Wahh ... Its a very aggressive and bold topic but can sort a lot of practical problems. Life changing material hai yeah.

@ganpatchopra7554

Жыл бұрын

Ladki ke parents ladki ke sasural ke matters me naak fasana band kar de to shadiya jyada success hogi Mayke Wale sochate hai ki vo ladki ki madad kar rahe hai, jabki asliyat me vo anjane hi uski life kharab kar rahe hote hai

@ninanani4085

7 ай бұрын

​@@ganpatchopra7554 यही काम पैडकेवकों को भी करना चाहिए। बेटे बहु की जिंदगी में अपनी नाक घुसाना बंद करना चाहिए। लडकी कोई कहीं की फेंकी हुई नही होती है कि लड़के के मां बाप तो उसे राजा बाबू बना कर जिंदगी भर रखे, बहु को उसकी सेवा में लगाएं और बेटी के मां बाप को बेटी की परवाह ही न हो। इतनी टेंशन हो तो पितृसत्तात्मक सिस्टम छोड़ कर बीवी के घर जाकर रहो और अपने मां बाप से कह जाओ कि तुम्हारी ससुराल में नाक न घुसाए।

3 things mentioned : -Financial disclosure -Health disclosure -Avoid parental influence in first 2 years of marriage.

@dipanshusabharwal

Жыл бұрын

Give this woman a medal.

@sandeepk8495

Жыл бұрын

What about after 2 years?

@lalitsheoran8628

Жыл бұрын

@@dipanshusabharwal Will a trophy work instead ?

@artibhatnagar7062

Жыл бұрын

@@sandeepk8495 after 2years every thing is set

@dipanshusabharwal

Жыл бұрын

@@lalitsheoran8628 How about some money? Let's pitch in. Inflation is back breaking.

The biggest problem is now a days is to check character of boy or girl .people started deploying private detectives for that

Excellent! I'm 60. I am so alarmed . Thank u ji. You're an angel sent from heaven. 🙌

Even discuss the marriage goals, kids, monthly expense. And lifestyle, relatives, etc

Sir, I salute your enthusiasm and the guts you have, Indian society really needs more people like you who are not stuck in the 19th-20th century and following the same traditions with their eyes closed. I'm a happily married woman and now I realise that my parents were not aware of the things you spoke of when they got me married. Turns out I just got lucky. Please keep up the good work, we need more educated and sensible people like you in our country.

You are absolutely right. And I am thankful to myself that we had discussed all these points before marriage openly

You are one of the best real life coach. Best topic to discuss 🙏

गुरूजी आप महिला सशक्तिकरण के समर्थक है हालांकि ये छुपी बात है आपके ज्ञान में Man of practical wisdom.

Indian guys have not realized that the power has shifted a lot more than what it used to be back in the 80s or 90s nowadays girls are earning much more and also taking on much bigger challenges in the corporate roles, professional roles due do this an equal amount of housework must be shared between both the genders otherwise no girl would be needing a husband anymore since everyone is financially independent.

@roshinitoenlightenment

8 ай бұрын

Yes but arrogance and choicers behaviour depleting every thing

A very welcome change needed in our society. Thanks for your efforts.

Love this detailed coverage! Superb points.

Love how you fairly cover both girls and and boys side !

Thank You so much Sir for such brief advice , You are truly a good modern Social Reformer !

Excellent video. Totally worth watching.

You are truly a well read, well learned man trying to change the indian society. Kudos

Remarkable, again discussed in a very matured yet hard hitting manner 🙏🙌

Sir, You thinking is much ahead of People thinking in North India... But each point is so logical and apt !!!

Loved the first two years concept ❤️. Finally a woke speaker. We need more counsellor like you . I hope the society understands this . God speed . Can’t wait to see more videos like this , will definitely share it .

You always give very practical advice …no one speaks on such topics..where were u before Sir..great thanks always🙏

Very well said sir..This video is like an eye opener for the society in matrimonial issues.👍

Amazing. Each and every word of yours are so pure. So practical. Thank you so much.

@Rajuraj-qo5tt

Жыл бұрын

yes ..bcoz practical problm pe hee vdo hai ye 🥰

Excellent guidance provided thanks so much

Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing an eye opener video 🙏💐🙏

Thank you so much sir for this bold content it can change lives

Sach m y topic tareef ke kabil h 👌...inshort ki shadi ke laddu soch samjh ke khao or khilao ....,,⛹👏👏

absolutely right. People feel shy to ask direct question in marriage

Meri sister ke sath hua hai. Shaddi se pehle sab kuch pucha aur bataya jaise Salary slip, education documents, immovable property, bacche karne hai ya nahi, job karni hai ya nahi. Shaddi ke 2 saal baad divorce Lena pada due to mental issues with my sister. Reason was Boy was impotent and couldn't satisfy women. Wohi hamne check nahi Kiya tha.

