The most happiest moments in my life were when I was alone. It's better to be alone and at peace instead of having back stabbing friends or family members.

@Wraith_911

2 ай бұрын

Eventually, you'll get to the point that you see through back stabbers before they get too close and enjoy making them 'beg' for time which you never give them. i actually get more pleasure walking away from women than what i ever got sleeping with them. The best response i ever got was, "BUT I'M A GOOD WOMAN!" i replied, "i'll be the judge of that..." (as i walked away) BTW, consider married men to be your enemy...they have lot's of bosses to answer to and will use female tactics against a single man. They are often 'communist' in that they believe they should do less and get more just because they are a "family man"

@thegoldentree6913

2 ай бұрын

Yes but even better if you have someone who can actually be accurately defined as a friend.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯

@JesseGMan7

2 ай бұрын

@@thegoldentree6913Definitely true! I don’t know what I would do without my gf she’s legit my best friend. But bad friends or a bad gf definitely make you less happy.

@johnthedespicabledutchman7406

2 ай бұрын

Agree with you 100% and that is where I am ...In peace and harmony.

People are so toxic these days. You have to protect your peace

@larsstougaard7097

2 ай бұрын

Wise words my friend 😁

@TLW369

2 ай бұрын

This! 👏

@Punicia

2 ай бұрын

And your soul

@juliaarambula3153

2 ай бұрын

Exactly!!! You find disappointment.

@kiturselassie813

2 ай бұрын

Realtalk

The less people in my life the more Peaceful I am ,🙏🏽💕

We are born alone and we will die alone. Being your own best friend is probably a good idea. I have a big family and a few friends but nothing beats my own company. Many of the things I enjoy doing I can do solo such as reading, meditating, painting, and playing music. I never feel alone when I'm by myself but I have felt alone around others. It's important for me to preserve my peace.

@MegaAbgt

Ай бұрын

Being touched and sleep with someone is the best feeling and I cannot experience it because of loneliness. Do you have bf? It is easy to write things like this when youre not really alone.

@lysianeamougou

Ай бұрын

I needed that 🎉💯

@skrrskrr99

Ай бұрын

I hate when people say that. Youre not born alone you literally are surrounded by people from the moment you are born. Just because you're hanging out by yourself does not mean youre alone. Being alone is something most humans are really bad at. Were highly social and dependent upon one another for survival.

@BrendaLopez-ki6hl

Ай бұрын

@@MegaAbgtI don't have a boyfriend. I choose to stay single because I love to invest in myself. Being alone is not for everyone but for me personally I can truly say that's when I'm the happiest. Although I'm alone I actually don't feel lonely.

@BrendaLopez-ki6hl

Ай бұрын

@@skrrskrr99 Well being alone is not for everyone. Some people actually enjoy it and others don't. We are social creatures by nature. However, some individuals do enjoy being alone. No one will ever know me as deep and personally as I know myself. Learning about my own interests and investing in myself is important to me. Like I said though it's not for everyone.

A wise man once said “It is better to be alone than in bad company”.

@shanti888

2 ай бұрын

“Better to travel alone than in the company of fools “

@MrT-nh6di

2 ай бұрын

Exactly, my circle is small, and I will keep it that way until death. The majority of people are not for your success.

@sushantrajput6920

2 ай бұрын

Well said!

@msharrell

2 ай бұрын

Or ANY company at that. Being ALONE just because is more peaceful than anything in this world. Doesn’t have to be a reason to just be alone

@diginandpitchin

2 ай бұрын

Amen to that! 👍🏾

I turned 36 today and I'm celebrating it alone.

@santalobasantaloba896

2 ай бұрын

🥧🌷🌹It´s just a day like another one, but anyway,...happy birthday🌻🌻

@dianemartinez8126

2 ай бұрын

Happy belated birthday 🥳

@Paradys8

2 ай бұрын

Happy Birthday to you!🥳

@ninawestlake5005

2 ай бұрын

Happy birthday🎉🎉🎉

@ninawestlake5005

2 ай бұрын

​@@santalobasantaloba896No. It is called a birth day. Not just a day. You should celebrate if you feel like it.

Humans are so afraid to the point that friendship has become a threat.

@grannytwenty1424

Ай бұрын

🗣🗣🗣😔🙏🏾

@goldendiamon

Ай бұрын

That's what trauma does to your brain...You think everyone hurts you because someone hurts you...When someone traumatized you,you also expect the world to traumatize you.When someone abandons you,you also expect the world to abandon you.When someone bullies you,you also expect the world to bully you.When someone abuses you,you also expect the world to abuse you.That's how defense mechanism does to your brain

@JohnDoe003

Ай бұрын

Let no man fear the things in life if they have Christ. "No weapon formed against me shall prosper. "

@kayeb.1663

Ай бұрын

I used to live a happy life being alone...when i transferred to a new apartment, i made friends who eventually backstabbed me and ruined my peaceful life. Most people are toxic...to stay happy you really have to choose the people you associate with... good people are so rare.

@ironfistarrival

Ай бұрын

Extremely The Truth .

SOLITUDE is priceless! No friends is better than a bunch of fake nice individuals, moochers, BS, backstabbers, traitors, etc. SO PEACEFUL and HAPPY to be ALONE!

@yannip2083

Ай бұрын

@user-jl8yy5ir7s Just about everyone around me is the exact same like you mentioned. Also, last minute cancellation seems normal - the same person would cancel 3X consecutively. So, having learned the hard way, these days I am so much happier enjoying MY SOLITUDE - so happy and peaceful - SOLITUDE is priceless!

@jl3646

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@artsyhyd

Ай бұрын

So true, these days many ppl are only users and just like parasites, they only nice to u when they need u, I helped some ppl that I had called “friends” but they ended up betraying me and betraying my kindness. Hopefully Karma would kick their as5 soon!

