07 Guidelines For Ladka Ladki Before Marriage Is Fixed
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Kindly help me out
1.Marry a earning & working girl. 2.Don't marry a dumb. 3.Don't marry a RICH who doesn't earn or work.(girl & boy) 4.Ladki is izzat is directly proportional to husband ki izzat which he gets from his household. 5.Meeting time pe he/she should be opinionated. 6.11:25 important point for girls NOTE IT. 7.Ask the girl if she wants kids or not opinion is important 8.Expectations kya hai from each other. 9.Kitna laga rahe ho shaadi mein.
@rahusphere
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Thx bro.
@onceajordan
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3. Isn’t this also applicable for girls. Papa ki pari types.
@okfine_33
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@@onceajordan i mentioned dear now sorry next time onwards will write with more appropriate words ☺️
@ta313
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Thanks a ton for this brother !!!!! ❣️❣️❣️
@shwetathakur4707
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@@onceajordan it work for girl tooi recently reject a boy his faimly were rich but he didn't take any single responsibility .even he after his dad death he didn't take responsibility of mom and sisters. I understand he is dumb kind of person with no opinion. My dad didn't liston to me he only see servants working in big home and 20 akad farm and 4 wheeler Thank god they understand i m too intelligent and strong independent earner to be controlled by in laws they reject me and i was saved from force marriage.
Sir, after watching your videos I feel getting married is more tougher than cracking UPSE exam 😊
@amitrajput6904
Жыл бұрын
Relatble .
@sapbwguru
11 ай бұрын
What do you expect ? it's 2023
@excelscientist5041
10 ай бұрын
Bhai iske age Saare exam fail h, kyoki divorce cases bahut bad gye h. Divorce cases sab barbaad hota h
@abhaysoni926
9 ай бұрын
Aur bcche paida kr kiya toh mtlb upsc ka baap paida hogya 😂😂😂😂
@sunitasingh-oo9mz
6 ай бұрын
It is!😂
Golden advice Guruji. I wish such clarity was available 6-7 years ago! Parents are also not clear on this so they cannot guide the children as well. Atleast the future people who are getting married are helped by your valuable advice. My pranam to you!
@sudarshanamurli5310
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Thankyou ji l am a retired teacher and regularly watch your videos You put your points across so convincingly that we get ready to follow them lts like collecting diamonds falling in the form of words from your mouth You are doing a valuable social service as we are being enlightened on various issues on a regular basis May God bless you Sir with good health and happiness always
@rashmiwassan7975
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Guruji pranaam..Tusi khush kar dita..so much clarity of thoughts you put in❤
@preethishetty3025
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Thank you ..Sango bhai Saab...half of our life is passed away thinking about what we should have done at that particular time trying to strike a balance between expectations and aspiration...and here you are like a good Samaritan hand holding us through this very hazy path...God bless
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@sharadhabharat901
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हम हैं आप के साथ ही. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@anshuthakur5393
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@@sharadhabharat901 mtlb ? 🤔
@radhe.devotee..
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Kya aap mujhe bata sakte hai agar koi ladki working hai 90,000 uski salary hai to kya usko apni job quit kar deni chahiye shadi ke leya agar sab pressure banane.
@anshuthakur5393
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@@radhe.devotee.. बिल्कुल नहीं ! अगर आपकी शादी ultra rich family में हो रही हो तब भी , अमित सर की नई case study same इसी topic पर है । 29 मिनट की है पूरा देखिये Confusion दूर हो जायेगी । Highly recommend video for you ishita ji 😊🙏
@krishna_raj9331
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@@radhe.devotee.. no
Sir I have seen many of my non working friends and cousins with no earning potential who got married to rich husbands and getting recognition through their husband's income. They are enjoying their life like anything. Their family members are also proud of their daughters.
@Raju_K
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Mam, that's because they are providing what the man wants and both are having their needs met which is leading to better relationship. You are earning, so your mindset will be different.
@PS-oy1el
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That's their life. Don't compare urself with anyone n don't let anyone devalue ur worth. Take charge of ur life n try to find suitable partner for urself. Their r many ladies whose only achievement is finding a wealthy partner n nothing wrong in that but don't let them put u inferior for that reason. Everybody has their own journey.
