Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41

No Friends, No Wife, and No Social Life. I explain why my life is like this currently due to traumatic experiences that I went through to arrive at this point in my life. Like, Comment, and Subscribe!

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  • @SweetJustice
    @SweetJustice2 ай бұрын

    Introverts get their energy from being alone, extroverts get their energy from being in groups.

  • @SB-tc2jr

    @SB-tc2jr

    Ай бұрын

    I hadn't thought of it that way - but you are right! That's why I "need" so much alone time, to reenergize myself. Because people are def energy drainers. Darn EVs !!! They want my blood !!! 🩸

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Facts 💯

  • @manueladames5835

    @manueladames5835

    Ай бұрын

    ​@rizenfly friendship needs time , why not start writing with someone and see how things go, with age our needs change and friends is a word , nay not be spoken lightly, it means loyalty and unconditionally giving love and appreciation to someone without wanna gain anything , especially not financial interests. I also spent lots of time alone, but that is ok, still I am open but with lots of time. 😊

  • @philipdefrancisco7540

    @philipdefrancisco7540

    Ай бұрын

    Wow...this is one of those "ah ha" moments! I need to steal this to explain to others why I am an introvert! My best friend is an extrovert extreme!

  • @wread1982

    @wread1982

    Ай бұрын

    I’m 41 and a millionaire never been married and never will, I have no kids. Get into growth stock swing trading if you want to have something fun to do 24/7 researching stocks and making money

  • @Purple.1111
    @Purple.1111Ай бұрын

    I’m 42, no husband, no friends, no social life… and looking back, I realize this is the BEST time of my life. Peace is priceless. Some may judge and think this is sad, but I love it.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights and for listening. I agree peace is definitely priceless 😎

  • @univuniveral9713

    @univuniveral9713

    Ай бұрын

    Either your husband dies on you, or you on him. Sad either way.

  • @space.midnight.cowboy

    @space.midnight.cowboy

    Ай бұрын

    What you were going to say? No one ever admits his life is 💩

  • @Anonyme67

    @Anonyme67

    Ай бұрын

    As long as you are happy that’s fine.

  • @sianefer-ptah1258

    @sianefer-ptah1258

    Ай бұрын

    Growing up, I thought differently, but nowadays, I agree entirely. I always see things as " do I want to divide my precious time by 2?" No, I don't, but I'm not bitter at all. Let them judge. We're at liberty to spend every day as we wish 👌

  • @one7decimal2eight
    @one7decimal2eight12 күн бұрын

    There are 5 critical moments that impact a man's life. The death of your father. Getting your heart broken. Being broke. Being betrayed by your best friend. Realizing that no one is coming to save you. I have unfortunately gotten this BINGO, and even before all 5 happened I have been a loner. And as they have come to fruition, I have isolated even more. I love it, really. Ive had enough drama and hardship to last a lifetime. Now, at 45 almost 46 I look forward to my alone time to self reflect and not be sucked into the chaos that being around people brings.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    12 күн бұрын

    Yes brother, you are on target with these 5 things🎯Thanks for sharing your perspective, very enlightening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well 💯

  • @maxburn478

    @maxburn478

    3 күн бұрын

    that's sad shit bro... don't let your down. Because all this happened for a reason. And this reason will make you stronger than ever, to help you find your true path, your own way, that one do you need. And it doesn't matter if friend or love gone, it's mean only one thing, they never ever be your close people for real. Everything passing, and what comes around goes around, don't worry about that. Today your on the top, next day your done, that's life and i feel when you come across these hardships, you will be grateful for this times. And you will find your one close man or woman, and it will be forever and it will be better than ever, just never change for yourself and this will happen, once again brother.

  • @michaelalonso8852

    @michaelalonso8852

    2 күн бұрын

    Same buddy same

  • @tdon39

    @tdon39

    Күн бұрын

    Lmao y’all should try alcohol 🍷

  • @user-iv5cs2qc4n

    @user-iv5cs2qc4n

    14 сағат бұрын

    4/5. for single parent child mother dying is just as bad. never had my heart broken, cause it had never got that far

  • @trevagraham1605
    @trevagraham16052 ай бұрын

    I'm 47, married, I have three real friends, and I don't go out much. People are really just a liability.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    I glad to hear that, thanks for listening

  • @nowchanlahkesis9691

    @nowchanlahkesis9691

    2 ай бұрын

    Lotta users be the boss of your gifts " never look like your dumb one sec or yeah'''

  • @dah_goofster

    @dah_goofster

    2 ай бұрын

    They can be an asset

  • @trevagraham1605

    @trevagraham1605

    2 ай бұрын

    @@dah_goofster They can be, but more often than not that's not the case.

  • @dah_goofster

    @dah_goofster

    2 ай бұрын

    @@trevagraham1605 well if you think about any business that is successful, it’s always a collective effort. I think the trick is to figure out how to extract the assets from each person, if there is any. Might sound psychotic but it’s the reality.

  • @nikkikraus8298
    @nikkikraus82982 ай бұрын

    Being alone and being lonely are 2 different things. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best move on the chessboard.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes I totally agree 💯

  • @beo_bred1247

    @beo_bred1247

    Ай бұрын

    This one💪🏾🔥🤜🏾!!!

  • @Mishy555

    @Mishy555

    Ай бұрын

    Yup being alone and being lonely ARE two entirely different things. People get it mixed up.

  • @robinnewton1061

    @robinnewton1061

    Ай бұрын

    For sure!!

  • @lstruggy

    @lstruggy

    Ай бұрын

    Yezzzrrr! 🥷

  • @mrbojangles7996
    @mrbojangles799625 күн бұрын

    No wife, no kids, sleep great, no stress, no health problems, no debt, no drama, peace is priceless!

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    23 күн бұрын

    Yes it is brother peace is key.

  • @mimosahoney5617

    @mimosahoney5617

    23 күн бұрын

    absolutely!

  • @vibezlogistics7453

    @vibezlogistics7453

    22 күн бұрын

    So u can't find peace with friends and family..come on..

  • @MrRepsMrReps

    @MrRepsMrReps

    22 күн бұрын

    Traveling will add more joy to your life

  • @MrRepsMrReps

    @MrRepsMrReps

    22 күн бұрын

    @@vibezlogistics7453 Family can be a great source of stress

  • @oldbutbold
    @oldbutbold21 күн бұрын

    I'm also 41. No family, wife, girlfriend, friend. Life is work, eat, sleep every Mon-Fri, eat and sleep every weekend and public holidays. It has been that way for the majority of my adult years.

  • @technologic21
    @technologic2129 күн бұрын

    I'm 40, no wife, no kids, no social life. My true friends I can count on one hand. People are a liability. Solitude is a hard won ally. I'm very thankful for it.

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    23 күн бұрын

    Absolutely right

  • @wouterjansen4176

    @wouterjansen4176

    23 күн бұрын

  • @chris4321das

    @chris4321das

    22 күн бұрын

    "My true friends I can count on one hand" - that's how it is in life. You have that many? I teach my children that you can only have a 2-3 true friends, as friendship takes time and dedication 👍

  • @devilsoffspring5519

    @devilsoffspring5519

    16 күн бұрын

    Lots of people around is good for hobbyist/enthusiast groups, concerts, sports, and other things that can be social like that. Nobody around is necessary for getting things done. Especially anything creative, you better not have anyone around because they will interfere any chance they get. Songwriting, building things, hell--just fixing your car. People around will interfere because that's what people do.

  • @Cookieboy70

    @Cookieboy70

    15 күн бұрын

    I don't know. I'm in the same boat as everyone else here, no wife, no kids, living my life, etc. but my is in her 70s and she is losing the ability to remember things and is unable to open jars, bottles, etc. So I help her out in most these things. I've also lived long enough to see how big targets the elderly are for family/friends attempting to steal their money in addition to scam artists. I'm living my best life right now and it's a long way off, but I'm starting to think if how long I could actually support myself alone as I get older.