@morgane8947

Ай бұрын

TOTALLY AGREED. Being alone is so much better than being fooled by fake friends. After several experiences of fake friends "inviting" me to lunch but on the day of the lunch, they had "forgotten" about it, and a bunch of fake friends who always "left their wallet at home" after they had eaten the food at the restaurant, and asked me "can you pay for me first and I will pay you back" but they never paid me back, I finally realized the fake friends had scammed me for a free lunch - I AM NOW FRIEND-FREE.

@LeahDyson-kq4bd

5 күн бұрын

In the words of the Who "we won't get fooled again!" Lol

No family no friends no headache no problems no pain no stupidity no failures

@thegoldentree6913

2 ай бұрын

thats not what family and friends is about bro

@quantaVastitude2021

2 ай бұрын

@@thegoldentree6913 im not bro not everyone here is male

@thegoldentree6913

2 ай бұрын

@@quantaVastitude2021 have you been living under a cave sis? bro has another meaning other than the male sibling. bro is like saying "my friend".

@DamnedExistence

2 ай бұрын

And NO DEBT

@quantaVastitude2021

2 ай бұрын

@@DamnedExistence I have no debt

In my experience, knowing less folk = less trouble

@tonyadams8812

2 ай бұрын

💯

@gayanngodfrey2824

2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@user-ws2py3wk3y

2 ай бұрын

Sad but true

@bw-dn1wp

2 ай бұрын

Straight up! This is why I don’t really hang with people

@flipfliplas

2 ай бұрын

!

Im not alone.. i walk and talk with Jesus christ daily❤❤

I'm a loner, too. I think that it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. You may not even have poor social skills. It just means you don't enjoy people all that much. You may not enjoy socializing and seeking out people. If you are introverted, you should just accept yourself for the way you are. Be happy in your own space !

@billybobscat6233

Ай бұрын

Thank you for saying that. That's awesome

@flamethedarktruesalt9347

Ай бұрын

@@billybobscat6233 Yes, completely agree!

@AnObservantTraveller74

24 күн бұрын

Indeed, you're right. When I was young, however, I was surrounded by people who were convinced that being an introvert was wrong and akin to some kind of illness. I didn't enjoy people all that much then. Extroverts were valued more and they still are to some extent

@EmpoweredTravels

20 күн бұрын

​@AnObservantTraveller74 High school was rough for those reasons. Some people thought something was wrong with me because I wasn't as social as them. I knew people who thought I needed to be fixed. Some even believed I thought I was too good for them. None of that was true. However I drew in people who did understand me and accepted me for who I was. Anything outside of some people's views of "normal" is unacceptable to them. It takes strength to be who you are despite others' criticisms.

@user-xv3yb8jd3g

10 күн бұрын

I remember since I was little, back in nursery school, I was always the one who stayed alone. It carried on into school, and on days when we had group projects, I would do them alone because no one invited me. There's something ingrained in me that says, "I don't accept less than I deserve."…Additionally when ppl people can't control you or you don't meet their expectations they simply step back much like vampires when their prey has no more blood…It's no wonder vampirism captures the fascination of most people.

The competition and jealousy in so called friendships is alarming....

@oxytoxic7006

2 ай бұрын

This!!!!

@kyliemoronogue

2 ай бұрын

As a woman, this was my experience of every friendship I had with other women. Then at about age 40, I decided no more female friends. It's much better for me this way.

@winblessed1357

2 ай бұрын

Truth

@ailadacia9309

2 ай бұрын

@@kyliemoronoguesame, but family can be worse in my experience

@weathamorris4251

2 ай бұрын

Even when you are not trying you are made to feel like you can’t be content with what you have. Not all are trying to be millionaires.

Less family, less friends, less drama, less headache. You GAIN peace of mind 👍

@Serendipity-gj2me

2 ай бұрын

@Minnie--ru2ew You are so right. I blocked my family from contacting me. Now with less family I have less drama, fewer headaches and peace of mind. And I am more successful and happier.

@tpmedia3784

2 ай бұрын

*fewer

@Serendipity-gj2me

Ай бұрын

@@tpmedia3784 thank you! lol!

@howiesgarden6725

Ай бұрын

Precisely!! 🔥🖖

@Devika__652

Ай бұрын

Absolutelyy correct❤🎉

"I'd rather be alone than have my life full of people who make me feel alone" -Robin Williams, Worlds Greatest Dad

@susiek6560

16 күн бұрын

Robin Williams killed himself so... I think everyone needs freiends, to get a friend you need to be a friend. Not everyone will click but your friend is out there. Keep looking everyone.....

@melonygt9005

3 күн бұрын

@@susiek6560not everyone needs friends , some of us are eagles

People are the worst. Humans are so selfish and toxic. I get so annoyed.

I have no friends and no family. Literally. My birthday and all holidays pass by like normal days.

@beaulieuc8910

2 ай бұрын

I have a few friends now because I volunteer and have lots of cheapy interests. I have social anxiety too but I have friends who have similar values and interests. It is a bit easier for me as we have things in common. Most evenings during the week I am at home, but I like being at home in the quiet.

@I.am.RosaMarie

2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ You are loved.

@boratsagdiyev522

2 ай бұрын

Same here. Holidays and my birthdays always makes me a bit sad knowing that "dayum, this is my reality," while all my cousins have their own families spending holidays together while I'm the idiot at work wasting my life. It makes me feel at times that I'm forced to be alone and that this is my destiny.

@LLCNipsturBrands

2 ай бұрын

😢

@LLCNipsturBrands

2 ай бұрын

@@boratsagdiyev522 I’m sorry 😢

Someone said solitude can become addictive. I think it is true. Being alone is much less complicated than having people around.

@wordswordswords8203

2 ай бұрын

that's interesting. i think that's true. ultimately it's not really very healthy but it's easier on many ways.

@RaquelJoYT

2 ай бұрын

Solitude brings depression and unhappiness. Lots of loneliness.

@gazthejaz8910

Ай бұрын

@@RaquelJoYT unless it’s for a very long time

@mreverybody1150

Ай бұрын

@@RaquelJoYT No. Loneliness brings depression and unhappiness. Solitude brings peace. The two are extremely different.

