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@natemarx4999

Жыл бұрын

Simple rule #1 - Subscribe to Lana and go to her sponsor. 🙏

@farahqayoom7474

Жыл бұрын

Lana blakley please make vedio on how to develop confidence and achieve things 💓😭

@bezaliel100zx

Жыл бұрын

Why make more tips about attraction if there is no fun on that self-improvement is good for low pride people but these kind of content are waste of time there no reason to go for these kind of things.

@karlc2869

Жыл бұрын

I subbed, Lana. Thanks, girl.

@jaysartori9032

Жыл бұрын

You have no idea I still think girls look at my looks not at my heart? That I hold deal to my chest but when I look at myself I'm so critical about my reflection dose that make sense?

Here's my attractive list: 1. Gorgeousness 2. Fitness and self-care 3. Humility and humbleness 4. Kindness 5. Self-respect and respect for others 6. Emotional intelligence 7. Sense of humour 8. Self-confidence 9. Ambition/goal-driven 10. Generosity and thoughtfulness 11. Peacefulness Edit: my bonus attractive trait is: 12. Authenticity (this one is a complete turn-on for me).

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing. This is great 🥰🥰❤❤

@lindokuhleshandu4024

Жыл бұрын

@@deutschmitpurple2918 thank you :)

@linal3489

Жыл бұрын

Love it! ❤

@mayanlogos92

Жыл бұрын

definitely peaceful people attract right people, my kind too, thanks for sharing here

@lindokuhleshandu4024

Жыл бұрын

@@mayanlogos92 thank you. I really don't like the noise and chaos. I'm an introvert. So, that's why I prefer being around peaceful people because I'm peaceful myself.

Dress well Sit straight Skin care Be confident Got it😌✨

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

🥰🥰❤❤

@EXXTREMEGAMER5600

Жыл бұрын

only if ur naturally pretty 👩🏻

@ramadgulwar5534

Жыл бұрын

@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 lol

@shivanshshukla5883

Жыл бұрын

@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 no younjust gotta be your best self....things don't turn out the way you want even after bejng your best self then fuck everyone else I am awesome mentality attracts people to you.

@user-lu9yk1zx6n

Жыл бұрын

@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 And you wonder why you think you look ugly. ☠️

simple thing #1, be Lana Blakely XD

@Jecykshaji

Жыл бұрын

(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) hehe agree

@Someone06919

Жыл бұрын

or be you :)

@princessofproductivity

Жыл бұрын

@@Someone06919 you're too cute (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄ , thank you xx

@dijonvolner6024

Жыл бұрын

You could always try being yourself?! 💕

@muhammadmukhlash9077

Жыл бұрын

lol

Simple things that make anyone instantly more attractive : 1. Self confidence. 2. Being healthy. 3. The way we dress & accessories. 4. Posture. 5. Skincare. 6. Haircare. 7. Grooming. 8. Taking care of ourselves. 9. Smelling good. 10. Good attitude. 11. Be kind & humble. 12. Being clean & neat. 13. Manners. 14. Always smile & be happy.

@ivythedazzlinggirl2289

Жыл бұрын

These are some really good things to follow! Although it would be really REALLY almost impossible to follow the last one; I never liked sitting with my benchmates in college for 9 hours straight hearing them talk immature unprofessional shit..not to mention I used to be a straight A student in school and since college started my grades dropped real real hard, I always feel guilty I'm being rude to people online (online friends ig) even tho at the same time I think I pay the most attention. I think I'm the dulkest student in my class (others aren't passionate about education and copy their way through exams, I pity them every single time) Now I cannot smile and be happy because my classmates will pay attention to me more and distract me, and everytime I try to enjoy something bad always hits. And mine's a strict Indian college so there's really no time to get emotionwl and be happy and all and talk and smile. That's why I hate it when my friends keep talking during class all the time. One of them thinks she's way too cute and I just cant- she immature My apologies for ranting negative things, I love your comment. Thank you for the tips 💛

@robertwilson3866

Жыл бұрын

Self-confidence is earned it's not simple to get!

