Hope you're ok. Keep focusing on yourself, if someone shows you who they are from the beginning that's their loss. You seem like a wonderful guy. I know there is someone perfect out there for you. even if it doesn't feel like it right now. dating sucks sometimes, and people suck. but what is meant to be will be. i hope you can always put yourself first because you matter the most. hugs!

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You’re getting a pin for saying how I felt and articulating better than I did in my video 😂❤

@owmeow

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler You did great!!! If some people cant see that, screw them seriously. It is about time we all put ourselves forward, and first and not allow ourselves to get walked over by people. We deserve healthy love, remember that!!

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

@@owmeowNO U

@owmeow

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler u !!

I’m surprised you’re in your 30s you look my age. You seem like a genuine and kind person the dating pool is rough these days.

@roadsidebong6333

Ай бұрын

Most girls in 20s want guys who are 30s, it really is the prime age for men

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

Whats up princess

@roadsidebong6333

Ай бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 fixing my tiara, you?

@Renzy_YT

Ай бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 from downtown lmfao

“Dawg I have to eat” that made me laugh lmao. Keep ur head up king.

"Happiness depends upon ourselves." Nice vid bro.

horrible dating world bro, they have all the choice in this world and they are having a big laugh, totally opposite from us guys, delete this online joke guys and never look back.

@dragorn3212

Ай бұрын

Men need to start a boycott movement to grab the power back. Its too emotionally damaging as it is

Rejection is always gonna be painful if you like the person but you can’t forget your value. It doesn’t mean you’re not worth of a relationship it just means that ONE person for whatever reason (might not even be you) doesn’t want a relationship with you. HEAD UP!

I accidentally stood someone up before. I was getting out of my car and my phone fell and shattered between the door as I closed my car door. I didn't have their info saved so I straight up cold ghosted someone but not on purpose! I tried to walk around and look but I had no idea without my phone. They probably just thought I was an a hole 😭

Bro's actually pretty in my book

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

You called him a female 😂

@ref3871

Ай бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 You can call a men pretty, it's okay bro :3 He's still hot tho.

@andrewcruz3837

Ай бұрын

@@ref3871 yeah no

@ref3871

Ай бұрын

@@andrewcruz3837 yeah, yesss :p

It’s all good player. We all been stood up before. No L’s just lessons learned. Keep improving & never get deterred because of one flaky B…..

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

That’s right dog, L is for Lesson Learned 😂

They probably weren't worth the time in the first place. I've used Tinder but haven't ever actually gone on a date through it. I wanna meet somebody but not through dating apps. I think I'm going to have to start approaching in person which is scary but the best route nowadays.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I really had a good relationship come from bumble but compared to how much easier it was just to meet people day to day irl, I prefer meeting people in person too

May I suggest, a move from Tinder? I don't know about the states but in Ireland it is just the worst kind of people

@KrossMenace

Ай бұрын

Same situation in the States, it's pretty much bad everywhere 🤣🤣

@orangejacket4551

Ай бұрын

Tinder consists of vile people no matter the location. Glad he’s taking a break from the app because the people on there are just vile trash.

The one date I managed to land had me buy her a $9 two piece chicken strip combo from the cane's drive-thru. As soon as I pay and we start to leave, she had her friend call to pretend there was some emergency that I needed to take her back to her dorm for. I wasn't even upset, moreso confused as to why she went as far as meeting me and riding in my passenger seat just to punk me for some mediocre fast food chicken. Probably just a poor college student thing. Needless to say I never tried calling her again

Like your style dude, reminds me of a young Eddie Guerrero

@manasseh7

Ай бұрын

Mix of dominick and Carl grimes

I just wish my brain would stop seeking out partnership ffs

@GreenEyedDazzler

27 күн бұрын

A fucking men 😂

I’m sorry to hear that man. Ive been doing the online dating stuff recently and it is super mentally taxing. I’m wishing you luck

I just love watching your videos. You’re real , and that’s super rare.. I think you’ve also found a sense of peace within yourself, that isn’t grandiose or frivolous. I admire that

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I hope this isn’t corny but I just wanted to make a KZread channel where people 20-34 (my generation and Gen Z) what a normal American life ACTUALLY looks like. No editing, no planning out fake skits, etc. thanks for watching, I love your comment!

Lol i don’t even go on dates . I gave up on relationships. Theres no need for all the drama and stress.

This is gonna blow up in about 1 - 2 months; great approach bro, keep em coming boss.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for giving me a chance to be heard, you rock

Happened for a reason bro, keep ya head up king

Girls dont show up as either lazy or had another date planned so they just dont bother to come or answer anymore, thats the world now always looking for something better

@Boosted_aj

Ай бұрын

Aren’t you?

@shortcrypto7490

Ай бұрын

@@Boosted_aj not everyone really

@Boosted_aj

Ай бұрын

@@shortcrypto7490 so what’s stopping you from taking the first girl that swipes on you? Or the first girl who says your cute or hugs you? We always looking for better. I’m sure you passed on many women for whatever reasons.

