When i told my counselor about my self harm, she called my parents and made me tell them, and I felt terrible. Everyone at school alienated me and it was horrible. People still look at me weird, 2 years later.

@charliewatts7577

7 жыл бұрын

Similar things happened to me when I was in primary, and this is why I don't tell anyone anymore. :\

@shevannayoung6274

7 жыл бұрын

well it's illegal not to call parents if their child is a danger to themselves or others, so it's not your counselors fault

@Pr4y4pl4gues

7 жыл бұрын

4 years later i still have no friends and people still talk about it

@popsicko6493

7 жыл бұрын

Shevanna Young Actually her counselor was kind of in the wrong. They won't call your parents without your consent unless you're expressing violent behavior towards them or others and when they think you're close to attempting suicide. The counselor should've gotten her permission.

@mynamedontmatter8381

7 жыл бұрын

+PopSicko they were allowed to, they shouldn't have but they were technically allowed.

When students vent to their counselors about their feelings, the counselors 99% Call the student’s parents 1% *help*

@yukisnowbell1933

5 жыл бұрын

Why is this so accurate?

@_xxsagr101xx_4

5 жыл бұрын

I have depression and like nobody know cause I hide it

@sackof_cats

5 жыл бұрын

I acctually ended up going to a different counselor because of this

@nikkielaine9453

5 жыл бұрын

Gacha Llama Exactly, my councilor was a piece of shit for that.

@alicia-eo1xk

5 жыл бұрын

That's why I'm afraid to tell mine

When I told my grandmother I had depression and was self harming, she said I was possessed. She wasn't wrong. Depression is a demon.

@pratyushjha1817

5 жыл бұрын

I have that book too bruh. Mark manson is a god

@ilikedogs1022

5 жыл бұрын

Pls post this everywhere

@randomcommenter8320

5 жыл бұрын

I agree to the fullest. My mom told me that depressed people are those whom were weak in their spirit, and that demons got the chance to enter their body and ruin them. Those demons keep whispering bad things to people's minds and make them as down as possible which leads people to commit suicide.

@aaliyahsalim7228

5 жыл бұрын

Depression is a b*tch

@lifalixxia6387

5 жыл бұрын

My grandma would say that too if i told her.

A girl in my school told the principal about her self harm, she got expelled

@dani777

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf this makes me mad

@sariica

5 жыл бұрын

Omg....really?😔

@xxxflraxxx8301

5 жыл бұрын

Naty Alba what.the.actual.FUCK THAT IS SOME MESSED UP SHIT!

@fleetstarfallen8594

5 жыл бұрын

That's stupid

@Abu_ATC

5 жыл бұрын

WHAT THE FLAP! HOW DARE THEY!

I started cutting on my wrists. My counselor he saw my wrists bandaged up and he made a big joke out of it. My whole class laughed at me. Everyone said "stop being so damn dramatic." I felt so disgusted with myself.

@xxsyst3m_err0rxx3

4 жыл бұрын

Bálor Club am I aloud to kill them?

@k1ngjamyk1ngjamy23

4 жыл бұрын

thats the life most people have to live in this SHITY RUNDOWN FUCKING WORLD

@jananbanan452

4 жыл бұрын

Sheesh people can be rude sometimes. Stay strong!

@crater2277

4 жыл бұрын

I have cuts on my wrists. I always try to hide them and I’m about to run out of long sleeves to wear. I’ve been scared about that. Don’t let them get to you. Stay strong

@roses3728

4 жыл бұрын

*give me names* *G I V E M E A D D R E S S E S*

her hair is so lovely

@Sammy-uq1zp

7 жыл бұрын

IKR!!

@jessiflowers9085

7 жыл бұрын

+Clorox Bleach HEY YOU! YEAH YOU! I WANT YOU BABEH

@Sammy-uq1zp

7 жыл бұрын

*opens cap* I have a flower flavour so that death will taste good. 😜😜

@no-xf8vl

7 жыл бұрын

ikr!

@skittlekitty7264

7 жыл бұрын

i know rite? the best hair ever

every time she speaks her voice was trembling and every time she did that my heart broke x

@beepboop_1101

6 жыл бұрын

Same omg

@Auriga206

6 жыл бұрын

anna / mia same

@twentyonepilots7499

6 жыл бұрын

Same :'(

@maxpainter33

6 жыл бұрын

anna / mia fuck I know I just want to hold her and tell its going to be okay

@deathrecords1489

6 жыл бұрын

things like this will destroy you for a very long time

I love this comment section ·Everyone is understanding ·Everyone is comforting ·Everyone is just so decent

@notime3578

4 жыл бұрын

But why can’t we meet anyone like that around us?!!

@chloecorrigan2652

4 жыл бұрын

I self harm. I get it. Everyone you are amazing and schools now a days SUCk we need to stick together and push aside school and just think about that we are loved

@sasharichardson9127

4 жыл бұрын

@@chloecorrigan2652 Well said. Period.

@sasharichardson9127

4 жыл бұрын

"No time" is the first reply to your comment and we all agree. You can't meet that kind of people in real life. It's an improbable task. There are still good people in the world at the same time. You just have to look really hard for them..........

@its_lemon_19

4 жыл бұрын

conan_ Yep. We're here for you. We understand each others pain. I'll understand yours and I hope you understand mine.

When my teacher saw my scars She said "Did you jump in a bush or what??"

@skyiqlo8625

4 жыл бұрын

Wow hahaha. I would very much prefer that.

@AmberCurve-ow7hj

4 жыл бұрын

Preferable to any other bullshit they say

@fr0ggy_b3by13

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah a bush of blades and anger and anxiety

@H0SANNA

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@its_lemon_19

4 жыл бұрын

x.Avacado .x Yeah and sadness and pain.

I want to jump through the screen and give her the biggest hug..

@heidibenway2855

5 жыл бұрын

Same !!!!

@craigorth6524

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@jazminevargas3903

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@titi-gt8vv

5 жыл бұрын

*raises hand* is mayo an instrument

@ayyyekayleighh572

5 жыл бұрын

Can I get a hug??...

Every time that her voice is trembling, my heart breaks

@minthoss

5 жыл бұрын

hello ARMY

@midnight_blue_moon

5 жыл бұрын

mine too also hello army

@user-nx4zd5bg5p

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@ranch_bird5569

5 жыл бұрын

VoCaLoId LoVeR ...really? Not to be rude but that came off kinda insensitive to me. I mean all you got from that was BTS? Wowza

@sugakookietae4830

5 жыл бұрын

Me too 😔

My mum is a nurse, so i’m scared she’s just gonna turn around and say “You do it for attention, you have nothing to be upset about” But she has no idea when i’m sat in my room with a blade.

@paiz135

5 жыл бұрын

Omfg same

@shyanneashwood9440

5 жыл бұрын

Ya see that's why I take a pencil and scratch so deep it dosent bleed but still causes the same effect as a cut, so it will disappear in a day so they won't leave scars and people won't judge me for it

@aangelaguo

4 жыл бұрын

@@shyanneashwood9440 i did that 4 months ago and it's still there.... i got reported and i started melting in my counselor's room. :(

@shyanneashwood9440

4 жыл бұрын

@@aangelaguo aww that sucks

@bugz137

4 жыл бұрын

Same

I'm semi-addicted to self harm. I used to do it everyday, no I'm not getting better, it's just..Idk what it is..