@MissMoontree

Жыл бұрын

14 is a bit odd. Being happy and smiling does help, but it is impossible to always be happy. And I'd be freaked out if something terrible happened and all the person could do is express happiness. Open communication about emptions is nice and empathy

@robertwilson3866

Жыл бұрын

@@MissMoontree I think it means just be positive in general. But yes you got to be real too. No one likes a negative person though

@Blackpill149

10 ай бұрын

No-1)Looks No-2)Voice No-3)race No-4)Status these are the main ingredient for sexual attraction which is core of all relationships which means a women has to be attracted to the mans body,face first.Otherwise nothing will.And no i dont want love from women.I dont care about love.Its meaningless

After a month being stuck deeply in depression I have no clue why but this video calmed me somehow. It made me realize how much my depression let me neglect myself and I think taking care of myself will also bring me uphill again a bit more. You made my day. Thank you a lot❤

@kaitlinroth7555

Жыл бұрын

depression is so hard, i hope things look up for you soon! sending love

@wonwii1938

Жыл бұрын

When you start trying some of these tips, take it one step at a time. Don't feel like you have to get everything right at once! Take care ❤

@cccc2740

Жыл бұрын

If you have no clue why but this video calmed you, then it actually didn't calm you..

@binkus_

Жыл бұрын

After having to go through a similar thing I can relate.

@binkus_

Жыл бұрын

@@cccc2740 What she's saying is the video did calm her for a reason, but she doesn't know what that reason is

Instinctively we are attracted to people who look "healthy". It is an archetype in us, seeking the most appropriate partner for having offspring. So of course, your posture, your skin, your hair, teeth, nails, smell, grooming suggests health. And then, because we are not animals 😁, the whole representation of the person. Strong, independent, kind, good manners, eloquent, someone who is approachable, someone who suggests an interesting inner world which we want to explore.

@KewBlinkla

Жыл бұрын

Came to say the same thing! All of the things mentioned all anomalistically tell us someone is “healthy” and therefore good to breed with haha

@remissmiss

Жыл бұрын

technically we are animals but we are more modernized to where the last things on this list matter as well!

@biaj.8864

Жыл бұрын

we are animals

@MoonchildDontCry

11 ай бұрын

Comments like these makes me think "Are the heterosexuals okay? "

@udontevenwannaknowbruv

9 ай бұрын

@@MoonchildDontCry What an off-putting comment

Having a humble, kind personality. It really doesn't matter what you look like.

@user-td2jw9ze2c

8 ай бұрын

kindness can make even the average person insanely attractive

Ever since I started watching your videos this year, my life seems to just feel better. The wholesome, homely feeling of exploring topics which I usually avoid is just so... Thank you for everything.

Personally, me before 6 months at the lowest point in did all the things opposite to what you mentioned- not dressing well , no skincare or fitness , worst posture and always focusing on the negative side . I am in awe that I actually worked on all the things you mentioned here!! along with my therapy and my mental health going uphill I really have attracted many right people and friends and also around 4-5 guys approached me you know ! never been this confident and secured in my body :) I'm in tears....ah! thanks lana , love u

@mainaksen280

Жыл бұрын

These things really don't work for longer duration,sister ,the time you are giving on your fashion,,grooming,hairstyle,etc if started giving to your career and studies then you would reach heights of success and forget about 4-5 people,you would attract 400-500 people,if you become super successful who have a lot of money, that's reality,accept it or else you know

@user-lu9yk1zx6n

Жыл бұрын

@@mainaksen280 It's not about studies or being successful. You know what does make you successful? Not money. Not business. Happiness. OP said they used to live unhealthily. They weren't taking care themselves and was always negative. Of course, this isn't bad, but it's not good either. What is good, is that they changed. Mental health will always be first, no matter what. I think you should start thinking like that too.

@jessicalukram74

Жыл бұрын

@@user-lu9yk1zx6n I absolutely agree with you.

@ignitechacha861

Жыл бұрын

woah great

@ignitechacha861

Жыл бұрын

i also experienced same as yours :)

I like this corner of youtube, its so pleasant and mannerly lol.

I like that at the beginning she acknowledges the importance of looks. I think we should also acknowledge the importance of voice tones and volumes because I started forwarding up the video so fast just after a few seconds 😆

I’ve always admired your videos and the calm demeanour but i am loving that the vibes of this channel are getting more and more warm and intimate, how you’ve improved the quality over the years and the topics, it’s all so good!❤

I love Lana so much!! To me, you're like a big sister giving us advice & chatting with us when we're struggling haha

a huge one that i feel is overlooked a lot is someone's voice. This can make or break a person's attractiveness I feel

Love this video, makes sense and helps reflect on oneself. This video gave me the motivation to stop hiding my happiness about life (even if sometimes things are yucky), life is/can be so beautiful.

gurl you're literally the supreme energy here on my feed... idk abt others, but your video content is really worth my time lana !!!! it's really worth everybody's time 💕

Awesome tips on how to be more attractive, Lana! Love this! Being attractive is so much more than looking good! Thanks again for another inspiring video!