Cutting out a toxic friend group that has been plaguing my life for years was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

@Carlos_RodriguesS2

Ай бұрын

Same for me. A hug from Brasil

@janetmiller2980

17 күн бұрын

Congratulations 🎉

@SIERRATREES

15 күн бұрын

Well done on your rebirth.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

@fakiriayoub8087

14 күн бұрын

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

@BestOffer-ii9ny

14 күн бұрын

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@HealthyPriestessSophie

14 күн бұрын

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

@fakiriayoub8087

14 күн бұрын

Is he on instagramm?

@BestOffer-ii9ny

14 күн бұрын

Yes he is dr.porassss

I have no friends or family. Most of my family is dead or dead to me and I genuinely enjoy my life more than ever.

@user-jk1zq7fx3h

2 ай бұрын

Facts

@user370Z

2 ай бұрын

Good for you Sophia! Pretty much the same here.

@FMT2003

2 ай бұрын

Same! We got this!

@TheTransgenderPastor

2 ай бұрын

💯

@EduardoRodrigues-ce4dh

2 ай бұрын

Doing what?

I have nobody but God and the angels

@luciferlucero

2 ай бұрын

Rapture soon! ⚡⚡

@mpat100

2 ай бұрын

blessings for you

@NkNk-vg8fc

2 ай бұрын

And my Son that’s truthfully it

@EntertainerJacks

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@shanti888

2 ай бұрын

Be blessed

Most of the people I know just end up talking about when you aren't around. You know this when other 'friends' leave and they start talking about them.

@shasta7152

Ай бұрын

Exactly.

@mtnwalkingdogwoman

7 күн бұрын

That is so true !

I think its sad we've become conditioned to be alone. That's the direction of society. Remote working, zoom, gaming, FaceTime, Amazon. All designed to keep people apart. Im a 60 year old woman and I don't recognize the world anymore. I feel sorry for the younger generation.

@emiliaescobar7652

Ай бұрын

I'm 62, I love my family/being with them, don't have any friends, but i'm busy with my grand kids, I do like my a lone time, but if I didnt have any family, I'm sure I would need a friend or two, yes, this younger generation is totally different!

@Chunlialways

23 күн бұрын

You are so lucky to be 60 yrs old. Alot of the younger generations wish so badly to be your age just to get away from this negative life and hopefully closer to the next one where we can finally find true peace and rest.

Friends come and go. They will backstab you, borrow money, and never pay back, they get mad when you ask to get paid back, like what???? I thought we were friends?? theres no such thing as a friend anymore. My " best friend " borrowed tons of money during his divorce and bankruptcy. When he was doing well again. Even bought himself a pickup truck, big off road tires, a Harley motorcycle, furniture his new home. I asked when he can repay the thousands I let him borrow. He got reeeeaaally mad. Like u have the nerve to ask your friend for money???? What an ungrateful person. I guess he learned how to steal, manipulate, backstab people working as a Corrections Officer in New York. Right Michael H.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

2 ай бұрын

There has never been such a thing, only smoke and mirrors.

@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384

2 ай бұрын

bro are you ok?

@sageforce9306

2 ай бұрын

​@@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384he outta pocket but he's right😂😂😂

@raymondlin8728

2 ай бұрын

​@@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384no, I'm bitter. I plan on dwelling on it so my daughter sees it. She won't be trusting , naive, with smooth, smiling, people, while their hands are reaching for your wallet

@raymondlin8728

2 ай бұрын

​@@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384still bitter

I grew up with lots of friends, only to realize later in life that those friendships were because I was so messed up and was a people pleaser. It wasn't till those relationships were tested - including familial - that I realized how shallow and fake they were; now at 60 I'm left with one sibling and 2 friends. Finally at peace

@eiooops

Ай бұрын

Gosh ..same here

@imadivergentandantinormiep7877

Ай бұрын

I'm so proud of myself to have been able to realize that 12 years ago at 24 years old

@artsyhyd

Ай бұрын

The last few yrs the so called friends that I’ve known for more than a decade turned out to be traitors, idk what happened; perhaps ppl change or perhaps their true color is finally showing! Took my kindness for granted and betrayed my loyalty. I believe Karma will catch up with them tho.

@shasta7152

Ай бұрын

Ditto.

1 real friend is priceless while 1 fake friend can be deadly.

I’m not alone I have a small family and a couple friends. But I am the most alone I have been in life. I was reading my study Bible just yesterday and it said alone and lonely are not the same! Amen

The one who walks alone has the strongest direction 💯

@stuart5811

Ай бұрын

Musashi Miyamoto The Way of Walking Alone

@vincecool72

Ай бұрын

What does this means?

@KS-zu6ps

27 күн бұрын

43 single and single. No family no friends. What keep me alive is a good job and knowing myself and loving God and my neighbors. I think that's enough.

I purposely removed everyone from my life. I feel so much better. No drama at all. I work from home I don't leave the house. I have everything delivered. I'm not a shut in I just love being alone. I've been like this since around 2010.

@jaysouthmusic8230

2 ай бұрын

I don’t blame you tbh. I stopped hanging out like that around 2020 and I have gained so much peace because of it

@Pepperthecat11

2 ай бұрын

I work from home too and get everything I need delivered! I really don’t leave the house much either… I got my cat, comfy home, good food and I go outside to get fresh air and take walks in town when it’s nice. 👍 most people just drain me. I love being alone ❤

@jackinmyhoggoff807

2 ай бұрын

@Pepperthecat11 I 100% know what you mean. I was never happy before. One day I realized you really have to be happy with yourself. Another person isn't going to make you happy. I thought I had some kind of depression but all it was is people are exhausting. I don't get mad or anything ever. I'm glad your doing well to. There's nothing wrong with being alone.

