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@KIIXI

Жыл бұрын

Logical content!! , content toh bahut hai internet peh 🙏🏼🙏🏼😂

@santoshgupta1561

Жыл бұрын

Very good content.....but do you think today's youngsters are open to such dialogue...I have serious doubt .What is the way out...

@jyotisolanki7804

Жыл бұрын

​@@KIIXI😊

@vanapalliramakrishna8487

Жыл бұрын

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@SachKaSaath772

9 ай бұрын

​@@santoshgupta1561apna kaam banta

My brother's marriage is intercaste ,my friend's marriage is interstate, my one another friend's marriage is interreligion all marriages are running successfully however my cousin's got married within caste is fighting court case for divorce, cultural and caste differences can be managed however personal difference cannot be managed , personal difference is main reason for unsuccessful marriage, so marry the person with whom u share compatibility and understanding do not give much importance to caste , religion and region.

@manojitdebnath3177

Жыл бұрын

I fully agree with you. I have seen intercaste and inter-religious couples successfully living their married life for the last 30 years.

@pnnp8757

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how many Muslim women will agree to have inter-religion marriage. Secondly to do inrer-religion marriage they need to 1st keep their burqas aside. So hindu girls need to stop promoting inter-religion marriage. We are from a country which has gone through a partition on religious lines which in turn was the result of demographic change. Muslims of Pakistan are ex-Hindus but that did not stop them from asking for partition. So deepshikha please wake up and don't be so naive.

@subhodip3064

Жыл бұрын

U r wrong...maximum indians are hhappy marrying in their caste..the girl who goes to other caste suffers.....boys mother is unsatisfied.....and u have to face backlash from other society

@supriyasingh1565

Жыл бұрын

Jo log Pak chuke hai apni caste ke relatives se vahi log intercaste kr rahe hai because apni caste me relatives shadi ke time pagal kr dete hai and aane vali Bahu court case.jahan compatibility ho vahi bacche life partner la re Hain this is good

@supriyasingh1565

Жыл бұрын

​@@subhodip3064in these years mother in laws are adjusting according to their son n Bahu(of other caste).pahle vali saas badle leti thi

I was a Punjabi girl married to a south Indian , now separated Yes food is a very imp part of our lives , you can eat exotic food 7-8 days max , afterwards you wanna eat your desi food because that’s what satisfies your soul. Someone who ate rice once a week to have rice 3 times a day as a torture of sorts If I cooked my own food or gave it my husband they felt so threatened that I am trying to make that guy Punjabi.Even if I tried following their culture , their way of doing pooja , etc it was always pointed out that how I did it wrong , imagine they would bad mouth me in front of me as I cudnt understand their language. My husbands family was never interested in teaching me their language, it was only my office colleagues who taught me that language. Yes south Indians may be very educated ,soft spoken compared to north people, but they are hundred times more conservative with regards to their culture and traditions to the point of being suffocating. Most of the time I was adjusting , compromising .My identity as an individual had just vanished .Life just became about following their lifestyle. Imagine my educated husband left me outside my office entrance at 7AM as by 9AM Solar eclipse was occurring and he was not ready to have me on road at 9AM. I stood 2 hours outside my office. Intercaste , inter religion marriages do well when both the partners are staying alone abroad. As aboard both wont be able to follow their culture and food habits , so it is more easy. I have loads of IT friends who have done these inter marriages and are settled abroad happily. and yes parents should talk calmly reasoning out the things rather than just shouting and getting annoyed

@mad_in_2020

Жыл бұрын

I am a Punjabi girl was married to a South Indian. His family and relatives were outright abusive towards my culture. I always loved South Indian culture but after the filthy things they kept saying about my community, culture, I feel very hurt. Outwardly they were very traditional but reality was they were not spiritual inside. And yes they wanted as much dowry as possible. Not at all simple and traditional people as they like to show.

@dovarksan1770

Жыл бұрын

@@mad_in_2020 Yes very true they are religious not spiritual , all their prayers are for getting something from God , very greedy.

@agnihotrivikas007

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your guidance, I'm 25 years old and I will take this as advice for my upcoming decision. Happy new year to you

@dovarksan1770

Жыл бұрын

@@agnihotrivikas007 Thank you...marrying is easy but getting a divorce takes ages..so please marry very wisely , love isnt the only factor in marriage as shown in our garbage movies.

@agnihotrivikas007

Жыл бұрын

@@dovarksan1770 Thank you very much for your guidance. 🙂🙂❤️

I am a South Indian girl married to a North indian man. Yes, there are frictions surrounding cultures. For eg- i find North indians loud and speak with cuss words in normal conversations also. They're not bad people though.... But the good thing is that me and my husband married quite late in our 30's and we do understand the cultural differences and take our own time to respond to such differences giving each other time, space as well as freedom. There is no parental interference also. I guess marrying late does have a few positives also.