@brissa1x467

4 жыл бұрын

Emo Bubble I’m not a week clean but the longest I’ve been clean was like 6 months? I lost count

@kawaiiwolfie1385

4 жыл бұрын

I've only ever been about a week clean, which is when I'm at my dad's

@kaylahbailey8366

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate

@baileyy2024

4 жыл бұрын

Ive cut every day for about 2 weeks(when I started) except yesterday I didn't for some reason but I did again today...

@Ryuk-wz7ct

4 жыл бұрын

I was only clean because my family found out and now that eveythings calmed down I've started again

can anyone else hear the trembling in her voice 😟

@ephraimah3704

5 жыл бұрын

me 😔

@boy.erased

5 жыл бұрын

idk how she doesn’t cry

@boy.erased

5 жыл бұрын

on nvm she did cry

@kkalliemint8882

5 жыл бұрын

Yes😢

@jimjin111able

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

She was so brave to do this.. 😭

@mycoachknowsthesheriff8396

5 жыл бұрын

To cut herself?

@cheeseontoast3434

5 жыл бұрын

@@mycoachknowsthesheriff8396 are u serious?

@qipinni

5 жыл бұрын

Walking Panda I think she meant to talk about it not about cutting herself..

@drawingwinxstyle8066

5 жыл бұрын

To cut herself?

@qipinni

5 жыл бұрын

CGI Animates My Story no no to talk. About it p.

I never told anybody about my self-harm, except for my closest friends. One day, I forgot to wear my bracelets and one student saw, then they told the counselor. Every week, the counselor would see me. People started getting suspicious. A few weeks later, someone told that I was self harming. Nobody hung out with me anymore and my teachers treated me differently. I’m so sorry for what happened to you.

I want to hug her SO bad but I cant sadly

@SiliconBong

5 жыл бұрын

*gives her a kitten on your behalf.

@blankface.34

5 жыл бұрын

i'd thought you'd say OPEN UP or something

@mamancherie9440

5 жыл бұрын

She's 14. (I dunno if she is I just wanna be funny-) *FBI OPEN UP*

@WurstWasserLimonade

5 жыл бұрын

dude wtf like she underage stawp ur gonna get in trouble

@viktorthevictor6240

5 жыл бұрын

F.B.I Yeah, if you hug her you're gonna have to "open up" on yourself

Anyone else to scared to tell their mom because you know she'll be like "You just want attention you dont have a problem."

@AjTheDarkestNarrator

5 жыл бұрын

yes, and I would be sent back to the mental hospital I had to sign stupid papers for so I just keep it to myself so I can pretend to be happy with my friends cause I don't want to be in a tiny little room by myself.

@rayjb1125

5 жыл бұрын

Yes..

@catesmommy2006

5 жыл бұрын

I told my mom I’m depressed and that’s exactly what she said. Honestly, it made it worse.

@goddess9739

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah... I started cutting because, I know it might sound silly, I was jealous of my little brother. He always took the attention. I remember when I stopped for 2 months before it happened. my dad called me to help him on his homework. I complained so he told me to leave. I stayed because I felt guilty but my dad kept yelling,"Get out of here! Just get the fuck out of here!", I ran to my room and cried. I opened my drawer and cut my arms over and over. I was snapped out of my daze when I saw blood. I looked into the mirror. I thought I lost it, I began laughing. I laughed and laughed. I laughed but cried at the same time. Laughing while the tears were pouring down. Laughing at myself...

@cockatoo6668

5 жыл бұрын

Not really but I dont want to tell her

I stopped selfharming after doing it for 3 months. I am really proud of myself and i hope people in the comments stop aswell. Know that you matter and you werent given a life for no reason.

@pickle8640

5 жыл бұрын

girl of the nightcore I did it once but it hurt a lot so I stopped doing it but I’m still suffering from everything else:’)

@pandora5560

5 жыл бұрын

@@pickle8640 hope everything gets better for you

@pickle8640

5 жыл бұрын

girl of the nightcore thank you ❤️

@sophieransom9554

5 жыл бұрын

Pandora agreed

@3m967

5 жыл бұрын

Maple Syrup it doesn’t hurt for me..

I just say my cat scratched me :)

@tylerandjsh1873

5 жыл бұрын

me too :)

@whydontwe24hourplaylists78

5 жыл бұрын

ZARG 0 that’s not funny wtf is wrong with you , you can’t go round telling people to cut themselves

@Dina10387

5 жыл бұрын

ZARG 0 I don’t think you realise how sick in the head that is gtfo

@Dina10387

5 жыл бұрын

ZARG 0 I’ve seen a lot of cringey things in my life but I NEVER wanted someone to end their life because of it. It’s never too hard to be nice and want someone to be happy. Open your eyes and see that she has went through so much that you would never be able to understand even with fine eyesight and ears. I pray you go to hell.

@mojam6715

5 жыл бұрын

ZARG 0 lmao why u here if u find her cringey, stop hating and try to make ur own content

School is horrible 95% of the time people are getting bullied and 5% of the time we are actually learning

@katieshore

5 жыл бұрын

POND Parakeet I have never agreed with something more WRITE A DAMN BOOK

@gero3015

5 жыл бұрын

what if you're one of the cool kids?

@midnightplayzstudios7228

5 жыл бұрын

Imagine a pie chart. *98% Is Teachers Not Caring About Bullying.* *1% Is Actually Caring About The Problems.* *1% Educating.*

@thwampustheperson5534

5 жыл бұрын

At our school basically everyone is friends, there isnt really any bullying

@dormantaccount345

5 жыл бұрын

Who ever thinks the popular kids or cool kids dont get bullied your wrong bc I'm part of that group BUT GUESS WHAT 3 OUT OF 6 OF US HAS BEEN BULLIED

Some kid in school grabbed my arm, pulled my sleeve down, and held it up for all the kids to see. Then he yelled “look everyone, I know her secret!”. Yeah.. Edit: thanks for all the support I hope everyone’s having an awesome day :)

@PEACHCHULIP

5 жыл бұрын

*THAT SUCKKKSSS I FEEL DO FREAKING BAD FOR U*

@alv.869

5 жыл бұрын

Hes messed up

@jazzora

5 жыл бұрын

what... the fuck

@fuckthisshitimout5611

5 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me in pe

@nowhy8782

5 жыл бұрын

Illogical Logic what happened next? Did you smash his skull in the ground? Did the kids told him to fuck off?

Ok so this is my story. Age 10 (maybe 11) I was very upset, I was failing in school and stress and shit. Umm... So I took a box cutter from my mom's shelf and.... Did the worst thing in my life and it was the worst decision I had ever made, I did it constantly. Thighs arms and wrists. I it was insane and terrifying my and my mom found out because of the damned school and was in the hospital for 8 days and was put on Prozac. Age 11 1/2 And I became anorexic now I'm turning 12 in a few weeks and still going through it all. :( It's hard. But besides all that if anyone needs help. Ask me, I can give you my Instagram or number and you can vent or talk, because if I can't help me I can help someone else. Edit: I am no longer anorexic and I got the help I needed and suggest everyone to find the help you need.