@Pepperthecat11

2 ай бұрын

@@jackinmyhoggoff807 same! I thought there was something wrong with me. I used to go out partying a lot and had a ton of “friends” in my 20s. I’m 34 now, and I don’t drink or smoke anymore and stay home all the time…never been happier or more productive. Glad you are happy too-being a homebody is honestly awesome

@renysimone3312

2 ай бұрын

Awesome!😊

I made a very conscious choice to overnight delete social media, acquaintances, fake friends, and family. My soul felt empty with these people and an app knowing things about my personal life that I put out there, trying to gain some type of fake acceptance, was played out. I disappeared overnight and I have so much peace in my life now. My business grew, I took the time to cook better and learn a new language, and I have a few chosen quality people around me who had the same goals. There's no need for this abundance of social activity to lead a healthy and happy life, this is just another thing society tells us. I find solace in being hard to find, I have no desire to be like everyone else.

I am 75 years old, I am always alone wherever I am ,I am the happier person.People who loved to have friends ,are the one with no confidents.

@deborahcurtis1385

20 сағат бұрын

Confidence. And you're right!

Some of the stupidest choices I have ever made were made because society "told" me that if I didn't I wasn't "normal". Got married for this reason and it was a horrible experience. I really enjoy being by myself and I feel that is my natural state of being for the most part.

@anciboi

Ай бұрын

I'm with you on that Jen :)

l’m almost 53 and have absolutely no friends or family… who cares, l only miss my mom, l could care less about anyone else.

@hroz8630

2 ай бұрын

I feel like you are me in the future.

@tzeimi_

2 ай бұрын

Yup. Everyone else can fuckk off

@rebekah4078

2 ай бұрын

I'm the same. I'm 47 and have absolutely no one. Not one single friend or family

@js77z

2 ай бұрын

Same, 41F here! ​@@rebekah4078

@EmilyMartin-vl1yo

2 ай бұрын

Can I be your friend?

This younger generation is very honest and open about their issues. Back in the day people wouldn't ever admit to having any friends bc it feels like social rejection. Having just one good friend you can talk to is the best thing. As you get older, you do not want to be alone.

Alot of people cant be alone with themselves, i love my own company doing what i love, or want to do, its peaceful ☮️😊🙏🏻

I just entered my 30s, on the verge of earning my (MA) Masters. Both of my parents, who are still my heroes, passed away when I was 8. I couldn't care any less about anyone else. I just focus on my life.

@wordswordswords8203

2 ай бұрын

sorry you lost your parents so young. congrats on getting your Masters degree. That's a huge accomplishment. I hope you can find a loving special person one day but I think you're wise to focus on your own life. Just don't give up hope for connection. That's what we were made for. Take care. W

@waedjradi

2 ай бұрын

@@wordswordswords8203 Wow, thank you for this reply. I'll never give up on human connectivity, nor am I seeking it. I think because of my parents showering me with their attention and love, when I was a little boy, before they died - as an adult, I never feel the need for "love" outside of myself or from anyone else. If I somehow meet someone and we have a kid or two, then that's fine. Although, if that were to never happen; that too, is also fine. I wish you well, friend 🙂👍

@wordswordswords8203

2 ай бұрын

@@waedjradi Thank you! I'm glad you have that inner stability.

@GodisGracious1

24 күн бұрын

Selfish AF

There’s definelty advantages of being alone, there’s a lot of drama associated with most relationships

@boratsagdiyev522

2 ай бұрын

True, but let's face it, we all want friends and family that we like. Life is much more fulfilling that way if we can have it. Humans are not ment to be alone for long periods of time.

@theintrovertedaspie9095

2 ай бұрын

​​​​@@boratsagdiyev522Introverts *cough*cough*. 😗

I took a step back from friends in my 20's and never bothered with them again. Then I started to find out the truth about the character assassination they used to do on each other including me. One person who I thought was my best friend in my early 20's and was in college and working part time. I always bought lunch and helped out because I was working full time. He turned round to me one day and declared "Oh I'm buying a house." "How an earth can you buy a house?" I asked "Oh I managed to save up £40K for the deposit." Yeah he had been giving everyone the pity story and living of us and stashing his cash for a few years. Once he got the house he started lording it over everyone. I just walked away from that friendship!! No family and hardly any friends and very happy. Imagine waking up on a Saturday morning and being able to do whatever you fancy without anyone criticising, demanding or giving you a guilt trip. Also another big deal is it's my money, my house and I will do whatever i please.

I got friend in Jesus Where ever i go he goes Who else do i need.

Hell is other people

Finally a positive person, I always wondered why everyone complaining about not having friends, I'm glad to be alone, too many backstabbing friends these days

@SIERRATREES

15 күн бұрын

I find some family interaction very painful. After being knifed once too many times, Ive chosen to walk away.

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

@@SIERRATREES They will hate you for that. Trust me! LOL

What a refreshing video to watch. I am an older person and all my life I was told to make friends. You are told there is something wrong with you if you have no friends. Even before social media, TV made you a failure if you weren't the cool person. I have learned to enjoy my own company and enjoy the silent times. Social media is not reality. You are a smart man. Most people only have a few good friends in their lives. As for family, I have none. Sometimes it is the luck of the draw. But I am okay. Your video only reaffirmed what I knew all this time. Being true to yourself is the best reward. Having tons of friends, social media, distract one from their purpose in life. Thank you for a great video. I hope others draw inspiration as I have. 🎉

I grew up with a lot of family and friends around me, until I realised they all used me, so I got rid of all of them.

The only time I feel really painfully alone is when I travel. When I am at the airport and know no one cares. No one waits. No one messages me in general. I have no emergency contact to leave at work. Or no one to give my second apartment key to. That is why financial stress makes me sick and miserable. I have only myself to rely on. It was always like that and it will be always like that. Even my own parents never cared for me, they even were jealous of everything I had, even of me smiling. I learned how to whole heartedly laugh when I had my own apartment and was safe... Without being afraid of rage out of the blue from people I should be able to trust. Most people out there just don't develop their emotional intelligence and refuse to grow mentally. Not my problem anymore. I'm out and walk my own lonely but peaceful path.