@tajiri7

Ай бұрын

⁠@@Boosted_ajThe first girl that swipes is a bot, and no girl is saying we’re cute or hugging out of nowhere.

@Boosted_aj

Ай бұрын

@@tajiri7 not true. I’ve been on there for 4 years

You're alright mate, those things happen. Dating on the internet is just a mess

This is so true and really great advise. Also you're gorgeous and seem like a cool guy, anyone would be lucky to have you in their life

Kudos on you for taking advantage of the day. Keep pushing man. Fuck dating. I’m going to be 35, I could care less about it at this point. I’m writing music, taking photos and enjoying my loneliness. Im also ugly asf. So I’m used to it haha.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Fuck no I refuse to let you call yourself ugly. You have way more cool hobbies than I do bro, you rock 🖤

@Benjamenvince

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler thanks babyboy, much appreciated. If I ever am in CO I’ll hit ya up dude.

Full head of hair in of itself GREATLY improves odds of girl being physically attracted. Try losing your hair my guy

You seem like a chill dude , im sure you going to meet the right one when the time comes. I dont think it'll be on tinder though

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You rock bro, idk if it comes across but I mostly made this video to show the young folks that even at 30 if you get rejected you gotta be chill, don’t take it personal 🖤

Lots of women go on Tinder for validation only, and not really there for dating. It's a thing nationwide apparently. What happened to you has happened to tons of guys that I know of. Enjoy your Tacos!!

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Those tacos kicked ass. Shredded beef with corn tortillas

@recklessburn4724

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler NIce!! Sounds great!!

@squarecracker

Ай бұрын

Not only on Tinder. The reason women do almost anything is for validation. If you never get it, you don't know how awesome it feels. This is why they dress up to go to the gym only to act disgusted when guys ogle them.

Your time will come and your star will shine bright 🌟🇬🇧

Move to Cali, a guy like you will have no problem getting chicks (or guys).

Good video solid humor

Who’s dating on Tinder??? Lmao. That’s for hookups and ppl who only go for looks

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I’m more of a bumble man lmao 😂

@dennisherman1920

Ай бұрын

Nailed it... those apps destroy self esteem, it works for women coz they have options they match 100 guys + and then they just select em like it's a super market or smth... for average men the experience is legit shitty

@LauraColette51

Ай бұрын

@@dennisherman1920 100%

Blocked! Next please

relationships are alot of work man

Holy fuck I am jealous of your hair

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you I’m mad bashful from all the kindness thank you so much

I'm 41 years old single guy from Indonesia. So you can imagine how much worse it really is for me. Yes, it's depressing, I won't lie, especially when I see like so many people around me are already in a happy relationships, or happily married, whatever. Honestly, I envy & become so jealous of all those 'lucky' guys all around me everywhere. Male loneliness is a very serious issue that should not be underestimated by people & society at large (just look at all those violent 'incels' cases, for example).

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for commenting, I appreciate you taking the time to share your situation and feelings, genuinely. I want to talk about the incel situation (the cycle of being lonely leading to more rejection and loneliness and so on) and I think the manosphere contributes to that culture immensely, I’m really glad you brought it up.

Ok just from the video it looks like you've got it together you've got your s*** together you drive you've got a good mindset and I like the fact that something like that happened to you and your first reaction is to want to help others through it shows good character. All I've been stood up many a time and I'm 34 and the ones that didn't stand me up by I wish they flipping did because they turned out to put it politely not be right for anybody. We're talking racism criminal records the lot. I feel the same as you dating is just too difficult and I find it social medias to blame the fact that people think they can just swipe and get something better constantly turning people into narcissist with no brains who don't even associate people with being human being but just a number. I'm sure you're not sure of options in your comments section obviously if you're a decent person that we plan to that want to date you you seem well spoken etcetera and come across well in the video so far. I like you said you never know this might have been a blessing in disguise the person could have turned out to be crazy or abusive etc I wouldn't hold out for a message or anything if they give you a good enough explanation fair enough but if not then it shows that they don't have the communication skills capable of being in a relationship with anyway and you don't want that so you dodged a bullet

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to reach out, you are amazing. Yes getting stood up says nothing about US, our brains come up with all these reasons why we were rejected but really all that matters is we are here now, plans have changed, tacos are not far away 😂

Delete the dating apps boys! In person is the way to go.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I agree!

it happens man

You're so cute I can't believe this happened to you. Sometimes these things happen because you dodged a bullet :) You will find your person !

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you I’m not in any rush! We should all roll with the punches!

Bruh, just don’t even waste your time on dating apps. I’ve been on them off and on and all these girls just want attention or hooking up

This video slaps

You got beautiful hair man.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you, you’re so kind 🖤

Honestly Im not surprised. Women (or guys) have options. They can change their mind in a blink of an eye. And pick someone else they preferably going out with. If I were you if she reach out of the blue, ignore her. Because she stood you up without any explanation. I know you’re probably disappointed or even hurt.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I appreciate you so much, honestly it could happen no matter what even if we met offline. Oh well, cest la vie

He cute too bad i can't find a man like him 😊

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

You’ll find what you’re looking for just don’t give up!