  • @john-lacherry
    @john-lacherryАй бұрын

    I'm 81, alone my whole life. I'm still alive and kicking. Only child. I absolutely love being alone. I am my best friend.

  • @daneyraju8433

    @daneyraju8433

    Ай бұрын

    Are for real bro... or just joking

  • @leelunk8235

    @leelunk8235

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@daneyraju8433WHY DO YOU CHALLENGE HIM HEFFA

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, very encouraging brother thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that 💯

  • @leelunk8235

    @leelunk8235

    Ай бұрын

    @@daneyraju8433 ARE YOU FOR REAL

  • @pizzahot133

    @pizzahot133

    29 күн бұрын

    Rock on!

  • @alexperkins8361
    @alexperkins83612 ай бұрын

    Whoever said more money more problems got it wrong... It's actually more people more problems. I'm a single father and every time I let some one in they become a distraction from what my calling is.

  • @merfn

    @merfn

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @khaliylali7439

    @khaliylali7439

    2 ай бұрын

    Indeed😂

  • @BenBisset-yc9qo

    @BenBisset-yc9qo

    2 ай бұрын

    Feel that brother

  • @eii8794

    @eii8794

    2 ай бұрын

    I can relate 100%

  • @Tony_Kaku

    @Tony_Kaku

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly! There are people who always get themselves in messy situations and will always need a favor or money and blame everyone else as the reason. I understand sometimes shit happens but there is also knowing how to avoid those situations.

  • @gamesmoney1025
    @gamesmoney102516 күн бұрын

    Im currently 37 and barely have any of that. To be honest Im sick of most people.

  • @mswilson1225
    @mswilson122526 күн бұрын

    I’m 49, happily divorced, kids grown, alone NOT lonely and happy as a clam. People are awful and hurtful. No energy for their mess. Plus, I must say, I’m the best friend and company I ever had. ❤

  • @austin33785

    @austin33785

    12 күн бұрын

    Your ex pay allimony? Lol

  • @revelation1462

    @revelation1462

    Күн бұрын

    When you find ur man you know

  • @user-sf4th1xl6t
    @user-sf4th1xl6t2 ай бұрын

    I'm 48, burnt out with being socially deceptive, I'm a true introvert, no friends, no close family ties, and no social life. I look forward to work and running errands

  • @jaydub7386

    @jaydub7386

    2 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @deleted5338

    @deleted5338

    2 ай бұрын

    @@jaydub7386 both of y’all would make great volunteers. You bring time and effort to the communities around out. We are social creatures, be careful you are not making excuses, if you feel you are, consider therapy.

  • @omarisaac5189

    @omarisaac5189

    2 ай бұрын

    Wtf!!! You people need desperate help. That is not normal or healthy

  • @micro_aggressor

    @micro_aggressor

    2 ай бұрын

    GYMMMM!!!!

  • @merfn

    @merfn

    2 ай бұрын

    The same

  • @Blu_Grease
    @Blu_Grease2 ай бұрын

    When you’re young, everybody wants to be your friend but when you’re older, It’s very hard to make friends

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    This is very true

  • @OGDelulu

    @OGDelulu

    2 ай бұрын

    Bullshit. If you're different or smarter, nobody likes you.

  • @thehotboywalking

    @thehotboywalking

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s not hard. Most adults just don’t go out enough. I go: Scuba diving Horseback riding Sky diving Painting Cooking class Pottery class Jet skiing Gun range Fencing Water rafting Swimming U name it. It’s 60 activities on my list. I meet dope ppl doing them all and almost all of them have clubs you can join

  • @dannysummers4591

    @dannysummers4591

    2 ай бұрын

    @@thehotboywalking most of us weren't born into aristocracy to have hobbies like that, some of us are stuck in the 9-5 grind with limited time and money

  • @OGDelulu

    @OGDelulu

    2 ай бұрын

    @@dannysummers4591 and some of us, like myself, are so ugly that every time I go out in public, people recoil.

  • @Biaggiotti
    @Biaggiotti27 күн бұрын

    46, no wife/no kids and living my best life ever. Wouldn't have it any other way. God bless.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    26 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and may God bless you as well 🙏🏾

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    23 күн бұрын

    Much respect to you brother I am 41 no wife but 1 child. I have major trust issues so I prefer to be alone as well. Protect your peace at all costs

  • @charleybarley7148

    @charleybarley7148

    22 күн бұрын

    LMAO

  • @richy_rude

    @richy_rude

    21 күн бұрын

    @@user-bp9xp9ev5v and more importantly, protect your bank account lol. 😛

  • @A_World_Full_of_Lies
    @A_World_Full_of_Lies29 күн бұрын

    This is me as well. I cannot deal with crazy people in 2024. All they do is judge and hate on each other, They are full of pride and are narcissistic, cold hearted and careless. They hate the truth and will block you for speaking of it. Good for you for being a loner. I too am one. It helps me keep my peace.

  • @drunkdrftr

    @drunkdrftr

    28 күн бұрын

    Yup. Culture wars

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    28 күн бұрын

    You speak pure facts 🎯

  • @Purple.1111

    @Purple.1111

    26 күн бұрын

    Yesss!!!

  • @lebkuchenmann2000

    @lebkuchenmann2000

    23 күн бұрын

    The worst thing about that is, that I see myself becoming exactly like this, but I lose more and more control over it.

  • @user-fz3ys8ut6k

    @user-fz3ys8ut6k

    20 күн бұрын

    Very well put.

  • @marycrowley1442
    @marycrowley1442Ай бұрын

    Being betrayed by someone you thought was your friend or someone you thought loved you and would be there for you is one of the worst feelings one can experience. It is a hard gut punch.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Indeed it is 🎯

  • @gma729

    @gma729

    Ай бұрын

    Happened to me too Bro. My gf. She went from a Dream from Heaven, to 8 months later xa Malevolent Demon from hell. She literally tried to destroy my life, instead she ruined hers, her New bf bailed her out of jail recently. But she's facing 6 felony charges come August. Good Riddance

  • @Oceanbird971

    @Oceanbird971

    Ай бұрын

    @@gma729 dude you're ex gf sounds like a terrible person who seriously makes someone's life a living nightmare like that she seems like the type of person who has no respect for anyone at all

  • @tommiejackson-zd4dl

    @tommiejackson-zd4dl

    Ай бұрын

    Trust me Im living it now betrayal

  • @thinktankindi2664

    @thinktankindi2664

    Ай бұрын

    I used to have a gang of so called friends. They let me down...outright betrayed by a few. I stick with my wife and kids...just casual friendships with a few. I keep some distance.

  • @williambarber2523
    @williambarber2523Ай бұрын

    I'm 56 years old and I have been alone for over six years now and it's lonely but its a lot better than being used.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    I hear that brother, Facts🎯

  • @angeliachandler1853

    @angeliachandler1853

    Ай бұрын

    I totally agree

  • @versewonderstrikes5353

    @versewonderstrikes5353

    Ай бұрын

    🎯How were you being used? Just curious? Were you enabling someone? Were you being lied to. What’s the real story?

  • @machida58

    @machida58

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@versewonderstrikes5353Humans are opportunistic exploiters. It's a function of intelligence and having a "social" nature.