@Kelly-oe8kr

2 ай бұрын

I am a hardcore lone wolf, the only time I have a problem with being on my own is when I'm sick and there is no one to care for you

@Prefer2bLeftAlone

2 ай бұрын

I understand! Same Here!! 😢

@chisomudeze7706

2 ай бұрын

@@Kelly-oe8krthen care for someone else. God will send you someone.

@food4444lyfe

2 ай бұрын

For me it’s being hospitalised… esp during “ visiting hours “. Literally the only patient ( room of 8 ) without a single visitor… 😮😮😮😮😮

@Apricot90

2 ай бұрын

@@food4444lyfe I understand.Went to Turkey alone to have a stomach surgery. No one even knew, no one cares anyway. Reminds me of the time when I was in hospital as a 6 year old for a small heart surgery. I was in Munih for a week, all alone. My father just dropped me there from Frankfurt and was gone... Not even my mother called.

Bro....i'm 45. My only true friend is my wife. As for family, they are too much work and a waste of time.

@sct4040

2 ай бұрын

Same here with my husband. No drama with no family, is a relief.

@dm8174

2 ай бұрын

Same here just my wife and kids ❤

@bublikstudioproductions9686

Ай бұрын

Well imagine people.who have no wives or kids.... so it's important to make meaningful connections.

@dianagonzales5113

Ай бұрын

Same here my partner our grown kids and my mom,happy and content with just them.🙏

@SeudXe

Ай бұрын

@@dianagonzales5113 Same here. I have no gf or kids ;(

I too value being alone but the truth is, we are here to create relationships. People have become so untrustworthy, narcissistic, and dangerous, that it has become a challenge to do so.

I'm 38 and I always had friends around me.. from good to toxic .. I finally realized that only I can make myself happy.. I've been friendless for 5 years now.. I got into hobbies and goals and a peace of mind

Same.. I used to *dread* going to family holiday gatherings 🙄 drama, passive-aggression, rudeness etc.. I swear people have nothing positive or interesting to talk about so they just make up the most lame shit. Finally I decided I don't want to force myself to do things I'm not comfortable doing anymore and I've never been happier 💗 holidays are now peaceful & beautiful ✨

@stephenw.9647

2 ай бұрын

😂-- they over eat, then somebody farts, then they don't talk for a year, and then they do it again

@stephenw.9647

2 ай бұрын

@@gr5382 😂-- that's bad, sounds like Biden sending an email to Kim

@dachsrottweiler

2 ай бұрын

Does your family give you crap for not attending fam gatherings?

@tonyadams8812

2 ай бұрын

'' drama, passive-aggression, rudeness etc.. I swear people have nothing positive or interesting to talk about so they just make up the most lame shit.'' Sounds exactly like my 'family'!

@stephenw.9647

2 ай бұрын

😂-- they pretend to be the ideal family until somebody wraps the toilet seat around the neighbors tree

I used to get pushed away by people since I was very little. I began to accept the thought that I was never going to fit in society's activities. I learned that I enjoy creating art. Photography became another joy for me. I learned how to compose music. I wrote a few books. Completed me educational goals. I 'm still taking college courses. I stopped drinking in 1996. I learned that being alone, and pushed away wasn't so bad. I knew someone that didn't want to associate with me, because I didn't have a high school diploma. I got my high school diploma then one day I saw them on the street. I walked by them like I didn't know them. They never recognized me, because I had changed. I looked really good. Better than when we last spoke. I just kept walking by. I felt happy, and didn't need them as a friend. I became successful by myself without the need to be around others. It wasn't my fault. I was pushed away. I built my own world. I'm happy.

@Minnie--ru2ew

2 ай бұрын

You are ENOUGH. 👍

@gayanngodfrey2824

2 ай бұрын

Amen dear

@user-ml8ud6qd2u

2 ай бұрын

Congratulations 🎊 on your new life and success. 😊😊

@journeifields2797

2 ай бұрын

I ❤ this for you

At the end of the day, The Most High Yah is your only true friend 🙏🏾 💚 🙏🏾

@repent6238

Ай бұрын

Jesus is Lord. Ask Jesus To Save You 🙏

I'm an introvert. I thrive online yet I barely exist IRL. No social life = no drama. Only peace & quiet. I'm okay with that.

@pegpenguin

2 күн бұрын

The world rewards extroverts the most. There needs to be more positive avenues for introverts.

Jesus is a friend who sticks closer than a brother , mother, father. He's is my savior 🙏 my friend

@I.am.RosaMarie

2 ай бұрын

Amen!!

@user-jk1zq7fx3h

2 ай бұрын

Having jesus is really just having yourself

@jamesbrantley8105

2 ай бұрын

@@user-jk1zq7fx3h Amen. Self healthy awareness is really important before being with anyone else

@kubasniak

2 ай бұрын

Lies

@TheTransgenderPastor

2 ай бұрын

Amen

I can relate to that!!! Being here in the USA for 19 years, I have only 2 that I call friends. 💙

The matrix is slowly collasping from the "survivors" point of view.. Pity parties are old.. Generations need to catch up on a galactic interstellar level. I wish everyone luck on their spiritual soul journey. May the peace find you all one day on earth. Blessings. ❤

I once had "friends." But they only came to me when they fuck their lives up or need money. Once they get what they want, I'm back to being invisible. It's better to be alone than being a means to an end for everybody.

i love having zero people to be accountable for

@gasmith7486

2 ай бұрын

Me too!! It’s the best!

I am turning 50 years old and these word really touched me. I have been very happy all my life and felt joy being alone. Yes I’m married and have acquaintances but I don’t have a bestie, bro, or BFF type. My wife is concerned I don’t socialize with others the way she does. I don’t even talk to my mother, father or sister much and it mutual because we are there for each other if needed. People need to realize that some humans just function better alone.