@leahstaten6895

5 жыл бұрын

ACE OF SPADES me pleaseeee

@beegetsbitches

5 жыл бұрын

Hi ace this is my story when i was 10 my ante die and got really sad so i just wanted to die then i a girl with cut and i asked her about it so after that i got a box cuter and cut my thighs because i owes wore Jeans so nobody else sall them but then i cut my wrist, ankles, thighs, and hips and i did these all on x-mas break so i whant back to school (I'm in 5th grade ) and 1 of my friend came to me and said she self harm so i said i did too but one day her mom sall them and said i did to so she called the counselor. The next day i whant to the counselor and she called my parents (I'm 11 by now ) so thay talked to me about it. Now I'm still cutting but only my friend knows about it but i just mit have depression but thank you for your time. Be safe :3 BTW im still in 5th grade and 11

@bribri2005

5 жыл бұрын

Idk if you still want to talk but it would be nice to have someone going through similar things to talk with

@graysongranger9056

5 жыл бұрын

Your story is exactly mine...

@destinydb4855

4 жыл бұрын

Omg sweetie you are so young, you are crazy strong for dealing with that at such a young age

“Please, please, please keep yourself together and stay alive for me.” That hit me so hard. Thank you for making this type of context; a lot more people need to know about mental illness and it prevents future generations from having to suffer from exposure like you did.

*Does Self Harm* Teacher: "Go to the principal's office." *Goes there* Principal: "You are getting 3 detentions for self harm!" BECAUSE THAT WILL FUCKING HELP, RIGHT?! Fucking school ruins everything.

@amelia7762

8 жыл бұрын

Imagen being homeschoooled and the person that finds out is your mom and every night you have to roll up your sleeve to show her you've stopped and feeling like you in trouble everytime you show her her. But she doesn't know you still cut on your thighs.

@oysterhunter276

8 жыл бұрын

Your principal gave you a detention for self harming???

@twisterlord665

8 жыл бұрын

OysterHunter Yesh.

@oysterhunter276

8 жыл бұрын

TwisterLord But why?? What on earth was the thought process behind that?

@twisterlord665

8 жыл бұрын

OysterHunter How df would I know the school's dumbass desicions. But they did say that its apparently for me to 'Stop being a bad boy'

Someone: Are You OK? Me: *crying then stops* yea Someone: OK. dis, is, no.

@skyd751

7 жыл бұрын

A Leaf This similarly happened in school in pe class

@Tabby3456

6 жыл бұрын

let me re-explain Depression can be described as a "not everyone is happy" lets just say i don't want people to waste there time with me. but thats my sub-concous, maybe i could be bipolar, but i'm not going to self diagnose.

@Tabby3456

6 жыл бұрын

key word "Could"

@Tabby3456

6 жыл бұрын

cutting is not for attention (though there can be people that do it for that reason) people cut themselves to run away from the emotional pain by turning it into physical pain.

@caitlynphillips5656

6 жыл бұрын

A Leaf they think of it as a way out but don't relize that it dosent help it makes it worse

I was self harming,I was really hurting and I had to say something so I told my friends,at first it didn’t bleed,it would the scab.... At first I would use needles,then I started using razor blades... One day I was gripping my arms cause I was bleeding...I was wearing my moms hoodie that day so I had to keep secretly looking at my arms,then my friend realized and forced my to show my arms to her... I showed her my arms and I told her not to tell anyone,she told my other friends...and they scared me to death,they locked my into a bathroom stall,I started crying so I was let out of the stall,then the first friend that found out... Told the teacher.... Then my teacher walked up to me in class and told me my counselor wanted to see my so u went to the counselor...my heart was pounding...we had a talk about my self harm... She told my mom...and when me and my mom were talking about it...I was hiding something,she said “I know your hiding something...please tell me”I told her I’m lesbian,she supports me.. I still do it to this day,I still haven’t exactly haven’t gotten the help I need... But I use my nails now...but I’ve been keeping them short so I don’t hurt myself... That is my story...

@AjTheDarkestNarrator

5 жыл бұрын

I wish my friends did that to me cause it makes me sad that I'm keeping secrets from SO MANY people :( even my school counselor. I would tell her as long as I know that she wouldn't get mad or something idk but I'm glad you haven't hurt yourself as bad ever since

@saralukac9787

4 жыл бұрын

@@AjTheDarkestNarrator I'm also harming myself with nails and trust me this isn't such a big difference of doing it with a knife or doing it with nails... If u use nails u are scratching of your skin and there is also blood and all this shit...

@bestfriend4230

4 жыл бұрын

... Im in middle school and im 12, I do it as well because my parents are homophobic and im pansexual and genderfluid, and im thinking about telling soneone like the counseler but 99% tell the school and your parents about it, only 1% acually help you.

fun fact: this happened to me...i lost friends....my parents lost trust in me...my teachers and the staff put so much pressure on me...and i hate almost everyone there now...so i absolutely understand...you're amazing, i love you for making this and it's made me feel better...💜

When u wanna tell someone to stop hurting themselves.... But at the same time u also do it

@kyramason144

5 жыл бұрын

Ya

@shaylacasey253

5 жыл бұрын

To relatable 😭

@_shiraL

5 жыл бұрын

I do that to all my friends

@dragonflyer9964

5 жыл бұрын

My friend had cut herself once, and I freaked out- yet I cut my arms all the time and they don’t even know

@_shiraL

5 жыл бұрын

@@dragonflyer9964 same here

i draw on myself to try and stop myself from self harming.

@ellieoeltmann1423

7 жыл бұрын

me too

@OliverHatched

7 жыл бұрын

glenda roa I have a therapy book that suggests that! I want to get a bunch of markers soon 😊

@ramy701

7 жыл бұрын

glenda roa same

@992channel5

7 жыл бұрын

glenda roa it's a good practice

@auto-carrot2039

7 жыл бұрын

I think i'll be doing that

I want to jump through the screen and give her massive hugs and comfort her so much and cry together 💞❤️😘🙈💙💜🙏🤟

I started to cut at age 6. Not because I was depressed, but because I love to feel pain and see the blood slowly appearing on my skin. I told this to my teacher, and she told me that I am a psychopath. But I don't have any symptoms of being a psychopath...

@kaisoliz2533

4 жыл бұрын

Blood kink maybe

@user-fe2nr8qs1c

4 жыл бұрын

Evan ? girl, she was 6 wtf

@H0SANNA

4 жыл бұрын

6 is a very young age to start cutting yourself. Most kids that age injure themselves by accident, but not on purpose.

@Cheddar_Shred

4 жыл бұрын

Your teacher was a bitch

Yeah... My mom punishes me for self harming instead of helping me. She takes my phone away, I can't meet my friends, she forbids me to go horse riding and she said if I ever cut again she will beat me...so at least your parents are helping you and nice to you... 💔💔💔

@spinosoldier4035

5 жыл бұрын

Bella Kiraly I’m keeping you in my thoughts. I love horseback riding and training them. I wish we could meet in real life and be friends. I hope your able to find people who listen and care about you. Sending much love to you ❤️😍🐎

@thiccynikky3805

5 жыл бұрын

I think I'm your mom's secret family, cuz your mom sounds an awful lot like mines

@stac521

5 жыл бұрын

same thing happened to me...it'll be better...just remember that you can do better and i know it's gonna suck right now but trust me...there will be a time you can do all of that again and be twice as strong. maybe confide in some friends at school for some help with your mom and always remember there will be a better day. listen to some music and don't care what others say. you'll be ok. we're here for you. 💜

@cute_cupcake9103

5 жыл бұрын

My mom is the Same

@missmewmew

5 жыл бұрын

Sameee

I told my grandmother I was depressed and she said that it was my fault that I want to die. I can't tell anything to her anymore for fear of being blamed.