  • @Mighty-VizioN

    @Mighty-VizioN

    Ай бұрын

    I was told that if no one is using you, that makes you useless. The point is to not be concerned about being used. it's a part of life and living

  • @user-jn1cz2gs2v
    @user-jn1cz2gs2v11 күн бұрын

    I have family, wife, daughter, work, resposibility and a damm cat. You have no idea how much I envy your peace, I always find my self happiest when i'm alone doing my thing without any worries. In my life its nothing but stress, problems, spending, and i'm not happy. We do it because they depend on us. Your doing good man, keep it going.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    10 күн бұрын

    Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well brother💯

  • @markpw2613

    @markpw2613

    5 сағат бұрын

    Just wish to add to your point. 100% agree. So true in all u say, great comment. However i want to say that if u are lonely by choice its an empowering feeling. If u are lonely because u cant connect with people or have anxiety or some bizarre quirks then sadly it sucks

  • @MeetMeOutside
    @MeetMeOutside18 күн бұрын

    Much respect my friend. Takes some balls to talk about this, you’re a good man, one step at a time brother.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    18 күн бұрын

    Thanks I appreciate the support brother 💯

  • @asdfxcvbn746
    @asdfxcvbn7462 ай бұрын

    "Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41" --- you won life... stack your money, stay in shape, date at your leisure with no commitment & no kids & enjoy your peace until you die.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Alright Will do, sounds like a plan. Thanks for listening and for the insightful words of advice💯

  • @teeaymusik9811

    @teeaymusik9811

    2 ай бұрын

    But aren't we all made to build a family? Thats what im still asking myself.. And i know western women are a too high risk. But i cant get over this thought and i'm 35 atm.

  • @MrSamadolfo

    @MrSamadolfo

    2 ай бұрын

    get ur passport and go hit up the Red Light Districts and git u some

  • @Jason-ip6wq

    @Jason-ip6wq

    2 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@teeaymusik9811no, everyone isn’t made to build a family and not everyone wants kids. This is why so many kids aren’t raised right because people think they’re required to have kids, even if they don’t want them

  • @lindsay3793

    @lindsay3793

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@teeaymusik9811 Sorry you hate us western women.

  • @joes4987
    @joes4987Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, 38, no wife, no kids, no social life, and i truly love my life. Was always a lone wolf, wouldnt have it any other way.

  • @lstruggy

    @lstruggy

    Ай бұрын

    💯🎯 forever 🥷

  • @rotweilerscholar1181

    @rotweilerscholar1181

    Ай бұрын

    Kids are the perfect solution because of unconditional love. They give you the opportunity to start your own colony with your own belief system and they carry on the family name.

  • @ChrisJWattsTV

    @ChrisJWattsTV

    Ай бұрын

    💯💯

  • @AlexanderMatrix11111

    @AlexanderMatrix11111

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@rotweilerscholar1181No thanks

  • @waynek805

    @waynek805

    Ай бұрын

    @@rotweilerscholar1181 Too often nowadays, the love is no longer unconditional between parents and their kids. Then there is the difference between love and respect (another thing sorely lacking in today's society). But yes, overall, having kids is important for most of us to get fulfillment and a sense of true accomplishment in our lives in the long run. Plus, with so many people choosing not to have kids, we are facing a real demographic disaster that many other countries are already experiencing.

  • @Massive-Creampy
    @Massive-Creampy27 күн бұрын

    One can imagine how peacefull your life is without dramas and stress!

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    23 күн бұрын

    Yes I am trying to get to that point.

  • @Kelly-sl6vz

    @Kelly-sl6vz

    20 күн бұрын

    And it’s one thing to have stress as a part of life, but when people come in, and they deliberately cause chaos and drama, forget about it!!

  • @devilsoffspring5519

    @devilsoffspring5519

    16 күн бұрын

    Keep in mind that many people find the alone-ness kind of "peaceful" to be very dull. Granted, a man of maybe 12-16 or older or a woman 25-20 or older ought to be able to amuse and distract themselves and not be dependent on other people's drama and bullshit just to make their lives feel less empty!

  • @RudolphManor
    @RudolphManor2 күн бұрын

    The best person to roll with is by yourself. I'm a solo bird for life. 💯

  • @DIXIFREELY
    @DIXIFREELY2 ай бұрын

    I've found that living this type of lifestyle is more peaceful and abundant financially.

  • @heruthemaster

    @heruthemaster

    2 ай бұрын

    Marriage sucks

  • @TheCharr1981

    @TheCharr1981

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly! You cherish more of your time and boundaries with rejecting most people nonsense, gossiping, mockering and childish behavior is despicable. Most people don't realize that gossiping and mocking people is a sin. My lifestyle is recluse to max.

  • @jdocean1

    @jdocean1

    Ай бұрын

    I have a 16 year old daughter. I’m always broke 😂.

  • @TheCharr1981

    @TheCharr1981

    Ай бұрын

    @@jdocean1 You have to learn about investing and remain patient for your harvest. Learn about digital assets like XRP, XLM, XDC and Pure Silver on KZread. I'll tell you one thing most people are condition thinking that once you invest they'll get overnight riches. That's not realistic at all.

  • @TheCharr1981

    @TheCharr1981

    Ай бұрын

    @@jdocean1 Invest in physical silver, xrp, xlm and xdc

  • @shawnjackson9337
    @shawnjackson9337Ай бұрын

    I absolutely understand, brother. I’m 53 with no children, no spouse and very FEW friends. IDK how tf I got here but, man…. I’m enjoying it.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate it, wish you all the best 💯

  • @daphneytennard3267

    @daphneytennard3267

    Ай бұрын

    Welcome to the club

  • @norgelopez1935

    @norgelopez1935

    Ай бұрын

    Smart

  • @guerovillalbaso2523

    @guerovillalbaso2523

    Ай бұрын

    You work at least?

  • @bigbro8817

    @bigbro8817

    Ай бұрын

    If you were really enjoying it you wouldn't be here trying to convince us that you are truth is you need videos like this to feed off of because deep down you're miserable.

  • @PurpleGoddess24
    @PurpleGoddess2421 күн бұрын

    I'm 40 black single mom of two proud teens I raised alone which are both on the honor roll.No drama, no stress no friends, not much of a social life. It is peaceful but would be nice to meet other single men and woman as honest good natured people that stand on their words. Love & Light 🙏

  • @marymorenomariposa
    @marymorenomariposa18 сағат бұрын

    i’m 41, no man or kids (no kids by choice), no friends and taking care of myself. LOVE IT.

  • @xBelleNoire
    @xBelleNoire2 ай бұрын

    Everyone isn’t meant to be partnered. If this is truly the life you want, enjoy your solitude. Do what works for you.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts, thanks for listening much appreciated💯 will do

  • @adam.maqavoy

    @adam.maqavoy

    2 ай бұрын

    Agreed. I Had the Worst of The Worst *Parents* One a *Real* Socio-Path. The other one A - 'Psycho-Path' And... *Ex-Navy* Own Sister is *Bi-Polar & A Feminist* Side-Note; All of em' Have 1 Common-Factor ( *Alcoholis:m* ) Me: .... *An Introvert* (That got My education) Stolen By The Parents {-Mūnchen-by-proxy-}

  • @Hello_Ladies

    @Hello_Ladies

    2 ай бұрын

    No such things as "partners" unless you're running a business together. A wife or husband is not a partner.

  • @Imhimdogg

    @Imhimdogg

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s a risk to me now that I’m 36 with no kids only because it’s literally gambling that I don’t get a woman who wants to just put me on child support because I’m a working man and most modern women Love the idea of having a baby because baby fever but discard the relationship.

  • @mschoy1597

    @mschoy1597

    2 ай бұрын

    @@rizenfly Same. I'm also 41. No Friends, No husband and no social life because I WANT my peace. Friends do NOT exist. Once you do better for yourself, by yourself, they get jealous. Not everyone should be married and social life is a distraction from my focus on Divine Source. I LIKE being alone. I like my walks in the park BY MYSELF.

  • @sylvianpententner3051
    @sylvianpententner3051Ай бұрын

    Married guy here with not a single friend, zero social life and loving it. Can't stand people, no interest in talking about netflix, cappucinos or sport so I'm happy its just me and my wife!