Woow, such a great content. No sugarcoating straight to the point. Definitely looking forward to part 2

YESSSSS...part 2 please. I do really enjoy these types of your videos. Short and on point

Hello how r u doing Just came by here to tell you that in this video u were incredibly honest and open about ur struggles with self confidence which i hugely appreciate And u give good advices about it 2 which is really really good Keep up with the good work and have a nice day 😊

I feel an incredible lightness while watching the video, your way of talking is so calming. great video, thank you!

This is the first time I have seen your channel, I don't really like to sit and listen to youtube videos without doing something else at the same time but I was mesmerized by your voice! Your video is very relaxing and informative

Yes, please make a part 2! This was so so lovely. I’m glad you focused on the things you did-your appearance, taking care of yourself, grooming, hair, good oral health, being healthy, your smell, etc, are all soo important. Some additional things for part two: people who have interests/hobbies/passions. It’s soo unattractive when people say they are boring and do nothing but work, sleep, eat & play video games, Lol. Having interests immediately makes a person interesting. I also love to read, and I find men who read to be sooo attractive. I don’t even care what they read, but there’s something so sexy about a man reading.

Yes, please do a part 2! Very well conveyed points in this one.

Really loves this video. Also I like your hair and your gesture. Basically, you’re like the definition of perfect. Waiting for part 2 anyway!

Part 2 would be great, especially for habits that people may not always be aware of ❤

Love the whole vibe of this video, so much positivity. I like your hair, it looks really nice!

i randomly saw your video and it made my mood low to suddenly calm and relaxed ..i was ovethinking about certain things but even though i didnt need any counselling on being attractive but listening to you reminded me that i have my own life to take care of ..thank youu so much LANA , love from INDIA 💞💞

Part 2 please!! I love your videos, they really boost my mood!

As a pilates instructor I can confirm that your posture makes people so drawn to you! Everyone slouches over so when you don't, it's a rarity that people are naturally attracted to 😊

Part 2 please, I really love your content Lana. It makes me become a more delicate and thoughtful person which is my self-growth goal now. Once again, thank you so much. I wish you lots of luck in life.

Hi Ms. Lana,do a second part of this video pretty please? 😭 It's just so good to watch your videos especially like this content. Thanks in advance Ms. Lana 😚

part 2 would be great! enjoyed this video too, thank you so much lana!!

you should definitely shoot the second part. This is an amazing work. You are like a sister who talks sincerely, thank you ❤❤🌞🌞

@indirabaidildaeva6194

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpyszMONZcq1mrg.html

Very much been figuring this out myself over the course over 2022 after doing 12 rounds with anxiety and depression, so thank you for this, thank you for confirming that I at least am making the right steps, even if I'm not 100% there yet. 😁 You just earned another subscriber. 😁

1 - Be born beautiful.

The health thing is arguably the most important because, as you say, it's a fundamental instinct, but it makes me so sad because I'm chronically ill and there's literally nothing I can do about that. When I was healthy, it reflected in every aspect of me, and people were drawn to me back then. Nowadays I have dull skin, tired eyes, my head is too foggy to engage in conversation like I once could, I don't have the energy to work out how I used to, or to even invest in my individuality like I did before. I kind of just have to survive now. I feel so much less human and I think I'm seen as less human, too.

@lexidvnt1979

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry you feel like that...I struggle with low self-esteem due to the same problem....

@Star_shine7777

Жыл бұрын

Guys, being healthy is something we cannot always control but that does not mean we should lower how good we feel about ourselves. It's definitely difficult but have faith in yourself, believe even if you think nothing can change your situation still believe and trust me, if you start having even a little, very tiny sliver of optimism, you'll start feeling better and eventually good about yourself, you'll accept yourself as you are and once that happens you will naturally attract other people The thing you would want is to love yourself as you are. It's ok if you are not in the best of your health or to not have things you want, you did not choose it purposely and if someone judges you for that, better people are waiting for you and trust me there are It really starts with you, with how you feel about yourself. You don't have to think about others Care about and love yourself Accept yourself as you are I definitely know how difficult what i said may sound, but that's how things are. And if you can help yourself and get over your insecurities, kudos to you, it's gonna be worth it

@sofia-gn9dk

Жыл бұрын

its literally me, I'm cronically ill and I feel so bad about it

@follow_the_fox9432

7 ай бұрын

Ugh, so sorry you are in this situation, too, I am also chronically ill and relate to every word you wrote, literally...