@nitinreddy1592

4 ай бұрын

Lmao as if you got another option at 30

@shashank5322

3 ай бұрын

Then why are you here? why are u watching this

I can speak for my experience - I am a Gujarati, born and bred in India for the first 20 years of life. Had a forceful arranged marriage within community at the age of 19. There were problems in the marriage from day one, but no parents/relatives came forward to help, talk with husband/in-laws to bring a solution, etc. Everybody acted dumb, blind, and oblivious. Finally took the decision, and got divorced after almost a decade on my own. Today, in a relationship with a white American with nothing in common except empathy, strong character, and good human values. As long as one is trained/knows how to be respectful, understanding, accepting, compatible, egoless, having integrity, willingness to work things out, mature, and minding one's own business in a good way, things can almost always work out, and thankfully these great traits are not caste/community/religion specific. Food, festivals, clothing, culture, etc are good common things to have but these things have nothing to do in the making of a satisfactory and succesful relationship and/or marriage.

@sam-515

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing..🙏

@bhaveshoza7142

9 ай бұрын

how long you have been married to a white american?

@doncorleone3901

8 ай бұрын

​@bhaveshoza7142 in a relationship not married. Huge difference

@aditya-ml6km

8 ай бұрын

Come back to us once you finally have a successful marriage with your white partner.

@rishaveagarwal3737

7 ай бұрын

@@doncorleone3901 exactly , bf aur husband me bohot difference hota hai

I am a north indian and husband is south Indian.... There are problems.... But I strongly believe if u r financially strong then....... Both sides will be okay ....money has the power to solve everything.... ..... Same cast marriages also have problems.....there r differences and problems everywhere....................we r living happily.

@rahulsingh-ui9tl

Жыл бұрын

you are correct.Another example is of an Indian girl marrying a WHITE MAN. Tab kisi Indian ko koi problem nahi hoti as a WHITE MAN brings stsuts because we are obsessed with "GORI CHAMDI" .Then koi bi Culture etc nahi dekhta.Sab adjust ho jaata hain. Meri 2 managers the office ke.Unhone apne se 10 years+ older WHITE MEN se shaadi ki aur US chali gayi. Koi bi Indian parents ko problem nahi... STAUTS AND MONEY CHANGE EVERYTHING!!!

@krishna_raj9331

Жыл бұрын

@@roughtough5901 😂😂 yes

@apz7645

Жыл бұрын

​@@roughtough5901😂😂 rightly said

@shahzeb3445

11 ай бұрын

@@roughtough5901 hahaha yes

@emailshe

9 ай бұрын

Yes, when you want to depend on your relatives for everything then they will poke their nose into your inter region marriage If you are financially independent they don't get a chance to do their BS

My entire family has always married outside caste and culture. My father is a Rajput and my mother is a brahmin. We were never adopted by both the cultures and for a long time there was hostility in both families. When time came to my marriage I was never accepted in both castes so had to venture out and marry a bengali brahmin girl out of love. Our family is doing exceedingly well and now there is no problems. My bengali family is very supportive of me.

@nehashirodkar1273

Жыл бұрын

I am so happy for you... Stay blessed may you have a wholesome life

@princeofheaven19

Жыл бұрын

@@nehashirodkar1273 Thank you for your kind words

@nehashirodkar1273

Жыл бұрын

@@princeofheaven19 very few people like you actually say nice stuff about life and don't make it seem like undoable. Thank you for the encouragement, i myself am planning to have an intercaste marriage and have worked on the relationship for ages. Watching this video made me super depressed and got me questioning everything, but seeing your comment was the only good thing i needed. Thank you for being positive and throwing light on the good stuff in life...

@princeofheaven19

Жыл бұрын

@@nehashirodkar1273 I understand where you are coming from and I will not paint a rosy picture. For me it was easier as we never had an extended family support from the time of my parents. If you are a first in your family doing intercaste and if both families are conservative then they will not support you and the couple is on its own. Secondly your kids will always be second class in either castes in the next generation. Love marriage will be their only option.

@nehashirodkar1273

Жыл бұрын

@@princeofheaven19 my sibling has had a intercaste marriage and i know the consequences and it's very sad and depressing that society has conditional acceptance, but I'm tired of trying to fit in and i know the difficulties that will come but atleast someone is willing to start a life with me with an understanding of me and my life. My family has had a lot of intercaste and inter religious marriages and largely we are treated differently in our society. Eventually for us what has mattered is that the couple manage the marriage. Thank you for the conversation it really helped me reduce the stress in my head

I am from Punjabi married to maharashtrian Brahman happily married for 50 years one of my daughter in law is Bengali and other one is English happily married for 15 and 20 years all are doctors very happy

@deepakpoonia6749

Ай бұрын

Becoz you are not following you culture there is no difference between a atheist family and your family

Anyone who are in love, please go for it. There is no guaranteed same caste or intercaste Marriage can makes you happy. The beauty of love is that it doesn't see one's color, religion, place of birth, it's ultimate connection between two people which many arranged marriage ppl won't understand in their whole life time.