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Glad to hear that bro, I wish you both all the best 😎

  • @machida58

    @machida58

    Ай бұрын

    Marriage is the biggest crutch of all time. Lol.

  • @sylvianpententner3051

    @sylvianpententner3051

    Ай бұрын

    @@machida58 whatever works for you bro!

  • @machida58

    @machida58

    Ай бұрын

    @@sylvianpententner3051 Don't isolate yourself and put all your eggs in one basket. You never know when you will need *some* kind of support network.

  • @machida58

    @machida58

    Ай бұрын

    @@sylvianpententner3051 My comments are being deleted.

  • @Winston0Boogie
    @Winston0Boogie22 күн бұрын

    I love this dude. This is so honest and the production is very bare bones. Just a guy talking about his feelings and what he's going through.

  • @CraziFootball
    @CraziFootball14 күн бұрын

    Don’t be scared to lose ppl big dawg, that’s a natural part of life. We all gotta go. Don’t let it stop you from forming and keeping relationships✊🏿

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    14 күн бұрын

    Thanks I appreciate the encouragement 💯

  • @yoelquilates
    @yoelquilates10 ай бұрын

    "Be alone-that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born." - Nikola Tesla

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    10 ай бұрын

    Very enlightening quote, thanks my man!

  • @marcoAKAjoe

    @marcoAKAjoe

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah until it gets boring

  • @banginzaza

    @banginzaza

    5 ай бұрын

    It's definitely common nowadays. People don't give a fk about how's your day going. Not many hello's and smiles. And some are alone not on phones and internet. All kinds of lonely ish nowadays 😂😂😂

  • @lsaye

    @lsaye

    4 ай бұрын

    i understand what you mean by this, but look at how Tesla's life played out and you will understand that this is probably not the best approach for life. Its great for SOME careers.

  • @Yujiro945

    @Yujiro945

    3 ай бұрын

    @@lsayewell brother Tesla bro was autistic that’s why.

  • @moniquemariemuniz
    @moniquemariemunizАй бұрын

    This comment section is so kind. Thank you. I turn 40 this week and I am single, no kids and my parents are in heaven. My friends are my 2 dogs and a bunny. They are loyal. I too look forward to work and errands. I think I’m still in shock how unbelievably cruel this world can be. I’ve been severely bullied my entire life but became worse as I grew older. Being alone is safe and can be very fun. Many blessings everyone. Life is what you make it. So make It fun. Even if it’s just for you and the animals🥰🥰🥰

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    29 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your experience, sorry to hear about your parents, sending my condolences 💐 I appreciate you taking the time to listen as well, and hope that great things come your way💯

  • @Chris-ln6so

    @Chris-ln6so

    29 күн бұрын

    Such a lovely comment ❤

  • @flightkidd123

    @flightkidd123

    28 күн бұрын

    God Bless You

  • @Corleone007

    @Corleone007

    25 күн бұрын

    you look quite nice :) I would meet you. Where are you from? :D

  • @tomjones6630

    @tomjones6630

    24 күн бұрын

    That's trauma. Ever consider therapy? Others who are miserable will chime in and say it's okay to be that way. It's equivalent to the blind leading the blind.

  • @ilonkamvtv
    @ilonkamvtv21 күн бұрын

    "Stopd approaching ppl coz might ending up losing them" I wish I could give you a real warm hug ... ❤😭

  • @pablodominguez8318
    @pablodominguez831824 күн бұрын

    I’m 26, Only Child. Lost my Mother when I was 18. The tough lesson was learning my mother’s “friends” weren’t actually her friends. I’ve reached a point in my life where I finally cut out the negativity & started to see the upside of being a “Lone Wolf”. I truthfully enjoy being by myself & not dealing with people. Thanks for sharing your story. So glad I came across this video 🙏🏻

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    23 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen. Sorry for your loss, sending my condolences 💐 I hope that many blessings come your way 💯

  • @samueljava
    @samueljavaАй бұрын

    I'm 39, no friends, no social life, no wife, no kids, no pets,... and I love my life. Sometimes is hard but it is for everyone. This is a bless my friend.

  • @GorryX3

    @GorryX3

    28 күн бұрын

    Giga Hyper Cope

  • @rhettoberts18

    @rhettoberts18

    28 күн бұрын

    Get a pet homie

  • @mdodo2380

    @mdodo2380

    25 күн бұрын

    I hope you give to charity

  • @Icarus169

    @Icarus169

    24 күн бұрын

    You do you man. Ignore the haters ❤.

  • @marsisflat

    @marsisflat

    23 күн бұрын

    @@GorryX3suck a d man

  • @Alex-m8515
    @Alex-m8515Ай бұрын

    31 no wife, no friends and no social life but have my beautiful dog. She keeps me motivated and she helps me stay in nature.

  • @vincentkennedymcmahon50

    @vincentkennedymcmahon50

    Ай бұрын

    You living a miserable life 😂🤣😂

  • @novaaa5663

    @novaaa5663

    Ай бұрын

    @@vincentkennedymcmahon50you are the miserable one. Animals are better than people and you are the proof

  • @Alex-m8515

    @Alex-m8515

    Ай бұрын

    @@vincentkennedymcmahon50 better than you by the sounds of it.

  • @ricobico1872

    @ricobico1872

    Ай бұрын

    @@vincentkennedymcmahon50 how do you know? lmao

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    😎

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v
    @user-bp9xp9ev5v23 күн бұрын

    We are in the same boat brother, I don't trust anyone, because in this day in age you can't trust anyone

  • @bonniejohnson760

    @bonniejohnson760

    17 күн бұрын

    Agree 100%. I have trust and betrayal issues . I've been screwed over more than Carter's got liver pills. This is why I stay to myself. The more I stay to myself and mind my own business, the less trouble I get myself into. Thank you for posting this video. Now I know I'm not alone.

  • @warriordx5520
    @warriordx552021 күн бұрын

    Peace is priceless.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    20 күн бұрын

    So True 🎯

  • @JenSumma
    @JenSumma2 ай бұрын

    Hey there. I’m 40 single, no kids, no partner and a few friends throughout the US. I’m extremely lonely and spend most days not talking to people outside of work. I decided to isolate because I was tired of my toxic life and wanted to go on my healing journey. It’s been so lonely but I’m finally at a better place where I enjoy the peace

  • @NRGVAMPYRICGYPSIE

    @NRGVAMPYRICGYPSIE

    2 ай бұрын

    I bet ur overweight arnt u

  • @mikemoorehead92

    @mikemoorehead92

    2 ай бұрын

    right with you brother sounds exactly like my story

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes peace is so important, I wish that good things can come to you on your journey. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯

  • @provisionalhypothesis

    @provisionalhypothesis

    2 ай бұрын

    listen people out there are fucking crazy, you're better off being lonely than having fucked up folks in your life

  • @meghanwilliams4295

    @meghanwilliams4295

    2 ай бұрын

    Learning to live without people is so empowering. Living alone, and spending time alone, is two things that I can rely on, for maximum peace, and self-enjoyment.

  • @peacenamawejje5
    @peacenamawejje5Ай бұрын

    The comment section is therapy itself. Thank y’all for sharing your insights on situations like this, reading your comments has helped me feel better.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    I’m glad to hear that. Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that 💯

  • @rogeliomartinez9173

    @rogeliomartinez9173

    Ай бұрын

    Uffffff!!!! Best comments,or to be said at the best way,BEST COMMENTORS EVER😊...what a quality on these comments!

  • @diobrando-qv3uv

    @diobrando-qv3uv

    29 күн бұрын

    The reply sections are quite the opposite tho...but that's just a KZread thing the reply section is always full of very mean and hateful people unfortunately.

  • @kimcapaldi9328

    @kimcapaldi9328

    22 күн бұрын

    Totally agree 👍

  • @YouTubeCensorsAndSuppresses
    @YouTubeCensorsAndSuppresses28 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. With almost 300k views and countless comments you are not alone.