@roshinitoenlightenment

8 ай бұрын

May be some lies

@a.k3188

3 ай бұрын

Wohi to main tha

This video is beneficial to everyone in the society

Great advice,God bless you, you're making videos on v important topics,

Wah, bahut se sankoch se chutkara dila diya hai. Very apt and useful aspect of match making.

@SangoLifeSutras

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks sir

Wow yu are really wonderful great ND dashing speaker your knowledge is helpful to the people

Sir aapke sare videos eye opener hote hain..

Sir you are Damn practical and these videos are helping people to make pragmatic decisions

Very logical, great content .

Aapne bahut kuch mere Mann ka hi Kah diya .....

Hearing your vlog I feel there should be a compulsory list of medical tests before marriage which should be done legally binding on both parties.

🙏👌 the govt sh make mandatory for in India as basic. Very beautiful bold clear information, thanks

Very good ideas and practical advice

U r right sir… Shaadiyain bahut he chalaki se ki jati hain by hiding things from both sides which leads to conflicts later on. Best is love marriage where one should decide their own limits before marriage. At least kuch toh compatibility clear hogi.

@kusumrastogi5672

Жыл бұрын

Yes. These days live marriage shd be preferable

@uditraj6518

Жыл бұрын

Maine to jaha tak dekha hai aisa khuch nhi hota Love marriage me 😂😂😂 bas Movies mehi aise hota hai.

Practical realities of life well explained

Sabse badiya hai. Kich imaandaar log ho marriage ke beech me ,iske alawa rishta ho nahi sakta

Good video, pl also discuss on topic , how newly married couple should divide expenses and housework a.nd relative's involvement in their life.

"Mai समय hoon".... Thankyou sir

Kora sach bolte ho sir G.. 😄😄 i m really really impressed by ur views.. 👌👌👌👌👏👏👏👏

If Evey boy should marry a working girl then every boy should share the child rearing and household work equally. But in reality girls are burdened with household work, child rearing and also earning responsibilities in recent times.The struggle for a girl is too very much.

@SangoLifeSutras

Жыл бұрын

Work life is for 45 years now.

@nirmalchaturvedi5614

Жыл бұрын

@@suchithragokul always girls are better placed after marriage..working girl is a must.

@amitsinha0105

Жыл бұрын

@@SangoLifeSutras Why Modi ji is working at 70?

@amitsinha0105

Жыл бұрын

Sir, Accotding to you Judges, Advocates and Doctors should all retire at 45? What might hold good for someone might not be good for others. Some are born with silver spoon while others are born in poor family. Children of filmstars and industrialist did not need to work at all. Some are born physically disabled. One suit doesnot fit for all. Every book has different story. Kindly do not generalise the things that Worklife is only for 45 years. These type of funny concepts are being floated by Govt who has miserable failed to protect the economy and to create jobs. Population is another factor for which citizens are themselves responsible. Instead of being a preacher rather try to be a learner. Because there is other side of the coin also.

@nirmalchaturvedi5614

Жыл бұрын

preaching is done to normal people only not to exceptions..since females want equality with males they have to upgrade themselves in all ways and match the male in all respects..hitherto they were in a position of considerable advantage with all risk responsibility on male..for a happy living in current times they have to share all responsibilities in an equitable manner according to their strengths for which both have to be open progressive compatible well educated and reasonable.

Hats off to you sir. God bless you .

The working girl faces so much problems and taana from the in laws side. The non working ladies comment about hlthe character of the girl, that she won't be responsible for home, will not take care of the kids etc etc etc and the list is endless. Moreover ladka thinks he is the king and will be guided by his mother and sister not to even listen to the wife - " biwi ka ghulam mat karo" advice.. And also nirupa Roy type Saas and nanad would sit and do the naatak " iske saath kaise jeeyoghe" nonsense. Itna problem hai kyun saath me jeene ka hai. Divorce leo. Woh nahi lena kyunki paisa milraha hai naa biwi ka.. She ends up totally loosing her interest in life, just living like a slave, sleep, cook, rear children, earn money and give and don't say anything.. that is all. So any earning girl, live your life. Don't maary stupids in your life and spoil your peace. Atleast apne jindagi mo jo kuch karna dekhna aaram se apne paise se karo, kisi ka taana nahi sunna pade.

Very good work done 👍

Sir ap Star ho bilkul. Love your content

Excellent !

This is so well said.. sp the last point being a single girl child obviously i dont want my parents to suffer in their old age… which is so well put forward Even the concept of medical checkup and being forthcoming with diseases and choices on child birth… this too I’ve seen ppl think as every woman wants a child bt many don’t and in 21st century women r taking equal part in career growth and a child is last thing they want.. Very informative indeed

@good123g

Жыл бұрын

modern thought. it is not just sons' responsibility to take care of parents ,daughters also should come forward.