WE NEED PART TWO. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO 💖

You’re so professional in front of the camera , i be like damn, lana it’s fascinating to see your growth at it (i mean you’ve looked good on camera before too, but now you’re just like a professional

Great video Lana! Amazing take on a topic that I believe every young adult thinks about, whether consciously or subconsciously 👌

I feel like we don’t talk enough about how beautiful Lana is! 😍

@aksourov4632

Жыл бұрын

I felt that too 🙂. She is really beautiful 🖤

@geertwilders5798

Жыл бұрын

Literally... I was just scrolling through videos, and seeing her face on the thumbnail smiling is simply a sight of beauty to be admired. Some people are blessed with such a beautiful appearance.

@junainahrahman4156

Жыл бұрын

That's like, half of the comments in almost every one of her videos. But yes, she is gorgeous.

@cheddarsunchipsyes8144

Жыл бұрын

Alllahhhh

@ShleraM

Жыл бұрын

She is kurdish :)

it’s crazy how much hair can change how you look. i went through a phase where i tried to use heat to style my hair (that and i worked at a pool) so my hair became very damaged so i cut most of it off in hopes of starting over. at times i don’t feel very feminine because i’ll wear baggy clothes and darker shades so now I’m trying to balance my wardrobe to still be me but also more feminine

@joseejohn1

Жыл бұрын

Ikr I totally agree with you

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we need definitely part 2 please.

Lanaaa, please share your hair care and blow out routine. They look amazing !!

love your videos lana! and yes to a part 2 💛

I just love her video aesthetic. Like its just so soft n pleasing to look at while listening to her voice...

I love how you got straight to the point 👏🏼👏🏼

Yes we do want part two of this

you inspire me every day with your content, i appreciate it

The way u said the word Nope and the music playing in the background was awesome and it makes me feel too good

great tips! looking forward to part 2 🔥

I'd love to see a part two to this video ☺️💛

Part 2 please. I love you Lana!

Congrats on 1mili Lana!!!! Love you❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you for this video!

we’d love a part 2!

Great tips Lana! Please make part 2 :)

9:00 I agree humor is attractive but, I think that depends...Some people make mean and rude jokes and that's a turn off. Humor can be used in a good way and in a bad way.

You always inspire myself, Lana. You are wonderful person

I can only agree to your list :) It doesn't always have to be a great makeover, some little tweaks here and there will do just fine! Not only will it change how one is perceived by other, but more importantly also by yourself! I have hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating), which makes it very hard to wear what I'd really feel comfortable in when in public. That's why I mostly keep my old out-washed stuff that make sweat invisible, but make me feel even more bad. Wearing clothes that look good on me *and* make great sweat stains invisible make me feel so much better, and I think that does show in the end :)

i can’t get over how perfect ur hair is

@LanaBlakely

Жыл бұрын

You're too sweet

she said it, care about yourself and how you look it changes so much. fax!.

i love how realistic you are, i love hearing you talk

I would love a part 2!

So thoughtfully titled!

Thank you for this video. I discovered many things, and this made me feel a little relieved and happy ✨✨

I would bs absolutely happy if you made a part two

Sometimes i don’t really need ur advices but i’m still watching whole ur videos to see ur smile, hear ur voice, that’s make me feel better. I’m pretty sure i’m not the only one who feel like that 😊😊

Would be more than glad to have a part two Lana :) thank you for this

@akbargabbar505

Жыл бұрын

My most favorite LanA💘👸❤

@lana Blakely love the content of your videos! Serves more like a fresh revision of stuff I already know but presented in a much better way ! If possible, could you share your wardrobe essential tips + where do you shop your clothes from?

Let's appreciate her beauty as well guys💕💕

Lana, I really would appreciate if you upload your hair routine with an hair tutorial of your wavy classy hairstyle. It's so beautiful!

@LanaBlakely

Жыл бұрын

Sorry it's taking so long but I do have a hair video coming up :)

We NEED a part 2 ♥️

would love to see a part 2:))

Great video! Looking forward to Part 2! I hope you have a beautiful Sunday Lana! :)

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

👍👍

Firstly, you are AWESOME! unexpectedly, came across this wonderful channel. A little tip from me, sometimes being attractive doesn't always lie on the physical aspect. It also lie on the way we think, the way we speak, and the way we treat others. The more better it is, the more attractive we automatically become. : )

@darleenbrown3906

Жыл бұрын

Yes be kind ( beings 💕 is a beautiful 😍 Thing so be kind smile 😃😊

part 2, Lana, please! Thank you!!

Thank you, this reminds me that I need to work on these!!