  • @Artificial_Intelligence_AI
    @Artificial_Intelligence_AI24 күн бұрын

    I am pretty much like you. Society is constantly telling me that I should feel bad and horrible about my situation and that I should hurry to fix it (I guess they see me as If I was suffering from it), but the thing is that I prefer spending my time alone thinking about myself in an introspective/constructive manner rather than having empty conversations with people who doesn’t bring anything interesting to my mind (finding real people to share some real conversations is hard these days). And let me tell you that I am very good because I feel free to act whatever I want without having whole group dictating me what’s good and what’s wrong. I don’t have the need of finding others to give me a “reason of happiness” to my life and that’s a powerful tool. Of course that doesn’t mean I reject all people but only those who act like they suppose to with some sort of constant facade.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    23 күн бұрын

    I totally get what you mean. Thank you for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that , and wish you all the best 💯

  • @Plagius8
    @Plagius829 күн бұрын

    Im 44. No friends, no social life. Just work and home. I always wait for someone to talk to me instead of talking to people.

  • @Randy-kc9gs

    @Randy-kc9gs

    28 күн бұрын

    45, same thing, dont like to engage.

  • @MrRepsMrReps

    @MrRepsMrReps

    22 күн бұрын

    Thats good you will attract people in a natural way

  • @rserna271

    @rserna271

    21 күн бұрын

    People never approach first .

  • @damon7956

    @damon7956

    16 күн бұрын

    @@rserna271 They're doing us all a favor.

  • @lastxp

    @lastxp

    9 күн бұрын

    Some 40+ have never even been on a date before. Availability can be an issue.

  • @SupermanPrime1M
    @SupermanPrime1M28 күн бұрын

    Looking good for 41 brother! Keep on keeping on 💪🏾

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    28 күн бұрын

    Thanks, I appreciate that 💯

  • @smallwonder866
    @smallwonder8662 ай бұрын

    I am 38 and as far back as I can remember I have been an outcast. I was severely bullied throughout school. In my adult life, I was hurt and mistreated by jobs and "the system"...I ended up homeless. By the time I managed to acquire some sort of stability, I was well into my 30s and I just couldn't relate to or trust anyone.

  • @magerulz616

    @magerulz616

    2 ай бұрын

    Find a good therapist and start working

  • @Raptify-sh4kt

    @Raptify-sh4kt

    2 ай бұрын

    @@magerulz616 Therapy is talking to someone who cares as long as he gets your $. Also sitting in a chair for an hour just to talk is the female way of dealing with issues, men are not designed this way.

  • @magerulz616

    @magerulz616

    2 ай бұрын

    @Raptify-sh4kt trauma doesn't heal without professional help, talking doesn't solve everything but a great therapist will be much more than someone you just talk to

  • @Raptify-sh4kt

    @Raptify-sh4kt

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@magerulz616 Talking, giving advice that you can get online for free and charging more than a hooker. Screw that!

  • @user-kv3ob3sq1i

    @user-kv3ob3sq1i

    2 ай бұрын

    @@magerulz616 no it doesn't just stop your BS.

  • @yokiryuchan7655
    @yokiryuchan765510 ай бұрын

    Friends? Social life? wife? WTF are those things?

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    10 ай бұрын

    Hey it's crazy how life can be at times

  • @Pazuzu-

    @Pazuzu-

    2 ай бұрын

    Its a bunch of P.I.T.A. that other people claim "you need".

  • @2ndviolin

    @2ndviolin

    2 ай бұрын

    It was a comedy series on television.

  • @pointuout2020

    @pointuout2020

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too!

  • @JesusSavesMerciful

    @JesusSavesMerciful

    2 ай бұрын

    Gifts from God of you are lucky.

  • @roxieallison4946
    @roxieallison494615 күн бұрын

    Hey brother! This video was something else for me. It made me think about my life for a whole day after watching it. After watching it, I considered making a similar one but realized I could never top your video. I'm about eight years older than you and have been through the military and a similar life you described. Your storytelling resonated with me and many others. (I can see in the comments. lol) I personally have never taken the time to make a comment like this... Life is indeed a rollercoaster of ups and downs. Right now, I'm doing well with a great partner and a thriving business. Something 8 years ago, I would have told you were crazy if you said I was doing what I'm doing now. I hope you're doing great too, and I hope you can say the same. I think you are exceptionally talented, and I plan to watch more of your videos.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    14 күн бұрын

    Thanks brother I appreciate your support, and you taking the time to listen. I’m glad to hear that your life has improved, very inspiring to hear that. Times are getting better for me too these days thankfully. You guys have helped me through all the encouragement and advice I’ve been hearing in the comments. I greatly appreciate that, and wish you all the best 💯

  • @Quball87
    @Quball8723 күн бұрын

    I appreciate the honesty in this video and opening up.

  • @camronmoses8956
    @camronmoses8956Ай бұрын

    41, one friend (which I'm wearing out my welcome), no lady, no job, no more money, and living out of my car. Literally waiting for my car to be towed any minute. Hungry, but I'm still sober. Crying, but still alive. The tough truth is life sucks. More so for some than others. Being alone sucks. Not being able to trust sucks. Not sure what brought me here, but I wish you the absolute best, man.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best in your future as well 💯

  • @micnorton9487

    @micnorton9487

    Ай бұрын

    Understand brother,, I'm almost at the end of the line here getting kicked out of a low rent apartment by an owner who is a prosperity Gospel phony who wants to make more money off illegal immigrants (which I never have a problem with, people come here to get a better life and they should be able to do that)... I haven't been homeless for a long time, I always worked when I could and treated people well and this is what it got me... And it occurs to me, that these worthless pieces of garbage who screw over other people just to get a little bit more money DO have something coming to them, and if he's going to create a person with nothing to lose, well then maybe he should lose something... It seems a real ignorable way to go out, icing some worthless piece of s*** and then exit stage left myself but I really don't have the energy to go through being homeless again... Hope something turns up for you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @realbrother2795

    @realbrother2795

    Ай бұрын

    Call out to Jesus to help you bro he really can help you and change your situation if you trust him

  • @D1Snr

    @D1Snr

    Ай бұрын

    I feel you're pain. It's like hell on earth.

  • @daneyraju8433

    @daneyraju8433

    Ай бұрын

    Bro your ability to wish him luck amidst all the struggle makes you an angel... shine bright man... you are not alone jesus is always with you

  • @bigbad123321
    @bigbad1233212 ай бұрын

    I'm 40 and your story is identical to mine. I joined the Navy though and not Army. Everything else is scarcely similar. No wife, no kids, shy, the few friends I have are all now married and so I don't get to see them very much these days. Keep working on yourself like you are man, I think that's the key. Over the last couple of years I've got myself a Degree and am looking for a better job. I've also lost 120 lbs over the last 13 months. I'm improving myself 1 small step at a time

  • @TheClemt33

    @TheClemt33

    Ай бұрын

    Good job sir, don't give up !

  • @bigbad123321

    @bigbad123321

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheClemt33 Thanks man, and thanks for sharing your story.

  • @robertmann446

    @robertmann446

    Ай бұрын

    120 lbs are you ok?

  • @bigbad123321

    @bigbad123321

    Ай бұрын

    @@robertmann446 Yeah, I was very overweight. I haven't gone anorexic or anything.