@Optimistic_aspirant

Жыл бұрын

how are you planning your life ahead after marriage being a single girl child ?

@good123g

Жыл бұрын

@@Optimistic_aspirant come to an agreement with your future spouse about the responsibility towards your parents

Thanks for the video sir 😊 🙏🏻 from Hong Kong 💖

13:57 too good. Always a guy's maa is a bechara thing. Lol .

Thanks for guidance

Wish I heard this discussion before my marriage.

Guru ji.. sahi baat hai

Liked even before watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you ❤️

Excellent.

Good job Amit ji. Your will seen as a time traveller , in later years

@SangoLifeSutras

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for kind words

@roshinitoenlightenment

2 ай бұрын

​​@@SangoLifeSutrasplz continue marital series

Great video

Usually That Bichari Maa And Bechara Baap Are The Main Culprit (Homewrecker). 😏

@ashwinipatangay3451

Жыл бұрын

True

I appreciate your work👍

@roshinitoenlightenment

8 ай бұрын

In India every one wants best but best is nothing

Lajawaab sir jee

Awesome thanks

You are a genius Sir

Wow.....kitna practical he topics.....very very related in real life

finance health parental 3 things to be for sure

AS you are great

Very GOOD Content

1st and 2nd are fine,as they are objective,3rd one is subjective and difficult and not that reliable

Right sir ji भारत की जनता ने बहुत समय और रुपया गवांया है, cricketers और film वालों के बहकावे में Stop promoting cricket, .... only

Good video for muslims also

Too good sir.

My life is fucked up.. I got separated from wife, my kids stays with them

Thanks a lot sir

I got married 6 months ago. After 2 and half month of marriage due to gradual weight loss we decided to test sugar level. Unfortunately he is detected with diabetice. Even he and his family was not aware about it. It is just a misfortune.

@renukayadav6559

Жыл бұрын

Diabetes is just nutritional disorder. Kindly consult qualified dietician.

@AnkitKumar-kk3iw

Жыл бұрын

Stress se blood sugar level badhta hai......unko bolo stress na le . Carbohydrates ekdum reduce krwa do, Rice khana chudwa hi do Protein badhao Fast food band . Sb kuch normal ho jayega All the best

@scifigal1

Жыл бұрын

@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw plz don’t speak any bs. you don’t know their age, if they’re young and in 20s, it could be type 1, which exactly presents with weight loss. Type 2 dm which u see in uncles and auntys of 40-50, is associated with weight gain and obesity. It is manageable only to a certain extent with diet and lifestyle control. Type 1 would require stringent control with insulin, at the very least drugs would be required. Don’t spread WhatsApp gyan to people with real world problems.

@parusahu6961

Жыл бұрын

India is diabetic capital of whole world and its just matter of time, most indians will develop it thanks to adulterated food and lifestyle.

@tindrums

Жыл бұрын

Most indian men have diabetes. Consequenses of a heavy carbohydrate diet.

Wow🤩

Very true

Very matured ji

Its v nice

If only!

13:41 too good of a point

Sir, topic is ok.

Check each other's cibil report, sab clear kar dega.Thank you

Sir ye vedio toh life ka satya hai

Sb. Kuch shi bol rahe hai sir aap chahe kitna bi investigate kr lo but in the end adjustment Krna nhi sikha to sb barbad hai as adjustment karni hi padti hai

Nice video

Make equal : girl should also come with properties and same boy now equal . Bhai itna discussion hoga to kisi shaadi nahi hogi even small negative goes for toss from girl side .

Good topic

Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Men have to pay Alimony even wife if working, - Equality

@Numerology_by_Aakansha

Жыл бұрын

When did you last read any case about this? There have been instances in India where women have been asked to pay alimony to men. It all depends on how much both the individuals are earning and what kind of lifestyle they have.

@parusahu6961

Жыл бұрын

@@Numerology_by_Aakansha 2 instances one of them was of actress swetha tiwari. So very few.

Hello sir. Recent i watch ur video s step by step u say open and explain the full life. Of human nature I'm divorce woman. My 2 marriage broke. One because i have baby girl 2 my x husband waunt my property. My question is should i settle again my parents are oldern now my daughter got recently married I'm alone now 46 my running age. To much age not getting job. Parents waunt m to settle again my bother don't look my parents i handle hole house alone after my parents don't no wht to do so plz. Advice. M i saty alone or settled this world it's only waunt benifits. Wht to do I'm worry for my future

In South India, people disclose the pay and property details before marriage during the first meeting

Smart buddy

Namaste ji

Its difficult to share ur video with MIL & husband. Your show should come in TV shows☺.

True...sir

Hi i have a question, in society the work of male and female are equally divided male will earn and female will take care of family. Suppose I am contributing to the earning of family 30% then, wisely what should be the contribution of male in female allocated department of work.

issues raised are genuine however practically lil bit hard to practice