@rahulkhanna3030

Жыл бұрын

true

@vandana5575

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY....

@narender7106

Жыл бұрын

Practicality beats all kinds of love.

@SaiAbitathaDUCIC

Жыл бұрын

@@narender7106 well said

@AnilKumar-ov5xt

Жыл бұрын

so true.....

Main issue is the couple living under one roof with saas sasur or joint family. Conflicts are bound to happen there. Even in same caste marriage it happens, you know the whole story. Thats the main issue. If couple lives separately then intercaste mrg or food etc is not a big issue. Ab ek hi ghar main sas sasur Tamil wife aur haryanvi husband rahega to kalah to hou hi. Vo to same caste main bhi hoi hai. Please don't discourage intercaste mrg as it is the best way out to get rid of caste system and close the possibility of communal hatred in India. Jab sab rishtedar ho gaye to danga fasad kiske sath karoge? Soche india Pakistani aapas main shadi karein to kya yuddh karenge?

@divinesoul1313

Жыл бұрын

​@An Ethical Perspective right...ye khud nuclear family promote kr rhe the pichli video me...ki paisa hie sbbkuch h...2 ghar me rho..taaki rishta bhi Bach jaye ...or privacy b mile.

@kalkiavatartruthanddivinep6582

Жыл бұрын

Insan mc soch aur impurities ke Karan Sara dukh hai

@desijatt8341

Жыл бұрын

Naam ke aage se chahal hatao Mix breed weak buddhi

@pnnp8757

Жыл бұрын

If u don't like caste, then why do you have "Chahal" as your surname?

@rashgyl25

Жыл бұрын

I think this is liberal thought process and practical if parents also stay in megacities like mumbai banglore in nuclear families and have almost given up being too rigid in their practises. Issues come when the parents have a joint family, stay in their homeplace since birth and have a deep rooted connection to their practises. Then it becomes difficult because you cannot give up your parents. So it depends i guess on circumstances.

I have seen many intercaste and inter-religious couples having a successful married life for the last 30 years. On the other side I have seen a marriage in the same caste but could not last for even a year and ultimately led to divorce.

@pnnp8757

Жыл бұрын

I have seen many same caste marriages where the couple is very happy. On the other side I have seen inter-caste and inter-religion love marriage where the couple always fights.

@SaiAbitathaDUCIC

Жыл бұрын

@@pnnp8757 good reply

@chimtu9383

Жыл бұрын

Your comparison is totally wrong because what's the % of intercaste/religion marriages as compared to intra one's? Not even 20%.So you can't compare the two it totally depends on the partners and their families but still the lesser the variables the smoother the life would be in my opinion.

@Gauravkumar-jm4ve

Жыл бұрын

​@@pnnp8757 right

@hectorvivek

11 ай бұрын

i have seen many inter caste marriage which led to divorce and murder

I am a South Indian married to a north Indian, I agree with what he says. I find we quarrel on topics which is so normal in our community. Adjustment is not that easy on day to day basis. As long you live aboard it's ok. But it's a nightmare to imagine to raise kids in between two families.

@sneakpeek6031

7 ай бұрын

why do idli vada combo with chole batura..better do a combo with sambar chatney..everything will fell in place

Sir,you are so far sighted ,you understand the practicalities of life so well,the examples you give to explain certain situations are so relatable..they make understanding so simple and crystal clear.May God bless you with healthy life,society is indebted to you.Aap bahut punya ka kaam kar rahe hai.Please accept our gratitude 🙏🙏🙏🙏

My marriage is inter caste and Inter region and we and both families are very happy since past 31 years. My only son may marry from entirely different community. So as future mother in law I am a little anxious. But as you suggested, proper discussion with the couple as well as both sets of parents is absolutely necessary to overcome all the hiccups.

@ar66281

Жыл бұрын

Ye kuch bhi bol raha hai. Jab job karne jate hai dusre state me tab koi problem nahi hota hai

@preethid1991

11 ай бұрын

​​​@@ar66281hota hai.. job karne dusre state mein jaoge toh bhi stereotyping hota hai.. aur phir bhi job karne ja rahe hai.. but idhar mein marriage ki baat ho rahi

@rishaveagarwal3737

7 ай бұрын

@@ar66281 bhai job tu baar baar change karsakta hai marriage nhi

Totally agree. The lesser the adjustment the better. Thank you sir

I really appreciate that food wala part. Everyday food is indeed an integral part of a married life. 100% Agree 👍🏻

Intercaste marriage or same caste marriage both are doomed if both partners are not enlightened and mature enough. One benefit of intercaste marriage is that it discourages casteism and improvement in child genes. Intercaste marriage se jaativaad shayad khatm ho jaaye india main. Assam Rajasthan wala aapka example theek nahi. Jo jahan rahega vahin ka culture adopt karega. Ye to same caste main bhi hota hai jab bachhe out of state ya foreign rehte hain to unko bhi apni bhasha aur food ka pata nahi hota.