@ThePinkPantha21

8 күн бұрын

I'm one of those people. I am not a victim, however people are exhausting and I am a very "deep" person. I am mostly misunderstood because I don't do what everyone else does. So it is more compassionate for me to stay to myself. My husband is the only person that tries to understand me.

The less friends you have; the less enemies you have.

@deborahcurtis1385

20 сағат бұрын

fewer. and you're right!

Greta video! I’m 35 and deleted my social media and stepped away from drinking with friends/partying. I go to gym. Spending time in prayer church and family. It’s positive gains! Thank you for your positivity. We are blessed to have this singleness and other distractions.

@nana0787

2 ай бұрын

Agree!! All we need is Jesus 🙏🏼✝️

@ebonylo.

2 ай бұрын

You outgrew everyone🎉

@JiniGuitar

Ай бұрын

Keep going🏅

I realized that I prefer my own company. Friends are huge waste of time and money. In the past I was always investing much much more human energy and resources in friendships which were one sided. I could also say the same when it came to dating and romance. I’ve given up on both and I feel fine. I guess I m not cool enough good looking enough but I’m ok with that and I m finally gonna take time to know me and learn to like myself because at the end of the day that’s the only true friend who will have my back.

@nick8670

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like a massive cope. Socializing with friends is pretty essential to the human experience.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

2 ай бұрын

Relationships and friendships are always one-sided and not reciprocated by individuals. It seems that one person contributes more or less than the other person. It's all a scam and sets one up to be exploited and abused

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

2 ай бұрын

At the end of the day, you're all you have and no one else

@nick8670

2 ай бұрын

Not at all.@@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

@ChanceBerryman

2 ай бұрын

@@nick8670no it’s not. People used to need each way more that’s why we think we’re “social creatures”

I’m 22 and same . Most people aren’t worth it. Only short conversations are good. But it’s like once you get close to them, they do you wrong and act weird

@DramaScenes1

Ай бұрын

By chance would you like to be friends then? I’m a 25 year old male from the Caribbean island of Trinidad. And I like connecting with others if possible to share different perspectives on things, to share different cultures and just give out. If you don’t want to that’s okay, I understand

I can relate to this so much! Sometimes I feel lonely without friends but it’s still better than being around low vibrational people. Thanks for the video 😊

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

It messes them up when you walk away without a backwards glance. I don't go things to cause trouble, but explaining yourself is usually a wasted effort, since it involves them looking at the truth about themselves and few want to do that.

The most important friend you need is yourself. After that you need some friends and some family.

@DaughteroftheKing67

2 ай бұрын

No the most important friend and only friend you need or I need is Jesus Christ, the Son of God who came to earth as a human and died on the cross to pay a debt we cannot pay so we no longer HAVE to be separated from God! Accepting that free gift (not cheap, but freely given) and trust in Him, read the Bible to learn what pleases Him, what He hates! Time is almost up. Accept Him now before He comes to take His bride home for the wedding. After that the worst times EVER on the earth and to trust in Him then WILL cost your life. The anti Christ, a human indwelt by Satan will seek out believers and kill them. So choose Him now. The door is closing soon. I am not talking about religion, God wants relationship with you! Friendship, not enemies of God.

@beaulieuc8910

2 ай бұрын

agreed

@I.am.RosaMarie

2 ай бұрын

​@@beaulieuc8910Amen!!

@I.am.RosaMarie

2 ай бұрын

​@@DaughteroftheKing67Amen!!!

Feeling loneliness is a call to oneself. Your soul needs something that no one else can properly provide.

@normapadro420

2 ай бұрын

When I saw myself alone I could see the beauty around me. There was no pulling of distraction. Just me, and my mind in silence. It's total silence.

@ProfEmerita

2 ай бұрын

Very wise comment!

@andreafelix1256

2 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙂

@andreafelix1256

2 ай бұрын

@@normapadro420I had a very similar experience. There’s so much going on around us.

@kubasniak

2 ай бұрын

If you believe that soul non sense

I can completely relate. Sometimes it’s even more dangerous to be in the company of family because when you have a medical emergency they won’t help you. They will accuse you of faking it.

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

Yep. And I don't want them having power over whether I live or die when faced with such medical decisions, so I'm going to do a living will.

I am from New York I'm 59 years old No friends no kids no wife no family I'm very happy about it 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Most people will approach you to take from you.

@mikes7446

2 ай бұрын

exactly

@missdesireindependance5194

2 ай бұрын

This is true but not everyone.

@IrelandLochlin

Ай бұрын

My experience as well. 65 yrs old now, zero friends is just fine.😊

@RearviewMirror-ij2pr

Ай бұрын

@@missdesireindependance5194 My statement says "Most".

I deliberately have no friends … and no family

@BibiEsc

2 ай бұрын

and how are you?

@Carlos_RodriguesS2

Ай бұрын

Search for the Vedas and secret of Universe. One time youll should be with someone. I am like you and very stronger person. A hug from Brasil

Isolation is addicting. Your name becomes less involved in confusion and drama. I became much happier when I stopped communicating with people. Most of my stress came from having friends and communicating to regularly with family.

@KS-zu6ps

27 күн бұрын

There are good honest people out there I promise. As a human being we are not meant to be alone. We are social beings of course with the right social influences. But I understand what you are saying Ms. and best of luck to you.

We all need Jesus. He is the best. He never lies. He’s perfect.

Most especially, they will only remember you when they need something from you. Money money money!!

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

When the friends who dumped me for hitting hard times, realise those times are over, the door is shut to them at my place. There is no return. It's not that I'm unforgiving, it's just that I'm not stupid.

No family, no friends is easy when your still young and healthy. I am 67 now, with no family or friends, so I have no one to help me if need something.

Very difficult challenge to be alone in life without any family…and in many cases any true friends Nothing “positive ‘ about it. We all have our destiny & have to accept & adjust to our life circumstances as well as possible

WINNERS ALWAYS HAVE NO FRIENDS!! MOST OF IT IS PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS AF! LETSGOOOO

@Arven8

2 ай бұрын

Now there's a cope.

