Sir ....pahli baar KZread saarthak lag raha hai.. thanks .....pp

@psjoshi20

Жыл бұрын

Really :)

@goldenmaknaejungkookiebunn9550

Жыл бұрын

@@psjoshi20pp

@goldenmaknaejungkookiebunn9550

Жыл бұрын

@@psjoshi20 p

@hardiktrivedi5445

Жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha ha

@mitaleesamant9681

Жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha

I was a housewife but at 49 I started a small home based bakery n I believe I am living my life now..thanks for the sharing.

@rushikeshbulbule8120

Жыл бұрын

Wish you great success

@deepakjena3628

Жыл бұрын

I said to my father I want to become an actor , my father told me get out of my home ...now I am not staying with my father .....

@nishanpatil7235

8 ай бұрын

​@@deepakjena3628more power to you. Wish you a good luck

@iamnoob7593

7 ай бұрын

@@deepakjena3628 My mother told me to get out of home after i got job , I was also having health issues , No problem , I am thankful to my mom , It made me even stronger mentally.

@ash67392

7 ай бұрын

Did you become actor then?

Real truth of society and family presened very intellectually.. hats off to you sir.

@durgeshdu

2 жыл бұрын

Real truth of society, hats off to you👍

@ishasharma6018

Жыл бұрын

Yes

OMG you’ve taken up a huge undertaking of showing a mirror to the Society! More POWER to you 👍🏼

People who are just not ready to change their ancient backward mindset to move forward, will not agree to your words. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls. I worked as a teacher in a Birla school for many years. My everyday mantra to my daughters is that they must earn their own living. My elder one has already started working in an US based company. 😊

Look for a partner who treats others the way that they want to be treated. A person who has a kind character is more likely to treat you with care and respect. A partner who is thoughtful, empathetic, and compassionate is more likely to take the time to try and understand how other people are feeling.

When my mummy said I should marry working girl, I didn't listen to her. When you explained it, I get it. Thanks.

Your words are full of wisdom. Forty years back when I got married, my grandmother advised me to keep working and earning. It helped me a lot in being level headed .

Aap hamesha ladaki o ko kaam karne ke liye bol rahe ho. Agree. But what about house responsibilities? Middle class logo k pass 24 hrs k nokar chakar nahi rehete, aur bahot logo ko khana to kisi cook ke hath ka pasand nahi aata. In that situation what should be done? Wo 8-10 hrs ki job karke ghar pe aane k baad bhi kaam to khatam hi nahi hota. Women are changing, earning but a man still expects a glass of water in his hand as he returns from his work. When men will start working in kitchen?

@aesha8791

Жыл бұрын

@@risinggamer3011 Fair enough.:)

@tindrums

Жыл бұрын

Men must know how to cook. It removes a potential threat from an argumentative wife.

@sachinsachan

Жыл бұрын

Things will happen with time. You are absolutely correct

@aesha8791

10 ай бұрын

@@adityakapoor2714 I am working, earing and taking care of my home and kid really well. And I have achieved it with support of my husband. But when i see people around me, I feel bad. Aur teri aukaat kya hai mujhe batane ki mujhe kya karna chahiye ya kya nahi? apne ghar ka haal sudhar sakta hai to sudhar.

@kumarabhishek1064

5 ай бұрын

But didi men kaise sikhe khana banane ? Kon sikhayega 😢

You are so genuine and practical !! I love your honesty and unbiased attitude !!

I am coming from a Bengali middle class family, my father was WBCS officer of A grade now retired and my mother was a high school teacher of Sanskrit and political science. And I am working in a primary school as assistant teacher because I love this profession so much under govt of West Bengal. I am 34 still unmarried and facing troubles to choose life partner. I find myself similar to the character Gourav of your story because I am not IITian or similar category. Your video is making my day , sir. Many many thanks. I am from the land of Iswar Chandra Vidyasagar and Raja Rammohan Roy . Very happy to hear the names from you😊

@souradeepdas8195

10 ай бұрын

If you do not have hair or are short in height then it became double difficult to get gf

@onlinework8558

9 ай бұрын

Don't get married

@PULKITKAUL-great

4 ай бұрын

Rammohan roy was crypto Christian

Gudiya and Bhudia was epic ! I salute your straightforward approach and such practical humor !