@utopiancity8138
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Jo bhi ho... Still they are financially dependent on their husbands. Shadi pehle acchi hi chalti but after some years chize bigarti hein. Ek na ek din husband ya fir husband ki family usko kabhi kisi tarah sunayega hi ya fir koyi uske khud k friend hi usko bol degi ki these things that you got because of your husband only. Abhi ladki me self respect hogi to wo chize chubhti hein. So better earn yourself before getting married and even after marriage, split the household bills , household chores etc. Thus they can lead a happy life without pressurising the other.
@JackSparrow-zj4hj
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Mostly if the girl is good looking, a bit intelligent (optional generally), loyal, somewhat supportive and generally not a pain in the ass...most guys won't have any problem spoiling her after marriage
@Raju_K
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@@JackSparrow-zj4hj But that's the problem. To other women they think if this woman is getting all stuff they should get a lot more.
सही बात है मैने अपनी रिश्तेदारी में देखा है, अचानक पैसा आने से मां बाप सातवें आसमान पर हो गए, उनके लड़के ही थे वो भी बिगड़ गए, शादी का समय आया तो कोई ढंग का परिवार अपनी लड़की देने को तैयार नहीं था, इसलिए बिचौलियों को पटा कर दूर दराज की गांव की लड़कियां,तो सौतेली मां की बेटी ऐसी कमजोर हालत की लड़कियों से शादी ऐसा ही प्रभाव जमा कर जैसा आपने कहा है शादियां हुई है लड़कियों की हालत मत पूछो नौकरानी जैसा व्यवहार होता है,रोज लड़ाई, पिटाई होती है प्रॉपर्टी सब सास ससुर के कब्जे में है, लडके मांगते है तो मां बाप कहते है तुम्हारे बस की नही है ये सब संभालना पहले सुधारो बहुयो से कहा जाता है की तुमसे अपने पतियों को भी नही सुधरा जा रहा है,अब आप बताए लडके तो पहले शराबी, निकम्मे, आलसी,ओरातबाज, तो मां बाप ने बना दिए तो चार दिन की , हालत की मारी बच्ची कैसे सुधार लेगी, मुझे बहुत गुस्सा आता है, लड़कियो को भी थोड़ी बहुत चमक धमक दिखा कर बच्चो का वास्ता देकर मुंह बंद कर देते है ,
1 marry an earning women 2 marry strong intelligent logical women 3 dont run for biig money filled house if ur man is jobless n spending his father's money 4 marry a logical opiniated man who has a stand 5 avoid butterfly nature girl 6 discuss biig milestones , kids , ration , bills etc 7 discuss shaadi budget between both parties
Arranged marriage ke pehli meeting mein, kacche kon dhoyga, budget kya hai, fir to ho gayi shaadi 😁
@skalrask8097
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😊😀😊😀
@aagamshah2005
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😆😆
@homenhearth9714
11 ай бұрын
Yor comment is really funny
@shibooster
10 ай бұрын
Bas itne me tune shaadi karli...?? Great!!
@kundu.M12
9 ай бұрын
😂😂
We need video on case studies.
My god the thing of not marrying a rich guy who inherited but not created that wealth is something I was saved from that five years back had come so close to it and yes all symptoms described are so true.... One who stands for nothing will fall for anything.
Sir if everything else about respective families are fine, as a doctor I believe both families should talk about their health problems too. Any family history of diabetes, blood pressure, asthma, cancer or blood related disorders. Both bride and groom should get their complete health check-up. I see many couples fighting in my clinic because they didn't knew they would have to spend so much money, especially lifestyle related diseases.
@shwetathakur4707
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Right
@wingsoftechnology5302
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Correct
@Paritostalks
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You are right, even I think madical history and health care should be a part of match making discussions. People focus on kundli talks about family history but neglect health issues. Full body checkup medical report of both bride and groom should be asked for.
@sanketmudgalkar9500
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This point has been covered by Sir already...but maybe missed in this video.
@trident1409
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also if they have any blood borne diseases or not.