@prakharprabhat585

Жыл бұрын

Child takes the caste of its father in intercaste marriages. I have seen many such cases. Intercaste marriage will never eliminate the caste system.

@jatinkumarshukla4472

Ай бұрын

Intercaste marriage ke bachee ki koii izzat nahi hoti hai society mein.

Terrific Video Sir. I'm a 27 yr old guy. I once used to be an liberal leftist but became a conservative over the years when maturity kicked in. On this topic, I also developed the same thought process that you mentioned. People do not realise the amount of culture shock one can get in intercaste marriages, specially the girl after she starts to live with the boys family. Leave states aside, here in Bharat culture changes every 100 kms. Even different castes living in same city have very different way of living which has developed in their community thru hundreds of yrs due to their community profession. Liberals disregard this practical historic relevance of things over superficial criticism influenced by the urban city culture which is nothing but sort of western globalised culture. On a funny note, Since I'll be looking for a girl to marry in coming yrs, Sir you can start your own marriage agency only for people who watch your videos. Atleast one would be sure that the individual he/she is going to marry would be a wise person as they consume your content.😛🙏🏼

@AshishSardana

Жыл бұрын

Marriage agency for Amit Sangwan's platinum subscribers - that would be a good idea, hah.

@NA-vt6mz

Жыл бұрын

Marry a virgin girl not corrupted by any one it’s easier from ur own caste

@naveenchaudhary4072

Жыл бұрын

*if your are liberal then you cant be leftist* And if you are leftist then you can't be liberal *you were basically pseudo liberal*

@sanketmudgalkar9500

Жыл бұрын

Marraige forum for Sango life sutras followers is the best idea. !!

@yashpalchaudhary9752

Жыл бұрын

@@naveenchaudhary4072 thats right... True liberal is a diff thing and being leftist is whole diff caste altogether...we should be liberal and practical..

Sir i have never seen someone talking on this topic so bluntly.

@SangoLifeSutras

Жыл бұрын

Thanks. Pls share it with family and friends

@Roopendrakumar

Жыл бұрын

@@SangoLifeSutras already shared on family group. 🙏

"Every action has a consequesnces. Ap action lete ho, par consequence nahi pata hota he, wahi me batata hu, so you take calculated decision." Really grateful that you are sharing all these life experiences and sutras with us,

I totally agree, within caste marriage itself has so many differences . Mindset is affected by upbringing, environment . Even if one person is from city and other from town , mindset changes BTW appreciate the conscious effort " mahila"

Partially agree, Partially not .. I Being maheshwari marwari ( born and brought up in maharashtra) married to hard-core punjabi guy from jalandhar ... yes initially I faced many turbulence but later on everything went on smooth. ( many things like behaviour of mother in law or other relatives .... boy already knows how is his mother and other relatives.... boy should be open and transparent in depicting their nature to his would be wife.....) Whyy .. because mutual respect between husband and wife. I learnt cooking authentic punjabi food after my marriage and he learnt to enjoy my marawari plus maharashtrian food. I think in intercast marriage...... maturity and mutual understanding is utmost important factor ..... then everything becomes easier.... otherwise even u marry in same cast u will definitely hit the turbulence and deep stone.

@amu808

Жыл бұрын

@@ashitmukherjee5934 may be but love , understanding and warmth of my husband played very very important role ...

@NehaSharma-uf3zk

8 ай бұрын

True dear

Can't agree more...I have done an intercaste marriage, happily settled and from experience saying that yup..its takes hell lot of adjustments...so pl choose wisely

Sir, your boldest effort yet. Lot of people like me relate to what you said but we’re unable to give logical arguments like these. Great job.

Superb clarity. When you are young and in love, practicalities are the last thing on your mind. This video is for everybody.

Very true !! Awesome advice

Compatible life style is must for marriage. To provide peaceful existence. Which in turn leads to ultimate growth.

You are not just marrying a person you are going into a new complex world where the challenge is to make balance with adjustments towards different aspects of life.

Very practical advice. Well done, sangoji

Thank you for the video. The lines that touched me- 1. Samaj to jaisa hai Vaisala rahega. Vo nahi badlega. 2. Once your in laws reach 70 75 they stop interfering in your life related to cultural things

Excellent video.Eminently sensible advice.Love transcends caste in marriages. But love rocket fizzles out soon.Then intercaste differences hit. Differences in families and lifestyle present problems specially to the newly wedded bride. Add to that differences of food habits ( veg, non veg,...) aggresiveness, customs, festivals in intercaste marriages. Be conscious of these and your ability to reconcile, and only then jump into an intercaste marriage, if you may.