Part 2, please ☺️

Just found your channel. You are an angel from heaven

@LanaBlakely

Жыл бұрын

welcome :))

You are correct. My life is changing.. i can feel it. Thank you so much

I'm really looking forward to part 2

One trick I learnt is giving a genuine compliment to the person you meet. Instantly puts a smile on their face and breaks the ice.

Thanks Lana for all ur work and just wanted to appreciate you for ur efforts :)

@LanaBlakely

Жыл бұрын

many thanks!! :)

@sohailshabir9797

Жыл бұрын

@@LanaBlakely i

Love your vibe, thank you! Can you make a tutorial to style your hair like in this video please? I'm in love with it 😊😊

Thanks for saying that, just be important is be yourself and happy for what you are... ❤

Focusing on being attractive is a bad starting point, yeah first Impressions matter, but that doesn't matter in the long run if you are all persona.

1. Be tall 2. Have a symmetrical face 3. Good bone structure 4. Good eye area 5. Full head of hair. Little to no signs of balding or thinning 6. Dress well (have enough money fr clothes that fit and look good So uh, have good genes, mostly.

@shouryatri2114

Жыл бұрын

Also exercise having a fit body is really attractive..

@tanyakaur8648

Жыл бұрын

Wtf is that and the girl is rude,unkind and don't give a damn to you and your family than it's okay ?

@tanyakaur8648

Жыл бұрын

@@shouryatri2114 don't rely on outside looks god damn you guys are so annoying what if she's gold digger

@shouryatri2114

Жыл бұрын

@@tanyakaur8648 but what if she's not a gold digger and a genuinely good person..

@tanyakaur8648

Жыл бұрын

@@shouryatri2114 beauty is not matter you have to look for somebody you can trust and she can brings better in you rather than depending upon looks which never be permanent!!

I love you Lana! Thank you for your videos! 🥰❤

Your hair looks amazing!

A good way to think about how to be more "attractive" (which is quite different from just being beautiful/hot/handsome) is to think: If you met someone who was really physically attractive/ beautiful/ handsome, etc., what qualities could they have would make you NOT want to be around them? You'd probably list things like rudeness, arrogance, boring to talk to, no sense of humour... keep listing things, and right there you have a perfect list of what someone can do to be more attractive...

Always amazing to see my fav KZreadr uploads 💖

@LanaBlakely

Жыл бұрын

:'))

Ye I would like a part 2 please, thanks Lana🙌

Hi Lana! Love this video! All great down to earth points. My favorite line was when you said, "put some icing on that cake". LOL! That totally resonated with me since I'm all about accessories & makeup to spice up an outfit. I pretty much agree with all your messages especially the one where one should be confident not arrogant. I believe that many people may confuse the 2. However, sometimes there can be a fine line between the 2 as well.

Thank you so much for such an amazing video Lana! Love you

@akbargabbar505

Жыл бұрын

She's S0oooooo gorgeous🌷👸 top Vloger in my heard💘💞❤❤❤

Yep...This is so good.....Why not a Part 2 ♥🤩

yes, please, i'm all in for a second part 🌟

I just wanted to say that you have a really nice, soothing and calm voice. I wouldn't be surprised if a company approached you to do a voice-over for a relaxing nature video/commercial or to record an audiobook :) Have a nice sunday!

Thank you Lana for this video ❤

What attracts me (just my opinion😊): 1-Making me laugh 2- Having a kind look/gaze (I can have a crush on someone because their gaze seems loving and trustworthy) 3- Feeling protected: you don't need to be strong but as an anxious person I really enjoy peaceful, calming persons (weirdly one of the most calming person I know has a life full of twists and turns😏) 4- A good looking face 5- Did I mention humour ? 7- General knowledge, knowing surprising facts that will amaze me 6- Being fit That's all for me :)

@tanyakaur8648

Жыл бұрын

What do you mean by good looking face is she need to be fair and have good features wtf was that

@loganathanranggasamy1643

Жыл бұрын

Ok 👌🏼 good relationship with you congrats to you im telling to you truly I'm married man my age 63 my wife she Filipino 35 years House Wife ok I'm needing only one good partner firstly I'm don't cheeting any one

@alexandraapolline8434

Жыл бұрын

@@tanyakaur8648 Hey! First of all I am a woman who only pursues heterosexual relationships thus I am describing features I find attractive on men. Moreover, in my country (France), being fair isn't a beauty norm, just a feature shared by most (although different ethnicities are also French, we are mostly white). Finally, finding some features appealing is just personal taste and totally normal.

@AnasKhan-py2cp

Жыл бұрын

exactly the point here is our choice.

@ManuelSteiner

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandraapolline8434 Is your list in order of importance to you? Asking bc of my girlfriend, our relationship could be better