One of my friend who is a khandani raees married a dentist girl who married him hoping to cash in on his riches. Soon she realized that the control is in the hand of sasur. She left him in 3 months.

In India marriage has become a drama ....🤣

Your advice is absolutely considerate. Salute Sir 🙏🏽

Aisa bhi nahi hai ki ladki shadi ke time naa kama rahi ho toh kamayegi hi nahi .I was not earning at the time of marriage but after marriage cleared exams and now I am in govt job.

@ujjwalkumar1501

Жыл бұрын

Bhai aap larke ho, shadi ke baad larki pe bahut Jimmedari aur bojh aa jata hain toh unko jyada muskil hoti hain clear karne mein. Haan phir bhi kuch job le sakti hain par tabhi jab Husband supportive tab possibility banta hain.

@rupalibawa9711

Жыл бұрын

You're definitely an exception bro. Many of friends got married with plans to clear govt exam after. Nothing. They didnt even put 1 ounce of effort into studying only used it as an excuse to avoid work.

@ajaynain3295

Жыл бұрын

@@ujjwalkumar1501 mein ladki hi hoon

@deepapanday1773

Жыл бұрын

​@@ujjwalkumar1501p

@erabhinandan5935

Жыл бұрын

It is only 0.1% in society , but not majority

Bful message sir...high time people realized these facts...v practical advice..everyone need to follow

Trust me! Unmarried is better than married! Only money is required to be happy in life, rest is man made misconceptions. However our body will function the way it has been made. World is not best place to live 😂😂

@shanuchandra7156

6 ай бұрын

World is best place it depends how you are living, don't try to impose your dead beliefs on someone else.

I love your lectures! Very very practical!

45 lpa CTC on Microsoft is around. 1 lac per month don't fell in trap of CTC it is highly inflated by adding 4 years component of stocks in single year

Very very informative vedio.. very helpful.. very practically told sir.. Thank you for knowledge sharing..

Superb👌👌👌👌very practical advices sir..great👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻thnxs for guiding us🙏🙏

Your videos are very informative & practical to life.. i appreciate how you making middle class aware by your life experience and knowledge

Amazing, so well brought out by you Your each video makes me speechless & watching you is an absolute bliss🙂

One of your case is relatable to my neighbours Case 1- The boy was IITian and girl was normal btech but doing job in good company. Boy family having medical shop with one sister unmarried , girl family middle class ( Father A class officer) brother is also Iitian unmarried. There marriage was Arranged marriage. Both party equally Invested in marriage. But after one year they got divorced. Girl side Reason- The boy family asked for money every month (they were totally dependent) ( free ka pesa aa rha hai toh medical shop mai kamane ku jaye hum bi ash krnge ) . The boy give half of his salary to his parents or more sometimes. He dont save anything likeFD or mutual fund. The boy want to run his house from girl salary. He restricted girl not to buy expensive things. (Like saying pese ki barbaadi) . So the girl family give her plan to save his 75% of salary on FD and 20% keep with you. So that boy stopped giving his half salary to his family. Unfortunately plan doesn’t worked and fights was continued. Boy Reason - Girl dont cook food. (Inlaws side) and fight with them. They got divorced after one year of marriage. (No settlement happened) both working on bangluru with reputed companies.

@sagar17258

Жыл бұрын

Yes ...life mai overqualified hona bhi galat hai .. Iitian ..and engineering background have no respect now . People are fond of high salry only in pvt . But ek jagah bcom wale ne sbi po ki job crack karli , he is much good and decent . Low investment high return (govt employee). But in case of pvt high investment high return until and unless corona virus comes to lay off employees 😄

@travelkeen

Жыл бұрын

No relation works on money as base

@Ritez_

Жыл бұрын

Most of the time parents are the reason.

@shaggy4896

Жыл бұрын

In this case its better for parents to sell their assets and put in fd for regular income instead of giving to their children they should enjoy their life. Let children earn and build their own empire.