100% correct. I had a practical marriage where i only saw the education of the guy and his sense of responsibility thats all. Everything else paled in comparison to the potential and capability of this person. Though there were many issues the practical aspects acted as a cushion to the marriage. And after many years i discovered all marriages around me are same including the ones that started with lot of love. The practical aspects took over after a period of time and by that time we had developed love within our marriage. ;)

Have faced this live. Have almost stopped talking to inlaws. Forcing me to do rituals, preferring hygiene in kitchens puja rooms but not in bathrooms...and thinking that teaching me a hygiene course as a part of bahu grooming.

In these times when everyone fears being judged about political correctness of their speech, I have never come across anyone who is as fearless, pragmatic or who speaks with such depth of knowledge than you Sir🙏🏻 Personally, I liked someone and we were great friends, had I pursued it, getting married was not an issued However I choose not to move in that direction as there was nothing common among our families, No love lasts a lifetime, After few years it comes down to what u can choose to tolerate and bear everyday. Nobody is perfect, but the contempt of familiar imperfections is far better than the frustration of unfamiliar imperfections.

Amazing video. Great content and thought process

Namaste, Agreed. God Bless you and your Family with Abundance.

A very well done topic & very thought provoking!

I am north Indian, my husband is South Indian, we love similar food: on daily basis- south Indian and some occasions north Indian (I prefer it that way, our kids too are gastronomically south Indians). We both have similar value system and thought process. His family is also much more sane than mine :-), I would say decide on case by case basis.

@sabhrestman6644

Жыл бұрын

Caste system in south india is very strong, pretty sure your south indian husband respects you because of your caste. which falls into brahmin category, for south indian family it's a way up, hence they try little harder when the person from north is from higher caste, as it will boost their reputation in their own community.Marrying into a brahmin family is a achievement in southern India but unfortunetly it goes away with time.

@pnnp8757

Жыл бұрын

@@sabhrestman6644 please put in effort to 1st learn who all live in southern states. Your comment tells me that you think that there are no Brahmins in South India. Brahmins are found in every state maybe except few in North East. You also think that south India is one homogeneous group. They are not. Every state is different.

@jitheshsrai4992

9 ай бұрын

​@@sabhrestman6644speak for yourself , come out of delusion bro there are brahmins in south india too and majority south Indians don't give a f**k which caste you belong they don't boast based on caste but they boast based on your career.

MAG I totally agree with most of the points you mentioned Bold and realistic topics 👏🏻

What you said is time tested principles of our culture. Going against it has its own consequences. Very practical and correct guidance.

@Terahydron

8 ай бұрын

Only Brahman terrorist have probelm with anti caste marriage

गज़ब वीडियो है जी . . आपके पास समझाने के लिए proper vocabulary भी है। . . .उम्दा

Thank you so much Sir. Vry Nicely said.

Very well said and put together.

Marriages work based on the individuals concerned. Same caste, region etc helps in tiding over the initial years where there is so much of stress to adapt to the new customs, culture etc. But later it is on the individuals concerned to work on that and take a midway. As sir has stressed in many of the videos, we need to prioritise the relationships, money matters etc as he always suggests. Many inter marriages work while same type marriages end up in divorces too. General feeling is that of understanding the individuals and respecting, then all marriages would work.

@Terahydron

Жыл бұрын

@@jptiwari8061 lmao spotted the Brahman

@nadlefaz

Жыл бұрын

Agree, but as he said, added on variables in the equation. Two people happy versus 20 unhappy for rest of their life...

@shaangaming350

10 ай бұрын

No , marriage is not individualistic . Family is inportant thing in sanatan marriage .

@theunusualgyan9940

10 ай бұрын

​@@shaangaming350ha islye widow remarriage allowed nhi krte😂sati child marriage aur mere gaav mai th ek aurat ko 10 vche hai 32 yrs old bullshit saare riti riwaaz sanatan se hu

@shaangaming350

10 ай бұрын

@@theunusualgyan9940 KISNE BOLA WIDOW MARRIGE ALLOWED NHI HAI . BY LAW GOVERMENT PROMOTE KARTI WIDOW MARRIGE ON BASIS OF HINDU MARRIGE ACT JISME SPEACIAL GRANTS AND PERKS MILTE HAI .GO AND CHEACK WOMEN Or baat bachee ki tu HINDU mai 1.8 child per women hai jo ki replacement rate se bhi kaam hai Balki muslim Mai 2.54 child per women hai jo ki average rate of children hai . Statistics padh ke aa . And I am reporting your comments in misleading information and cyber crime Mai apki report Kar rha hun I'd, usske baad Mai apka IP ADDRESS TRACK HOGA FIR APKE PAAS PHONE AYEGA CUBER INSPECTOR KA UNSE BAAT KARNA .