@AB-nz1oh

6 жыл бұрын

Rain it’s not your fault ❤️💜🖤

@miamolinary3484

6 жыл бұрын

Rain it's not ur fault because, just like feeling happy and scared,u can also feel sadness. It's not ur fault u feel a specific way. U r a human being and I think u can get through it. U seem like a very strong person so stay positive ✌🏼️❤️😔👏🏼🦄

@lydiajohnson2519

6 жыл бұрын

Why would she say that???

@user-xb1vj1ws8t

6 жыл бұрын

Rain Let it go because else it will follow you like it always does to me

@diobranflakes1206

6 жыл бұрын

its not your fault, I promise. Please don't do anything bad to yourself, you can talk to me. I'm here for you.

Your actually a very beautiful young lady! ❤️💛🧡💚💙

@hannahthewolf102

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

I'm so sorry thay treated you like that it's so wrong

My mum smacked me right after my suicide attempt... my heart is still broken

@winterbearlucy

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf, thats so messed up

@alicialovkey7151

5 жыл бұрын

@@winterbearlucy yes it is

@mollie-louisebarnes748

5 жыл бұрын

my mum tried to tell me that life was okay when i tried

@dashinypunnymarsking

5 жыл бұрын

It's because she didn't knew what to do without you. She wanted you to know that it was a wrong doing. It wasn't the smartest way though

@alicialovkey7151

5 жыл бұрын

@@dashinypunnymarsking I guess you're right but all about they care is them selfs

“i think every self harmer is very good at lying because we’re always trying to prove we’re okay” i felt that deep in my heart

@arwenpeters2340

5 жыл бұрын

So true. I've lived through that.

@AlexSmith-kg8ux

5 жыл бұрын

True

@samanthalovely9106

5 жыл бұрын

Yup

I've never really been caught, but there have been so many times where it was close and it makes me so panicked.

When I told my counselor about how I was feeling she straight up told me “stop lying to yourself, you’re sad and over acting”. Or something like that. She then told my parents and the rest of the school. I was pulled out of class almost every day to go to either her or another staff member. People would stare at me and look at me differently, it was terrible. One day I was so fed up with it; when I was called up to her room sat down and said “I’m fine will you all just leave me alone!” Walked out and I was never called back in there. Well not yet at least. Staff members, if you’re reading this I want you to go on your campus and do something about this “system” of yours and FIX it. I’m speaking for everyone who’s been through problems such as depression, anxiety, trauma, anything, we DON’T want to be told were insane, we DON’T want to be told we’re fine. we WANT to be feel sane and as if we are a normal person on campus. DON’T make us feel like we’re crazy. Give us patience, when we are ready to talk to you, we will. But until then, give us our space and let us figure our lives out.

I hate it when school just yells at you for hurting yourself instead of helping This is why school needs to change

@riomaechallis6865

5 жыл бұрын

My school is really good... its my parents that are the issue

@leatherjacketcollective9039

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@joevito848

5 жыл бұрын

My school is shit a kid said he was going to shoot up the school IN FRONT OF THE FUCKING PRINCIPLE AND SHE DIDINT DO SHIT he also tried to stab like 15 kids in the school and nothing happend to him

@foxettagaming1018

5 жыл бұрын

Right!!! When my principle found out she called me stupid!!!

@kikideroos1352

5 жыл бұрын

I got the same name as you

Your hair and fashion sense are on point!

@isabelaexists3480

8 жыл бұрын

Right?

@roos-marijnluckfiel6591

8 жыл бұрын

so true ! she looks lovely

@icefallssnowstorms3224

8 жыл бұрын

Ikr i love it

@himynameisdan3045

8 жыл бұрын

ikr? she's fucking gorgeous

@icefallssnowstorms3224

8 жыл бұрын

+Kendra Brynn init

Ive been re-watching this video for years. Every time that I feel like hurting myself or I'm just sad and crying and I feel like a mess i come back and watch this. I'd say 8/10 times it'll stop me from cutting. I really thank you for that.💜 you should be a therapist☺

@gabrielaxavier2395

5 жыл бұрын

Alpaca Sauce same

@nagon5793

4 жыл бұрын

Wonka same here💞

My classmates made fun of it when i was younger and was a suicidal/selfharmer.... But i couldnt tell anyone cuz no one knew about my selfharm.

I think schools (middle and high) really need to get all the kids in the auditorium and bring in a recovered self harmer and for that person to talk about addiction. People aren’t educated enough on self harm so schools need to bring it up.

@orangedoggoanimations9051

5 жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻

@tsimck78

5 жыл бұрын

I think it’s the opposite people talk about it so much it’s a trend at my school my old bestie started cutting in 7th grade she had forced herself into the popular group and ditched me they had never liked her but faked it for awhile then she started doing the private message things for her sc story and god people were cruel that’s when she started by 8th grade it was bad but no one was talking about her anymore she was still doing the chat things 24/7 no one was saying anything mean but she kept cutting she even told me she just wanted to see if people cared she would introducehwrself to people by saying hi I’m blah blah and I cut it was literally just for attention in the end she would wear short shorts and crop tops on winter days while it was snowing just to show them

@celiar1726

5 жыл бұрын

Tara jick I agree, some people think cutting is a trend but I’m saying that your ex bestie needs to understand what she is doing to herself and that starts with her teachers and parents

@shrekhehe3573

5 жыл бұрын

I think they should do it in 4-5th, and middle and high, not just middle and high, because I know alot of people that are in 4-5th grades that need to learn about mental health, so they'll stop joking about killing themselves.

@kamrynbur5713

5 жыл бұрын

yes!!, people don’t even realize that it’s an addiction!

I self harm right now and I’m trying my best to get over it. My parents don’t know. I wish I could wear short sleeves again...

@rosecatd8492

6 жыл бұрын

Beef_Cheese_lettuce me too, stay strong.

@horsearammo132

6 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

@horsearammo132

6 жыл бұрын

I do the same but I do my legs instead for that reason

@kieran2289

6 жыл бұрын

same...

@fantasticmagicmagic4595

6 жыл бұрын

I do the same.. I regret the first cut, I can't stop. It's an addiction.

Awww actually trembling while talking .. I just wanna hug you . You’re beautiful

i self harm a lot. i try so hard not to but it’s literally an addiction 💔

I think if someone made a book full of all the lies I’ve ever told, more than half of it would say “I’m fine” or “I’m just tired”

@screamingcactus5505

5 жыл бұрын

Legit my mom asks me why I'm in a "bad mood" half the time and I say "I'm just tired" but like,,, then she threatens to take my phone away bc I'm supposedly staying up at night ?? It's pretty stupid but reasonable since she doesnt know I'm just really depressed

@tlamedia_

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly though

@Chelsie-bp8id

5 жыл бұрын

"just sleepy"..