  • @RetireandGo

    @RetireandGo

    Ай бұрын

    You are making your way and I wish you all the best

  • @AriRishom
    @AriRishom15 сағат бұрын

    I'm 42, working really hard making some money, no wife, no social life, almost no friends. After 11 years married finally get my divorce. This is the best time of my life ❤

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    6 сағат бұрын

    Cool brother, I wish you all the best in times ahead 💯

  • @photeeth
    @photeeth27 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. It’s nice for me and I think other people who are struggling with similar things to hear they’re not alone.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    27 күн бұрын

    You are so welcome.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen💯

  • @rickjay2011
    @rickjay20112 ай бұрын

    I'm 39, turning 40 soon... Divorced. No children. Your story is similar to a lot of us guys, who have trusted and been done wrong by friends, family, and ex wives or girlfriends. 2017 was my last relationship and after finally getting tired of being rejected and ghosted, I realized the only love I needed came from myself. I'd recommend reading into the Buddhist teachings regarding detachment. It's a great place in life to be happy in your own company, and no longer dealing with shallow individuals, just looking to suck the life out of you.

  • @aaronchapman3

    @aaronchapman3

    2 ай бұрын

    Yep. 2017 was my last relationship too. After my wife left I just do my own thing every day

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    You speak so much truth. Thanks for your insight words and for listening. I really appreciate it💯

  • @Topsiekku

    @Topsiekku

    2 ай бұрын

    Tarvitset Jeesusta et Budhaa.

  • @marcusryan9129

    @marcusryan9129

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm going to check those Buddhist teachings out. Thanks 👍🏽

  • @HarryClipzFilmz

    @HarryClipzFilmz

    2 ай бұрын

    Read a book called the Stellar Man by John Baines. Great read my guy

  • @bball3048mm
    @bball3048mm2 ай бұрын

    No social life. No friends (actually fake friends/frenemies). My only friend is my imaginary friend. People call him Jesus.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes..THIS! Thanks for listening and sharing your thoughts much appreciated 💯

  • @user-sq2zk2oc8p

    @user-sq2zk2oc8p

    2 ай бұрын

    He knew you before the world began. He's with you. He's coming back to get you, like a thief in the night. Stay strong.

  • @notmychannelname42

    @notmychannelname42

    2 ай бұрын

    You're hilarious! Why would you call Jesus imaginary?

  • @Shukke1992

    @Shukke1992

    2 ай бұрын

    You are not the only one.Most of the people are fake so,if you manage to find one genuine is a great blessing from God.Trust me one genuine friend is worth a lot.Bible also says to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers so, There is that.There are fake people in church too,we need actual born again believer as a friend.😊

  • @malcolmhodnett8874

    @malcolmhodnett8874

    2 ай бұрын

    Yup definitely imaginary lol

  • @elliot9828
    @elliot982823 күн бұрын

    I felt this video deeply..thank you so much for sharing yourself with your viewers. This comments section is beautiful..and as ironic as it may be, I hope the comments here allow you to see that you’re not alone. Even if nobody is there beside you right now, there are countless people in the world feeling the same or similar to yourself. Just from hearing you speak, it’s clear that you have a huge heart and that you have a lot of love to give to this world..which you’ve done through this video. Sending you my best wishes from the UK..

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    22 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome..Thank you for taking the time to listen. Yes I realize that now and appreciate the support for you all so much. I wish you all the best as well 💯

  • @WillowRose-vi5fy
    @WillowRose-vi5fyАй бұрын

    I am female, 39, single, no friends and no family. I learned better being alone with no one. I keep to myself and do ME

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    I heard that, stay strong I wish you all the best sister 💯

  • @daphneytennard3267

    @daphneytennard3267

    Ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @ushoyouknowsum5500

    @ushoyouknowsum5500

    Ай бұрын

    Read wtf the Bible say about that

  • @reeree4735

    @reeree4735

    Ай бұрын

    I've been alone since I was 39. I'm now 60, happy and have no regrets. I love my peaceful life.

  • @ibnsabeel9466

    @ibnsabeel9466

    Ай бұрын

    @@ushoyouknowsum5500 Where exactly in the bible ??? It’s a fairly vast book.

  • @thedrunkenmaster1787
    @thedrunkenmaster1787Ай бұрын

    I'm 36 never married, no girlfriend, not dating anyone, no kids, full time job as a truck driver, and I'm happy and content with it. I love my peace.

  • @RickTheBoss98

    @RickTheBoss98

    23 күн бұрын

    Bro have some kids I say they with slk respect

  • @aaronramirez1095
    @aaronramirez109526 күн бұрын

    I’m 43, no wife, I have friends but since I have no social media I’m always alone. It’s ok to be alone from my perspective and I do like it

  • @STONE69_

    @STONE69_

    24 күн бұрын

    So its just you and your right hand.

  • @MitsuKinG09VIRS
    @MitsuKinG09VIRSАй бұрын

    I'm 34 in the similar boat ..I trust no one , just waiting for my ticket to be punched . It's already impossible to live yet trust anyone in this new world.

  • @alexcarino3274

    @alexcarino3274

    Ай бұрын

    Join the military create memories

  • @mlb7583

    @mlb7583

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@alexcarino3274Bahahahaha Join the military? Bahaha Hilarious

  • @alexcarino3274

    @alexcarino3274

    Ай бұрын

    @@mlb7583 take advantage of opportunity instead of just doing nothing and waiting to die or punch out

  • @ernstthalmann4306

    @ernstthalmann4306

    Ай бұрын

    Brave New World

  • @JonBlack413

    @JonBlack413

    Ай бұрын

    @@alexcarino3274he’s 34

  • @stevejjon2010
    @stevejjon2010Ай бұрын

    I'm 50, divorced. I have no girlfriend. I have no real friends anymore. No social life. Relationships with my original family are pretty strained. I don't like my job, it's stressful and fills me with fear every day. I won't be able to retire until perhaps 67 or so. I live in a run down house because its the only one I could afford in my area of Australia. I'm often lonely but it's getting easier and am getting used to being alone.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience, stay strong brother. I wish you better days ahead.💯 I appreciate you for taking the time to listen as well

  • @orangestoneface

    @orangestoneface

    Ай бұрын

    fear ..what kinda job

  • @victoriousco

    @victoriousco

    Ай бұрын

    Trust in Jesus Christ it shall be well

  • @FHi349

    @FHi349

    Ай бұрын

    Last sentence is gold

  • @Benny-zo3qh

    @Benny-zo3qh

    Ай бұрын

    Just wanted to send you some love from Canada, stranger!

  • @coreygunz645
    @coreygunz6457 күн бұрын

    Appreciate your honesty. I'm 30 and can totally relate I was an addict from 19 to 24 and so were the friends I had. To become clean I had to cut them all out of my life. And since then I haven't had a social life at all. Keep up the good work dude I subscribed

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    7 күн бұрын

    Thanks I appreciate your support! Glad that you have made a positive change, and I wish you all the best in times ahead brother 💯

  • @PlainVain
    @PlainVain29 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your experience , i learned alot from this and countless other ones , every loss is a lesson, grind and enjoy the finer things in life .

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    28 күн бұрын

    You are so welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯

  • @bryansimpson8694
    @bryansimpson8694Ай бұрын

    I'm 53 yrs old alone, no wife, no kids and I'm smiling because I still have my sanity and I'm at total peace and wouldn't have it any other way.

  • @sarge-T.O.

    @sarge-T.O.

    29 күн бұрын

    amen

  • @GorryX3

    @GorryX3

    28 күн бұрын

    Giga cope, probably you go cry every night before go sleep

  • @bryansimpson8694

    @bryansimpson8694

    28 күн бұрын

    @@GorryX3 Your childish trolling is laughable and judging from your comment, your intellectual capacity is lacking.

  • @ericdavison8939

    @ericdavison8939

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@GorryX3just because you can't handle being alone, doesn't mean everyone else can't. I know exactly what this commenter is talking about.

  • @macho8240

    @macho8240

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@GorryX3You don't know anyone's personal life. You're weird.