Excellent sir. I already showed my daughter who is an auditor. 👏👏👏👏 to your efforts to bring the much needed change in the society. Keep on your honest, practical efforts sir. 🙏🙏🙏
सर आप बिल्कुल सही बोल रहे है , आखिरी point 100% correct
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan 🙏 A very educative and practical video that deserves 10/10
I can 1000% relate with all the points you have given. Please bring video’s covering real situation/cases so that we can relate more
Sir ji very interesting topic with super knowledge. Thank you so much
Hello sir , the point you have mentioned about marrying in a rich family went straight to my heart. My parents also set me up with the same family but at the right time I realised that it will never be my money, we female can only take a full right on husband money and can ask for without hesitation. Thankgod I realised it at the right time and took my steps back. But not accepting that relation my parents set me up with really hurt them a lot they started abusing and torturing me, the only thing they were saying ki raaj karti tum bahut waha tumko ghumate wo log that family also forced my dad to generate my passport and said we will send them foreign for honeymoon. Whatever things were happening that time I was getting really frustrated. But my instincts were not allowing me to accept that rich family. Today i saw your video and I’m so happy that my decision was correct. Thankyou sir for doing amazing work.
@SangoLifeSutras
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@WHATinTHE_WORLD
10 ай бұрын
are you married now or single ?
@Khayal_Ehsaas
10 ай бұрын
@@WHATinTHE_WORLD I’m single. My dad has bounded me in the house. So struggling for my career.
@parthapradipsaikia7675
9 ай бұрын
All the best for your upcoming life and all the best for your career be brave and you will succeed 👍
@BLESSED_BY_GURUKRUPA
8 ай бұрын
Husband salary me se pese de jaroori nahi he....
Sadar charan sparsh sir, eye opening video..thanks for your valuable guidance.
great advice sir aapko viral ho jana chaiye poore india mein
Beautiful, more such videos are needed, society is changing, and the older members in the family have no say nowadays, so all such things should be discussed before the marriage rituals,to avoid confusion later in life,
Sirjee you have terrific, clarity, honesty and courage.🙏🙏🙏
chacha apka ka ye jo honest answer dene ka tarika hai vo gajab hai. Bhut achi aur smjhdar bate kehte ho ap. Thanks ye video lane ke liye.
Sir, really great advice. We have seen that pain. Really it is a big lesson. Thank you so much for your advice on humanity🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Unique content sir. Practical and helpful also.
These are very normal guidelines... In fact in Maharashtra every family regardless of religion practice the ritual of "Baithak" where things like eg. guideline no. 5 onwards are discussed. Then they cut the Beatlenut (supari) and the date of engagement and marriage is fixed. Only the family elders are entertained in these meetings and no outsider is allowed. Good guidelines 👍
@prathameshligam9003
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And most important all questions are asked in front of both boy and girl Last sentence of discussion is comman " Je kahi vicharacha ahe atach vicharun ghe nantar amala sangu nako "
@dkp4343
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@@prathameshligam9003Nantar Amala sangu naka😂😂😂
@shrgai8821
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@@prathameshligam9003 😄👍 Ho... Mi experience kela ahe😁
@friendshiprocks8673
9 ай бұрын
@@shrgai8821plz translate in hindi Or English
@shrgai8821
8 ай бұрын
@@friendshiprocks8673 translation: "Jo koi bhi baat puchhni hai wo abhi hi puchho.... Badme bolna maat ki pehle humne kuch bola nahi"
Guruji aap muje 17 saal pehle kyoun nahi mile 😊 really amazing perspective you have 🙏
Every word is exactly true and I also followed that in today's world girl should be independent and every thing should be discussed before marring u every point is very learnful for it
Superb very nice thanks alot for this video 😊🙏
All points are knowledgeable. Thanks
Sir acha laga advise sunke , I am 29 yr old central government officer 80 k salary with good body physique and height 6’ and other things also sorted , but when we met other party and find girl is not working , still we agree and say yes to proceed further , but one thing my elder brother , he is handling the purposel as father is passed away , kaisi shadi karogi , then they got offended by these words , and withdraw their purposal , I don’t know what is wrong with the society , when I was unemployed no one is looking for me, even after having good acedmeics and good fitness level.