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

OMG that's too true! I'm wary now that I've finally turned a corner, and freshly appreciate why the wealthy are suspicious of people trying to worm their way into their lives. No thanks!

I Rock with God, blessed with 2 narcissistic parents, parental Alienation and neglect was my world. ZERO family and no fake friends, I do better Solo

@LuvKitKatt

2 ай бұрын

yoooooo !!!!!!!!

@dunderwood4444

2 ай бұрын

@@LuvKitKatt Many Stitches, many broken bones homeless by 15 Marine Corps by 17 (SOLID 15 YEAR CAREER) survived a bad situation, no one's victim because I'm the one that got away. I survived

@serenapiccinini392

2 ай бұрын

SAME

@TheTransgenderPastor

2 ай бұрын

Same here, brother.

@Reevay762

2 ай бұрын

Same 😊

I come from a large family, but we're scattered all over the U S, so we're not close. I've never made friends easily, and may in my 50s be at peace with that. There's no need to be bothered with those who can't celebrate happiness with me, or accept not who I am, but who they think I am. The husband daughter and fur friends work out great!

Still searching for a friend who won't betray me. Someone who isn't jealous and judgemental. Encouraging and positive.

I feel more happy alone than I do around people I have experienced nothing but abuse and pain and humiliation around people I dislike humanity I became a misanthrope

@zeemzero2880

2 ай бұрын

Facts ^

@ailadacia9309

2 ай бұрын

Same

@sickofit5547

Ай бұрын

It’s simple math and science. You have to be insane to continue on with your abusers

4:16 you're right, it's better to be alone than have friends who have bad habits like alcoholism and drug abuse.

@thegoldentree6913

2 ай бұрын

its not really friendship though. i would never consider anyone, who has such bad habits that inflict negativity on me, a friend. Same goes for family.

@nick8670

2 ай бұрын

Everyone has bad habits, its not a reason to cut someone off unless its to the point to where they are actively encouraging you to partake in something you know you shouldn't.

@AZrakoon

2 ай бұрын

@@nick8670 if you hang out with wise ones, you will be wise. If you deal with stupid ones, you will fair badly.

@nick8670

2 ай бұрын

I agree, you should choose your friends wisely, but having a problem with substances doesn't make you inherently stupid.@@AZrakoon

@Ikaros23

2 ай бұрын

@@nick8670 Why waste time on people that are ruining their own lives?. They can drown alone

I’m going on 44 and alone. I love it !!! It’s peaceful. It’s safe. I don’t have to live up to anyone else’s expectations. I can give all my time & energy on things that are most important to me. It’s FREEDOM. When I’m feeling “ lonely “ I talk to God, strangers/homeless, ppl at my church, etc.

As a 65-year-old man I have no friends. Nobody that I’m really close to. Of course I have distant acquaintances and family that live in other states towns, etc. that I occasionally talk to. But other than that I spend most of my time working and or alone. recently, I adopted a rescue dog, and I know that when she looks into my eyes, she loves me with her entire heart and soul. There is nothing more that I need. People area drain, and a waste of time!

@SIERRATREES

15 күн бұрын

Amen to that. I relate. I would say however, Ive ventured into some groups, where the bond revolves around a mutual interest, and the arms length interactions are pleasant.

I LOVE not having close ties with family. And I have dumped all my friends. I have no regrets. Best decision I have ever made.

Yes the less friend the more peace in life . Very true . Gods love is the only love that counts .

@KayciazWorld

2 ай бұрын

Yes Amen ✝️🙏

@James-mc5hc

2 ай бұрын

It is God's love that will wash away all our earthly moments and fully restore us with the light of gladness. All else means nothing. We won't look back.

@natural3362

2 ай бұрын

Amen. I only ever truly need God! God provides!

In this case, less is more. Less people = more quality, peaceful and productive time for myself. I don’t miss the drama that other people with many friends and families deal with.

Great points made in this video Martin! I've been going through this also. I decided to go into a heads-down, cocoon season, saying no to everyone and everything, and instead connecting with like-minded people online, taking self-development courses, and it's been wonderful. I've never been so happy. How else are we supposed to get to know ourselves if we spend no time with ourselves? Some people think that my time of solitude is concerning but they are also doing things that I honestly wouldn't spend my time and energy on.

I feel blessed when i am alone. No one to bother, no one to disturb.

Friends are a positive thing, but not anyone of the world. That is the problem, the world is vibrating at a lower level to me, filled with hate, sexual imorality, corruption and all the rest. With no immediate family I walk alone, but not alone as God fills the void. You walk with God he fills your heart with peace and with peace you are happy, content.

@seanguzy9601

2 ай бұрын

Yes!! I just posted a comment bout low level vibration. I litterly know it's just human failures.

@UniquelyHerz

Ай бұрын

Amen 💯

@Tina_O

Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

Ambition usually separates friends. High-Achievers and low-achievers usually don't mix well. The low-achiever will make snide remarks based on jealousy, thinking foolishly that you aren't aware of it. They're fun to play with.

"There's positive and negative things about being alone." Very true.

Being young is such a blessing. Now I'm 59 I know.

@insanoibro6331

2 ай бұрын

With all due respect what age would you say is the peak of youth and what age would you say youth ends? Thank you.

@Arven8

2 ай бұрын

@@insanoibro6331 I'm 62. You asked "what is the peak of youth and what age does youth end?" What do you mean by "peak"? "Peak" in what sense? If you mean biologically, it's probably around your mid-20s, and you probably can't say you are "young" (biologically) once you hit 30" If you mean "peak" financially or materially, then it's probably in your 40s or 50s. If you mean "peak" in terms of your ability to attract women, it's probably about 40. If you mean "peak" in terms of your own personal happiness or contentment, I'd say it's 60+. Or at least, that's how it's been for me. As you get older, you don't have the physique and energy that you used to, but you have learned a lot, grown so much in confidence and competence, become able to set aside so much Bullshit that plagues the young, and after a lot of false starts and mistakes, you build a good life for yourself. That's been my experience, anyhow.