  • @spencer1280
    @spencer1280Ай бұрын

    Same but im 30. Single 2 years, no friends, no social life at all. Go to work, come home and watch tv

  • @townstunsltd6727

    @townstunsltd6727

    Ай бұрын

    Seriously, reduce the TV consumption or moderate it, as before you know it you'll be 40, and single, with no friends... find a hobby, or P/T Voluntary work! Get out there, get away from that screen, "STEP AWAY FROM THE SCREEN" you can lose years at that screen. Your in an important stage of life; the transition into middle age; so prep! All the best.

  • @daphneytennard3267

    @daphneytennard3267

    Ай бұрын

    Volunteer with a dog shelter or a organization.

  • @leftyk072

    @leftyk072

    Ай бұрын

    And when you are on your death.bed...will you be saying, man, I should have watched more TV...., at 30? You have a purpose! Life is meant to me lived..not just work + watch TV, unless that truly deep down makes you feel totally fulfilled in all aspects of life?

  • @ernstthalmann4306

    @ernstthalmann4306

    Ай бұрын

    Compared to people in Sudan or Gaza or India You won at life m8 Think about it You get the luxury a 1400s king would envy Perspective 🎉

  • @Davidpostingshid

    @Davidpostingshid

    Ай бұрын

    So do something else

  • @donspooner588
    @donspooner58825 күн бұрын

    Mark, shows how many feel, trust is so important. You're not alone.

  • @hiyabuddy7
    @hiyabuddy77 күн бұрын

    I like listening to your story bro. Very relatable. In my opinion people don't talk truthfully often enough. I'm guilty of closing off at times as well.. But wether speaking to another or in a format like this, sharing truths and honestly can be so incredibly liberating and healthy. For the one speaking, and ones listening. I thank you for your service and your honestly in this video. Appreciate you🙏

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    7 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯

  • @OnlyBanzho
    @OnlyBanzhoАй бұрын

    35 no friends black sheep in family, no kids, no social life, no social media life, too much wisdom. I’m glad you are here sir sharing this with us because you’re doin just fine.

  • @vincentkennedymcmahon50

    @vincentkennedymcmahon50

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 what a disgrace

  • @OnlyBanzho

    @OnlyBanzho

    Ай бұрын

    @@vincentkennedymcmahon50 literally what I said lookin in the mirror today 😂😂😂

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate the support thanks for taking the time to listen 💯

  • @tashasmith1191

    @tashasmith1191

    29 күн бұрын

    Same for me no kids no social media black sheep just me myself and I

  • @dubmatic798
    @dubmatic7982 ай бұрын

    Came across your channel by accident. Thank you for serving our country. I'm 48 black man, have always been a loner. I can be social, hang out, conversate, date, but I've always been more comfortable when I'm alone. I've been in several relationships and literally have seen friends come and go. It all amounted to nothing. Now I'm just at peace. I love my hobbies and traveling and I happen to really love my Job/career. I've gotten more accomplished since I've made the decision to just stay single and mind my own business. Thanks for this vid.

  • @user-sq2zk2oc8p

    @user-sq2zk2oc8p

    2 ай бұрын

    Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you. He will never abandon nor forsake you.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Cool, no problem it was an honor to serve. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. Glad that you found peace and I wish you good times ahead as well😎

  • @ernstthalmann4306

    @ernstthalmann4306

    Ай бұрын

    Stack money and get a Thai wife lol 😆 🤣

  • @howardwhite1217
    @howardwhite121714 күн бұрын

    You're not alone, good on you for sharing your experience

  • @JahJah021
    @JahJah02125 күн бұрын

    You're definitely NOT the only one, G ✌🏽 I've never been so happy in my life until i started deleting people outta my life 💯

  • @DJJunkfoodJay
    @DJJunkfoodJay2 ай бұрын

    Same here. No Friends. No Wife. Zero Social Life. And I'm very happy.

  • @betht7591

    @betht7591

    2 ай бұрын

    How?

  • @ms.evegene

    @ms.evegene

    2 ай бұрын

    😂 y'all stupid lol.

  • @victorgrays6708

    @victorgrays6708

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm very happy to with what ever the most high has for me your health is your wealth if a family happens good but I'm not forcing anything it has to happen naturally

  • @pimpdoggydogg8670

    @pimpdoggydogg8670

    2 ай бұрын

    Are you really happy? Or are you telling yourself that as a cope? You don't even have to reply, that's something you should only answer for yourself.

  • @victorgrays6708

    @victorgrays6708

    2 ай бұрын

    @pimpdoggydogg8670 I'm very happy most my friends died went to jail are on drugs I'm 41 good health decent job with the post office very happy I wasn't a victim to society

  • @LashaThe
    @LashaTheАй бұрын

    I'm 43 and no friends, no partner, and no social life. After being with someone for over 20 years I found that a peace of mind is so priceless. At first I thought something was wrong with me because I really don't have a life. But Im so at peace with myself and Im ok with that.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate you sharing your experience and for listening. You’re so right, piece of mind is priceless🎯

  • @MM-zj8be

    @MM-zj8be

    14 күн бұрын

    I will be your friend.

  • @marie-jp7wr
    @marie-jp7wr28 күн бұрын

    This video hit the heart! stay strong... I'm 39, Living in DC, doing well for myself, 2 homes, an apartment, no kids, no girlfriend, trying to date but the dating scene sucks. i have friends and family but still lonely. The way i keep my sanity is traveling and retail therapy.

  • @mashtyxxa2693
    @mashtyxxa269326 күн бұрын

    I'm amazed that you take the time to read or respond to all the comments, I hope you're doing good brother

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    24 күн бұрын

    Yes, I appreciate the support from all of you very much💯

  • @patvicencio7394
    @patvicencio7394Ай бұрын

    Im 43,divorced almost 20 yrs ago. Had a messy relationship some years ago. I have been single for about five yrs , alone with no friends. Miss my children and thats about it. God Bless you brother.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. May God bless you as well🙏🏾

  • @daneoman1000

    @daneoman1000

    Ай бұрын

    I am in a very similar boat as you, stay strong brother

  • @PAT3978

    @PAT3978

    Ай бұрын

    Very similar to my situation. I’m 46, twice divorced with kids but no friends, no need to impress anyone with BS, only to be there for me and my sons.

  • @countpicula
    @countpiculaАй бұрын

    The algorithm brought me here. Glad you got it off your chest man. Keep at it.

  • @Mr79Shahin
    @Mr79Shahin24 күн бұрын

    Bless up brudda for your braveness in making this video. Life isn’t easy. Peace from the UK 🇬🇧

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    23 күн бұрын

    Thanks bro, may God bless you as well 🙏🏾

  • @kimcapaldi9328
    @kimcapaldi932822 күн бұрын

    This video has made me feel so much better. I been feeling like I am the only person living this way....everyone on here you have helped me so much with your stories.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    21 күн бұрын

    I’m glad to hear that, thanks for taking the time to listen. I appreciate that 💯

  • @markstamper1

    @markstamper1

    Күн бұрын

    This comment! I was thinking the same thing. I thought I was the only one but the comment section has shown me that it’s common than I thought.

  • @J.Strantz
    @J.StrantzАй бұрын

    Nearly 34, no wife, no kids, no social life, my old friends from school/work are scattered around the US, no consistent contact. Thanks for your service.

  • @hisham63polaris17

    @hisham63polaris17

    Ай бұрын

    Since Covid my social life changed

  • @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin
    @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin2 ай бұрын

    My wife and I have 3 kids, no friends, no social life, we just take care of our human and non-human animals and stay out of the way.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    That’s great, it seems to be better that way. I wish you guys the best💯

  • @JohnnyJoe90

    @JohnnyJoe90

    2 ай бұрын

    Get out of here if have wife n kids this video doesn't apply to u

  • @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin

    @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JohnnyJoe90 of course it does. I’m pro-men and I have a son who my wife and I will be advising not to get married, under any circumstances, despite us being married.