@esmeraldaguerra1345

5 жыл бұрын

@@screamingcactus5505 same she tells at me saying your the worst daughter or your so rude I wouldn't want someone like you and when I told a doctor she lied to them and said I will take her to a mental help people (idk how to spell it and I forgot what it is) and she said to them that she always says she loves me but if that was true she would be saying it to me instead she brushed it off as soon as we went home its cause we had a test to describe how we feel every day and a lot of my answers where saying I feel like I deserve to die or I had dreams ever day that I would kill my family or my family would kill me and as I wrote this I looked at the all th scars on my wrist that are fresh and my mom said the bullying would stop once I went to 6th grad but it's even worse ppl make fun of me for cutting myself and I stabbed my self with my pencil and they said she reminds me of my brother she was that idiotc face she makes and they said this while I was cutting myself with the pencil is she trying to pop her veins off and I was trying to keep a straight face without looking in pain and they pretended to act me out by pretending to stab them self with a pencil and saying she probably wants to scream in pain and they made a stupid face looking like I was screaming I wanted to stab myself in my stomach right then there to see if they still be laughing

@awkwardadryan2840

5 жыл бұрын

I hate the fact that I can relate to this so much.

School is a terrible place.

@hobbiiii1338

5 жыл бұрын

It is it made me cut to and it was getting worse and worse when my mom found out that I cut and she just screamed at me and told ne that I was fine and it's only stupidity making me cut and it just got worst and I wanted to die so I just cutted on my legs and stop cutting my arm's because it was easyer to hide the cut with long shorts and stuff... The arms cuts heald and my legs where full of cuts what where older because it was going to be summer soon so i stopped and stuff.... But sometimes I wanna cut again and i do but at places where it's visible and stuff like that and sometimes I have so hard suicidal thoughts that I cryed so much and wanted to die so hard 💔

@donlert

5 жыл бұрын

Darkipasta its a fucking prison ;-; they ruin lives there...

@lukamalakouti7388

5 жыл бұрын

It makes everything worse but adults don't understand or take it seriously when you say you wanna die

@dashinypunnymarsking

5 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@karkat4493

5 жыл бұрын

YES IT IS I START 7TH GRADE TOMMOROW PRAY FOR ME

Im 2 weeks clean but I'm have such I hard time not cutting

@Sam-wh3ik

4 жыл бұрын

Same, but the only reason I'm not cutting is because it's getting so hard to hide

@Sadgang457

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sam-wh3ik same bro, my dad checks every once in a while, the fourth or fifth time he cried, I couldn't believe my eyes, I stopped ever since, but I still want to do it since the kids in middle school suck.

I wanna hug you girl❤That school is not ok🤞🏻😢

Yes, Ppl that self-harm are good at lying...they say..."I'm fine..."

@felix6711

5 жыл бұрын

Lisa Playzz hey that’s my excuse ;-:

@christinawatkins1790

5 жыл бұрын

CRINGE

@yoselin9328

5 жыл бұрын

@@christinawatkins1790 Ummm how?

@christinawatkins1790

5 жыл бұрын

Lisa Playzz “they say “I’m fine...” 😂😂that sounds so stupid I’m sorry not sorry

@yoselin9328

5 жыл бұрын

@@christinawatkins1790 thats rude...

i fucking cried i don't usually cry but there's something about you that made me feel connected to you you're fucking amazing

@Scarlett_Ravenwood

8 жыл бұрын

same here..

@BabvBlues

8 жыл бұрын

I hope it feels good to cry and let it all out ❤️ thank you for your support it means the world to me

@cherrybomb3499

8 жыл бұрын

+Berry Balloon I didn't cry to this but death note that made me cry for a hour ;-;

@TheVizzions

8 жыл бұрын

STUPID BITCH YOU NEED HELP YOUR PRETENDING TO BE THE VICTIM YOU ARE THE VICTIM BUT ALSO THE KILLER DO YOU GET IT? GROW UP YOU STUPID BITCH YOU LIVE IN A 1ST WORLD COUNTRY AND PROBALLY HAVE A NICE FAMILY JUDGING BY YOUR ROOM WHY ARE YOU SELF HARMING?

@boopdedoop8284

8 жыл бұрын

+Tetris Well she did look for help, and that's what made her the victim as the school didn't help her they just punished her. Also, your a Bitch.

I never thought I would see a KZreadr that actually makes me feel like she knows me personally . You are a life saver . Thank you .

I used to watch this video a lot when I was like 12 and self h@rming. Brings back memories. I hope you’re doing better now I’m sorry

*I really want to tell a teacher or someone about me self harming - it's been 3 years now. But my friend did, and the school called her parents. She is now hiding in a hole of depression. I just want to stop.*

@user-vv7pu2nj7u

5 жыл бұрын

Pansexual Pancake tell your parents💗

@komi-san1505

5 жыл бұрын

I've seen your user somewhere else

@emalemagain2132

5 жыл бұрын

@@komi-san1505 maybe, I comment on a lot of videos

@komi-san1505

5 жыл бұрын

@@emalemagain2132 Nope not a maybe I literally just saw you on the bid before this one.......Illuminati

@youtubechannelunderconstru2786

5 жыл бұрын

My English teacher from freshman year told my guidance counselor without my,consent and now I'm in therapy.... I don't have a problem with her trying to help like she a very good teacher but her class boring. I wish she asked me for my consent first.

My school never found out about my selfharm but they caught my friend who went to a different school. It was absolutely awful... the principal made her strip while she and a counselor checked((which this totally uncalled for and inappropriate)) then they basically “arrested” her by getting the police to trick her into going into the cop car. They claimed that they were gonna take her home and tried to calm her down. But they freaking just took her to the mental institute where her parents had to fight to get her out. Social workers were sent to the parents for an investigation all while the staff in the mental institute were mistreating her. Apparently in the HS this has been a very common process to many mentally ill teens there. Truly disgusting and Idek how they’ve never been successfully sued

@sydneyt9985

5 жыл бұрын

Sliver Wing That is honestly so disgusting. I’m so sorry your friend had to go through that.

@whoopsll-6360

5 жыл бұрын

I almost got sent to a Mental Institute. My grandma was smart and didn't sign anything, so I was aloud to go legally. I'm still scared to tell anyone how I feel for the fear I'll get sent there.

@sydneyt9985

5 жыл бұрын

I_LUv_jOSh_dUN_ ll-// I just came back from the mental hospital. I was in there for almost two weeks

@kristinherbert7919

5 жыл бұрын

That’s honestly so messed up

@jennac.1958

5 жыл бұрын

in some states, like my own, they have a law where basically if someone (usually a teacher, counciler, therapist, etc etc) thinks you are in danger of hurting yourself or others you will be sent to a hospital until they think you are no longer a threat to yourself or others. your parent/guardian has no control of this either (so, like, they cant take you out of the hospital or refuse to let you go.) where i live its called a Baker Act. other than that i dont know much about it. I only know this much because i knew someone who got baker acted because she told her therapist she wanted to die.