Majority of the video is dedicated to the social and geographical differences which in most cases have nothing to do with caste, thumbnail and title should have been around these differences but it's "inter caste marriage". Two people of same religion but of different caste that are living in the same city in same class of society, generally have much more similarity than two people of same caste but different background. These differences are social and geographical and in most cases have nothing to do with caste. I don't know how a knowledgeable and progressive person like you mixed all these things together so casually. I am sorry to say that you sounded like a Whatsapp university uncle in this video sir.

@akshaysharma8940

Жыл бұрын

Caste difference also plays in…different castes have different eating habits …also different customs are followed in different castes! You should understand the context completely before making personal comments about anyone.

@andrewcarnegie5342

Жыл бұрын

@akshaysharma8940 I can't talk with someone who's dumb enough to misunderstand my comment, have a nice day.

@Terahydron

8 ай бұрын

​@@akshaysharma8940this is just excuse for Brahmans to spread more terrorism. Anyway the correct question is should Hinduism even be considered a real religion. And shouldn't all sc st obc form another religion. Castiests put out video like this is defence of Hinduism, like people are forcing Brahmans to lose their identity. Its about the hypocrisy, Brahmans look for caste in marriage and call everyone a hindu whenever they want to fight the Muslims

@Terahydron

8 ай бұрын

​@@akshaysharma8940beef is banned right? What other differences are tou talking about. Everybody stays in hostel and eats the same food. Whata customs? All customs are made up.

@Terahydron

8 ай бұрын

​@@akshaysharma8940there is no problem in being a castiest. The problem is Brahmans want to live like parasites,and feed on others lives. And make videos like this to defend caste Marry within your caste only and make it a separate religion,why call 100 crore indiana hindu if you won't even marry them

Sir you are not a speaker on some bold topics, you are a true LEGEND, who is removing the dust infront of eyes, of thought process. Your words and thought process is on practical issues of life. I Respect you sir for your work. May god bless you.

Sir u r helping and guiding us like our parents even more than that. Thankyou for your time and efforts.

Just employ good cook. Maharani Gyatri Devi was of Kooch Behar WB and married to Jaipur Royal Family. She has three styles of Kitchen and servants, Rajasthani, Bengali and French. One takeaway from your talk is that adventurous weddings are only for wealthy and rich. Not middle class. Ultimately the culture which should prevail is of Father, because surname is of Father not mother. And women has to adjust to husband’s household not vice versa.

Excellent analysis sir. 100 percent accurate and practical. When a couple fall in love they don't realise what will be the consequences after marriage and when they grow old they realise the mistake.

Nailed it. I am in a North - South marriage. Culture difference is a shock and believe me neither family accepts the boy / girl. Marry only if you have a rock solid foundation and commitment. Go ahead with intercaste marriage only if you make a beautiful difference in each other's family. Don't try to be possessive and break up a family in the process.

I would stick to the advice given in first few minutes. If you do such marriage after a certain age of maturity, like 30years then you are smart enough to marry as you like. I have also done intercaste, inter region marriage and in my relatives we are seen as a great example of happy couple. So it all depends upon how mature you are and how much can you mold yourself for your partner's happiness. Btw, my wife is a doctor and is very good at cooking and can cook all kinds of Indian and western food items. So that may be a reason for my happy married life .. I don't know 😅😅

@harshaaditya3648

Жыл бұрын

Have a happy life

@harshaaditya3648

Жыл бұрын

@@vivek8580 yes

@IamSoangelic

11 ай бұрын

What about u ? U don't cook

@vishalbahl7110

11 ай бұрын

@@IamSoangelic i was blessed to have stayed alone for many years during studies and job. So even i know basic level cooking and can cook proper dinner whenever needed.

@AnilPatel-ym4gu

9 ай бұрын

Lord Krishna said about 4 varna and to keep them separated atleast for producing future generations. Every caste has its own characteristics in their DNA. Don't play with GOD creation and its rule

Thanks for your guidance sir , happy new year to you 🎊🎊🎊🎉

Bang on. Absolutely right & practical.

Brilliant piece of advice. Totally agree💯... Itercaste examples are 2 gud.. 😀😀🙏

I adore your practicality sir ...u explain these complicated topics in a holistic way . Regards

Thanks so much sir makeing this video!

Good you added English subtitles. Please do that to your other videos as well I hope you reach a greater audience and other countries too

One of the best video of the channel...BOLD HARSH AND ABSOLUTE TRUTH

@arjoroychoudhury6952

Жыл бұрын

One needs to have practical sense, common sense to understand the contents and importance of this video.