  • @musicremixes847

    @musicremixes847

    2 ай бұрын

    try doing it without having somone

  • @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin

    @It_Puts_The_Lotion_On_Its_Skin

    2 ай бұрын

    @@musicremixes847 why the hell would I do that? I was single once upon a time also. I’m not allowed to agree with men who choose to remain single just because I’m married? You mad bro?

  • @noahcooley69
    @noahcooley692 күн бұрын

    im glad you came back. love you man

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 күн бұрын

    Much love bro💯

  • @Wonderyear88
    @Wonderyear886 күн бұрын

    Reading these comments are so sad 😞. I pray that you find whatever you’re looking for. Nobody wants to die alone.

  • @70mustang302

    @70mustang302

    6 күн бұрын

    My biggest fear is dying alone.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    5 күн бұрын

    Thank you I appreciate that, and wish you all the best as well 💯

  • @Wuanty
    @Wuanty2 ай бұрын

    In the same position at 23. I don’t really care about socializing and meeting new people anymore. I’ve tried that last year and absolutely nothing came from it other than the realization that people don’t matter that much and I’m on my own in this life. I could live in a farm with my animals and be fulfilled.

  • @patrickglaser1560

    @patrickglaser1560

    2 ай бұрын

    Get that feed bag son... feels bad seeing these farmers selling land for developers

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    I feel you, animal give off so much genuine energy and are real at all times

  • @Apollothe3

    @Apollothe3

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re 23. You haven’t earned your solitude. You have to get out into the world & make something of yourself. The lonewolf thing is a myth that will leave you socially inept.

  • @NamesZKP

    @NamesZKP

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Apollothe3 Says he's young and hasn't earned his "solitude" then says he's going to be "socially inept." Yeah if you're a gatekeeping pessimist just say it lol.

  • @Apollothe3

    @Apollothe3

    2 ай бұрын

    @@NamesZKPgatekeeping pessimist? You’re using a word & I don’t think you know how that word works. Socializing in person w/ others is like a muscle. If you don’t use it then it becomes atrophied & leads to social awkwardness & ineptitude because Humans are social animals. Why are you trying to pathologize optimism? Did the lonewolf comment strike a nerve?

  • @outtahere321
    @outtahere3212 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I'm almost 59, divorced after 17 yrs of marriage and have three children. I've been by myself now for 14 yrs. I went through the family court gauntlet and trust me you are better off remaining single, working in your career, saving money and just enjoying your life. We are in the last days where the love of many has waxed cold and it is just too dangerous for men to take the relationship risk in my opinion. God bless you and enjoy your life.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Anytime..thank you for listening and sharing your experience as well, I will take your advice. May you be blessed also🙏🏾

  • @tngerman

    @tngerman

    Ай бұрын

    damn … my life to a T i’m 62 divorced 18 years 3 kids

  • @8corymix8

    @8corymix8

    Ай бұрын

    Divorced in 04, 1 daughter who lives with me. Never remarried & have no time intentions of it. I work, travel a little & save my money.

  • @brandoyouth

    @brandoyouth

    Ай бұрын

    hahaaa..just be scared man..ru intentionaly stupid or is that natural one

  • @dawna4185
    @dawna418523 күн бұрын

    57 and all alone and living my best life!! peaceful and free!...you've been through some tough times, it seems....sending lots of love and strength! and thank you for your service 😘

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    22 күн бұрын

    Yes! Thank you, I appreciate the support ! Much love to as well ❤️

  • @albertosamayoa6030
    @albertosamayoa603025 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I am from a big family, but I like to be alone. Single at 45, introvert, no social life and I am loving it. That gives me more time to work, read, and spend time on my hobbies.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    24 күн бұрын

    You are welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯

  • @don.3595
    @don.35952 ай бұрын

    I'm 41, now single dad after 15 yr marriage and end do to be cheated on as well as loss of friends over time...crazy how the algorithm aligned us

  • @chad7694

    @chad7694

    2 ай бұрын

    You think it's the algorithm but they know your life.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear this bro, stay strong. Yes the algorithm. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯

  • @MrSamadolfo

    @MrSamadolfo

    2 ай бұрын

    🙂 dont feel bad, its normal for all of us

  • @southsidetherealest2860

    @southsidetherealest2860

    2 ай бұрын

    me too take care of my kids pay cs while they living with me still wating to go to court because they designed the system to swallow us up during the process but I wont go down!

  • @aaronchapman3

    @aaronchapman3

    2 ай бұрын

    There's a whole bunch of us, man...

  • @Jaydot34.
    @Jaydot34.2 ай бұрын

    I actually do not believe in the concept of friends when you’re an adult.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    It does seem like the concept changes over time

  • @mrtrollnator123

    @mrtrollnator123

    2 ай бұрын

    Have u tried making friends with ur coworkers

  • @doctorx1924

    @doctorx1924

    2 ай бұрын

    The problem with friends after your schooling ends is that everybody is then in network mode. They are trying to find people who can help them someway financially.

  • @unclerhombus

    @unclerhombus

    2 ай бұрын

    “Going out with friends” just means spending lots of money.

  • @mrtrollnator123

    @mrtrollnator123

    2 ай бұрын

    @@unclerhombus no what do u mean u don't need to spend a lot of money when ur hanging out with friends lol

  • @rp5444
    @rp544425 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. And thank you for your service…..Respect.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    24 күн бұрын

    You are welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen💯

  • @AICali707
    @AICali70723 күн бұрын

    This makes me feel better, glad I stumbled upon it.

  • @MomentsByMo
    @MomentsByMo2 ай бұрын

    You seem to have a sweet soul... and unfortunately a lot of people take advantage of that. Sorry you went through those experiences. Stay blessed.😊

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the kind words and support I truly appreciate it 💯

  • @samanthap.879
    @samanthap.8792 ай бұрын

    I’m 27, married with a child and over the last 5 years my parents, best friend, best friends mom, and 5 other friends I held dear faded away. I have my husband son and one very close cousin and I am content because they love me. Quality over quantity

  • @austinbrunett3575
    @austinbrunett357527 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your service.

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    27 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome.. It was a honor to serve

  • @RupertRochester
    @RupertRochester20 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏼

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    20 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen

  • @dookieboy81
    @dookieboy8121 күн бұрын

    There’s no shame in being lonely, however, there’s two people i work with, in my department that have no social life no family no spouse but use that lonely life to stir up trouble. So kudos to the people who keep their energy for peace ✌🏽

  • @Nkmusiclast
    @Nkmusiclast2 ай бұрын

    I'm living alone.... I'm happy with my small house, small Job, small earning, small pet, small garden, small pond, small lifestyle.... I dont have much contact with humans. I love this earth, trees, plants and animals thats all.... Finally gonne dance melt and join with the cosmic universe.. 💙🖤

  • @elginsims345

    @elginsims345

    2 ай бұрын

  • @alfordromney9080

    @alfordromney9080

    2 ай бұрын

    🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @theinnerlight8016

    @theinnerlight8016

    2 ай бұрын

    Minimalism for the win! 🖖

  • @michellemitchell6865

    @michellemitchell6865

    2 ай бұрын

    Sounds heavenly

  • @biddybyrne7854

    @biddybyrne7854

    2 ай бұрын

    Good way to live, keep life simple! ❤

  • @RobertStevenson-uy9sj
    @RobertStevenson-uy9sj18 күн бұрын

    Keep your head up, i had a serious medical scare and am out of work , lost most of my friends and what not. Nothings ever permanent, always room for improvement

  • @rizenfly

    @rizenfly

    17 күн бұрын

    Yessir, thank you for the encouragement and for sharing your experience. I hope you get well soon, all the best brother 💯

  • @Logie_Mills
    @Logie_Mills19 минут бұрын

    Can definitely relate… Army vet here too! Good video man. Keep your head up… and if you’re ever out in central Cali you got some friends for sure! 🇺🇸