@vishwajeetbhau
10 ай бұрын
same here. buddy... now you must be feeling proud ki itne sare rishte aa rhe hai😂
Sir ke content ke saath sabke comments bhi interesting hote hain, its like case studies
Pura video dekhne me meri smile kaho nahi ruki it's 💯 true maza bhi aaya n Gyan bhi
Awesome laga...Kabhi socha nahi tha
Phenomenal video Sir, its a clear cut guidelines for our future 💑 couple.
Golden Advice Guru ji Thanks
Well said sir d best thing I liked was about both purchasing a house
The points you are putting forward is very logical and I am sure your videos are helping so many people 🎉 I am grateful that I found this channel when I needed this the most ❤
sir 🙏 your valuable advice help me a lot,thank you sir
Sir You are very practical and views are very logical.
Sir thanks 🙏 for sharing and guiding please keep sharing more
. Great Sir aap ek dum iss generation ko samjte ho👏 specially jo travel wali baat kahi aapne haha. Very nice
Sir ji Namashkar, aapki batai gayee sari advice bahut jaruri aur useful hai
Guruji bht bht dhanyawad 🙏
माँ,, रिश्ते दा र,,,, अपनी पसंद करते हुए,,,, शादी कर देते हैं,,,,, भुगत ना लड़की को पड़ता है,,,, रियल फैक्ट है💓💓💓💓
I’m yet to get married… I will follow all this 🎉
11:40 40,000?!!!!... chavanni bhi nhi dega. Aapki income zero, aap financially fully dependent. Helpless bechare... fir rona zindagi bhar... saans bhi nhi le paoge apni mrzi se.... meine bhugta hai ye glti krke. Sir ki videos se inspire hoke ghar se kaam start kiya aaj 10 saal baad respect milni chalu huyi nhi khud ki nhi kr pati thi respect kisi aur se kya expect kro?
We need more videos on this topic.
Bahut acchi jaankari di aapne sir
Bohot sahi baaten karte hai sir aap...
Sir jabse apka channel recommendations me aaya hai....mind khulta ja rha
I love this man for his clarity
You are great sir i at the of age of 25 i am getting very good knowlege on time before getting married.
very good advice sir..bina jane maine isme se 2 kaam kiye hain...but i wish app ki advice 5 years pehle milti mujhe to will be much better..for me..but still thanks good video and good advice..
Superbbbbbbbbbb Video Sir!.........Thanks for opening many eyes!..........Sir I request, please make a video, how to convince parents for an intercaste marriage, in a middle class society
Great Amitsangwan ji , salute and Appreciate you sir ,
I m jobless but I will earn for sure ...and whatever sir has said is correct ...I have seen two marriages failing badly ....for reason sir have said ...I know money is important and I work towards getting job ...or will see other option
@theballadofumang1748
8 ай бұрын
Just keep learning whatever suits there are 2 many jobs in market
I am superblessed to have you sir. Thank you sir for speaking things so real and clear.
2nd point is very very important inteligent and strong partner
Very practical and to the point talk.
Doesn't matter boy or girl rich or poor depend on their nature behavior.
My views: 1. Families on both sides should be from similar background: service- service n business- business. No Cross over either side. 2. Antecedent checks of both a MUST despite referrals on either sides promoting rishta...3. Boy education Academics should ve uninterrupted and from Good colleges( not from private medical engineering colleges)...4. Metropolitan City born girls should NEVER marry boy from smaller cities or towns...5. Horoscope matching should be a MUST 6. Girls n boys meeting before clarity on above 5 points should be a strict NO NO...7. imposing parents especially of boy side should never ve encouraged to cross limits..better to disconnect any such proceedings instead of life long suffering to the girl...8. Boy should be earning more than the girl and should be either equally qualified or better higher qualified and that too before the mutual meetings are started...9. Boys who drink smoke eat non vegetarian meals should never be pursued by girls who do not possess similar traits
@hatebreeder999
8 ай бұрын
Lolz so many rules
@iamnoob7593
7 ай бұрын
What about children ? if only one person wants children , As a guy i dont want child , But most women in india want children.
Please Make a video on Girlfriend - Boyfriend topic... ⭐
Sir accha samjhaa rahe ho
Sir ,you have a deep knowledge of relationship and all your tips are very useful and practical.
Some of advices are good to be followed which we did not follow earlier in children marriage.