Much required was this eye opener video. Sir, you touched every issue pertaining to this subject. This will surely motivate people towards a more practical approach in life. ❤️🙏 Chances of divorce and/or other conflicts with in the partners and their parents are imminent. Cultural exceptence and practice is not easy for any of them. Children to such couples do get confused by the culture differences of their parents. Regards sir for bringing forth such great content 🙏

@lawanyaarvind2810

9 ай бұрын

Well said indeed, Sir. Agree 💯

You are so practical, pragrammtic and I admire your realistic suggestions.

The way you explain these topics is awesome.

After seeing this video.. आपका तजुरबा और विचार शक्ति लाजवाब है। Such a beautiful and pragmatic perspective। Already shared। Thanks for such guidance।

Nice informative content produced after thorough research what actually happens in real life. Please make video on live in relationships.

I agree with many points ☺️ brilliant effort sir 🙏

great work..and deep research..thanks sir..

I had a 2 states marriage and am really happy … yes i do agree in most cases you do make adjustments … there is loss of culture, a bit of confusion but the person you love and marry is worth all that … both can sort of make way for new norm… its much much better than sacrificing your love and marring a someone what ok compatibility person just so there is less issue… all this is dependent on lot of factors and different case to case but i believe if you find “the. Person” then such small changes are totally worth it 😊

Thank you sir for so detailed analysis on inter caste marriages the content was very good and it will give lot of guidance to all girls and boys. Thank you !!

Amazing content Sir

Wonderful analysis. Thank u.

Sir you're right on most of the points. But there are some exceptions I would like to mention. You are taking the example of haryana way too often. I am a North Indian born and brought up in Delhi and my wife is a malayalee, her parents too settled in Delhi in 1980's just like my parents. Both the families have very much adjusted to The Delhi culture and eat both North Indian and kerela food. I have been brought up in Mayur vihar which is a very culturally significant neighborhood with lots of malayalees in vicinity so I am well versed with the culture, even lot of my friends from school are from different ethnic groups. Our families respect each other in terms of food, language, rituals and traditions. And the example that you gave for the post partum mother eating "gond", gond is eaten both my North and South Indians, we eat gond ladoo and they make a 'panjiri' sort of a thing out of it. Port partum mothers eat dry fruits and coconut both in North and South of India. Another example of that punjabi girl living in tamil nadu is also not true. So many south Indians are fair in complexion and very attractive even they outnumber the North Indians in being quite attractive. Edit : my wife is from a punjabi dominated colony, rajouri garden and my family is originally from Gorakhpur.

@jcbhatt4735

10 ай бұрын

Great inputs

@vinayrawat7011

10 ай бұрын

I agree with you . Marriage is all about respect of each other, love, transparency and support, nothing else. Uncle ji is completely wrong and talking about few examples where conservative and narrow minded families do these type of things which is very less in percentage. Spread love ❤ not negetivity.

31:15 Irodov-shirodov 🤣🤣 Thanks for the clarity. I'd look for some linear equations to solve in the future and avoid complex integration and differentiation.

👍Very well said Sir!

Eye opening. Thank you

I would say living with a joint family would be tougher but when only a couple is living by themselves then it would be easier to adjust. But you both will have to adjust either way.

100% agree on each point , i believed in the same so went for an arranged marriage and happy with my decision .Also do make a video on live in relationship at the earliest for young generation ❤️😇🙏👌

@vikrant_bhise

Жыл бұрын

😅😅

Oh God... U nailed it. What a great video. Much needed one. Very nicely articulated. Recently gone through this... My parents denied for intercaste/interreligion marriage. And now I understood what they were saying how factual that was. I was still in that pain somewhere. But after watching this, feeling much more lighter. Thanks sir. It's blessing that people like u exist. That's why I love KZread so much.

Totally agree with you Sir 💯👍🏻

All points are true. Our marriage was supported by both families (Marathi & Bengali). Initially it felt like there won't be any challenges but later everything got magnified. But kind of Ghosh family story. I advise my cousins to go for same caste marriage.

@robertlee-nq6mg

Жыл бұрын

i married internationally. caste ko choro, videshi ladki se shadi ki hai maine. Marry who you like and love. caste ko maro goli

@subhodip3064

Жыл бұрын

So basically ur unhappy in bengali family.... but thanks for coming in bengali family...when many bengali girls are marrying others

@salaar75

10 ай бұрын

​@@robertlee-nq6mg1 number

@gauravmishra1508

10 ай бұрын

exactly.. brahmans should not intermarry because we have different living habits than any other community..❤

@salaar75

10 ай бұрын

@@robertlee-nq6mg Bhai how did you meet your spouse?

Even Supreme Court of India, encourages it. For both scientific and societal reasons. No kidding, Google it....Thing is, only when you are mentally and financially prepared for marital adjustments. Scary part is when you attend family functions. You only need emotional maturity to sail through it. At end, we are just humans' guys. This is not any identity or exsistential crisis.