@IamSoangelic

Жыл бұрын

सब की लाइफ के अपने चैलेंजेस होते है

Thanks guruji very well said. To the point

Sir Salute to you !!!Very wise words and Lesson for life.Indian parents are so negative that many times they do not appreciate whatever we do for them.Seriously Sir it’s very difficult to deal with their restricted mindset.Please make more videos for families and younger generations..Thanks 🙏

me with 25k salary thinking meri toh shaadi hone wali hi nahi hai 😅

@slasheflashyoumy2760

14 сағат бұрын

Ho jaege bhai , tension mat le 😊

Thank you Sir for sharing such a valuable information with us.

Thousands percent true sir. Really I am going to admire you. Thank you so much. You help us to be practical. Thanks.

I liked the way you explain in details. Very informative videos 🙏🏻👍🏻 thanks a lot 😊 God bless you

You are right , I know these problems. You are telling the truth of our society

Really good advice, job is not only for money buy it teaches lot to a person. If a women does job her family supports her in household work, she gets her own identity also office meine dimag kharab karne k baad she starts loving her family more ghar pe rehke ghar k log hi kharab lagne lagte hai. Also, our life is more disciplined we become more proactive the approach of our children also changes towards there mother.... I'm working and also taking financial responsibility so both me and my husband can fulfill our dreams.

@docvnath

Жыл бұрын

Quite well

Great Sir 🙏🏼True mirror to society

80,000 kam nahi hote, apko ground realities ka kuch samajh hai ki nahi?

Wow. What a wonderful explanation.

Wonderful video you have done commendable job to change thinking of society

Sound and practical advise. The smart ones will listen and follow. Others may keep finding reasons not to. And will have to suffer for their poor choices.

Very informative and practical Sir🙏🏻

Wonderful Sir. Thank you

Very meaningful video sir , thanks a lot

Wow...this so so practical and true! Working women will have less securities💪👍...

This is really important to understand as a youth and I must say this is the only channel which talks about one of the major issue of society. I am really thankful that You Tube has recommended me your channel Sir.

Logical and practical/factual explanation

Also make a video on 2 more conditions:- In laws well settled, husband earning well but wife is on career break due to motherhood and no support from family members for job in future

@scifigal1

Жыл бұрын

Yes important topic

@robinieor

7 ай бұрын

Yes very necessary...I think join your job asap after baby becomes little big....or join now and keep a maid for day time....my relatives are doing same

@quizudita

7 ай бұрын

​@@robinieor it's RISKIER to hire babysitter these days....

@robinieor

7 ай бұрын

@@quizudita hmmm I understand but that's what I m observing these days...mothers have no choice left....society sucks nowadays...

Thank you for keeping different aspects of life. I am grateful 🙏

Superb analysis....top notch....

You are absolutely right sir. Eye opener for current and previous generations.

Sir what you tell is v true and practical..best content

WoW ! What a point !! Nobody tells about these things. So true..Its reality..

Very practical channel in today, s circumstances, Thank you Sir

A very practical concept for Indian parents. 👍

Agreed with everything sir -- just a change recommended for boys - if you are looking for a working wife, please be ready to help in some way with housework

A simple fact of life, look for simplicity rather than material pleasures. And score higher on the happiness index. Quality education is still very rare in India, mind you, even IITians, IIM graduates have only learnt how to be gainfully employed, but that's not helping their marriage life, because of zero experience/ knowledge about how family & marriage as institutions work.

@shoorapriyanshi2106

3 ай бұрын

👏👏well said

Working wife is good until baby comes around. Uske bad mommy brain doesnt want to leave the child behind and psychological consequences of missing mother and childhood neglect are immense. Most of the psychologically sick/ socially unsuccessful kids come from working mom family. Best case is to marry a smart woman who is capable of working. Later as she has kids, let the mom focus on and raise helathy kids till they are teenagers and then if needed/desired she can start her own business that can be passed down. Also girls, you will be lucky if your family lets you keep your work earnings. Sara paisa le leti hai "supportive" in-law family. Even the grocieries, bills will be paid for by your salary. Degree of freedom will depend on family to family, irrespective of your salary. Also, you will 100% feel resentment towards your husband and his family for making you work when you dont want to (esp when baby arrives). Also the ego battles will be full on. Source- I have closely seen and counselled many working women in my life. Intelligent housewifes family is better/healthier than working wife's family.