I do appreciate your hard work but marriage is not a necessity. And the way it has been failing currently, a definite no fromy end at least! Focus on yourself, build a carrer and enjoy the financial independence 👍
Last wala point solid laga sir!
Sir u are doing a wonderful social work!!
Sir , your video is so real and practical
So true It happened same with me Married in same way but no sukhhhh……of husband Kehne ko kothi n alllll & ladka bilkul fattuuuu & worst happened he himself ran to Canada left me alone here & a lot happened with me Suffered alot
@anandmishra5342
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Sister fattu in the sense how?
@assysingh6364
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@@anandmishra5342 he doesn't stand up for his wife in front of his family. He is busy acting the good son of the family and making his wife look bad .
@divinesoul1313
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Vo apko Canada Lejane k bare me baat krta hai to thik h nhi..to chup chap apne ghar bapis aajao...don't waste your time there anymore...kyunki uska Agar kisi or se affair hogya..apke aane wale precious years khrab hojayenge.
@fatmanfrommillennium7369
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Ap usko call krke aise khna ''undy bundy sundy agar tu india vaps nhi aya toh teri ma r_^di''
@antbr3058
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Goldigger banogi and sirf paisa dekh kar shaadi karogi madam ji to Aisa hi hoga 😂😂😂
Last point agree totally! Just wish had known all about this 13 years ago!
Wounderful Sir i also do this before marriage 😊😅
Sir, You are fulfilling the needs of many youngsters who lag elder people in their network for genuine advice.. Thanks a lot for the content
excellent insights 👍🏻
I want offline counselling from you Pls help I am 37 but not able to undertand husband, his expectations and respect
Excellent thoughts 👍🏻
Honestly speaking sir...I do discuss almost all of these points except the last one...bcos waha tak baat pohnchi nhi kbi. However what my experience has been is that women nowadays only want to enjoy the perks but don't want to own the responsibilities.
Just glad that I'm getting knowledge from you at this age,in my mid 20s . Thank GOD WE HAVE YOU IN YT. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
Kindly make a video on love marriage, what bf and gf should do to convince parents of they're from different casts etc, which things should a bf keep in mind before marriage, how should he build his career, what's the perfect age for both to get married etc?
@onlinework8558
9 ай бұрын
Never get married
Sir please don't stop ur marriage series
7 बिंदु 👍। भारत में 80% हिंदी लोग हिंदी जानते हैं। पूर्ण हिंदी होता तो ज्यादा अच्छा होता।🙏
Hope my father had such lvl of clarity for us
Sir, your advise too practical.
But in India boys parents don’t spend their money on marriage.
@divinesoul1313
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Right...I asked my bf ki roka simple krna hai ya fir ring ceremony....reply me mila...dekho lo...vo to ladki walo ka hie hota hai jaise krna hai.
@varshas8745
Жыл бұрын
Who said? In my marriage both spent 50:50 . They settled before marriage
@mehra764
7 ай бұрын
In my cousin marriage Uncle spent 3 lakhs on marriage Marriage of son/daughter is special for every parents
highly informaive sir huge fan of yours
Wonderful video sir
Shaadi ke Baad bhi job karegi iska kiya guarantee haay?
Sir, I have joined your whatsapp group since long but not getting any notifications. Could you please advise the steps to get consultation from you?
Great suggestions sr
Very nicely said......all are correct....
Ideal boy : 28-30 yrs, professionally qualified MBA,Btec, 7 Fig salary, with a 3 Bed flat in SD, SB, Gurgaon, Luxury car, No responsibility of old parents or siblings & rest all 50-50 hoga marriage ke Bad 😅😅😂😂
All good points. However, what is your view on pre marriage investigations/ antecedent checks of boy n the girl ? Girls parents avoiding asking neighbors fearing it's backlash on rishta....also how much importance you give on janampatri / kundali matching...?
Good Information Sir
Pre marrage agreements must - safety first - family co faver wo..men and make you pay premium maintenance - today life home are automated ( washing matchine ) and keep records of experience (Family co..urt requirements )
Amazing points!!
Lovely video .if boys parents are making a separate house on the other floor for the couple ,should that amt also be included as marriage expence
Thank you very much 🙏🏼
Sir make video on unschooling children 🙏