and changed the way friendship society works, like what im trying to say is that it’s the old saying that “a friend is always there for you” that is completely Wrong! A stranger across a street can check up on you and see if you are ok…what’s the difference when a friend does it? The only people who will really truly care about you is your own family

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

My mom and my sister are my biggest fans and best friends and I know I’m very lucky and privileged to have them in my life 🖤 you make great points

Good looking asmongold .

The government is the problem. It incentivizes women to use men for resources without ever really committing to them. Until we abolish the family/divorce courts, nothing will change. I'm old enough to not only have seen the changes over the years but to have also been forced to suffer through them at a punishment level. Nobody who hasn't been through the process will truly understand it. Women do though. They know they get paid to use men and they do. It is wise to avoid relationships until this changes.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

All anybody can do is focus on self improvement and let everything else fall into place 🤷

@puffball4484

Ай бұрын

Dude look at history. Women have ALWAYS had to rely on men for resources. It is only recently that women could have resources of their own. Women stayed in bad relationships/marriages because they could not easily attain their own resources. Christian Sharia law is not coming to America, sorry.

I'd love to be your friend ❤

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You already are! Thanks for listening to me ramble 🖤

🤍😊

Heloo

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Hey friend good to see you ♥️

Just give it some time buddy. You’ll start to feel the loneliness set in. it’s inevitable. We all need healthy relationships

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You’re right, I won’t say not to try to make connections! Right now though, the few bonds I have with my family and roommate are enough, despite what social media and Hollywood try to depict, not every life is empty without a love interest or an entourage of friends 🖤

@Movement_Pill

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler okay cool. me personally I get that lonely feeling even if I have lots of good friends. Some part of me really needs a romantic relationship. I tried to convince myself I didn't need one but I only lasted for 1 year and then I had a breakdown

@darklordvadermort

Ай бұрын

@@Movement_Pill lol dude one year? yo mr. green i have no relationships for 8 yrs and just slightly older than you and got a very hefty sum in the bank as a result. i bet billy here lives hand to mouth cuz of his neediness. study math&cs, robots are coming, humans are evolutionary dead end, peace

You’re so cute

5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. James 1:5 King James Version

Look up jesse lee peterson

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for the recommendation, will do!