I first told my bff about my self- harm and we cried bc I did it like when I was 9 and she did it to and we went to the counselor and she was really nice about it and I told to not tell my mom bc i was scared and every one know about it and I never told anyone and my friends said that the counselor told everyone so they could KEEP AN EYE ON ME AND MAKE SURE THAT I NEVER DID THAT AND IT MADE ME FEEL SO BAD BC its just sad to make people feel that way when they have a reason...i still do it a little but i calmed down the reason I did it was bc of depresion I reasently feel better and I hope i can stop soon and get rid of it 😢❤

@4jazlie

5 жыл бұрын

I hate counselors, they turn backs on you. One of mine got me suspended. I feel really suicidal

@Ryuk-wz7ct

4 жыл бұрын

Damn fucked up fucking councilers. Helping kids my ass

I know people don't rlly care but imma tell my story. I started when I was 12 my age now I had always had a lot of anxiety and a lot of anger built up. I never showed my depression. Then I met some one I felt better.But my BFFLE best friend for live eternity started to talk sh!t about me bc someonee spred a fake rumor about me talking about her. That's when I started to think of my mom. My parents devoresed when I was 2. It felt like she never truly loved me. That guy I met and was dating started to ditch me. I got my BFFLE back. But then that guy was saying that he did not like me any more and started cheating on me. I broke up with his a$$ and moved on. things got better until someone told a teacher that I was self harming and told my parents that was my worst time but I got through some how.

@notime3578

4 жыл бұрын

I seriously wanna hug you right now and I am happy that you got through it at least some how. Wait, are you still self-harming??🤕

The worst feeling is when you get punished for self-harming and it makes everything worse

@jaydeno6929

5 жыл бұрын

milana tew it really does but the people who don’t cut the self or harm them selfs don’t understand one of my best friends cut her self because she was fat but she was not super skinny but not fat she was normal and i would hug her and make her feel better and she slowly stopped and I’m happy for her now

@harleyquinn6423

5 жыл бұрын

milana tew No shit Sherlock

@harleyquinn6423

5 жыл бұрын

Jayden O Awwww that's nice. You a good friend boi.

@demoizellez

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

@jazzieplayz275

5 жыл бұрын

My mum does i hate it and she says to me to stop but i can't my mum used to do it

I got suspended and taken out of my classes for three days after my school found out about my self-harm. The school now sees me as their "problem student" and they view me as someone who "needs to be fixed". plus, they day I left the school teachers had a conversation with everyone in the school about self-harm, so everybody knew it was me.

@beatrixroze7452

7 жыл бұрын

***** Thanks so much! that means a lot!

@keegan2209

7 жыл бұрын

that's bullshit... I hope you are better now tho ❤❤

@beatrixroze7452

7 жыл бұрын

fudge nuggets220 Thanks so so so much! :))

@mistid1485

7 жыл бұрын

I would lay low for awhile if I was you. And did they get you any help?

@beatrixroze7452

7 жыл бұрын

Misti D Yes. They were also quite helpful at times. Thank you very much!

they put me in a ‘mental hospital’ for a month and it helped A LOT. i regret cutting myself so much because i love myself but every time i look down at my arms it’s a reminder that i was a dark and sad person. whoever is struggling right now, it’s going to get better. there is a light at the end of the tunnel. i love you.

@mysoundofficial1047

3 жыл бұрын

i love you i wish i could go to such a mental hospital

There is this girl at my school who draws, we show each other our art during class. We give each other better techniques, ways to improve our art. Except the drawings are in blood. And made with a razor.

@Hero069

3 жыл бұрын

That profile...

Why are people like this?... People be like, "Oh she/he is self harming he/she is different we need to punish them instead of help them." like what the fuck!? I'm a 14 year old girl who started cutting when I was 12. at the age of 13, 2 months before my 14th birthday, I was in my sister's room watching videos with my 2 sister's and my brother. suddenly my foster parents walk into the room and one of them goes, "I'm going to check your arms." and I refused at first but then i let her and she yells, "WHAT THE FUCK!?" at first i didn't cry. But then she told me, "Do you wanna turn out just like your mom!? is that why you're doing this!?" and it triggered me because I didn't. she didn't understand what i was going through! then she tells me to stop yeah like that FUCKING helps. I had to go and tell my counselor. and after that when i came to school I dont know how but everyone knew. I felt like an embarrassment and I literally started to become judged and started to be called an attention seeker and a whore. why do people do this to us? do they really think, " oh they're self-harming let's embarrass them and they'll know not to do it next time!" well they're wrong! They're just making things worse for us! I'm hurt and broken and torn inside and just people can't get that. and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who feels this way.

@ssyncc1729

7 жыл бұрын

Alyssa Cervantes stay strong. Don't let other people make things worse. Don't listen to them low lives who think they know everything.

@hongdelmonico4885

7 жыл бұрын

Alyssa Cervantes you're a beautiful girl. stay strong

@tinyrolal6745

7 жыл бұрын

Alyssa Cervantes So sorry, love. Stay safe, beautiful

@cloutscoutexposes9234

7 жыл бұрын

Alyssa Cervantes SHUT THE FUCK UP

@ssyncc1729

7 жыл бұрын

RGS Cam Y DONT U SHUT THE F**K UP B**CH

Im sick of wearing long sleeves in summer. I dont know how people believe Im cold.

@haseul3929

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr, it's so sad :(

@emj4554

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@codyfern2134

5 жыл бұрын

WEIRDBUTAWESOME XD I wear hoodies every day then I mean every day☀️

@cadenikk1150

5 жыл бұрын

Put hairties on your wrist if your a girl, it hurts but..

@livia_bessonwhy_dont_we_st9023

5 жыл бұрын

WEIRDBUTAWESOME XD same😢

I’m really proud of you for having the confidence to film this ❤️❤️

Back in the days, I had depression. 2 times. Bc of school. Then, I found out about self harm. I once was on a call with a friend and as we were talking I just whipped out the knife and sliced a bit. And that's not good. Then, my mom found out about em. "Keep doing this and I'll send you to rehab" she said. "I'D RATHER DIE" I said. So, that's when I started doing it in secret. That was about one and a half years ago.

In 8th grade, my math teacher saw my arm had cuts, she sent me to the nurse and she talked to me and made me call my parents and tell them everything and it just made everything worse. When I got home I was grounded and kinda made fun of by my dad. To this day, I still am ridiculed and made fun of. One day at Wendy's, a worker had some scars and my dad pointed it out and said to me (verbatim) "look at his arm. you see those scars? you want to look like that? you want to look like him? no boy will like that acy." It still fucks me up to this day.

@arianna2684

6 жыл бұрын

I wanted to make a comment for this but I dont even know what to say.... I just feel so bad.

@sarahweekes4829

6 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry that all happened to you... 💔

@rose-d5285

6 жыл бұрын

GabePlays true true

@silentlyscreaming9821

6 жыл бұрын

GabePlays They don't do it "For Fun"

@heymynameisel

6 жыл бұрын

Acy Bost that’s awful. Your parents should give you support - not make you feel like you’ve done something wrong.

U can hear her trying to hold back the tears...love u babes❤️❤️❤️

no matter what, i’ll always come back to this video. this is probably my most favourite video on youtube. thank you so much for sharing this. we all struggle sometimes, and sometimes, it’s ok not to be ok.

Who else cried while watching this because they cut to

Is it just me or did anyone else use the excuse they were climbing a tree and got scratched or something? I used that so many times lol. This video really helped btw!