@insanoibro6331

2 ай бұрын

@@Arven8 thanks for the response sir. I'm almost in my mid twenties almost 24 just feel like it's getting late to really turn my life around before im stuck in my bad habits.

@Arven8

2 ай бұрын

@@insanoibro6331 Never too late! I'm still working on breaking myself of bad habits and I'm 62, lol.

@dancerballet4353

2 ай бұрын

I believe you didn't reach your skills level at this age so you are still young but...lazy maybe?

Life was never meant to be lived all alone, we just live in dark times.

@user-yg7kb1mt9z

2 ай бұрын

Correction. We are living in the END TIMES

@SC-gw8np

2 ай бұрын

Most people just suck in this timeline.

@ninawestlake5005

2 ай бұрын

Very true. Still...being alone is perfectly fine as we are never truly alone. God's watching over us all.

@robertvazquez2964

2 ай бұрын

@@ninawestlake5005 It’s not just about God watching over us but being one as Christ and the Father are one and loving one another as he loved us.

@user-yg7kb1mt9z

2 ай бұрын

@@robertvazquez2964 how does that help the starving children in Cambodia tho

I'm 63 and enjoy being by myself, always have. I have what I call "situational friends" or acquaintances, people I interact with at work or socially on a superficial basis. I also have two siblings though they live in other parts of the country so we rarely see each other. But I don't share much with either of these groups. If you meet people and enjoy their company, that's great but it's not necessary for a happy, satisfying life. You can lead a productive and full life alone.

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

If you're being true to yourself, authentic and without falsity it's hard to be around those who do the opposite. It's a waste of time, basically because they usually hate you for what you are, and you remind them of what they are not.

My friends left me for fame and money, glad I have none. Proud to be a lone wolf.

54 and my family always think I am strange because I prefer to be alone. I enjoyed my own company and many ppl thinks I am not normal because I can go to dinner or movies by myself. As I got older I realized how great it was to be alone and I treasured my simple life and come to realization that being alone doesn’t mean lonely. When I have to go to family gatherings or friends social I find I get anxiety as most times it’s shallow and chaotic. You are correct when you are alone you accomplished many things faster

@chuachua-hj9zd

2 ай бұрын

Are you married?

@lysianeamougou

Ай бұрын

We are Twins! Can we be Friends please?

@charmainewalker8627

Ай бұрын

@@lysianeamougou definitely.reach out anytime 😀

We have 3 children and our middle son was always a loner. Never was invited for birthdays and had to deal with racism. When I talked about it with him, he didn't seem to care at all. Now there are some children who like him and wants to play with him, but he is just better off alone. And one time when I was painting and at the same time watching tutorials, he was watching tv and playing with his lego, drawing and sometimes in his bedroom to live in his fantasy world like pretending he's a hero, that he can fly etc. he told me "Mama. These are my happiest moments." He didn't felt pressure from me that we HAVE to do something, like my husband always wants to do things with us: games, playing music, going out for a walk. And that is a good thing of course. But I also discovered that I prefer just to be alone because deep in my heart I'm a loner too.

Great video Martin. Since walking alone, I’ve enjoyed so much peace. Being alone has many positives and is not negative or the same as being lonely. Hope your message inspires many people.

When you can truly be @ peace & content with yourself.. you become more powerful & resilient.

I grew up in an alcoholic family. The town I grew up in everybody drank. I drank to fit in. For a while I did fit in, but when I branched off to get healthy and get my finances in order, people don’t like that. They feel like we are arrogant when we want to make these positive changes and have to leave them behind. I made the choice to drink but it is so bad for you. I would never drink again. I don’t like the way it makes me feel. I just want to be peaceful, happy and healthy and sleep well and that’s enough for me. The Bible is real. The Cain and Abel scenario is real, so is the Joseph and his brother story. My point is, family and friends are usually the first to betray you and that has been my experience.

@margomargo2

Ай бұрын

Amen

@pegpenguin

2 күн бұрын

My theory is they're the first to betray you, because they know your weaknesses. And when someone knows your weaknesses, they will use that to judge you rather than lift you up.

@deborahcurtis1385

19 сағат бұрын

@@pegpenguin They know your strengths too, and that is more challenging for them. Because just by existing, you remind them of what they are not.

@pegpenguin

9 сағат бұрын

@@deborahcurtis1385 That is very true Deborah, I tend to forget, but that's probably because if I have any strengths, they are hidden, so they go unnoticed.

One problem is that we do not understand friendship as a society any longer. We call people friends who join our Facebook page or group. A true friend requires what any other serious relationship requires: loyalty, respect, humility, love, and a desire to make each other better. It is a critical and important relationship in making a civilization. Yes, alone time is necessary and beneficial too, but friendship is a necessity personally and for society. However, we should work toward having a small circle of true friends instead of numbers of friends. Many comments here claim that there are too many back-stabbing friends or unloyal friends "these days." People have not changed. They are the same as always. The ancient philosophers provide great insight into how we should choose our friends and how it's necessary to remove yourself from anyone who is not a true friend. It is better to have one or two close friends than 1000 Facebook "friends" or hangout friends.

@hiitsmartin

2 ай бұрын

So true. Society likes to push us to make friends since we're young and it's frowned upon to be lonely. The thing is society never taught us what is a friend. A friend shouldn't be just anyone you know or hang out with. It needs to be someone working towards similar goals as you or at the very least someone who can be there with you to have a genuine conversation and connection without the need to have a degenerate activity to do together (drinking, partying, playing video game, smoking, etc).

@arg888

2 ай бұрын

It’s tech that has retired people to be lonesome and isolated

@ShinobiShaman

Ай бұрын

​@hiitsmartin It's probably always been like that to a certain extent, but you just hear about it more with social media. Although, your generation stayed in the house all day in front of a screen, so that's most definitely contributed to it.