@rejected0nina

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler thanks bro I swear I'd do anything at this point give him my all

G screw here and get yourself in boxing or kickboxing/Muay Thai and watch yourself turn into a beast. Btw you’re not even a bad looking guy you’ll definitely find someone for you

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

No lie, this comment right here is the sign I needed to get started in some self defense. That’s a dope goal, I’ll go for it

@ifyourreadingthisyourlame4780

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler im telling you bru if you stick to it and don’t give up which trust me your going to want to at some point but if you stick to it watch yourself change from physically to mentally and turn into a beast

You look like a regular ‘Doc Holiday’ too! Lol. Her loss.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Bro if you mean Val Kilmer that would be the nicest thing anyone has ever said about me lmao

@Spartan-Of-Truth

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler Yes, from tombstone! 😂😂

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

@@Spartan-Of-Truthyou flatter me thank you!!!

love this video u seem lovely

You look cool and you're very collected and understanding even after you got stood up (which does happen to most people at some point) why dont you try going to the gym instead? You're "increasing your value" as a man in the dating market, you'll feel better in general, and you'll meet a lot of people, including women. It doesnt have to be the gym specifically, just find a common interest you can use to search for a friend group, see how things go. There are people out there finding love in their sixties. Don't despair, its too early to think about giving up

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words! I think joining a gym again would be wise, to stay healthy. Right now I do hit up the skate parks frequent at the very least

Dont date your co workers or next door neighbors, if things go wrong you will feel trapped, and then they have power at work to mess with your job

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Yeah dating co workers is a HUGE risk and a gamble that I have lost before lmao don’t do it!

@roadsidebong6333

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler bro the biggest hack to get women to approach is to yell with other men at a sports bar during a game, i dont even like team sports much but it is such a hack for women to hear men shouting in unison it drives them into a mating ftenzy, and then barely pay them attention to them like the game is the most important thing ever, they form a line to try to get men shouting to pay them attention

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Lmao this is the craziest advice on dating I’ve heard so far in 2024, I appreciate you homie

@roadsidebong6333

Ай бұрын

@GreenEyedDazzler bro u got this im rooting for you. Idk if u ever considered retention but that is the most powerful way to attract women, in the voice pf tod howard "it just works" when combined the sports bar strategy you will have to fight the women off with a chair

subscribed

It's recommended to have multiple women interested in you at once. But thing is, us guys are stuck at 0, and no one cares. Yet women just wanna waste good men and pursue 10s and BTS members.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I see a lot of these comments and I have to say that I see where people are coming from… but I kind of disagree? I’ll just have to make a video about it but I don’t think it’s all because women are overwhelmed with great options. My home girls say that most of their matches are obnoxiously horny, doesn’t sound like they are getting a thousand matches and stringing them all along for attention to me. Like I said there’s a lot of reasons why it’s not just women being stuck up or spoiled for options, and I have a lot to say so I’ll just make a video talking about it. Thank you for giving me a listen and please don’t worry about dating too much, it’s stressful and frustrating until you get your footing then it’s easy

@basicloner

Ай бұрын

@@GreenEyedDazzler if you truly think this is true then why don't you try making a alt account as a women and see for yourself the hundreds of options you get, you will truly realise how desperate men are.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Yeah getting shitty men who ask to have sex right away. No thanks, I know plenty of women in real life who tell me OLD is no fun for them either

Well at least your good spirits somewhat. I wouldn't put any mind to it you kinda have to expect to be stoodup on tinder meeting up with someone you don't know especially as a man

eat them tacos king fr 💪

idk u seem like a good guy (at least from the very limited slice of your life that you choose to share with us)

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

I like this video because I want to spread positivity with my channel, but I also want to show people that even i experience disappointment but it’s part of life ❤ I’m glad I didn’t end up going on that date, I had a good time getting food and taking my dog to the park 🤷

tacos always hit

do not use tinder i'm begging you. it's not you. ITS THE APP.

Dont use dating apps bro, its not you, alot of these girls use these apps as ego boost and are far from serious. You are a good looking guy, you will get better results meeting someone in person.

That shit aint cool

u good everybody takes Ls dont worry about it online dating ass anyways

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Thank you bro you 100% correct on that

Try meeting someone in person. It's way more fulfilling. Stop trying to meet women online.

Holy shit! Where is everyone coming from??? And you’re all leaving such nice comments! 1. I’m okay, I made this to show that rejection is hard but it’s a part of life 2. I got my tacos from Taco Star it’s local and it’s amazing 3. Thanks guys fr

Try to meet girls in real life if you want quality.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

Rejection can come from anywhere! But it’s true that OLD leads to more interactions and therefore more rejection, it’s good to take healthy breaks and check in on your own mental well being. At least that’s what I’ve learned to protect my peace 🖤

Your first mistake was using Tinder, lol women are so flaky nowadays. She stood you up bro.

@GreenEyedDazzler

Ай бұрын

That’s okay, I knew the risks. Thank you for watching and hanging out