@XGh0sT77

5 жыл бұрын

#survivor; ‘lol’ ???? It’s not that funny

@jaecohen2667

5 жыл бұрын

hehe... yea. but then they got too deep... XD

@skrunklycreationz

5 жыл бұрын

I say I fell into a rosebush

@mikuaa9863

5 жыл бұрын

they were horizontal you could tell it was self harm

@gizzmogames2266

5 жыл бұрын

It was a cat scratch

Teachers: always tell a trusted adult at school or home if you are having problems or just need to talk student: I'm hurting myself I don't know what to do :( Teacher: oh... you can trust me I wont tell anyone *tells everyone in staff, makes you feel more self conscious about what others look at you like* Student: another thing to worry about thanks this is how it plays out in my head if I say anything :(

@beesforfears6608

5 жыл бұрын

Floof Fox The Therian same for me. i need help, but i know getting my school involved is just gonna make things worse (especially because one of my classmates went through it as well but she had it worse, i dont wanna trigger some bad memories) so if things arent gonna be better by the end of the year, i'll tell my mom cause i dont wanna harm myself any longer. if you desperately need help please try to get it somehow, even if it's by using different ways than directly telling your parents, just calling a hotline helps a lot, there are a lot of them all around the world. i hope things will get better for you soon. 💜

@gailthornborough8781

5 жыл бұрын

That happened to me like 3 days ago and my family knows but my mum didn't under stand why they had to tell her - '- and I have to talk to the principal on Monday

@gailthornborough8781

5 жыл бұрын

@@zypher6018 same ;~;

@ahrifox8568

5 жыл бұрын

Okay but if they can't help you, it's not only a legal issue but a moral issue. How would they feel if someone asked them for help that they couldn't provide, and didn't say anything, and then the kid killed theirself?

@DeletedAccount-qd5vy

5 жыл бұрын

Floof Fox The Therian that’s what actually happens, I would know

And the fact is that 99,99 % people get mad and do nothing and 1% people actually help someone who needs it

In 5th grade I had a best friend and one day I found her self harm scars and more recent cuts. I wanted to scream at her and hit her because I was so scared for her. But instead I just looked her in the eyes, and I didn't want to cry because I didn't want her to feel guilty or feel bad that she made me feel bad. So I grabbed a marker, and don't hate on me because I was 9 or 10, and I just wrote, "You Are Safe." With a smiley face. Probably could have written something better.. I was mostly scared. And I knew enough about depression that you can't force them to be happy. I just wanted her to see a happy thing when she wanted to look back on the sad things I thought she had stopped, until I learned she had been cutting her upper leg.

when the school got involved they suspended me

@hahaheehee2422

7 жыл бұрын

that is bull shit why punish someone that needs help... URGHHHHH

@AriahFN

7 жыл бұрын

the boss channel what the fuck that's the dumbest shit ever.

@yungsoot

7 жыл бұрын

the boss channel sounds like something my school would do

@pusheenlover9119

7 жыл бұрын

the boss channel Well... I'm so sorry. This is why I don't trust my school. I hope you're okay.

@mynameistrash1888

7 жыл бұрын

pusheen lover911. I agree, my mom wanted to tell my teacher. if she had I bet that I would have been suspended too...

i once remember back in grade 9 (years ago) that i cut i arms completely from top to bottom with my depression. i tried to get out of gym class because my arms would be visible for a whole hour. i put 2 tenser bandages on both arms to make sure my cuts weren't visible when class started. but my dumbass gym teacher told me to take them off or she would take them off for me as everybody was staring at us arguing. eventually after arguing with her for 10 minutes, i took them off and she just stared at me for a solid 20 minutes basically and so did everybody else. i was so ashamed and embarrassed like nobody would believe. she told me "if you're gonna cut your arms, get out of my gym class!". i gladly dropped out of her class as soon as she said that

@navefles7281

7 жыл бұрын

Brookep268 omg I want to beat your teacher so bad

@adamweaver3644

7 жыл бұрын

thats exactily what you needed you self minded fuck

@lyzii4129

7 жыл бұрын

Itachi Uchiha what the hell? you're fucking disgusting, theres something wrong with you dude. fuck off.

@jasmin4298

7 жыл бұрын

justin walker SHUT UP YOU'RE NOT HELPING THE PROBLEM

@allyxx2128

7 жыл бұрын

justin walker you don't know why she did it so don't judge you are not making things better

You are so brave and I want to give you a hug, I completely understand you.

This really hit hard😭💔

My school got involved. Everything got so much worse.

@mohinisharma1881

5 жыл бұрын

Emily Friedman hey I have gone through the same plz add me on Snapchat sharma.mohini and we can talk

@thepinkieandgummyshow

5 жыл бұрын

Mohini Sharma I only have insta

@mohinisharma1881

5 жыл бұрын

then add me on insta mohini_0224

@thepinkieandgummyshow

5 жыл бұрын

Mohini Sharma okay. Im emmy_the_lil_chicken_nugget

@Veronica-gh5ip

5 жыл бұрын

Emily Friedman Oml smae

You. Yes, you. YES I AM TALKING TO YOU! Pretend I hugged you. ( in a non creepy way )

@extinctcafe7272

5 жыл бұрын

Janine Napierala ty

@supernatural_and_strange3669

5 жыл бұрын

thx :)

@kaelin8775

5 жыл бұрын

thanks :) sending a hug back (also in a not creepy way)

@beep_bo0p

5 жыл бұрын

Janine Napierala Thanks 😊

@avianaboccio1384

5 жыл бұрын

*hugs back in a non creepy way* For some reason this made my day, thank you

When I started doing it my friend did to,, she made me feel guilty for the rest of the summer and I wasn’t aloud to see her outside of school for nearly a year when her parents found out, her dad even called me a psychopath,, i didn’t get scars but I still hate showing my arms,, I’ve been 5 months clean and it is very tempting to start but if you stay strong it’s possible :) 💕

youre so strong love. it is okay, we care about you. and we love you.

i didn't know how common self harm is. reading the comments are making me cry because ive never done it and can't imagine what you must be going through to be hurting yourselves. please stop!!! i send my love to all of you!!!!!!

@allieklout9719

5 жыл бұрын

Nat Bornel that is so meaningful. Thank you! 🖤

@aboabobo5383

5 жыл бұрын

Me too..

@goddess9739

5 жыл бұрын

We can't stop. it's not that easy. It hurts, yes, But every cut is a window that our sadness flows out of. The deeper the cut, the more sadness we release, or that's what it feels like for me...

@allieklout9719

5 жыл бұрын

Yaritza Alvarez I’m so happy/sad about this comment. It is so true. I share similar feelings. 💜🖤💜

@allieklout9719

5 жыл бұрын

BALEIGH PEOPLES can I help please?

*Talking as a friend of a self harmer* we were in history class watching a movie when my friend julie was called by the teacher to go to the hallway. We were both confused and she left coming back crying i felt protective and put up my guard asking wat happened. She said they were happy tears because the teacher noticed her scars and told her she could talk to him about her problems and wat he could do to ever make her feel more comfortable. He, our English teacher and the art teacher all paired up to always check in on her. She cried because she always assumed people would judge her for it but they didnt. I have always made sure not to make her feel judged and this reminded me exactly why. Im sorry so many of you in the comments have bad experiences like this and i hope more can have a story like julies.