@SangoLifeSutras

10 ай бұрын

Will do a detailed video on it

You are absolutely right !

Eye opening video Amit Sirji about marrige thinking of Society's trend

Best, Thank you Sir 🙏💐💐💐👌👌

Words of wisdom!

Great analysis Sir ,very true ...all men has failed after watching this video who are married😂😂

Aapki muhim mein aapko bahut bahut shakti pradaan kare the higher power up there 😀 Binge watching since this morning. On to my 5th video!

Bohot achha laga Sir.. thank you

Sir kyaa video bnai hai, kitni jgh to same meri family condition btaa di aapne, kmaal observation hai aapka har topic pr, mai shehmati rkhta hu aapki baato se ladki kmane wali jarur honi chahiye no matter kitna kmaa rhii hai and agr nhi kmaa rhii to ghr ko smbhal ske itni capabilities hone chahiye, sabse khtrnak chiz jo aapne boli ki 1993 ke baad wali ladkiya nhi krngi ghr ka sara kaam sahi se, ekdum satik bool gye aap, maan gya mai aapki sense of humor ko great, keep coming those topics bahit faiyda kra rhee ho aap smaj ka, lots of love and respect from New Delhi 😊

These videos are extremely relevant.... Brings lot of clarity in life and lot of peace of mind too..... I am glad that I earn.... Thanks a lot Mr. Sango 😊

Thank you so much for these life videos.I believe even there are no books written on such topics

Very good video. Thanks a lot.

Your videos are very relevant and helpful really nice 👌👌👌👌

Zabardast analysis 👏👏👏 thanks for sharing 🙏🏼

Thank u ...more such video plz Sir..

You are absolutely right sir 👍👍

I appreciate your endeavour

Great video awesome information❤

v nice information sir 👍 thank you so much

Sir you are right you are the only one

Yes you are the only one close to reality... 👍

Another major problem arising is related to cooking. These days girls are less interested in cooking than before.(might be due to work pressure). And by nature, boys are also less interested in cooking. Not everyone prefer to get food cooked by a cook. If both are working then anyone of bride or groom should know cooking to make life easier.

@vijayaditya2003

Жыл бұрын

Why cant you also cook if wife is working woman?!

@prashantchauhan1440

Жыл бұрын

@@aena5995 there’s nothing wrong in cooking, be it by man or a woman, its just a matter of choice, whoever is good at it should do it.

@sbasu5537

Жыл бұрын

Those who eat, must know to make the food.

@prashantchauhan1440

Жыл бұрын

@@cauliflowerhead2735 yes, its a good to have skill, makes a person independent. But a person who is not interested in cooking cant become a good cook.

@rumpa400

Жыл бұрын

Man too can cook

A deep liking for all ur topics sirji 😊

Very practical thoughts😀

Very practical advice 👌

Cheers Sir i like ur thoughts Aj❤

Thank you Sir for guidance

Thanks ji, very interesting video

Completely agree. Very practical thoughts

Great advice sir ji 🙏

Practical and logical 👌

Very clear definition sir

Thank u sir for the guidance.....

Kamal kardiya sir ji, very much true 👍

100% concrete facts.👍

Amit sir don't be discouraged by negetive comments you are doing good 👍 job

500% agree with your thoughts, aisa channel nahi hai dusra.

Kmaaall ki practicality h sir aapki sari videos mein 👍👍

Very practical 👍

It got me when he said "27 pe toh mera hk hai . 12 tu rakh lena". Just epic.

Hats off u sir👍🏻🙏🏻

Your videos are so thoughtful

👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏 great words it's really right 👍 keep it up sir true words bless you Bhai ji 🙏🙏💐

Very well said sir

🙏🙏🙏... Thank you Sir. Sharing this to my parent. 😉😉

Great knowledge