Excellent, Sir. Very much needed during this times.

Thank you for your eye opening video

Marry someone when you both can adopt and adjust each other's family and their lifestyle. Similarly makes your life easier, learned this after living with different people as room mate. Jitna insan mere se similar tha utna life peaceful tha.

Very true topic My parents r intercaste and I have faced this confusion and ridicule in life Luckily I found husband who is very close cultural and religious like me

Amazing work sir !!

Mag , keep it up Guide us with these untouched topics in our society

I always wanted to have inter-community marriage. I did it, I got married in 2013. My dream came true

@anirbanghosh1670

Жыл бұрын

Bengali girls has ultra level freedom, bengali men respect their daughters choice, that's why it is possible. In other community they don't let their daughter marry outside, but they accept daughter in law from other community.

@sabhrestman6644

Жыл бұрын

@@anirbanghosh1670 Also bengalis are quite below average looking.

@pnnp8757

Жыл бұрын

@@anirbanghosh1670 a consequence of that ultra level freedom is that large number of Bengali Hindu women end up marrying or having relations with Muslim men. How many Muslim Bengali women have married hindu Bengali men? I am sure the numbers are very less when compared with the former.

@Beingengineer007

10 ай бұрын

​@@Diaaa982 direct action day reasearch karo

@kumarabhishek1064

9 ай бұрын

​@@pnnp8757 and end up getting converted. Soon, Bengali Hindus will vanish and there situation will become like that of Bangladeshi Hindus. If they are proud of this strategic blunder, Bengali culture will die once including Durga Pooja and all that forms bengal.

Your efforts are great sir. You discuss topics which are need of the hour, and which everyone else avoids. Really commendable effort.

Thanks for such a valuable information .

i am 24 and i have held same view mentioned in this video quite early. I have watched other videos of yours and that has been my view quite early in my life. Good to see you explaining and laying out the thought process. Lot of my friends think i am too conservative but they dont want to understand actual practicality.

No Sir, you're not correct this time, i love your videos but this time your video is just about the food, culture and rituals. but marrying someone is not just these 3 things you've emphasizing. love is beyond all these, when we truly love we make compromise and sacrifices as well which comes from both ends. this restrictions can even go beyond the circumstances you made here. hamare haryana main hi 20 type ki cultural differences, is hisab se to padosi se hi shadi karwani padegi.. you haven't seen a bright side, these all points are silly points which can be ignored easily.

@utkarsh144

Жыл бұрын

Love is low IQ thing, won't stay forever and marrige based on love will end as soon as love is finished. But marrige done for deeper purpose make partners adjust for each other and make sacrifices.

@sunidhi1987

2 ай бұрын

Completely agree

Good Topic, Its impossible and impractical in todays scenario for a man and woman from different caste to adjust, diff religion is way insane as it will create more issues at a later stage...No doubt marriages within same caste is very difficult due to the high expectations from each side and it also fails but atleast same caste marriages eliminate the list of challenges this gentleman has talked in his video. This is my take..Cheers Swami

Very correct and deeply analysed video. Great work Looking forward for more such videos on different practical topics of life,relationship & career. Thank you so much again for making such a thoughtful and wonderful video👋👋👋

Very nice and brutally honest articulation...ek ek shabd sach hai...life is not a fairy tale and the aspects mentioned should be considered before taking the most important decision of one's life..

Sir aapki hr baat se agree krti hun. Meri arranged marriage huyi thi. punjab se MP mein ayi. Parathe, Sarno ka saag makki ki roti ki jgh poha jlebi aur kachori samosa pr zindagi guzarni pr rhi hai. Culture alg, khana alg, traditions alg, soch alg, uthna bethna baat krna sb alg. Do naav pr svar hona prta hai. Jaape mein panjiri nhi mili kyonki punjab mein gond aur soond se bnti hai jo MP vale digest nhi kr skte.... body mind sb out of control ho gya.... Sir ki baat Mano.... 2-4 din adjust krna aur life time krne mein frk hota hai. Bche sbse zyada piste hain. Husband ko punjab mein leftover lgta hai aur mujhe MP mein. Bahut tragic hai Smjhiye nya jnm jismein aapko poori past life yaad ho aur aap n is life ke rhe n uss life ke

Loved your perspective on this ❣️

again a very nice talk... love hearing about difficult issues and you seem very evaluative in life and situations.

Superb Sir...ज्ञान चक्षु खोल दिये आपने

My marriage is intercaste and interstate. Although not much difference in the state My sister married within state within caste. She is struggling with her marriage, mine is still smoother. It all depends on the compatibility of souls and families.

Such a complex topic explained quite simply and easy to relate/comprehend manner. My faith is not the the same as sanatana dharma but i am very impressed with this - "actions and their consequences". Too good. Thank you sir

Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing life-changing videos🙏💐🙏