@banqnabunnies

6 жыл бұрын

I know that you wrote this a long time ago but I just feel like I need to say you and those teachers are amazing. I wish my school would have that support for me. I wish every school had that support. This world needs more people like you. 💖

@user-lp4cm4dj6t

6 жыл бұрын

Your teachers are amazing.

@throwaway-bo7fg

6 жыл бұрын

mally cat I want to have your friends teacher

I completely understand how you feel and I’m so sorry, you deserve so much better. You’re so brave for sharing and I really hope for the best for you ❤️

I threw my blade over my fence were no one is and there is alot of dirt and rocks so you would never find it where I threw it

I wish I never started cutting but you can't take it back and I don't have enough bracletes for P.E

@haircuts8592

5 жыл бұрын

I wear thin enough jackets to gym

@lilgrizz9201

5 жыл бұрын

I just wear long sleeve and shorts

@_la__arts_

5 жыл бұрын

I just say fuck it and tell anyone with an opinion to go shove it up their arse

@marsattackz

5 жыл бұрын

Take the bottom of an old t-shirt and cut it so it’s thin and wrap it around your wrist like bracelets, or take cord or something else and tie it and make a bracelet.

@yuh3255

5 жыл бұрын

I stopped going to PE over a year ago now :/

Every time her voice trembled, it broke my heart. Btw I love your hair it is so beautiful..

@sisterdanielpanicsontpofth911

6 жыл бұрын

Le Krab ikr I feel horrible for her my life is very similar too her story I'm sad she had too go through that

@goddoggo566

6 жыл бұрын

Poppy yeah me too😭

@lik6198

6 жыл бұрын

God sams

@lik6198

6 жыл бұрын

Same *

Damn.. You are very brave for sharing the story. I'm proud. And I went through the same thing not exactly in highschool, but yeah.. it was in my middle school years. I just want you to know ur beautiful, brave and very intelligent. And there is no WAY that someone is gonna put u down WE ARE HERE , all these comments and people are here for you ❤️🖤❤️

Hi girl, I know how you feel, this happened to me a few months ago and had no help for it. Sometimes your own strength and mind is what you get... you need to get yourself better because no one realy cares. They say they do but it's something polite to say but just remember it's your life and you are the only one in controle of it. You're amazing keep going!

Im 13. I was punished for showing emotions. I was a month clean, and I needed to rant, so I wrote it out on paper. My friend stole the paper, and gave it to the counselor. I was called in during 7th period, and I missed 6 pages of notes. The counsler guilt tripped my other friend into telling her that i used to. She said, and I quote, "what if you got to school and she had killed herself?". She then proceeded to tell a bunch of people in my grade that I was cutting myself, and the counsler also told everyone about another girl self harming. In other words, the school made me feel like shit. They dont handle things correctly

@jazzora

6 жыл бұрын

what the actual

@cringeymint78

6 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, counselors don't help people too well. My counselor always makes me feel like crap..

@emma-tz8bg

6 жыл бұрын

I had a similar experience and it was horrible. It affected my relationships with my friends and teachers and it ruined my recovery.

@akiyazawacki2829

5 жыл бұрын

Philussy's ladydoor same everyone at school was telling me to kill myself and they didn't believe that I was trying so I ran in front of 9 school busses and a week later at school I tried hanging myself in the bathroom

@skeletonparty4625

5 жыл бұрын

Philussy's ladydoor aw it gets better also counselors dont help for shit they will just humiliate people also do you watch dan and phil

I want to hug her so bad. i know how this feels and I'm still struggling with depression myself but my self harm finally stopped.

@huge_action7487

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@hobbiiii1338

5 жыл бұрын

Same..... But sometimes I just have too... Self harm everyone who has done that and has depression nows how it is to cut..

“The second the school got involved with my self harm was the second I got so much worst”. I relate to this, SO much.

You have no idea how much this helped me. Thank you SO much! stay strong we all love you!!❤❤

i told who I thought was my best friend that I self harm. the next day, my whole year knew.

@grimybug4661

6 жыл бұрын

CeriBerry c: aww I'm so sorry for you :c that really sucks

@avalonh-b.3412

6 жыл бұрын

oh god im so sorry that's horrible. i really hope that you have gotten over self harm. I don't self harm but i know that it's one of the most emotionally draining and stressful things someone can do. I know that the sadness is probably still there, but i hope that you're at least doing better.

@kvylawhy7734

6 жыл бұрын

Awe I'm sorry but if it makes you feel better I like your profile picture (:

@pinewlf2362

6 жыл бұрын

Ceriberry c: that's terrible

@amphetinamine9660

6 жыл бұрын

Ceriberry c: oh my god im so sorry btw I love ur profile pic so much 😂

When I was 13, now I'm 14, but when I was 13 and because I live in one of the most suicidal states in the nation, the 7-12 grades have to watch a video about depression and suicide. When I was in 7th we did the same thing but at the time I wasn't depressed or self harming. In 8th we watched the same video but I thought the school had forgot to do it that year so I told some of my closer friends that I cut. Long story short they wrote my name on a slip of paper that said "I'm worried about [insert name]" and if your name was written, you got sent to the councillor. I got home that night and my parents were sitting on the couch I had to stay downstairs and talk to them about it. And I broke down crying, and they still didn't let me to me room. Then my mom started crying thinking that I did it because of her. And my dad just say confused because he didn't understand why I did it. And I got sent to the councillor again that year by what I heard was my P.E. teacher, she's super nice. And I got home and it was the same situation. And I dont know how long I've been clean but I'm starting to feel better but still a mildly insecure about the scars. Hey thanks if you read all of this ❤

@gizzmogames2266

5 жыл бұрын

I read it

@ABCDEFGH-pi2sp

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you over came it and that your parents were supper understanding, some people just don't get it or how it makes us feel.

@fallenendie523

5 жыл бұрын

Wow the same story happened to me I'm in middle school one of my friends saw my cuts and was worried and went up to the counselor and told her that I cut myself and I'm depressed. When. I arrived at home my dad gave me a hug randomly. I went to set my stuff down in my room, then my dad told me to come and sit down at the dining table to talk to them and told me that he got called from the counselor. We talked and I said that I have only cut myself once and I'm not going to do it anymore. My mom started to cry and they asked if I needed a therapist I said no. My dad told me that I was going to get called up to the counselor and they were going to do a body check of me. I was so stressed out the next day when I went to school. Personally I love school but I feared it that day. I didn't get called up to the counselor yet but I stopped cutting to prevent myself from going up to the counselor.

@kristinherbert7919

5 жыл бұрын

I read it all ❤️❤️

@niquesconversationitsspicy3476

5 жыл бұрын

That's great

I had math and my teacher told me to stay after class and I was like-oke but I stayed and he was actually the most helpable and nicest person I’ve met, he helped me a lot and now I’ve been clean for 3.5 months❤️ I just want everyone that self harm to know that, don’t give up, it will get better❤️ and accept help when you can❤️

She’s so brave , amazing and gorgeous. You can feel the pain in her voice and it’s upsetting to see so many young ppl with the same story💕